I don't get it

DesperateChemical · 2018-05-31T06:36:14+00:00

A B U N D A N C E M E N T A L I T Y

The short answer is it doesn't matter. Maybe she doesn't have service, maybe she is getting fucked by Chad, maybe she is dead. You shouldn't worry about her, nor about anything you don't control. I'm positive you are messaging her too much. Texts (WhatsApp, KakaoTalk, whatever you use) are for logistics. Don't validate her with electronic messages, you should be too busy anyway.

And split the bill of drinks. (I usually go by rounds in a group, or tit for tat drinks when out in a pair. Don't be beta bucks.)

Basically you are not doing anything right and so your problems are a lot deeper than some dumb tinder thot who didn't rush to message you. You are worth more than this my guy, be better.

Auvergnat · 2018-05-31T07:21:27+00:00

Maybe you did nothing wrong. Girls are pretty inconsistent. Yesterday she felt like fucking you. Today she doesn't. Maybe she just got on her period and not feeling like it. Maybe her ex contacted her again. Maybe she got buyer's remorse. Maybe when she's much hornier when she's drunk a few.

Whatever it is, if she's distant, become distant. Apply golden ratio in communication.

infamous3238 · 2018-05-31T10:55:53+00:00

She didn’t have as much fun as you did on the date.

She had another date with a different tinder guy she liked more in that 2-3 week window, and is now fucking him.

Get over it and find a new girl.

Throwaway-242424 · 2018-05-31T06:37:03+00:00

Why did you text for 2-3 weeks? What happened on the date? Did you try to escalate from making out?

MattyAnon · 2018-05-31T10:05:45+00:00

get moar girls

omega_archetype · 2018-05-31T13:38:00+00:00

Two days later (today) I text her and she doesn't reply. She always replied within a minute every other time I've messaged her.

The most logical explanation is that she's been texting with a hell lot of guys apart from you. For some reason only known to herself, she picked you out of the crowd. Now, she's not texting you back. Possibly she met someone better (according to her criteria).

My question is: Why do you care? Instead of thinking, "Why isn't she answering to my texts?", you should tell yourself, "I'm free now. Let's go find new girls".

RedPilledRoaster · 2018-05-31T15:42:31+00:00

You fucked up. We don’t know why. If you read the sidebar again then you will know why and can improve your game going forward.

Wrath_of_Trump · 2018-05-31T16:57:50+00:00

But you didn't close the deal. Move on. If she wants you, she will let you know.

cl3537 · 2018-05-31T19:06:03+00:00

You didn't show sexual intent and didn't escalate enough. She is a tinderella she wants to get fucked what took you so long to do something about it?

BurnieSlander · 2018-06-01T01:56:41+00:00

You failed to escalate. Gotta try to fuck, otherwise they don’t feel wanted

Title	I don't get it
Author	getrealmate_
Upvotes	9
Comments	22
Date	May 31, 2018 6:30 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8ng7ag/i_dont_get_it/
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