So I want to preface by saying that I am still relatively new to TRP. I have been a bit slow and naive in accepting a lot of it, let alone enforcing aspects of it into my daily life. Not that i'm not trying to. But this story involves an LTR and how interestingly deceptive some women are. I write this now, contemplating my time with this woman, as a great experiment and absolutely nothing to be upset over.

So I met this girl close to one year ago. I met her on Tinder (LTR'ing a tinder girl - red flag #one!). Our first meetup was great. She was really quite good looking. Id put her at about an high 7, nearly an 8. We bounced off each other well and got along. We continued dating for a few weeks and all was going well. I really liked this girl and wanted to keep her around for a while. She was cool, fun and laid back. She genuinely seemed interested in me.

By the third date we had sex for the first time. Was great. I ended up staying the night. Over the course of the night we had been playing music on youtube. The following morning she got up to take a shower and I was trying to find a song i played the previous night by checking the history and clicking back. But bam - I see a slew of other dating websites where she has been on and received hundred of messages from guys seeking some attention from her (red flag #two). As this a while after we'd been seeing each other, and I thought she was beginning to invest in me a bit, i was surprised to see that. I called her out on it and she made up some story about trying to find some ex boyfriend on there and that I shouldn't worry (red flag #three). I didn't really care, as it was early days, she can still sit on dating websites.. Whatever. She told me "Don't worry! I'm not that kind of person! I don't do that kind of thing."

Anyways, months go by and we're dating a lot. I ask her after about three months if she wanted to actually be in a relationship with me (yep I know, BP as fuck.) She wasn't sure and said she needed to get to know me more (red flag #four). We spent a lot of time together, then by about month 4, suddenly one night when im staying over she asks "are we in a relationship now?" - i was happy to say "yes, sure we should be."

Anyways, cut to a few months later. Something in my gut just doesn't feel right about this girl. I manage to see her logging into her phone and catch an eye of the password. When she was asleep at night, i got up and checked it out. (Maybe I was a bit insecure, maybe I was curious. I'm still learning here!). So what I see is that... there have been maybe 25-30 guys she's obviously been playing around with or fucking in the past two years. She was actually in a relationship (not just seeing) with THREE different dudes at one time . When one got stale, the other conversation with the other guy seemed a bit more happier and hot. She was branch swinging like a psychotic ape.

Anyways, I realised that two of these guys called it quits on her ... somewhere right around the time she finally decided to be in a relationship with me (that night she said "are we in a relationship".) (Red flag JACKPOT!) Haha. So yeah - just discovered that she's a lying whore. I don't feel bad though for some reason. I feel like after reading so much on here i've come to accept the nature of these women. I actually felt kind of relieved strangely, maybe as it signified my gut feeling had been correct.

Anyways. I guess the underlying lesson learned here is AWALT. I've lost a few months here, regardless a good lesson was learned. I'm just about to kick her out of my life and find some other girls to smash now. Thanks RP!