Weekend is coming up and I have a tinder date set up, the girl is a HB7, really interested in me due to my display of higher SMV than hers so i know she will want to get a hold of me from the get go.

I'm 21 been lifting for 2 months now (should have started a lot sooner but was so lazy, super happy I started now though), never had anything like a girlfriend as such possibly because I either went full beta when I wanted a girl (niceguy, play safe type) or i just did not give a fuck about any of the whales giving me attention (not attracted to the girl) or I put minimum effort in trying to get laid and wondering why I can't get laid lol.

My frame now I would say is strong in everyday situation and I don't brake it unless I open up to a girl which I still tend to do sometimes. As soon as i notice this beta trait I say to myself 'you're an idiot', so my frame is getting stronger but around a girl I really like I turn into a emotional beaten up cry baby, I hate it.

What I want to know is if I should go into this date with the mindset of trying to game this girl and trying to go for sex the same day or to take it slow for now due to my low game experience and just aim to have fun around girls because I'm not sure where I stand in terms of my game.

Also I don't care about losing this girl so have no expectations going into the date just want to know what mindset I should have and what to learn or to take away from it.

Oh and also, Thank you TRP