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I think you misunderstood me. Be hard, yes, but too just come here and only respond with a name calling... what’s the point? My whole point is actually contribute too the question or don’t respond at all.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:23 PM
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And I’m not debating that at all... my questions are if you are just gonna call a name and not give actual advice then why even respond? I agree with being tough and hard at times, but if you respond just by calling some a “pussy” “bitch” or whatever then what’s the point? It gives absolutely no value too the sub, question, or community. In fact the only thing it does is show an inability for “you” to think of an insightful response.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:20 PM
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No, not at all a feminine way of helping at all.. I absolutely agree with being tough on people. I have been on my soldiers and I have been on my kids. However, I do add more to the lessons than just calling out a name and that all I contribute. I don’t believe in sugar coating anything, but I don’t believe in giving worthless meaningless responses to legitimate questions. That was the whole point I was trying to have answered... why give a response that simply calls someone a name and that’s it…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:15 PM
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Absolutely none of your response effects me whatsoever, however it does show your character. An angry little man that has to raise his voice to be heard thinking the the negativity is the only way too make people understand him. See, it is this response that someone can actually learn from. Kids, this is how you look after you project yourself in a negative manner. An angry little dude. Everything will be ok... just take a deep breath.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:59 PM
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Yeah, if you answer the guys question with something a little more insightful, but just saying that and that only doesn’t really accomplish anything.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:48 PM
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Truth!
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:45 PM
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With the frame checks that helped you, how many had an actual meaning, and how many were just name calling? I’m not saying monitor language or meaning... I’m just asking why the drive by name calling without a message?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:44 PM
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I’m not whining at all... you seem too have misunderstood my question. I’m not affected by the words, however, I thought this was a sub meant to help guys not throw words at them... maybe I’m wrong, maybe it really is a bunch of 12 yro boys that just learned “bad words” lol... you kids.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:41 PM
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I can agree with this... I thought this sub was too help younger guys or hell, maybe older ones too. But it seems lately it’s just a bunch of kids calling each other names and not understanding the true RP meaning.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:38 PM
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I’m not meaning censoring what people say or even sugar coating... what I’m asking about is simply the one liner responses that have no value other than the chance to call someone a name... don’t get me wrong, it doesn’t hurt my “feelings”, I just legitimately want too know why people do it.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:35 PM
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I completely understand what you are saying, and I agree with that IF there is actually something too take away from the message/ advice. What I’m actually referring too is the meaningless childish responses that have absolutely no “meat” in the message. Like a drive by one liner. I don’t know... I don’t understand it.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:32 PM
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I agree with this 100% and I was talking about the “childish” bs. I agree there needs to be a level of bluntness but it needs to be something tangible that someone can learn from.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:26 PM
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I agree, it is good point. However, I don’t agree that it’s all “strength building”. I honestly believe that some of it, especially with out a well thought out response, is actually just a bunch of juvenile preteens that just learned how to call people names behind a computer screen.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:18 PM
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If you’re an older male and you aren’t here to give advice too the next generation, then why are you here? I never once said anything about “sugar coating” anything, however, I did say legit questions. Yes, there are guys that want the “magic potions” and are lazy, and to those I don’t answer... I don’t waste my time in a response.... especially a response that only makes me looks like I’m trying too puff out my chest so people think that “I am man”... as said why bash? Why answer at all?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:12 PM
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I don’t think you should keep trying. Stop all contact unless she initiates it and even then be directed and too the point. However, don’t be a dick when/if she contacts you.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:37 AM
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If you have to get on here and ask you already know the answer and you are hoping you are wrong. Guy, she probably didn’t tell the other guy about you and that’s why she didn’t want to chat later. She was going to be with him and didn’t want you interrupting “things”. I’m assuming you haven’t been introduced into TRP very long or haven’t done much of your homework. It seems like you came here for some “how to get the girl” tips, you got them, and you left it at that without trying to understand …
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:39 PM
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Read the book “Verbal Judo” by Jerry Jenkins. It may help you out. In the book the author talks about recognizing your enemies, name them, and own them. His example in this is a trigger that someone would do to make him mad. He recognized these triggers and gave them names in his head (i.e “the asshole”). Once he gave them names he was able too ignore them and/or separate the triggers (the asshole) from the conversation. Well worth the read/audiobook listen.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:16 PM
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Never get your honey where you make your money!
/r/askTRP22/06/18 08:34 PM
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You mean 50% the child is yours... either he is or he is not. Either way you need to get a DNA test before you continue too see the child. My advice would be to Lawyer up and do not let her convince you he is yours without proof. It sounds harsh too deny the child for the time being, but what is hasher, denying him while he is an infant and doesn’t know any better or denying him at 11 yrs old when you find out he isn’t yours. Which will hurt you more? Which will hurt him more? GET THE TEST BEFOR…
/r/askTRP20/06/18 11:27 PM
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You have your idea of a unicorn dude... it is apparent you haven’t had too much experience/ exposure too the opposite gender... hang in there little buddy, you’ll be back someday to ask “why did this happen” and when you do you’ll find the answers in the side bar and from the many experienced males in this sub... but hey, good luck.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 10:16 PM
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It’s called biology you nitwit... you can see it in animal behavior just as in human behavior... females want alphas too advance their genes If you trust what she tells you that “you’re the only man for me” bullshit and you are aware of he redpill then you are too dumb to use the internet. You have too understand female maturation before you can make any claim as too how society will crumble due to spinning plates... news flash... you know why you grandmother and grandfathers marriage lasted so …
/r/askTRP18/06/18 09:17 PM
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No, people have given you sound advice. Problem is you’re too much of a pussy to take it. Instead of actually communicating with people, you want women to just magically show up at your door, and guys to be your friend everywhere you go , all while you make the excuse of your environment... if that’s what you want hire a prostitute... other wise listen to the answers you came here asking for and don’t be autistic. We didn’t ask you how to make friends and meet women, you asked us... which means …
/r/askTRP17/06/18 11:46 PM
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What do you want the sub to tell you? You are shooting everyone down with excuses... you’re just like a few other excuse laden bitches on here, you want a magic cure without doing anything for it. Go to bed and maybe you’ll wake up in the morning with an abundance of friends and women...
/r/askTRP17/06/18 09:21 PM
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That’s not the same at all! Anyhow, if it’s not a social norm to talk to strangers then how in the hell do “your people” procreate? You’re not born knowing friends and neighbors, at some point every one of your friends/ people you know were strangers. Quit using “social norm” as an excuse/ buffer... because that’s all it is.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 08:02 PM
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Actually it deals with the whole issue, you are selective reading... “GET OUT AND MEET FOLKS” . I literally solved your problems in the first sentence. Everything after that was a mere suggestion as to how. You are only limited by the excuses you choose to accept. Go to a bar/night club, the mall, or hell, go to Walmart... work on your day game/ social skills. Say hi you people you find interesting. Strike up a conversation with a stranger.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 06:32 PM
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Get out and talk to folks... you mentioned college, make friends with guys in your classes. Involve yourself in a sport or pick up MMA again.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 06:02 PM
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Only person in this world that can make you happy is yourself... you will never be happy if you rely on others to make you happy.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 10:00 PM
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Guy, you’re a 24 yr old virgin... a god damn 3- is better than what you have now! Yes, getting in shape is worth it for yourself! Your confidence will boost and you will feel better about yourself... girls will be just a bonus!
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:58 PM
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There are no “magic pills” or “secret tricks” good old fashion time and effort... you HAVE to put in the work... you asked the question and EVERYONE is telling you the same damn thing... NONE of us have a secret potion... just elbow grease and effort! You don’t want it as bad as you think you do if you are willing to disregard all advice.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:55 PM
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Ok dude, so I’ve read your post and a few comments (not all) and I have to say your attitude sucks... not just your attitude towards others but too yourself as well. Nobody wants to be around someone that is down all the time or beats themselves up and then blames everyone else for their lives. First things first, work on NOT bashing yourself. Second, stop bashing others that is giving you constructive criticism. You asked for answers on a male sub, did you think people were gonna pass out cup c…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:50 PM
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I was... then even happier when I got divorced!
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:06 PM
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News flash... you are already in the “friend zone”. You are her orbiter. If she is into you she will find a way to get with you. You went on one date and she realized you’re not it, but “I’ll keep him around for attention”, which sounds like she is getting from someone else that she “into”. Nerdy or not, girls fuck! She isn’t fucking you, but she is fucking someone! Girls need attention like guys need sex (yes, even nerdy ones) ...if she is only texting you basic “how are you” shit once or twice…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 08:41 PM
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See, that’s the problem in today’s society... the idea of “equality”... male and female will never be “equal”. They are both extremely different with each having their own roles in life to play. Don’t get it twisted! Don’t think because you can put on a pair of pants in the morning and swing a hammer in the afternoon that you are equal... you’re not! Nor am I equal to you! Men have always been the destroyers and creators of our world throughout history... women advance our species by boring and …
/r/seduction15/06/18 07:01 PM
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Someone please pat this girl on the back... she would do it for herself but her arms are full from carrying around all that “greatness” she is as a girlfriend! I agree, grandstanding only signifies how desperate you are in your “relationship”... qualifying yourself is basic female behavior.
/r/seduction15/06/18 06:50 PM
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Can’t forget The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi... it is the Bible of TRP
/r/askTRP14/06/18 02:29 AM
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If you aren’t ready for marriage then definitely don’t get married. That is a huge commitment and it’s one you should be sure about. However, I would make that known too her. Don’t keep her guessing on where you are at in the relationship. If she hangs around even after you tell her that’s great, but if not you certainly dodged a bullet. As for her being “the one”, there are 7 billion people on the planet with roughly half (give or take a few million) being female... there’s always someone else.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:35 AM
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Not sure if it’s for you but check out Wwoof.org or the likes (plenty of programs like that). In short it’s a work-travel program. You work on a farm 6-8 hrs a day and the family gives you room and board in return... if I was your age and in your situation I would check into it for sure. Just a thought.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:53 AM
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Quit seeing the world as black and white for starters. Just because you have a darker complexion doesn’t mean you have to act the same way as everyone with your skin tone.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:28 AM
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“But time comes when, no matter HOW tight your game is, most young hotties will either be "Oh, granpa is hitting on me, how cute" or "Grandpa is hitting on me, how creepy." This is completely false... I’m 40 and I’ve dated mid-twenties girls on the regular. Quite honestly, most 20 something’s want the “older guy” because his SMV is usually higher than someone her own age.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 10:17 PM
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They do this because they are fishing for compliments. It’s a test because she wants to see how “soft” you are... in other words if you oblige her with a compliment or say something like “I don’t think you are bad” you just failed her shit test. She then realizes she can talk you into anything and walk all over you. You will find yourself in the “friend zone”. Respond with something like “It’s funny because I’m really not looking for a relationship, just raw, passionate sex. I guess that means w…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:33 PM
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Addictions can be hard if you let it. I smoked nearly two packs of cigarettes on a daily basis. I finally decided that enough was enough. I was no longer going to allow something like that dictate to me how to live. There’s not a single day that goes by that I don’t wish I had just one, but I know what that “one” will do. I’ve been free of that addiction for nearly a year now, but I live day by day. You have to have a goal in mind. Do I want to quit the chat groups all together or do I want to l…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:20 PM
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I have been blessed with a round very noticeable ass as well... I promise girls love it and if you laugh at yourself about it from time to time it shows you don’t take yourself to seriously (ie “yeah, you wish you had this ass” or “I’m black from the waist down”... Im a white guy). Take every comment on your ass as complimentary, because truly that’s what it is. Girls don’t comment on your big nose or tell obese guys they are fat... remember that!
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:24 PM
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Here’s my two cents... go out with her, but do so with the intention of having a good time for yourself. If sex happens it happens, don’t pressure yourself into trying to make it happen. Do whatever it is that makes YOU happy... if she don’t like the fact that you are on the date for your own amusement/entertainment and not hers then fuck her. There’s more women out there. Don’t be scared to say or do something dumb. If you do say or do something stupid don’t give it a second thought and NEVER a…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:02 PM
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I think, like a lot of fellows on here, you forgot or misinterpreted what TRP is about. It isn’t just about slaying pussy, as any PUA can teach that. It’s more about being the best MAN for yourself you can be. Once you do this and take your own masculinity back you will see all other things fall into place as they should. In regards to the title of this post, read your Bible. The Bible is full of instances in which men are men and in fact it is encouraged to be head of the house hold. You are de…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 04:10 PM
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With any woman ALWAYS remember one thing if nothing else... “she’s not yours! It’s just your turn.” If you haven’t read the sidebar and ALL its contents, do yourself a huge favor and do so ASAP... and when you are done reading/listening (As most books can be found on audible) re-read/re-listen... let the words sink in. Understand human behavior... more so women behaviors and you will see your own personal lackings. Correct them. Correct yourself!
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 03:45 AM
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Read Bang by Roosh V. Also, I personally would never talk about another dude (brother or not), especially saying things like “he’s a med school graduate”. As far as getting her number could’ve said something simple like “Emily, you seem pretty cool. Maybe I can get your number and we can hang out sometime?” I wouldn’t pick specific venues of interest for a number...
/r/askTRP23/10/17 12:00 AM
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Analyze both relationships styles that you’ve had (used and user). See what went right and realize what went wrong in each and Work to fix that issue in yourself. Dealing with things you “don’t like” helps you in the long run. Facing truths about yourself actually helps you correct that problem. That’s what TRP is about correcting yourself to be a better man.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 07:39 AM
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Like u/Triadis3 States, you’re 19. Still very much a baby in life. You truly haven’t experienced life and I wonder if you’ve ever had a heart break over a woman. If not, then I can understand your inability to grasp TRP. It’s not about “getting girls”. Hell, BP betas “get girls”! It’s understandable human behavior. The why’s and what’s of intersexual relationships. It’s the unveiling of the matrix. The whistle blower of the “behind the scenes”. TRP exposes the cogs and gears of societal workings…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:28 AM
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Wait a few days as mentioned before. If she don’t hit you up then send her a quick message like “what’s up... I’m free tonight if ya wanna hang out.” And leave it at that. If you don’t get a response then “next”.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:34 PM
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This guy again? This dude made a comment once to a post and has copied and pasted that same damn tired ass speech about how he is the man because he gets internet photos. Even the same damn photos lol... fucking Christ!
/r/askTRP21/10/17 08:37 AM
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Always remember “she’s not mine, it’s just my turn.” Do this and you will start noticing you don’t really care anymore. You won’t have the need to check up on her because you know she is probably “talking” to 5 other dudes. Just have fun with her until she drops off. Next girl you find like that instead of a kiss and hug good bye, give her a high five and say “great sex and a good night, now get the fuck out” in a joking manner then smack her on the ass while she is on the way out the door and i…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 08:00 AM
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You are her bank, her attention giver, her orbiter. That’s all you are, especially no sex after 14 dates? You are making excuses for this girl to EVERY guy here. Why come here seeking wisdom from experienced guys and elders if you are going to make excuses for her? First off she’s probably had sex at the age of 14-15 years old and could probably teach you a few tricks. At 20, unless she’s fugly, she’s highly doubtfully a virgin. You are not her sexual priority but rather her blanket of comfort. …
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:41 AM
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Always go with what aYOU want most. It’s your life and only you can live it. If you want both then I would suggest finding a happy medium, but it sounds like you know what you really want. My question to you would be are you comfortable with your body when you power lift? If yes then that confidence will show through and it wouldn’t really matter if you had a few “extra” pounds. However, if not, I’d work on your confidence level by giving yourself a goal (whether it’s weighing a certain weigh or…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:08 AM
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I can agree with that option as well.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 10:06 PM
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Guy, I would not be proud of this story at all and would certainly not share it with a group, of would be, men. There are several things you did completely wrong. •First is inviting this woman to your house with the foreknowledge of how she is/acts. •Second, when she started hitting you you just sat there. You didn’t control the situation and stop her immediately. No, instead you allowed your friends to stop her, removing all credibility of your frame and/or alphaness. • Third, you bantered with…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 08:31 AM
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Flake on her and do not give her an excuse as to why you did. Stop texting her so much. Attention for women is like sex for men. They crave it, you are playing her game by giving her attention. The less attention you give her the more she will need it from you. A girl that wants to fuck you will find a way to fuck you. Stop playing her attention game! She will get sex from Chad and attention from you if you continue. Do you want to be her Chad or her beta orbiter? Guarantee Chad isn’t responding…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 07:07 AM
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Dude, you’re her boyfriend. Do you hold hands or kiss in public with your guy friends? No? So why do you do that shit in public with her (a FWB) ? Yes, she thinks she’s your girlfriend and you’ve allowed her to believe that and quite frankly you already knew that and enjoy it or you wouldn’t allow it. It’s not her imagination, it’s your unwillingness to accept facts.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 05:06 AM
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I think you feel a little insecure about the situation to be honest or possibly inferior to Joan. The reason I say this is because A) you are fearful that Joan can influence your wife in a way that you deem negatively? B) you are still, after two days, hung up on your encounter with Joan. C) Joan “Triggered” you and then demanded something from your behavior (Spend time with wife), to which you replied “that’s why I’m here”. In affect saying “yes ma’am”. Who the fuck is she to tell you how to li…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:47 AM
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Let's say you decide to go with monogamy. You are clean and the girl you are with has actually, in reality, been with one other guy. It was an LTR, in which, over time, they stopped using protection. You "love" this girl and you remain completely faithful to her and her to you as well. Protection goes out the window after a while, but you failed to realize one thing... her previous partner. You neglected to take into account how many (if any) women he has been with before "your" girl and how man…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 10:10 AM
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Thank man... Yeah, I guess you do have a point about "home gym". I'm just thinking out loud about being disciplined. Regardless what you do you have to have discipline. As far as how people view me, I give two fucks about SJW and the BP brigade... I'm not hiding who I am to please shit heads. I'm not hiding behind a made up screen name and if they want my address so we can "talk" about it, they are certainly more than welcome to message me for it... I'm to damn old to play fuck fuck games...
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 09:36 AM
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Actually this is me pre-gym... just working out with a sledge hammer, battle ropes, and a tractor tire in my yard. So no, you don't have to go to the gym, however, you do have to be disciplined... Waylonw
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 09:01 AM
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I think maybe you notice the white females more because you are attracted to them more... just going by your statement about Tinder. It takes two to match on tinder.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 08:36 AM
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I can remember a time when not being mainstream was "cool". If everyone is doing it be that one guy that not and watch what happens. Don't be so easy to figure out... listen to MEN twice your elder that has lived in both worlds (reality and cyber). Do you honestly believe rock stars and celebrities actually update their social media? The correct answer is no, they have a PR team to do it for them. I understand people communicate through Facebook, but remember scarcity is value...
/r/askTRP23/09/17 03:51 AM
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Shit test... did it make you jealous? Of course it did! Did it work? Of course it did! Did you lose frame? According to your statement, no you didn't. In this case I would ignore her shit test and if she does it again then you "agree and amplify". In other words find your own dance partner and get even dirtier with it while looking at your girlfriend in her eyes.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 03:37 AM
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No, not live under a rock, but if you're depending on social media to help you with the ladies your doing life wrong. Facebook is a complete waste of time... ask yourself how much of your news feed is actually worth viewing (I'd bet zero percent). Facebook/ social media is a buffer for girls as well. They get to live your life without actually being in it. You have no mysterious side to you and nothing to figure out about you because you post what you had for breakfast on your timeline. Get rid …
/r/askTRP23/09/17 03:04 AM
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Have sex without condom. Plan for next 9 months how to make a murder look like a suicide. Be there for birth of baby. Botch murder. Be sent to prison for murder. Be come bubba's bitch. Live happily ever after. Wtf kind of question is this?
/r/askTRP23/09/17 02:59 AM
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Better yet, delete your Facebook account.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 02:47 AM
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Actually, I have female "friends" that would be in my bed before I finished the sentence "let's fuck", but I have no intention or interest in them. I do sexually flirt heavily with them (because ya never know when a rainy day comes). I do take them out because I know how to play the game. I know they always try to qualify themselves by introducing me to other females. Don't get it wrong, I don't orbit lol.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 09:58 PM
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A sexual relationship does not mean you are necessarily having sex, however, there is a sexual charge to the relationship (i.e. Not a brother sister type relationship). You don't have to fuck all your plates, but all your plates should want to fuck you at any given moment. Sexual does not always have to be intercourse.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 06:00 PM
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Spinning plates DOES NOT mean you are fucking all your plates. However, it does mean your plates do want to fuck you. You can "date" girls or go out with girls and not have sex with them. Flirt with girls and give them just enough to want to be with you but not so much that the are comfortable being with you. I know, that make no sense right? Sexual tension is uncomfortable but necessary. With the plates YOU have the ability to place them in that imaginary "friend zone". You still have to be sex…
/r/askTRP21/09/17 09:01 PM
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If I had to do X,Y,Z to be part of a family that is supposed to love you "unconditionally" then I don't want to be part of that family period. Your brother is probably better off. You have more class in your pinky toe than your family has in their entire body. Be there for your brother and he'll be there for you.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 08:42 PM
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I'm gonna agree with this one!
/r/askTRP21/09/17 06:38 PM
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Try this... next time you are being "intimate" with her or are all over her and she says that reply with a low soft "mmm hmmm?!". Make it come across as "yeah, right" and keep touching her. Works great if you are behind her and are kissing her neck as you are saying it. Then just bend her over and take it. That's really all she want you to do is take it when she tells you that and unless it's an obvious "NO" do whatever you want with her.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 09:30 AM
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Find an ugly fat girl that way you don't expect to much and she will be grateful regardless of the outcome... build your confidence and you'll see you are hyping it up way too much!
/r/askTRP18/09/17 03:42 PM
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First off you're 35 not 90. You have plenty of time to workout and grow. I'm 40 and I started hitting the gym earlier this year (6 months ago). I've dropped three pant sizes and gained a lot more muscle mass so don't by into the "you're too old" bullshit! 80% of getting into shape is what you eat... if you eat like shit guess what? Yep, you're gonna look like shit! You may never be "body builder" status, but you can make gains by eating right and working out regularly. Limited or cut all sugars …
/r/askTRP18/09/17 03:19 PM
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Dude just stop... you do sound controlling. "He needs to go, period." Why? Cause you said so? Either trust her or don't... Jesus! Is it really worth the fucking hassle of driving yourself insane and looking like a chump? Because honestly, that's what you're looking like, an insecure chump. Either next her or enjoy the ride. You are out of control right now.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 01:50 PM
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Have one a FWB and make sure you're both on the same page with not having "feelings" and keeping low key. At the same time flirt with the other girls in your "harem" in a light hearted sexual way. Make it covertly known you are just playful and nothing more. You have the option to place them in the "friend zone", not the other way around. Believe it or not having female wingmen is the best thing ever. For some reason they have this "need" to try and "match" you with someone. I think it has a lot…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 11:28 PM
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Last night go out to a bar with a few female friends. We are having a good time laughing and cutting up when a few more females join in (I'm the only guy) and I'm making jokes and just having a good time all around. I notice this very attractive "older woman" (I'm 40 and usually go with 23-27 year olds. She was my age but damn fine!). Not quite sure how it happened, but we were introduced and suddenly we're on the dance floor and making out (kissing and heavy kino) for the world to see. This hap…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 05:44 PM
1

To busy getting pictures to go out... ain't nobody got time for dat!
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 12:04 AM
5

About a week ago I posted on learning to say "no". In that post I made mention of "trying" to quit smoking (in reality I should have said "in the process of quitting"). I'm pleased to say it's been seven days since my last cigarette. I'm not gonna lie and tell you I haven't thought about it every morning I wake up, after every meal that I've eaten, or even every night before I go to bed, but I control my thoughts and am telling myself "No". I'm also in the process of learning not to care about w…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 05:42 PM
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Wait, not "to tired" to celebrate, but "to tired" for sex? Something doesn't sound right with that at all. Her words say "I'm stressed" but her actions say "I'm just not into you anymore". Quit playing by her rules. Buy her a stripper outfit, put it in a box with a note that says "gone for ice. When I get back you better be wearing this!" Take charge! Stop being her comfortable and familiar beta... when celebrating on the town for your anniversary, take her to a strip club without telling her wh…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 12:18 PM
1

1) yes... but remember "it's just your turn" 2) I would wait and play it out. I'd probably ghost her off and one for a little bit just to build tension. If she wants you before then she will let you know. 3) The "friend" is probably trying to cockblock you because she's interested in you as well... female friends wouldn't do that to their friend otherwise. 4) Next time you see her she's not a "friend" so make your sexuality known. 5) until you get a flat out "NO" ignore her words... women say on…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 01:38 AM
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Never under any circumstances mention a boyfriend or husband. If she is into you she's not thinking of him at all. Why bring him up to the forefront of her mind? Don't even acknowledge it in any manner, even if she brings it up.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 04:25 PM
1

All I do is remember this sentence "she's not yours, it's just your turn". You have to learn she is a "play thing" and nothing more.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 11:15 PM
2

Truth! Nothing but problems.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 11:11 PM
7

Agreed!
/r/askTRP13/09/17 09:36 PM
1

Success is measured differently for each man. Some men value the dollar and only consider themselves successful if they are loaded with money and fancy cars. Other men measure success on how they spend their time. They consider them successful if they have a career that's also a hobby. For them their "job" is not a job. Some find success in being in the top of their field. Being the "go to" guy for problems. For them showing how "smart" they are to others is a reward. And yet others consider the…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:32 PM
2

My suggestion is next the FWB if you once had a "crush" on her. Yeah, you might be hitting it every night, but when she tells you about the Chad she is seeing at the moment it'll do something to you every time! She don't need to be in your life. Six months isn't long at all keep working on yourself for yourself, not for anyone else. Get a hobby! If there's women on the train why aren't you talking to them? I understand work, but a train? Talk to them... they won't bite (in public anyways). Your …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 07:52 AM
2

I know A LOT of females on a personal level and let me assure you 9/10 is probably more accurate than 6-7/10... just because you never catch them don't mean they're not doing it.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 04:29 AM
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Are you a dad or a sperm donor? Never be ashamed of your kids... plates will come and go (and who gives a shit), but your kids will always be your kids! If a chic can't accept that you have kids she's not a plate for you to spin... next! Now, that's not to say introduce your kids to your plates, but never hide your kids.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 07:31 AM
6

You're using your "standards" as a buffer... what's the real reason you're afraid to get laid? Be honest with yourself!
/r/askTRP12/09/17 07:21 AM
1

Look man, guys get hung up on height about as much as they do dick size... Be comfortable with yourself change what you can and accept what you can't. It's not your height or your hair, it's how you value yourself. That's what shows through. Not youth, not clothes, not social media.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 07:03 AM
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You're talking to females online and getting pictures... well, I'm impressed
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 06:43 AM
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Hahahahaha!!! Wait, let me catch my breath.... hahahaha!! That's hilarious! Dude, you are 23 envying 18 year olds? You are basing their "value" off of instagram likes (which are probably from 12 year olds)? Man up guy, you have your whole life ahead of you! I'm 40 years old and can pull women your age. Remember one thing, if nothing else. The older you get the greater your sexual market value increases for women. Take the "young" years to work on YOUR goals/dreams, stay off of social media (it's…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 01:39 AM
1

I think I would've faced criticism either way, but it was part of my personal experience and I didn't want to leave the smoking part out. I know smoking is bad, that's why I identified as such. However, I could've used "in the process of quitting" rather than "trying to quit"... that probably would've made the difference. Eh, it is what it is. No use and sweating the word play now.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 08:30 PM
2

I didn't say I wasn't "able to". I said I'm trying... it is another aspect of my life that I am working on. Yes, I am in the process of quitting. I am currently on Chantex to correct this issue. I know some folks are able to quit issues and addictions cold turkey. To that I say good for you... I believe, even though I'm taking a different route, as long as the out come is the same I'm satisfied. Maybe some day we can all be perfect and wouldn't need this forum, but until that day I'll keep readi…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:09 PM
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Unless you've had an addiction, you don't know what you are talking about. I'm not making excuses at all... I never once brought up an excuse as to why I haven't quit. I simply said I'm am trying... you can't turn a battle ship on a dime I don't give a damn what kind of man you think you are. Just like you can't embrace the red pill in one day... I am currently on Chantix for smoking, so yes, it's a work in progress. But thank for your needless input.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 10:40 PM
2

I will certainly check this out, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 04:27 PM
1

Oh no doubt about that at all... you're absolutely right!
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 12:37 AM
1

"Women might find a lone wolf hot but she will go for the alpha every time because he comes with a group or pack she can belong to." I could argue this point with my own personal experiences. Many times I have went out to the club by myself just to chill and listen to music. I have found that, although I'm sitting alone, more women has approached me than they have if I'm out with a group of people. With that said, I do go out with the "bad boy" image. I have full sleeve tattoos on both arms, I'm…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 03:25 PM
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1) yes, you can. You can have a blast and never reveal your past, your true intentions, or your feelings. You'll be the good time guy that nobody can quite figure out. Always keep them guessing! 2) Yes they can both be alphas, depending of course on the situation and environment. Alpha is a leader of men. He don't have to speak but when he does people listen. If he is out going he can still lead the situation through his personality. It's all about your mind set and who you are as a person. 3) I…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 10:36 AM
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I had mine done after ex wife almost died during child birth... best thing I've ever done, however, I do have two children. For future reference get it done! I'm 40 and rarely do I spin/date girls over 27 and it's never been a big issue... remember, you're just her "good time" and enjoy the ride.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 11:30 PM
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Don't assume she's cheating, know she is! Remember, she's not yours, it's just your turn. If you have to constantly look over your shoulder while she's not looking is it really worth it? Is being with her worth it if it is driving you crazy and consuming your time to check up on her constantly? I'd say "no", simply because I was once there. It will drive you insane looking for clues. And after all that self reassurance, you're still gonna lose! Just have fun with her man and know she is seeing s…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 07:32 PM
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I completely agree if it were a chick I plan on spinning on the regular, so far this was a one time event (last night). Sex is sex and for me can be chalked up as just that, but for me personally, kissing, cuddling, etc is more of an intimate/ romantic "feelings" builder. I don't want to establish any type of feelings in that regards between her and I. My question isn't about kissing, but rather other boundaries I might need to set forth.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 07:07 PM
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Are you here just to troll or do you have anything that could actually be useful to the community?
/r/askTRP02/09/17 02:16 PM
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It is a serious question, so if you don't have any tangible advice get off my nuts... bro.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 02:03 PM
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This is an interesting topic I've had with several different women. As a ruling majority, most find that body hair signifies masculinity, however, that doesn't mean most women prefer body hair. As recently as two days a go a HB8 on Facebook that I'm "friends" with posted on this exact topic. Her post said this "Ya'll seriously need to quit shaving your chest to make it look bigger. You look 12!" and of course debates ensued. Some women like their men to have a little something to run their finge…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 02:05 PM
1

Here's what a 40 year old man knows... Snapchat is a "cheating" app plain and simple. Get the app, use the app! Girls in a relationship use it to sneak around without getting caught... take advantage of that! I never post snaps on my story line, people don't need to know your Business and the more "mysterious" you are the more valuable you are to women. Don't save pictures or snap conversations and don't be so hasty in responding to snaps... and for fucks sake don't use the map feature! Edit: do…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 09:16 AM
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First off life for guys (especially single guys) doesn't really start until you're in your mid 30's... I'm 40 this year and life is great! I have a career, not just a job. I have my own house, two vehicles, and a boat. And odd as it sounds younger girls (21 and up) can't stay away from me. The key is to be the master of your own universe. Be in control and set goals for yourself. Don't focus so much at how others perceive you and don't feel like you have to do X, Y, and Z to be happy. Happiness …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 11:57 AM
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You are correct in your evaluation of the quote and after re-reading it initially I did realize the true meaning of the quote, however, I chose to leave it the way it was. Thanks for correcting it for the audience.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 11:39 AM
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I haven't seen that man in nearly twenty years now, however, I have some advice. Why do you feel like you have to "assimilate into society"? You don't have to. TRP isn't just about relationships (or the lack there of) with women, but actually making yourself a better man for none other than yourself. I think a lot of young men on here miss that point. Do your own thing for a while until you conquer your own self being and are ready and/or willing to join society with a firm grasp on what makes y…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 09:10 AM
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OP gets it! I've read a lot of post in this sub a often found myself reading the "how too" on having sex with the woman of your dreams. To that I roll my eyes. I haven't been an avid reader for long, however, my take away on TRP is supposed to help improve your life all the way around, not just with the ladies, but with yourself... being the best you you can be. So it boggles me when I read about sexual escapades. I get it, you scored, but what are you actually doing to make changes for self imp…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 03:15 PM
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Not even sure what you are saying here.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 02:41 PM
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He is in her frame... think about it. She took him to a concert. She took him back to her place. She made him do "the walk of shame". He didn't "win" his oneitis, he became her bitch.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 04:43 AM
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Here's the deal... I understand there are a lot of dare I say "young bucks" out there (I myself am a 40 year old stag) that seem to be ecstatic that they "finally got laid" by the girl they have been chasing. First, you should NEVER chase! Remember, you are the prize! If anything they should be chasing you and if done right they will. You must be the unobtainable carrot at the end of the stick. If you tried with the girl for more than a week it's next time. Do not ever breed on her terms, as now…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 03:47 AM
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To OP, it sounds like she may be trying to lure you into to her web as well, asking you to send text for her as her English "is bad". Sounds like she is trying to make a white knight out of you by having you save the day with her communication problems. Be cautious...
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 03:59 PM
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