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Lol this is funny, idk where I was 5 y ago but I moved to a foreign country, had several plates and sex and currently settled down with a chick and I’m a dad to a precious 3 month old baby.
/r/seduction24/03/22 10:34 PM
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Thanks for the answer, will just text her when I'm home what people suggested and block. Even though the content in the article seems to defend the other position (girl ends with you), the concept prevails, no extra drama or emotional roller coaster.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 01:55 PM
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A part of me still, rather than a “this is just not working out”, would like to point that “I know you been messing around” a little bit and to let her know clearly that was the reason, bitch might think I’m stupid and could fool me. But then again while writing this, better to keep it simple and let her Hamster spin
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:51 AM
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This might be a good idea, thanks. Was wonderingly if there was any post on main forums to cover this
/r/askTRP12/03/20 08:56 AM
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She was a LTR, honestly downgrading to plate as specified in the post can’t be arsed/is nothing I want to do. I want to cut the relationship and just asking which is the advice around here for me to be safe and ensure my wellbeing.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 08:55 AM
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I am from Spain, can confirm what she says is true and even worse
/r/MensRights20/10/19 07:06 PM
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I can agree on this, been on peds and didn’t mean shit, but also to take into consideration: bald shaved head, 5’10”, never approached
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 07:53 PM
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I looked much better than you, not trying to attach you, but also I was on PEDs. It didn’t help me shit, at least to me, I didn’t swim in pussy, not even in dating apps where I showed my bald shaved head. But also I’m bald and I don’t approach.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 07:45 PM
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While I think this is one factor, sadly people for as for example my dad supports this law as well (trust me, my dad doesn’t really want to get laid anymore). The main reasons are the economic ones (political parties gets lot of money to fight against this topic) and a mass campaign of victimization and a strong push of identity politics. Some of the narratives pushed: Wage gap, already has been proven to be fake, taking gender as an unique variable for such analysis is dumb. There are more wome…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 07:01 AM
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Don’t really understand what you mean by bastard, the law itself it’s not constitutional as it goes against our article number 14 that says that no individual should be treated different regarding their age, gender,religion,etc... Your presumption of innocence, innocent until proven guilty, is completely abolished by this wave of feminism. If a call would be made from a woman accusing his husband of beating her, even if no physical evidence was present the man will go at least one night in jail,…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 11:47 AM
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I’m currently living there, not following politics tho. Mind elaborating?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 07:32 AM
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In Spain we have two surnames, the standard procedure is that the first surname of each parent isn passed to the son, being the first one always from the dad. As example Mother1 MotherSurname1 MotherSurname2 and Father1 FatherSurname1 FatherSurname2 have a kid it will be Kid1 FatherSurname1 MotherSurname1
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 04:07 AM
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I’m from Spain, lots of things missing: To begin with, we have the “Ley de violencia de género”,LVIG from now on, that specifics that any kind of aggression from a men to a women, is considered as a masochist act of violence against women, simply because they are women and men are trying impose their superiority: A few weeks ago a man hit back her couple, she hit first, and got charged with domestic violence under the LVIG, her agression was dealt under our civil judges(no big deal), his under t…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 04:43 PM
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In fact, we believe that looks are so important that the number one thing we recommend, above all else is to lift. I am not defending any side, but here it might be where you differ. While both sides agree that looks are important, incel definition of looks are more facially related or height, which both are hardly treatable without surgeries. For instance , an individual who meets any of the “requirements” pointed in the last paragraph, and lifts as you advised, is a gymcel. I can somehow under…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 10:27 AM
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I’d say you read PON, jk... Completely off topic but, how you doing?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:30 PM
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Where are you from if we may know?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 10:15 PM
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I'd say its more about looks, girls will fuck anything that tingles them even if its a social potato/loser whatsoever.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 06:27 PM
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This, if a girl is really attracted to you she’ll make things easy, not play stupid games.
/r/seduction19/01/19 08:03 AM
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As another Spaniard I can agree, it has gotten worse and very quickly, kind of scary
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 04:23 PM
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Please speak for yourself, shit looks even worse in some aspects in Spain
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 04:22 PM
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Because of scarcity, you think she is special and you are afraid of “losing her”. Sex, attraction and getting validated by the opposite sex feels good. She is the first one in 20 years, will you have to wait 20 more years to have another one? Those thought patterns I described are stupid and being needy towards her might kill the attraction. If I were you I would head to “redder” subs to learn and read.
/r/seduction07/01/19 02:59 PM
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Me too man, and it will not last too long, eventually desire will die.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 08:47 PM
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How am I trolling? Looks like my comment just hurts your feelings, I can try to be more precise. Attractive people attract people. Attracted people usually want to bond with the attractive person, men usually with friendship or women by intimacy. You could be attractive and not go so often, even if so you’d still get some hints of attraction during your daily activities such as work, commutes... But even you mentioned you are socially active and use dating apps. If you want to tell us that you a…
/r/seduction01/01/19 08:53 PM
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Attractive people has no problem getting dates (hint: you are not attractive)
/r/seduction01/01/19 08:45 PM
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If she wanted to fuck you she would have done it, she has better options (current bf or others plates of her).
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 06:12 PM
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Cancer by /u/Whisper
/r/askTRP10/11/18 08:25 AM
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Read PON mate haha
/r/askTRP28/10/18 08:57 PM
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“I should have posted this on asktrp”
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 04:04 PM
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That “Red Pill” has barely nothing to do withou our Red Pill and it’s more like just MRA. It just shows how miss informed and idiot the creator was and rather just interested to hit a controversial topic
/r/TheRedPill06/10/18 08:03 AM
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May I know what’s your app based on?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 09:38 AM
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the less rp aware people there is the better
/r/askTRP29/09/18 01:05 PM
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But it also depends a lot on your starting point and a lot of factors not mentioned in your podt
/r/askTRP28/09/18 01:02 PM
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Alpha by definition is the most desirable for the opposite sex. It doesn’t get outshone, it does the shining. Where did you get that definition from?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 09:27 PM
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Fuck you you re not special, stick around and read
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 04:29 PM
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The last question should be more emphasized in the first post, sometines it reads like the goals of all your list its just to get women.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 06:11 AM
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Lmao knew it was going to be this before clicking
/r/askTRP02/09/18 10:22 AM
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Regarding women? Zero improvement but glad I will not turn into a BB at least.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 01:41 PM
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PCT is such a complex topic. Overall we lack of studies to cover this topic on recovery, I came off of years of b&c cold turkey because I did my research and had the chance to talk to some pros about their experiences. It is normal you lose a little aggression abd and mass coming off, get bloods anyways.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 05:45 AM
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87 kg at 5% is unattainable as a natural, and I cant imagine keeping those numbers all the year. OP your message is right but you might be setting unreachable goals to some newbs around here.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 08:52 PM
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Yeah it seems that to be bald you have to have another genetic trait not naturally attainable (such as gym for example) in order to be attractive such as tallness or eye color, otherwise it's over.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 05:49 PM
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Wearing a cap? One of my bald friends does that, too. It's obvious he's insecure about it enough to cover it up. Women can smell it a mile away. Don't wear a cap if you're doing so to hide your baldness. That's not the point I wanted to make, I just sometimes wear a cap because I feel like wearing them. The treatment and looks I get from females is completely different(much better). I wouldn't be so sure about that last part. I moved to Thailand 8 months ago and have spent 90% of my time alone i…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 05:49 PM
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I'm bald, rarely work out, 5'8, sometimes shave my head, sometimes look like a twat. I'm 5'10" and balding, other than my gym physque I have nothing else to compensate for balding. I can't attract any women, and I can see the difference of how they treat me and even look at me when wearing a cap. I am talking from my experience which is making me bend to a more incel/black pill side, based on the my very personal experiences. Plenty of pussy to keep me busy. How many plates do you need? I never …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 08:18 PM
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Been lifting before TRP, gym for years and on steroids for a few years, now came off but I still look top tier regarding gym physique, doesn't compensate for balding.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 08:02 PM
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the balding part right hit me right in the feels fuk
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 08:21 PM
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So you are starting to panic about that your one might be leaving you, asked around and someone pointed you here. Now, you expect people who comes in this forums to spoon feed you? Read the fucking sidebar and the mainsub for just one week and you will have your answer.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:27 PM
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This is pretty much it, either you are physically attractive or have high status or you are not only invisible to women but everyone.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 07:24 PM
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The thing is that looks matter more than ever when you are in your youth. Now I don't mean extreme model looks, you just need to be relatively tall and not deformed. Be extremely short/bald/or a "bad seen" ethnicity and you are completely out of the game. Whats the problem here? What we call youth now is longer than before, people still carries the tag young from their 18 to their 30's now. Women, not only have higher standards, but hold them for longer time. Now tell this to a guy who's been ar…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 08:31 PM
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So really, you just disagree with the Top 20% points. Not really, the 20% exists, some men just will never get there, no matter how many effort their put. You use the "Unless you are deformed" example, but I think that sadly it's more common among men than just being deformed. While there is some truth to this, it is no reason for the 5'7" dude to not improve himself. I agree, as I stated the invidivual one will be a better version of himself if he does all of what you mentioned, but at some poi…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 08:22 PM
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People wants to be around attractive/amazing people, if people doesn't put interest into you, means you don't have any of those in that social circle. Improve, or move to a lower status social circle.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 07:51 PM
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You are completely missing the point, here they used the bath example, but in other places you can find the design of the modern underwear making your ballsack too warm.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 07:50 PM
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Interesting post, but I disagree in some points. This sub is officially outlined as a discussion of sexual strategy. Fortunately for us, it has evolved into much more and has become a pretty solid one-stop shop of how to truly get your proverbial shit together as a man. We have EC’s providing valuable insights into all sorts of areas like Finances, Fitness & Nutrition, Legal advice, Online Dating, Fashion, Personal Hygiene, Self Defense, how to not only survive but excel in the corporate world, …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 07:48 PM
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You are not attractive (in case you didn't know), you are invisible to women and annoying if you start to hit on them.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 05:37 PM
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You always escalate, her job to reject you
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:56 PM
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If you read all what you said your only path to improve is go out and apply it
/r/askTRP21/07/18 03:00 PM
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Second this, you are already in the beta box. Possible to get out? Maybe, but not worth the effort. Game other girls, raise SMV and if she ever happens to re contact you try again.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 02:50 PM
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To begin with this thread doesn't belong even here, for personal advice go to asktrp. Move on, you don't even care about her because you have been improving yourself doing some physical activity, getting your studies and reading around here, right?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 07:14 PM
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You are experiencing a part of the pill basically hypergammy.If you are not attractive you are unnexisting to women, and annoying (or a creep) if you try to interact with them and be sexual. I'd recommend you to start some kind of physical activity, not specifically gym lifting if you don't like it, such as swimming, a martial art, cycling, whatever. Also maybe I understood wrong but you cut your own hair? I'd go get it done by some professional. Good news is that different women find different …
/r/askTRP17/07/18 09:10 PM
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So of all the points I tried to raise you just got the gym weight and my spelling. You are a lost case lol
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 10:06 PM
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Why is every answer trying to be soft on OP? Like this sub has become softer. I am not saying we have to bash each other with no reason, but looking at OP posts it’s clear that he hasn’t done any work, not only reading this sub, but approaching women or working on his game as he mentions ”he catches girls staring at him” but apparently does nothing. Yes OP might have bdd but the other way around, he has nothing to make him above average. Average face I guess, average height, below average body (…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 10:04 PM
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Doesn’t change my point, will try to make it very easy taking the consideration that you haven’t read the sidebar and have been on this sub for three days. Attractive people fuck. You don’t fuck, you are not attractive to the women around your circle/geography/whatever. Sorry if it will make you cry but you are not a top tier attractive male whose god has cursed him not to get laid, put in some work.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 09:56 PM
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I dont know why you mention it’s barely noticeable, not only to us, but to women when trying to find out why you are attractive. Can’t fuckkng sleep so I made the mistake to look through your first page from your post history to see you post into a Hentai sub. I’ll just do you a favor and report the thread, hopefully it gets deleted ASAP. Also read the fuckkng sidebar you fuckkng lazy cunt
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 09:53 PM
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You don’t look like you lift looking at your arms and delts just based on that picture. Lol at believing shit when girls telling you you are attractive, look their actions and don’t listen to their words. If a girl wants to fuck You, she will find the way. Sorry to break it down but, at least on the circles you move, you are not attractive.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 09:45 PM
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Went exactly through a similar situation. You never agreed to be in a relationship with her, she’s free as you to hang with other people. Don’t shit where you eat. By being cold you are showing you care, scarcity. Oneitis.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:16 PM
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Read how to not become emotionally invested by /u/Woujo
/r/askTRP15/07/18 10:05 AM
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Some of those still make me feel uncomfortable
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 09:12 PM
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Not sure if serious. A wig is like a cap, eventually you’ll have to take it off and all the attraction will die instantly. Like if if a midget had to wear heels lol. Hair transplant doesn’t always work, it leaves a big scar and forces you to stay on meds that can mess up with your dick.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 03:56 PM
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Kind of feeling the same, leaning towards the ideas that those genetic traits that can’t be achieved, for that very same reason, are more valuable in the SMV. Leaning towards a black pill attitude, based on my own experiences: Been going out with two guys lately, one has a model face, pretty good looking tbh (no homo) but is like 5’6”. Last night we weren’t even 5 minutes into the club and a girl approached him telling her friend liked him etc... The other guy is taller, 6’2” maybe and his face …
/r/askTRP09/07/18 01:15 PM
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Yes, you have to escalate, otherwise either you are gay or some deep issues that stop you from doing so, women smell that
/r/askTRP08/07/18 01:58 PM
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Time, diet, discipline, will to push your limits
/r/askTRP08/07/18 01:57 PM
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Nobody should answer to your thread, just that also belongs to asktrp. It proves that you haven’t bothered to read the sub for longer than two weeks or let it just be the sidebar. Fuck off
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 08:05 PM
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And when are you doing some kind of physical activity?
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:41 PM
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0%
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:33 PM
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The moment you accept that you are not having sex you are into her frame, don’t even answer when a girl says that, keep escalating. If she says so it because she is thinking or has thought about fuckkng you. Read about ASD and plausible deniability.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 06:16 PM
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A lot of things to be noted here before “lifting saved muh life”. OP is 6’2 and seems to be facially average or above, hairline is ok, he could probably gotten the same results without adding that many mass, regardless congratulations on the hard work. To the extreme short, bald or with some other fucked up facial feature, as much as I still recommend you to lift, do not mentally masturbate a lot about this story, you will not get the same results (if any). Do you think this guy is attractive? h…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 09:23 PM
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Lol I do not agree fully. I agree on the part of that you need both to a certain extent, but looks are much more important than confidence, go out being a 8/10 and you’ll end up being confident, looks can help build confidence, doesn’t work the other way around. Tell a 2/10 male to go out and act confident, he’ll be called harasser in a few approaches and the cops on him.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 09:15 PM
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Why did you compre yourself to Jasón Statham, you bald by any chance?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 09:34 PM
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If the message of your post is to encourage and go lift ok. If the message is that having a fit body matters more than a pretty face it is too much of a generalization, hence wrong.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 10:25 AM
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I cannot agree more with that. I think I have said it a lot around the forums a well. Like I could have read x100 threads about female 'brutal' nature when they find a new branch, wasn't until I lived it that it actually really hurt and learnt. Women like to be treated like shit? The girl who chased me the most I used to flake on her, ignore her all day long. She would buy me alcohol, cigarettes, cook for me, and do all kind of shit. Couldn't read more about shit test until got some of them and …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 08:24 PM
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You are not 100% right, sadly. Could try to discuss in more of a general concept, but will go to some specific points quoting you word by word and if you want to keep discussing then will try to defend those points. I'm convinced that testosterone increases your ability to accept and enjoy risk. the reason you don't, is because you have too little of it. I can assure you I have x5 or more the levels of Testostrone than the avg male. Lift until that walk back to your car makes you dread. Been die…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 08:18 PM
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Issue is some of us can't build abundance. Being TRP aware helps me not going after her like a dog whenever I have the luck (please don't come up with you are the prize mentality) to get some female to pay attention to me. To some, even following TRP religiously will still lead poor, or almost non existent results.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 07:16 PM
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Going back to the topic from your post, that thread you linked is crucial to be read and internalized. I read so many times and even wrote it word by word in a notebook, because becoming to invested puts you directly in a position of powerlessness. Matter of time the girl finds out by neediness, attachment or any other and attraction dies. EDIT: also to add a line it is three “-“ not four, recommend to google “reddit formatting “.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 01:17 PM
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It’s from /u/Woujo I think. You need to link other subs using archive.is website
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 12:23 PM
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Define swallowing the pill, if you mean reading a few threads I’ll just let you know that it’s not even 10%
/r/askTRP18/06/18 08:36 PM
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Do you even sidebar?
/r/askTRP17/06/18 09:53 PM
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It feels like you haven’t learnt anything in this two months. Going to try to give you an answer. The fact that is your first makes me thing you are too invested or afraid to “lose her” or “messing up”. How many other girls are you talking to/have as options? As other people said, and is mentioned around TRP, if a girl is into you she’ll make it easy, unbelievable easy. You’ll realize then how much of a slut a woman can be (for the right man). I can see two scenarios basic , both from the point …
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:09 PM
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Mmm okay I guess I can take your first point regarding style, but in order to go from a 3 to a 9 for a man there must be a strong baseline. OP basically was a lazy 9 who didn’t put any effort. Regarding your second paragraph, I can’t agree with everything. The features I described ‘bald/asymmetrical/...” would not make the same ending for this history. Yes, your SMV is relative to many variables: age, ethnicity, even of how horny she is.But saying that a 3/10 can score a 8/10 is like saying to a…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 04:09 PM
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You crawl yourself into the corner of your room and start masturbating while crying at what a beautiful love story it could have been. Posting this question shows that you haven’t even read the main sub for a week, you should get fuckkng banned
/r/askTRP15/06/18 12:25 PM
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Shit post is getting out of hand again, I suggest another few weeks of just EC posting?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:16 AM
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Okay you don't want to listen, you got her on a pedestal already. She's going to be throwing as much shit as possible in my way to make sure I'm worth her time. You are breaking one of the important TRP principles that you're the prize. Not going to bother to reply back, enjoy the hamstering.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 10:03 AM
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Yes, do it. Not being the perfect 10/10 in body,frame,game (and you'll never be) is not an excuse not to start approaching. Start getting used to rejection, because even when you have been going to the gym for 2 years, have mastered your frame and game it will still happen from time to time.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:55 AM
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I don't think it's a shit test, to be honest it looks she's not interested and already got you to double message her. You put her on the pedestal and she probably has noticed it. In order for you to meet, you both have to be interested. If she is interested she will get back to you. I legit cannot see how a it's a shit test.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:51 AM
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I'd call that dodging a bullet. Remember your worth. If she's making out with another guy five minutes after coming on to you, she's probably not high enough quality to be thinking twice about. Yes and no as well. When you don't get a lot of chances, yes I know I don't approach, it kind of stings. Why would I care what she was doing five minutes later? If I ever got to fuck her I probably wouldn't have seen her again. The fact that she was with somebody else five minutes later just reinforces my…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:22 AM
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Yup AWALT, it is kind of shocking the first time you experience it. Like no amount of reading will compare to truly living it. That cute girl that you fantasized about was nothing but a cumming hole for a few other men, among you. That sweet tender look that made you feel you were in love and invest in a LTR was nothing but a mask. For some reason you gave her tingles, good sex, status, money, or a plain provider (I don't know) and it doesn't matter. You cannot change them, accept it. Wouldn't y…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 08:57 AM
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Your life is not in order, forget about girls. Two very different topics here: Attracting girls " Still I can't attract even a HB7". Feeling lonely " it's very difficult to deal with this empty feeling and loneliness". If you expect to be fulfilled from girls company I have some bad news, read the fucking sidebar you lazy fuck. If you want to not feel so lonely surround yourself with men that can add value to your life. I don't know your circumstances, and you will probably try to play the victi…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 08:46 AM
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Yeah two weeks, mods can you remove this shit? The fuck is to learn here
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 07:20 AM
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It irritates me that so many newcomers to this subreddit want to argue. This is the point of this sub, isn't it? We mainly share ideas in the main sub and discuss them, in asktrp it's mostly answering questions regarding the theory presented on the sidebar. Do not take as I'm trying to discredit you or attack. I appreciate your answer and time sharing your knowledge. I rather debate and discuss to obtain clear conclusions of OP's issue, that somehow is related to mine. you should try improving y…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:08 AM
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Ah I do not know. Tommy had another "genetic attribute", height., as well as the creator of this post. I do not believe anymore in "confidence gets you laid", unless the looks come with it.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 06:24 AM
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Exactly, it's all about looks. You should check the face and lms channel on YouTube, it has plenty of information that will confirm what you say. I don't think it's a good thing for me to check it, probably will get even more black pill/incel depressed lol.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 06:21 AM
1

I can relate to the self-pitty/negative part. It is like a part of me that, maybe enjoy is not the correct word, but is comfortable. I've been putting myself down for a long time. I've had people compliment me on my physique, I don't care as it can always be better and bash myself. I'd say that when I'd get my bachelor's I'd finally have a reason to be proud, same with my masters. As long as I had it it stopped mattering and kept aiming higher while bashing myself because colleagues of my uni we…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 06:20 AM
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This is not true at all man: That being said, stop worrying about it and focus on you and you'll be surprised how often you'll see the hair twirling, lip biting, and prolonged eye contact of a girl giving you the green light. This is pretty much what OP has said he has been doing, focusing on his career this last years, see the results?
/r/askTRP15/06/18 06:09 AM
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Same place as you. I do not approach women, there is a fear I can't get over. Also I haven't mentally matured at all, lack of experiences in life I guess. I go to the gym as well, got a good physique and my shit together professionally speaking with a Master degree in a STEM field and a good job. I got some action from time to time: girls from class, friends from friends... And sometimes I got approached by women but I fuck it up because again, lack of experience. But obviously not as much as I'…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 06:07 AM
3

If she's a 7/10 she can create a tinder profile and get fucked x5 a day during a month or more. You were beta bux in the previous relationship? Because having kids already (idk age) it's most likely what she is looking for as the wall is coming. Something sketchy here, refuse. Edit: Also lol considering she's a slut for only having a partner count of 40.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 08:55 PM
1

That's what I have been advocating lately on the lifting threads. Yes lifting is good for your health, but it is also linked to bringing more success with women. To some of us it won't. Repeating the second too often it can lead to anger as the promised result ain't coming. I am not saying don't lift, just don't expect it to be a miracle (that is often sold as that around here). Yes a 4'11" manlet balding deformed but shredded man will always be better than a 4'11" manlet balding deformed fat ma…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:46 PM
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I don't know, I feel like the experiences with high class prostitutes will not be as real as a woman real desire of being attracted to you. I have never tried any prostitute yet, but I have experienced the second and it feels great. I fucking kind of refuse to pay for sex. I am a male, I take care of my body (and I look fucking good), have put some effort on my career to have a great salary but my face is not attractive. If it's just about saving money for cumming might as well just fap.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:43 PM
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Dont play with delts as it is crucial to any upper body workout, go to the doctor.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 01:38 PM
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That's what I thought as well at the beginning. He was probably just average at the start, and he also mentioned he's tall. Put a little effort, like going to the gym and a haircut, and it's easy then. Some people: short, bald, big unsymmetrical faces will never make it to the point of smashing even 5's. How can you tell a guy who has been going to the gym, takes care of himself, dresses good that all he deserves is a 5 fat bitch who has never step into the gym or bothered taking care of her sel…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 01:07 PM
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Interesting points, basically grind everyday. Any action taken today, towards any goal, will be grateful for the tomorrow. If I was told how many hours (actually years) I'd have to be at the gym to achieve the physique I have today the first time I put my feet into one, I don't think I'd have ever started.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 12:55 PM
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I don't think you need to be Chad to come to this realization. Yes, the "Chaddest" , the better tough. I will not deny, it is frustrating. When your BP side takes over and you'd love to commit to that cute fit girl with amazing body an cute face your TRP side has to kick in and remind you it's not possible. Since childhood, women are taught that they can get away with anything without consequences. The "sexual revolution" that made sex so cheap regarding risks(to 20% of the men of course) applie…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 12:51 PM
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He's spinning too hard, not sure if it's worth helping. Like she cannot have her own lube in case she wanted to fuck anyone else, lol.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 11:26 AM
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That's me. Like I have a juiced physique and an over the top body, but in my mind I can't even approach woman lol. Even I fuck up when I have been approached by them.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 01:45 PM
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This, also go out with them if they go party, if other women see you with them preselection might be on your favor.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:30 AM
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In order to not give up, call it: gym, learning game, approaching women, learning any skill one must see progress. Given that the society has raised men to be pussies and continuously punish any kind of male behavior, men are now nothing but self-pity and low self-esteem walking beings. Those last two will blind any kind of progress, even if made, from your own view most of the time and end up being corpses
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 08:14 AM
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Strong this, OP wants to use as a technique to get a woman back seems like. Sometimes she might try to come back, and the power will be on you to decide. But always, when going no contact accept the option that she might not ever come back.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 07:44 AM
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Okay man, this could go on for ages. Put it simple, to you the gym has been a life-changer, to me not. Maybe it was the piece missing for you. I juts thought, there is a new post today also, that the "just lift" posts were getting out of hand. Keep hitting the gym.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 06:07 AM
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Go to asKtrp you fucking cunt
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 10:03 PM
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This is not my issue, I don't even approach when drunk. I made a thread a few weeks ago titled something like 'How to lose fear of women before becoming a non-functional alcoholic', I will link at the end of this post. That is a big difference the one I mentioned at the beginning. If you can approach drunk I don't see how does it change when being sober, or maybe not drunk but a little 'tipsy'. The post, I just realized I was drunk when I wrote it, maybe you can get something out of it: http://a…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:09 PM
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There are a lot other factors that have to be taken into account in physical attraction than just having a gym physique, maybe that's the only one you were missing. I just think the fact 'lifting will solve your problems/just lift' is often too repeated around here and can lead to misunderstandings and future deceptions. Yes a 4'11" balding deformed man with a micro penis will always look better if shredded with veins popping out, but it will most likely not solve any of his problems. If you'd t…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 09:03 PM
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One of the issues I think I have that this fear of being sexual, and consequently rejected, has become natural to me. Like I thought I was doing fine with this girl but apparently not. I was drunk as well, but as well as I might have messed up because of that, I'd never would have had the courage to do it sober.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 08:39 PM
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I feel you. Last weekend Had a girl grab me by the arm when I was going out in a party for a cigarette, she approached me and isolated me. All was on me, the only thing she could have done is rip my clothes off. Applied some kino, almost rubbing her pussy and talking really close but I guess I was too slow or not straight enough.Next thing is she needs to go inside to find her friend, see her 5 minutes later making out with a guy and then taking a Taxi together. The struggle of being a social au…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 08:14 PM
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Yes, type on your browser archive.is/ and then the link of TRP from reddit directly, you will get redirected to a new site with an archive.is link you can share, otherwise just PM me the link. I do not believe trp is 95% lifting, in some specific cases it can be if the physique or a little confidence is missing, but I believe that is a small % of the users. What do you base on yourself to say do?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 07:56 PM
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I think you missed my point. I’ve been lifting for years and I can’t remember the last day that I haven’t been at least less than 4 days in a week in the gym. I remember reading about that rule in some thread, mind providing the link? And for your last paragraph I’m a bit confused again. Seems like you are saying trp is only going to the gym, I wish.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 05:55 PM
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I'm 99% sure /u/VasiliyZaitzev has some posts about this.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 01:55 PM
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This can come into a much deeper topic. If focusing purely on sexual strategy, some men, no matter how much they lift, learn game and the long list of TRP recommends will not make it to the 20%. Yes, the 20% is static and doesn't have to remain static for all the males a woman has sexual access on her life, but some sadly will not make it, maybe not even the 40%. Lifting is indeed a good ice-breaker to draw female's attention with your muscular body, some might just fuck you for the sake of it, …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 01:46 PM
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The lift threads are getting out of control lately. Yes lifting, or pretty much doing some kind of sport will benefit you in many ways: health, possible increased attraction, better sleep, the release of serotonin and dopamine, bla bla... But you are making like it is a life changer, when it's not. Definitely a part of it but it needs to go hand in hand with frame/game, reading and cultivating yourself as a men worth hanging around (for men and women) between other topics.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 01:29 PM
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Really good point and enjoyed reading, together with all the content linked to some of the points, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 07:46 AM
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You sound like a bitch, honestly. You came here to get some self-pitty and feel like a victim. First of all you seem to be at a low point because your last plate broke off, so basically you are afraid of scarcity. I'm just suffering from some mild aspies(diagnosed) and general anxiety and it's fucking killing my game. This should not be an issue, if you managed to plate some girls you can plate more. it's a lot harder to talk to other girls when you're not in school. It's hard for everyone and e…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 10:46 AM
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Pretty much this. They don't, sorry but you are asking a cat to bark. Women are selfish, regarding their choices and mating, because they have been always allowed to be, since kids to do almost whatever they want without getting punished. Maybe this can refresh your memory: http://archive.is/U6U6F It's even worse if they are attractive. Understand life as a game were women and men play, but not compete to each other. Given the current "world" we live in Women are set to win: They start with 100 …
/r/askTRP11/06/18 10:35 AM
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I kind of found myself in a similar position regarding this point you made: Yes, I hate their nature. They are fucked up with 0 sense of fairness/logic. But I came to the point that it is a waste of time for me to hate. Why hating? Are you going to change them? Accept them for what they are. As much as in my BP days, and I still have some days, I wish to get that women hooked to me and be loyal. I realize that it is the very same hypergamy that made her fuck me. It is also the same hypergamy tha…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 09:56 AM
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Rules in the sexual marketplace do not apply equally for men and women. If we ever managed to find an objective way to rate women you'd see how 'ugly' women still get much more attention than 'ugly' guys.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 09:46 AM
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Why do you think he’s working 14-15h a day and is stressed? Fun?
/r/askTRP08/06/18 01:37 PM
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If I were you I’d go rpwomen. Otherwise just marry him, have a kid so you can keep part of his wealth when he finds out you are cheating on him and wants to divorce.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 01:29 PM
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I’d be more worried about the exam I missed than a random stoner slut then
/r/askTRP08/06/18 01:17 PM
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Text is kind of cringy but who cares man. Maybe she isn’t attracted. Maybe she is working. Maybe... If you worry about this shut it means your life is not interesting enough (you don’t have hobbies to keep yourself busy) or you are not taking to enough women. If she is interested she’ll respond.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 01:07 PM
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All i can say is start approaching. What makes her so special that she can't talk to you? What has she achieved that is so daunting? I don't know man, the idea of me approaching a women is just bizarre in my head. My self-esteem and self-worth is low and I don't know how to change that. Yes I already lift. Actually I never saw anyone approaching during the day until yesterday. Some guy went to a girl in the bus stop, asked her for some directions, introduced himself handshaking and tried to get …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 11:43 AM
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There was a post a few days ago about this already. There was a post on the main sub named 'Cancer' by /u/Whisper , basically do whatever the fuck you want as long as it doesn't fuck with your life. Are you educated of the use of the substance you are using? Are you still functional on your day to day while consuming it (perform at job, lift, follow a diet, focus)? Then if it makes you feel better fucking take it.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:15 AM
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Been here 10 months, leaving soon anyways. Lived in a small city 100k people considered one of the most boring in the south(thats what a lot of people said). Some facts: Girls here loved guys who talked English, like my British friend could open to any girl and pretty hot and they would be receptive. People all over Europe: Italians, Romanians, "Turkish", Spanish... Pretty cucked country: Single people pay 40% taxes of their gross income that go to Refugees and stupid shit mostly. Refugees are a…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:02 AM
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I can be in that group of people actually. I do not approach any women directly, lucky am I to get some action from time to time. I use TRP and the gym as excuses to myself. Yeah I come here, I know some of the theory so I can give some input around asktrp to guys who are more lost than me or read a post by an EC and think he's so fucking right. I go to the gym religiously because: hey, I do not have the guts to talk to women but at least I am doing something that TRP says and will benefit me wh…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 10:55 AM
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Ah you won't listen man, you aren't even reading to the other replies in this thread. I have some time in work so I will waste it on you, you're on fucking denial: The fact of the matter though, she drank that night, therefore I should have been cognizant of that and never said to leave. That shouldn't have even been an option on the table, but I put it out there. From this very same thread, /u/BlueWhiteImposter: You are not responsible for her actions. You didn't put her in danger, she chose to…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 10:27 AM
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Apologizing should only be done if you are wrong, you were not wrong: A fucking dumb slut, well your LTR, comes to your house and starts annoying the fuck out of you while trying to sleep because she can't control herself drinking after you fucked her. You probably had stuff to do the next day, rather than oversleeping because of her being a cunt. Tou set your boundaries: You "shit test her", by telling her to shut the fuck up or leave, she takes the test, then you go running like a fucking dog.…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 10:06 AM
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I apologised because I was in the wrong to tell her to gtfo without first thinking about it, I feel like such an idiot. Never, ever apologize to a women. You are not willing to walk away if you apologize, lol. she said "fine, you clearly don't want to be with me anymore", and I called her. You go after her like a fucking dog, expect bigger shit tests and her to repeat this behavior as apparently it's getting the results she wants. "I care about you so I'm not gonna let you go unless you're OK, i…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 09:54 AM
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My life consists of: working from 08:00 to 16:00 commute to house 17:00, take the bus to the gym at 17:45 train from 18:20 to 21 (1h weight lifting, 20 min cardio, 20 min tanning bed, 20 min sauna and shower) or MMA from 18:30 to 20:00. Sleep, prep some meals and repeat. Weekends are kind of hard, socialize from time to time but I am mostly alone too, I usually read, go to the lake swim/tan, do house stuff (laundry, cleaning, meal prep). Joining MMA recently has been good to meet some men and I …
/r/askTRP08/06/18 08:16 AM
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What everyone said, you can go out on weekends. And completely off topic regarding this comment beard and the tattoos maybe Are you bald too by any chance? A lot of times I come off as intimidating (not in a good way) bald, with the muscles, tattoos and beard, wondering if you too
/r/askTRP08/06/18 07:31 AM
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Quoting /u/vandaleen: Let aside that you will not know what type of woman you are dealing with, until you have fucked her for the very least amount of six to twelve months without offering her exclusivity. The Eunuchs of The Red Pill
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 07:04 AM
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Holy fuck just the way you wrote this and the story itself makes me think you are fucking autistic
/r/askTRP08/06/18 06:14 AM
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Paint it all black. Also read the sidebar or at least the main sub and the EC posts in there.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 01:54 PM
2

This is even hard to believe, jesus.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 11:19 AM
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You still know how to write&read. Just look at the data. It seems like you are trying to pitty yourself (idk if its you missing body parts) or trying to raise the point of comparing yourself to people who had worse luck. The last is kind of dangerous, you can always compare yourself to lower people: at least you have two eyes (but you don't read), at least you have a work (but it's a low wage paying one), at least you ... Make the best of what you have, feel blessed for what you've gotten so far…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 07:58 AM
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Assuming that you follow most of TRP basics: Lift: If I pick 10 random people at the street, you included, you are at least top 20%. Career/Money: You are well set, money is not an issue, and your professional future looks good. Hobbies: You have hobbies, an interesting life besides chasing pussy. Your frame is almost unbreakable and your game is on point. Looks: You dress kind of well and your hygiene is on point. If the answers to all of that is yes (I know it's not you lazy motherfucker), and…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 07:15 AM
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She has ghosted you but she could also have given you a shitty excuse. Women reserve the right, since birth, to be dishonest and change their mind anytime, why would you get mad over that? Women are covert communicators, you know it. Call them out and you are a salty motherfucker. Be glad you can see through all of her shit thanks to TRP and just laugh it off.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 07:11 AM
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Are you only reading or also applying what you read? How many women have you approached this week? How many plates are you currently spinning? What are your lifts? Weight/Height/Bodyfat? Are you living your life comfortably? Money wise specially. Yeah you can swallow all you want here reading, getting some dopamine of from threads where you project yourself... No one swallows the pill until he has got, not only the knowledge, but the experience.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 11:28 AM
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she's human and not an evil goddess. Not saying that women are some kind of subhuman specie, but always keep in mind their "brutal" nature you discovered shortly after swallowing the pill.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 11:10 AM
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This is the last reply I'm giving you, but TRP is kind of amoral.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:26 AM
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Nah, actually not only lift. I'd recommend you read a thread that was on the main sub "Lifting is not enough" or along those lines. If he only lifts and consequently gains SMV he'll end up being a beta and get oneitis to the first hoe that gives her the eyes. He also seems to be pretty potato socially and can't hold a conversation. OP needs to stop being a lazy cunt and actually start reading the fucking side bar, hopefully while he does that he lifts as well regardless.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:22 AM
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She is an adult capable of taking decisions by herself. If she is in a position in her relationship where she feels uncomfortable/bad is her responsibility to leave not yours. You don't even know if she was being beaten up, you just heard his bf screaming and you think she was crying. You're trying to be captain save a hoe, again.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 10:20 AM
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Like there is so much wrong in your post that I'm surprised you didn't realize after writing it, you don't deserve an answer but: Don't shit where you eat. She's only a one month plate. You don't have to solve anyone's problems but yours, don't try to be captain save a hoe.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:21 AM
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he has a very high smv whereas mine is average
/r/askTRP06/06/18 06:41 AM
1

But I'll want this one chick so bad, and to know that she's probably fucking other dudes just kills me, even if I refuse to show it. You can't control it, you'll never know it, why do you even care? Never get attached to a woman, if you think this way it's because you do. because I know they'll never truly love me. This is how it is, you'll never be loved by a woman the way you expected to be loved. This is in the sidebar btw. Sometimes a girl will say some feminist, anti-patriarchy shit, and th…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 06:40 AM
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Hard to say without pics and not trying to take importance off lifting, but at 59 year old the last thing your body wants to keep on is muscle and your testosterone levels are low. Most likely he is on TRT or steroids if he is as jacked are you saying to be, there is like two or three of this "grandpas" in my gym, all of them are at least on TRT but blow off physiques from 90% of the gym disregarding the age.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:29 AM
1

As long as there is no boundaries crossed from the other side, that should have been stated at the beginning of the relationship, or a clear disrespect it's better to end on good terms with anyone, men or women. At the end of the day the world can be such a small place and you don't know when you might need the help from the persons that have been in your life.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 09:19 PM
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One of the clears examples of those binary thinkings, that lead to the extremes, is often seen on asktrp. OP feeling insecure because, for example, her LTR/plate has done something suspicious (note, just suspicious not disrespectfull). The answer is "ghost, delete her from all social media, drop stuff in bags" without knowing half of the details that might be worth asking the OP before coming into that conclusion.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 09:11 PM
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As much as I agree that Incels are in need of help and are treated like shit, may ask why are you overweight? Sometimes I feel like they fall into this "looks über alles" too quick. Yes you might be unattractive facially, but better to be fit and ugly than fat and ugly.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 12:28 PM
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Kind of can relate man. My life consists on basically working and going to the gym, I don't have a lot of time extra anyways. I can easily spend 2:30-3h in the gym between training: 90 min, cardio:30 min and Sauna:30 min. I have a bit of time left at nights that I use to meal prep or read a little. Weekends are hell, too much free time. Recently joined MMA, besides lift weighting gym and made some friends, but we just talk during the lessons, take a look into that. I have to quit anyways since I…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 12:10 PM
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Invite her over movie/drinks at yours whatever. be relaxed, confident. You are a man and like to fuck women, it’s natural. escalate, dicarlo ladder, don’t look desespérate and try to rush it, build momentum. read a little about lmr and asd. whatever happens, it happens. Don’t be harsh on yourself if she rejects you. next time don’t wait so long.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:03 PM
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I’m from Europe, assuming you’re from America prices could vary so much. I’m doing from waist to neck (chest/arms/back/hands) and its about 3k euro. If you have tattoos those areas can’t be done with laser. I’d say you try different styles with your beard but always get them done in a proper barber.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 07:57 PM
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Also I think that you expect girls to approach you purely based on your physique, this happens only a few times. As a man you still have to do the approaching, the result of it might be much better than if you ever hadn't put a foot in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 01:29 PM
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You should go to the gym 6 days a week to get V'd out and build an impressive set of guns. That's how you get girls! No, TRP bases the way you attract women based on the SMP which mainly is a balance between looks, status and money. I'm on the same boat as you, if you pick 10 random people from the gym I'll be top 20% easily, 10% top if you pick them on the street. You cannot have the physique if you have no game. Sure, it will get you some lays/ONS but it's not a good strategy long term. Trust …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 01:11 PM
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This. Have a very good thread regarding this bookmarked at other computer, will post if I remember. Basically it's kind of normal but it should only be happening with your first plates, if it's persisting all the time then you have an undergoing issue.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:51 AM
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25 y.o and balding as well, been shaving since 21 or so(can't really remember). Good that you go to the gym already, can you see your abds tho? Some of my tips: Shave your fucking bodyhair. Day and night regarding how you look like (assuming you've a nice physique already), muscle insertions, veins, everything becomes more visible. I personally get some laser shit done so my hair doesn't grow back (takes a few sessions to work). Tan, if you go jog take off your shirt and tan while running. Go to…
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:47 AM
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Same age, similar situation. I can vouch for MMA as a good idea, I kept meeting people from MMA in the city for small talks, in the gym as well (separate gym for MMA and weight lifting).
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:41 AM
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There is so much wrong by you feeling this way, have you even read a thread from the main sub? you are doing them a favour before they become emotional invested. you are not in this world to solve anyone’s problems
/r/askTRP03/06/18 10:41 AM
1

Jaja una mica extrany parlar català. Molt bé llavors, jo tb vaig al gym fa bastant i em cicló, però vaig amb el look del Tomàs Molina smv=-6
/r/askTRP02/06/18 09:19 PM
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quant fa que et vas empassar la pastilla vermella? LOL
/r/askTRP02/06/18 09:13 PM
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Miringame/10
/r/askTRP02/06/18 08:59 PM
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Jajaj BCN city aquí, que intentabas demostrar igualmente, eres tu el de las fotos que has usado en Tinder? Que era una guiri?
/r/askTRP02/06/18 08:13 PM
4

Lmao why is it in catalan, mal parit
/r/askTRP02/06/18 07:14 PM
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Content that OP removed: Currently I make $35,000 a year gross income. She makes $63,000 a year. We live in Tennessee. I have one child with her and currently I pay $690.00 a month. I have two other children one lives with my mother and the other lives with me full time. The child support was based on a contract job I held for 7 months making $21.00 and hour. That was 6 years ago and since then the job I have now making $16.90 an hour is the closest I have got to that. After child support and ta…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 03:34 PM
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Go through my post history and you'll see some of my threads are similar to yours, or worse. I will be honest with you, yes it will weed out certain women that won't find you attractive because you are bald, and so what can you do? Imo there is still no valid solution: Hair transplants, scalp micro pigmentation,hair pieces... Those are your cards son, play your best hands. My generical advice I give in all of those kind of posts: Lift (no shit). Make sure if you are really pale to get tanned. Tr…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:59 PM
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Not really effective though.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:54 PM
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Kino and escalate. Try to escalate as far as you can, her job to stop you. Be ready on how to handle differents shit tests, lmr,asd,whatever... Learn from it and be outcome independent
/r/askTRP01/06/18 10:28 AM
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Didn't manage to lay, but was doing pretty a lot of Kino with this girl, tried to kiss her and turned her face. She dropped the "If I kiss you I will feel like shit tomorrow when I talk to my BF", even though I am sure his BF would not be happy of how I was rubbing her thigs, pulling her shirt up... I didn't even answer, kept the kino, but distanced myself a bit. At the end of the date told me to close my eyes and started kissing me.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 10:02 AM
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Your time is very valuable, so you should not spend begging or trying to convince a girl to have a date/sex with you. A woman doesn't owe you sex/her body and you don't owe her your time/validation. So you go talk to other girls who are wilingly to have dates and fun with you without having to put a lot of effort.
/r/seduction01/06/18 09:44 AM
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2-3 years with no escalation. She's been over your house and didn't escalate. You are on the beta box probably already. Anyways to get over your oneitis and move on when she drops the LJBF on you have her to come over again and escalate.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 12:20 PM
2

Can relate to this. Hard to explain but it is like everything else stops mattering when I'm training. The problems are there, but they are not causing pain/depressive thoughts anymore but anger to push a little further.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 10:51 AM
2

5'10 around 190 lbs pretty lean. Agreed, there is a moment where you have to do more than lifting. I personally added: MMA: Guys with less muscle and even maybe fatter than me have better resistance in the ring. Most of it because carrying too much muscle can be bad at fights if you don't know how to fight. Sauna: I cannot express how I feel after Sauna+cold shower, during the Sauna I try to meditate somehow, and after the cold shower I just lay. I leave the gym with a sensation of relax/peace I…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 10:42 AM
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She used to brag about how crazy she was in bed and how good she gives blow job when i was flirting with her. If she used to tell you about that how the fuck is randomly now?
/r/askTRP30/05/18 10:32 AM
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Glad that you found a path to feel better about yourself, at the end of the day, it isn't fucking hard, is it? This is why Lifting threads are so frequently posted in here. Very important thing you listed in your last Mistake lists, track your progress and make sure to be proud of it, otherwise all of the motivation you are gathering now might disappear. Keep going.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 06:56 AM
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Regarding the physical body, you can't. They decided to risk their health in order to pursue their hobby/dream body. They grasp the benefits now but who knows in the future. Also to have an attractive body to women you don't need to use them.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:45 AM
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Am I the only one person in TRP that hasn’t seen gotten any benefit on lifting?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 05:12 AM
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That is called networking, and can pretty much benefit you in any field of your life.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:33 PM
1

"Well, what do you think that is going to happen? A guy going to a park with a girl would, most likely, embrace her and kiss her. That is, so that she knows he has any balls, and that he finds her attractive." Cringed inside, what did you expect to get out from this? You didn't generate enough tingles on her, otherwise she'd have loved to get rammed in a bench park during the night. This 30 year old something not so hot has better options than you, sorry.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:21 PM
1

What I meant is that I don't think it's the root cause. Taking into consideration that my estrogen and prolactin levels (hormones that are predominant in women) are on check, Testosterone by itself should not have that effect on me, more likely the opposite.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:16 PM
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Validation. She wants to know if you are still available/her bitch. You seem so invested that just by the amount of bullshit you said during the phonecall she knows she's still on your head.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:45 PM
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I doubt it's the steroids but we'll have to try. And also yes, I believe it's worth the money if you find a good therapist. Not feeling miserable all the time it's worth the money I guess.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:43 PM
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I do not PCT, blast and cruise means I do cycles and during those I bridge on a low dose of testosterone (125 mg a week). My estrogen levels are fine and prolactin as well.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:41 PM
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She has your hamster spinning, you're on her frame. She refused to meet you twice after setting up a date. She used you as an emotional tampon talking to you about other guy he's seeing. Last time you fucked was 2017 lol. Hope you got some perspective of what you just wrote.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:38 PM
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Blast and cruise mostly on TRT and dropping some other stuff from time to time
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:34 PM
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Yes, doubt it's that though. Coming off in August anyways and see what happens.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:34 PM
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Test E + Tren E, cycled and played before with 19-nors with no issue, same lab and estro+prolactin is on check from last bloods. Probably comming off this August anywyas.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:25 PM
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When I have nothing to do (because I lack of a mission) I start to get negative thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 08:36 AM
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You haven’t understood shit about trp
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:49 PM
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Validation, she knows you are an option.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:46 PM
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Agree with this, lol. I suffer from what I call myself Cronical Oneitis, my flings with girl are so spaced between them that I develop Oneitis for the current one. It is incredible how when a new one comes all the Oneitis I might have had during months for the last one disappears.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 02:47 PM
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Give her a wide range of emotions (push and pull)
/r/askTRP25/05/18 12:31 PM
1

100mg test + 200 Mtren water suspension PWO 200mg caffeine+ephedrine+MDAA PWO 500mg test e + tren e weekly 100mg oxandrolina ed still no gf
/r/askTRP25/05/18 11:57 AM
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Similar place as you OP, but people usually say what he just wrote. Apparently once you find your mission everything slowly starts to fall into it's place... Also how often do you approach or go out? Kind of activities you do to put yourself out there.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 10:00 AM
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Not but got an offer there as well, I'll go to another city most likely. If you want further details it might be better to talk via PM.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 07:23 AM
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Congratulations man, I couldn't force myself to do it. So you are still alive right? Just ask her out, and try to take the routine to ask at least one girl daily now that you've started.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:57 AM
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Idk man, you can always drop a message if it is going to make you feel better. You should regardless stop being a little bitch and realize that your well-being is in no ones hands but in yours.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:56 AM
1

Can you dig a little bit more into your depression? Issues you had, how is your life now after all this therapy? Are you a happy man? Are you happy but you still have to constant fight against the depression? Feel like there are still things missing in your life? Thanks.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:54 PM
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I'm from Europe so I don't know how different is from America, as soon as I got my first official job after being done with college (around 22-23) I moved.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 11:05 AM
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Clingy Oneitis Should have tried to escalate until fucking on her room I begin to kinda worry that I lost this girl Wrong mindset. You are already on the betabox after all the excessive texting (text only for logistics) and lack of escalation probably, you are annoying to her.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 11:04 AM
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Ja, como dice el amigo eres un puto crío, con perdón. Has tenido la suerte de llegar aquí joven, quizá demasiado. No te puedo dar más consejo que el genérico aquí: Haz deporte, si no lo haces todavía que coño haces? Estas acabando la puta ESO y tienes todo el tiempo del mundo, como lo usas para mejorar? Estudia. Si, tus padres también te comen la cabeza, tus profesores, tus abuelos... Es por algo, un concepto que también es aplicable a las mujeres, abundancia. Tener abundancia, (dinero, trabajo,…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 08:00 AM
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I am pretty much in the same spot, a little bit older and not a virgin but terrible with women/far away where I'd want to be. So you listed your problems: Social circle: Find activities that make you bond with other men. Can you get a gym bro at your gym to train with? If so, just train with him (as long as it doesn't fuck with your trainining performance) a few weeks and someday offer him to do something else outside the gym. If you have a lot of time you could try to combine gym with some kind…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:29 PM
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Some big points to take into account about your history that will not work for the AFC: She wanted to get back together, but I slammed the door shut when I found out she wasn't changing into what I really wanted, there was no purpose. Immediately, before I could unfollow on everything You ended it, apparently, and she was still hooked. When going no contact be ready for her to not come back ever again, in your case seemed pretty obvious she would. My priority was working out, graduating, startin…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 12:19 PM
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Mind explaining a little bit more of your situation? How did you hit rock bottom? Sometimes I ask my point when I am reaching that point so I can finally start going up. Also, how do you consider you wasted your 20s?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 11:52 AM
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Getting fucking ready, started MMA two weeks ago. I'm a gymbro, idk how huge you are but your muscles are going to be a bad thing when you need to be fighting for a few minutes because my cardio is shit. Def funny, different and challenging.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 09:48 AM
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I personally signed up for MMA two weeks ago. My background: Typical gym bro who is strong, has a "good" physique... Let me tell you one thing, I don't remember having sweat so much even on my HIIT sessions. I think I have too much muscle atm for MMA, I'm too heavy. I need to learn to use my body weight when fighting rather than just strength, otherwise I'm out in 5 minutes. Shoulders are fucking dead. It's like a different kind of training as weight lifting but def puts me on the limit as well,…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 09:46 AM
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Spain to Germany.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:09 PM
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It is hard, and usually only worked during weekdays, weekend a completely different story. I simply had no time, 5h sleep a day between gym+work+class+studying. During commuting from home to work I had to watch out not to fall asleep on the train, or take a Taxi because I was actually afraid I’d actually pass out. Examples like that, still sometimes depressive thoughts managed to sneak in.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 08:09 PM
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It is, but also playing hard mode. Lot's of people around here think it's not worth the risk, but we have several representative people from TRP, see Rollo, who's happily married.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 03:31 PM
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Lmao I get them even without swallowing the pill, I just hope one day I can look back and just laugh at how stupid/beta I was.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:28 PM
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Priorities change when you get older, so foreseeing those changes and making an investment in your future self while in your twenties pays many, many dividends. 1. Health. Eat right, exercise, multivitamins every day. Get outside and play sports, run by the ocean, skydive, whatever works for you 2. Finances. A) Emergency Fund: Save 4-6 months worth of living expenses in a high-interest savings account - this is only used for big emergencies like losing your job or repairing your car/house or med…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:22 PM
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Can relate to some points: low self-worth/esteem, validation, lack of a mission... But I still lift as a cure for my depression and to "cover" it. During my lifting sessions, problems stop existing I am focused in my workout and I feel fucking great, but they aren't solved. Last year I avoided my depression with work+Master's degree+gym, had barely time to be depressed/think of my problems. This year is gym+mma+learning a new language, still unhappy as fuck. Will re read later your thread.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 02:57 PM
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Can confirm, good physique and shit frame/game, can mostly get ONS or a few fucks before they see my frame is shit and attraction dies. Having a physique that doesn’t match your frame is more deceiving to women that not having any actually, frame and physique.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 06:51 PM
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There is a small contradiction I feel I’ve seen sometimes in trp, maybe somebody can clarify. As man we always have to be rational, or not emotional. But I also have seen also the comment to “trust your gut always”, which seems to be not so rational.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 08:36 PM
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You got cheated on because you were beta (that's how a lot of man being, not critiquing). You've been 3 years around. Trying to understand your epiphany: A hot rockstar puts her pants like you or pretty much any human being. You got to grind your cock on girls while they were making out with their bf (kind of cuck/wanker). You got beaten up while dancing in a mosh pit. Why the fuck would you post this
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 01:01 PM
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Answer those if you want me to waste more time with you: Do you shave instead of trying to hold the fucking 3 hairs you have left? Gym (weight/height/bf) and diet? Define your clothing style Tried growing a beard?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:17 AM
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Please read some around this sub before asking such a question, will spend 30 more seconds typing. I defend, with very limited exceptions, having female friends. You can't control how other people feel, maybe it's not because of you, her cat died. Women => emotions.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 09:47 AM
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I'm that person, trying to compensate game&frame with an outstanding physique, not good. Mind commenting how you fixed the other half?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 08:43 PM
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I'm that person hah, trying to compensate hard. What other subs you stumbled around or any quick tips you can drop?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 08:42 PM
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I'm that person hah, trying to compensate hard. What other subs you stumbled around or any quick tips you can drop?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 08:42 PM
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I'm that person hah, trying to compensate hard. What other subs you stumbled around or any quick tips you can drop?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 08:42 PM
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Not enough because I'm too afraid to approach
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:36 PM
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I only do it, and usually the people siting around the table too, when he misses a big shot. For example he misses someone's age for like 5+ years lol. But then the girls just keep telling him to guess more stuff.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 01:10 PM
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TL;DR: She doesnt want intimacy with you, you are his new best gay friend. We can't know why, maybe she just wants validation. The fact that the second time she asked you to go home back with you he asked someone to come it's a clear sign of disinterest from her side(she doesn't find you attractive=>the situation was awkward=>she doesn't want it to repeat).
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:01 PM
1

I meant abundance of pussy not sure which abundance you see as guaranteed by having your finances in order, let me tell you my case: I make a reasonable good amount of money, a company recruited me and moved me to their country paying me really good. I save 50% of my money at least. Money, thank god, is not a problem. How does that help with abundance?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 08:28 PM
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If this is a question go to asktrp
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 02:29 PM
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Honestly? Never
/r/askTRP12/05/18 03:45 PM
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I think that you should stop chatting with women on "kind-of-dating-app-but-it's-not" that you will never fuck. Have you ever bothered reading the main sub for a month at least? TL;DR: You're giving your time and free attention to a woman you will never fuck, juts had an estrogen peak reading at your fucking texts jesus
/r/askTRP11/05/18 11:09 AM
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She can still suck your dick
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:04 AM
1

And how do you capitalize on that?
/r/askTRP11/05/18 07:43 AM
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How does it make you look like a creep? A woman doesn't owe you her body/intimacy and you don't owe her your attention/validation. If you'd bother and read a little bit the main sub/sidebar you'd know it.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:55 PM
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Can you give specific examples of the shit-tests (their comment+your answer)?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:54 PM
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I was a late bloomer and balding came before even before I first kissed a women. I have 0 self-esteem and game and manage to score, last lay was 20 y.o being in my mid 25's, it should be so easy to smash much more if you the have self-esteem and game I lack. Some notes: Shave ED, with a fucking razor. Gym. If you are really pale you might want to look into tanning a little bit so you dn't look like you have cancer. Try to grow a beard if you can. At the end of the day, referring to your last par…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:59 PM
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Lmao that feel when 90kg at 5,10" and around 12% bf and getting 0 attention. Brb quitting gym, steroids and dieting and becoming a meth addict
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:10 PM
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Can confirm this 100% true Had a friend do that all the time. He's a master in psychology and for fun he always does this when we go out, 90% of the time he spews bullshit. Whenever I try to call him out, the response of the girl is always "shut up im loving it", they turn to my friend and say "keep guessing"
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 07:04 PM
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If you've been around TRP for that long we won't tell you anything that you don't know already, you might just need some reminders. You can be as Red Pilled as you want, but you'll have slipping moments when you can slide into BP mindsets/attitudes. Anyways: You should at anytime, always keep in mind, that every time you meet a girl/plate it might be the last time, and that's perfectly OK. You are basing your emotional well being on someone else, and a woman lol. You are a male and RP aware, you…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:42 PM
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m: Well, at least you look kinda good M: I still have your "unbelievable" boobs stuck in my mind Free validation Text only for logistics. You are already on the betabox/needy. /thread
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:33 PM
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Last few lines What do I do? I really wanna see her and try to make it a LTR. You fucking what mate? Like legit go fuck yourself, you're on denial ONEITIS
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:08 AM
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Holy fuck I consider myself not very RP-wise but I just read until the second point. Meets a girl in a club and closes same night Wants to LTR her lol
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:53 AM
1

Wtf does 'not a cheek kiss" mean?? Mouth?? Mouth with tongue?? Your testicles?? Sheesh. She grabbed my lower lips with her lips, lol. At any rate, I'm wondering if she just wants a fuck, as long as you two don't kiss, a la "Pretty Woman" or some such. It sounded as if you were headed to paradise, but, you wrecked it with the kiss thing. I don't understand your point, maybe I wasn't clear enough. During the night I escalated pretty much with kino as far as I wanted, go for the kiss x2 and she rej…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:51 AM
5

Have you read Power of Now (PON)? Pretty much talks about this
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:59 AM
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Well written and good point, but then again this is nothing but a "focus on your mission/yourself and get pussy of the pedestal." In order to achieve this perspective one man must have experienced abundance or have the assurance he can get pussy at any given time. So what comes first then: Focus on your mission, abundance/secure access to intimacy will come. Get abundance, realize it's not such a big deal and focus on your mission? Or maybe a mix of both.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 06:21 AM
1

T levels, how often do you masturbate, maybe try viagra once, see it’s no big deal and you’ll be able to repeat without using it?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:59 PM
0

By going to the gym and not being depressed
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:46 PM
2

Facial hair is related to DHT. DHT is related to testosterone. Facial hair is related with testosterone.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:51 PM
1

I know many men who have decent facial hair but don't have any frame and are beta as fuck, even if they get IOI's accidentally because they seem to give off outcome independence mentality often or whatever. This is me lol, there is nothing that dries more a pussy than a man who seems to be masculine and has a beta frame. The point this guy makes is on point: First, man the fuck up and own how you look best you can. Second, realise that by being here and being aware of things like shit tests, fra…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:49 PM
2

Mm yes. I don't know your starting point but I'd say don't be afraid of eating. Eat eat and eat. You will get covered (water) and obviously a little amount of fat might come in as well, but trust me most of it will be water. You'll see your strength going up, take care with your estro, might take a while to learn how to control it.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:43 PM
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Yeah just specified because most of the guys expect to get comments from women when it's the other way around.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:23 PM
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Haha thank god the reflection in car windows is always good, but yeah it's part of the game, just try to not take a lot of your mind. Not really, had very low self-esteem poor social skills before so it didn't really help, it was the intimidating vibe. Serial killer face+relatively huge+tattoos+shaved head I don't give a friendly vibe for either women or men.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:23 PM
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First cycle: 500 mg test E +`dbol kick starter. Currently Blast and cruise, blasting atm: 100mg anavar ED and 500mg test E and 500mg tren E week Psychological: Didn't help at all, had issues before and steroids didn't solve them (self-esteem, low worth) + a little body dismorphya where I am unable to tell myself if I legit looks like I lift sometimes, a bad angle on a mirror can ruin me fucking entire day lol. Physical: Bigger and more muscle lol, no gyno but nipples get slightly puffy if estrad…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:54 AM
2

Yeah confused LJBF with LMR, even tho the last can include the first. Her hammster is spinning a little bit maybe about fucking me or not, whatever. I am starting MMA this week besides training to the gym so I won't have much time, will try to set up something in two weeks.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:22 AM
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I think you might confuse some readers, or maybe I got confused, with the "treat them like fucking dirt". It seems like you've to specifically "bad" or even slightly degrading way, which I disagree other than in bed maybe. make your intentions known. Dont hesitate in your pursuit. And if she says she doesnt want you, no hard feelings, just on to the next. To me this is the correct way to treat them, is that what you meant by "like fucking dirt"? Because I don't see it this way, this is treating …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 08:28 AM
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Not enough info, and even if so it doesn't matter man.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:32 PM
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Completely anecdotal, but most of the nights I have gone out thinking it'd be shit have turned out much better than the average night when I am really looking going out.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 08:17 PM
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Nothing new but a good-short written reminder. This should also reinforce the concept of having a close male figure in your life as you said (let it be father, best friend, teacher...)
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 07:33 PM
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Not sure if serious
/r/askTRP06/05/18 01:04 PM
2

I could agree but the difference of how women look at me, talk to me and interact overall is day and night when wearing a cap, for example.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:39 AM
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Grass is greener on the other side, I’d trade my beard for a full thick of hair anytime. Having high test trairs, or just being a man, matters less now than ever in our society.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:39 AM
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I'll give you my honest opinion. I'm 25 year old, good physique, diet on point+steroids, shave ed, have some tattoos and tan often. You're going to have a hard time, hair matters a lot when talking about the "looks" of the looks,status,money triangle. You are fucked, but what can you do though? You've been dealt this cards so make the most out of it. Don't torture yourself over it but understand your limitations. Other than that, typical TRP tips: Lift Develop hobbies and skills Create an unbrea…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 06:23 AM
3

Big factor, 10 age gap between you and OP. Probably the women you're talking to are older, and closer to the wall. Your Status/Money is probably far ahead because of the same reason.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 06:21 AM
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As a pretty self-negative person myself, how are you breaking free from your negativity?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 05:19 PM
2

It has been posted here several times. Sex can be seen somewhat as money. Have a constant income or the security that you can have it and it doesn't matter, have none and you're fucked in life. You have experienced that you can have access to it, therefore belong to the first group. Tell that to guys that get laid once every 6 months if lucky.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 05:08 PM
1

I kept playing chess with another dude. Holy fuck that was funny. So you are attracted to her, she pretty much is doing all the work for you to fuck her. It looks like you haven't told the issue with you though, virgin? ED? Performance issues? Try to find the root first. I'd look on DiCarlo Escalation Ladder but it looks like an easy thing to me.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:13 PM
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Not much to learn from this FR, the best think feedback to be given is that you start your paragraphs with "Well" too often.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 05:59 AM
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Your example is good, but covers well a very light case of oneitis .Take note also that your circumstances are different to the rest of people who get oneitis. Apparently not only you have been doing well in the last two months (8 girls 10 dates) but had abundance enough to keep setting up dates with new women during the start of your symptoms. Most of the cases of oneitis from people around here come from living in scarcity, and trust me that is a fucked up situation to be.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 01:33 PM
2

This should be more a Ranting thread rather than a Theory.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 11:10 AM
3

This again, comes the big confusion of TRP regarding lifting. Lifting is good to create an habit, to see results of your own effort, create discipline. If you read OPs thread you can clearly see that he's only talking about the benefits he gets from external people, men and women, most of the time. Lifting doesn't actually has to mean more women attraction/attention.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 10:24 AM
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It has been said here before, while women in your life will not solve your problems, the lack of it will create some. Can be seen as money: Have none and you are fucked, get an stable income and everything is OK.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 08:46 AM
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By not having plates, heh (:
/r/askTRP30/04/18 08:43 AM
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Oneitis is nothing but a sum of problems well covered here: Scarcity: How many plates are you actually spinning? If you don't have any plates, how many girls are you flirting with daily? How many girls do you talk a day? It seems that you seem to cultivate abundance. Lack of a mission: Or too much free time, you want to be busy with your life: Lifting/Sports, a hobby, developing skills, looking for ways to increase your income, building quality relationship with man... But overall, it looks like…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 08:22 AM
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I recommend you, and all the people who apparently is getting here from other subs, to not read the entire side bar but maybe the "New Here?" at least. If you have had enough interest to come to this sub, read and reply to this post I am sure you'll have it to read those.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 08:27 PM
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Then you are going to live a very shitty life
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:24 PM
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How can you help me? I pretty much accepted it already, unless you can still help me with that part I appreciate your help but I refuse to use Fin, RU and those products.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 07:49 PM
1

Right. Meet other women, this will lesson. Don't be trying to meet "the one". Give up on that ridiculous idea and this should lessen. Maybe he's not trying to meet the one but his access to women is limited, instead of being able to talk to multiple at once. OP, same happens to me and it is pretty much what I call cronical oneitis, some of us can get a lot of women. When you get to have some intimacy with one it is kind of normal. I believe only time and getting over it once and once again will …
/r/askTRP24/04/18 12:47 PM
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I lived with one girl in a shared flat for a while. We always did shit together(going clubing, to the beach) girls were more interested since they saw me with another woman and she always tried to hook me up with her friends. It’s the only case I’d consider having a female friend though.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 08:34 PM
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I can relate to you, maybe I am younger and I don't have the "I'm the prize mentality". I legit can't either approach women, not even in my mind I can imagine the scenario. Maybe it is some trauma we've from our childhood? Have you ever been close to approach? Can you remember what thoughts went through your mind? The "fake it til you make it" bullshit doesn't work with me. I also agree on this, the "just be confident bro" will not do it for me.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 01:02 PM
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Check this tread: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8d1hdh/did_i_do_something_wrong/ You're in the beta box already I believe.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:16 PM
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HT are not a final solution, hair can fall still unless you take some well-known pills that can cause trouble with ED, hormones and scary stuff. if you get off those you lose your hair again.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 07:42 AM
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HT are not a final solution, hair can fall still unless you take some well-known pills that can cause trouble with ED, hormones and scary stuff. if you get off those you lose your hair again.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 07:41 AM
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Well I know you said "not family" but anecdotally my mother is telling me to grow it out, even if I'd be obviously thinning which makes me think bald isn't a good look overall. The two other group of people you mentioned, friends and associates, obviously doesn't care because there is no sexual attraction between us.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 07:40 AM
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Lmao that blind girls line made me laugh at least hah
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 07:38 AM
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Because deeply enough I know the answers, I am just too afraid to execute. I just think that getting some IOIs would raise my self-esteem and diminish my fears, but even with all the efforts made I don’t get them even from 2HBs
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 04:25 PM
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I meant to compare the guy with no legs , not being bald. Comparing to athletes/actors to the average dude makes no sense
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 04:23 PM
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Not necessarily, but to get my priorities clear. As much as the dude without legs will never to be able to play with his favorite NBA star I might as well save some time and stop thinking of reaching some goals because of my specific conditions.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 03:30 PM
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No there is not. I shave my head ED. I have lifted for years and I’m on steroids. I tan, because even if I’m not pale naturally, I don’t want to look like I have cancer. I have tattoos already, half sleeve + chest, a few more and almost my full right quad. It doesn’t fucking work, I can prove all of my points sending you a PM.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 03:27 PM
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Guarantee women will treat you less shitty if you rock the bald like Mr Clean than if you try meekly to hide it with headware. Bolded words are key. The issue is when even less shitty isn't enough to be a sexual option. As a relatively young man, mid 20's, there is nothing to do that can overcome the turn off of balding. Traning, dieting, tanning, growing and grooming a beard, wearing fit clothes.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 12:35 PM
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a girl who was really into me but then I missed the opportunity Maybe, without knowing all the info, you kind of rejected her. If you are sure she was into you and didn't do any advance she might be offended. Girls handle rejection, even if you didn't reject her directly, much worse. As the other posted said, move on.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 11:21 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8chlns/there_was_a_super_link_on_theredpill_sub_and_now/dxh3d6g/
/r/askTRP17/04/18 10:57 AM
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I also think that this sub spits the 'just lift' too fast. Yes def a thing to do but not the only important thing, you might want to take care of some things before that. I got the physical part that it's on my hand: Good gym body, trim daily, shave daily,etc..: Yet, one of the physical aspects I can't control (balding) has completely taken over the psychological part, I feel cursed because of it. It doesn't matter that you come here and tell me that you're bald or you friend is and he does well…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 10:34 AM
1

I haven't managed to get the one from Ubermnensch mode in the archive, can you get it?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:29 PM
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Funny but some of us here a very social potato (I include myself, as OP). You can read in other TRP posts from EC telling that if she really wanted she'd propose a new date (see my post in this same thread). Also OP wondering how do you know how she's texting someone else (makes you a creep lol).
/r/askTRP16/04/18 09:44 AM
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Three days a week for 3 hours. I made a therad on asktrp a few weeks ago and /u/vandaalen recomended to just be normal and formal with her.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 09:39 AM
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You remind me of me and a similar situations. You seem insecure as fuck and really want to message with her, let me ask you, how many plates do you have besides her? It looks like 0 and she'll smell your scarcity miles away. Some points: If she wanted to fuck you enough she'd do it after work regardless. If she wanted to fuck you enough she'd reschedule. Maybe you didn't fuck her good enough, maybe she just wanted to try you once and that's all, maybe maybe maybe... Stop the hamster and use that…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 09:05 AM
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What about no contact if you still have to see her almost daily? I think that depending of the situation going no contact isn't the best choice, after discussing with some other people you simply are correct with her, you still withdraw all of the attention/validation you might have been given her.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 06:44 AM
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I have no idea man, I'd say go to the testosterone sub and they might have some natty protocols over there.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 08:42 AM
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Ill be brief cuz about to go to the gymm. Idk how much you know already but this is pretty basic, you can go to other subs to get more info. Steroids are the solution only to low T issues, they are not a magical substance, don't expect them to magically solve your life. If you are young you don't really need TRT unless you have low T, get bloods first. Lift a while, learn about nutrition as well before. Steroids per se aren't a healthy thing to do, as everything in life if you don't abuse you ca…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:15 PM
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Congratz again, a good example to the community. People might call you out on steroids, but 800 test is something a lot of young guys can be around natty, so they have no excuse. What interests me more is how your frame changed according to your physique. I have a similar physique, but my mindset is of a bitch still. I would like to expand a little more, with examples if you could, of how you noticed girls interest's arise. Maybe one of the most memorable lays you have had ever since then as a F…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 05:03 PM
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Most of the time I have been cruising @ 250mg Test E weekly. Right now I'm on 500mg Test E + 500mg Tren E weekly, might start cutting soon so I could drop the Test E to 250mg and add some oral. Regarding fertility, during cycle it is easy to go infertile, yet it seems that people always recover after a while. Heck see some of the bbers having kids and those man barely ever come off, there is some Boston Loyd (I think its his) fertility protcol that seems to work fine. How is the GH? To me it's t…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 12:22 PM
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I can second this, lifting is overhyped around here. Not saying people should not do some kind of exercise, but OP is exagerating.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 11:04 AM
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Well TRT is still a taboo imo, complicated issue. I've been B&C for a while already, other than some potential fertility issues I might face in the future, I regret nothing. I think you already got my comment about advice, we're simply playing another game and we can get away with some stuff naturals dont.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 06:23 AM
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You'd be immpressed how much your physique would improve if you shave all that hair off, to me it's a bigger change than going from 15 to minus 10 bf. Edit: Just saw your trim, sweet. Also be careful to the advice you give in here to people as you are on PEDs, we are playing different games.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 09:01 PM
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Lift some damn weights and ALL your problems will be solved. As much as I agree that lifting is a fundamental part of TRP, I think its benefits are completely overblown. Lifting is as important as having a good frame/game, hence it will not solve all of your problems. How important is having a good physique that is attractive to women when your frame/game doesn't match with it? Yes, that might get you some very sporadic ONS but that is not a good solution in the long term. Trust me, I have a goo…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 08:09 PM
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I thought it worked the other way, once you get IOI from her and see you can easily get her, her value drops
/r/askTRP31/03/18 12:12 PM
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Read how to get like a warlord, covers this a small tldr (on my phone): sometimes hb9-10 are not used to be approached, they panic and react as you said, OP recommends approach later as you did because their reaction will be better Read it
/r/askTRP31/03/18 12:09 PM
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If you are high SMV enough she wouldn't mention it
/r/askTRP26/03/18 09:13 AM
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How and why should she chase you, if you are always available. Create yhe opportunity for her. The usual we did was go out for drinks, always end up making out and from there fucking. I once rejected her invitation because I was kind of angry seeing her flirt with other guys (no commitment from any side was made). Two weeks ago I went to her house and didn't dare to escalate besides a quick kiss before leaving. Asked her to go drinks and she refused. Invited her to a party and she refused. I mad…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:38 AM
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Makes sense, to be honest it is my fault that she might have lost attraction. I made so many things against TRP principles (beta stuff). I could be angry at her, but honestly I am the one to blame, live and learn I guess. You want to give her the opportunity to chase you. This is spot on, but I also must accept the chance that she simply doesn't chase. And I should not care (this shows some scarcity form my side). We'll see.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 09:54 AM
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I always played funny and cocky around her, but while reading your message I had the following thought: It's like I want her to know she doesn't have my attention anymore, but not because she simply can't offer me what I want. Unsure how to do that.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:14 PM
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Good way to write the post, fucked my brain a little when got the last part. Funny regardless.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 09:06 AM
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I'm impressed at the amount of people who's posting similar stories to OP. Really eye-opening. Like I am scrolling through the first few comments and at least 4-5 are relating similar stories. On topic, congratz op, put yourself always first in order to be happy and do not repeat the mistakes you made.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 10:37 PM
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I workout abs every workout and forearms. Do not ask me why, I cannot prove any science behind if it is the best thing or not to do, for me it works.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 12:43 PM
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Hey thanks for commenting, I can do that and it will also help me because I need to learn the language in the new country I am living now. The only thing is that I'm looking more for a physical escalation with this girl.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 12:10 PM
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Amazing. I always struggled to find a clear definition of frame, but this is pretty good.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 10:54 AM
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Already fucked her, things just got a little cold after a holidays break. I can't do it when I'm there, cannot describe it. For every time I don't escalate the more beta I become.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:21 AM
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The issue is with the trying, I am afraid of trying. I am at a point of giving up this possible lay rather than trying because I've been torturing myself so much lately over the fact of not doing what I want to do (physically escalating).
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:17 AM
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I agree that scarcity (hence the possible case of oneitis) is an option as well, but I rather have her reject me than me cockblocking myself. I am legit doing her job of rejecting me by not trying, pretty fucking sad. I think I have shown her I am kind of attracted already with the situations we have in the lift, I will ask her out and if she says no I will simply withdraw my attention and focus it on other things. The thing is what I would like to do is physically escalate in the lifter, asking…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:16 AM
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I know man. I have been reading this thread from /u/vandaalen like a few times the last days: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6o90gp/the_eunuchs_of_the_red_pill/?st=jea9rdue&sh=fc5cc13b Been reading how to get laid like a warlord and listening to the video on youtube everyday. Also this post from /u/inchado https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7xvgdz/the_hard_path_to_becoming_a_man_how_to_get/ This one as well: https://www.reddit.com/r/MasculineClass/comments/7fz816/personal…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:14 AM
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Hey man, I drink once a week or twice most, on the weekend. I cannot deny that I feel really well though, I feel like I can handle life when drunk and all of my problems have solutions. I don't have drinking problems but it would be nice to feel what I feel when I'm drunk being sober. And for steroids, I'm fine regarding hormones issues. I have been training for years and I spend time and money on gym as my hobby. Besides the long term health issues, all my hormones are fine (besides high testos…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:05 AM
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The issue is I don't get to escalate fully to the point to get rejected. She says she is afraid to go alone with me on the lifter but she always keeps comming, I even feel she wants me to escalate but I can't get myself to do it.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:57 PM
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And is this only achievable through experience? I don't want to miss more chances with any girl, is there anything I can do to internalize those? Reading? Apparently I am wiling to do anything but escalate lol
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:19 PM
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Didn't think about it while reading the thread but this guy is on point, if a girl is interested in you she'll shit test the shit out of you.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 10:44 PM
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I could read your post pretty quick, maybe a kind of potato question but this example came to my mind. Last day a girl I fucked, we don't anymore just stupid flirting, had to go home and her bike broke, I helped her fixing it doing something for her, was it such a bad move if I ever want to escalate to fucking again?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 12:07 PM
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Lmao went to a girl's house last weekend (she tried to flake and replan), I didn't have the guts to do anything with her (I just went for a quick kiss before leaving like a fucking pussy). Made her cook for me, made her give me cigarretes but she was still like resisting some Kino, I convinced myself that she didn't want it, I took off from her the choice of rejecting me, I rejected myself because I'm a fucking pussy. A RP friend I message already told me how much I fucked up for not escalating,…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 03:09 PM
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Same here, I get those thoughts from time to time. Like /u/Oscar_Cc I just wouldn't like to imagine the face of my mother on my funeral, so I just keep going. It affects my day to day life though, fucking serious face all the time, not feeling like interacting with people at work, deep breakdowns from time to time, just making life a non-enjoyable experience I'd say. Seeing that here is more people like me makes me feel that maybe it's a normal thing to have those thoughts? Pretty much like OP I…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 10:58 AM
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You don't have a mission I guess, nothing to look after every morning to wake up and get out of the bed. Maybe during a period of time you had the objectives you mention at the beginning of your post:a nice car, a nice job, an apartment, plates... Time to aim higher?
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:09 PM
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Reading so many responses here, I had an experience last weekend. Was at a club dancing, I saw those girls a few times looking around, but I did do nothing. Then all of a sudden my friend came and told me "Just approach them already, they want you to", still didn't do it. I realized I was lying to myself "Ahh they are looking all the time, if I approached I'm sure it'd go well" and kind of felt like a women, just seeking the validation. I, as a man(If i am one lol), have to approach and get over…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 12:15 PM
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Not referring to this particular case, but can't it be just a shit test if a girl mentions she's on a LDR instead of her trying to mean there will be no sex?
/r/askTRP14/02/18 09:23 AM
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Lmao balding since 21, shaving head ed. Hitting the gym also and diet on point for years. Last girl I was fucking was a 20 y.o fit polish girl. Why can I do it and you can't? What's your excuse? Some tips I can give you: Obviously gym and diet as every trper. Avoid looking pale to look like a fucking cancer patient (try to tan if you can't do it naturally). Fucking razor shave it if you are not doing it ED already.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 09:13 AM
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What he said. You should be proud you even have plates mate, some people in this sub can barely get ons (and yes, it’s purley their fault). You will always have a pair of trainers you like more than the others, it is normal that same happens with plates. But you are a man, do not act emotional (that’s what women do), but rationally. Enjoy the ones you have, and be ready for them to leave anytime.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 10:22 AM
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I didn't ruin it so much (mainly just socially and losing a part of my youth, managed to keep studying), but I remember some of my summer days was game until 04 AM wake up at 11 AM game to 04 AM... I even had dreams about the games. It surely has helped me some how (using chat voices I can speak a little Polish, Swedish and my English is quite good), but overall I'd rather spent all that time out, experiencing life, socializing, getting those rejections that would have hurt less in the past then…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 03:07 PM
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Completely agree with you, everyone has the right to spend his free time as he wants to relax, have fun on whatsoever. But I can understand OP, coming from a similar background for my gaming is an utterly waste of time. Shooting online people, making missions and shit... I can read a book, learn a new skill or whatsoever to have the same fun and get something out of it rather than just fun from videogames.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 02:34 PM
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Lmao this is spot on truth that needs to be reminded from time to time , thanks for this OP.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 03:17 PM
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I am on the b&c life man, I don't want to have kids ever (even if steroids haven't been proven to cause infertility after a correct PCT; heck look at MR Olympias with kids), I am bald already and I don't mind dying early because of the use (heart, liver problems etc).
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 08:08 PM
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But this is worldwide, F1 races are pretty much ran all over the world (Europe, America, Middle east)
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 08:04 PM
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Nailed it, I tried to make the mental exercise of how I'd explain of one of those fat SJW slut walkers that those women on the grid are also there because they do what they want with their bodies, bla bla ... After trying for a few minutes with no success, I remembered one of the first rules of TRP to not discuss or try to use any logical argument with women.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 02:14 PM
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And it will be soon everywhere, TV hostesses, etc... It will be interesting to see if this trends follow how will the feminism respond, not only that but all the political institutions behind that which side would they pick if we ever see it splitting in different sub-parties.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 02:12 PM
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That feel when 500mg Enan / weeek and still beta
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 01:29 PM
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He should indeed get his T levels checked, every man should, but the second part of your post not fucking true lol. Having high test doesn't solve all the issues as this subs seems to think, trust me I have high Test (bloods taken) and the issues he describes might persist.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 11:53 AM
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I'm quite a depressed type of guy, and always ask myself when I will reach the point to turn my life around as you did when you had your kid. Been like this for years, I want to start living a life im proud of
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 11:38 AM
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Not sure if fucking serious lol, same position as OP but smaller city where ppl barely speaks german. To begin with here, instead of one single article ‘the’ as in English you have three, die der das, for feminine masculine and neutral. Hell ppl from my work say they are so glad they learnt german when they were kids because they couldn’t learn it now that they are older and contioniously tell their language makes no fucking sense
/r/askTRP04/02/18 01:49 AM
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I cannot claim any scientific studies that back up my claim, but I try not to masturbate (I do not want to start a no fap debate). To me it feels like a cheat meal, a quick release of dopamine to avoid going after real sex. Usually when I feel like cheating in my diet it is because I have skipped a meal and I crave sugar. I will have my cheat meal but I will be hungry again shortly afterwards, the amazing taste of sugar will be gone in 10 minutes and I will feel bad for it. Same happens with mas…
/r/askTRP03/02/18 03:16 PM
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According to your life is going nowhere, you have a chance to find a job, start in a new city(you comment on yours being too small), and instead of spending all day on your computer have a productive live that might probably help you fulfill your goals. the fuck do you expect us to say
/r/askTRP30/01/18 01:02 PM
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I can't for the sake of my life force me to do the stuff I want to, and possibly might make me happy. I am so afraid, and I am not sure really why, of everything related to game or women. I have no issue going to the gym x5 a day, studying a new language currently and trying to re-read the sidebar, but a part of me is a lazy scary cunt that takes over me. I think I would be much happier only if I tried, but I stop myself every time, it is like I can't control myself from pussying out. Consequent…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 10:07 AM
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Nice that you have had the time to read, internalize, try and overall learn so much stuff in just 6 months.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 01:23 PM
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Tfw when the only benefit of lifting is guys hitting on me or bros asking “do you go to the gym?” Lol
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 05:50 PM
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Okay then, if she is just an igniter to your improvement fine, just make sure it's not your end goal (her or any women). Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 12:34 PM
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I second this, it seems what is triggering your self improvement is to become better for a girl.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 09:23 AM
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I wanted to express how I was feeling in this certain situation and get some constructive feedback on the flaws from a TRP mindset.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 11:54 PM
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Going to focus in the gym and diet 100%, while I work and study I don't have much time to prep meals and stuff. Yes it will be only like two weeks but better than nothing. Going to start to read on ways to make passive income. Going to re-read the sidebar and some books I wanted. Those are my x-mas/ new year plans.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 11:12 PM
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Some tips from a bald brah, not about shitests but in general if one of your fears of using steroids was losing your hair, not anymore(steroids imply other serious health consequences though). tan if you don’t want to look like a cancer patient Gym try to grow a beard
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:33 PM
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Today? 4-5 already
/r/askTRP09/12/17 10:19 PM
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Been reading a lot about this lately and got a few interesting videos regarding the topic, not in english sadly. The speaker basically says that we as people radiate our mood as a light bulb radiates light (based on our mood), just by walking and looking at people faces you can see if they are at 100W or some people who goes at 20000W.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 02:04 PM
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I just told her I'd be at a time in a place, I don't know if she showed up. If she had interest into coming she could have messaged, I changed my mindset and didn't care anymore by then. I was there and went on with my plan to meet my boy and had a good night.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 06:45 PM
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Put a space after every * to get the points listed correctly A B C
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 05:46 PM
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I didn't go with her on a date. It was my boys bday so I simply invited her to join us (she already came sometimes), told her to be at X time at Y place that I had to go anyways before heading to my friends. She said "ok see you later", I went to the place, did what I had to do and went to my friends without messaging her. Simply changed my mindset to have a fun night with my bro, and saw how pathetic my thoughts were being. Ended up making out with a hot Brazilian chick.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 05:32 PM
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You were right and I realized it now, decided to fuck those thoughts "what could happen" and just went to have fun with my boy, things turned better than expected when the night ended.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 05:17 PM
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Edited main post with what actually happened, hope it helps if any1 ever stumblers over here. Thanks for the comments.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 05:16 PM
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We had to meet tomorrow, I just dropped her a msg "Ill pick you up at XX" and she said "Ok but i might be 5 min late because of job". And yeah the option of not saying anything or declining the flaking first before being rejected now seem stupid, rejection make you stronger I guess so it's never something to be afraid.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 10:27 AM
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Very good example. I started the book last summer but stopped when school began, I want to read a little more TRP and probably will give a try again.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 10:26 AM
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Thats what I thought but that would be like running away from what I really want. I really want to meet and fuck her, if I have to be rejected who gives a fuck? But yeah got quite anxious abouit the issue.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 10:25 AM
1

Anywhere in the center for me to buy something to drink and bring her back home
/r/askTRP30/11/17 10:35 PM
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Her to come over my place to drink, we had to meet somewhere before tho
/r/askTRP30/11/17 09:56 PM
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Can you elaborate a little more? I’d appreciate it. By overthinking you mean what would ppl normally do? My first option I guess, and by not making decisions for the girl it would be not doing the second. I am just wondering which one is the best and if none please give some arguments
/r/askTRP30/11/17 09:55 PM
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The last girl I fucked dropped the 'We are not having sex tonight', guess what?
/r/askTRP29/11/17 11:54 AM
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I guess thats the best thing to do, but I a afraid of her saying no as then I could never ask again to avoid looking needy/scarcity, and I just want to wait for her to propose again, lol, not the correct attitude.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 09:08 PM
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I've been told its pretty much a lot of Blue Pill stuff you have to filter from it, why do you recommend it?
/r/askTRP28/11/17 09:07 PM
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Thats the entire process: Invited her to come over with me and another friend, we made out and fingered her. Told her I couldn't wait to drink this weekend, she asked me if I wanted to go to hers to drink. She asked me to go after class to go drink with her and another guy, when the other guy left made out+jerked me off. I asked her only once out. I see other guys who act more beta (as described in OP) she stills goes out with them, and I might be missing on having sex by being too passive.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 09:06 PM
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I am pretty potato socially so it's hard for me to use the terms described in here, as I barely identify them when interacting. She sat next to me first days, I speak a little of her mother tongue so we started chatting. I started ¿negging? her saying she did nothing on the weekend because she had no friends: Invited her to come over with me and another friend, we made out and fingered her. Told her I couldn't wait to drink this weekend, she asked me if I wanted to go to hers to drink and fucked…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 09:05 PM
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Makes sense, I suppose my scarcity mentality is afraid of losing my only plate lol. I will ask her whenever I feel like it but it would be better trying to game other girls during the weekend.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 03:00 PM
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We sat for a while in the begging of the classes. I invited her once to come out with me and friends, we made out and fingered her. She invited me to her place we fucked. She offered me to go drink last Thursday last week and we made out and jerked me off. Where is the line between showing too much interest (as the beta orbiters I mention on OP) and as I suspect I am doing (too less)? I dont want to become invested or give a scarcity image.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 02:25 PM
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Be the guy that just understand the perspective of a woman, which is showered with dicks on a daily basis and understand her behaviour. If pussy would be thrown on us the same way, we would behave identically (see 1950's, I guess? The turning point when women realized they can stop doing all the effort and the tides turned). Don't hate the game, learn to play the game and enjoy it while you are improving in playing it. Spot on... and struggling with this. Fucked and fooled around with a girl fro…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 11:48 AM
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You don’t take The Red Pill by reading all the sidebar 15 times, you take it by experiencing it and you are doing it. Same happens to me, I read it, Rollos books, etc and I struggle sometimes with basic shit, reading it helps me to understand it and accept it, that’s when you swallow the pill.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 06:33 PM
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‘We are not having sex tonight’
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 06:26 PM
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Balding young here (shaved at 23) also late bloomer, So I’ve only fucked while being bald. Last weekend I was balls deep into a 20 yo fit blue eyes blonde girl. Yes balding is a no for some women. Some tips: shave ed, try growing a beard if you can, hit the fucking gym, tan(pale and bald u will look like you have cancer), read the sidebar and stick for a while here.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 06:22 PM
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I reached up to my dad, I never did before. We never had a man to man talk and he said he would come to me (2h flight) to talk. I was afraid to open up to him because I never did with anyone but I asked around and people in here commended me to do it. What I would like from this ho? Be his only option and have her sucking my dick on demand to be honest. But the environment we are at he has plenty of attention of other men, so I guess I just must be glad it happened? This last option makes me fee…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:06 PM
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Short and honestly, yes. My scarcity makes me think ‘maybe I can get more again’. But your point is very valid.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:21 PM
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I know it's just me fighting my BP/romantics thoughts I guess... The problem is the last point, my self-esteem/worth is too low and has been all my life. I'd see myself as annoying and I am afraid of rejection. Yes those are points that are even covered on BP subreddits but reading and reality are two very different things. I am aware I have to go through pain and things I don't like if I want to get what I want in life. Thanks for your words.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:17 PM
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Regarding all of this, I completely agree but running in a little trouble lately. Fucked this girl from one of my classes, she was like we are not having sex etc but we obviously ended up fucking. I left a lot of marks on her neck and she was like "we are never fucking again,etc...". Problem is that she gets a lot of attention as 90% of the clases are males, she even started flirting and setting dates with the guy she flaked with the last week to fuck with me. I can't avoid but get a little jeal…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 12:55 PM
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Alright so I tried for the first time and have a few questions /u/Mattalec. I did a few of the 4,7,8 and then began with 5 minutes meditation, concentrating in the in and out of my breath. First of all, shall I hold my air in my chest or stomach? You mention something about bringing the belly out when talking about the posture but I am not sure. During the meditation no direct emotions appeared such as fear, anxiety but the reason of them (currently a girl), but I feel like I couldn't feel like …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 09:25 AM
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Talk to your dad. I will, talked to him right now. During tomorrow I will make a list of the things that make me unhappy/happy from TRP perspective ( I never talked with my dad about women for example) and maybe he can give me some advice, I am afraid though that as he grew without a father figure it might not be the kind of advice I'd get in here. I am also kind of afraid of being 100% honest to him, shall I? Lift, it will help with the depression and anxiety. Eat well, this will help too. Medi…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 09:05 PM
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Hey, I hope you are doing fine. I don't know its like I get hooked on every girl that shares some kind of intimacy with me, definitely scarcity most likely. It is incredible how my mental state switched from walking out of her home, feeling good and confident to a little beta shit as soon as I reached mine. I barely did nothing the rest of the weekend other than hitting the gym. I have thoughts like: 'I don't want to lose her' (she was never mine, and never will be enjoy your turn). 'I want more…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 11:16 AM
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I already read the sidebar, that doesn't mean I can read it again. Will do. The thing is I can show most of the traits when I'm out with girls but then when lonley at home I get depressed/filled with beta thoughts, whichi makes x100 dificult to keep the frame later on. Already lift, used to go x5 a week now I can just go x3 because some day after works I have to study the local language of the new country I moved in (where I met this girl). I definietely need to get into meditating and will take…
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:30 PM
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What do you mean by be gone? Last night after fucking a girl I spend the night and part of the morning of today with her, it was fucking cold and I had to take the bus 40 min to get back home. In my head I wasn't sure if it was a good idea to stay or not.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 06:54 PM
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I didn't even expect it to happen to be honest. As usual I get drunk with my friend on the weekends and we go out. I was even surprired that it happened to be honest, even more surprised I am that she has invited me over lol. My self worth is pretty low.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:41 PM
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But sometimes seeing other men and how far ahead they are, most of them without putting almost any effort or trying, makes me go into a downhill of negative thoughts. I think it's almost impossible not to compare. I am not a person who talks a lot to be honest, I can't see myself going to random people and starting a conversation. Funny enough, my best buddy right now he does it every weekend we go out, but it wouldn't feel natural if I did what he does.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 01:46 PM
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I feel like any achievement I reach makes me happy, so I will take a look on the hierarchies of human needs. And seeking counseling I think it's something I should have done before, sadly in the country I am on now and not speaking yet fully the language it will be hard.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 01:44 PM
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In the new country I am living with I have just one good friend, we pretty much meet and go out for drinks at least once a week. We like the same and look the same almost so we get on well. We hang with other people but they are not as good friends. Actually yes, I think this might be one of my problems. It feels good the validation you get when making out/sex/etc... with a women, it makes me feel wanted and worth to a degree. Isn't this normal? I mean I like women and I want to be liked back, b…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 01:42 PM
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Regarding your first advice there is one good point, I need to know the things that make me happy. Currently one of the things that I miss most in my life is the lack of interaction with women. Yes I know TRP says women should never be the main goal focus on your life/pussy on a pedestal, but I think only those who have experienced a certain degree of abundance can say so. Your second advice, seems like that was your rock bottom point, where everything went up from there. I ask myself when I am …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 08:55 PM
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He's rich also and status. The thing is that I've never had many girls in my life, so whenever I get some action I just get so emotionally invested seems like. I keep it OK on the outwards (I dont act needy and shit) but inside I'm fucked. I have to finish now NMMNG and I can read the sidebar again and The Rational Male. I will never have self-esteem, I've been already lifting for years and I'm on steroids, I get the typical conversation starters from guys 'nice physique' and shit but it hasn't …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 08:30 PM
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I can't guys. I can't. Only if you took 10 minutes to go through my post history you'd see how low my self-esteem and worth are. I've been doing well, I have been getting some female action even, and even that is a problem. As soon as I'm done with the girl (not necessarily fucking, just making out or fingering) my first question is Why me? I am un ugly bald cunt, I see a lot of guys more attractive than me on the streets. Did she even want or just was drunk/felt bad for me? I can't understand w…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 04:32 PM
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As long as it doesn’t look fake go for it I’d say, I use tanning beds cuz I’m bald and I’d look like a cancer patient otherwise
/r/askTRP04/11/17 06:38 AM
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As someone who’s about to put 50% of my savings into btc and etherum tomorrow, can you elaborate?
/r/askTRP26/10/17 12:42 PM
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While I agree with your message the problem is that some of us get, close to 0 women. It is hard as a man to get barely any sex, or attraction from the opposite sex. Because as true as women should not be a priority in life they have somewhat to still be there. What does a man need to do, when he has a mission already but still not happy? Is he looking in the wrong direction?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 09:06 PM
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And what do I do to be simply happy then OP? I already lift, go out every fucking weekend, have a decent job to maintain myself, hobbies, money but why am I asking myself every morning why am I still alive? Who do I have to address to be happy? Some trp guru who charges me 100$/hour? I’ve reached a point where I simply don’t want to be happy, just don’t feel like shit 24/7. Also /drunk
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 11:55 PM
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And what do I do to be simply happy then OP? I already lift, go out every fucking weekend, have a decent job to maintain myself, hobbies, money but why am I asking myself every morning why am I still alive? Who do I have to address to be happy? Some trp guru who charges me 100$/hour? I’ve reached a point where I simply don’t want to be happy, just don’t feel like shit 24/7. Also /drunk
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 11:55 PM
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That feel when on synthetic test and estrogen on check and still depresses as fuck
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 07:59 PM
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You should really stick to those guys and keep them around, some of us are also depressed and don't have anyone. They offered themselves already so don't hesitate talking to them, they shall be a reason for you to be strong and happy.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 01:01 PM
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Yes and no. Do we agree that a byproduct of TRP/your mission at the end of the day is making easier to get women attracted? While I agree mostly with your message, when a men has been heavily implied in his mission and no results come. Going consistently to the gym, having a good work in another country, dieiting, taking care of one self... Has brought 0 improvement to me in my life regarding specific fields I've seen constantly repeated on TRP would make things better.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 06:42 PM
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I'm kind of not in the same wave regarding this topic of lifting and trp. I have lifted almost everyday since the last 4 years, I even take enhancing drugs to have a perform better ( I accept all of the consequences such as infertility, shorting life span, heart enlargement). But yet I fail to see any red pill benefit that lifting has brought to my life.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 08:58 PM
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Hey it's nice to read your history, you're a in the good path. The difference is that you've had abundance before another women, I haven't. All those feelings of happiness and pleasure are exclusively linked to her. I can't get abundance in my life, trust me. I also go to the gym x6 a week, and x1 to football training, and working 8h a day but she still gets through my thoughts, it's so fucking exhausting and annoying that sometimes I wish I hadn't live what was one of the best three weeks of my…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 08:16 PM
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Hey man, I'm asking you for help, going through a very shitty situation right now. I am writing to you because I have been struggling for longer than a month regarding a woman, and after reading the article ‘How to not become emotionally invested in women’ (https://www.woujo.com/blog/2017/4/11/how-to-not-become-emotionally-invested-in-women) made me feel so identified to the issue, I recommend it. This will be a long write, you are probably a busy man, but I’d please ask you to stick around a wh…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 04:57 PM
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It is fucking hard, no much how matter you can read in here and think you know, until you experience some of the things written in the sub/side bar you won't realize. I am struggling with a little of oneitis, I've read about it, I know what causes it and the solutions. I'm working on it, but meanwhile sometimes my blue pill side takes the power. I think that you might be in the same boat of taking too much time thinking of a single women, hence you must also know the solution to that: She's not …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 07:19 PM
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Thanks for answering. Quick bio: 24 y.o, have a decent job to a new country where I moved two weeks ago (I don't know anyone or speak the local language), but I didn't go out a lot either on my hometown. Tried to go out on faebook meetings for 'english speakers' in this country but it's like it's not my type of people. My day to day is work, gym, read a book, a little of reddit and sleep. Been depressed, selfesteem issues since a lot of time. Sometimes I see how long I've been depressed/not livi…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 07:57 PM
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Depressed as well, At least you manage somehow to get laid, manage to go out and have a group of bros. I never managed to get any of this,and at my age/situation I don't think I will. Glad to see at least you're somehow getting out.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 07:35 PM
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Isn't this one of the principles named in NMMNG? The concept of abundance in this context is hard for me to grasp, maybe because english is not my first language, mind explaining?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 08:12 PM
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This week has been a wreck, moved to a new country two weeks ago without knowing anyone, talking the local language but at least I had flat and a job. Positivie: Still hitting the gym as planned. Pretty loyal to the diet. Went to a facebook group meeting with english speakers although I wouldn't bond with 99% of the people in there I at least tried. Negative: Oneitis, which was almost fine, got worse. Generally depressed because of first reason, sometimes I feel just like packing my stuff and go…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 08:39 PM
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I did, same case as you (Engineer) two weeks ago. Second day colleagues of work invited me to a birthday from a guy in the office. First weekend colleagues invited me to a festival. Signed up in a gym (I don't talk to anyone in there,just train). Maybe a martial art club would have been better. This weekend(yesterday) I went to a meeting for English speaking people in the city from fb. Those is what happened so far, but looking for input as well.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 11:48 AM
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Yes I do, it makes going through the book slowlier but you grasp the concepts better imo
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:01 AM
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I feel you man, going through something similar, but I don't have any plates or bang any girls, you have abundance at least. I always catch myself thinking about her, and I see those thoughts made me depressed and anxious, also in a new country I don't know anyone or speak the local language. A few thoughts: You have oneitis She is not yours, it's just your turn Try to take those thoughts in time and kick them out your mind You are letting your happiness rely on someone else, bad For the good an…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 10:58 AM
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Sorry I'm late.. this week has been a mess, moved to this new country and all my mental balance has gone to shit... Negative will be much than positive this week, if anyone has the time to talk a little it'd be appreciated. Positive: Already went into the gym the second day of landing in here The job, so far, is fine (people, stuff I will be doing). Negative: I can't control it... The girl keeps getting into my mind without me taking care, and creates moments of anxiety/depression, I had it almo…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 09:11 PM
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I havent ever read anything about anti-seducers around this sub, rather than google is there any content around this sub?
/r/askTRP27/08/17 09:08 PM
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Yeah growing a beard, full one. Go to the barber once a week to keep it clean, I have a tan already and have and few badass tattoos (not because I'm bald, I'd have them anyways). Still I can't see myself on pics or mirrors, I see myself deformed. Been getting girls no prob this summer, and I can't understand why any women would want to do anything with me and obviously won't ask directly. It's fucked up I just want to be phisically happy with myself ( I am with my body just the balding).
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 05:25 PM
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Good Keeping up with the habit of reading + taking notes to retain info. Oneitis has helped me trying to control more the negative/unwanted thoughts that go through my mind. Been more social, going to events, talking to people. Motivated to go to this new country where I don't know anyone and start the new job. Bad Have very bad self-image/esteem issues (balding and shaved head at young age), cant see myself in pics or mirrors, I even feel like I look like a different person, makes me wonder why…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 09:40 PM
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Being bald makes you ugly and not attractive 99.99% of the times. Minoxidil won't do miracles, neither finastride or hair transplants.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 12:24 PM
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100% this, as much as doing exercise is usually a good thing overall I think the trp uses as pretty much a solution to everything and the answer to a lot of problems is just "lift". I lift and look pretty fit: abs, delta popping out, cheat striations... yet being bald has ruined my self esteem/ self image. I can't see myself in the mirror or pictures, it sux.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 12:10 PM
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From my own experience I shared, among other females, a flat with a girl. She was hot as fuck and a true bro, constantly inviting their females friends we'd go out party with to come sleepover. Fucked one of her friends during three weeks and made out with few others. The drama part was real(with the other girls in the flat) and the fucking hair in the shower. I think this is the only girl I would really consider her to be like a bro.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 05:58 PM
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What do we have to say here? Probably all of those chads who make you feel inferior started at the same place as you. Regardless you are there to be out of your comfort zone and prove yourself you're able to do stuff, so fuck whatever anyone else thinks, keep going and you'll get there.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 05:30 AM
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Reading it as well, taking notes and doing all the break free activities in an online forum. I'm on page 50 only, taking notes and reading slow takes time, and as much as I can identify on some points listed in the book I feel I haven't given any tools to change it (still considering I'm on page 50).
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 04:49 PM
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Yes but I needed the caffeine boost in order to perform in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 02:45 PM
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Yes I know this sustained lifestyle would have been bad. But it was partially good, it kept my mind busy from my depressive thoughts. Sometimes, I was so busy during all the day that I almost forgot about my depression, but it was still there. I am now trying to fight my depression, but I would like still to wake up early in the morning and get stuff done, sleeping more hours as well.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 02:38 PM
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During this last entire year I was also waking up at 5 AM in order to train before work (8 AM). The only bad thing I did was to sleep just 5h, because I got home at 11:00 PM, eat+clothes for tomorrow, etc made me go to sleep at 12:00. This year has been though, but I gained one year of experience in a reputable company while getting my master degree and probably being in the best shape of my life. Now I have a very good offer because of my Masters in another country where I want to keep this rou…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 11:41 AM
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Yes my main problem is mood and mindset, I always have that serial killer face so have to work on smiling more as well. Regarding oneitis.... But you have other options? I don't have many options, I still don't understand how this girl chosen to be with me so long. If you have more options go fuck other girls, keep the gym, read stuff that can help you and have a mission in life that's not women. I should apply those things to myself too, good luck fellah.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 05:59 PM
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Positive: This three weeks been amazing with a girl, I felt loved and had good sex. Leaving to a new country for a job next week, know 0 people, kind of scared but it's something I have to do. Took the habit of reading again. Started to control the negative thoughts that go through my head and trying to analyzse them. Negative: Kind of developed oneitis into the girl of those three weeks. Haven't been consistent on gym and diet. Spent more cash going out/eating outside. Oneitis made me realize I…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 03:19 PM
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I know the thing is I can't have abundance. I know I'm kind of developing oneitis, I read about it a lot but never experiencied it, two different things. For the first time in my life I had this woman around 3 weeks taking care of me, having sex, I felt loved. We were on the beach after javi had sex, showered together and for once I felt like I was happy, I had a woman around I liked, a job that allows me to have hobbies, and kind of a social circle. Now this social circle is gone (it was mostly…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 11:27 AM
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I can't seem to ever be happy. Moving to a new country soon where my salary will be much higher, I will learn a new language and gain international experience , but still sad that I'm leaving all my city and stuff in here. Is it worth? Had an amazing three weeks with this chick, she took care of me, did a lot of stuff together , had sex on the beach and regularly... but she left to her county and have kind of oneitis, I catch myself thinking about her unconsciously. Why can't I just be happy tha…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 06:29 AM
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I know, it's like my mind is always trying to see just the negative things. Have had this threee amazing weeks with a girl of doing funny stuff, sex, having a good time overall. She had to go back to her country few days ago, and guess what? Back to my empty life of gym and my room at home. I need to read more and meditate. Why can't I just be glad that I had the chance to experience it at least? Yes I know I was developing kind of oneitis and this is also happening because the lack of my abunda…
/r/askTRP10/08/17 08:01 AM
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Been depressed for a while as well(years) and it's fucked up. The worse you can do is isolate yourself , when you go back home and stay until late at night. Have order in your life, try to wake up everyday at the same time and keep a routine where you are all the time busy. Read, meditate, train, volunteer for something, socialize, meditate... Also if you could try to build a social group, they will always be doing stuff you could join to do or help you out somehow. Understand that you won't be …
/r/askTRP10/08/17 07:25 AM
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View yourself as a valuable man. Because you have value, you can share your value with others. You are the man that validates others, you do not seek their validation. Your validation comes from yourself. I guess you're right, years of low self-esteem has lead me to some bad thought patterns. The social thing was very hard for me. It was weird and well outside my norm. I was worried that I was going to fuck up and look stupid and also that I would be bothering other people. I had to push myself …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 08:01 PM
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Thanks for answering man going through a hard time with this anxiety, its ridiculous. I get it. I was in a bad spot and it sucked. That was my empathy, now I'm going to tell your self limiting beliefs to fuck right off. Choose the life you want and make it. I'm gonna have to shave my head soon. I'm going thin on top and I'm rocking a short spiky look with a fade. Within the year I'll get to the point where I say f this and shave it. If you have the bald on top thing with hair around the sides an…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 09:57 AM
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It is hard for me man. I have low self-esteem(I'm bald, and even if I have a good body from the gym it doesn't compensate imo) and I lack of ways of meeting women (no social group to go out at nights, and can't cold approach). I have a lot of work to do this August I guess, if you can point me to good directions is appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 08:45 PM
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Very powerfull message, could have written better though. I thought i was red pilled, but I just realized this week I almost get Oneitis from ONS if I like the girl, I start day dreaming without even realizing. As you say, even if you know the rules sometimes its easy to ignore them. What do you mean by hot&cold and theme when you list those points though? Thanks
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 06:06 PM
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Big truth in here. I've been reading for a while already, sidebar, Rollos books... It was incredible to me to find out how my brain is hard wired to think BP. I made out with a girl, this last two days I have been crazy anxiety of what to say, act to try and hook up again as she is leaving soon to her country, or what could have I done with her that I didn't. I can't even realize myself entering those thoughts, I just find out after a while that I'm thinking. I know this is mostly because a lack…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 04:56 PM
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The good Managed to hook up with two girls this week, one from work (dont shit where you eat) and one friend of a female flat mate. I used to get almost no attention so I should be happy. The bad Related to the 'good' point I find myself thinking about the last girl I hooked up, 'daydreaming' of what could have I done more, what to do/behave/say when I see her again to hook up again... It has been creating me some serious anxiety. I know, she's not yours its just your turn, but still the lack of…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 02:50 PM
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Thanks for answering, any comment is helping a lot. Luck has little to do with women , they're emotional so they >aren't always easy to predict but I can break down little of success with women to luck even if I didn't know that what I was doing was the right move at the time . Secondly why are your social skills so poor ? Do you have a decent social circle , are you attached to a group of people you can practice chatting with ? I kind of agree with you, that sometimes is just being in the right…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 08:58 PM
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Told them I'm leaving, the director told me I'm very important to them and to tell him what I need, that given the situation I might even get the promotion I got lied about. Arrived to this point though, I don't know if it's worth for me to stay in the workplace for possible trying to fuck me over still. Any thoughts?
/r/askTRP18/07/17 11:35 AM
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Thing is as a big company, they have hundreds of people ready to join. Luckily enough I'm the only one in my department who has been using and developing the tool they are bidding for, so I don't know. I'd rather keep the bridges opened, I'd just say im decieved and actively look for another chance, once I have it, bye.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 08:10 PM
2

Right I was just so pissed, calming down thank god I posted here before
/r/askTRP16/07/17 07:04 PM
1

I had heard of this sub but never personally went there, appreciated
/r/askTRP16/07/17 07:02 PM
2

I know man, that's the thing that pisses me most , I guess the I'll just transmit that to the meeting, that I'm deceived of the situation and I don't think they ar are being fully honest.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 07:01 PM
1

This is a thing I would like to do, you've provided a lot of information already but I'd like to to drop you a PM asking for more details.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 04:52 PM
1

The thing is in this such kind of Big corps all of the stuff, as the raises, have to go through a lot of people to get accepted. There is several people above my boss, and because monetary reasons I believe, my raise was declined even though my boss has been promising it for a while.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 01:04 PM
6

This sounds great. I will just tell them that I'm just deceived , not that I'm leaving, as I already set up the meeting.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 01:03 PM
7

Thanks for the answer, I would like if you can explain the dust off your resume and make your own promotion a ltitle more in detail, English isn't my first language. Shall I tell them tomorrow I'm leaving then? A part of me wants to do it so bad, but feels like I'm acting just because the sake of revenge, which isn't a good thing.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 12:56 PM
27

I have an interview this next week with a company that is wiling to fly me to their country, finding a new job is no problem for me.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 12:54 PM
6

As a young bald men I'm not considered to the opposite sex either, life is cruel sometimes and you can't negotiate desire, to some it's having hair in their head, for women is getting close to 30
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 12:31 PM
1

Wake up everyday to hit the gym at 5 am, work from 8 am to 6 pm, getting MY masters degree from 7 pm to 22 pm, leaving me at 5 h of sleep a day. Potentially shorting my life span by using steroids to enhance gym performance. I follow a diet as well, I eat everyday the same but one cheat meal a week. I try to put hours into gym, work and studies. Results? 0. My conclusion is that life isn't fair, putting more effort or time doesn't have to always mean you will get better results. Problem is when …
/r/askTRP14/07/17 05:50 AM
1

I shave ed after the gym shower
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 07:33 PM
1

That's nice and I wish it didn't stop me, I guess we are not all given the same cards in this life. I am a very hard working person(Gym and work related) but I've never have found the key to overcome what it means to be bald to women( I completely understand they aren't attracted to me, not bitter at them lol) also it's important how young you were when you started shaving
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 07:32 PM
0

Not really, being bald is one of the worse thing that can happen to a men regarding phisically appearance. Makes any other effort in order to improve your sexual appeal useless, and on today's times physical attraction is the number one factor other than status and money.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:53 PM
1

Lmao was going to ask how well you were doing with women being bald, but saw the SMP at the end, I guess being bald it's better to give up on women Edit: also went through your history posts lol
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:41 PM
1

I feel like no men can fully go MGTOW, it goes against their nature. Also having the testosterone levels of a fucking horse doesn't help as I want to fuck anything that moves, sadly, I'm genetically out of the pool
/r/askTRP04/07/17 06:14 AM
1

Can relate pretty much to you, there are though two big differences: First, I can't be angry at women for not liking me. Myself, the person who I will spend more time in my life, can't even look straight into the mirror while doing simple stuff such as brushing my teeth because of how disgusting I am. Second, I am bald. You should be glad that you are short, there will be always shorter women. Guess what there are no bald women. I tried all of what the trp advocates: I lift (if u go through my p…
/r/askTRP03/07/17 09:09 PM
2

It's their nature, you can't really be angry at them, you might be angry to the society that has led you to believe they weren't as they are.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 05:51 AM
1

A minor risk? Spending a good amount of cash to have to take pills that cause depression, gynecomadtia,ed and as soon your stop taking them your hair falls out again? Trust me if there was a solution no one would be bald, no one is bald by choice. There's a big industry regarding hair loss and if you trust the first ten results of whatever you look for google and base your opinions on that you are going to hve a bad time
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:20 PM
2

How come this place is becoming more and more like seduction suberdfit and kind of 'confidence is key ' crap? I thought here in trp people would have no problem being honest and clear, being bald can also be seen as a hard pill to swallow. OP SMV is more and more based on looks nowadays for men too, by being bald your SMV is low, and you can't change it. Don't expect much success with women, specially young, and try to find your happiness from somewhere else.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:08 PM
1

There is no definitive solution to balding, do your research and find out that HT aren't always successful, leave a big visible scar and force you to be hooked up to pills that can cause gyno or ed
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:55 PM
2

What fuckkng world do you live in? As /u/exit_sandman said, by being bald you are missing big portion of the girl pool you'd love to fuck. The 'just be confident, just own it' advices died a long time ago, just stop making fool out of yourself. To be bald is to be dead in the SMP until your 30+. All we will have are the leftovers of hitting the wall bitches. We are arriving at a point where the three vertex of the triangle looks, status and game don't weight the same anymore, women are allowed t…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:51 PM
4

This is not true, you are telling a fairys tale. Being bald does matter, a different thing is how you let it affect you. You can own it, shave it but as well as the guy above said that not having a gut at his age puts him in the top, being bald and under 30 does the opposite. Putting super stars examples doesn't help either, the average bald guy can't compare to those. Being bald does matter, a lot, and you have to accept that the amount and quality of women will be affected by it. Take all of t…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:09 AM
1

You are now tied to her, the competence of you leaving for other women has completely disappeared. Having a kid makes just everything easier for her in case the relationship goes wrong, you are now under his rules and she can treat you as she pleases
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:54 AM
1

Yes I guess you are right, I just rang to make the most out of moving out of home and starting to live with people of my age, just afraid that socially it will be the same than living at home.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 04:16 PM
1

You are absolutely right on the second paragraph, any tips where I should start heading in order of making the most out of moving out of home and live with girls and boys of my age?
/r/askTRP06/06/17 04:15 PM
1

I am bald. Yes I shave ed, yes I have a beard which I trim weekly of twice a week. https://anonimage.net/view/WROHBM02V6
/r/askTRP04/06/17 12:48 AM
2

That feel when shredded but still 0 attention
/r/askTRP03/06/17 08:20 PM
3

Honestly lots of doctors will avoid getting men on TRT. If I'm not mistaken in U.K. Steroids possession is legal, distribution isn't. You get me
/r/askTRP30/05/17 10:18 PM
1

Life is brutal. Attraction cannot be negotiated, we live in times where physical appearance is 99,99% until you become 35+. The only OP can do is become stronger from this, because of something that is out of his control and can't change he's not attractive to a type of women he finds attractive.
/r/seduction28/05/17 06:16 PM
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Lol I don't think they were being racist
/r/seduction28/05/17 04:41 PM
1

I can't, I couldn't even try to be sexual with a women unless we had talked on some meeting up directly to fuck. I can't even see myself in the mirror, the idea of trying to hit on women and see their disgust kind of terrifies me that it will confirm what I already know, my SMV is -10. Internally I still have some hope that In going to make it, but I don't think it will unless a miracle solution for hair growth is found.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 07:47 PM
15

Grass is always greener on the other side, most of those bored housewives would be complaining of how stressful are their new jobs within a week.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 03:21 PM
1

Actually he is right in some points, I don't ever get rejected because I don't ever approach. But then again this is because of how women interact with me when in wearing a cap or not.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 03:08 PM
2

You are right, but I've never blamed women, I actually stated that desire cannot be negotiated, not her fault. Already read the rational male, starting no more mr nice guy and I've lifted for a while https://anonimage.net/view/WROHBM02V6 . The difference of how simply women look at me when wearing a cap or not is mind blowing. I feel that most of trp principles don't apply to me, but you are right in 99% of what you said, I can't deny it other that balding is not the problem and I blame women.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 02:38 PM
1

Hard to maintain and hair might end up falling anyways, leaving a scar in the back of your head. There is no effective cure for balding yet, otherwise trust me, you'd see 0 bald people over the age of 40 on this world
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 04:57 AM
2

Thanks for your post. I'm already on synthetic testosterone, I'm bald and I don't mind the long term sides as I don't want to live long anyways. The problem is how long to wait? I put so much effort following a diet, going to the gym taking care of myself. Then I guess I still have 15+ years of feeling like a shit
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 04:54 AM
1

At their 30s? When women's sexual peak is going downhill and they are looking more for a provider and my SMV regarding wealth and job opportunities is going up? No thanks. Also being muscular at 30 is hard, testosterone natural levels start going down. I'm muscular already ATM and makes no difference.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 11:36 PM
1

Its not directly being bald what makes people depressed, its what carries. Pretty much same can happen with indians. If you want to compare it with women you could imagine fatties, only difference is that they are just fat because being fucking lazy, something they cant change. I know what wanting to kill yourself means, and I'm glad that it is a part of your past now, but if the root of the problems are unchangeable going to a psychologist doesnt help.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 10:20 PM
1

Yeah is it that bad. Then what you are telling me that while women are most sexually active and also attractive I am being ignored becacuse the lack of hair on my head, something I haven't chosen or can fight against. I'm the most chadish a bald men can be, trust me and still it comes back to the point that nothing can make up for balding. But as mentioned first, attraction can not be negotiated, being bald means no attraction/intimacy/etc, and to a young men trust me, that is a harder pill to s…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 10:16 PM
3

Not saying my life is over but as the other guy who replied, being deprived of intimacy, and the things I mentioned will end up fucking you up mentally if they are persistent during a lot of time. Regarding the being 'bold', I don't know if you miss typed bald or you really want to play the 'be bold not bald', 'just own it', 'be confident' because that kind of shit doesn't work in real life. Regardless, if you knew the struggle of the situation I first mentioned being sarcastic would be the last…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 09:57 PM
2

You said his winter, imagine 20+ years of your life like this, the effect it could have on one's self-worth, self-esteem and mental health overall. The incapacity to connect with some one, feel desired or worth, seeing almost everyone enjoying their youth and life. This is where me and some other men are because something that is completely out of our hands, in my case balding.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 08:21 PM
2

You shouldn't be sarcastic about situation at all. There are some physical features that will make you instantly a not attractive men to most of the women. While regarding of how you are physically self improvement is always the path to go, men who fall into that category usually get frustrated by the lack( or completely in existence) of sexual progress thos efforts where expected to produce. I'm a 20s young bald men, I have shit going on my life (studying and working), hit the gym, shave ed and…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 04:30 PM
3

Holy duck man this is the second time I reply to your post but I can relate so much things like brushing teeth and not being able to look straight into the mirror. Going into an elevator and have to avoid looking straight because it's ducking mirrors everywhere, buying clothes and can't look how they fit because I can't see myself in a mirror, seeing myself by accident (any window reflection or shit) and get a sudden feeling of disgust I can't express. Every ducking day when I wake up I ask myse…
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:23 AM
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Lmao so many feels that's even funny haha. I can't even look myself in the mirror because how disgusting I am because of my looks
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:16 AM
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Not true imo, I fit perfectly the first things you called. I lift and look good phisically, but nothing compensates balding. And yes I shave ed have beard im tanned and all the crap you give to the typical bald dude. The interactions I have with girls when wearing a cap on are day and night.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 03:12 PM
3

Well I'm a negative result of TRT I guess, my depression has kept increasing, dysmorphia got worse. I'm on 250mg / week ugl, have had bloods several times and e2 in check. TRT can solve your problems if low T is the direct cause of it, otherwise not.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 08:30 PM
0

I agree on your first point but even if I look better I will never be happy of how I look. Into my eyes I see that I never make any progress while others in the gym do, and taking pictures of myself to see the progress is out of the question as mentioned on the main post. I don't the will to find any hobby, I simply don't care anymore. I don't even want to be happy, I just want to find peace with my mind. Also I barely have any free time with all the work and studying, getting to sleep 5 h a day…
/r/askTRP07/05/17 09:07 PM
1

Dude is completely right. Some ppl enjoys eating pasta, some don't, as well as some enjoy living other not. It might be because of something is out of his control, genetically or experiences he has been through that he doesn't enjoy the experience of living he has been given. When the state of op prolongs for too long, death is not a scary thing but a relief. I don't want op to kill himself, but if after a prolonged and meditated amount of time a person has decided to 'stop living', who are we t…
/r/askTRP05/05/17 01:26 PM
3

I guess I can relate how you feel, asking myself why I'm still fucking alive is the first thing crosses my mind the very first second I wake up. Feeling you are not worth anything or anyone during extended periods of time leads to this I believe. Id tell you suicide is never the solution, but as someone who contemplates it daily I just wish you a happy life, whatever you have left.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:37 PM
1

You don't really need pics, not attacking OP but if he really has done 1000 approaches and just got a few fatties he doesn't even like it's pretty clear what his SMV is purely based on his physique.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 07:43 AM
1

I feel you, all of the things you listed being bald is enough. Anyways I don't want to start a discussion on whether what's better or worse. How bad are you obsessing over not getting any women you like? It's fucking hard to be limited to such a small pool of women even though you are spending your time at the gym and putting effort into looking good , the best you can get is whales. I'm in the very same boat as you, people in here will still tell you to lift or thAt it must be something else, b…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 02:31 PM
-1

Zero benefits from me, having a great body doesn't outweight being bald
/r/askTRP23/04/17 02:31 PM
2

This guy is right. 5'10 white male who goes to the gym, looks like he lift in clothes, shaves ed, has a beard and pretty much any advice you can give him. 0 results with females because I'm bald, as he says not like telling you to give up, but don't expect any results from your efforts regarding the opposite sex.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 10:07 PM
1

Not being satisfied with your achievements is partially good, you might want to look where you were q few years ago. My fucking unhappiness comes from a physical issue. I would only stop hating myself if I wasn't bald, which will never happen.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 05:13 PM
0

During weekdays , besides Friday, I have 0 free time between work and then class. Sometimes after class I go eat with a classmate, nobody joins us(we finish by 10pm) and then home. Friday afternoon after work I go help my dads business and end around 9pm, I'm destroyed from sleeping 6h a day so I get to bed asap. Saturday morning I go back help my dad + gym to end by 3 pm, eat and by 5 pm leave home to usually do smth with my family(walk, go to mall) as my mother wants to spend sometime with me,…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 10:17 PM
-1

I take steroids usually TRT and blast sometimes, I don't plan to PCT ever, I don't plan on having kids, I'm bald already and Indont mind dieing before my 30s
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 07:22 PM
2

It's hard at the begging to me, then I simply get used to being hungry. For the exhaustion wall caffeine is my best friend.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 07:14 PM
1

Sent
/r/askTRP17/04/17 07:09 PM
1

I don't ever take pics of myself other than needed for id or once that I tried to open a dating profile lol where all my pics were angled to hide my bald head lol, will find and get back to you.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 02:00 PM
-1

Not sure if srs lol
/r/askTRP17/04/17 01:58 PM
1

There is a still big difference between shaving while balding and not. Even if freshly shaved you can still see the small dots of your hair that mark your hairline, which still is acceptable for women standards if you are not balding but shave. Idk everyone knows bald ppl doing fine but me apparently, thanks for the feedback tho.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 07:51 AM
-6

Man I'm ripped, have a six pack and I still get 0 to no attention. Being bald is a game killer, no amount of muscles makes up for it.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 07:13 AM
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Welcome to the club of the baldies; ppl will tell you to own it, get in shape, grow a beard, shave it, and that there are plenty of women who dig the bald look. Fucking bullshit. As a bald men you are screwed, your baldness is nothing but a filter for women to disqualify you as potential intimacy holder. You have to, if it's possible, go against your biological instincts of fucking anything that moves and learn to find your happiness from other sources, you might as well cut your dick off direct…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 06:09 AM
1

I haven't found those girls yet then. I can see an entire different world regarding how women interaction go whether if I'm wearing a cap or not, so I guess that's the deal breaker.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 07:42 PM
1

Is it posible then to never look good enough? Or not compensate by our gym bodies?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 12:43 PM
-1

Depending if I'm bulking, guessing you mean the max, I can max bench around 120kg, 180 squat and ohp easily around 30kg dumells.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 12:41 PM
1

Those numbers are stupid, so many factors to take into account than just that in order to hipertrophy the muscle lol
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 12:17 PM
5

Don't trust what ppl tells you lol, if you were hot enough you'd get girls regardless how retarded you might be. You are not entitled to shit in this life, keep playing ur fucking victim mentality to justify you are not where you want to be because you are a fucking coward, i do the same
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 09:51 AM
2

Go find a vet school usually it's full of girls there and I'm sure you can find some to talk about tigers, also it's about listening more than talking to women. The very few dates I've had I just had to listen and make a question regarding something she said last and the bitch could be talking another 5 minutes. How hot are you? You deserve hot women? Regardless of that when looking for a flat last month I visited one who were 2 girls and a boy, both girls 6-7. They said that with every season, …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 08:06 AM
1

Go find a vet school usually it's full of girls there and I'm sure you can find some to talk about tigers, also it's about listening more than talking to women. The very few dates I've had I just had to listen and make a question regarding something she said last and the bitch could be talking another 5 minutes. How hot are you? You deserve hot women? Regardless of that when looking for a flat last month I visited one who were 2 girls and a boy, both girls 6-7. They said that with every season, …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 08:06 AM
2

I just saw your thread mainly so focused on female attention rather than the points you mention now. The thing is, even with the points you mention now, every male that goes to the gym expects at least some kind of attention from females as a result of his effort. The stats I mentioned are not hard to reach, but not getting any kind of benefits from it kinda makes you wonder why the effort. Overall I agree with you, either go lift or some kind of sport to keep you fit. I guess I just wanted to p…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 07:54 AM
0

Doesn't work with all the stereotypes, just saying I've been around 5'10 around 175 lbs and below 10% gone to the beach shirtless etc and yet to get any girl attention.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 07:21 AM
1

Nah I jack off once a week and sometimes not even to porn
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 07:52 PM
10

I'm really trying to follow your point but I fail to. First you say something about animals and that girls won't like you(which is bullshit) then again the same about got(there are plenty of girls who follow it). You are just making fucking excuses like I do, mine is that I'm bald
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 03:32 PM
-4

Everything when abused is bad. As well as for some men quitting pornography would help them to reach real sex, to some is actually the last resort. To me get real sex is almost impossible, being bald white and young, and I don't have much free time between work and studying. So porn is nothing but the best I can get to real sex given the actual times and sexual revolution we have experienced within the last decades.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 10:26 AM
3

Can't fucking stand fat ppl, they are fucking lazy. Overall all they have to do is fucking eat right or exercise more, which I find the last one to be fun. I wish fixing baldness would me something as easy as not being fat
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 07:57 AM
7

Be fucking glad that you gotten where you got. I won't lie to you, probably it will be a big downer to most of the women but deal with the cards you have been dealt. Now imagine those who have been born with a crippled since the first day, or those whose ethnicity are seen as less attractive (Indians lol) or those young men that go bald in their early 20s. They might experience what you are now but missing much more opportunities, women are fucking evil when picking up who to mate with. At the e…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 07:52 AM
1

Lately there been a lot of mixup of what trp is since the movie named under the same name got released, trp and mra might have common goals but ultimately they are different things. Usually is recommended around here not even try to change our closest friends behaviors that seem so incoherent under our red pill lense. As stated before some men protect a 'system' that is so unbeneficial for them as their life was on it. Experiences? Seeing your main concern was regarding getting laid for example …
/r/askTRP14/04/17 07:26 PM
1

Neither did I say it. My point it is hard to define what Alpha is, it may change from individual to individual, one of the most common factors I see is simply a man who's free to do what he wants when he wants without caring what others think.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 07:18 PM
1

Deleting Tinder and telling you was just a shit test, idk why would you feel bad for spinning plates. At the end of the day if a plate is making you feel bad just drop it and let a new one take its place.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 06:41 PM
1

Her friend was right, you were too clingy. Doing so much such as traveling 10h, trips for a women who didn't even go down on you in order to fulfill your sexual needs? It's your fucking fault for not cutting it earlier man, live and learn. At the end of the day you dodged a bullet, you have plenty of time to focus on yourself, go out with friends, talk to other women... because trust me, she wasn't the one, and you are still wasting time thinking about her instead of talking to any random girl w…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 06:37 PM
2

I believe we are fully aware of this, but we don't pretend to change society, we neither think it's possible or good to do so. Partly most of the feminized society's problems are caused by men themselves, whose thinking they benefit from it and defend it as if their life was on it. This is why trp name comes in reference to the matrix movie as there are many similarities. At the end of the day we don't pretend to change the world, simply enjoying the decadence and get the best out of it consider…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 06:30 PM
2

Defining Alpha is a thing we tried for so long, yet never fully agree. We could discuss point by point, how the fuck never smiling is considered alpha? To me the best point listed of defining alpha would be the last one, he seems to be a free man who has the freedom to do what he wants.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 05:17 PM
2

Holy fuck you are the perfect definition of a provider. Are you actually serious not able to see how bad the thing is that you are asking us what should you do? Don't you see that at least you could spend it on a hooker and get actual sex? I mean, if that makes you happy go on but I don't see it as a sustainable source of pleasure and happiness unless you are considerably rich, which still makes it stupid.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 05:12 PM
2

You already got some good answers, but in here we can talk about some problems only men face without any kind of femenine imperative bullshit(false rape accusations, divorces,dating...) I understand your confusion because usually trp is defined as a sexual strategy tho, but I believe at the end of the day is a about men trying to become better and the habilty to talk without any filters or fears. If we ever said in our circle of friends , work etc some of the points we make in here we would be c…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 05:07 PM
3

Your turn is done, time for her to ride other cocks and for you to get new pussies. If you can reach your friends now is a good time to go out, talk to new women just to find out that she was just one more of the women who had the luck to fuck you, after all you are the prize, so keep living an even better life now.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 04:57 PM
2

The fact that you are making up fantasies about what to answer if she ever contacted you back is enough, don't fucking answer anything. She is gone, so am I as you seem to still be pretty blue pilled to accept any advice, bye
/r/askTRP14/04/17 02:53 PM
1

Just making excuses, I don't have any social circle at all, other than a job calls just my mother appears in my phone recent calls, yet it was easy to see your mistakes. You are wasting your time thinking of this women who you kind of rejected already. In your head it's now a battle whether who gives up first and message to the other, while she might be fucking someone else already you are still here seeking for advice. Imo you lack of abundance mentality and kinda have oneitis with this girl. Y…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 11:36 AM
2

You don't care. Start talking to other women, spin plates and develop abundance mentality. Talk to other women. What you comment seems a clear case of oneitis, she was just one more, there is no special one. By wasting your time thinking of her you might lose the chance to meet another women who fucks x10 better, cooks x10 better and can bring more into your life overall. Go out with your group of friends and talk to other women. I read again your post, lots of the stuff could be answered by rea…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 09:26 AM
1

I'm not but sadly I'm bald
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:56 PM
1

It's just a way to escape my depression by having my brain constantly occupied , not enough though and weekends are terrible when I have free time
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:56 PM
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I wake up at 5 am, get to the gym at 6 am to train until 7:30 to shower and work from 8 am to 6 pm. At 7 pm my classes begin until 10 pm. When I get home by 11 pm I must prepare gym bag, meals and clothes leaving me around 5:30 hours of sleep. I still think I'm not doing enough and would like to read a book while I'm on the train going to work and class, instead of reading the sub. How many hours do you sleep everyday? How many hours do you browse the net? How far are you from your goals? How ma…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:09 PM
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This is not a situation I've ever lived or seen from any older friend, so I can't really comment. I'm even surprised you made it so far, to me life is nothing but terrible days or fucking terrible days. The lack of attraction during extended periods really ends up fucking your mind I guess. Questions such as am I even normal? Is it something else I'm not noticing? Is it that bad? Can I overcome whatever is wrong? Is it worth the effort? Feelings of disgust appear daily as I cant see myself on an…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 08:28 PM
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To be bald and around 20-30 then I guess then is the correct sentence. I took the time to go through your history a little, and I see you are a few years ahead of me. Rare must be the case you get to fuck 20 year olds, compared to the people within the same age range. Wondering also which age was the women you had oneitis for, incase she was around your age,I thought it wouldn't matter that much by then. The thing is then, by the age pool you are competing with, being bald is much more acceptabl…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 06:16 PM
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I don't think he is crying, to me he is stating a fact. Look at me, I go to the gym x5, follow a strict diet, work 10h a day in a big reputable corp, getting my master degree as well, leaving me at 5-6h sleep a day. I am improving in lots of areas in my life I have control on, regardless the simple (or not so simple) fact that I shave my head ed because of the lack of hair on my head. As much as I see you mention not only one of the main quotes of self improvement, but also from trp, you seem to…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 10:52 AM
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What /u/blue_dover say is true actually. Looks are important anytime in your life, from your teens to your very last day of life regarding social interactions. The first glance you have with a women could automatically remove all of the chances of having any kind interaction, call it race, height, being bald, etc. Some men fall into those categories where their success ratio with women can't go lower but negative, going against their very instincts of fucking almost anything that moves. Most of …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 10:11 AM
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So what am I(¿we?) supposed to do then? I'm supposed to go "monk mode" during the age range I get to fuck girls in their prime? Where is the recompense and sacrifice of hours in the gym and strict diet? Because yes, going to the gym is mainly to see self improvements from yourself but whoever denies that also is to impress the opposite gender (raise your SMV) is fooling himself. I guess looks are the first gate, then game comes into play, but being bald completely closes the first one, making th…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 09:45 AM
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Because no one can really own being bald, its the equivalent of telling a down syndrome kid to own his condition. I shave my head ed, i grow a beard(tried long one and a trimmed clean cut). I don't know of any successful young bald in my life, regarding women at least. Yes because as much as women shouldn't be the source of your well being, having a lack of validation/intimacy with the opposite sex may lead to several psychological problems. Hell even in this tv program my family watches while I…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 08:02 PM
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I have to disagree with you. From what I've seen during my life, women will prefer a skinny body with pretty face over a shredded body with below avg face. Therefore, as much as women would rather both, facial features win over body ones when having to pick between them. I am shreeded, I have my sixpack almost year round, etc..: But being bald takes all the effort out of the SMV schema, as well as guys who haven't stepped a single time in their lives in a gym but have average facial features (no…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 06:38 PM
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No, read my last 10 posts from y post history.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 04:08 PM
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I don't know if you are trying to rustle people lol, if you are having those thoughts you haven't been around long enough or put on the time to get a decent answer.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 04:06 PM
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A 30 year old women is going to be much closer, if not already from hitting the wall that the girls who are around my age, also during their prime. It is fun then coming into this realization. Because of my genes, some people even with less or none effort will obtain better results as I don't get any actually. So I guess then I just have to be constant, hit the gym, etc.... while people has fun having sex around, seems such an awesome plan. Because at the end of the day the red pill is nothing b…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 01:37 PM
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I thought this thread was about IOIs and how OP justified being fit/six pack would get you eyed and receive IOIs lol
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 01:27 PM
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And how the fuck does personality relate to IOIs lol?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 01:19 PM
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Everyone knows someone who has it bad still manages succeed, everyone but me.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 12:24 PM
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Because it doesn't matter your physique, I could post a pic of my face with a cap onand you'd see I'm pretty normal, obv. won't do it, its just the balding. Bald men, like indians(just pointing to another group of struggle) and stuff shall no expect to obtain any results of the sexual strategy that TRP represents no matter how much of it is applied.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 07:24 AM
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That's not true, I went alone sometimes or friends who get poon, they are simply average facially (the one who gets more is pretty short tbh).
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 07:22 AM
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Yes and no. As much as you can find facially god given men, if they are beta they are beta and will get fucked over eventually. But the other way around, if you aren't average at least, no matter what you do, all of the recompenses that TRP sacrifices bring will never be seen.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 07:21 AM
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FUCKING BULLSHIT This is me last summer, still got 0 IOIs or any kind of interest, six pack and popping veins from lower abs/forearms etc...: https://anonimage.net/view/WROHBM02V6 I'm kind of venting, but TRP only works for people who is average or above average facially, if you are bald like me you are set for life regarding women during their youth/prime.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 09:55 PM
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It sees like OP is still in denial seeing all the answers he's been getting and try to justify 'a break'. You should have ghosted her already. You prolly have had his buddy's sperm in your mouth after she kissed you coming back from bowling.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 03:53 PM
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Actually zero, it makes no diff to me. Got 0 before and 0 still lol
/r/askTRP27/03/17 04:09 AM
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I've a grown beard, I go to the barber every week so it doesnt look messy. I go to the gym x5 ED and I'm on TRT, plus following my diet. I, by no means are close to what I'd consider a physique to be proud of, but I'm above average regarding the people who goes to the gym. I've seen how women look at me when dressing like a what pppl cals a badass(showing tattoos, fit clothes, expensive watch, etc...) with both a cap on and not, and oh boy two different worlds. I'm one of those persons who doesn…
/r/askTRP19/03/17 06:07 PM
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Lmao your thought patterns and mine are identical, you can go trhought my post history and see(hopefully laugh a little too lol). Life doesn't change man, some of us have handled shitty cards, in order to be winners in life there must be loses as well. I've a STEM career as well and about to finish my master in 2 months. I work in a decent big corp. I'm 5'10" balding, have tattoos, take care of myself, teeth are fine, dress fit clothes and all the typical advice you read around here. The last se…
/r/askTRP19/03/17 12:59 PM
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Hello, I'll try to answer some of your points. You are balding and using rogaine, I assume you don't shave? Or you are shaving while using rogaine? The biggest point because I can't apply your example to mine it's because of your age, you are 50, it's more normal to be bald by that age, and probably the girls who smiled at you were older than the ranges I move. I work out x5 and diet, I've a six pack by summer and can get around 8% a few weeks, then maintain at 10( not worth the struggle maintai…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 11:42 AM
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There is nothing that compensates balding, besides being a Hollywood or football star. Trust me I shave ed, grew a beard, gym x5, diet on point, dressing with fit clothes, look into details like wearing a nice watch etc and I can't even fuck a 200 lb Mexican hairy whale
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 10:53 PM
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i look at the mirror and im bald, no cure effective and safe cure for baldness exist yet so i nothing else matters
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 08:22 PM
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More likely like from neither actually
/r/askTRP15/03/17 05:22 PM
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5'10" around 180 lbs now, I get around 7% bf at summer (can post pics), teeth are fine, growing a beard, have a few tattoos (Half sleeve+FEW small pieces), working at a good corp while pursuing my master degree. But I'm bald, kills any of the results those things mentioned up might provide, and yes I fucking shave it everyday.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 10:56 PM
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What am I supposed to do then? Go for the 400lbs whales? Or just give up lol
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 10:33 PM
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I can't even fuck 200lbs whales how much lower I'm supposed to go
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 05:16 PM
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5'10" i grew a beard, hit the gym, diet, have a few tattoos, I want to finish a few tattoos in my leg and will start tanning. Any of my efforts results to any benefit, thinking about quitting everything and just work
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 08:56 AM
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Being bald, don't come up with famous ppl, already lift, etc but being young and bald is to be dead in the sexual market. I guess I can kind of relate to the Indians, due something they didn't chose or decide they became repulsive to women
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 09:53 PM
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Im interested in the answer as I usually get asked why im always angry or tired
/r/askTRP09/03/17 04:31 PM
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/u/avacadotreelmao why would you delete the post? Wanted to read it later today , as I feel I'm a loser in life because I'm bald, not only with women but with everything overall. Being bald has led me to be a person I hate
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:50 PM
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There's been this trend on the steroid words lately that because of jumping back soon after ending a cycle it's better to stay on on a cruise dosage(trt dosage) rather than shutting down the endocrine right after recovering, so ppl blasts(cycle dosages) and cruises (trt) until the next blast. I just cruise for quality of life purposes, so injecting such "a little " amount of synthetic testosterone makes it easy to control the estrogen. Your comment sounds like you are legit trolling lol
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 10:18 PM
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Shave head, grown a beard, go to the gym x5 a week, diet ed, got a few tattos(half sleeve), still nothing
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 05:08 AM
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Am I bald? It's not my fault, and a lot of things regarding women are bad if you are bald.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 09:37 PM
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True, I'm depressed as fuck and on TRT, but I accept all of the consequences of taking steroids as going to the gym is barely the only thing I'm doing in life. If I go almosst ED to the gym, follow a diet, why can't I just take steroids to make the results and time more efficient? Honestly if I ever went to the doctor and he told me to stop the steroids or I'd die, I'd rather keep taking them, living my life as I want and enjoy even if it means living shorter. There is ppl doing cocaine every we…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 06:19 PM
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TRT is not the cure for all of those problems mentioned in tittle, I've been on steroids for a while and still depressed as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 06:17 PM
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You got it wrong buddy, effort doesn't mean always results. You can see someone, take as example the gym, getting x2 results with the half of the effort. Take it with attraction, you can see someone who has been blessed with good genetics get laid more often and barely approaching.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:25 AM
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I think you are just trolling me
/r/seduction01/03/17 01:41 PM
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If all what you say it's true, believing that you have a nice body being athlete and multi millionaire there is something off about you being virgin. By that age women barely care about looks and look for someone who can provide them stability ($$$). I'd perfectly understand if you refuse because you don't want to maintain a women who'd have ignored you a few years ago purely based on your looks, id do the same.
/r/seduction28/02/17 09:14 PM
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Mindset will only change how you see the world, not how the world sees you(at least regarding attraction, what ops complains about). OP if you don't get girls purely because you are not attractive(ugly lol), accept it, find your happiness from other sources. Being a young men it will be hard for you wanting to fuck almost everything that moves and seeing young ppl enjoying fully their youth and sexual life. You only have the right to complain in such a post if you truly put an effort. This comes…
/r/seduction28/02/17 09:06 PM
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at least you're not bald as some of us, your life would be truly shit. If you aren't bald, hit the gym,diet while studying and youll be above avg soon.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:02 PM
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I disagree. All what I write and explain is based on my own experience in life, the things I've observed or lived myself. I appreciate your tips about talking about it with people, already kind of do that. Regarding these sentences you tell me to joke around, the last one, the girl would spit her drink on me or get an utterly disgusting look. Also famous ppl doesn't serve as an example. I've never seen a bald dude making out with a girl in a club, in fact you can feel how depressed they are just…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 04:13 PM
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I disagree. All what I write and explain is based on my own experience in life, the things I've observed or lived myself. I appreciate your tips about talking about it with people, already kind of do that. Regarding these sentences you tell me to joke around, the last one, the girl would spit her drink on me or get an utterly disgusting look. Also famous ppl doesn't serve as an example
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 04:01 PM
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Idk what else do you have going on in your life then. I legit can't create any kind of attraction with any women, no matter how low her SMV is. From my pov being bald makes all my effort of going to the gym, dieting, dressing well or anything useless. I don't approach rl, you can see pretty much when an approach might fail by looking at her eyes, attitude,etc... all of those signals change when I have a cap on. I've managed to pull some online but it's all obviously with studied pics where baldn…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 05:42 PM
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You should be glad you are bald and still getting your dick wet(coming from a bald fella)
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 07:37 PM
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I wake up 5:15 eat dress etc. Arrive to gym 6:30 then work to 18 to start class from 19-22 making ed so i leave at 5:45 and arrive at 22:30 home and carrying gym bag and meals all the fucking day. You've no excuse man, fucking do it
/r/askTRP17/02/17 03:16 PM
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Just came back to seeing a friend who came to town, he came with 3 friends from other country. All tall, hair and thin. That's pretty much what you need to be attractive. They all had already girls lined up to go out tonight. I don't know why I even try and do stuff, naturally I would have said I'm busy when they asked, but I was like be social, skip class and just go. And like every time I go out or to do something social I'm the most inferior in everything around everyone. You could see how ra…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 06:47 PM
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Hey, It's nice that you managed to reach such a numbers being so young, but understand that for hairless or not, you are an exception. Have you ever considered that most of the things such as being liked in your social circle, girls, etc have helped you or are just a direct cause of the life style or status you are living on? Maybe for us, who haven't had this luck things work slightly different. Yes I guess I have a lot of things to learn, but the very basics of trp haven't brought me anywhere …
/r/askTRP15/02/17 05:23 PM
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But isn't trp at the end a sexual strategy? Sad or not a one of the factors that determines the success of a man is both, the amount of quality that women he sleeps with. Living completely disconnected from female attraction or sex is impossible as a men. Putting so much effort to no results is depressing.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 12:12 PM
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No, being bald has an effect in everything you do in life. From personal relations to professional life, career.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 07:44 AM
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Accepting the cards I've been dealt with in this life. As well as trp advice applies to a lot of people, average or higher, to some of us it doesn't. Seeing that the effort doesn't produce any results because of my genetics is frustrating, making me fall into the description of a loser, someone who tries so hard to obtain no results while other people obtains more w/o any effort.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 09:58 PM
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The thing is I make the most and still not win, 0 improvement. Work and study, train, diet aka meal prep leaves me with 6h of sleep a day, I can't do more and my life is the same or worse. I have nothing to be proud of, I'm pretty sure I'm labeled as a loser , who does alll this effort while everyone gets more for less
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:36 PM
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I'll have to read about those stages during this weekend, thanks
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:23 PM
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And what about your success with women? You have a solid social circle of friends?
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:23 PM
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I relate to you man. I wish I fucking get to the rock bottom because I don't know how deeper I can go. Yes I lift, diet, groom, focus on education and my career(working and studying) and yet I still wait for something good happens to me, or I can have or archieve something that I'm proud of. I don't know how worse it can go but my life is a repetition of days were the new one is worse than the last. I dream of going to the bed someday and think "today was fcking awesome" or "I'm really looking f…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:21 PM
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Sometimes wearing a hat, but can't have it all the time on. If you saw how different girls look at me or interact when I'm wearing a cap... it's even more depressing actually to find out how vital hair is. Rogaine, finastRide, etc... are just drugs, they don't solve baldness , there is no real cure yet.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 07:54 AM
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Yes they do. It's weird. It's something it shouldn't be happening, specially at a young age. All of a sudden you are a 1/10 and can't get higher than that. To be young and bald is one, if not the worst thing, that can happen to any young man.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 07:33 AM
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24, pretty fucked up at this age, seeing how I'm missing out and can't do anything about it. All of the efforts such as diet, gym, dressing well are in vain if you are bald.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 07:31 AM
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I shave ed. You think it's self-pity? Everything I say is based on my very own experiences, and if so any good read you can give me or help on how to leave this self pity is welcome.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 09:24 PM
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Only if it looks like he lifts, based on the pics it doesn't. Other than that yes, I agree
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 09:23 PM
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Maybe my beauty standards are messed up, but you have nothing to be attractive: no special eye color, shitty hairstyle, no above average facial features, you don't look like you lift... You are average, which is good already
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 07:47 PM
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There is no solution to being bald. The only solution is to accept it, but by accepting you must accept as well the loss of a lot of things related to women and typical funny experiences from your youth. Not even following trp pillars such as lifting, taking good care of yourself, etc will help you if you are bald, and I'm an example of it. OP most of the problems have easy solutions regarding confidence, fat>gym, short>there will be always shorter girls, teeth/nose>fixable. But if you are bald …
/r/askTRP12/02/17 07:00 PM
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In the same boat + bald, so I usually repulse people. They always say I'm angry or why am I so serious, oh well only if they knew. Lonliness for very extended periods of time can fuck you up bad, so if you ever find a solution let me know
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:27 PM
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You are pretty wrong, too many factors to take in place, but if the kid takes what is considered a cruise dosage(250 mg enath) his levels will get much higher already. But op might also want to know that most likely because of estrogen his growth plates will close and lose 4-5 years of possible height growth. Also dbol will bloat you and look like a balloon most likely. I won't tell you if you should take or not, but by what you are saying you look so uninformed
/r/askTRP06/02/17 10:33 PM
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No I take steroids and I'm the biggest loser you may know. Being ripped isn't everything for attraction, honestly ppl barely gives a fuck Idk if you are trolling
/r/askTRP06/02/17 10:08 PM
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Wake up 5:15 AM:breakfast+getting to the train Arrive gym 6:40 AM: train and shower Start working 8:00 AM to 6:00 PM Take the train to arrive to class at 7:00 PM to 10:00 PM Get home at 10:30 PM eat,sleep, prepare gym bag for tomorrow , read a little to go sleep around 11:30 PM Sleeping less than 6h a day and I still feel I should be doing more things such as reading trp books. Some days after class I go grab a beer with a few classmates which takes 30 min more of sleep
/r/askTRP02/02/17 05:39 PM
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The thing is, I don't know if you are average, above or even bald, but there is nothing that compensates balding. Once you are bald and young, yes even shaving it everyfucking day like me, your SMV is -10. Women don't want you even to talk to them, you are annoying, you dont have hair, its not supposed to happen so early, you are weird. Same boat as op.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:54 PM
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Yellow teeth can be fixed easily at your home, look up at methods for whitening teeth, read a lot so you make sure you don't fuck urs up. Those are nice stats but you dont mention your bf, if <12% you are a fucking monster with a top tier physique. The rest of the things I'm fucked as you and imo there is nothing in this wolrd that compensates balding, so we are fucked. Best thing I can tell you is keep training and focus on making cash. Also check your estrogen
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:52 PM
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Your friends are good, why not try gaming some girls while out with your friends? Or find some friends that enjoy specifically talking to women. So you can actually pull a quality woman instead of some tinder trash. As I said all of I can pull from Tinder its because I can hide my baldness with the pics I've chosen. People probably doesn't want to hit on girls with me because I'm not attractive, the chance of picking up girls in groups are lower and they rather do it with their better looking fr…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 08:46 PM
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You are like me bald ugly and on steroids. I will write later when at home what u can do
/r/askTRP26/01/17 12:22 PM
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Man I wish I was avg lol. Most of the advice given in here only works if average regarding attraction. If you are average you are good to go, you have a lot of people below you, and at the end of the day that's what matters when attracting women. If you are not fat, your teeth are fine, nothing weird in your face, good hairline and fit you are better than a lot of people. I repeat Is trade the rest of the years I've to live just to be average for like 5 and then die.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 10:34 PM
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I dont know how to answer between lines so I will try to answer paragraph by paragraph. Because one weakness is enough to destroy all the strenghts to me, I don't know if you are below average or even bald, if not you may not understsand. I have started to going out more, just a bit but its all males all the time, friends from college, friends from my city and a few from the master. We are all just males and I don't think it really helps me anyhow. We mostly go out eat and have a few drinks but …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 08:20 PM
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I swear I can't attract any women that I remotely like, and trust me all I ask is her not to be fat and have an avg face, don't mind the body too much. I managed to get a few tinder fucks but other than that, other than peeing I don't think my dick will have any use right now, might as well cut it off. And it's frustrating, taking care of myself as I do and see legit 0 results. ¿Do attractive people even have problems? They will always have people around to hang with, feel desired sexually, etc.…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 10:08 PM
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That's it I guess. Should stop completely thinking about women and understand that I'll never be able to get any, no matter how much effort is made. Fcking sux to be young and see how the majority of people of your age can enjoy their youth and experience stuff that you can't simply because something that is out of your control. I guess my best would be to focus on just working and try and avoid thinking about what a ugly piece of shit being bald makes you. Oh well at least I managed to fuck a f…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 05:32 PM
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Hello, How can one own being bald? To me is like saying a kid with Down syndrome to own it, or a cancer patient. I don't like to make excuses but because of job and studying I get to sleep 5h everyday unless weekends, will look into meditation as I'm reading no more mr nice guy already. Also i haven't downvoted you lol.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 05:16 AM
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Hey man, But that's the problem actually, having to go to Thailand to get to fuck many girls and feel like your SMV isn't ducking -100. And yes even if you said the hat thing 'not because you are bald ', you brought this up purely talking about bald. I know I'm not entitled to nothing and if I'm not attractive I am not supposed to get laid, but sometimes it's hard to fight against ones instincts. I've seen how women look at me differently wether I'm wearing a hat or not, but at the end I guess t…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 05:14 AM
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I couldn't agree more with OP. I'm pretty much average on everything, besides having muscle being above average, but I'm balding and I've had to shave my head. The very moment you are bald and young you become a 0 on the sexual market to women. You're like a piece of furinture, you'll be unnoticed unless you get in the middle, that very moment you will start being annoying. And yes I shave ed, hit the gym, diet, have a beard,dress fit clothes, etc..: My only hope is to focus on my job, I've foun…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:59 PM
1

I am glad that you made it, but don't ever give up, keep improving. As some post on the main sub said happiness makes you relax, and relax means advancing slower. Keep it up my man
/r/askTRP19/01/17 09:12 PM
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What can I say... Heard a conversation of two girls the other day in the train, girl A and girl B. Girl B was telling to girl A she went out with another friend, girl C, who even though she has a bf and children, went to sleep to some dudes who met that very same night. I guess now girl B finds it normal and will probably do the same any time.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 08:46 AM
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Zero, I take considerable amounts of synthetic testosterone and I'm a depressed little bitch.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 06:17 AM
1

Tagging the main posters who go against my point to have a healthy discussion /u/the-bum-hammer /u/CDBaller /u/Lice138 /u/TheStumblingWolf /u/MattyAnon. OP I would like to be the first one to tell you that it doesn't matter that much. I put so much effort on my everyday, not only to look good physically, but to grow as a person that I have 6h sleep during working days at most. I have been shaving my head for around 2 years. Even though I had some comments of my hairline receding it never really …
/r/askTRP11/01/17 10:26 PM
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As much as I'd like to disagree with this men he's right. 24 shave it es, have a beard that I trim ed or x2 a week depends on the style, train and diet on point + steroids, dress with fit clothes. 0 attention for any girl ever, balding at a young age is a death sentence to success with women.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 09:32 PM
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In the same boat and interested in answers. Feeling like your SMV is shit purely based on genetics it fucking suck, as it sucks not being able to enjoy your youth without women. I wish I could just be average for a day. Good luck with your answers and stay strong.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 05:22 AM
2

No way to escape this then? I'll have to be alone until and old sloot shows interest on me just because she has had enough dick?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 01:29 PM
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Synthetic testosterone aka steroids
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 01:29 PM
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And how will this end? More males giving up on women and getting addicted to porn to satisfy sexual needs until women hit the wall and decide to give them more attention? If that's the future that is awaiting for me not really looking forward with a lot of happiness lol
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 04:57 AM
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As a male in his mid 20s and being horny 24/7 how is that even possible? I try being busy 24/7 with gym+work+studying to the point where I only get 6h of sleep every day, but I can't deny I think of fucking everyday
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 04:41 AM
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I don't really have had ever any success with women. Just recently managed to fuck a tinder girl and I get so many anxiety of when or how to set a new date to fuck, I don't want to look needy but hly duck its killings me thinking all the day of what to say just to not mess up. Not all of us are attractive enough to attract women, to me this is an opportunity to get a potential plate. As some others mentioned iit when you are so lonely and for a long time it fucking kills you. It will destroy you…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 10:08 PM
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Hey man, like /u/jimofwales I'm not going to give you the answer you'd like to hear but I'll be honest, which I think its better. I am a 24 y.o bald male, shaving my head since 21s. Been hitting the gym for a while, diet on point most of the time, I'm huge by winter and ripped by summer, typically when I go out ppl says stupid shit like they want to arm wrestle or ask for diets and traning advice. I shave everyfucking day, so my head is clean, also trim my beard in various styles, atm I trim it …
/r/seduction08/01/17 08:13 PM
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I don't know why you get downvoted, being honest is the best advice this man can get.
/r/seduction08/01/17 07:51 PM
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I know you already got a lot of answers, but I'd check the post around here 'She is not yours, its just your turn'. Where I think you can get a good point of view of the problem you have.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 08:28 PM
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Yes man... They swim in millions of dollars and their status is sky high. To the average men, good luck being bald.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 07:16 PM
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Yes you're probably right, after all its just what the thread She is not yours its just your turn. Just that I guess I'd have to wait a century again for it to happen again, feels bad man.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 06:56 PM
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So I should msg her agian and try to set a new day to fuck I legit have 0 experience in such a situation, I guess I'll wait the following weekend to msg her because I'm out from the town this week. Thanks for answering
/r/askTRP07/01/17 06:36 PM
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Yes Own it, lift, shave ed, dress well, groom, focus in other areas of your life, etc..: there is always this gap that balding brings to a young male. Mind explaining a little more yourself?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 08:44 PM
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I'm bald, which makes you an automatic loser in life in almost every aspect in life, and the most important one at a young age, ducking women. There is no way to overcome, just accept that my success with women will be non existent and try not to get depressed because of it
/r/askTRP06/01/17 05:47 PM
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Thanks for answering. You're probably right but it will be a process for me to get it off.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 12:18 AM
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Okay then we have a common factor, maybe we bald ppl just simply look agressive, I don't know how to handle that. That + being relatively big, tattoos and the beard give off this image to people. Off topic but how do you do with women since shaving?
/r/askTRP02/01/17 09:45 PM
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Are you bald too by any chance? I'm bald, go to the gym and realtively huge for my height, and also have a beard. I've been told the same, lol. That I look always angry, I guess we the baldies not only have a problem being bald and ugly but scaring people off directly.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 09:00 PM
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I don't think I have a lot of game. I can talk to female co workers during lunch breaks, laugh, etc... Nothing about getting sexual. With tinder sloots yeah I can get flirty and obtain number, but (this is going to be very sad) the only pics I have in tinder one is with a cap and the other you can't tell im bald, otherwise they wouldnt even answer. I barely socialize or have friends,but not once in my life would cross in my mind to go out alone, the times I've been 'partying' has been always wit…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 04:47 PM
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How do you do in your daily life? You must be really strong mentally, hopefully this 2017 brings you the results of your efforts in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 04:43 PM
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The problem is that I have yet to find any that likes or isn't repusled by it, and trust me my standards aren't high or anything like that. Finding a 20-30 y.o. women who would dig a bald head?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 04:43 PM
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I can confirm, im bald and in shape, shave my head, have a beard, few tattoos, etc... Young bald men are the losers of XXI century
/r/askTRP31/12/16 08:55 AM
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Yeah only if he wasn't tall as fuck and multimillionaire
/r/askTRP31/12/16 08:53 AM
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I agree with most of your posts besides the 'work on you, the rest of thte shit comes with'. I work on me, but see 0 results regarding women. I train ed, shave ed, trim my beard and a lot of other shit. I have a decent job and pursuing a master that could get me even a better job and decent pay. When does it have to come? How many years? I should never do stuff to impress women, but you know, we all do at some point. Thanks for answering.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 03:32 PM
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Maybe you are right. I wasn't even that good with girls when I had hair anyways, the problem is that there is no comeback from being bald. Thanks for answering.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 03:30 PM
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As weird as it might sound I'm not a virgint, but my numbers are far from something to be proud of. I wear a hat 24/7, even when I sleep. I'm ashamed that my father or mother sees my bald head, its fucking disgusting and ugly I guess yes, I will have to just focus in the gym and job as I've been doing for a while already, just that sometimes I get depressed seeing attractive people, feels like a cult I can't be part of and enjoy my youth. Thanks for answering.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 03:29 PM
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You have the head shape for it. Define doing OK with women. Almost no one of my age is bald, im the weird dude with the shaved head, obviously not attractive, wherever I go. Thanks for answering though.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 03:26 PM
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Already shave it and have a beard. How the fuck can someone embrace being bald? Is like embracing having cancer or some shit
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 03:24 PM
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Thanks for answering. Glad you're doing OK, hopefully I do some day.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 03:22 PM
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Yup, not even 250 lb unemployed single mothers
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 09:48 PM
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Hey, Answering your question: If I had ever seen a single sign of attraction of women towards me I'd bother with game, but lets be honest, no matter how much game you have, if the first impression is bad you're out. I dream of being average, I wish I was once for a day. I wish I'd feel attractive, not towards gaining any attention of women, but to feel good in my own skin. I wish I could have social media and takes pics of myself and upload them like most of the guys of my age get their hookups …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 09:47 PM
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Hello, Elaborate please. How do you meet the girls? How tall are you? What do you think makes you succesfull? How is your social life/circle? Any details are wellcome
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 09:36 PM
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Based on my own experience I can't agree with you. I lift and by summer I get shred with abs and veins popping out w/e, but being bald is a killer for women, I can't attract any, even a 500 lbs fatty. To be bald is to be dead as a young male and his SMV.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 06:14 PM
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Let me answer the very same questions by myself, an ugly bald man. Does been ugly prevent you from living your life as a man ? : If you mean enjoying my sex life during my youth, yes. Defining to live as a man is a hard task. Does been ugly prevent you of enjoying your hobbies and all the things that you like to do in life ? : Yes, even in the gym I have to wear a cap on and can barely see myself in the fucking mirrors that are everywhere. Gym is pretty much the only thing I do besides working a…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 06:07 PM
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Me, I can send you pictures or look trhough my post history to see my body. Yes I shave Ed, yes I diet, yes I hit the gym, yes I dress skinny fit clothes to show muscles, yes I have a beard and trim it, yes I use cologne, and yes to whatever trp standard advice is I am bald, I am dead.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 06:03 PM
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I can relate to you in some things, I don't know if its grit but I've been having suicidal thoguhts for years already, at the beggining i'd get so anxious but now they are just a part of my life. I wake up everyday (besides Sunday) at 5:15 AM, I eat, pick up my stuff and work suit and head to the gym, where I arrive around 6:30AM and leave at 7:50 AM to start my job at 8:00 AM. I work at a big corp realtively important, we work a lot of ours, 10, so I leave at 6:00 PM from work, rushing to unive…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 05:32 PM
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I'm Hispanic as well. I want to read no more mr nice guy and the rational male this days. Any other recommendation is welcome.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 11:19 AM
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How tall are you? Eye color? Are you black? Black ppl can pull it off better. Interested in how you do it regardless, cold approaching or dating apps, social circle?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 09:46 AM
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I shave it everyday man. The thing is, regarding the female attraction that is being discussed in this thread, it is impossible to draw it as a bald men, your smv is the same as a sock, trust me.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 08:17 AM
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Implants are not an effective solution, they leave a scar and you've to be hooked up to some pills that might give you nasty sides as long as you want to keep your hair
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 07:34 AM
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And your answer for too bald? Is? I already shave my head diet hit the gym x5
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 11:00 PM
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What if I'm bald already? Do I have any hope?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 10:00 PM
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I'm on the same boat as you man. Sadly, the advice I've followed here hasn't helped me, I'm fit hit the gym x5 a week, I've a six pack, I've few tattoos, shave ed, trim my beard x2 a week, getting body hair removed by laser, had my teeth fixed for 3k$. All that effort? Has brought nothing, no results other than a few tinder fucks. People doesn't belive us, but to be bald is to be dead in the sexual market, all of the advice given in here isn't enough to make up for balding. That doesn't mean you…
/r/askTRP26/12/16 09:46 PM
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Mm okay she's leaving today tho, you are telling me i should talk to her when she comes back or throw something like we see each other when she's back before she leaves
/r/askTRP26/12/16 01:44 PM
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Hello man, not OP but can relate to him, my face is symmetrical but I'm balding, and not the best socially. I answered yes to all of this question, problem is that when you see everyone enjoying their youth and sexuality, despite the depressive thoughts of the time you've lost and won't come back you start asking yourself what's wrong. Is it me physically? Am I not trying hard enough? If it's me physically, is there a way to fix it or I'm doomed? Maybe I'm just retarded and people doesn't tell m…
/r/askTRP19/12/16 10:30 PM
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I'm in the same boat, looking for answers man. The only thing I can do is wish you good luck
/r/askTRP19/12/16 09:49 PM
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Thanks for answering. I try not to have a lot of free time, because most of the time I stay in my bed with my laptop checking out stuff. I have nobody to call to, nobody to hang with or nothing to do. Thats why I try to be busy. I'm in my mid 20's, and I just wanted to enjoy my youth as everyone, be able to enjoy my sexuality and relationships with women, but I haven't, and now balding has made it even worse. I never leave my home without a cap on, there is people who has only known me for two y…
/r/askTRP18/12/16 04:32 PM
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I don't know, I am just tired of living, at least this life I've been given. I thought being all the day busy with gym, work and studying would keep my head busy, but only a few seconds are needed to ruin my entire day. Almost another year to pass by, and things are the same or worse. All of my youth and experiences that I've missed are never comming back and the future is only darker, every day has been a little worse than the last for too long. I barely have any free time, I get back home at f…
/r/askTRP18/12/16 08:55 AM
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You must be then really tall or have really attractive facial features, lifting has brought anything regarding attraction or getting laid. Overall I feel like any effort is pointless
/r/askTRP18/12/16 08:43 AM
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As I've answered the other people, I shave ED I go to the gym, 5 days a week. It simply isn't enough, lifting won't solve the issue of balding making people look like shit, sadly.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 08:40 AM
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I shave ED in the shower and I'm relatively ripped, you can find pics in my posts if you really want to. The problem is that it's not enough to make up for balding, I legit can't get any kind of attraction even from fatties with crocked up teeth.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 08:39 AM
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Not all of us can keep or even attract women around tho
/r/askTRP18/12/16 07:28 AM
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Thanks for answering. am I? I think so and thats the worst, I can make people feel I'm normal, they assume I have a normal life not the shit hole I'm living. I have a class mate that we always go grab a few beers after class someday of the week, even if that means to me skippign my last meal of the day because I want to go sleep early (the time I lose going to drink the beer makes me have no time to eat my last meal). With females? I guess so, I've dated a few girls from dating apps (Where all m…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 09:07 PM
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You missed the most important point of OP. He is unable to create female interaction because, he's bald, so am I. We the bald people are the shit tier of this century, read my post to understand better.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 07:47 PM
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Hello man, Trust me, I wish I could come here and tell you something positive, but I rather be honest. Balding, as a men, is a death sentence. Yes, this comes from a bald men himself. There is nothing we can do to make up for it. I supposedly don't have the race problem (white caucassian), I'm on a lower bf than you, I also shave my head everyday, I have a well trimmed beard, I do a little above than average for people of my age. You know how many girls I had to get interests on me? 0. Oh boy, h…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 07:46 PM
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See? People in this sub tells me I'm wrong when I say balding is the death of the young men in today's society, one more proof
/r/askTRP11/12/16 10:07 PM
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Hey there, Sorry for taking so long to answer,even if I read it the same day you posted, I wanted to be at home and relaxed to answer. It's hard to say, maybe I'm using baldness as an excuse? I never approach or socialize, and even if I'm sure some people wouldn't like me because I'm bald, it might not be the main problem. But I still see how people treats me differently when I have a cap on, honestly. Specially the eye contact with girls goes so different, its another world. Also, I see people …
/r/askTRP10/12/16 09:25 PM
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Hello I hide it? As much as women use make up to cover their insecurities. The thing is I can see how my interactions, such as eye contact, change when I'm wearing a cap and not, and its a powerfull feeling with the cap on. You already have a woman I see, which you met with hair so that was a not a factor to take into account regading attraction. I appreciate the time you put into answering, but yes, I'm a man who's been defeated by its hair, not by the hair itself but how the world sees a man w…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 07:49 PM
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To me, what is wrong is how baldness affects my SMV, regardless how hard I try to improve it by other ways no progress is seen. I created and used one of those dating apps a while ago, some considerations to have: All of my pics I managed to hide my bald head(dont ask how) I never opened to any girl, all of the dates I went to girls with talkd to me first I've been going all the dates with a cap on( as sad as its sounds). There has always been 2nd or 3rd dates and they always have msged me after…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 05:22 PM
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Not regarding girls but saying that I don't put any effort or try hard, I try hard with everything I do in my life and also because I follow most of the 'standard' TRP advice, with yet no results to be seen, which sometimes makes it frustrating. Maybe TRP can't help me with my problems and I may have to look somewhere else before comming here, i don't know.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 01:38 PM
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I should be getting poon? I think people in TRP, as I mentioned before, over valorats the 'hit the gym' or how having a good physique can help you. Once agian, talking from my own experience, it hasn't helped me with anything during my life, much less regarding women. Fashion? During work I have to dress business formal but if not I usually buy slmi fit clothes, I use a cologne (Jean Paul gottier, prolly wrote it bad) and looking to buy a nice watch in the upcoming months. Game? I've given up on…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 01:11 PM
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I don't know NW3 is a bit too late maybe to think about a solution, I' no expert so take my words with a grain of salt. I also think 'Id be killing it if I had hair' but maybe it's just a excuse we use not to try hard enough, I don't know. Finastride plays with hormones, mainly stops conversion from test to DHT, making so more test converts to Estradiol(estrogen), thats why some ppl gets gyno. My only route would be SMP, it can disappear with time (if you want it to), no finastride attached to i…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 01:08 PM
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Hello, It's true to what I've lived and experience every day. Nobody will ever fully content of being bald as much as no bald man can be effectively confident. Yes you can 'feel' attractive yourself, but can a 5'1" feel tall and will be making a foold of himself at the end of the day. Maybe I need some kind of help that TRP can't give me
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:14 PM
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I don't know what to say man, if you are NW3 to me you must look like shit already, hell I'm not even a NW3. Everyone deals with it different I guess. Regarding the HT, I don't know, I'd rather have an SMP done because HT means being on finastride for life and may not be truly effective.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:11 PM
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I can link you to a picture (guessing you meant shape instead of shape in the last pic). I don't like showing pics of myself where tattoos and shit are shown but who cares, it was by the end of the summer where I messed up my cut and lost too much and the cut of my lower pec is invisible because the pose: https://anonmgur.com/?view=24e565956ebc2a30848b6ce20548c3b5.jpg If you are really interested I can send pictures where it looks better, but taking pictures of myself is something I barely do so…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:10 PM
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Hello, As I've answered to others in this thread I don't use any excuses, I work hard by waking up at 5:15 AM and getting back home at 22:15 PM. I prep my meals every fucking day and carry them all day around with the gym bag + school bag + work suit. I could sleep 2h more every fucking day and not feel like shit when the Wednsday begins. I could have taken an easier job and get paid less but live comfortable with my parents. I could have given up after finshing my degree instead of going after …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:07 PM
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I don't act like a pussy. I've embraced it as stated befor by shaving it ED. I am in shape, groom and all that typical bullshit advice I read everywhere, with no results nor a single IOI from any women at any given time. Yes, I should try to be happiness from things I can't control and no external validation, but when its been like this for so long you start thinking about your self-worth, ¿is it that bad? ¿am I really worth this little? ¿when are the results from the efforts start to show up(re…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:02 PM
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I would like to be the first one to agree, sadly, based purely on my experience I can't. If I had to mention one thing I don't like about this trp sub is the obsession with lifting. I lifted for several years, I know how to diet, train and I use steroids, trust me i look fine physique wise. That being said, lifting hasn't increased my self esteem in any way, it might have made my body dismorphya even worse and never had more success with women because of it.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 05:11 PM
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Because those are differnt things. Besides the factors such as head shape etc come into play, having a hairline (even if you shave it) is still not the same. Even when you shave it, and I do shave ed with a new razor you can still see the hairline of your hair. Having a good hairline, I repeat, even if shaved still keeps the symmetry of your face balanced. Trust me man, I have made my own tests to verify what I'm saying, I can see how women look at me different whether I'm wearing a cap or not. …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 12:32 PM
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Been going to the gym and using steroids for a while, shaving ed after showering, tan at summer because ATM I can't because getting my bodyhair removed by laser, fixed my teeth a few months ago for 3k, I got a half sleeve and some other tattoos(not because I'm bald but ppl usually comments 'go for the badass look'), get my beard trimmed at least once a week by a professional barber, working 10h a day in a big corp where they pay well while getting my master degree ed 3h a day. I make no excuses,…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 11:34 AM
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Lol, some of us that are.bald will never experience that even if fit and well groomed. I don't even would like to feel what attractive is just average for a day
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 09:37 AM
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Very well written, but how's ur luck with women? Same boat as OP even if I do really look good body wise, have a beard a little taller. The common factor is being bald, which is (I'm talking from my personal experience) a deal breaker to almost any women.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:40 PM
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Lol I feel also invisble and like shit, but I'm bald and there is no solution to that. Imagine all of the tips given here about trp applied to you on 300 lbs, would it have helped somehow? Ofc not, now imagine following it religiously, get the changes but still doesn't matte because you are bald. Oh and ofc looks matter, lol
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 10:37 PM
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Hollywood filled with staus men, few are black, few aren't bald just shaved (you can still see his perfect hairline), one has his half face covered with a mask and the least famous girls would find him ugly regardless. The only one I can pass there is the Viking dude
/r/askTRP05/12/16 09:35 PM
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I'm not very good with reddit formatting so i will try to answer you paragraph by paragraph. As everything in life, too much is dangerous. I don't think because of the stats OP posted and being natty he's close to that though, but being heavy and lean during maintained periods of times will wreck your body. Yes and no, OP has this point of view because its the only prove he can see as someone who is successfull with women, call it gf or wife, it means that at least that men has been succesfull o…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 07:57 PM
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Funny that both of the pics you posted are people with hair. I looked pretty much, slightly less size, than that during summer, and the same shit OP is talking about happened to me. I lift, I read (currently reading the rational male), and already read the sidebar. I don't think you understand what kind of deal breaker being bald is, are you bald yourself?
/r/askTRP05/12/16 07:07 PM
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Because at the end of the day, besids being the best man you can be, TRP also seeks to get the most out of your life regarding women. Trophy mentality is applied in all of the things in our lives, we do X to obtain Y, maybe within 5 minutes or we expect the results in a few years. And yes, while being the acceptance of women not the best trophy to have, is something we like to as much as women, even though our happines isn't so tied to it, when there is completely a lacking of this issue, it bec…
/r/askTRP04/12/16 02:10 PM
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Look my post history pretty much saying the same you are stating. I also go to the gym and look relatively good physique wise, diet on point, training almost ED and using steroids. I trim my beard every weekend n the barber. I fixed my teeth for 3k. I dress with slim fit clothes. I have a half sleeve and some other tattoos that some dudes in here have told me (I had them before and I didn't do them because of that) to go to the badass look. I shave my head ED when I shower. Getting my body hair …
/r/askTRP04/12/16 01:18 PM
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No, trust me
/r/askTRP30/11/16 05:04 AM
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Just started the book today, bought both of them
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 10:11 PM
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Hey man, I'm in the same boat as you, I am not a very lucky man genetically and seeing what you said I've had less luck with women than you. ¿What can I say? Don't let your happiness depend on females. Yes we are young and men with lots of testostore that would like to be surrounded by hot girls and fuck them any chance we had, but I hadn't the luck of being attractive so this is something I've had taken out of my life because of my genes. All advice I could give you and what I am doing is to ke…
/r/askTRP27/11/16 02:02 AM
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I also get the feeling like people looks at me weird, as if I had booger or my shirt backwards or smth weird in my face, then I remember I'm bald and my face looks weird as fuck so everything makes sense
/r/askTRP26/11/16 02:22 PM
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Hey at the class, will try to answer as good as I can. Currently I have a coach who is a professional, doing a basic bro split on a big 4000kcal, I must be around 180 lbs(85kg) and I'm like 5'10". BF at is higher than summer, around 15% easily, can't be bothered. There comes the trick, all my profile pics are in a good angle where I can hide like the top of my head (sounds awkward as fuck) and I go with a cap all the dates, I can talk to girls and hold conversations during dates. I never msg the…
/r/askTRP22/11/16 07:16 PM
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Hey man, Thanks for coming by once again. Any tip that can improve my situation is welcomed, so let me know. Thank you again.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 09:46 AM
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I haven't forgotten to answer just got to bed 11 pm was awake since 5 am and must wake up at the same time,'will get you tomorrow
/r/askTRP21/11/16 10:06 PM
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I haven't forgotten to answer just got to bed 11 pm was awake since 5 am and must wake up at the same time,'will get you tomorrow
/r/askTRP21/11/16 10:05 PM
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Yes and no. I read TRP, I can relate and understand on some of the topics discussed in the first part of the sidebar. I do a lot of the things recommended in here, gym, work, study, leaving me with 6h of sleep max every day, am I happier? Not really. Not because TRP isn't usefull but because I still have a lot of work to do regarding the change of how I see the world/expectations from other people of me, trying to be liked by everyone, etc...: Order the rational male and no more mr nice guy to s…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 05:17 PM
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I was sitting between 7-10% at around 175 lbs I am on a basic dose of trt for life improvement in general. I looked relatively big by summer, the pic shown was fasted after a week of almost no carbs. Being shred/fit doesn't really seem something valuable or that brings happiness to me.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 11:18 AM
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Explain yourself a little more please, I'm interested in your history
/r/askTRP20/11/16 08:57 AM
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The last paragraph also applies to balding, lol. At least there will be shorter attractive girls for you, but not bald for me.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 08:27 AM
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Hello and thanks for giving some feedback. Trust me, I work out, I have an above average body (even though I hardly see it) to the gyms I go. Working out to like more people, especially females, is a big mistake, yet, for those of us who workout it is a big plus if we ever obtain any compliments from girls. https://anonmgur.com/?view=24e565956ebc2a30848b6ce20548c3b5.jpg Yes I know I look small but this was at the end of my cut around 1.5kcal I was deflated as fuck. I have yet to see an IOI or a …
/r/askTRP20/11/16 01:14 AM
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Hey thanks for your answer. Thing is dysmorphia, iswhat is defined (to my understanding) as seeing yourself as a distorted version of yourself such as anorexic people. How we see people, and ourselves is completely subjective. If I ever solved my supposed dysmorphia I would still be the same physical person, having changed only the way I see myself, not the way the others see me. I've always had this big question in my head, ¿How does people see me? ¿What vibe do I give? ¿Which is the first impr…
/r/askTRP19/11/16 09:16 PM
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The thing is lifting has brought 0 benefit to me almost regarding self esteem, what to do then? I am strong, kind of aesthetic physique, other than self esteem how does that benefit me?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 04:44 AM
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Yes and no. I lift and i look better than the average population physique wise, maybe top 20%(look at my history to see pics), but I don't give a fuck if I look good , again physique wise, and get complements frequently( mainly from men). Lifting doesn't bring me happiness or makes my life better, it simply would make my life even more miserable if si didn't do it. As some people has mentioned before, sometimes it feels like the generic advice here is just go lift.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 07:41 AM
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I have a weird head shape I guess, being ugly makes society repulse you, I can see people staring at my bald head and their thoughts. What's missing? Me feeling well with myself, me feeling that I'm attractive to the opposite sex, having a good social circle, etc... But trust me, when you are ugly everything is harde to a certain degree. At this point I'm just working so I can have a good future and hope things will get better, which I doubt as they been like this for a long time.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 05:15 PM
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Yes it is. I think the self pity is also my main problem, and yes having ur mind busy is the best. I try to have as less time free as possible or I get depressed with my thoughts. I wake up at 5:15 am, get to the gym 6:30 train to 8 work to 18, study from the 19-22, but still get depressed at bed time or while being on the train from work to class etc
/r/askTRP14/11/16 04:25 PM
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You are like me, but tell me, are you at least physically average? Do you have any deformity in your fAce? Because I do, I'm bald. If you don't then all the advice given here applies to you, hit the gym and look clean irl, focus on yourself and just keep approaching. I relate to a lot of the stuff you say as waking up and hating your life since the first second, shit sux so I try to have my mind occupied 24/7(work 10h, study 3, train 2) so I barely have any time to even get depressed. To me, at …
/r/askTRP14/11/16 07:28 AM
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There will be always short hot girls for you, at least you are not bald like me, because there will never be bald girls, just fatties
/r/askTRP13/11/16 10:01 AM
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Jesus this is gold lol
/r/askTRP11/11/16 07:14 PM
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Lmao you arare as fucked as me I guess lol. Good body physique(look at my historial for pics), getting my master degree while working in an important company where I can get promoted, but I'm bald, and physique is everything, the first they see, and more at a young age. We have two paths, as harsh as it sounds, get rich and provide a good looking women when she hits the wall or gonna mgtow, prefering the second. That's my pov at least.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 07:12 PM
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/r/seduction10/11/16 09:44 PM
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Thank you for your answers and time
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 10:33 PM
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I have used it, was going bald already and shaving. Was aware of the consequences. And yes I guess I'm being a huge pussy, I want to change but I'm limited physically, not to change but the results of the change. No matter what I do I'm limited by my physical features. Also if by lean frame you mean my body when you are waking down the street you are dressed up, peoples sees my face not my body. I took the trp as a way to self improvement as I saw frequently threads of people who had made it or …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 12:13 PM
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Thanks for your reply. Trust me at this point of my life it feels its better just to quit than try to learn now, even though I hate my life since the very first minute I wake up, I am not a happy man I guess, if I am a man.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 10:27 PM
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I barely have any social life or any girl in any social circle I'm close to, I'm busy 24/7 during week and on weekends I like to sleep. My interaction with girls are almost non existent besides a few app dating dates every few months.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 10:00 PM
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I have already and try to keep it clean shaving it x2 a week, you can't do anything to counter balding.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 09:59 PM
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I have already and try to keep it clean shaving it x2 a week, you can't do anything to counter balding.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 09:59 PM
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As a men on my 20s to me sex feel like a must. It's just I frustrating that I can't get any kind of women attention/interactions cause of my hair.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 09:58 PM
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I could take pics during the weekend, busy as fuck weekdays. For your message and details I guess you are average at least, so you have it easy compared to me. I don't even try to attract girls anymore, I do to a point using dating apps where I cover my hair with angles and shit, I meet with them and usually the talking goes fine but I stop going to dates after the second or so when they ask me why I'm wearing a cap all the time lol. I think the best option to me would be to renounce to women bu…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 09:55 PM
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Wow glad you made it but not my case, are you from like Europe? Do you ever get any IOI in public or approach? Also what does SOL stands for?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 09:51 PM
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Define hard working, I wake up everyday at 5 am to go to the gym, work from 8 am to 18 pm in a big worldwide company to rush to my master degree classes that go from 19 to 22 pm. I have the exact time to cook, make my gym bag and few other stuff to try to be at the bed at 23 pm so I can get at least 6h sleep a day. I drive an Ok car, I live by myself, I spent a good amount of cash to fix my teeth (3-4k$), getting my body hair removed by laser (2,5k$), I have spend my cash in good clothes that ar…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 03:17 PM
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That's why I say that balding is the death to any young male regarding his sexual appeal or value and people starts saying it's not relevant I wonder if they are bald. It sux there isn't any cure yet, transplant leaves you with a huge scar, it can be barely effective and you are hooked with pills the rest of your life. SMP is Kind of good but can look fake and can only give you the shaved hairline look. How do you cope with it? I've been depressed for too long. I get depressed if I see myself in…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 03:00 PM
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That is the truth, or at least the comment that relates the closest to the reality I'm living. Looks at the age of 23 are everything, 95% at least. Why would I want to be in a few ages with a woman who would have rejected me a few years earlier and her physical attractiveness is now lower? I guess I'm missing/missed out on a lot of experiences that people of my age is living because something is completely out of my control and it will take me time to accept it. The fact that I was given only on…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:44 AM
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It is hard when you put so many effort and no results come. Yes I know I should do the stuff just for myself and not to for approval of girls or other people, but as a 23 y.o male you want to fuck/attract girls.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:31 AM
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There are currently no real viable solutions for baldness, transplants leave scars and you ve to take pills the rest of your life that will mess with your dick, maybe micro pigmentation is the best but can look fake and still have To shave anyway
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:28 AM
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The thing is that I can't attract any female I find even just a little attractive to my standards, which trust me they aren't very high ether way, si at the end it's me who is losing. I don't see how anyone at my age balding could be confident without making a fool out of himself
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:27 AM
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How? Working out and having a higher SMV?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:24 AM
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What kind of techniques? I am reading the sidebar so far but the first material seems about setting a framework regarding how feminism is an evil movement that it's not really seeking for equality and how easy women have it. Besides that going to the gym and all that stuff i pretty much do what trp advocates
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:24 AM
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Maybe you are right, but I've never seen a single IOI from a female in my entire life. I can do well with a cap on with girls using Badoo( a tinder for trashy girls) and having dates that usually go well(they want to meet again). But if I ever took my cap off, oh boy
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:22 AM
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This is my physique last summer, I know I'm not big just cut: https://anonmgur.com/?view=24e565956ebc2a30848b6ce20548c3b5.jpg My car is avg for the place I live, having one is a big plus though and currently living in a student flat. Being bald at my age,23, is just a big Nono for girls. Sometimes it's hard to cope with it but I guess it's just matter of time.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 07:20 AM
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That only works unless you are physically average or attractive, if you are below average or bald like me it's over, especially if young. Yes I go to the gym, yes I dress well, yes I shave my head, yes i focus on myself and my career. Most of the advice given in here is applicable to the average population, which represents the bigger %, but those of us who are below have nothing in front of us but a life of feeling lonely and undesired.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 10:20 PM
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well I have been shaving for like 2-3 years already, and my reality is pretty different than yours. Glad that you are doing fine at least.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 10:52 AM
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Hey let me start by saying I appreciate a lot the time and answers, but I think I might be a lost case. I am balding but I shave my head ED if as I mentioned it before. I'm legit shredded with my abs popping out of my stomach, I can send pics. The point is that any women ever has paid interest to me, besides the efforts of the gym, diet, shaving ed... Am I supposed to wait until they end to ride the cock carrousel at their 30s to get any attention? No thanks, I've a good job and finishing my mas…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 07:26 AM
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Yes I understand, still besides the fame and money Dwayne is an over the thop male regarding height and muscle mass. The thing is regarding the sixpack is that 99% of the time you will be with your shirt on, so it wouldn't matter, facial features are what count most when attracting females and balding pretty much destroys them.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 06:55 PM
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Hey thanks for replying. Your examples though won't apply to me, I'm not as rich or famous as the people you listed. I shave my head with a razor everyday in the morning, I go to the Gym ed, I trim my beard x2 a week. I take good care of my self and invest time into being fit and looking good, destiny though played a hard hand on me and me bald young. Even though I shouldn't seek for aproval on women, sometimes it's just hard, because as girly as it might sound we all like to feel attractive and…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 08:06 AM
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I do all of that but as I'm balding I can't do any of that, balding is like a death sentence for us young males
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 08:09 PM
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I'd like to talk to you later, leaving this message as a reminder, sorry of the off topic.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 11:56 AM
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ait planning my winter bulk to start asap will hit you up regarding some topics
/r/askTRP23/10/16 07:26 PM
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I havent competed but i told my coach to prep me as if I had to, did everything besides what would be the last days of competting, most I did was using a little dieuretics and really the last few days my kcal intake was so low I could barely lift my feet when walking. I'm around that too but I all of my fat goes to my loev handles I hate it. Can't afford gh would love to, and also not a fan of pepitides.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:47 PM
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idk there are reputable sources around some boards in reddit I guess you know already. Im telling you the best way for me to shred down is cruise at 250mg and starve to death, I tried clen, dnp, etc...: The cravings are too bad and I don't see them as effective. Anyways how lean are you atm? Idk if its worth shredding down given the time of the year, but yeah I would like to be around 10% year round but hard as fuck, anytime I start bulking I end up binge eating pizzas donuts and everythinglol
/r/askTRP23/10/16 10:49 AM
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idk man it was impossible for me and I liegt binged at 1g a week also, could u vouch it was legit tren? Anyways I got fat as fuck now at just 250mg/week started to binge like a fucktard after summer
/r/askTRP22/10/16 07:43 PM
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if u want to look god mode just go trenbolone acetato route. If you can handle the sides trust me its impossible to gain fat on tren, if u are worried about abdominal fat go for anavar/oxandrolona. also clen is bad as fuck for ur heart, if u just want leaness jump to 250mg/week of test E and starve ur self to death, use steems/amphetamines to keep kcals low, 250 tests e should keep u away from going catabolic but u will be deflated as fuck from glycogen. If you are from usa u got plenty of ugls …
/r/askTRP22/10/16 05:37 PM
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Welcome to the b&c life fellah, take a sit and enjoy the ride
/r/askTRP22/10/16 03:33 PM
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Hey man I have a steroid ripped body, I can send you pics privately if you wish and trust me, if there is a missing base (like my case) regarding other stuff other than physique, getting girls will still be a problem.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 01:02 PM
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Hello man, Regarding the steroids part I can give some advice. Being as old as you are your growth plates are probably closed. Also, when starting the steroid cycle your estrogen (Testosterone mainly converts into DHT >can accelerate hairloss if prone to MBP< and estrogen >dominant female hormone< will rise as well), estrogen causes the growth plates to close, so incase they arent yet it will definitely close them, you might want to invert the hgh / steroids cycle. Besides everything I commented…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 08:39 AM
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Hello, how comes it was removed? Did anyone save it?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 08:41 AM
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I can agree and disagree at the same time. I agree that a basic point is putting yourself out there, but here I have a personal experience I cant understand. Last summer I used a dating app, and I had relatively good success with matches and a few dates, this summer, with the same pics the success has diminished, to the point that even if I talked to a few girls, I havent had any date. But yes I agree you have to put yourself out there, also all my efforts in the gym seem useless regarding femal…
/r/askTRP20/09/16 09:31 PM
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Well I'm sorry to hear you're also depressed. Partially I think yes, accepting myself should be the first point, at the end of the day a lot of stuff I do to improve myself (gym, trim, etc...) feels like gives no results, hence one of the reasons of being depressed.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 12:47 PM
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This is interesting.... I do lift already but I don't hang out with my male friends for god knows how long, I agree it should be something I'd have to do more often, will keep into consideration and try to be more active in our group chats (whatsapp) trying to bring up plans. Besides that yes, I guess that the hardest part is get the ball rolling. I still have the idea of going to teraphy maybe, I will decide on the upcoming weeks but I will also keep up on spending sometime reading through TRP …
/r/askTRP19/09/16 10:01 PM
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I don't know if I can get this out by myself, I guess the only way to do it is trying it. I guess you know how depression is, some days are bad and some are very bad. Althought I am seriously considering starting to go teraphy, when I settle down a little I might start looking for it, still have some time to decide. Thank you.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 09:59 PM
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Former juicer here. Depends, you balance the sides. No matter what you read the use of steroids will potentially shorten your life span (you might die in a car accident tomorrow anyways) but I rather living my youth to my maximum physical potential, energy and libido than live 5-10 years more (again who knows when we die). Gear has some sides, it might accelerate your MBP if you're prone(you can fight that with some pills to a point), you can develop gynecomastia if you dont control your estroge…
/r/askTRP07/09/16 10:43 AM
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If you can't see the context of my comment, you might be not only fat but retarded, jesus. OP already has mentioned he has some mass, if you have mass and not abds, you are fat, as simple as that
/r/askTRP04/09/16 06:20 PM
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If you dont have abds you are fat, unless its excess skin if you were a former fatty. If you want to reduce bodyfat, eat less or up the cardio, simple.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 03:40 PM
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/u/corsega buddy link him to your guide regarding how to look well and being bald at the same time. To OP, without pics its hard to say, if you are tall as fuck and balding from the crown you might get away with it, if not idk. Still without pics hard to tell, im also bald and I clean shave.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:01 PM
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Lol dude what the fuck. Please tag the mods to verify the IPs or whatever if they can do it. Why would I do so anyways lol
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:17 PM
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OH well yet again another balding thread, I'm also bald and if I told you waht I really think of us the baldies and our situation u'd get depressed. /u/corsega wrote a guide about being bald and do well with women he can link you to it
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:01 PM
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Your height.
/r/seduction30/08/16 06:58 PM
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lol
/r/askTRP29/08/16 11:11 PM
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Not really man. I'm 23, the only difference might be that I barely interact with women anymore. I never had a GF either and I can count with one hand the amount of times i've been laid with different girls (and i still cant understand why would the chose me), also it was kinda long ago lol but my head shaved already I don't know what to say, only thing that comes in mind is that there is a possible solution for balding coming in 2-3 years based on cell cloning, lol.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 10:52 PM
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Im bald as well, white caucasian and take good care of myself and follow all of the advice here. I've listed several times but will do again : I lift(5'10" around 180 lbs and 10% bf), I trim my beard and eyebrows x2 a week, i wear cologne, I tan, my teeth are perfect, I wear cologne every single day, I spend a good cash in clothes, I have a good career, I have tattoos and earings (not because im bald, I had them before) but that reinforces the 'badass' look ppl talks about, etc..: I can't get a …
/r/askTRP29/08/16 10:10 PM
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I can send pics tomorrow, but a few point: I'm trying to grow a longer/thicke beard so my current one doesnt look so tidy, I can send pics from like two week ago. I also started bulking a few weeks ago, pics sent will be also around 2-3 weeks ago. For the selfie, as I have never take any in my entire life will have to be to the current features listed before (beard a little ¿dirtier?, eyebrows not done and sitting a little higher on bf). Also I never smile so I will probably look like a serial k…
/r/seduction27/08/16 11:46 PM
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Well man if I ever saw at least an IOI from any female, no matter what the rating would be I'd try to. The fact that I've ever barely had any makes me think what I think, among other things.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 11:44 PM
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Im really interested on your case, so I might PM you because I feel on the same boat. My dad's dad died when he was very young (4), after a Civil War in the country I live. A single mother in those times struggled and my parents family grew poor. My mum's side is relatively rich so I always have thought that if it wasn't for love, my dad kinda saw the marriage as an option to leave poverty. My mum is very dominant, we always had to do what she wanted or she's scream and slam doors, she always le…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 02:14 PM
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This guy, even if we don't like it is saying the truth. I go to the gym, tan, bursh my teeth x3 a day(white as fuck), groom x2 a week to my barber, spend a fair amount of cash in shoes, watches and expensive clothes, trim all my body hair but I'm bald. Its a killer, bald is not attractive and all of the efforts named before become useless, I can tell you that If we rate the ammount of time I spend on being better version of myself as 80/100 I can't even get a glance of a girl who would spend, on…
/r/seduction25/08/16 05:50 PM
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I do all of that and still invisible to woman, feelsbadman
/r/seduction25/08/16 05:47 PM
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I've never believed in the vibes/confidence shit, if you are attractive you get girls,, if not you dont. The same if you are not attractive doesn't matter how confident you feel you won't get any.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 08:37 PM
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LMao funny because I'm bald, shredded, have ear rings, tattos /u/corsega can confirm I sent him pics and not even a 1/10 300 lbs whale with crocked up teeth would glance at me.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 08:29 PM
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Lol the ripped part. I'm ripped I am bald, and I still can't get a 1/10 to glance at me. Girls dont really give a fuck how ripped you are honestly, they prefer a pretty face
/r/askTRP22/08/16 08:23 PM
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Holy fuck man Im so sad reading this, im in a similar situation at 23. Thanks for everyone posting in here,it Will be helpfull to me as well To the OP,.stay strong brother, every little effort you are making right now Will eventually pay off, keep riding and feel free to pm me anytime you want to talk
/r/askTRP16/08/16 10:30 PM
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I'll take pics and PM you by the night, any specifics?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 04:48 PM
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Everyone has bald friends who does well but no one actually comes here being bald comes and say he does well, i don't know. I've only had one guy who is bald to send me actual proves that he had a good looking gf. I don't buy the insecurity shit, if you have a flaw you have it, you can own and make it part of you but its still there. Thanks for the answer though.
/r/seduction15/08/16 04:10 PM
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Are you bald? I don't think you understand how big of a difference on your face/appearance being bald makes. Only those tips to hit the gym and dress well, etc..: Work for the average people, having a major flaw(yes, being bald is a flaw don't come up with the own it shit) makes all of those irrelevant. I could pm you pics of how shredded I am and face, and trust me, I couldn't even pull a 1/10. Anyways thanks for your answer, appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 04:09 PM
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Let me call you out on this first sentence. I'm bald, and bald means your dating life is pretty much almost impossible from the moment you st art shaving your head. It looks bad, something is off, it makes you look older, head shapes accentuate, only bad things come from balding. Don't come and quote me famous ppl who is bald because the reason if their success is their status/money. I do workout, I can PM you pics and I can assure you I'll be in the top 5% of this sub if we all posted our pics.…
/r/seduction15/08/16 09:51 AM
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I feel you, as I posted earlier I go to the gym, groom, fixed my teeth(4k$), tan and follow the advices 90% generic guides say, but guess what? I got the lucky genes of balding, and even if I have daily and groom my beard to one of the best barbers of the city x2 a week I still can't even get a 1/10 to glance at me, a fat woman who probably spends 1% of the time I do taking care of herself.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 09:14 AM
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Hey this discussion has really taken my attention. I've been shaving my bald head for already two years, and I honestly think I look like shit, I can't see myself on any mirror or picture or depression ensures. I also get 0 female attention and I pretty much have all the points OP lists, I go to the gym(alrdy sent pics to ppl in this sub and can verify I'm shredded), dress with good clothes, take care of myself, as I'm balding I grew a beard which I go to a barber 2 days a week to keep it clean,…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 09:05 AM
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Yes the guy in the pic is me. I can't even get a girl to glance at me, not even a fatty one or a girl who takes, if we could measure it, 0,0001% the care of herself I take on me dieting and doing exercise. This is why OP is right and I get so angry when I see 99% of the guides are based mostly on go to the gym, diet and focus yourself. Well guess what I go to the gym(I easily have the top 5% physique in most scenarios such as beach, pool, etc..: where taking off your shirt is needed) I focus on …
/r/askTRP08/08/16 02:50 PM
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Heye ma I was really interested,
/r/askTRP05/08/16 10:55 PM
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First you're telling me where you live plenty of bald dudes are fine now this. I shave my head everyday when I shower in the morning, still looks bad. To prove what I said I sent a picture, one just body and one body + face, cutting some of my face lol, you'll see. Are those the Bald guys looking like that around me are slamming pussy all day long.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 04:35 PM
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Sure? Not where I live at least, I legit have a nice body, groom myself,teeth, etc..: Pretty much everything besides hair, I can't get any girl to even glance at me
/r/askTRP23/07/16 03:25 PM
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Could I send you pics as well? IM on the same boat as OP
/r/askTRP16/07/16 09:03 PM
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So if you compare two persons that are bald and one is fit and the other not, the one who is fit is more attractive? This comic is legit bullshit sorry, it would be the same for a bald, blind, deaf, w/e people you compare.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 09:02 PM
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Ahh on the same boat, 23 y.o graduated and starting my master. My body is top 10% of everyone I see on the streets. Balding at young age is death, as harsh as it sounds mate and talking fro my experience, my life sunk ever since I went bald. I wish you luck
/r/askTRP16/07/16 09:01 PM
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That is the biggest bullshit ever said, im 5'10" almost 180 lbs 10% bf with tattoos, tanned, abs popping out(you can even see veins on lower abds) White teeth and all that crap but because im bald I cant even get 30 y.o whales to glance at me. The muscles thing only works if you are average. I can pm you pics of myself to prove everything I said.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 06:54 AM
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I also have wide hips, worked on my lats so now they are wider than my hips.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:40 PM
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So you got rated as not ugly and based all your post on that fact. What to do then the ones as me, who are ugly?
/r/seduction30/06/16 12:15 PM
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Hey thanks for your answer, I dont Know how to quote so Inwill answer as I read. More than talking a lot about anything I just want to talk and socialiZe, and no, I dont want to be liked by everyone but at least give the People the chance.to decide as right now I would be just quiet. I am afraid that they Will mostly Know eachother and talk about stuff I cant say anything about. But yes, I guess you are right and I Will ask also about things they are talking about but Im afraid they give me.the …
/r/askTRP08/06/16 12:47 PM
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I, myself, kind of relate to this guy. I am not gay, at least as far as I know but I have given up on the fact of chasing woman because I am simply ugly and I came into terms that the fact for me to try and chase after them is a waste of time. I dont have low test, I can assure you that by bloods I had taken, and because I inject weekly synthetic testosterone myself. My life is based into the Gym, working and a few other hobbies. Does it mean that I dont see girls as atractive? No, but I simply …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 12:25 PM
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Thank you , never heard of that sub before.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 07:20 PM
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Hello, ¿Are you by any chance bald? If not, I really don't think you understand. Let me explain you: I go to the gym and look better than the average joe and what girs like. Believe me I'm sitting at 185 lbs at 5'10" it might not sem a lot but when you are around 10% bodyfat muscles pop out and ur skin gets tight around it. I look my hygiene, I go get my beard done every 3 days, I tan, I fixed my teeth (5k invested), I dress well and clean(I go shopping every weekend if not every two). And just …
/r/seduction14/05/16 08:03 PM
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Believe me man I'd be the first one to tell you its not that bad. I could come here and tell you its about being confident and you carry yourself. I could feel confident as if I was Brad Pitt but guess what? I don't have his looks and other people wouldn't see me as him. It is nice people trying to be positive in this subreddit but some times being confident, taking care of yourself doesn't help. The only thing I'd recomend you that I often also see in this subreddit being told is find hobbies. …
/r/seduction13/05/16 09:42 PM
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There you said it main. I really like your positive attitude trying to cheer up but I rather be honest. They keyword is old, yes, the older you get the less physical matters. But being bald at 23? Is like killing ur sexual life. Im bald too not trying to mock and talking from own experience.
/r/seduction13/05/16 09:39 PM
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Hah I'm sorry to laugh at this but in the same boat. 23 male balding, I go to the gym and I looke 99% better than ppl of my age physic wise. 5'10", almost perfecte teeth(spent 4k fixing them), tanned, I use cologne and dress well but guess what? People doesn't give a fuck. I ignore women. Call it MGTOW, call it being a loser, I dont mind. I won't lower my standards (that aint high) considering all the effort I put into looking good. Yes, I put effort into looking good but I just do it for myself…
/r/seduction13/05/16 09:06 PM
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Hello and thanks. I'm probably below average, I'm 23 now and I haven't taken any pics ever in my life because of how ugly I am, never had social media. I go to the gym (ever since I saw I was balding i started using steroids) and look above average, I go to a barber x2 a week, my teeth are soon to be almost perfect (fixing some stuff). I could improve a little dressing maybe, and tanning would be nice. But you don't understand, once you bald you're out of the game pretty much. I am still reading…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 10:23 PM
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My issue #1 right now is that im ugly and balding. Yes I hit the gym, yes I brush my tth, try to dress well, but I'm just new to this TRP world (reading the sticky) and I wonder what my attitude would be towards trying to have sex or attract other women. Don't get me wrong, my happiness shouldn't depend on women but who doesn't enjoy attention from attractive girls? I'm depressed because of this issue kinda.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:02 PM
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Im balding at my early 20s so women get repulsed by me, I never go out socially and im ugly overall. Sometimes feels like im in this world just so ppl can compare to me and feel better, hope you can as well.
/r/seduction09/03/16 03:37 PM
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Thank you very much for your answer, I'll see what I do. Appreciated.
/r/seduction24/12/15 12:53 AM
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This is funny because I'm in a situation where I would like to make a post. Been seing a girl, she flaked on a date and msged me later she just couldn't make it. FOllowing seddit rules I just dont talk to her anymore to show neediness but I honestly would like to ask her if she flaked me just because I dont like her or because I kissed her the date before. I've non fucking idea what to do
/r/seduction22/12/15 08:29 PM
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Yeah I guess thats the spirit, hopefully you can laugh now of what a fool you were by then. THanks for your answer
/r/seduction18/12/15 10:24 PM
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Thank you so much for the comment, thats what I need honestly. Funny enough she just msged me that sorry she couldn't meet and I just answered with an "Ok" and won't answer back. Thanks once again for your comment.
/r/seduction18/12/15 10:23 PM
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I guess so man I just wanted some moral support I guess. But having low self esteem and not being attractive makes girls lack in my life. I guess I would be worse emotionally if I hadnt gone in for the kiss anyways. Thanks you.
/r/seduction18/12/15 10:55 AM
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How did you deal with it? I'm trying to stay strong but its hard sometimes the feeling of rejection
/r/seduction18/12/15 06:05 AM
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I am your old you I guess then needy and insecure and I've a date tmorrow, sweet.
/r/seduction16/12/15 08:55 PM
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Can you explain ur last.point
/r/seduction16/12/15 12:01 PM
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I don't know I usually invested a very little time into women, I just went to the uni, gym and home. Was I happy? No, but I could still get away with it. Now that I try to do something to change for the better this happens and im on this kind of emotional wreck. Honestly I kind of regret having gone there if I knew I'd feel like this right after. I guess its the fear of being unwanted and rejected. Thanks for all of your answers and tips but I think I have no solution...
/r/seduction15/12/15 03:28 PM
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Thanks once again. I didn't know that reddit but I read that the red pill thing is crap about PUA and stuff. I will give a shot anyways. Thanks.
/r/seduction14/12/15 10:32 PM
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Thanks for answering. I guess I could try, but I also still have some big low self-esteem issues which are impossible to fix and make everything harder.
/r/seduction14/12/15 10:14 PM
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I don't know what to say man I guess it sux for you but at the end its kind of worth if you got over it. The thing is that I didn't even get as far as you, so even if this didn't go well it wouldn't get a 'big shit' and would fall into the next one. I don't know man it's just the feel of being desired or loved that I've never had during all my life which makes me acts like this. Thanks for your elaborate answer and sharing your experience, what should I do in your opinion? Keep talking to her bu…
/r/seduction14/12/15 09:06 PM
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I guess you're right, but the thing is that I feel that it will always be like this as I barely will get more interaction with any other girls. I don't know what to do or go from here, I'll read the answers here I guess. Thanks for your answer
/r/seduction14/12/15 09:04 PM
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What he said I believe, anyways you must be one out of a million I guess. Thanks for your answer anyways.
/r/seduction14/12/15 09:03 PM
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Glad it helped you and if you can leave any comment on how to improve I'd be thankful.
/r/seduction14/12/15 09:02 PM
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Thanks for your input. I wish I was a troll but sadly I'm not. I feel like an emotional roller coaster at the moment. It's hard for me to up the contact with other people, I don't have a social circle and I can't cold approach.
/r/seduction14/12/15 09:02 PM
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Hello and thanks for your answer. Not that easy man I don't ever approach, I just randomly sometimes get a little attention from a girl through Tinder but that's it. I don't now I'm not feeling really well at the moment and I don't think I'm able to cold approach.
/r/seduction14/12/15 09:00 PM
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Hey thanks for the answer. Sadly this is the only girl who I could get her attention, so there are no more and hardly will be. I also got into bodybuilding and gym but it the issued of attaching is affecting me also in the training and diet, making everything harder on the other hobbies.
/r/seduction14/12/15 11:05 AM
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Sure man, thanks for your answer. Any help is apreciated
/r/seduction09/12/15 04:42 AM
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Hello and thanks again. I don't really understand the "you're not defined by it", it's part of my physique, its part of the impression I give to people, its what people will judge me at first without knowing me. When I see someone bald I think "this dude has suffered like me". I will try to change, but I don't know how it will go
/r/seduction29/07/15 08:29 PM
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Hello brother and thank for your answer, I will definitely PM you, it's late where I'm at and I've to work tomorrow. Once again thanks for your time and answer, I will write a more elaborated answer to you by PM tomorrow.
/r/seduction29/07/15 12:04 AM
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Well thanks for answering again, I will keep reading Power of Now and try to apply the techniques when those negative thoughts come, I'm not sure if I will be able to ever get rid of this but let me know if there is any other book that could help me after this one. As I said this is a complex that im carrying almost the 24 of the days for a few years already, getting rid of it may not be possible already or would take a lot of effort, I'm just tired and confused. It's no fun hating the image you…
/r/seduction28/07/15 02:21 PM
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Thanks for commenting. Balding makes me inferior in a way that 99% of people sees it as something wrong (in the meaning that something it shouldn't happen, and mostly at young ages, even if its genetic-based). It's a though thing I've been carrying for so long, but given the advice in here I will still try to fight it, not sure if i will ever be able to beat it anyways.
/r/seduction28/07/15 02:18 PM
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Hello and thanks for your input but, black people handles balding better than caucasian males, besides that those people has a money/status where they don't really need to care about their looks to interact with people.
/r/seduction28/07/15 02:16 PM
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Thanks for your answer but I don't know if I will ever overcome this, it's like a constant paint running in the back of my head like 99% of the day, conditioning my daily life/interactions/everything pretty much.
/r/seduction28/07/15 02:15 PM
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Hello.and thanks for providing such an elaborated answer. I dont like the example.you have given me of that actor because he is just an excepction, thanks for the effort. I don't Know I Will.be ever able to accept it friend friend. You Know how Hard is waking up every morning and not being able to look yourself on the mirror? Not looking straight when going into an elevator because you Know theres a mirror as soon as you come in and might see myself? Trying to escape and avoid all kind of photos…
/r/seduction28/07/15 12:12 AM
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Hello friend and thanks for answering. I Will definitely head over there, but its so painfull to me to even look at my own pics, just saw one from the Last weekend with my friends and there I am, the ugliest because the lack of hair. I started to feel sick, anxious and questions such as 'will I ever be able to be liked by any girl as a partner?' pop up in my head. This is all so painfull to me, you have given me a possible.solution which I promise I Will at least try, but I dont Know, living lik…
/r/seduction28/07/15 12:05 AM
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What if you are balding? Is there any hope (on your mid 20s)
/r/seduction13/07/15 10:20 PM
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I liked your mindset but I'm going through some problems and not sure how to apply it, could I PM you?
/r/seduction12/07/15 05:06 PM
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That is something I would be interested in, how can I practice it? I mean besides, just talking to people is there any good reads/book that touch this topic? Thanks in advance.
/r/seduction02/07/15 01:08 PM
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Hey thanks for your reply, It's hard for me.. You mean not to think so much when talking to women and just saying it? Or not thinking so much afterwards? I'd like to train myself and say what I really want to say, I don't know how can I get better at this
/r/seduction24/06/15 09:02 PM
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That feel when you are the lower 20%. Feels bad
/r/seduction19/06/15 01:23 PM
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I don't know, it also feels like the eye contact it's like a tunnel and I'm afraid to see whats at the end of there. Now imagine, I start eye contact with a girl, we will be both staring on each other like some kind of statues ? Maybe im so not used to it that I'm afraid of the outcome lol
/r/seduction25/05/15 10:30 PM
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This might be very interesting, ppl always ask me why I'm so serious and why I never smile/talk, maybe because I'm an unhappy person but its a good point to have in mind OP, will read through the thread later, thanks for posting
/r/seduction30/04/15 08:12 PM
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What exactly is that?
/r/seduction31/03/15 03:38 PM
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