Several years ago i was in a really depressing state where most of my emotions were based on fear. Before that i was pretty confident in my looks etc but since then i noticed girls wouldnt even look at me, some women out of my social circle would even ask "why the sad/angry face".

Now, i would consider myself pretty good looking so this was grinding my gears. In the past weeks i noticed something interesting. Everytime when i was out in the streets for lunch, as soon as i got one of my buddys on the phone the amount of girls looking at me/ smiling at me was skyrocketing.

Now my question: Why the hell is that. I had good talks, so i guess i was emitting a positive energy, thus attracting attention from the boobs. Is there a way to stay in that mode/ consciously altering my facial expressions? Is there a trick?