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PPN should include your time and thus generalise to RPN: resources per nut. Married men are often paying thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours per orgasm. Generally with a relationship the RPN goes down slightly after the initial meeting and first few crappy dates. Then it starts to rise exponentially while she talks about "commitment" and "love" and "devotion" and not so much about hot monkey sex. Spend your resources wisely gentlemen.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/24 08:10 PM
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> It is in your best interest to identify and cut these pessimistic, overthinking losers out of your life. ​ Why the fuck would you listen to anyone else in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/23 06:34 PM
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It started when I continued hanging with my loser friends who had no aspirations in life and got a DUI I hope you ditched everyone who is holding you back. But also: ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY...... you did this, not them. Fast foreword 2 years later I’m still living with her we’re in a LTR and I don’t see a way out. If you don't have kids together there is always a way out. I’ve put on 40 lbs in that time, and don’t see an easy way out. Unless you are so fat you can't fit through the door, what's st…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/23 01:29 PM
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So even though it's an insignificantly small amount of money for me, I should not spend any money on women because spending money in itself makes me less attractive to them? Am I understanding this correctly? Because you also say Yes. A coffee or a drink is fine, nothing more than that. Doesn't matter how insignificant it is to you.... the more you pay the less attractive you are. Which sounds like the point is saving money which I don't care about at all. No, it's not about saving money. It's y…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/23 01:27 AM
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Reflecting on the road to absolute power I find myself looking at what powerful people have - social status/influence, money, success, women - and I find myself wanting those things. Right. Power gets you things you want. That's pretty much the definition of power: it gets you what you want. But I realized that, desire, is absolute weakness, always. Need is weakness. We need water. We need food. We need shelter. The person who can best fulfill our needs has absolute power over us. Desire is moti…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/23 04:00 PM
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I propose Dude, if it takes 6 paragraphs to explain what's going on, it's not gonna stick. "Post wall" says it all.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/23 03:58 PM
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They politely held their end of the conversation, but when I tried to flirt they stayed businesslike. They rarely looked at me. Three ordered coffee, one girl ordered fucking mineral water, even though it was swanky downtown lounges during happy hour. Three possibles: Lack of attraction Obvious She has an agenda that you don't know about. I don't think it's this.... if she's not trying to get money or resources out of you (and failing), I can't see it. Four girls just isn't that many. Good phone…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/23 03:57 PM
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My genuine question for y'all is... what do you do if you can't afford to compete with Mr. Rapper by dropping 20 grand on a bigger table and more booze? "Don't do that, it's disrespectful". She'll shit test. "I don't do that to you, you don't do that to me". She continues to shit test. "I said no". After that she either complies or you dump her. You can't win 'em all, but you can walk away from shitty situations and shitty people.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/23 07:28 PM
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Most of women's bodycount are based on sexual unsatisfaction Wait what...... women have sex to get sexual satisfaction ??
/r/TheRedPill05/08/23 01:38 PM
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Am I being irrational? You're right to be suspicious, but this might actually be fairly innocent. This time.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/23 07:39 PM
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Obviously, she didn't have a proper answer. She didn't know what the fuck was going on with her. She knows what's wrong, but she still takes the opportunity to leverage your sexual interest to her benefit. The women in the discussion thread got very defensive and mad. Yes. You are supposed to do everything to benefit women, no questions asked. NO QUESTIONS ASKED. You broke the rule. this must've been as a result of some sort of behavior change of mine Stopped giving a fuck what she thought. Soli…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/23 07:37 PM
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Their standards are sky-high, but that is not necessarily their fault Of course it's their fault..... the social media, tik tok and instagram influence comes from other women. Throw everything at maximizing your fucking looks Yep. Women offer ONLY their looks, so they have to be good.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/23 10:57 PM
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TL;DR: Make conversation
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 09:42 PM
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So I called her after 5 minutes and then she started bitching about how its my fault as a man Bullet dodged. Thoughts? What should I have done? Understood the situation faster and ended things sooner.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 09:39 PM
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I guess I just somehow feel like this one is different She isn't. She's pretending to be different to hook you. There is no "this one is different". Woman are not all the same, but they are all WOMEN. the same some part of me longs for a true partner And I long for Santa Claus to be real. That longing in you does not mean a perfect woman exists that will fulfil that need. I will gauge her behaviour for the next while and make a more logical decision when I’m in an abundant place again I don't ge…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 09:37 PM
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Midlife Dating: Where Have All The Good Middle-Aged Men Gone? From the article we can infer that "good" means "willing to commit to one middle aged woman and her baggage with very little sex entirely on her terms". Our needs change as we age. Haha.... yes they sure do. Now let's look at what is being offered to the men in this article. For me, it's the vision of sitting beside my person years later in a rocking chair and feeling blessed and safe to have him beside me. Offered: She will sit in he…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/23 05:10 PM
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Men are at a disadvantage in these complex games We are at a disadvantage because when we test girls back they fail and fail hard.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/23 12:08 AM
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She hasn’t given me any reason to not trust her but… SHE IS FEMALE. I always just imagine moving in and having her start to play those games. Women respond to circumstances, and circumstances CHANGE. I’m aware that these obsessions are not based on the reality of the situation and it’s unfair to her to have me question her loyalty when she hasn’t done anything wrong. What's the odds that this woman is different to all the others? 1) how can I ease these obsessions and have a more grounded outloo…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/23 05:01 PM
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How I should have reacted Ok, you've got three options here. Play it weak, this is what you did. "no no no it's not like that". Denial, caring about her opinion, etc. Jokey / A+A / etc. These are the options you listed, none of which are good. Play it straight. You say this by saying what something is. You ignore the drugs comment, and say "this is my chemistry lab where I study metallurgy and inorganic chemistry, do you know what that is? here, let me show you how to make salt out of sodium and…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/23 04:55 PM
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Preselection is good, but this time and effort and money is better spent in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/23 04:46 PM
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& being honest when I was single I never got asked out on actual dates by anyone. I doubt that. My now boyfriend is my first boyfriend ever. Guys would only approach me for sex So guys literally say "let's have sex" and no guy ever asked you to meet for drinks or coffee? How many guys have YOU asked out? It's easy to complain that you don't get what you want, but much harder to do something about it. & I've had more guys ask me for money than guys that have ever spent money on me. But that is no…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/23 04:19 PM
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So I wanted guys take on the subject You say you want guy's take on the subject. Your post starts with a question. You say you are asking if creepy guys exist. But your whole post is telling us about unwelcome advances you've received. You are pretending to ask a question, while your whole post is a list of unwelcome advances with no question or discussion point at all.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/23 04:17 PM
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This post is from a female, so remember that 90% of it is PR and the rest is whining. Girl - you've got it fucking easy. Quit complaining that the sexual advances you have in abundance are not all from men attractive enough for you.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/23 07:49 PM
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the idea of having a life partner in your life who cares for you and loves you It's a lovely idea. But as you've figured out, women are not built like that. I know you crave that. We all crave that. BUT IT DOES NOT EXIST. I think you've figured that out. You become a machine for feeding and taking care of others, and sometimes in the end you don't even get appreciated Exactly. Marriage is nothing more than a long term one-sided government-enforced providership contract. I am considering options …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/23 07:45 PM
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Jesus christ, you guys with your purple pill delusions.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/23 05:52 PM
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You're new to women, aren't you
/r/TheRedPill05/07/23 05:52 PM
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Saying “the chemistry wasn’t quite there” softens the blow a lot – you’re blaming something external (lack of chemistry) rather than saying it’s her fault. Normally I’m a proponent of raw honesty, but this is one time when it’s best to phrase it in a nicer way. I would argue that this IS raw honesty. Or as raw as it needs to be. "you're not my type" is the same thing as "I am not attracted to you", but allows the receiver to believe it's a compatibility thing rather than an attractiveness thing.…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/23 08:23 PM
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I haven't seen anything on the sidebar related to this topic specifically. What is usually your go to response when these questions arise when on a date with a woman? Do you tell the truth? Tell her you're a virgin with a smile and a sparkle in your eye. That should do for the first 3 dates. My plan is to lie, make up a past relationship that lasted no longer than a year, and say that I haven't really been focused on relationships and that my standarts are very high. meh, not a fan of lying. Thi…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 06:52 PM
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Agreed...... but yeah, "don't marry" is more legally assured than hoping your prenup holds up in court later.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 06:49 PM
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Yeah, marriage is a one-sided providership contract designed to support women and children. The man is the provider (legally enforced), the woman has no responsibilities and will retake her freedom when it is most profitable to do so. This is why women are so keen on marriage: it's a no-lose deal for them.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 06:25 PM
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But there will also be women that will love you and treat you with respect. Try losing your job and see how much love and respect you get. prenup Prenups are regularly thrown out by the courts when it suits them. I feel that 90% of the issues will be resolved through a calm, non-accusatory, realistic conversation. See the other post on TRP about discussing things openly with women.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 04:53 PM
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Either you enter the marriage wheel and loose your assets or you keep it casual and become a lonely man at some point in life Getting married is more likely to result in loneliness. If you're single with money you'll always have options. If you're divorced and broke you are not even visible to women.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 04:51 PM
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Relevant Quote 1: Do not wrestle with pigs. You just get dirty and the pig enjoys it. Relevant Quote 2: Discussing things with women is like playing chess against a pigeon: no matter how clever your move, the pigeon just kicks over all the pieces and then shits on the board.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 04:48 PM
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> how do I imagine our relationship She wants commitment. But if you give commitment too easily you can't be attractive to other women, so she won't be attracted to you either. > Am I missing something guys? Did she shittested me, and I didn't have a clue? For whatever reason attraction has been lost. It's that simple and that complicated.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/23 01:02 AM
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TL;DR GLO has a girlfriend and she is NOT LIKE THE REST.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/23 12:38 AM
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For women: https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2018/10/sexual-partners-and-marital-happiness/573493/ esp. fig 2. Direct comparisons between divorce rate and partner counter for men and women exist, but I can't find the best ones right now - have a look for yourself, they're out there. Sadly the reporting of them isn't great due to our gynocentric media culture. Another factor to bea…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 07:14 PM
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like, what sort of mental gymnastics do you have to pull to call men who don't want a woman who was been through lots of dick 'intimidated' It's cope
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 07:06 PM
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We used to ban concern trolling, what the fuck is this shit. Intimidated by your partners sexual past? Intimidated no. Disgusted. neckbeard shit Ops: please ban the troll
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 06:43 PM
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No, see my comment above. Or below.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 06:42 PM
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But DOUBLE STANDARD!! Don’t these reasons apply to guys as well? Well no. (Agreeing with OP here). High n-count men are not crazy, you have to be pretty sane to get girls. Emotional bonding for men doesn't decrease with partner count (proven even by our gyno-centric science funding). Baggage is lower for sexually successful than sexually frustrated men. STD: well, that depends on use of condoms or not. Varies obviously. Emotionally embedded admiration of sexually successful men. But more than an…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 06:41 PM
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Long story short I feel like my girlfriend requires as much effort to take care of as myself plus another half of me you have to start off every relationship on better terms than this. if you're putting in more than she is, you'll feel used and she'll get bored. I looked back at other girls I've known and I feel like two of them may have contributed a fair amount to their husbands. My grandma worked a lot at home, but if my grandpa weren't married wouldn't his life have been a heck of a lot easi…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 12:38 AM
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Ok. Get better hearing aids / wear a hat / colour them differently. People pick on people with disability. It's not right, but it's how the world is. Walking stick, glasses, hearing aid, being short, you fucking name it and people will see it as a sign of weakness and this invites attack. Do what you can to mitigate how this looks. and throughout my life people have fkn made fun of them calling me deaf cunt, disabled, robot, and shit like ‘do the hearing aids rot your brain and make you have aut…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 01:16 PM
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When I benched 115kg I overheard this guy saying to his friend “how is this disabled cunt benching more than me? How the hell do they know you're deaf? How did you hear them if you have hearing loss? And another time I finished my set on bench I looked up and saw these girls scowling at me. Girls do this sometimes, just ignore that shit. Normally when a guy bulks up he gets positive attention from women Err no...... it's just not that simple. but ultimately I find that people hate it when I am t…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 10:17 AM
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And this is why you should never commit. Be grateful she didn't pull the wool over your eyes long enough to marry you
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 04:41 PM
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dominant male lion ... This seems to run counter to the human experience Dude.... people are not animals and animals are not people. There are a fuck tonne of differences. The whole alpha/beta thing that you describe only works in closed environments where people are not free to leave (prisons or where you steal a girl's passport). Unless you're a psycho, women are free to leave, so if you mate guard she is free to find a better mate. So you look insecure and it doesn't work. When did this chang…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 03:37 PM
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To support this further: 50% chance your marriage ends in divorce. Of the remaining 50%, most are unhappy especially for the man who is usually doing much, much more than the woman while he is sexually frustrated, miserable, and lacking options. Men often remain in happy marriages because divorce is so bad for them. How many marriages are great for the man, really? 10%? 5%? Have you ever even witnessed it? DO NOT MARRY
/r/TheRedPill03/06/23 12:17 PM
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Is this absent because TRP caters mainly to younger men? This is absent because we discuss sexual strategy, not being a parent. From the sidebar, right there on the side: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. I guess I am curious why TRP seems to have a rather myopic view of the individual and his self-gratification rather than (if it is truly about biology) a long-term evolutionary perspective? But we are not "truly about biol…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/23 12:14 PM
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The "stay over" thing is fine. but after the party I was planning on telling her that I really like her, to hint that I might want something more serious. Commitment kills attraction. This is too soon, she knows from your previous conversations and actions that this is coming. You simply moved too fast emotionally and it turned her off. Come the day before the party, she texts on IG saying she wasn’t feeling well and that she wouldn’t be going. That’s fine. I didn’t really believe her as by this…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/23 01:18 PM
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TLDR; Paid $1k for sex.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/23 09:51 PM
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, girls in the early 30s are still very attractive and are the most fun to date since they are more evolved Good luck finding an early 30's woman without baby rabies.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/23 09:08 PM
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Most men who are above the age of 40 look like trash Men only age like wine if they stay on their mission, work hard on themselves, stay in shape, etc. Most men fuck it up. My point is that men don't age like wine, and instead have it way worse than equivalent aged women in many respects. Oh hell no. It's much easier to be a dateable man at 50 than a dateable woman. Better career options, look better, work harder. Men have it wayyyyyyy better at 50, so long as they keep their ass in shape. Besid…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/23 09:07 PM
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What the fuck is this shit? Who even is EGO_PON?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/23 06:44 PM
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I find deviating from this behavior to be difficult, as I always imagined the ideal man to be kind and a gentleman to everyone. This isn't your imagination, this is your indoctrination. I am asking for advice from those who are more experienced to help nudge me in the right direction. Should I keep pursuing becoming a self-actualized man? Yes! It won't get you women, but it's good for YOU. Ok, what you do is this: Be as physically attractive as possible. All the other stuff is nice, but this get…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/23 06:33 PM
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Important PSA: TRP isn't about women. It's about independent self-actualization. What the fuck is this blue pill shit? If you're confused, it's right there in the side bar: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/23 10:40 PM
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Also, most of the girls I've been on dates have traveled a lot and I didn't have that opportunity as a kid, so I come off as boring in comparison. As a result, most of the girls I've only seen them once or twice. They seem very interested at first (I assume because of my appearance) and I have no problems getting dates, but attraction seems to wear off quickly. Girls will, to a certain extent, fake initial interest in a guy if they are somewhat attracted. They fake being completely sold to keep …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/23 10:37 PM
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Luckily using and having the red pill mindset I found a women that if I was homeless tomorrow she’d be sleeping on the street with me Don't ever believe things like this. It's just not true. Women SAY these things, but change their mind when it comes down to it. And blame you. Every guy believes "this one is loyal". I understand the importance of money of course but right now I can’t seem to break the content my mind feels at the moment at where I am financially Well, are you content or wanting …
/r/TheRedPill03/03/23 12:59 AM
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She says she loves me My man, you gotta stop believing in female love. It. Does. Not. Exist. but if I picture settling and building with her Women do not build any more. You are expected to present yourself fully formed and complete, she expects to be carried. Our laws enable and protect her opportunism. I refuse to break up, and her as well. But is it possible to build a plane already in the air? I'll do the motions, diversify my time and find interests and hobbies. If she pull the plug before …
/r/TheRedPill03/03/23 12:25 AM
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The most important thing is that you understand what's going on. That knowledge works in all situations.... a clever response works in only one situation.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/23 02:54 PM
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thanks!
/r/TheRedPill19/02/23 02:53 PM
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Talking of which...... when you post here on reddit, it STILL redirects you to reddit asktrp instead of forums.red.... For the love of god and the tenth time of asking, can we change that image to point to the correct place. I can do the image editing if you need it.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/23 10:52 PM
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And for some reason I use that emotional fragility to snap back into all the old “blue pilled” habits that I thought I left behind, mainly binge eating Cheetos, binge watching porn, and skipping the gym Humans are naturally lazy. Short term benefits are easy and certain, long term benefits are hard and risky. Of course, this “relapse” only lasts 3-4 days or so and soon, I’m back to my regular/new “red pilled” self, but I’d love some answers on why this seems to happen, and how I can prevent this…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/23 08:50 PM
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Good points
/r/TheRedPill02/02/23 08:45 PM
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Men aren't really considered "sacrificing" anything when they work. Providing for someone else (whether by choice or against their will) isn't really considered "oppression" in the same way Right. It's obligation. And the thing about obligation is that it's one way: girls don't need to be grateful for male effort because that is men's job to just do it. Obligation obligates people to work for free. It's a cunning trick. Don't buy into it. I realized this by how many people seem to think being a …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/23 09:57 PM
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I'm not even interested in getting in a relationship (never had one) Good..... honestly relationships aren't that great. I'm just looking for sex which is just sad. Sex is great, nothing wrong with that..... it's just not EVERYTHING. Find some other purpose in your life. My main issue is the fact I'm obsessed with it, I always think about ways to meet more girls, like go to dorms where I don't live to talk to girl there, go to uni partys/events uninvited, meet girls in class I'm not part of, etc…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/23 09:48 PM
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You can say the west prevents you from getting married and having children because of laws and the quality of women. Agreed And that the business environment sucks for men Well, this is not true. Business is really hard, but anyone who has done it as a man doesn't feel that they are being prejudiced against. There just aren't many women doing it. Yes they get a bit of extra free media attention for showing up, but they don't get much extra (maybe the occasional bit of woke investment).... but ve…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/23 09:46 PM
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re point 1: men and women are DIFFERENT. Men can respect an attractive woman being nice. Women do not find a nice man attractive. re point 2: men and women are DIFFERENT. Stop comparing the two, we're different species. E.g. Your girlfriend says she will give you a blowjob if you go out for lunch with her family. urgh no. that's transactional beta sex. She fucks you because she wants to fuck you, you don't have to pay for it. She gets sex with an attractive man, end of story. There is no "sex fo…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/23 02:13 PM
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hey can we just go get drinks instead?" "sure but I get to choose where. Deal?" This is fully buying into her frame..... not only are you agreeing to her plan, you are making it even easier for her by planning it all out. I read this as "will you be beta for me". This is a big step back and when a girl takes a step back you need to take a BIGGER step back. Best way is to not respond for a week. Understand that "time together without sex" means "I am losing attraction but wish to retain your comm…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/23 01:56 PM
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With women, on the other hand, I feel extremely bad if I don't succeed directly. I have an image in my head that describes if a man doesn't get every other woman, that he is not good enough for women. Part of the problem is that women are not being honest about their availability. 50% of women will be very happy with their boyfriends or lovelife. 15% are lesbians. 15% are devout Christians..... the list goes on.... and you just don't know what you're dealing with going in. If I knew that it is a…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 11:29 PM
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Mainstream media often want to appeal to both genders and avoid such negative publicity. Nope..... mainstream media only cares about women.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 11:25 PM
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Cold approach is dumb. I get doing it at 18-25 but any older is kind of sad. Women know immediately when you cold approach them that you’re only there for one thing. This raises her Anti-slut Defenses immediately and results in the abysmal 1%-5% success rate most of you have. 3% success rate is normal for men who are attractive and good at this. That's 30 approaches before you fuck a girl....... BUT...... most of those approaches go nowhere fast so take little time, and the girls who fuck you on…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 05:38 PM
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I've just came to the conclusion that I don't get anything out of a relationship except sex Right. Women don't offer anything except sex.... so you should have awesome sex, keep your options open, and build and keep the rest of your life for yourself. and kids down the road. Maybe kids down the road. MAYBE. But women are not an investment and kids are the biggest obligation. What is in relationships for men?? Nothing else, you've nailed it. It's worse than that: a relationship is in many ways a …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 05:34 PM
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Are you so retarded that you not only necro a 7 year old post, but you actually ask for the exact thing that is answered in the last sentence?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/22 08:50 PM
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Best of all: multiple overlapping serial dating. Monogamy is the gateway to manipulation and abuse. Don't give her that "in".
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 10:22 AM
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How exactly do you think OP is projecting? I see no evidence of this.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 10:22 AM
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good LTR's are possible It's a "good ltr" even though you have to run dread game, she resents you for things she can't even tell you about, and you have to read a men's rights self help forum to save your marriage? That's like a child that's good when the parent is watching and controlling them. That's hardly the definition of "good". I've emotionally prepared myself for her to come home one day and say " Mr Lobster, I've been fucking a different guy every week for the last 6 months, I'm leaving…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 10:21 AM
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You're expecting too much of women. You KNOW they are lying, solipsistic and entitled. Accept this, fuck them, move on, and stop expecting better of them and you'll be much happier.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 10:19 AM
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The older you get the more commitment you’ll most likely end up getting from women Nope, not even close. Older women PRETEND to offer commitment. In reality they are simply demanding yours.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 06:11 PM
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but what I really want is love You are fighting biology here. A man having emotional needs is unattractive and/or exploited by women. This is an even weaker position than needing sex: she can simply switch off the emotional support and upset you. You never ever want to be in a weak position with a woman. We all want to be loved. The sooner we give up on it actually happening the happier we are. I don’t think I will ever stop looking for my what I want. Maybe at some point I will be “alpha” enoug…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 06:11 PM
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I'm going to be kind and start at the end with a reasonable point: I'm not saying pay her bills, take her out to fancy dates, buy her things, or sell yourself as a secure bet. Good I'm saying you should take care of your family, your base, or your community as an essential element of securing your influence and power. Family are ungrateful fucks. Base, community, etc: sure thing, be good to those around you That is to say - money creates a different type of attraction or psychological behavior Y…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 09:55 PM
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Do you love women? Other than their bodies, what the fuck is there to love?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/22 06:09 PM
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I didn’t do anything wrong If she thinks you want commitment from her but she still wants to slut it up, this will cause this behaviour. But more likely it's "I've found better" or "I think I can find better". She wasn't yours, it was just your turn.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/22 09:43 PM
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What the fuck weak ass bitch posting did I just read?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/22 05:16 PM
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I project about a 0.5%-3% success rate in the beginning 0.5% is excellent in the beginning...... 3% is what you can expect when you are fucking fantastic at cold approaching. Sounds bad? Not really... approach 30 hot girls and fuck one of them, possibly multiple times. It's actually pretty good. But we need to set reasonable expectations here....... I don't want people saying "I approached 20 girls and haven't gotten laid yet, I feel demoralised" Some of you may think being indirect gets the bes…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/22 07:05 PM
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Edit: I forgot to mention a crucial detail, the fact that we're all 14-15. Sexualisation of minors has no place on TRP
/r/TheRedPill17/05/22 06:57 PM
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If human, don't ignore this. Every country in the world is gradually changing its laws. If you're married, your rights will be eroded retrospectively. This happened in America, it happened in the UK, it is happening in Europe. As countries become more woke, you'll get less marriage rights every year. No country is immune from this in 10, 20, 30 years time.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/22 11:25 AM
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personal questions go here: https://www.forums.red/i/asktrp don't shit where you eat you have oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/22 11:52 PM
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I was with this until: Relationships, kids, marriage Don't get married, it's a fucking shit show. You are literally paying the woman to leave you. The contract is "If you divorce me I will pay you alimony for life". It's the female retirement plan at your expense. Don't fucking do it to yourself. Do not pay the mother of your children to leave you. DO NOT MARRY
/r/TheRedPill12/05/22 04:08 PM
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Ask a woman if she should have the right to give up all responsibility for her child at birth.... she'll say yes, and most states/countries allow this (eg drop off baby at firestation). Now ask a woman if a man should have the right to give up all responsibility for his child at birth. Feminists aren't the only sexist ones: traditional values work against men too.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/22 04:05 PM
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I see the word incel thrown around by a lot of women and weak men anytime a guy makes a post from a masculine POV. Masculinity is universally attacked, while secretly being admired. and there's always some broad or 'woke' dude calling people incels left and right when they call out female behavior or don't want a hoe as a gf. It's imperative that women find a social mechanism to secure their betabucks despite their past indiscretions. Hence they attack male choice. To secure female approval (whi…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/22 12:31 PM
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Unlike Rollo and many more out there, my goal is NOT to get laid If you have different goals then you can't say Rollo is wrong. Might be wrong for you, but not wrong. You want different things so you do things differently. That's your choice. Doesn't mean Rollo is wrong.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/22 06:04 PM
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What the fuck did I just read? Marriage is a fucking shit show for men. DO NOT MARRY
/r/TheRedPill08/05/22 06:01 PM
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The Not-You rule is easy to spot: "I don't wany a relationship (with you) right now." "I don't want to have sex on the first date (with guys like you." "I am not much of a texting person (with you or guys like you)". Actually it's not easy to spot because this is a fundamental and universal way that women lie. It's not a "not you" rule. The easier way to remember it is to put "with you" on the end of every sentence she says. If you doubt this: when has a woman ever said "Oh I've fucked guys on a…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 03:36 PM
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Every single guy I have ever met who has been attractive to women has been super fucking lean. Not always muscular, but always lean. Agree with OP: it's important.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 03:30 PM
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So long as you're not a complete fuckup, and living as a man ought to (to wit: successfully, with realistic goals and a reasonable plan for how to achieve them, a solid personal code and maybe a lot of plates on the barbell too) being authentic and saying what you mean will pay dividends. Pay dividends yes, but to succeed with women requires more than this. Is it all there is to seduction? It's one post, of course not. And that's my problem. It claims to be "The complete guide". It states that t…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/22 05:51 PM
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even the endorsed contributors have gone to shi Oi! Respect the tag!
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 08:15 PM
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Most of the girls have told me that they see a friend or aren’t romantically interested "they see a friend", do you mean "see me as a friend" ? If so, this is basically a shit test (when said on a first date). It's based on you not being attractive enough or not escalating at all. Essentially for first dates I take them to bars to get drinks. good, so long as you're not paying. We sit there, either I’m in front of them or next to them. side is better We drink, talk, get to know each other. I thr…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 08:15 PM
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This is glorified "just be yourself" advice. There are millions of authentic men being themselves who women have zero interest in. There is more to seducing women than this.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 02:12 PM
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Yeah, I wasn't clear: you work for the things you want, you don't get lucky. That should be "get rich" rather than the lottery thing.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/22 03:49 PM
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OP's post is concern trolling. and the concern I’m addressing here is that doesn’t chasing validation through sex (although unconscious ) can often lead to tying it up with self esteem? Self esteem itself is a lie. You get "self esteem" through rationally assessing your competency via confidence or experience. Sex is important to men, getting it doesn't change that. but would you agree that it doesn’t take into account the formation of healthy relationship TRP destroys bad relationships based on…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/22 08:53 PM
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Isn’t it funny how women want to get married more than men yet women also initiate the vast majority of divorces? Marriage is profitable for women. Divorce is profitable for women. Makes sense they'd want both.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/22 05:46 PM
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And the best of [men] in this case are those who in her estimation, are most likely to provide her commitment This is absolutely NOT TRUE. Women fuck the hottest guys, NOT the ones most likely to offer commitment. In fact commitment shows that a man is in fact UNattractive: "why is he so willing to commit to me, isn't he getting laid?" The problem with the sex for commitment trade is that it makes men offer commitment in the hopes of getting sex, and believe that women do in fact trade sex for c…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/22 05:45 PM
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The reason of this post is to show you, do not rely on the hope strategy Most men don't even realise they are doing it. They think "I'll meet that special someone one day", because they've been programmed to think that. I know I was. The reality for men is that you have to work for what you get, as OP says. Win the lottery / get a promotion at work / land that dream job / be rich / get that hot girl / have a threesome / travel the world / be a youtuber: you WORK for these things or they do not h…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/22 05:39 PM
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I'm interested in evolutionary biology and this is strong impulse You are on man in billions - you can't apply massive simplifications to individual people. You have a (slightly warped) fetish, but that's ok: so do many other people. It's how people are wired, and it works ON AVERAGE. Evolution isn't perfect, there are anomalies. Why? Anybody have any idea? Either you see these women as a threat, or you have low standards due to lack of previous sexual success. In evolutionary terms: your genes …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/22 03:03 PM
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The result is that although Will won the most coveted academy award--all anyone is talking about is the Will-Jada relationship, which means they are talking about Jada. And NOONE is calling her out on it. Maybe I am missing something here...... but I fail to see how Jada made Will get up on stage and hit Chris.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 01:47 PM
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Agree, but can't extend that to the person being inherently bad in other ways.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/22 06:20 PM
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These guys have no spine nor integrity I dunno..... seems like a weird fetish thing. Doesn't define his character.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/22 01:45 AM
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WTF? Why is this repeating itself? Did you literally cut/paste this twice, OP?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/22 05:54 PM
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What do I think I *deserve*? You don't get what you deserve in this life. You get what you take, and you keep what you own. You have to believe in yourself that you are entitled to anything you can get, and then you go get it. "Deserve" is an appeal to the authority of others to reward you for your efforts. It doesn't work because you pay in advance and then someone else decides how much to give you in arrears. "Deserve" is the ultimate covert contract, based on the myth that society is somehow …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/22 02:02 PM
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OP - you are confusing a normal rational discussion with the general power struggles that exist between all people. Example One: (she's the fitness coach) You simply don't work out in front of women you're fucking. They want the end product, they are not interested in the journey. If she's a fitness coach this is simply a no-win situation from the get-go, and you should focus on areas where you dominate her instead. Example Two: (You're the fitness coach and she doesn't know shit.) Actually OP y…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/22 01:59 PM
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I gained a shit ton of weight [blah blah blah excuses] If you're not great looking you can have an amazing conversation but when she leaves your presence you literally disappear out of her mind. It's why we avoid any kind of emotional connection with a girl before having sex with her on two separate occasions. Before that she can pretend to be whatever, do whatever, forget about you, be as flakey as she likes and it is us that pay the price. You should know this by now, OP. No attachment before …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/22 06:20 PM
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So what? Men are essentially the same way; men only love women for what they can provide (albeit, what each one is looking for in said provision is/can be different.) Not relevant, we are discussing women. But for your edification: men and women are DIFFERENT. Men are often incredibly loyal - women show much less of this characteristic. It's based on evolution: women are the mothers of our children, men are disposeable after she's pregnant and found a source of income. Are you married? You sound…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/22 02:36 PM
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You hear things like "women only love men for what they can provide." This is true though. As a stereotype it is a fairly accurate one Not sure what your point is here. This is as close to a hard and fast rule as you'll ever see. If you include dick in the list of things men are expected to provide, you'll find that the rule always always applies. I accept the basis of this statement, a "woman" (girl) is truly incapable of "love" as we commonly define it precisely because girls engage in this no…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 03:55 PM
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100% this post
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 03:49 PM
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Most guys here have done it, myself included. Works well if you can find enough opportunities and you are prepared to take them. Social game has too few opportunities for me.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 02:31 PM
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Then, they say they just edit their pic a little bit It's a form of lying that goes even above and beyond makeup and pushup bras.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 02:29 PM
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Cold approach: You know exactly what each woman looks like This is so important. There are too many girls using filters, old photos, flattering angles, etc. You have to chase hard for something that ultimately you don't even want. If you cold approach 20 women, you will get to talk to each one of them. Absolutely this too.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 02:27 PM
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Thanks for the insight OP how old are you? how old are the girls? Are you in the middle of a big city?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 02:04 PM
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Agreed on how important being responsible is. You hear things like "women only love men for what they can provide." This is true though. Sounds an awful lot like an excuse to not put in the work required to be someone worth loving But women are not loving. If you stop providing resources and security or a better dick comes along: that so-called love will evaporate faster than you can blink. This isn't a responsibility thing, this is female nature and no amount of "being a man" is gonna change it…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/22 04:48 PM
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OP: It helps if you are never exclusive or agree to ever be exclusive.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/22 02:23 PM
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If you want kids and family, you should marry absolutely not. Marrying = paying the mother of your children to leave you. By marrying her, you make it profitable for her to break up the familty. Remove that motivation: do not marry.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/22 03:28 AM
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So this was previously posted in retroactivejealousy and got this hilarious hamstering response: I feel like future infidelity in relationships vs multiple sex partners might be correlation not causation And then goes on to excuse this behaviour: going a bit wild while you're still single, getting over an ex, or trying to fit in with your peers is pretty normal nowadays I mean, OF COURSE it's correlated and not causative. Of course it's normal. Same way that cheating and divorce has also become …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 01:58 PM
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They're all sluts Do Not Marry
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 01:49 PM
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Yeah, I've tried to thrash this out with him but he can't see it. He keeps saying "But my point is still valid" even though it isn't, and even though it doesn't work. Keyboard jocks are gonna keyboard.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/22 05:39 PM
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Yeah.... "historical inequality" only makes sense for women. Try telling them that historically men were sent in to war to die, and see how valid historical inequality suddenly looks.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/22 05:37 PM
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You're welcome :)
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 03:08 PM
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"leveled up" enough to have women pursuing him chasing him for money, not chasing him for himself. He's hooked up with what he describes as "beautiful women" Not according to his post. He says ". I’ve tried with some beautiful women but the idea...". The idea, not the experience. He's pretty deep into an IDGAF mindset No, he isn't. He cares about this and that's why he's posting about it. That, perhaps, is as valid to him as a horndog poon-hound mindset is valid to you, my friend. You need to pa…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 03:08 PM
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oh boy
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 03:05 PM
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I got my shit together and suddenly all the single moms straight up say they need someone to be a man to her kids and provide, or I get the ones that have no kids but want you to spoil them with gifts and money Single mothers always want provisioning, but if you're getting a lot of "pay for me" girls it is because either you are not attractive enough to fuck or because you give off a provider vibe. I’ve tried with some beautiful women but the idea just nauseates me, it’s much work and energy tha…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:26 PM
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Oh, my bad...... Marriage back in the day was a sexual utopia in which married women treated their husbands like kings, blew them twice a day and invited their friends round for orgies. I stand corrected.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:21 PM
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marriage centuries ago wasnt like now. definitely It was def rewarding for both, and not much of a risk. Why do you think so? It looks awful for men. Little sex, no options, one woman. You'd have to be a virgin beta for that to look like a good deal.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 03:35 PM
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Good article, but not sure what the learning is, other than "women are gullible" At the end she’s back in Tinder looking for love "looking for love" is such a classic - who would begrudge anyone else the search for true love? Classic misdirection allowing her to get fucked by hot studs while trying to lure betas into paying. "But I did it for loooooooooooooooooove".
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 03:35 PM
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It wasn't a great example, I hope noone uses it or takes it seriously.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/22 02:07 AM
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Ok, I see the problem. This is something that you wrote that theoretically seems like a good idea, but you haven't tried it and have no experience of it. Other people with more experience have weighed in with "that doesn't work dude" and you have defended your point from a theoretical standpoint rather than personal experience. This isn't a great attitude, ya know?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/22 12:00 PM
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Right. But who is suffering most and who is profiting most from this mutual laziness? I would argue it is women who profit from marriage and profit from divorce. It's a sucky deal for men.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/22 11:57 AM
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Ok, we get the concept I think. So let me ask this: how many times has a girl come back and re-initiated with you, telling you that she is now down for some dick? Out of how many times have you handed a girl your number with that intention? Please be honest.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 06:04 PM
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we RP'ers don't want to admit - because the only real "solution" is the old fashioned "traditional marriage" where two inexperienced youngsters meet, fall in love, and marry for life. ..... which utterly sucks for men, because although you get a "young hot wife", there's no guarantee that sex will follow. Traditionally it didn't, judging by how wives and husbands talked about each other as far as I could tell. After the honeymoon it's back to starfish sex if you're lucky. Any which way: that shi…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 05:52 PM
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Younger women have, on average, better bodies, they generally have youthful energy, they believe everything you tell them, they don’t bitch and they are never ‘too tired’ for fun. What’s not to like? I've noticed this in women: as their value goes down their demands perversely go UP. Young, firm, hot, sexy and energetic at 22 she says "he's cute, I hope he asks me out". Older, fatter, wrinkles, children and she says "He better have money and support me and my children who mean everything to me a…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 01:33 PM
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Well I guess that's the difference between you and me .. We're saying the same thing. I said "abandon your friends, family and children, move to a country with no extradition treaty and never return to your homeland". You said "I'm showing up at the airport and buying a one way ticket to Thailand." This is a very strange definition of "marriage is fine because you can always walk away". I mean theoretically you can walk away from almost anything - the point is the costs of doing so.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 01:22 PM
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So instead of "you can walk" you mean "you can abandon your friends, family and children, move to a country with no extradition treaty and never return to your homeland". That's about as useful as "you can always shoot yourself in the head".
/r/TheRedPill01/02/22 08:44 PM
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Never be afraid to walk Bye bye house, car, savings and future earnings
/r/TheRedPill01/02/22 03:59 PM
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Ask for the fuck or tell for the fuck, The question will tip it regardless of her answer and sex will reset the scale. This does not reset the scale, your time cost has not reset. What this does is make crystal clear that your intention is to fuck her, and implies that you do not wish to simply be friends. You ask her on a date or coffee and you go. By doing that, she's getting to have some of your time. The natural consequence of this scale is that you just made her pussy more valuable. Another…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/22 02:35 PM
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Love it and totally agree: being the asshole means not deferring to nor prioritising women. Women are so privileged that a man not prioritising her gender's preferred mating strategy is deemed "an asshole". "Asshole" is girlspeak for "sexy asshole", while pretending to betas that she disapproves. It's kinda cunning, but now painfully transparent.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/22 11:29 AM
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while she curled up in a chair, covering her torso with her legs and facing me. Did you TOUCH HER?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 05:28 PM
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Some important caveats here: You don't need to be married to have a relationship and children. In fact marriage makes it much, much harder because you are motivating your wife to leave you and claim alimony. Divorcing you is PROFITABLE. This doesn't apply if you're not married (but check common-law marriage in your state/country). WHEN IT FALLS APART - Understand this. If you are genuinely an alpha male and maintain that dynamic with your woman, she will not leave you. This is an empowerment myt…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/22 09:53 PM
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the logical answer is to treat her like "any other fwb" but the reality of the emotional history between you prevents that from being so easy. If you can't handle it, don't do it.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/22 09:48 PM
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abundance
/r/TheRedPill18/01/22 11:30 AM
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Who, in my view, is not going to ditch their LTR for someone who is 5-10% 'better'. She will if she can overlap and "try before you buy". Then she'll swing when she has certainty offered to her. Finally, to conclude, my view is that a woman is quite unlikely to ditch you for someone better when you are on your grind, making decent money, working out; doing 'your' thing & having tight game. What are you basing this view on? Women cheat all the time, often for a worse guy. You can't control this, …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 03:41 PM
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what can I do to help him ask.trp is where we host ask trp. Don't ask questions here Also, learn to double-return so that you get paragraph breaks.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 03:39 PM
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Girl contacted me after a year (after seeing other dicks werent as good, I presume) and we dated again. After you break up with a girl she should never be anything more than a FWB in future.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 03:36 PM
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This post is absolutely rock solid. One thing to add: show her how positive and indifferent you are by thanking her for all the great times you shared together.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 03:36 PM
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Also, out of a 4 part article, this is what you focus on? Yeah, fair point. I found the rest was pretty standard, whereas previously you're written some truly epic articles.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 01:15 PM
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And yet.... AWALT still applies
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 11:23 PM
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You've written some great articles and I usually respect what you have to say. But suggesting to our less experienced guys that they go out and use terrible pickup lines is not good advice.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 11:23 PM
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But guess what, there are almost 8 billion people on this planet, you think all girls are this gullible? Definitely not, there are still smart girls out there. They are all part of the same global culture. AWALT. This gives you a chance to find the best women Ahhhhh the myth of the "good woman". There are still good ones that are smart enough to see the value in men It must be true, pooumba says it's true, unicorns really do exist! (end sarcasm). Let the hoes eliminate themselves, it only makes …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 07:39 PM
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“Here, feel this fabric (of your shirt). You know what this is? Boyfriend material.” All these lines are FUCKING TERRIBLE. And old. Just go up to her and say "hi" with a big smile. Then move onto something situational. Terrible lines just put you on the back foot.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 07:37 PM
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which turned out good and she agreed for a date next day, at my place And you didn't fuck her, because if you did you would have mentioned it.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/21 08:02 PM
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That means your tax dollars already pay for birth control, directly and indirectly, even if you object to its use. Why would we object to birth control? This looks like a tenuous excuse to justify trying to not pay your taxes.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/21 01:25 PM
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I read this through... It started with "the promise of algorithmic dating" and then promptly abandoned anything to do with algorithmic dating and concluded with "be responsible for yourself". Kinda weird, what was the point of everything I just read?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/21 01:20 AM
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Men buy into it too Sadly yes. Paraphrasing : there have been other guys, but you're by far the best of them and you should feel fortunate to be the one that nabbed her in the end. Said girl has a kid that isn't even of his own race. Ridiculous lol It's amazing how "you get to live with her, support her for the rest of her life, and have the lowest amount of sex per dollar spent and the lowest amount of sex per hour spent, the least kinky and fun sex overall, you have to be monogamous to her age…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/21 01:19 PM
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on both sides Yeah, because every guy complains about his abusive ex? Surrrrrrrreeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/21 09:26 PM
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The girl sleeps with the jerk and he leaves her. We, as guys, think the abuse is the jerk sleeping with the girl merely to ‘use’ her (and motherly harpies try to feminize us into not doing ‘this’). Rather, the ‘abuse’ is that the girl realizes she could not keep the guy. She ‘was not woman enough’. This was a turning point for me: realising that the previous abuse (that every. single. girl. has suffered from) was nothing more than "guy moved on".
/r/TheRedPill28/11/21 04:55 PM
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Maybe things could have worked out, and I'd never know the difference. The odds are not in your favour. 50% chance of divorce, but most of the married couples are hardly happy. Most men are with their wives at threatpoint - the looming threat of divorce if they don't work day and night to keep her happy. Your parents were the last generation that got a happily ever after. Maybe at least one of your parents was a virgin when they married. You were born in the early 1980s..... you are the transiti…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/21 04:28 PM
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[degraded as] many ways possible, and now is a emotionally damaged man hating feminist, who wants YOU to save her. Why? Because you now are fully established and at the finish line, and she's waiting for you there. "You win in the end". Women actually, really, seriously believe that this is a great deal for men, because they get a sexually "experienced" girl and they get to keep her in exchange for the small down-payment of all his money and emotion and resources for the rest of his life. But be…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/21 04:10 PM
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Lol some engineer thinking he'll get pussy thrown at him if he starts earning double the average for where he lives. haha yep... they believe that shit. Being financially successful SEEMS to work..... easy enough to get girls on dates..... but they always try and lock down the finances before committing to sex. And then of course the sex is awful because it's not what she really wants.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 07:37 PM
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MOST WAHMIN ACTUALLY LOVE EACH OTHER, THEY WILL ALWAYS HELP AND SUPPORT EACH OTHER, WAHMIN PRETENDS TO HATE EACH OTHER IN FRONT OF MEN, JUST TO MANIPULATE US. Not true. They mostly hate each other, but will always take the side of "team woman" out of entirely selfish motives. Be aware, read the book " the manipulated man". Read it, it's great. It's important though after reading how awful it is to be a beta male to read stories (eg here) from alpha males who are successful in life and fuck women…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 07:35 PM
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They pretend it's in the best interests of the child.... but the woman is allowed to kill the unborn baby, and "child support" is paid to the mother and never audited. So I think we know where society's priorities are.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 01:35 AM
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Oh yes they would. They can and they do. And when it happens the courts don't give a fuck. "Your DNA, pay up". It's that simple.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 02:59 PM
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but we started thinking about how valuable our sperm is One used condom is worth 18 years of mother support* to her, at your expense. One easy tip: spermicidal condoms. They include a spermicide that kills your swimmers straight away. Significant protection from a condom split, and near-perfect protection from a girl who decides to empty your used condom into herself. You can confidently leave your used condoms in her bin without having to explain how you don't trust her. *If it was really child…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 02:58 PM
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She gave off more signals than I can remember. Full facing body, dreamy eyes, leaning/moving close to me Right. Motives including: trying to instill jealousy in boyfriend, trying to get you two to fight over her, trying to get attention, etc. I am seriously wondering what the fuck that was all about and where to proceed Urgh, just move on. Why get yourself involved with that kind of girl? Is someone who acts like that what you want in your life?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/21 04:44 PM
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Lastly I did the treadmill for about 40 mins running 3 mph. 3 mph is not running. 3 mph is not jogging. 3 mph is WALKING. What do you recommend I focus on more to meet my goal of losing fat and building muscle? 30 mins of cardio per day, EVERY DAY. 500 DAILY CALORIE DEFICIT Work your muscles as much as you can: this will keep the muscles you have, help with fat burning, and maybe build a little muscle too. Work out your muscles as often as you can, but give each one 3-4 days off after working th…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 02:46 PM
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All these thing combined make female's shake with anger and fear. How dare you proof they're lying? How dare you defend yourself? Men are told not to defend themselves because it will stop other women making things up.... err I mean coming forwards. This is barely veiled "women are more important". But should some bimbo decide to do something like this, I can literally play the video of the entire action. Theoretical question: how are you gonna prove that the encounter matches up with the accusa…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 09:24 PM
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I am not like other girls This isn't really a red flag, it's just a hilariously dumb thing to say from a girl who is identical to other girls.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 04:37 PM
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I am less sure there are exceptions
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 04:35 PM
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haha :)
/r/TheRedPill01/09/21 12:34 PM
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Yep - I miss the good old days when articles were "there are no unicorns" or "how to get laid like a warlord". Now it's "don't worry boys, you can manufacture your own unicorn!". As a concept this is even worse than "unicorns exist", because now the takeaway is going to be "ignore her past, tell her to be a unicorn and she will be!". And she will. Until you turn your back.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 03:01 PM
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THERE ARE NO UNICORNS you can definitely make one You can't turn a ho into a housewife and you can't turn a human female into a mythical beast. Women are dateable, for a time at least....... but unicorns they are not. Never think "this girl is different", and never ever put yourself in a subordinate position (eg marriage). Everyone changes. Everything ends. And when it does, it should be "goodbye", not "see you in court while I pay your lawyer and mine to compete on who can fuck me the hardest".…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 02:59 PM
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https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/274
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 12:52 PM
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A prenuptial agreement ensures that the leverage prior to the marriage contract is maintained- this is in the best interest of both parties. There is only one way to have an ironclad prenup: DO NOT MARRY
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 11:20 PM
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This girl was easily one of the most attractive girls I have ever approached and number closed. TL;DR Didn't fuck her
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 11:14 PM
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Moral of the story: ALWAYS LEAVE ROOM FOR THE CHASE You are advising men to not get women's numbers, hoping that women (despite millions of years of doing the exact opposite) will promptly become the chasers and demand contact details. As a story, this is great. As a learning example, this is fucking terrible. Moral of the story: don't extrapolate from tiny amounts of data.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 08:11 PM
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The burden is on a woman to prove to you she’s more than just a fuck object. Not on you to seek out her favorable traits or to assume she’s awesome until she gets caught Totally agree with this, but I'm not sure what possible proof she could offer. Women can fuck so quickly, so easily, on nothing more than a whim. That guy on Tinder, that guy at a bar, that guy she bumped into when getting groceries. 20 minutes later and she got the quickie she wanted, and noone is any the wiser. Then she tells …
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 02:15 PM
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and couldn't believe how common this was, like god damn I must be rare because I know I'd never do shit like that to a girl. When you've heard the lies your ex girls talk about you, you realise how many lies girls are talking about other guys. And then you learn to sift through the lies. She'll say something like "He was abusive" and you ask how and you get "he was emotionally abusive" and then you probe more and this emotional abuse is when he's had enough and leaves. Or "All my boyfriends have…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 04:04 PM
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r she said she wished she could find a guy like me right after kissing everyone at the party we were at. "I wish I could find a guy like you" is such a cliché of female unspoken rationalisation. As far as I can tell, it means "I wish I could find a guy who likes me as much as you do, who I also find attractive".
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 03:59 PM
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He wasn’t interested, he explained. He was already dating Michelle- a fact you all knew, but Jessica had still called him the night before, just to be sure. Wait, what? Who is "he"? Who is he that isn't interested? Who is Jessica? Who is Michele? I've read this three times and can't make head nor tail of it. Edit: thanks for editing
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 03:58 PM
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This is a question, not a post AskTRP is now on forums.red
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 03:54 PM
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IE if I game correctly I get what I want (manipulation). This is not manipulation. Everyone communicates in a way that tries to get what they want out of life and from other people. If this is manipulation, then so is all communication.
/r/askTRP27/06/21 03:52 PM
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Was the age of his account and/or choice in target/political views mitigating factors? but if it was political, why unban me twice? I haven’t said it since and haven’t been banned. It looks like autoban unless leftwing. If you appeal the ban, they look into it and decide if you're promoting hatespeech. But if you're leftist leaning: no action. This isn't the first instance of this.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 04:58 PM
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No, because I personally think it's a dumb idea. Any thoughts on how to make them seem as real as possible? You said you wanted to populate it with real reviews. Now you're talking about making fake reviews look real? Yeah, I'm not down with this and won't support it.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 04:39 PM
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My days were examples. (Text Wednesday or Thursday not arranging a meet). I thought texting when not for logistics was a big no of the TRP. "Hello girl" is fine. Just don't be her texting buddy. Idk what you mean by text Friday for Saturday either. I never said text Friday. "Text Thursday for Saturday" means "Text on Thursday for a meet up on Saturday"
/r/askTRP23/06/21 04:38 PM
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1 - "you just want me for sex" really means "let's not have sex, but do keep providing" 2 - try it and find out. 3 - . She's just become a lot more petty since I withdrew my attention. Is this another reason why she could be trying to regain commitment? Basically she's checked out. She's leaving, so she's already cut things off with you.
/r/askTRP23/06/21 04:36 PM
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I think maybe the idea that she "wanted to grow with me" "we can help each other grow". Yeah, this basically doesn't happen. Women don't grow up much after age 14. Also being a healthy person I wouldn't have the desire to take on a project. I became invested and tried to help her grow. Invested is a terrible place to be. Paying with no chance of payback. Women do not reward, appreciate or acknowledge your investment in them. I put effort in to "growing" with her. Sunken loss fallacy. I understan…
/r/askTRP23/06/21 04:34 PM
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We know that the r-word is off limits, for example How many uses? where is this published? We've had to GUESS that this is the case. And we definitely shouldn’t adopt this mentality that the end is nigh so we should let loose and become careless Right. But there has been a steady progression..... I think we got temp banned at one point.... then quarantined.... mods doxxed.... mods banned. It's coming.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 04:31 PM
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It is a complicated balancing act in terms of not compromising on your message while not getting banned. This is exactly the problem. We're already quarantined, without any reason being given. Certain words are banned and users deleted for using them. They won't tell us what the words are. If you get banned, your ability to get your ideas out there is stifled to a large degree, but that same effect can occur if you compromise to the extent that they’re not getting out there in any useful capacit…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 02:45 PM
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Ive never been in such situation since I could always move back to my family house however since today they want me to pack my shit and leave the room empty basically they are kicking me out and don't want me to come back. Don't allow yourself to be in this situation again. Get 3-6 months savings in ready cash. Is this what life comes to, you either make ur own family or u die alone ? But these hoes aren't loyal right ... Yes Im not depressed or anything just feeling weird. You have to fend for …
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:46 PM
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AWALT
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:44 PM
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When i talk i can't really focus on my thoughts when i want to keep eye contact, my mind just stops working completely. I can only keep good eye contact while I'm drunk.Tnx Ok. Firstly you don't feel worthy/confident with other people. You value their opinion or care what they think for some reason. Conflict avoidance, low self worth, etc. You have two main fixes: Practice. Stare people down. Do it behind glass at first if it's easier (eg they are on a bus). Then with strangers. Then in conversa…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:44 PM
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I end up acting polite and friendly when I don't want to. Social pressure? Conflict avoidance? I was hoping to kill this in its core - you know, like a catharsis, but it seems that only can fake it until I make it... You can't instantly kill it. This stuff runs deep.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:10 PM
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I don't want to give people that power over myself, but telling myself to "man up", "stop being a little insecure, entitled bitch without frame", "just be more confident", does not help. It causes nothing in me - even if I have the genuine intention to be like that. It takes time. Learn to supply for yourself that which you want from others. This is a human basic need No it isn't. Mostly you want validation when you want something, when you are in a position of powerlessness, or when you want hu…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 11:32 AM
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Everything was always on me and she would act like I was being unreasonable when I would bring up the fact that she didn't really do shit to help financially( I paid for everything the last 2 1/2 years..her phone bill, her car registration, her clothes...everything, along with all my shit). At first, I didn't care about paying for everything because I genuinely loved this girl, would have died for her, but after a while, it got tiresome being the only one pulling any weight. Beta bucks, got it. …
/r/askTRP22/06/21 11:29 AM
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So tell me guys why do all this if she wanted to leave me ? I’m genuinely curious and has anyone had some funny stuff happen like this ? When women leave they want to WIN. That means persuading themselves that you want them, they don't want you, and they are better than you.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 11:25 AM
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but it makes me feel good when I reject them, why? Ego, revenge. Is it because I'm fulfilling some sort of revenge or grudge I had from the past? Partly yes. when I'm even more successful than I am now, would I treat super attractive women who decided to hang out with me like shit after a day? Hopefully you'll grow out of it.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 11:08 AM
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Why bother? What are you asking, what do you really want to know?
/r/askTRP22/06/21 11:05 AM
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In your experience, are women self-aware of their shit tests? Yes, but it's an instinctive drive to do it. Women are very negative, cautious, fearful. So in conversations with a stranger they assume the worst and then act on it. It's up to the man to prove her wrong. There is also a massive socially driven inclination for "woman first". If a man seems to be getting his way, eg she likes him, she tries to throw a spanner in the works to regain control/power/ego. it seems kind of bizarre that a st…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 11:05 AM
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Lads, what's the best course of action from here? Two options: Find more hot girls to fuck. Or don't.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:25 AM
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and that I'm too busy for that anyway, but she insists it's the "man's role" to initiate contact, at least in the first few months How convenient for her. I don't want to initiate contact 100% of the time because it might lower her attraction for me. Any advice? You're calling it about right. Don't be trapped into doing all the work and all the investment.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:11 AM
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Also they confuse me with a pro PUA and this is getting me problems too. then don't say any pua things Am i being an fucking autist while talking to them or what is the problem? You need attraction (physical, fun) and comfort (just mutual interest and relaxed). Should i focus on getting more money? No I started this improvement for women but i have found something better in the way that is chasing my goals and feel happy but i still lust for them. Do both. Really hard to know what you're doing w…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:05 AM
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What can I do to prolong how long a plate spins? Better sex
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:00 AM
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exactly, so force yourself to say it and break through this barrier
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:53 AM
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Instead of telling the cute ass cashier I thought she was attractive as fuck I just kept talking about random shit... the vibe was fun and positive but I was too pussy to ask her for her number at the end.... Don't ask. Tell her to give you it. Cougar came through my till at my work and I asked her for her membership number and she jokingly said “you want my number” in a teasing way and I just froze up and PUSSY.... ignored her and asked whats new in her life. Learn a stock response. From the to…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:47 AM
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...... so ?
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:45 AM
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Not that it makes a difference really, but what do you guys prefer as target when working out? For sex: always less body fat. For me: body fat makes no difference, muscles are great.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:45 AM
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Hung out with a girl on a Sunday. Messaged her the next day (Monday) making a loose suggestion for the second hang out. Too fast. . I want to meet her again ASAP, b GET MORE OPTIONS ut is it better to say next week to make myself unavailable/not look too keen? Or is it better to meet ASAP to strike when the iron is hot? Hang out Sunday. Text Tuesday or Wednesday, but not aiming for a meet. Text Thursday for Saturday.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:43 AM
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so the girl in FWB/Situationship I've been in told me a couple days ago that I only use her for sex Shit test, trying to get more resources and more commitment. I have only heard this from exclusive girlsfriends.... does this one know you are not exclusive? The other cause is diminishing sexual interest. and we hung out all night just for her to say "I only use her for sex". See how this works? It's when you are NOT having sex, and when you start hanging out and being boyfriendy that the say "on…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:42 AM
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What makes her different is she has super high interest; She can travel then. Or meet her halfway, which is more fair the first time. Tip: get her to tell you when she's setting off! Should I make the drive because her interest is pretty much guarantee me free pussy or should I just go ahead and put her to the side for another day? High interest DOES NOT MEAN EASY PUSSY.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:38 AM
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I'm wondering, is becoming physically fit and attractive all I need? No. You'll also need to meet women and pass shit tests, handle logistics, and escalate physically. And learn not to care too much.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:37 AM
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Anyone else have any thoughts on this or ways to improve the idea? Women listen to other women. Positive reviews FROM A WOMAN count in your favor, as you know. Reviews on a website? Seems a bit try hard. And very easily faked. I don't think it would have the same appeal as hearing it from someone she trusts and whose opinion she values. But fuck it, try it and report back.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 12:35 AM
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Yeah, I agree but with less opting out. I cherry pick what works (hard work, success, sex) and reject that which is clearly a dumb fucking idea (marriage, monogamy, commitment, doing what you're told).
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 12:31 AM
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How do you open up to a woman? Why bother? Its an alien concept for me to love romantically at this point Love is not a real thing anyway. It's a handy myth for society: pretend that male love and female love are the same thing. The implication is that if you love someone, the right someone, they will love you back IN THE SAME WAY. This is an outright lie. Don't believe me? How many men leave a woman and say "I just want her to be ok"? Most of them. Women say "I MUST DESTROY HIM". Where's the lo…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:13 PM
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Nothing to explain. She flaked. Ignore her. Hard next. Don't give her the satisfaction/closure from following up. You will never get a satisfactory answer, she will not apologise, nothing she says will make you feel better. And nothing you say will make her feel bad. If you try, she'll just hate you, because YOU are then the cause of the bad feelings, and she'll lash out and blame you. It won't be pretty. Women do not feel responsible for their actions and hate being forced to be. She changed he…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:06 PM
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That obsession made me think that I should be able to mold her into the woman I wanted I've had that thought too. "She really likes me, is therefore highly motivated, therefore I can make her what I want her to be". Obviously it's untrue when you think about it. The idea of walking away removal of resources felt like an L so I wanted to stay in the fight. At best this is loss mitigation. It's a fundamental losing position from the start Really messed with my point of reference for the game of se…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:05 PM
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Yes, common law marriage is marriage.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:01 PM
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I left this open ended and ill defined, in the same way as "society" is open ended and ill defined. If you want to make it more concrete, "the blue pill majority, your friends, the people you meet, the media, and your mother"
/r/TheRedPill21/06/21 07:00 PM
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I should get with a single older woman who already has kids and try to have kids with her because, she has experience, basically become a step dad. The feminine imperative rules all her thinking: even more than what's best for you. Which obviously isn't this. You have a kid with her, and she has kids with someone else? Who is likely still around and seeing his kids, but not yours, every weekend? And her attention and resources are split between his kids and yours? Think about this for any amount…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:44 PM
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does having children lessen the risk of divorce? Being on the same path together lessens the risk of divorce. But when you marry you are financially supporting her whether she's with you or not, so she knows she can leave if you fail to measure up to her standards that day. Is this something you can put in a prenuptial to ensure she can't just change her mind? No. Prenups get thrown out, prenups deemed to be unfair get thrown out. Remember that "fair" means "fair according to the rules of our gy…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:41 PM
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Maybe shes not on the CC. (Or maybe she wants to use me.) Hard lesson: what you get from girls is HOW IT APPLIES TO YOU. Don't be fooled: while YOU get "no sex before RL", she's had one night stands before. She's done it all before, for free. So no, it's not a good sign, unless she's a provable virgin. I got up and told her I was down to spend time with her and see where it goes but nothing serious right away. And that I was off to get sex elsewhere. Good. Other lines include "I want to try out …
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:39 PM
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With men: Again never react negatively. Tell them straight what's acceptable and what's not. Don't get into a fight. Do not try to persuade or make them change their mind: just say "that's not acceptable to me" or whatever is appropriate. Phrase it so it is not a question, and so it does not need a response and is not a question.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:29 PM
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Have you ever had a situation like this? Don't get me wrong, I ain't no Ted Bundy but it still is surprising for me to be that forward. I can't see a problem with it. Only downside is that it's a big commitment from you. Don't be trapped into agreeing to see her again! Girl comes over... "this is fun, we should do this again" and you say "I'd love that" and she stays and you don't have sex. This is a terrible start: male commitment without female commitment. If she aims for another meetup, tell …
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:40 PM
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et's say she asks if you're OK with something, f.e her going out with a "friend", or a coworker or go do whatever and she want to know you're reaction, what's the correct approach? Tell her what is acceptable and what isn't. Only you can answer this.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:39 PM
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She says her father's bloodline would end (my friend's family's bloodline would not end) without it. She clearly knows nothing about genetics. I'd like some mature commentary please refrain from just insulting the couple and I'm not sure my friend is red pill aware. Look, marriage is a terrible idea that benefits the female at the male's expense. What are the most important reasons the wife should take the husband's name and the children should take the father's name logically? What are the rati…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:38 PM
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You gotta stand up for yourself and prove you aren't a bitch but don't know when the escalation is appropriate. Assuming you mean with women: You don't ever need to display anger. You should not be reacting negatively to her bad behaviour. This shows her power. But you should set limits and enforce them. You do this by LEAVING, not by being angry. Remember: women love drama and fights, but hate you leaving. So leave without emotion. She'll figure out what she did. If this doesn't work, the rl is…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:37 PM
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And a positive influence on her? How many of those marriages are "good". How much cheating is there? Are the men strong alpha types, or whupped betas? The real question is this: what will those marriages look like in 15 years time?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:35 PM
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I often think about that night and her getting dicked down and tossed away Those guys paid nothing for everything she had to offer. You pay with full commitment and you get sex that probably isn't as exciting. This is the standard story with exclusive relationships, because exclusive is at least partly beta. Sorry... it sucks.... but there it is. In reality, the threesome isn't very different from any other form of casual sex. I don't think this bodes well for a long term future with her either …
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:34 PM
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w can I develop a more stoic, confident, masculine voice? Calm down, speak slower.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:29 PM
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DO NOT MARRY ShivStarKiller: this is the exact bullshit being called out in the article.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/21 12:41 PM
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the idea that bachelors miss out on love, and that, in particular, they miss out on the deepest and most profound form of love there is, a long-term, sexual-romantic relationship with a woman. Agreed. Since removing exclusivity from my dating life I've seen nothing but a huge increase in quality, passion and female interest. Anyone who thinks that devoting their life to someone and hearing "I love you but I am no longer IN LOVE with you" is as good as unfettered raw sexual passion, then they hav…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/21 12:40 PM
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keep the lawyers out of the deal all the time You can't. SHE will be seeing a lawyer. You have to. Now we are splitting all our assets and our 2 properties in accordance to it. So you are suggesting that OP goes back in time and gets a prenup?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:34 AM
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She had offered it 2-3 months prior tho. She found someone else meanwhile. hen I proceeded to autism and after the autistic shit I invited her. She stayed online for like 5 minutes, then blocked. Situation changed, attraction faded.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:33 AM
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It seems that we are capable to split everything in a peaceful manner. This will change. Lawyer up now. Where have I f***ed up everything? (besides knowing that getting married is NEVER the best idea in the 21st century) Exactly. But things always go bad when a man loses his income. Within almost exactly 6 months apparently.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:22 AM
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After discussing with my doctor she said everything was normal Normal within acceptable ranges for a population of low-T betas. And you're on the low end of even that. I'm not an expert, but there are two ways of measuring these numbers with... annoyingly.... the same units. And different ranges. Black Dragon posted some great info on this. Krauser PUA has a little info too.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:27 PM
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Tomorrow came and went and she never called. Don't be vulnerable to female passive/avoidant nature. You're the man, call her. Waiting = passive = weak = beta. You get on with YOUR life. You TELL her when you are going to call. Do I ignore this completely and wait for her to eventually reach out and act like nothing happened? Give her a week, hit her up, if still bullshit then drop her. Or do I point out “I thought you were going to call me”? And appear like a weak beta bitch who CARES TOO MUCH? …
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:24 PM
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why the high prevalence of working women who pair up with, stick with, and care for loser guys, starving musicians, etc? It's not high prevalence, it's rare. But when they do it, it's because the guy is ATTRACTIVE. Hypergamy applies to physical attributes. Provider potential is a whole other thing. More rational. More opportunistic on the part of the female.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:22 PM
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18 + fake tits...... what the fucking fuckity fuck ? Is it a red flag and why? Why does someone get fake tits? TO GET MORE MALE ATTENTION.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:21 PM
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Will I have to deal with this with every other woman? Nope. There's always a LITTLE bit of it...... but it won't be every time. The better you get at dealing with this, the less it will happen to you. In future: walk away before you get pissed off. Why do you not do this? SCARCITY.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:20 PM
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Did I remove the alpha widow effect? You gave her CLOSURE. "he's attracted to me, I can reject him, therefore I am better than him"
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:19 PM
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. Things with her were painful so I thought it was "good" it was growing pain, Hope you see the error of this way of thinking. Women are a payout for your hard work, not an investment. The effort you put into any one woman is not repaid other than her fleeting sexual interest in you. You are not "building a life together". You'll notice that women aren't putting anything into a relationship, and their commitment is also fleeting. This pain, this investment, is just you paying for what you get in…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:30 PM
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From what I've seen, basically yes. It's instinctive. The epiphany phase / transition to "I'm not that girl any more" happens for a variety of reasons, not all related to having kids.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:27 PM
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She's a FWB, she can do what she wants. You're treating her like a LTR.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:21 PM
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There's plenty of men with money out there that think that men need to "date women their own age" True. Am I wrong here? The wall isn't "can't get a man". The wall is "oh my fucking god I am getting older I better lock down a beta fast and have kids".
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:20 PM
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How do I answer when people try to shame me for my choices? "But I'm gay". That should shut them up. More seriously: "I'm not ready to settle down yet". Just because THEY have scarcity and just because THEY couldn't find better doesn't mean you have to settle for something that isn't right for you.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:19 PM
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but what do I do here? Let it go and collect more data for divorce? Divorce is happening whether you like it or not. Talk to a lawyer, save messages, plan for this. Her affair and planning to meet won't make much difference in court though. The only thing it gains you is the right to instigate a divorce. She says she cant leave me right now because she is a stay home mom and I am the breadwinner. Talk to a lawyer. She will, she probably already has. She can leave you just fine, and legally you a…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:17 PM
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And this experiment of mine showed me how lonely it is on a rp journey. People just want to sit home and do nothing. Food delivery, netflix, weed... Yes. Exactly. Is this a side effect of an rp? It's how people are: PASSIVE.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:02 AM
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Is red pill wants to back traditional days like woman stays in house, wash dishes, cook etc. No, that will never happen. TRP is a sexual strategy sub. It says that literally at the top of the main side bar.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:02 AM
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What are some actionable steps on maintaining attraction in LTR. I’m on a pretty good level with her (nearly 3 yrs) and no major problems. Abundance. Options. Be fit and healthy. Flirt with other women in front of her. Dread game. But really, if you HAVE to maintain attraction, you're doing life wrong. Why the fuck should you try to maintain someone else's impression of you, just to have the sex which you could easily get if you weren't exclusive with someone. This reads like "please give ways t…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:01 AM
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You guys ever do this or do you think it kills the excitement of the kiss? I never ask. Best to look at her lips while thinking about kissing her... then slowly move in and take it. But I’m also curious to hear how you might react to someone shy avoiding eye contact. Hand on jaw, tilt her head round towards you.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:57 AM
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yep. deflect and play for time
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:35 AM
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Depends...... how much can she see?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/21 03:18 AM
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> Why is TRP so black and white? Let's suppose we said "AWALT, except one. There is one unicorn out there". Every fucking guy would say "I found her! My girl is the one and only unicorn!!!" Or "Marriage is bad in 99.9%" of cases..... Every guy would say "I have found the 0.1% !!" > This indoctrination is actually more likely to fuck up any relationship (LTR or not) you have with the opposite sex. I’ll give you a real life example. Nope. 99% of the time the rules are right and they help,
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:11 AM
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am I overanalyzing? A bit. She's a FWB.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:08 AM
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. She says 'I'm not ready for that', and gets a little upset. public or private? I told her I was sorry, I got caught up in the moment. NEVER APOLOGISE. "I wanted to" is all you need to say. She said if I do that again she wouldn't wanna see me anymore This is because she detected WEAKNESS. It's just weird having a girl tell you all this dirty shit she wants done and against going past 2nd base. If a girl is giving me tongue and telling me her deepest fantasies, I'm going to try and escalate. Ri…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:01 AM
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You should have mentioned this.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:54 AM
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I’m thinking she’s using me. I told her I need more intimacy, she said she’s sore and to give her a little time. Give her time. Might be worth it long term. Also, she said she’s had over 50 guys- which I think is a shit test It is. Really it's 3x this.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:54 AM
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I assume it's because emotional state changed and/or they've come across better options Also, they don't think you're serious if it was arranged 72 hours ago. They all have ADHD and assume you do. They need reassurance. BUT never say "we still on for tonight?" Best way is to trickle details...... "Cool jaz band Saturday"...... next day, if she agrees "It's at XYZ place"...... on the day "Pick you up at 7". If she doesn't answer, you don't bother to chase. It's a waste of time if I'm planning on …
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:52 AM
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Personally if I were to want to build something more this behavior isn't really it tbh. Right... so keep her as FWB
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:47 AM
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How do I deal with family members who want me to settle down? "looking for the right girl"
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:45 AM
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She’s down to come over but should I tell her to get an uber? Get her an uber? Should I uber there? Buy her an uber
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:44 AM
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of men she has access to
/r/TheRedPill20/06/21 02:42 AM
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since I'm not trying to sleep with any of these women They want you to want to sleep with them. This is why we say women make shitty friends.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:51 PM
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there alot of extra skin/stretch marks your gonna be dealing with? Varies. Often yes. Ask her. She'll either say "No! it's all good!" and by happy you asked, or "How dare you ask me that you sick pig". And there's your answer. but I don't want to meet up and start undressing her just so shit starts falling out of place like a horror movie. "Send bikini shot". If you're that worried about it, fuck a different girl
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:50 PM
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wanted to call my EX and have her come over Ok, so confession time. I've dated BPD, so I have a little insight into this. The emotional rollercoaster is addictive. Normal relationships seem boring and empty by comparison. You end up like a crack addict trying to enjoy cornflakes. BPD girls push your buttons like no other. It's awful but it's crazy engaging. It takes a little while to wash that out of your system and appreciate normal. But that's all it takes.... just some time. Month or three. S…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:48 PM
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And it really wasn't visible before. What's happening? Find out earlier what the deal is. Get used to seeing women clothed and guessing their size/weight. (Clue: always fatter than they look). Hold them round their waist if you have to. Beware pushup/control/strap/crazy shit they wear to suck it all in
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:43 PM
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She immediately starts cracking jokes about how she wears the pants now and she's gonna have to start pegging me You gotta admit, that's pretty funny :) Join in with "yes, and buy the drinks and take me out to meals and treat me right" I told her I had somewhere to be and kicked her out. Should I just consider this plate gone or is it still possible to rebuild frame? Grow up man........ Laugh about it. It's no biggie. But wrestle her sometime, and this time make sure you win.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:41 PM
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there are no unicorns. unicorns are mythical creatures. . Literally if the crave for sex wasn’t there, I wouldn’t step 100 m next to a girl in terms of a romantic relationship right but relationship wise it seems to me women don’t benefit men in almost no way other then sex. Does anyone else think like this? Absolutely yes. They're still fun, once you get the hang of them. Or more importantly: how to get the hang of handling yourself around them.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:40 PM
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I'm suspicious she's trying to friendzone me, how would you guys respond? Would you say "yeah np" or something in the lines of "You and I are not gonna be friends"? It's a big commitment from you, not knowing her friend. Tell her that double dates are for later, and set something else up.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:39 PM
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When do I do it during an interaction. After things have been going well for a while? (This is my instinct, and also somewhat randomly) Pull back after disinterest or randomly. How should I withdraw my attention? Just ignore her for a bit and check out some other stuff and people Yes, but there are more subtle ways. What to do when approaching and women look at their phone right away or turn away even after giving an ioi. Approach with less commitment.... eg be near and talk to her over your sho…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:38 PM
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Me : "Yes it was was nice, lets meet again friday night" TOO FUCKING KEEN. Leave it a while before agreeing to next date. Me : "Fine, don't drink too much vodka this week end to be in a good shape on Monday :D " (its basically a joke as she told me like vodka a lot when we had our date) This is good. Should i wait for her to text me back on Monday or should i text again on monday like "Lets meet at 7pm at my place for meal?" (will be double text) She had no need to reply, all information has bee…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:36 PM
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I could’ve easily stayed around and probably fucked but I wasn’t that desperate. Basically all I want to know is how long do you guys wait before leaving a date? Look at this another way: Girls usually don't want to be alone in a bar You don't like to be kept waiting Girls will bullshit endlessly You need a solid game plan for first dates that takes all this into account. Meet somewhere that you're having fun. Tell her you'll be there from 7, and she should be there at 7.30 prompt. Text her at 7…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:34 PM
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so if she disrespects me like that i should have just walked away and withdrew my presence? Yes, but this should be something that you always do. Something she should KNOW about you. She has to KNOW, she has to FEEL that she has to respect you. This isn't one small thing, this goes right through your relationship and it's fundamental to how you see her, yourself and your relationship with a LTR.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 04:25 PM
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My pleasure
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:32 PM
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Then get ripped
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:32 PM
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But not enough for me Female desire decreases in LTRs Men tend to have higher sexual interest than women. Conclusion: have multiple FWB. The major challenge with this is that being in a FWB is very arousing for the woman, and you have to have at least 2. So instead of one bored LTR to keep satisfied you have 2+ horny aroused girls to keep happy. This can get too much for most men.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:31 PM
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Thanks
/r/TheRedPill19/06/21 02:29 PM
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No, you have this all wrong. You are still subscribing to "happy wife happy life" and "man must do things to get things from woman". Correct approach: she respects you or you leave.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:29 PM
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Women can exhibit "male love" that is "unconditional" too if they are sexaully attracted to their partner. Unconditional, but conditional on attraction.... that makes no sense. What this whole article misses is that male sexual attractiveness (being in the top 10%) is OF BENEFIT TO THE FEMALE. Thus Briffault's Law holds true.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/21 01:37 PM
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Casual sex with a married woman? Damn straight it was filthy and disgusting :D
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:29 AM
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good man
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:29 AM
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. she kept saying she was gonna make a scene in there, threats = lack of respect for you im just a little upset because recently me and my ltr have been arguing a lot she creates arguments because of lack of attraction and lack of respect. also: you have weak frame and she can't resist probing it. i regret receiving that message in a way because my ltr was a nice girl Bullet dodged imo
/r/askTRP18/06/21 09:25 PM
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Women seem to run from guys that are really into them and chase guys that dont give a fuck about them There's a middle ground here.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 09:23 PM
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That itself is fine, the problem stems from the fact that a lot of these 'white knights' are politically connected; and with dirty politics rampant in India, there is real risk of injury if you end up in a fight. Keep it light when the knights are watching.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 09:22 PM
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What do you all do if a girl is resistant to your kino (hand on thigh stage)? She's just low interest. She didn't want to fuck you. NEXT.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 09:21 PM
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Avoid doing too much in public. Get your own back sunscreened. She'll comply if she's into you.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 09:18 PM
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So here's the thing. I've had this shit with a girl. Constantly rearranging, hard to meet up, rescheduling, the complete works. Went on for weeks. I got sick of it and straight up told her it wasn't going to happen if she keeps on dicking me around. I never told her where to stick it, but I did make it clear I wasn't going to stand for it. Eventually met up. In person it was fucking awful. I hated every fucking second of being with this boring, tedious girl. And then it just turned around. She w…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 07:11 PM
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Yep.... shit's getting ridiculous
/r/askTRP18/06/21 07:07 PM
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What's the best way to minimise my mumble/stutter? I know just talking more would help but something more effective than that? Any help is appreciated. Join public speaking classes. NEVER MUMBLE. Talk slow and loud, loud enough to be heard 3 feet behind the person you are speaking to. SLOW. Don't fucking mumble. Speak slowly, loudly, and clearly. stutter/stammer I don't know much about this, but slowing down can help. Google for more info, I've not had to deal with this.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:53 PM
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none of them have any real success with women, so why follow their advice? Absolutely. Would you take financial advice from a homeless person?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:51 PM
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Tell her straight "I want to hang out, let me know when you are 100% definitely free". If she flakes on that, ditch her. If she talks about anything else, ditch her.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:49 PM
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but I want kids and a stable home for them Marriage destabilises families because you are literally PAYING THE MOTHER TO LEAVE. You want to keep stability, don't offer her payment to leave, which is what marriage is.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:04 PM
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this belongs in the main post
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:03 PM
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How to turn girl asking to apply sunscreen on their back into an opportunity? Quick sunscreen to back, then "turn over".
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:03 PM
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Escalate to find out. Go across, smile, say hi.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:02 PM
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This is great :)
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:01 PM
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Girls are asking shit like how times you had sex this week, are you a player etc etc Good. She's spotted she has competition and sees you as a player. I own that shit and not bothered by it but sometimes they’ll make the pussy hard to get because they fear I only need them for sex Maybe they aren't playing as hard to get as it seems. Do you call their bluff? Meet their disinterest with indifference? "You're such a player, we're not having sex" => "Yeah, this lifestyle isn't for everyone, totally…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:00 PM
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What the fuck is going on?Used to fuck girls left and right Probably low T, get measured
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:53 PM
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I want to break away but, for some reason I'm not able to do it. Investment, commitment, LACK OF ABUNDANCE. Deep down I hope to gain her affection through our friendship but, I know that's a absolutely foolish. urgh. read main trp sidebar and asktrp sidebar. THIS WILL NOT WORK. your model of attraction is fucked. I need your help. I want to break free and change my mindset so I don't catch oneistis again. How do I change ? The answer is hard but simple: Fuck 12 beautiful women. The journey will …
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:52 PM
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Cheers boys and beware using the naughty bad words Is there a list of naughty words?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 05:46 PM
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still I am failing at keeping jobs Why do they end? and relationships why do they end? How do I get motivated to want to go back into society after all these failures? Well, you need to open your mouth and NOT FUCK UP. People don't trust silence because it shows nothing - they don't trust it. re motivation: because you want the best possible life for yourself.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:43 PM
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and we should continue our activities for experience and for fun, how should I communicate this? Don't fight her on this. Wait a week.... then "While we're continuing to not see each other, let's have drinks tomorrow".
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:41 PM
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DO NOT MARRY
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:52 PM
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but it seems that wanting a slim or healthy weight female is now considered "high standards" by a huge entourage of people as the average American female is very overweight Yes, but who gives a fuck what other people think? where as guys are going to be judged on facial attractiveness, height and general genetics before fat / bodyweight, as well as status and income Men are judged on bodyfat too, if you plan on having sex with her. Less so in other areas of life. Its simply a lot harder now for …
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:50 PM
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From my research so far guys here say that you should care only if it's too high and be happy if it's bellow 10 or something Most women are simply not LTR material. The problem with "8 guys" is that it's not 8 guys.... women simply do not count accurately, by design. One night stand? Doesn't count. She regretted it? Doesn't count. Relationship didn't go anywhere? Doesn't count. Women can only respect the best. Are you really the best of the 25 guys that Little-Miss-8-Count has ever fucked? Howev…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:49 PM
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paying her living costs and moving in together is the death of your relationship and straight to beta bucks land.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:45 PM
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Everyone says college is the best years of your life For some this is true. But it was not true for me, and it isn't true for you. Just because SOME people have the best years of their life at uni, and you had a shit time, doesn't mean the rest of your life was worse. The worse time you have at uni, the less chance there is that it's your best years. College was the one place people find life long friends and I literally don’t have a single one... While sometimes true, this isn't always true. Do…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:14 PM
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so in conclusion.... you move in together, but you pay? this is fucking terrible. best of neither world. she just wants out of her household immediately even worse.... she doesn't want to live with you, she wants out of her current situation. and you're paying. avoid deals like this.... .expensive and can't get out of them.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:12 PM
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She's allowed to see other man? But I'm not allowed to fuck other ladies? Sounds selfish to me. It's a bluff and a power play..... just laugh it off and carry on.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:10 PM
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How to get over the sexual past of a potential LTR? Read sidebar. Why SHOULD you get over the sexual past of LTR? Why SHOULD it be so unequal?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:10 PM
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Can someone who isn’t the peanut gallery explain why they do this? By avoiding responsibility they avoid consequences. While to you and me this avoidance is fundamental and clear as day, and her AVOIDING is a personality problem....... most men are fooled. Most women are fooled. Most women fool themselves. And the result is as intended: high social status and perception of innocence, in other words: getting away with it. It's instinctive. While men will own up when they are wrong, women never wi…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:09 PM
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I mean we were seated face to face, and naturally we had some distance. So it was impossible to follow any escalation ladder conducting to any sort of kiss. Yes, you are the victim of circumstance and there is nothing you can do about it. oh wait... you're a man. you can do things. you can LEAD. take her somewhere else.... "come to the bar with me"...... "there's someone I'd like you to meet"..... "let's get some fresh air for a moment". or move your chair. or move HER chair. or go to another ve…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:12 PM
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? Is there something that changes their interest level? What can be done? When you're in front of her you're new and exciting. 24 hours later on text, you're just another guy messaging her. You need to have more fun and interact with them more in person. More attraction, move fun, more comfort. You're gonna lost 50% of your attraction between meeting and followup. That's how they're wired. So you need to very attractive and very fun and very intriguing in person, so that when it fades a little y…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:02 PM
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I’m TopRPd for reason And the reason is "you typed that name into a web browser".
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:56 PM
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"I bet you got hoes" => "Less than a hundred" She's saying you get lots of girls. Take the compliment and move on.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:55 PM
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Never tell a girl you're a virgin. Sex with attractive girls is not easy. Work on yourself, ignore this girl.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:54 PM
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FIND BETTER OPTIONS
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:53 PM
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She doesn’t pick up and I text her, “I’m free tomorrow after 5 if that works” Ugh... don't be a doormat. Don't reward bad behaviour. Not sure where this is going honestly, it’s not a big deal but how would you guys handle this situation? You haven't met this girl, she's a tinderella. Don't ever offer a date like this. It shows you are following/hoping. Don't text a girl who doesn't pick up. She'll see the missed call, have some intrigue! Some mystery! Just do nothing and move on with your life. …
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:52 PM
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I’ve worked hard renovating the house and don’t want to lose it. So instead you share it with a fat woman who won't fuck you. I’m new to TRP. How would a RP expert proceed in my situation? Look in married red pill. Generally they recommend dread game. Seriously consider divorce though, if you don't have kids. If you do, cheat. You didn't ask for this shit, and you shouldn't have to suffer it.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:49 PM
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she is fundamentally insecure about a lot of stuff. don't make excuses for her behaviour. But from a fundamental stand point why do females do stuff like this ? control I'm a student trying to gain some knowledge . This girl is not right for you, and not adult enough to have a relationship. Demote to FWB for your own sake.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:46 PM
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It bothers me that I definitely could’ve had a girlfriend in high school but failed. Stop looking back, focus on what you can do. focus on the future.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 05:45 PM
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Yup, makes sense
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 05:44 PM
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This is a constant struggle, I don’t want to rely on dating apps. They suck, let’s be honest. No real social circle Go out and meet women by day and by night. That’ll maybe cheer me up the day I go bald. It won't. What do you WANT to do? What do you WANT out of life?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:25 PM
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Interesting. Another inflection point occurs at a high enough level (130+) with diminishing returns on a higher IQ. I doubt it's in inflection point, but I can believe rapidly flattening out of effectiveness. Any idea as to why that's the case?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 03:18 PM
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i got Both their instagrams and snapchat’s girls give this shit out like candy. "MORE FOLLOWERS!" she thinks. Get her number or nothing. hy do they still reply and put kisses whilst in relationships? Attention The poor guy probably doesn’t even know this has happened. Yep. They string guys along for their attention. They cheat. This is why you don't wanna be exclusive with a girl, ever.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:32 PM
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have a criminal charge for assault That will make your life harder for a few years. The problem I have is, I want to make money- like alot of it as I feel that will give my life fufilment, with my life circumstances Yeah... get a proper job and work hard at it. "A lot of money" means building a business, and you do that in your spare time. You need to get your head down and work hard at a normal job while you ride out the time for that criminal charge to disappear from your record. Proper job...…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:30 PM
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Don’t touch girls with boyfriends, don’t fuck “drunk” girls at parties, meet them later. While you are correct, this is NOT WHAT IS BEING ASKED. Being told this after the fact is literally useless to OP.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:25 PM
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Did anyone share a similar experience or has an idea on how to deal with that feeling? Look forward. Being boring can be fixed in seconds - start living.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:22 PM
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"You can't handle her"
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:22 PM
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Imagine, if shit was still up and running, people like this man would have seen an economic downturn, but they wouldn't have lost everything ....... unless they got infected and died. Then they would have lost everything. 3.5M people died due to coronavirus. Would have been much much higher without the lockdowns.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 11:33 AM
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Biggest predictors of life success are IQ followed by Conscientiousness followed by hard work. You probably can't change your IQ, but conscientiousness is just caring about doing things thoroughly, checking your work, trying to improve, trying not to make mistakes, caring about the quality of your output. Anyone can do that.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 11:31 AM
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Agree with this.... "why are you on here" is going to trigger her ASD and she'll say "just looking for friends, teehee" .... and then blame you for asking. "So... what are you looking for?" is a question best asked after sex.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 11:12 AM
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right try to meet up
/r/askTRP17/06/21 01:54 AM
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easiest hard next in the world
/r/askTRP17/06/21 01:53 AM
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When meeting new women, do you tell them immediately that you don't want a relationship? At what point do you tell them? I just want to spin plates. No, I don't mention it. BUT...... I carry myself as if I have other women in my life...... not always available, not always willing to make another date, gaps where she doesn't know what I'm doing, not too much communication. Generally she'll go along with things, at least for a while. Eventually you'll get The Talk, but it will not be with the expe…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:25 AM
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I know she is still gonna try to message me or contact me because we go to the same university, and we study the same thing and got the same classes. How do I go about hard nexting her in this situation. Tell her that the sexual side of your relationship is over, but that you'd like to stay friends. Then fade her out.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:20 AM
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I get a lot of matches on hinge but dates have fizzled recently. I'd like to see where I'm going wrong. Pics What the fuck are you doing chatting so much? Chat, flirt, meet.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:17 AM
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i am seeking something meaningful, ”love” even tho that shit is just attraction and hormones And lies. Don't forget the lies. , but at the same time I want that special unicorn that I know doesn’t exist. I know all of this, but there is a void im trying to fill. i am empty on the inside. Women will not fill this void in your soul. Only you can do that. You've been told that a woman will fill this for you. It won't. But you can. And yes, this is perfectly normal.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:16 AM
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I'm confused, do girls do this and end up fucking you? What is this? Sometimes yes
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:12 AM
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Who does it REALLY benefit though. You can see the mayhem in states like California where people are moving out because of how shit the laws and corrupt lawmakers are. Is it about the money? Who is benefiting from this? Good question. No idea who is leading this. My latest theory: China owns a large chunk of the media, films and puts a lot of money into Western Universities. China wants to push a marxist agenda. Most of this woke shit comes out of Universities. It's a theory.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:39 PM
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There's nothing going on in my life. Then fix this. , instead of getting an exciting sports car that might end up being a money pit, I'll buy a small, slow, cheap and reliable car. If you want boring then be happy with boring. Any thoughts? You can be exciting and do none of these things you list. Physically escalate.... touch her... spank her in public....
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:38 PM
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How do/would you react when/if your LTR eyes other guys in public ? generally objectively good looking guys. First off you want to go with "yeah, he's hot" Make sure you do the same thing with women! This is clearly how this girl wants to do things. She's probably open to threesomes.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:36 PM
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There are so many! Not gonna share mine, obviously.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:19 PM
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I do actually find that I need a women around a bit, to balance my masculine side, to take my lust out on, for relationship/companionship,etc. I'm older, that's probably part of it. Agreed, they are fun and it's fun to fuck them. They are of benefit to your life....... they just don't directly benefit you in any other way. Got to be low maintenance/drama. They all have some, but got to minimize it and set limits on it. Yeah, I keep drama down to almost zero too.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:18 PM
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i guess they say that shit to hoard orbiters who will be there at her beck and call. Sympathy. Induced white knighting and support. Absence of blame and responsibility for who she chose to date. Reclaimed virginity..... "he raped me, I'm still a virgin really!" Love the nickname :)
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 04:17 PM
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playing sports with friends (hockey, basketball) - cycling - hiking (this shouldn’t really count lol) Hiking counts for sure..... but none of these are creative. None of them CREATE anything. None of them make a difference to the world. They have almost no learning of transferrable skills.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:11 PM
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Same. When I first saw the lies told about me at the end of a relationship, I saw this whole "my ex was abusive" for the lie it usually is. And it works. Men are protective and gullible. They jump to m'lady's defence. This doesn't work for men: if I say my ex was abusive, I will be told either I deserved it, I caused it or I allowed it. The woman will never be blamed. I simply don't believe a word of the whole "my ex was abusive". Every woman says this about every previous man she dated. Sadly m…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 02:09 PM
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80% are female initiated. Of the remaining 20% that are male initiated, how many were told to do so by their wives who couldn't be bothered doing the paperwork themselves? "Have you taken the bins out? Have you gotten a better job? Have you filed that divorce paperwork yet?"
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 12:39 PM
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TLDR; Three bad stories of women totally screwing over my male friends. Lots of bluepillness. These three stories have reminded me how ridiculous dating and relationships have become. It's best to go your own way. All three women will tell stories about their abusive partner.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 12:38 PM
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no problem!
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:35 PM
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. I know some may realize the dates of when they first liked, but will it matter? Thanks Who cares, just do it Also, online dating sucks, find better
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:32 AM
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Question is why does such a small difference make a big difference in your life? Status
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:31 AM
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LDR = she cheats but maintains the relationship if she feels like it while you get nothing. For 1.5 years? Terrible plan.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:31 AM
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1: what you like and what you can get are very different. 2: men who fuck fatties enjoy it, but don't want others to know about it. 3: yes, most men don't have much real choice and often either put in low effort or follow the disney script which doesn't work. fat girls are easier. 4: in some cases yes its a fetish. for most it's simply easier.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:30 AM
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So I'm looking for one woman who can actually add value in my life. Know that your commitment counts AGAINST your attractiveness and value. Women don't add much value to your life, except they can be fun to socialise with.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:27 AM
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girls by saying things in front of them like : " why are you looking at those legs? You're a perv. Approach them and don't be a perv " Laugh this rubbish off. I don't get why this happens; I tried to agree and amplify or reply with rude jokes but nothing happened. They are mocking you to make themselves look better. You are appearing weak, and they are attacking. Ignore it. Also I noticed I have anxiety/don't know what to say when I'm around girls. Is it social anxiety? Probably yes. Don't shit …
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:26 AM
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You say "maybe you are right", and then show that you didn't absorb a single word I said. I said "fight back", that means verbally. Not "have a fight next time this happens". Be ready to fight back verbally, but don't do this instantly. You want to be unreactive, and you NEED TO CARE LESS.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:22 AM
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Enjoy it
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:21 AM
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Try it and see. But.... comfortable..... you can generally feel how relaxed she is. But she might also be nervous/excited.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:21 AM
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I find shared finances in marriages abhorrent. The man usually works his ass off for a higher income, and some woman comes along and has direct access to this income for no reason whatsoever besides having a pussy? This is the exact case, yes. I guess that made sense back when women couldn't study/work, but nowadays it's absurd. Women could always study and work. Don't let the feminists make you believe otherwise. Yes, the whole idea of marriage is ridiculous. 50 years ago it made partial sense:…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:20 AM
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All shit tests can be dealt with by not reacting, not defending yourself, not supplicating, not losing your cool.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:06 AM
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Bars, clubs, tinder, bumble didn't matter. I got one girls Facebook info at a bar but she has a nice bf so obviously there was nothing there. Another girl gave me her number but made a face and never responded so possibly a fake number. Did you TALK to these girls? Did you have FUN with them?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:04 AM
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Should I just keep approaching and hopefully get good enough that when I meet someone who would be hot enough I could escalate ? Yes. However, I still am very far away from learning how to get someone actually interested in me. First stage is learning to maintain a conversation with a stranger. This is the middle ground. It won't get you laid, but it will help your confidence and build skills. Second stage is escalating/teasing/flirting so that she either loves you or hates you, because the midd…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:34 AM
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Advise ? Demote to FWB.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:27 AM
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Is it me or first date, at least on online dating, is just for the girl to see you are not a rapist & look like your pictures? No. Touch her. Let her feel your masculinity.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:26 AM
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Either way, what are some things I should/shouldn't do (other than wear a condom, obviously)? It'll be fine........ don't be an emotional tampon, be somewhat dominant, be relaxed. Tell her she's hot and stroke her leg. After that you'll either be fucked or thrown out.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:26 AM
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and they all have a bf or are married. Sorry to tell you bro........ they don't all have boyfriends. You need to be more attractive to them, and suddenly you'll find a lot less of them are taken.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:24 AM
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I have female friends, and none of them have ever set me up their friend. I noticed most of them will just use you as an emotional tampon and then ghost you once they find a boyfriend/chad. THESE ARE NOT FRIENDS. Or they’ll say “how are you single! You’re a great guy”. I would never date you though, you’re not chad teehehe Yeah, this is because they think OTHER women want a nice guy, but they themselves want a hot guy. This is because they believe each other's bullshit even though they say it th…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:23 AM
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It doesn't matter if it's the college group or a local one, they just make fun of me in public like about beard etc. Do you like the attention? Do you not take yourself seriously? Do you like them making fun of you? Victims are almost always volunteers. Develop a stronger frame. Also, know everyone's weakpoint and be ready to fight back sometimes. Also also: CARE LESS.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:19 AM
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She’s the only girl I’m actively seeing right now as my other plate broke. And I’m working on setting up dates from dating apps etc It happens. See "handling the talk" that I wrote, in the sidebar. Generally I find that girls are more scared of losing you than they are of not being exclusive. "I enjoy your company and I'd like to keep on seeing you" works wonders, so long as she knows that you aren't going to be monogamous. Things like....... "We could make our summer fling into an autumn fling …
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:17 AM
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Yesterday, a girl that I know is crazy about me How do you know she is crazy about you? She asked me to match her, I told her I only had $5. what does "match her" mean? This broad said call me back when you got money. Lmaooooo. I know it’s a shit test because she always pays for me. What do you mean she always pays for you? I thought you weren't dating her? There is something very weird about your attitude.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:04 AM
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ch. I also usually see her when we are with other coworkers and I don't want to ask for her number in front of coworkers to put her on the spot. What do I do? If she rejects you, are you ok working with her, knowing that she will gossip about you? And you don't care about your job if she reports you to HR? Ok, what you do: number is an afterthought. "Hey girl, you're fun.... I'm going to XYZ cool place on Friday. You should come along". Girl: "Sounds great!" You: "Neat.... here's my number, drop…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:01 AM
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I guess that’s what the red pill is for, discovering the uncomfortable truth; I’m just in the disappointment stage. right What’s a good way to get over it and/or use this knowledge to my advantage? acceptance hurts but eventually sets you free. using it to your advantage: the biggest advantage you have is that you don't fall into the traps society has set for you, eg marriage. You'll be more wary of women, so they'll fuck you over less. Not zero, but less. Forewarned is forearmed. There are a mi…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:58 AM
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shitting where you eat I've wanted to at least act on something or at least ask her out for awhile but i never muster up the nerve. I've been trying for 2 month don't pretend you would do anything in future. you did nothing for 2 mths. It's been barely a week since he joined and he already tried putting the moves on her. Good. I couldn't believe it. She didn't push him away, instead she started giggling, he pulled her closer and started kissing her neck you're the nice guy. he is the alpha who t…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:56 AM
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and didn’t even kiss her at the end. (Could we skip the part with you telling me this is bad cuz I think I figured that part out on my own). No, we can't skip this. Kiss at the end of the night is TERRIBLE.. you want to be touching her so early in the date that by the end of it you fall into bed together. Women with cash is new and disconcerting..... but its fine. You just need to remember to continue to lead, and not to take her paying for granted. Always offer, and always lead. Turns out she r…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:52 AM
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Why do you care if she's comfortable? Are you looking for permission to escalate?
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:27 PM
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Do you guys believe you can break hypergamy or see a possibility of getting a girl with much higher position in the society compared to you Yes, but it doesn't really break hypergamy. I am talking about a reaaaaaaally hard one which has too high standards. Don't bother. What you want is to get the kind of girl you really like. You are talking about "proving to yourself that no girl is unattainable", and this is your ego/insecurity talking. Ones with more field activity, do you guys think power o…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:25 PM
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It's not quite shitting where you eat, but it's not a great idea. Women have their guard up (sweating, low makeup, feeling vulnerable/threatened) even more than usual. And you might see her again (bad), she knows where you'll be (bad), and she can report you later when she decides after-the-fact that you harassed her. The gym won't listen to your side, they'll just chuck you out. Still think it's worth it? Then go for it.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:23 PM
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This might be a dumb question, but I honestly don’t even know where to start. Get off couch. Walk or drive to gym. I have a membership, but I don’t know what to do, how many sets, how many reps. 3 sets, 8 reps, 5-10 mins apart, doesn't matter much. 8 reps means "I can only just do 8 reps". If more than 8, increased weight. Do squats, pench press, bicep curls, literally everything else you can find or see. Then do 20 mins cardio. I don’t know how to eat or live outside of the gym when trying to b…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:21 PM
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1 > this is a bit fucked up. you shouldn't have to yell, and TRP doesn't tell men to yell at women 4 > again with the yelling/berating. not TRP 5 > sounds like the old PUA stuff. Can see his point. 6 > Good. The guy is clearly redpilled. Not really. The post has been popularised at some pretty high levels in the news (always critically). Every guy will know someone who knows of TRP.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:16 PM
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She keeps blowing up your phone and keeps asking what’s wrong. She does that in person too. What to say at the time? Ignore phone. Don't see her in person. If you work with her: you're already fucked. If you live with her: you already gone fucked up. If it's a family member: wait, what? How to handle when you soft next her for a couple of days and she is mad at you for ignoring her for these days? She shouldn't be mad, she should be sad. If she's mad then she thinks she is entitled to your exclu…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:13 PM
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But they know he won’t call or know all he wants I think they really think/hope he'll call. Of course they all want a hot provider. Sigh 😔 They want everything. Men have already compromised by giving up on her being successful, accomplished. The main things that are left are "cute and pleasant". Even that is hard to find and we have to work to find it and work to get it. So for a woman to expect hot, will stick around, successful, and will provide for her..... yeah, it's asking too much. Most wi…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:10 PM
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Wtf is wrong with this sub. lockdown, rise of instagram. And more subtlely: low male social status. Men are told they are not worthy of women and then told that if they talk to a woman they'll be shamed and arrested. The natural response is: ask women out online where noone will see. Dose OP actually not have the confidence to cold approach in real life? This is true of most men. I can assure you cold approaches work 10x better than this "sLiDiNg iNto dMs" shit. The youth in 2021 is so out of to…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:08 PM
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is better alone than with a shitty beta husband. Most men are not the "shitty beta" that women portray them as.... the majority are decent men who simply don't understand how attraction works. Of course there are shitty relationships. But 80% of the time, the "abusive ex" is a lie that women tell to gain sympathy and to distract from her hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 05:10 PM
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And I’ve learned to hide my cancer unless the relationship is serious. People look at you differently especially women. Some look up to you. Some discriminate. Right.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 05:08 PM
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Know that she is (intentionally) making it impossible to find such a girl. She knows that you're not going to find a no-strings-attached stranger to pull into bed with you. Call her out on this dishonesty.... "There is no way that we can find a girl that will meet all your requirements, so you are making a threesome impossible". Don't allow her the luxury of pretending that she is "totally down for a threesome" while simultaneously making it impossible to happen.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 05:08 PM
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Should I just sit it out until she breaks or suddenly act as if everythings fine? Three days no contact then carry on like nothing happened. If she mentions it, just say "If you talk to me like that I will not be helpful" / "But I was joking" / "Right.... and if you joke like that again I will not be helpful" / "But it was a JOKE" / "Right, and that's fine, but if you joke like that I will not be helpful".
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:18 PM
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Yeah, this is the normal "pretend threesome" that girls do. "I'll have a threesome, but I can't know the girl, and you can't know her either, and it can't be an ex, and you can't see her again, and I can't see her again, and she can't be as cute as me, and her tits can't be larger..... or firmer.... and she can't be older than me.... or younger.... and you can't find her too attractive... and you can't have sex with her.... or sex with me in front of her". Girls who want a threesome won't make i…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:16 PM
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No need to leave.... try this: yet she still keeps asking When she next asks, look at her. Say nothing, maintain eye contact, be expressionless. "Did you hear me?!?!?" "Yes" "So........... how many?" <silence> "Err...... did you hear me?" "Yes" "But you didn't answer" "Correct" "But really........ how many????" <silence> This makes it clear that it is non negotiable. All the witty comments and banter are a fun little challenge. The brick wall is not fun. The brick wall of silence is awkward, unc…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:14 PM
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her: sure, why not dinner and drinks! "Deal! Where are you taking me?" still kinda wanna close this girl if possible Urgh, walk away.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:11 PM
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I am curious, how long did it start until you took to see improvements? Curious to here some success stories on here! First I decided to never be in a monogamous relationship again, ever. This was an instant success.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:10 PM
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. Before she comes to bed, she's all 'We should put away the dishes or else we wake up to a mess.' "Nope, not doing it right now". You have to stop her having the level of control over you. If she cleans up then fine, but she can't control when YOU choose to clear up. 'That really doesn't bother me but if you want to do them that's cool.' Good She was all 'Well we could do them together in the morning I guess' and I said okay and we did. I want to avoid a repeat of the bullshit of the past and d…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:09 PM
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but thinking to try Instagram, I know, its not the best approach but would like to know everyone’s experience! How to date an instragram model: TALK TO PEOPLE IN REAL LIFE
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:04 PM
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You feel a need to talk about it because you want help and support from other people, who then feel compelled to give it, or at least listen. Noone likes or respects this. Sort out your own emotional issues.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:03 PM
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very girl I have dated has cheated on me Stop being exclusive to them and you'll feel a lot better about it all.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:58 PM
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I get that lower SMV dudes might feel threaten by a higher SMV guy, but girls with their innate Hypergamy makes this phenomena strange to say the least.. She feels you are unattainable, therefore is rude to you to make herself feel better. Reject you before you can reject her. But also.... "less attractive" girls get fucked by hot guys all the time. Guy is drunk or horny..... has "new-girl horniness" for her.... so he bangs her. Maybe she throws herself at him because "sex will bring us closer".…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:58 PM
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That night gf (who often turned down sex during work week because 'I'm tired' and so on) basically jumped on me, gave oral, and was like herself at the beginning but more dirty lol. Competition is a wonderful thing. Never forget this. Compare how she is with a loyal loving boyfriend for years.... vs you getting attention from another woman for a couple of minutes. This is how she is wired. Run your relationship accordingly. male sexual desire remains high while female desire tends to decline unl…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:53 PM
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Q: are these reason from her side really legit or just an excuse and she got bored 99% chance she got bored / lost attraction / felt that she can do better. Changes are you have no idea how to maintain attraction long term, and have slipped into beta ways. Maybe you even started there. does a Girl also feel that way(sees no future)even if she is still attracted? If she's attracted she'll do everything possible to make it work with you, including lying to herself.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:48 PM
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Oh boy, so many mistakes here. You tried to get support from a woman. You should know better. This kills attraction. You showed weakness. This kills attraction. You ask for pity, then complain you're getting a pity fuck. You came prematurely and "lost my desire" and "basically said no".... Just think how this looks from her point of view. The question is - do you call her out, never call her again or just keeping pushing for the lay even if you feel your pride/dignity as a human being is in the …
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:46 PM
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What's the point of dating, marriage, relationship when potentially AWALT AWALT is more than potential, it's a simple fact. Personally speaking, I'm tired of spinning plates and searching for more when they break. I Just because YOU are tried of dating, does not mean that AWALT stops applying. TRP isn't something you get to pick and choose. It Just Is. I'm fed up fellas, and I just need to know if this is how dating is going to be in the futurw? This is how dating always was, they just lied to y…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:41 PM
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the general consensus is to let women come to you Yes, this doesn't work. "Let them come to you" doesn't mean they'll make any actual moves. as opposed to chasing them and next them if they aren't into you enthusiastically, as well as not to buy them dinners and stuff. So let's say that DON'T chase you (most won't, fact of life). What you shouldn't do is chase them. But you have to make the moves and make shit happen. So you make the effort to go and talk to a girl. But to avoid being seen as th…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:36 PM
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This is a great article! For example, if she is being difficult you can leave while saying something like “hey I’m sorry my friend just texted me I have to go meet up with him.” You should not make her think you are leaving because you are butthurt, but because you just some have something better. There is another option that is neither butthurt nor distracted: tell her to stop (they never do), then simply leave without saying another word. By telling her to stop what she's doing, and then follo…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 03:14 PM
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which one is you? ;)
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 02:53 PM
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*Citation Needed
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 02:35 PM
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5 years later she'll look back with regret and start saying "maybe he wasn't such a bad guy... I wonder if he's still single" Don't forget that women manufacture "my husband is unattractive / abusive / manipulative / lazy" to justify her cheating. In many cases the guy has done absolutely nothing wrong, and it is his commitment that has killed attraction.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 01:31 PM
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Anyways, one thing that feels a bit weird to me is that the entire thing felt very "fake" It feels weird at first. . How do I make it a bit more natural because I have 2 dates with women that I really like next week and in their case I'd be really uncomfortable with doing all this it'll feel a lot more natural if you WANT to touch them Idk if you guys heard that phrase that the quicker a relationship escalates, the quicker it falls not quite true...... too slow = non starter. I'm kinda looking f…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:03 AM
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Anything except getting butthurt and throwing her out. She's done nothing wrong, roll with it.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:00 AM
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The hard part is persuading our scarcity-conditioned monkey-brains to act on it.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 01:44 PM
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I was with you until this: You just need to be seen as better or equal to her This isn't true though: you have to be seen as better than her other options. Better than the girl does not mean better than her options.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 12:32 PM
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but i have 0 idea what to do when you go to meet a girl. I am a virgin , never been out with a girl. I seriously dont know what the f**k will we do once we meet. You need to realise this is not the last girl you'll date, it doesn't matter that much. It's a learning process, and there will be more. What you do: meet up with her. "Hey girl... Saturday... X place". Expect to lead, don't expect her to make decisions. Expect that it will all be down to you to physically escalate. Get out there, fuck …
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:28 PM
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l, found out she on her period, got mad and basically tried to kick her out of our apt while I am with her friend. To make it worse he actually ended up leaving the girl alone in his room and leaves to go to a party/find another girl. Your roommate is fucked up. He said later in the group chat that he was mad because she “ruined his nut” so I guess he feels like she wasted his time by not telling him she was on her period earlier in the night. your roommate is spoiled beyond belief. Things happe…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:27 PM
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“trauma bond” Wow, what a great name for this. Not come across this concise wording of the concept before. Do I text my ex after 2 years to ask her what her fucking deal is No, never, NO. You ignore stalkers, you don't encourage them. She wants attention and drama, give her none of this. Tell your new girl that this girl is damaged, has been diagnosed with BPD, and can't tell the difference between reality and fiction. Look sad about this. Talk sympathetically about your ex (new girl is female a…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:21 PM
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Is it possible to accept the selfish and superficial nature of womens mating choices and how self destructive the cock carousel is for them while still acknowledging they have value outside of their looks and relationship to men? Of course. But this is a sexual strategy sub. We deal with sexual strategy for men. Your daughters accomplishments are of zero sexual value to a man.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:17 PM
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"Let's go out to XXX bar, it's around the corner from my place.... shout when you get here and we'll walk over." When she gets there, you are in the middle of something and won't be a second, pay her little attention, invite her in, keep saying "won't be a second" and make all your actions dedicated towards leaving. And then you actually leave as quickly as possible, the idea is simply to have her be happy inside your place and to know she can leave again. Acceptable drinks: you don't want her d…
/r/askTRP11/06/21 12:15 PM
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Definitely plan for it. Even if it’s a first one I think just hinting at it and gauging a reaction could be usefu urgh no. "testing the waters" is weak. Don't mention going back to yours, what you do is meet at yours, invite her in "for a second" and then head out. Don't mention it in advance, but getting her back to your place is easy if she's already been there.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 01:55 AM
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, there are some red flags i dont know how to get passed. red flags are red flags. They aren't there to "get past". Lying is a dealbreaker for me personally. Piercings and such is a warning sign. Am i overthinking this? In the past I've been lied and cheated on and ever since finding TRP I've been so wary of girls behaviour... Right. And this girls lies to you too. So why are you conflicted on this?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 01:54 AM
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We live in a gynocentric society. Women always look to blame someone else, and that means men. I get sick of hearing it too.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 01:52 AM
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Don’t know how long this plate will last Yeah, I think this is over pretty soon.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 01:50 AM
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> I'm thinking about demoting her to a plate though, as her initial judgment makes me uneasy about her LTR potential. ​ Yeah, it's dubious for sure. ​ Great reaction when told though.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:18 PM
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> p. Later she said she was joking ​ Ah yes the classic "it was just a joke". ​ > I find it disrespectful that she would even bring up a threesome. Red flag? Next? Break up? What’s the next step? ​ Demote to FWB.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:17 PM
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> I am going to deny this of course because I am not interested in a sexless fwb ??? ​ Right. ​ Your answer should be "Sex detox sounds great......let's do two weeks for starters". Then don't agree to any visits "because we are on a detox". If she says "but we can still see other other", you come back with "As Just friends???" > I am going to assume she is trying to get my attention for free or make me her beta or she is going to sex detox from me while she rides a new man or this is just anothe…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:15 PM
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> YES my guys I want sex from her, obviously, but that’s not all I want from her and it is honestly annoying that, that’s all she thinks I want. I’ve tried hard to prove my “love” Sadly this is exactly what she wants: complain about "only sex" to FORCE you to "prove your love". > She’s been complaining a lot lately about how she doesn’t want to come over because she knows I’m gonna want sex but she still comes Sadly this points to lack of attraction. Sex should be something she is excited by and…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:13 PM
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It's a bad idea.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:23 AM
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Keep it down to once a day if you can
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:23 AM
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My face tattoo gets me a lot of attention
/r/askTRP08/06/21 07:52 PM
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Why not? Girls love that shit.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 07:52 PM
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guys asking if they could pay me to give them head How much would you charge for this, out of interest?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 07:51 PM
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sleep more, check your testosterone levels.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 07:31 PM
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btw. I am meeting other girls where I live now but she was really fun to be around and the sex was great so I would like to keep in touch. Be clear on your own intentions here. Are you thinking you'll visit, she visits, or she moves back in future? To maintain attraction you need to be distant. But you want to keep in touch. Get her to strip on cam for you.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 03:34 PM
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Thoughts? Plate broken? Advice? Probably. Continue as if nothing happened.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 03:33 PM
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The girl I thought could be my wife was an illusion.... I miss my mom. Please help me. I'm sorry that your mother won't marry you. It's time to become a man.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 03:32 PM
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Sometimes, it's just the body language or just lack of reaction from the women that kind of stop me. Ok. Small touches are nice, and they pave the way for the risky touches, but those are what get you results. The best one is the arm around her waist. It's easiest standing or walking, so arrange your dates around this. The trick is to do it for a second.... then stop.... then do it.... then stop. The major green light is HER DOING IT TOO. Ideally, I would just want to mention that we should hold…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 03:31 PM
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So I wonder how do you guys do ? Do you have any tips ? Pick one at a time. Write your list of habits on a piece of paper somewhere. Eg, you write down: "Don't bite nails". When you can do that consistently for 2 weeks you put a tick next to it and you add the next: "Stop licking public park benches" Then after 2 weeks you tick it if you can, and add the next. This lets you see progress, doesn't overwhelm, and tells you what you're working on. If you regress: start again and go slower. Always fo…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 03:27 PM
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She wants a serious and no drama relationship. Serious = man provides, witthout much sex. No drama = no drama from the man. Women who say "I want no drama" will still create as much drama as women who don't. She is saying what she wants to RECEIVE, not what she wants to give. I lightly slapped her ass. She got mad at me and she no longer wants to talk to me. Sorry to report that at least part of what she says means "this is what I want from YOU, this is how I feel when YOU are around", or in oth…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 03:25 PM
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Other than hard nexting, what is the best way to handle time wasters like this without seeming butt hurt given it’s your good friend’s gf’s friend? Thanks in advance. "Hi........ text me when you're free to meet up". Also: increase the gaps. Each time she timewastes you double the time before you respond. 1 day...... 2 days..... 3 days. Then tell her "I'm reinstalling Tinder/Facetime/whatever... please re-add me when I've upgraded", then you delete/block her.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 10:22 PM
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The problem is that it looks so forced and awkward that it almost looks like a meme. AND WEAK They even pointed out I say thanks or please so often..but its pretty hard for me to get assertive. I read No more mr nice guy exc...but as I said its very hard for me to stop doing that. STOP DOING IT. Focus on one thing at once......... focus on not saying please, ever, at all. Live your life, but each time you talk, practice and focus on what you say, and NOT saying please. Learn new ways to talk. It…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 10:17 PM
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By bluepillers and soys. What gives ? I get called this all the time by bluepill men Cultural indoctrination from men seeking female approval. Keep your TRP views to yourself.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:06 PM
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That without sacrafice life is pointless, I want to be able to enjoy life and relax for once. Upbringing and culture. You need to focus on getting what you want out of life and enjoying it instead of sacrificing for others and/or your own future. It will take a little while, but you'll get there if you try.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:05 PM
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I'm having a really hard time dealing with these emotions. I feel like this is the female version of chasing the bigger and better deal. Any advice? Thank you, Find a few things to be grateful for, then express your appreciation out loud. Reframe the "You should....." into "I would like to have", and then take positive steps towards it.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:04 PM
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I feel like I act too aloof to escalate Good, they are COWORKERS. Do not shit where you eat. You're fine, but you should try and have an occasional normal conversation with them, and thus avoid "why do you hate us"
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:02 PM
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What is the FORD method ?
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:01 PM
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I don't do LTRs, so it doesn't matter. Point is: LTR's are at best temporary and almost always inherently fucked. High n-count ( > 10) is a red flag, but a virgin is no guarantee of loyalty.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:00 PM
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What would you do if caught red handed? Caught red handed.... err...... chatting to a girl? Oh my god, throw on the handcuffs now officer! I've been rumbled! Someone knows I have a penis and now they think I like to talk to attractive girls! Throw away the key, jailer! Seriously OP: you have guilt issues about the most natural thing in the world: talking to a member of the opposite sex. It's totally fine. You'll get better. Stop feeling guilty about it, you're doing nothing wrong.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 11:54 AM
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Q: are these reason from her side really legit or just an excuse and she got bored(she was 19 when we started dating)? Sounds legit to me. She wants to settle down with kids, she's afraid of leaving her parents, she wants their support for having babies. does a Girl also feel that way(sees no future)even if she is still attracted? Rationally probably yes. Attraction counts for a lot, but it isn't everything. In any case: sounds like you and this girl want different things.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 11:51 AM
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Is this even a concern? Is this crabs in a bucket shit or am I legitimately using the gym as some sort of coping mechanism? Crabs in a bucket. 6-12 hours a week is fine.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 11:50 AM
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What i havent seen spoken about much in this space is exactly what your examples do. Plausible deniability. But yes, TRP doesn't talk much about why this is needed - it's a holdover from the old PUA days. Perhaps we need to focus more on "outer game" around here. BTW I always use my dog, he wants to meet you, i gotta feed him (mid date) and its a solid play. I gotta feed him.... v. nice
/r/askTRP06/06/21 10:21 PM
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ok, that's great of her to say so. I think we've nailed it: lack of escalation. Girls want to be fucked, you do know that right?
/r/askTRP06/06/21 10:19 PM
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The question was "how to get plausible deniability". My answer is geared to address the specific question being asked.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:36 PM
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Bullet dodged! Ok, seriously though. This keeps happening. Two scenarious: You are attractive enough to get them on dates, but bore them in person. You look like a solid provider which is what they want, but in person you don't look like you're going to provide because you make them buy their own drinks. If it's 2 then say so, but I think it's 1. You are boring them on dates. Talk more, be more assertive, don't let them bore you, PHYSICALLY ESCALATE.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:36 PM
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they wish me good luck for the future That's terrible. That means "I wish you well, but not with me". Ok, so you talk to them.... I think one thing I fail to do is be very physical. It's a bit hard to force that for me. Right, simple. No escalation and no touching and no kissing = boring conversation. In her mind you are a guy who does nothing about it because you're scared (which is true). Straight to NICE GUY. Do you expect HER to make the moves? Sorry buddy, not happening. In her head this is…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:30 PM
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but I'm stuck in this weird mindset of needing someone all the time now. You'll grow out of it. Be alone, you'll find it's fine.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:23 PM
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"I make the most amazing Mohito you've ever had" "Here's a pic of my dog, he'd love to meet you" "You can't come over to my place, my room mate is next door" "After-party at my place" Try to find something different/unique that both you and she are vaguely interested in, and then SELL IT HARD. Without trying.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:22 PM
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What am i supposed do to break the cycle... Meet more people, women especially.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:20 PM
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Her parents are saying we have to get engaged ASAP at the very least, and quickly follow it with marriage. I am scared of this. You should be scared of this, marriage will fuck you over in ways you can't even begin to imagine. Avoid her parents.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:19 PM
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Tell me how the dates go....... what did you say beforehand (did you imply friendship or imply sex?)..... what happens when you meet? how does the date go? how does it end?
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:18 PM
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. I have two female friends that constantly complain to me, mostly about boys causing problems that they allow to happen for drama. I used to listen and give advice until I realized they don't care for solutions and only want validation. They want attention, yes And how to respond to any future BS that comes my way? You've got a few options. One is to say "yeah, that sucks" and offer no further help/advice. Another way is to outright laugh .... "haha... he did that? and you put up with it?? haha…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:16 PM
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Does the first date always have to start in public It should, for YOUR protection.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:09 PM
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She said she could make it work whilst I was in there hahaha SURRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEE. Did I do the right thing? because I adamantly think I did tbh. It would be too naive to go into the navy with bare minimal contact with a girl I love. Yep, you called it right I think
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:09 PM
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Not as much having a major liability decreases it. I don't see many guys on Tinder proudly claiming to be a single dad.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/21 09:21 PM
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Practice by doing it in real life. It's not a technique thing, it's an attitude thing. Fix by practising where it matters: in real life.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 09:19 PM
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Also I've been educated to be too respectful single mother or weak father? I don't knkw what to do because this is the wy I've been raised and at 28 I feel like George Mcfly...I feel like someone who can be mocked or put in awkward situations for others laugh. Start standing up for yourself. Doesn't matter how it goes, doesn't matter the consequences, you need to learn to do it. Just do it. Start with saying "No" next time someone asks for something. IMPORTANT: give no reason. Simply say "no". T…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 06:26 PM
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Nah bro he asked me to take him out and show him In that case it's simple: you go out with him. Then you go home and you think about the one, single, only next step for him. Then you tell him..... "ok, you want to improve, your next step is X". Rinse, repeat. Most men fail at this journey because it requires identity level change. Most fail at "but this is not in the female's best interests".
/r/askTRP05/06/21 06:24 PM
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Should I (26M) Stop reading shitty woke reddit channels. ny thoughts on if this is a smart move? Or should I just suck it up and save more. How much are you earning? What are your other expenses? Food, car, bills, etc
/r/askTRP05/06/21 06:22 PM
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t if you guys have any extra tips that I may be blanking on, I’m super willing to hear them. thank you! Treat all jealousy as a shit test and laugh it off.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 04:14 PM
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yes
/r/TheRedPill05/06/21 04:13 PM
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What do you do with stubborn friends like this? I am gonna cut him off because he turns off every women I’ve been with It's his life. Your life is not his life. You want to change him to be what YOU want him to be. He does not want this. What the fuck are you doing trying to change your friend to want what you want, and act like you? That makes no sense. Should I go by myself to the club/bar? Yes, and/or find other guys to hang out with in bars. This guy isn't what you want for pulling chicks, s…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 04:13 PM
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No. You're confusing two completely different statistics.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/21 01:58 PM
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g. Would it be wise to hold off on getting into w serious relationship? Yes. Hold off for about 20 years. seeing them as potential girlfriends. Tell them they can be your girlfriend until September. . Also one of the reasons I am discouraged from getting into a relationship is that any sort of turmoil or drama is going to seriously affect me, at least at this point in my life You can avoid almost all girl drama by REFUSING TO DO DRAMA. The second drama starts you quietly grab your stuff and you …
/r/askTRP05/06/21 01:07 PM
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Is there a proper way to starting a date at your place? Depends on your logistics, but one plan is to meet at yours to "drop her stuff off", show her round very quickly, then head out. Going back to yours "to see my etchings" will be much easy when she's already been in it. I tried to lean in twice but both times she said no. If she won't kiss: she is either very unattracted or committed elsewhere. How would one approach this specific situation? I think she doesn't want to fuck you. "I don't lik…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 01:02 PM
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He talks a lot about this with girls whether at bars, club, set up dates and you normally see their eyes glaze over. Quite frankly, I just don't think they are smart enough to be interested but I've told him like 'Dude they don't get it.' He needs to learn how to phrase concepts in emotional rather than mathematical terms. You could make this EXTREMELY entertaining if you do it right. He can't though, probably never will. suddenly goes 'Omg you made 4 grand in one day. You must be good.' She sta…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:57 PM
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"kiss close". Jesus, will the PUA lingo never stop. The word you want is "kissed". akes forever (1-2 days) to reply to my messages even though she's online from time to time Rule 1: She backs off, YOU BACK OFF. If she takes 1-2 days to reply, you take 3 days to reply. It's that simple. But keep it random, don't be too predictable. It seems she's either low interest or has better options Yes I'm probably hamstering right now but I think she's a low self confidence type and doesn't think I like he…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:54 PM
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s. im 20 btw. now im freaking out that because she was pissed off she is going to report me because i didnt do anything with her, and the police will believe her automatically because shes a girl. She'll get the benefit of the doubt, but there will have to be SOME evidence that you had sex. There is none because you didn't. You'll be fine. She's very very unlikely to do anything. She's too busy fucking the next guy who doesn't care. The police are very unlikely to be able to prosecute you withou…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:49 PM
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but I've really been struggling with the hit my confidence has taken since coming out of the relationship. Fuck 12 beautiful women. I don't know how to build myself up again. I want to reinvent myself and I feel like I have the foundations - I'm good looking, I'm a lawyer and my firm really values me, I have a swanky down town apartment. But at the same time my hair is receding really quickly, I haven't been able to save any money due to the expense of starting up a new life, I have a $70k stude…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:46 PM
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I decided to read the game to try and figure them out, but it was honestly so long-winding and beta in its nature a Absolutely. It's sanitized for mass consumption, and Strauss went full on beta at the end (and in his subsequent life) Great book and a great start for me to delve deeper. the openers and so called tricks that were mentioned in the book It's been a while.... IIRC, it mostly it was question openers designed to engage .... "Who lies more, men or women?" and cold reading things like T…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:37 PM
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Fuck 12 beautiful women, then report back how you feel.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 03:18 AM
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What's the question?
/r/askTRP04/06/21 08:25 PM
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https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/1035
/r/askTRP04/06/21 08:24 PM
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In a common position a lot of men find themselves in, I could use your advice Questions go on asktrp. You are told that the second you click "submit a new post". Out of sympathy for your position you won't be banned, but this post gets deleted. See you on asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 08:05 PM
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Those are reasonable boundaries. My main concern is about #3 You have nothing to be concerned about, you have zero moral or legal liability here. Am I being a jerk if I refuse to care for a child that's not mine? Absolutely not. As a woman, noone would ask that of you. Doesn't my "I have no responsibility towards this kid" come off as unsupportive, uncooperative, and kinda jerkish when/if that situation actually occurred? No. You have not precluded being supportive of him, but you have made clea…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 05:44 PM
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Dad always said if you run with goats you smell like goats. He's right. You can very reliably judge someone by the company they keep.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 05:39 PM
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There are fundamental differences between men and women. You need to get this "men and women are the same" mentality out of your head, it is clouding your thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:39 PM
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She turns 30 in a few months and I can’t help but feel bad for her since she has to start over with another guy at such a unfavourable age. She'll be fine: women are given every consideration and every opportunity in life. She'll be well taken care of. She said she was leaving because she ultimately wanted marriage and kids - hope she gets marriage and kids too! urgh, why do you care???
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:19 PM
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saying that her friends were giving her shit about me, saying that all I wanted to do was fuck and dip and they got in her head, seemed very embarrassed about the whole thing. This is concerning. She chose those friends. Why are her friends saying bad things about you? Chances are it's because she has said bad things to them about you. She's susceptible to these friends ruining her relationship with you: has she ditched those friends? No, she hasn't. Let this inform you of her priorities. So bas…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:18 PM
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The game has changed, now they are WAY HARDER if they know you have money, because they want to take CONTROL over a rich guy (which means they are even more bitchy basically). They want those beta bucks for sure. Do you have similar problems? Sorry it became long post. Not really because I quickly filter out the negative people. Mostly I act in a way that they filter themselves out. You don't get girls with money..... you get girls by being attractive and passing shit tests.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:14 PM
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Fat shaming? HOW COULD YOU!
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 03:12 PM
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My (26) wife (25) Stop reading shitty advice columns on reddit. Other than TRP, they are all so woke it hurts. You have absorbed their writing style. Get that crap out of your system. My pictures suck for OLD but I did go on a date and tried to remember everything I read about TRP. I was still kinda a pussy but it seems like it went well If OLD works for you then great. If it doesn't, ditch it. How do I treat my ex? She betrayed me but now I understand it’s just AWALT. Be nice to the mother of y…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:11 PM
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But I would like to see other girls as im still in my mid-20s. Then do that.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:08 PM
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We need to give it more training data and employ a GAN so it can hope to be more original.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:48 PM
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f a woman tries to tell you that you need to wine and dine her and jump through hoops just so you can fuck her, don't waste your time. Look dude...... we KNOW. It's called "alpha fucks beta bucks" and it has been a central tenet of TRP since its inception. Workout Ya think??? What exactly is the original contribution of this article? This looks like a little bit of the sidebar rehashed into a post.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:47 PM
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It seems they have the better end of the deal here. In all the ways you list, yes. I have to work to gain value. I have to earn it. I have to be the provider NO NO NO NO You do not have to be the provider. Being the provider KILLS HER SEX DRIVE. Do not provide for women. I'm just sick of this tbh. Maybe I need support or someone to show me better perspective to look at this. I'm tired of stoicism, being tough, mgtow and so on. I am a social creature I need companionship. Men are not born to mgto…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:22 PM
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u/asakk : u/itsathrowaway98765 raises a good point. Don't say anything that admits that sex took place. Apologies for suggesting you should.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:15 PM
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That just admits that you did have sex with her Good point. It does NOTHING to assist you if police get involved, adn THAT is what you need to protect against. Agreed.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:14 PM
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Much better.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:13 PM
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while this ItsDantesWorld guy is allowed to give advice like 'sling your dick out' and paint minifigures or something This is about you, not him. Over the past 2.5 years I fucked 65 women, without a single rape accusation, or screaming girl in a coffeeshop Do you want a medal? Your advice is as terrible and risky Lacking any concrete references or points, this reads as a simple ad hominem attack. Sure, permaban me, and reduce the quality of this subreddit even further Sure thing, done.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:11 PM
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and society falls apart You need to define what this means in a world where wars and war deaths have been decreasing for 100's of years, accidental deaths decrease annually, life expectancy increases every year, quality of life goes up every year, freedoms increase every year. You would be hard pressed to find any single metric in which your life is worse than that of your parents or grandparents. Now most of that is caused by technological progress and social change, but still: how is society f…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 12:41 PM
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What can I do next??? This belongs on AskTRP
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 12:38 PM
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She wants to discuss this with you, so in my opinion you don't have other options than meeting up with her and having this talk. THIS IS TERRIBLE ADVICE. What is there to talk about? She's already misrepresenting events. How is talking going to help? MEETING UP IS A TRAP. She'll lie about that too....... "after raping me, he then met up with me again". She'll probably start screaming rape in the middle of the coffee shop, or report that incident to the police or something crazy. The girl is ment…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 12:33 PM
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Had read some of them and at the end she's talking that I didn't asked her consent and that it's something that we need to discuss. I searched about that consent nonsense and read many horrible stories about false accusations of rape and so on Yeah. Here's what you do: You text her "Consent was implied when you guided my dick inside you" (choose something that she actually did that definitely means sex). Then you never, ever meet up with this girl again. "Discuss things" is not going to go well …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 12:30 PM
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Sure, but as this is a discussion forum, what do you disagree on if anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:26 PM
1

hahaha finding people who want free drugs is so easy!
/r/askTRP04/06/21 12:25 PM
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At first i was like “its gotta be this way and she must understand” but now i think i gotta make huge efforts to not need her help. Absolutely. Dependence isn't attractive. Girls calculate the value difference. They calculate how much you need them vs how much they like you. If this shifts in her favour, she'll treat you less well. Women will usually treat you as badly as they think they can get away with. The better ones won't treat you badly but will just dump you. Anyway. I literally told her…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 12:24 PM
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Relevant meme: https://imgur.com/gallery/IMmmP8A
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 08:24 PM
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I still firmly believe that when you have children you should be looking to commit to the mother of your kids Even in a legal system that will fuck you over the second she changes her mind? Even when you are MOTIVATING her to change her mind? Whether that requires marriage or not, well I'm not sure. If the financial aspect is so worrisome, consider a prenuptial agreement to settle the finances. Prenups can and do get thrown out of court. The best and most reliable prenup is this: DO NOT MARRY. T…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:22 PM
1

Look into this "back ache" some more. That's a very non specific diagnosis, and doesn't prevent you from exercising many other body parts if you're careful. Fix your back.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:39 PM
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How does that sound? Can it help for pre-selection? Girls judge 0% on your bio and 100% on your abs. How does your profile sound now?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:38 PM
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No. Increasing your BF does not help you work out any better. What helps is increasing your calories and protein WHILE working out. Sadly this increases your BF a little as a side effect.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:37 PM
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Oh boy
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:36 PM
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I found some upsides to large corporations (lots of benefits, car and WFH) and some downsides (Small cog, little impact and a drone like feeling) Yes Small companies should have less benefits, but more personal contact and learning on the job. Less opportunity to learn on the job because small companies generally have less money/time available to train you. What would you suggest me? Recent graduate, looking for a job. Apply to traineeships or just sent random emails to all tech companies in my …
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:35 PM
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OK, but maybe you should've told me that a bit sooner. I avoided getting things personal with girls I've dated lately because I was in love and you said you loved me as well, which I would never say to someone I'm not seeing 'seriously', but that's OK, goodbye". At this point she starts screaming "how could you" and calling me immature and what not. Standard female response to being held accountable. It is YOUR FAULT for making her feel bad for not telling you sooner. Bitch told me I was the "lo…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:32 PM
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It feels like shes getting more bitchy slowly. She is losing respect for you as you cede control over your life. This is a major red flag for taking things further, obviously. NEVER FORGET THAT THIS IS HOW SHE IS. I can tell you how to fix the situation, but this will not change the girl. Once the situation changes (eg you move in with her), she will revert. Been there, done that. It just seems she is maybe slightly taking me for granted and pushing her boundaries on bitchy behaviour etc, likely…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:29 PM
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For some reason, with this girl it really bothers me that she's been around in that way. It should. High partner count = poor pair bonding. Women don't respect second best. Are you the best lover she's ever had? Biggest cock? Longest lasting? Most exciting? Tallest? Are you better than all of them in every single way? If not, she doesn't respect and admire you. I don't know if its jealousy, insecurity, or just natural for me to feel this way. It is entirely 100% natural.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:24 PM
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she gets guys in her DMs all day but this just seems like blatant disrespect and potentially like she’s doing things with this guy after she was the one to bring up the exclusivity talk Female exclusivity means "you are exclusive, and I'll keep my options open". It is very very easy for women to keep their options open: she's barraged with messages, but if you're being exclusive you are not following up on your brief windows of opportunity. Red flag? Shit test/ beta test? Demote? Ghost? Do I bri…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:22 PM
1

How often is it ok? Annually.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:20 PM
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How would you have felt? What do you think of this? she's lying why are you having sex without condoms? what the fuck is wrong with sex education these days
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:19 PM
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? I'm trying to be more stoic but figure this is low hanging fruit. urgh social media
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:18 PM
1

Me: "Btw, I'll be visiting edmonton in the next couple of weeks for a volunteer stuff, what do you say we hang sometime and maybe do some art?" (We both really like drawing/painting) Shouldn't be a question. "I'm in your neck of the woods, let's meet up". Me: "Haha sure. It's just fraternity stuff and I'm also gonna be selling tickets for a city event Instant sexless friendzone. nd also I'm talking to two other girls that showed high interest but this chick's real interesting so just giving it a…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:18 PM
1

Biggest risk is getting her pregnant.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:16 PM
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Why is she suddenly trying to weasel her way back and how would you respond? A> she wants you back B> she wants the option to have you back C> she wants something material from you D> she wants you as an orbiter E> she wants sex. Assume it's E and bang, or play along and "just be friends" if that's what you want. Beware of "wants something from you" though.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:15 PM
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You are doing this for yourself. The side effect is decreased likelihood of cheating Err.... why? I can't see how being hypersexual and pushing her limits is going to reduce cheating. A better plan to stop cheating: Let her know (be subtle) that she is replaceable Know in your head that you will leave if she cheats. If you know it, she'll know it. If it's negotiable, she'll know that too. Let her know (be subtle but firm) that you will drop her like a hot plate if she cheats. Be amazing in bed -…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 04:45 PM
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I’m just not sure if this kind of “don’t want to lose him” lying is viewed as forgivable by RP Lying is always selfish in nature. "Doesn't want to lose him" has two outcomes: 1. she was wrong to think this. lack of trust. she lied and didn't need to. This is a dealbeaker. 1: she was right to think this. He WOULD leave her if he knew the truth. Therefore he has a right to that truth. This is a dealbreaker. Any which way, it's not acceptable: dishonest women make terrible partners.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:22 AM
1

How do you raise children then? Without being married A successful marriage is the ideal environment to raise children in. Yep. Which is why it's a shame that marriage in the West has been converted into nothing more than a female retirement program. Sadly the west is on a mission to destroy the nuclear family. Yep
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:19 AM
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Well that's not marriage, that's divorce. Same thing in the majority of cases. Chances are, you married the wrong woman, and there were clear red flags way before you put the ring on her finger. Nope. Thus, we must stress the importance of rigorous vetting before marriage and kids. When you enter into a contract you vet both your partner AND the contract. In this case the contract itself stinks and you'd be a fool to sign it. , many guys around here have only swallowed the pill after it all went…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:18 AM
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Sounds like you married a woman who only cared about the money, is that correct? No. You don't bring kids into the world and then decide to not support them because the mother to those kids divorced you. Noone is talking about abandoning kids, obviously. It's your duty as a father to support your children and to raise them to flourish and prosper in the world. Agreed, thus it would be irresponsible to pay their mother to break up the family, which is all marriage is. Are you suggesting that with…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:15 AM
1

Maybe don't marry at all, given that it is nothing but downsides.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:11 AM
1

No. This isn't 1950.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:11 AM
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So i’ve known this girl for almost 2 years and we’ve been texting on and off, You've texted her for 2 years and never met her??? Simple: meet and bang. That's it. Meet and bang. If that doesn't happen, it's time to get her out of your life. Read up on "orbiter" and "emotional tampon" meanwhile.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:38 PM
1

nursing or programming. What would you suggest? Programming. You can learn and develop at home, you have massive job flexibility, and it's better paid with options for amazingly better paid.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:37 PM
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No it fucking isn't. Paying the mother of your children to leave you is a terrible way to raise children.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:34 PM
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, the divorce rate for people who get married before 25 is over 60%. So you don’t even get roulette odds with something as important as a marriage. To add to this: 40% stay together....... how many of those 40% are happy? How many are together because they have to be to avoid the divorce courts? but absolutely don’t even fucking think about doing it before you’re both 25. Or with someone who has already been married: that leads to an increase in divorce rate. So you need a girl over the age of 2…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:33 PM
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The only good reason for getting married is when you have kids. No, this is bullshit. Being married offers you zero extra protections as a father. The only difference is that you are offering the mother alimony cash and prizes TO BREAK UP THE FAMILY. You are motivating the mother of your children to leave. That's the only difference. Money if she leaves. The purpose of marriage is to solidify the relationship commitment when having children. Marriage does not solidify the relationship. It DESTAB…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:32 PM
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There is only one good reason to get married: you are female.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:26 PM
1

How bad is being a garbage man/dustman in the eyes of women? It's fine if you're hot.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:26 PM
1

Good points :) What are you looking for now? It sounds like you've moved on from intense PUA stuff.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 11:56 AM
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I know to never dig through trash, but what if you over reacted? She lied. You didn't overreact.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:24 AM
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Shit’s fucking gross for LTR material, but she’s changed a lot with me This story is old as time...... "whore lies to beta". WOMEN DO NOT CHANGE. Get that into your head. Its mostly the lying that has me frustrated and concerned Rightly so. She lies about this, can you trust her on anything else? Should you? Who even knows? Lying is a deal breaker for a relationship. She then admitted to seeing and fucking her ex while away for a week after we started fucking but before dating. Can’t believe she…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:22 AM
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I know I should have went for a second round but I felt ashamed and whatnot. Any tips for the futures. Care less. "That was great........ gimme 10 mins and you'll get yours"
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:11 AM
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What can I do to stop freezing up? Or at least tell my mind to think about some other stuff? Ok. You're over-planning and over-pressuring yourself. "I'll go and say the perfect thing". But the perfect thing isn't perfect when you get there, and what would her reaction be? What if she isn't into it? Oh god this is an actual human being, and she's looking at me, what's she thinking? Yeah, no. This is NOT how you approach women. I was about to high-five her then tell her we’re gonna grab some vegan…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:09 AM
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I don't know how to handle it Next
/r/askTRP01/06/21 11:37 PM
1

Is this just an accepted way to earn money now? Christ. Basically yes. It's seen as a harmless way to make money. Nuts huh??
/r/askTRP01/06/21 11:18 PM
1

I have met VERY VERY few people who can approach a girl they never met, charm the shit out of her and make it happen. Agreed... even the best players have a success rate of around 3%. I know from personal experience you can get that percentage up to 30% by only approaching girls who are making eyes at you and being prepared to endure the misery of traditional dating. But I've never seen other guys do it well at all. The guys I have known who I believe are good: they are either physically amazing…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:57 PM
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Depends on the reason.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:50 PM
2

And you'd be wrong. The liability of having a child outweighs any attractiveness from managing to impregnate a woman - something 99% of men can easily do.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/21 03:50 PM
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Good points. The trick is developing those characteristics which frankly I think TRP doesn't really cover that much. It seems like all the PUA stuff just got lost, TRP barely talks about it anymore even though they used to all the time. TRP separated from PUA pretty quickly, deriding PUA as "playing tricks" while defining TRP as "the real thing". So the newbie advice became "lift and you'll know what to do with women", which is obviously bullshit. Sadly PUA died because it just couldn't survive …
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:54 PM
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She thought he would be step daddy to her kid Oh boy. They usually think this. It's so toxic.... it's not like women are lining up to date single dads and adopt their kids. Men look at single mothers and think "sure, if it's easy". Single mothers though.. despite having no time, no money, an ex bf still in the picture and big non-sexual life priorities expect MORE rather than less. Their sexual value has dropped, their relationship value has dropped off a cliff, and their response is to expect t…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 06:11 PM
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If you're this desperate to fix this error, you NEED MORE OPTIONS. Sometimes they're just not into you, and everything else is a smokescreen for that. Fundamentally..... "how do I fix this" is oneitis and scarcity. You need more options, you need to care less. To fix this one situation..... tricky. I'd leave her a week then hit her up like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:01 PM
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clubs, raves, festivals etc. I think you've had much more luck at raves and festivals than at clubs.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:59 PM
1

I’ve noticed a lot of women say they ‘like’ guys with glasses, but this is the same way they ‘like’ guys who are in touch with their feelings and are not afraid to cry. I did actually pull them off, but it doesn’t meant that it still wasn’t a beta trait. It was a weakness and everyone knows it. Totally agree. But........... what's the question here? If it's an observation, it should go on the main page.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:48 PM
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Am I not dominant? Is this a frame test She's concerned that if you are angry you'll get violent or abusive. Look at her sternly, and in a loud voice tell her "You have displeased me greatly....... you will now be punished....... bend over".
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:47 PM
1

Do women have distorted SMV perception or just entitled? BOTH Completely oblivious to 'SMV'? Or entitled due to social media betas orbiting them? Definitely both. "Low value idiots want to have sex with me therefore I am hot therefore hot guys want to fuck me". They really are that dumb sometimes.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:46 PM
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-I'm really good at making art and designing logos/prints/typography and also made some money doing commissions. I can do art/design all day and really passionate about it. But I eventually want to turn it into a profitable business/passive income Good. Do it. -I use Tinder and Bumble and only get 1-3 matches a day on Tinder, Bumble only 1-2 per week. Forget online. Canada is opening up a bit in the coming months, get out there and get into real life. Tinder will not work for you. Any advice on …
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:44 PM
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Two days later she comes to my house, I kiss her but then she says ‘I can’t do this because you have a LTR’. Shit test. She came to your house for a reason. She leaves later on, I text her that it was fun and get a reply ‘Yes but we can’t do it again even though its tempting, you have a LTR’. The answer here is to agree: "you're right..... we really shouldn't..... even though I know my gf is........ ok, I'll hit someone else up". Basically you want her to know that you're cheating either way, an…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:40 PM
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we should wait a bit to start approaching girls because it’s early and people are just getting in. This is bullshit. Early is a great time to introduce yourself to a lot of groups and get comfortable and know each other a bit. We started talking to 2 Brazilian girls but they weren’t very attractive so I just took the girls number No need to get the number....... but you can chill, say hi..... chat a bit..... then "ok, we need to mingle a bit..... catch you guys later". I also noticed that most g…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:37 PM
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can I get some recommendations from you guys to get into to eventually make (hopefully a lot) of money? Ok, first look at all the people who make a lot of money. Build a business, be a lawyer, create a brand, invest in stocks, there's a tonne of ways. All of them risky and/or difficult. That's fine, you're not afraid of hard work. But there WILL be a lot of work. So pick something that you enjoy that you are good at, then work out a plan to get so good at it that you make a tonne of money at it.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:30 PM
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How can I cope with these feelings? I know that what I need now is patience, but that's easier said than done Use this as motivation
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:28 PM
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"she's not good in relationships at all and she's fine with it". Meaning she cheats or she doesn't commit or she doesn't give much or she chooses the wrong men. Help me out to translate her statement Simple: she doesn't want to date you and/or she's not good in relationships. Any which way: bang her if you like, don't get in a relationship with her.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:27 PM
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https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/1035
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:26 PM
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Should i put in an effort to be more easy going or should i walk the path i'm on right now (for maximum personal gain) Max personal gain. Being called an asshole is a positive. You're doing it right.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:15 PM
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There’s no way for me to overcome this problem and almost every girl I’ve been with I get the feeling they always think they’re settling for less. Work on yourself, build yourself, live by your own values. You only need to be a girl's first choice if you need something from her, which means you're too commitment minded. If your aim was to fuck girls, you would be happy fucking girls, and you'd care little what they think of you. The aim of "be the girl's first choice" is unrealistic for all but …
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:14 PM
1

Definitely beneficial. You need to read the sidebar more. Jealousy = attraction.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:11 PM
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I feel similar.... lifting has a very significant impact on my mood and confidence. The "all in your head" crowd are ignoring the impact that testosterone has on mood and outlook. The "no significant difference" crowd are assuming that you have a normal base level of testosterone. If it's low, then the difference is amplified. I really doubt this is a "all in your head" thing. Most things like this really aren't. u/Vegetable-Ad5980 says something similar. u/Whisper makes the great point that the…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:10 PM
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Every social group I have been a part of, I always end up being sidelined and effectively kicked out of eventually This is unfortunate. SOMETIMES this happens because you don't fit..... it doesn't always work. SOMETIMES is ok. But you say it always happens. This means either you pick out awful social groups, or you are the problem. I am naturally pretty quiet and reserved due to former bullying which likely comes across as low value Learn to talk more. If you're quiet, people will interpret this…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 12:09 AM
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I was wondering where/how can I learn game more in depth. Krauser PUA
/r/askTRP31/05/21 12:03 AM
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Do you think women use text game (fake high value)? Yes
/r/askTRP31/05/21 12:03 AM
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My experience is that people never ask. “Sorry I can’t discuss that" is all you need.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 12:02 AM
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Do most women actually prefer athletic men? Absolutely yes/ If a skinny, average looking guy can spin 3-4 plates and live a fulfilling sex life, why should he lift? Better girls, easier time with them if he's hotter. Any studies which show that most women prefer athletic men? The problem with science is that studies need funding and university support, and media support to ever hear of them. They probably exist, but it's very hard to study because women lie about their preferences and lie about …
/r/askTRP31/05/21 12:01 AM
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Do some women just like the blue pill route? Sure, especially if they want access to male resources. It's a good route if you want to head to marriage. It sucks for sex. But if a girl finds you hot, anything will work.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 11:58 PM
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d the others is that rp is about focusing on yourself and accepting female nature for what it is. No, it's about sexual strategy. Focusing on yourself is part of that. Accepting women as they are is a part of that. Learning how to meet / date / fuck more women is also part of it.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:06 AM
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When she agrees to the date. "Date on Sunday" / "Ok" / "Great, look forward to it.... you cool to go Dutch this time?"
/r/askTRP30/05/21 12:05 AM
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then going after those women is going after "the best" for them, and therefore, hypergamy. No, it's fundamentally different. Tell a man he can have the 3rd cutest girl in the room and he'll be happy. Tell a woman she can have the 3rd hottest guy in the room and she'll kick you in the balls and tell you that she deserves better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:04 AM
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You agreed to an open relationship with a girl you were being exclusive with, without you yourself having great other options? What did you expect to happen??? Technically we are still in a relationship, but does anybody have experience how to play this to my advantage? Do what you should have done to start with: GET MORE OPTIONS.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 12:01 AM
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Ask him how he does it
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:58 PM
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THERE ARE NO UNICORNS
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:42 PM
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ause she's likely to have taken women's studies courses to get brainwashed, t Ask what course she did. Gender studies / women's studies...... any shit like that it's time for an instant "next". I also see that feminism propaganda is being pushed on kids early on these days too. The west is fucked. Yep
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:41 PM
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Or do I let him do his thing Yes. do I tell him that means her were pretty involved sexually with no real investment on my end? He's a friend. He's got a sort of right to know. Just tell him "she and I had a fling a few years ago. No hard feelings, just wanted you to know. She's a great girl I wish you both the best". He doesn't need any more details than that. "Fling" is a good word for a temporary thing without it sounding too bad.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:40 PM
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Anyone else know this feel? Sure, but what's the point in looking back
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:39 PM
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?then there's me who Literally almost every girl I talk to online so far rejects me? Is he talking to women in person or online? ONLINE IS TERRIBLE. You are doing it because it seems easy. It's not. Too many guys, too few women. Unless you have chiselled nostrils, it won't work. Your friend ESCALATES. He TRIES. With REAL GIRLS. You do not escalate, you do not talk to girls in real life, you don't try.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:38 PM
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do you believe that lowering your standards (a bit, I am not implying having sex with an obese, toothless 60 year old) during a dry spell is a good strategy for getting rid of the potential mental block that comes with a sex deficit over a longer period of time? Yep. Just don't commit to something that's not what you want.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:37 PM
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but i cant seem to hold a genuine relationship. Good, they mostly suck ass. i think ive misunderstood the red pill as treating girls like pure shit and forgetting they’re humans too noone said that. Have you read anything we have ever written? Or is this based on your preconceptions? Read the sidebars, read what's written, try to understand things a bit deeper. so how can i find the balance between treating her like shit, and not putting her on a pedestal? Well let's see..... Oh, I know........ …
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:36 PM
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I told her “don’t worry about it, we don’t have to be together” and ended things right there. Good. Don't allow her to have a closure lecture that is nothing more than her trying to make herself feel better about it ending. She asked me, if I had anything left to say and I replied: “What’s left to say? Enjoy your night” before following it up with “I think you’re a great girl and good luck in the future.” Great. My first instincts are to get more serious in the gym, get more serious about my pur…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:35 PM
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so there’s this girl I worked DO NOT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT. How many fucking times do we need to say this?
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:33 PM
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my chiseled jaw is disappearing as months come by so I have to level it with more decent texting. lift more. eat less. It was easier txting when I was looking like Arnold. But now I have to make it up. see above How am I suppose to pull emotions from her without elaborating too much? Well let's see....... if only there was a rule for this...... "TEXT LESS, MEET IN PERSON" Oh look, there it is! The problem with texting is that you become her validation texting buddy. I don't want to follow the ru…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:32 PM
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So, can't really tell how good looking I am This is a dumb question anyway. If someone said "you're gorgeous", what would you do differently? What about "you're ugly as sin"? You're tallish and thin, that's a good start. Beard depends if it works with your personal style. Broke is a non issue. Will it be a huge turn off? No, so long as it looks good. But if it bothers you, just dye it. Most importantly: STOP MAKING EXCUSES AND START LIVING.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:26 PM
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Why I keep going back to being an AFC with my girlfriend? Not enough other options. Stop being a pussy and live life fully.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:24 PM
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What’s the female reasoning behind saying this? She wants feedback and emotional vulnerability to make her feel more secure and/or exploit. Stay as you are.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:24 PM
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She was saying she hopes for us to get back someday (I told her its not gonna work that way). Good, you don't want to be her fallback option. One of the best plans while you're dating a woman is to, when asked, always express confidence in finding another girl. "Yeah, it would be a shame if we ended, but on the other hand it would be interesting to see where things went with....... look, nevermind". Or, if you have the cockiness to do it.... "I could get another girl in a heartbeat....... might …
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:23 PM
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Worried about third-wave-feminist, all-men-are-rapists cockblocking bullshit. Tips? If you know her friend is a feminist, don't go. If her friend seems normal go along "for an hour", flirt with both, leave early.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:17 PM
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I just know in the back of my head I’m not getting ass. How do o break this? First: always be on your mission. Your life, your priority, always. Second: always be making yourself more attractive physically, always. Mentally too, but don't get too distracted by this. Third: always be meeting women. Social game is fucking terrible if you're starting out because there are just too many social consequences. Find another plan. Or pussy out. Your choice, the universe is happy either way.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:16 PM
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Or should the man pay for everything, most of the time? haha fuck that shit. You want to be the beta bucks or the alpha fucks? PROVIDING = UNATTRACTIVE. I go 50-50, and women are usually ok with this (they are in it for the dick after all). But you have to set it up like this from the start. Once you start paying, women will not let you stop.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 02:13 PM
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”Nice guys don’t lose when it comes to girls because they’re nice, it’s because they’re deferential and lack confidence. It's not just this. There is a layer of female obfuscation at play here that most men don't see. "He's too nice" also means "doesn't have nice muscles" and "isn't tall enough". Basically "too nice" means: "not attractive to me for reasons I do not want to divulge lest I appear shallow and unattractive to other beta providers".
/r/TheRedPill28/05/21 01:08 PM
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This is presented without evidence or reasoning. Two can play that game. Except I'm not the one making the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:03 PM
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So it's not fame and status, it's money and talent This is presented without evidence or reasoning. Fame without money IS attractive. Women will happily fuck famous celebrities even if they are completely broke. Status is pretty much the same thing as admired. Talent isn't overly attractive: most men are talented at something, but being able to play chess better than anyone else in your dungeons and dragons group counts for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:24 PM
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Isn't hypergamy just the female equivalent of men supposedly wanting to only date young(er) women? No. Hypergamy literally means "wanting the best". Men don't need the best, we just need attractive. Most normal young women are somewhat attractive to most men. Women are only interested in the top few %, ie wanting the best. Secondarily it is used (informally) to refer to the dualistic female strategy of "fuck alpha, get resources from beta". There is no equivalent for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:22 PM
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Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about? It is much more socially acceptable to blame a man's personality than a woman's physical standards. So women say what makes themselves look best. And that means blaming men for something that men could and should do something about (their personality) rather than blaming men for something they can do nothing about (eg their height or jawline). Women are PR experts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:18 PM
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that poor hamster is killing its self trying to find any kind of plausible deniability for the ' it just happened' line . It's only a matter of time before she figures out it was really her bf's fault.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 03:33 PM
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Weird, reddit says the conversation history was this: Me: It's simple, but you have to look at it as a woman looks at it. Attractive men are worth the risk. No risk is acceptable if the man is unattractive. You: Untrue.... But I'm sure your memory is better than reddit's. Please can you report this server fault to them, I'm sure they'd like to know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:31 PM
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“Being an emotional tampon” is inherent to true friendship. Friendship runs both ways. Being an emotional tampon is a one way friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:24 PM
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"Attractive" is about more than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:22 PM
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Read what I said again, this time try to comprehend the words. If you still don't understand, read them again. Repeat until you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:14 AM
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They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. It's simple, but you have to look at it as a woman looks at it. Attractive men are worth the risk. No risk is acceptable if the man is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:36 PM
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I am in a running debate with my SO about whether it is possible for a heterosexual man to spend significant time and energy in a personal life context on a straight woman he doesn’t have some type of designs on (or she on him) Of course it's possible, but friendship has to benefit both parties. Women-as-friends bring little to the table. How often do women buy the drinks? How often does the woman actually have good insight into improvements to the man's life? How often does the woman proactivel…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:34 PM
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It's just horrible knowing I'm in my late twenties and still shit at it lmao. doesn't matter Women are going to expect me to be great doesn't matter and there'll be a lot of disappointment. doesn't matter. By getting girls I meant if I had more self-esteem and enough going on in my life to have the confidence to not care and just go for it. Atm I get the interest but I don't follow up because of the worry about it being awkward when it gets to the bedroom. But as ya say it shouldn't matter reall…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:40 AM
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Then that's your answer. Well done, next.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:31 PM
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I'd like to avoid this in the future. I think you should do exactly the same in future. You've filtered out a needy/demanding girl with zero effort. This is a very positive result.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:28 PM
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Do you tell girls the reason for breaking up/nexting them? There's no obligation to tell the exact hurtful truth. Now she's come back into contact with me and is hounding me saying I was mean and disrespectful for daring to say that to her It is important that this line of abuse towards you gets ignored. She's trying to make you out to be the big bad mean man in the hope it will get her attention. My question is: was I wrong to say it like that or should I have just said something banal like "we…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:27 PM
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She has stated multiple times her feelings have "diminished" and that she can't be with me This means attraction is lost, this is because you have acted too beta. She kept being hostile and toxic whenever I joked around with her (non sexually). Just like I used to when we were banging. But now she sees you as a beta, so alpha behaviours are unacceptable. I had enough and went no contact. She cried and kept asking about me to mutual friends Betas are expected to provide support, even without sex.…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:24 PM
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And after her shitty behaviour i didn't want to hang out with her so I tell her I'm not going. Good. She was extremely selfish and the least she could do is apologise for her behaviour rather than getting upset. She then tells me that she has no problem with me and if I feel like what I did to her was okay then it's cool Wtf? Makes no sense. Ok, you need to understand how this works in her head, and what to do about it. You tried to get her out of bed. -She didn't You were cross YOU ARE NOW THE …
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:22 PM
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$1000 a month. This is a lot of money This is NOT a lot of money. That's barely enough to eat in the West. Just curious what age did it take you guys to bump that number to 2 or 3 times that amount and how? This varies a lot and other people's experiences will not be yours. It doesn't magically happen. You don't reach age 25 and suddenly get good money. You need a plan for getting the career that YOU want. Get on it.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:17 PM
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haha this guy asks the right question :D
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:16 PM
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I've hit her up 2 times in the last 2 weeks and she's just got me with excuses No problem, NEXT. My problem is I keep beating myself up over the fact that if I did it "right" she more than likely would've been more geared towards having another session within the same week Maybe, but who knows. Quit worrying about THIS ONE GIRL, and get on with meeting others. so now I feel like I fucked up and lost one. You did. Fortunately the world has provided you with another three billion women of legal ag…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:16 PM
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But I'm afraid to take the next step Shut up. Do it anyway. Sometimes it will work, sometimes it will go disastrously, quit making excuses. due to the possibility of things going bad it happens, it doesn't matter it being awkward doesn't matter me being sh*t at sex doesn't matter or even being bad at kissing due to not having a ton of experience. doesn't matter. Literally none of these things matter in the slightest..... who the fuck cares? You need to jump on this bandwagon, and that means it w…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:13 PM
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She then asked me to text her later in the week in case her other plans fell through. You never want to be in the "just keep chasing" category. The worst of it is that you think you're second and that sounds ok....... but in reality she's got 20 guys in second place. Say something like "Ok, you can't commit to a date, no worries, I've made other plans" and simply don't accept any more shitty second-place option-dates. The best way to deal with these is to respond in kind... "Ok...... I'm not sur…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:10 PM
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This is terrible advice.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:07 PM
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This is like the first I've gotten this response after asking someone out. I'm thinking I'll just play it as usual and have a playful night but not make a move until the next two following dates if it proceeds to that. Thoughts? Honestly I wouldn't bother. If she knows she's not interested she's probably seeing someone else, or she's got solid reasons to not be attracted to you. Your problem is that you've handled this in a friendly manner rather than a "I want to fuck you" manner, and now she i…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:07 PM
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Need more detail, but please don't repost your nudes.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:02 PM
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I noticed many IOI and I was wondering if those are genuine ones or since we already know each other, she just felt comfortable and had a good time. Escalate to find out. are IOI something that you can "trust" if you already know the girl or not? Honestly you can simply never trust IOI's from girls. I've had IOI's from girls who are completely uninterested, I've had zero IOI's from girls who are totally into me. I've banged them for years and had false IOI's. I've had girls for whom complete sil…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:02 PM
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Any 30 yo guys here who sucessfully bringed girls in their parents house ? Do they even accept ? It's not a big deal at all. To bring them back say something like "We can go back to mine, but we'll have to be quiet or we'll wake my housemate". This offers a touch of sexual frustration / limit / safety that makes it MORE easy to get her back. Later you can explain that housemate = father, but you contribute to the upkeep of the place and you're more like equals. I lived with my parents as an adul…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:00 PM
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Worst asktrp question ever! :) Congrats man - this is how life should be
/r/askTRP25/05/21 04:57 PM
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haha nice
/r/TheRedPill25/05/21 04:54 PM
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As the gatekeeper of relationships, I barred entrance Hahaha epic line. I made the same decision a decade ago and have never looked back.... unlike the girls who leave :) no dating until I'm at least 35 Reasonable, but while put a time limit on something that works so well.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 09:08 PM
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Good post. everyday burdens pile up and there's a disillusionment in the woman, which may lead to a break-up with the (former) "Alpha". Or, more likely now that he is no longer alpha, a reversion to beta/provider, eg "You've had your fun, now it's time to man up".
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 08:53 PM
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the part that most people miss is the fact that wielding that much power while still in their formative years is not an easy thing to navigate Especially for those with no integrity or personal responsibility. Even worse: the power is specifically used to absolve the women or her personal responsibility. Men will agree with crazy shit if it comes out of the mouth of an attractive woman, and women quickly learn to turn this to their advantage with phrases like "he abused me" and "he took advantag…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 03:59 PM
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"Don't shit where you eat" is all you need to know. Simply don't do it. Even if you're happy to lose your job, you are more likely to be prosecuted if she has something to gain from doing so. She's more likely to try to destroy you if you're still in front of her at work. Losing your job is one thing, but you're more likely to face other consequences with a colleague than a stranger. It's just not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 03:53 PM
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You see this corruption with celebrities..... once people start agreeing with everything they say they start to spout complete and utter nonsense. Noone says "you believe me and listen to me because of my privilege". Everyone flatters themselves that their arguments are compelling and they are speaking the truth.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 02:02 PM
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The aggrieved tone of her post is ridiculous and she is claiming the mantle of victimhood as if that's something to admire They do it because it works. A million white knights will rush to m'lady's defence and throw you under a bus in the process. This is attention AND it tries to paint her as more innocent than she is. She didn't initiate sex, she was manipulated into it. This is how she claims a veneer of innocent while being the active seducer at the time. It works: most men are fooled. This …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 07:43 PM
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But, staying in an unhappy marriage would be my fault. Yes, but the system is biased against you. As would not taking care of myself, especially after finding TRP, and in the process changing the dynamic and improving my quality of life. Absolutely.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 07:33 PM
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The fact we never got a domestic is a blessing You nearly ended up in prison. If she ever filed a report you would. Learn this lesson everyone.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 12:09 PM
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If banging men and women is the same thing, then this post isn't needed and we can just hear OP's comments on banging women. If banging men and women is different, this post is off topic.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 12:05 PM
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. Yes, there are a lot of women who aren't worthy of commitment. In our current social structure it is unwise to commit too much to any woman. You can't bring back the 1950's just by "treating women right". The world is against men, and the man who commits is the man who gets destroyed. Yes, there are a lot of women who aren't worthy of commitment. These are the ones you don't commit to. You cannot tell with any certainty how faithful someone is going to be in 5/10/20 years time. Believe it or n…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 03:10 AM
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Men get divorce raped because they have weak game No, they get fucked because society deems that it be so. If they knew the truth they wouldn't marry. Let's be honest, most men have weak game. If you were to try to give men the truth about female nature, they would sound like feminist and call you a misogynist. These are the same men who get divorce raped. This paragraph is just victim blaming. "Men are to blame for divorcerape, not female nature, hypergamy and a social construct designed to des…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 02:43 AM
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Even though the dating market is fucked up in many way, there are women who haven't been fucked over yet Men are fucked over FROM BIRTH. It's men that are getting screwed, men that are getting divorce raped, men that are being trained and manipulated into marriage and endless female support while the state betrays them at every stage. And yet you want to save WOMEN? You are so off base it isn't even funny.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 11:08 PM
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OP IS CONCERN TROLLING. When you fuck a woman over What, by leaving her? By not taking any more of her bullshit? By ending things with her? Men do not "fuck women over" - they pursue their best interests just the same as women do. If anything much LESS than women do. Men are more considerate to women than the reverse. Men put more into dating, and women get more out. When a woman becomes jaded by men, she will teach her daughters that men are trash. This happens regardless. What are we to do, of…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 11:07 PM
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She said she didn't want that Shit test and/or not attracted so I genuinely and respectfully apologized. Shit test failed. my snapchat spammed by acouple girls, talking about how disrespectful I was to her This is why we say that we live in a gynocentric society: if you want what a man wants, you are WRONG. Expressing what YOU want is interpreted as "disrespectful". Still - you're more likely to get good results if you escalate physically and let her have her plausible deniability.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 11:00 PM
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It's Your Fault Except it's not. Marriage is not what men are told it is before they sign up.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 11:51 AM
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ofc
/r/TheRedPill06/05/21 03:07 PM
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Their reason? "We have to be aware of the 'dangers' around us." Women indulge themselves and each other with constant victimhood status. Bizarrely they even use abuses in other countries to justify this..... "But women in Saudi Arabia aren't allowed to drive, therefore I deserve a pay raise". Abuses against men and male lower quality of life is always (and willfully) ignored - only women are allowed Special Victim Status. So what gives? Isn't this advantageous to women to do very little? Cook, C…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/21 11:00 AM
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has anywhere from 6-20 bodies already Hahaha....... 6-20....... don't believe the lies just because they are ugly enough to be plausible.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/21 10:50 AM
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Now it’s literally at their beck and call 24/7 Not only 24/7 but also ANONYMOUSLY. Previously she couldn't go to a bar to cheat or slut it up because she might be seen by her friends or by his friends. Now it's anonymous and she can do whatever she wants with zero accountability. What about 7 years from now? Will you even remember to check? Impossible to check or know, it's so easy to get a burner phone or a secret hidden online account. My argument is the age of LTRs are pretty much over unless…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/21 10:50 AM
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Every LTR has a shelf life, and it's up to you to determine it. Yeah, this is exactly the mentality. Go in to every relationship KNOWING IT WILL END. Maybe today, maybe in a year, occasionally in five. But it will end, and when it does you always expected it.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/21 04:46 PM
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It's fun to try it a little....... some spice to sprinkle in there. I've no interest in doing this all the time though, it can make girls get too lazy. But a little is fun...... I wouldn't call it a style of seduction so much as something to sprinkle in there occasionally.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/21 04:29 PM
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Spinning plates is fun for about a year Been doing it a lot longer than a year, and I'll never do anything else. Once you get past 3 or 4 girls at a time it becomes almost a full time job between scheduling to meet up and blowing them off for the new line up. It's only a full time job if you let it be a full time job. For some guys I can see why an LTR would be appealing just out of simplicities sake. Nah, the worst number of women to date is one. There's no excuse not to be seeing two girls at …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 01:46 PM
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25/25/25 I was sceptical, but these are good rules. LTR Why even bother with an exclusive LTR, it's just not necessary these days.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 10:43 AM
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"In the clear" ??? This isn't legal advice: we're not lawyers and we don't know what country / area / province / county / state you are in. If you are concerned about legality check the laws in your area.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:41 AM
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It may not be the world you asked for, but it's better in many ways.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:40 AM
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Should I reach out again and try to make a plan, or just soft next and move on with my life? Would like to keep her as she’s young and hot. Obviously. Text for logistics. Don't get too attached, find other options.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:30 PM
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I’m 20 and just recently started seeing a girl who’s 17. Is that too much of an age difference? No
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:29 PM
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Can someone explain to me why it would be bad to be verbally abusive instead? Because women LOVE THE ATTENTION Because it makes YOU look bad. It shows you care SO DAMNED MUCH, therefore you're in a weak position.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:28 PM
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What can I do? Work out what you liked about her, find it with someone else.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:26 PM
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What you guys think Sounds dumb. Try it.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:25 PM
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, I have met extremely high quality Christian women at church, hahaha....... they're women. They're just good at pretending. I feel genuine tradwives are different than your average woman du AWALT. Look it up.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:25 PM
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At the beginning a man is suppose to pursue a women Not really "pursue" exactly. But my question is at the very beginning if the girl is someone with very low interest (slow replies, doesn’t asks questions just answers yours) do you keep pursuing to raise her interest or do you stop and only pursue girls with initial high interest? Entirely up to you. But if she's got low initial interest I doubt it will go up much.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:24 PM
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Is it wrong to use a women like this for money? No
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:23 PM
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i genuinely want to be her frien Why? She gets salty and mad when you talk to other women, she won't fuck you, what's the point of having this selfish person as a friend? she even "swear" to me that she don't have any other man She is trying to secure your devotion and attention and commitment, even though she doesn't want to fuck you.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:22 PM
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Now one day before she says that she "completeley forgot" and that she has a surprise visit from a friend from her homecity. Flaking on an agreed time is unacceptable. Tell her "I am not happy that you forgot about our date". Then you Soft Next - you IGNORE HER for 3 days. That means non-response to any contact. You literally ignore every last thing she says or does for 3 days. Then reschedule like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:20 PM
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. She seems interested but acts very boring and 'average' (her words). If she's interested she'll be easy. If she makes it difficult then she's not interested. . She knows this too. I have tried to talk about many things related to my lifestyle but she simply doesn't have any interesting to add to this. She's boring. Seduce her. If that doesn't work, move on.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:19 PM
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I don’t want to work anything in the trades and medical field. then don't I currently trying to get my claims adjuster license. Do what you want to do, and get good at it,. I also don’t have a social life then get one and I don’t drink alcohol anymore then drink coke so where do I meet women? Outside. Find stuff to do, learn to socialise, find women to chat to, ask them out on dates. I mean, you gotta do SOMETHING.... online sucks, so find some women and learn to talk to them. It's not easy, but…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:18 PM
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Now does it even make sense to go on dating apps at my age when i dont have anything going for me, no experience with dating at all, no social media, no friend group an lacking social skills?? Probably not.... dating apps are only good if you are top 10%. Average just doesn't cut it. Work on yourself. Get strong, lift weights, lose flab, be as attractive as you can. We'll be out of lock down soon enough, and then you can work on those social skills. You do this by DOING IT.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:15 PM
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Or suicide TRP is not your problem, and neither is women. See someone to help you with this. Once again: finding TRP does not cause suicidal tendencies, and neither does female behaviour. This is a problem within yourself and you should seek professional help. I'm wondering how you guys have gone through it and if you have any advice. Cheers and stay strong. Accept the world as it is Decide what you're going to do to get what you want within it
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:13 PM
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What do you think about this statement by the author? Do you believe it is accurate? Live your life so that it doesn't matter if she leaves or not.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:10 PM
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Is this due to me acting beta now? Yes And this proves trp right? One instance proves nothing, but this is certainly what TRP would predict. Why was I treated better before compared to now? Because not beta. Should I act like I don’t care again. No acting. FIND BETTER OPTIONS. This will make you genuinely care less. Even though I really do Fix this. You are getting emotionally attached to someone who is disrespecting you.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:10 PM
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Do others do this or is there a better option? Maybe rinsing it in the sink then throwing it? Get condoms with spermicidal gel in them. Toilet isn't good for the pipes. If it's at your place: easy, go to the loo, put them in a hiding place, then bin when she leaves. If at her place: wash it out with soap and bin it. Or...spermicidal condoms as above.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:07 PM
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I’ve noticed that athletic guys even if they look average seem to get the hottest women Wow, it's almost like you should lift and lose weight. Who could have predicted this crazy turn of events?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:04 PM
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She said she didn’t want it the next day am I a rapist? No, you're fine. You're only a rapist if you force a woman to have sex against her will. You didn't do that, so you're not a rapist. A woman does not get to decide if a man is a rapist after the fact. If she consented (verbally or with actions), it was consensual. She consented (in fact she knew what was happening more than you did). YOU ARE NOT A RAPIST. I seen a similar situation on reddit yesterday, and the comments said “no man can acci…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:03 PM
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Why is misgendering so offensive? It's a made up reaction, partly to oppress the sane, partly to validate the "misgendered". If they said "oh, no big deal" then the implication is that it doesn't matter. But by making a huge fucking song and dance about it, they can stress just how IMPORTANT their chosen gender is. For instance i caught myself in a debate recently with friends and this non binary person was being extremely rude and I accidentally Misgendered them and people literally gasped. Aft…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:58 PM
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The extremely high levels of inequality for men in particular may also be driven by the highly-imbalanced gender ratios on these sites, with far more male than female users It's not just that. The fact is men escalate and women don't. Cheaper escalation means more of it. She now has to randomly choose from 100's of guys a day instead of previously perhaps 1-10. And now men have to message even more women because the hit rate is so staggeringly low. All this translates into more effort required o…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 06:46 PM
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she won't find someone better than u richer, wiser, just better in general then you you're delusional(especially if she is attractive) If she can find someone who is slimmer.... or more muscular...... or taller.... or even richer if he looks like he'll commit. After a few years even different is attractive. Take a look through her options, ie the whole of Tinder. Some of those guys are tall, ripped with great game. Think you can beat them all for 4+ years, while all her friends will cheer her an…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 06:40 PM
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What are you “paying”? What is a “relationship” if you really think about it? If it's an exclusive relationship, you are paying all the opportunities and time you are losing. Go on dates. Have the “relationship”. And have sex. Likely there will be very little sex for the time invested.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/21 08:16 PM
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We often focus on some weird bro-science stuff around here, like slutty women frying their brains with dopamine from all of that sex and attention and being unable to “pair-bond” with future boyfriends and husbands, greater odds of cheating and divorce Not bro-science, this is statistically proved in some conventional research, eg: https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability When this girl chooses to enter into a relationship, it is…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/21 04:06 AM
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If you don't punish her disrespectful behaviour, she will never think it was disrespectful and keep doing it in the future. Best way to punish is making her feel bad about it The only way to make her feel bad about her bad behaviour is for that behaviour to have CONSEQUENCES. She fucks up, you tell her what she did, then you withdraw attention. That way she'll learn not to do it. Bad behaviour, even if recognised, with no consequences will have NO IMPACT. Fundamentally though: women who misbehav…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/21 03:41 AM
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if men and women aren't equal, who is worth more and who is worth less? What are the reasons you believe you're opinion is correct? Having established that equality does not and can not exist, you are right that I did not state my opinion of which gender is "best" or has highest "worth". This was deliberate: the problem with "which is best" is "best at what?". The problem with "inherent worth" is this: what does that actually mean? How can you measure it? How can you compare two populations if y…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/21 02:09 PM
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Uber and Lyft are adding a no-consequences-for-misreporting / no-proof-necessary blacklisting system.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/21 02:01 PM
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It works though
/r/TheRedPill26/03/21 02:00 PM
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It's ok. Better is "Come with me to Jimmy's on Tuesday".
/r/TheRedPill26/03/21 01:59 PM
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is that I really like going to see live music any night of the week, and there's plenty of it, especially bluegrass/newgrass which is my jam. This is absolutely golden for first dates. You sound like a try-hard if you make up an "action date" that is something you wouldn't ordinarily do. Yep :)
/r/TheRedPill26/03/21 01:59 PM
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The weird thing is how easy this is to deal with when she says no. "Are you free Friday?" / "No" ..... there's kinda nowhere to go with this. "Join me Friday" / "No" / "Cancel that shit and join me Friday" / "No" / "I'm more fun than that guy, come on" / "I really can't, but how about Saturday maybe?" It just works so much better.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/21 08:51 PM
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when you ask her out, you should have a time and a place in her place: “Hey are you free to grab a drink at Jimmy’s at 9 PM on Tuesday?” Don't tell her everything, don't ask her anything. You are leading not asking, so you TELL her the plan. "Hey girl..... you, me, Jimmy's on Tuesday". And you don't give her the whole plan, because you confirm that on the day so you don't have to ask her if she's gonna flake or not. "Hey.... I'll pick you up at 7.30 tonight". Non response = flaking, girl saying …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/21 04:56 PM
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Well done on admitting this. Another thing that will help: be escalating with 10 girls at once. Doing one at a time is just soul destroying as she leverages your investment to her benefit.... otherwise known as "make him wait". Don't allow this... don't emotionally commit.... PURSUE OTHER WOMEN. They respect this.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 01:39 PM
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Here's the thing though, saying that they're not equal is, to me, insinuating that one is superior and the other inferior. Except I never said this. So, do you agree with my logic or am I wrong? If you agree, who is superior and who is inferior? Why do you believe that? If not, isn't saying that they are equal correct then? Ok, let me make this more abstract and this will help make things more clear. Imagine you have two different population groups. Take any two you like... can be anything..... …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/21 01:38 PM
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Talking to random strangers is good. It seems like most guys at a club just stand around and try to look cool Yeah, this is certain death for meeting women. Not dancing, not chatting, looking at girls = creepy. Women know that they do this because they're too scared to talk to girls.... and if you are thinking you are "looking cool" you are probably looking invisible. . And with all the blue pill guys just standing around, there isn't that much competition. At least that is what I am telling mys…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:26 PM
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Should I ask him if he wants to talk to girls together? No...... go talk to some girls, then introduce your new friend. Or what would recommend doing after drinking something together? Are you looking for a wingman or a mommy to hold your hand? You need to think for yourself and adapt to whatever you find in life, and you need to learn to LEAD.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:24 PM
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Did you read what I said about not apologising for it? You are using living at home as an excuse to not interact with women.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 12:24 AM
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I’m 85% sure am an Aspie. How fucked am I for the dating world? Shut up, you're fine. Missing out on social clues means you can learn TRP faster due to not understanding the BP world very well. I perform better while a little drunk. More likely shy / fearful / weak / repressed. Grow some balls by doing stuff. Any other aspies that made it? Sir yes sir. Not a virgin and I’ve had multiple flings but I consider them lucky or thanks to liquid confidence This is fairly normal. You're fine, stop makin…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 12:22 AM
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, feel like i go too slow. Been talking to a girl for a month THIS IS TOO SLOW. Meet to sex should be less than 20 hours, even for a complete beginner. See my post above about solid progression. Slowest possible dating: Meet and flirt Some amount of touching Kissing Kissing in private with some clothes off Blowjob Blowjob Sex That's about the slowest it can go. Any slower than this and she's putting you in the friendzone while fucking someone else. Aim to be at least sexually touching on the FIR…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 12:20 AM
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Regarding timeframe how fast do you guys push to sex from the cold approach? I'm pretty leisurely about it. I like to have multiple FWB so it doesn't make sense to push for fast sex. 2-3 dates, approx 10 hours in her company I guess. But I filter early for "is she serious" and I physically escalate to find out. I'm pretty good at getting rid of timewasters this way. Not perfect, but good enough. Everyone seems to be meeting a girl one week and fucking her in the same week. If you're good you can…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 12:17 AM
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How beta is it living at home at 26+? I did it for a while, older than you, and I was jobless, carless and almost penniless. It made ZERO DIFFERENCE with women..... made it easier if anything. And I told them straight up what I did when they asked. I never pretended to be anything better than I was..... if anything I'd try and make it sound worse than the reality. It made ZERO DIFFERENCE, except perhaps they paid for more dates. Look, here's what matters: do you have a plan? are you acting on it…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 12:12 AM
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Is this a “rule of meta-game” that Rollo noticed? Or is this something more primal? Women are aware. do they also respond instinctively to a man who demonstrates an awareness of his own SMV I think it's more logical thinking. "I'd like to hook this guy in, but damnit he knows he can get other girls". In other words - if I more or less just tell a woman how hot of a woman I can attract, It has to be plausible and you have to be obviously that attractive - there is ZERO POINT IN SAYING IT VERBALLY…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 12:06 AM
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This is exactly right..... if a girl shows disinterest, you show disinterest back. It's the only thing they respect.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 12:02 AM
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Should I just hard next her? You need to learn to accept that people don't respond instantly. People want to "play it cool". You do this too. Learn to not care. Constant phone checking is a major red flag though, you're right. But stick with this for practice, here's some points: The weekend later i texted her, hey wanna hangout in the evening? Don't do this. Start by saying something generic and value offering without asking for anything. THEN hit her up with something more specific and fun tha…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 12:02 AM
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There is no such thing as a decent wife, give up your blue pill dreams.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 11:56 PM
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Even though this is too black and white In many cases it is not too black and white, in many cases your alpha fucks / beta bucks provider is EXACTLY how it happens. It's then we look for a woman that is not only attractive, but also has a good personality Ok OP, I see the problem. You've had a lifetime of "wimminz are equals" and now you have to bring that equality thinking to TRP. So you twist the mechanics of equality to try and make the AF/BB duality apply to men in exactly the same way. Well…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/21 11:56 PM
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What I want from women is a feeling of warm, kind and supportive companionship / The sex is a nice bonus You can get that feeling in a fleeting way when you fuck them REALLY good and you are higher SMV than you. They make you feel like a king. Then you get attached to that feeling and the INSTANT you do..... they fuck someone else.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/21 11:48 PM
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So this girl I work with i I know you're not asking for advice, but: DO NOT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT. gave me the strong impression she was down for casual sex / ended up deeply needing my attention and validation This is not going to end well. when I finally went to ask her to come over and fuck (one or two attempts, I was pretty blatant since I didn't care either way) she made up some dumb excuses. She continued to text me at all times of the day, and eventually, somehow, she made me switch roles. I…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/21 11:46 PM
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Well I'm mainly conflicted because I thought cardio was the best way to lose weight, but looks like strength training will help me lose weight more in addition to obvious dieting Yes. Another comment is also saying I'll end up as skinnyfat You won't. Ok..... top cyclists. Extremely high cardio fitness. They need zero strength training because their legs are doing thousands of cycles, not the 5-10 for strength training. So they are 100% cardio. Show me a skinnyfat top cyclist.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:55 PM
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Who the fuck cares if it's kinda gay? Do you care? Does he care? Do you care what anyone else cares? Jeez, shut the fuck up already and try it. Don't be TOO interested...... say "hey, you're cool, what you drinking?" then buy him a drink. It'll be fine. Just don't stroke his knee and look longingly into his eyes while you say it.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:54 PM
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But I do have something going for me, I have been reading lots of red pill / pua books and learning. Sorry, counts for nothing. In fact you sound like a keyboard jockey. What value does that have to an experienced guy who is good with girls? People new to TRP are a bigger liability than blue pillers who know nothing. You could start spilling TRP truths at the wrong moment, or phrase them in a terrible way. I've known guys do this... "Hi.., you're females and like to be led, so we're going to tel…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:52 PM
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I will agree with you when women are talking to betas vs alphas unrelated to them, they have some level of awareness that they are not being fully truthful. But a mother instilling blue pill into her son is just trying to instill her own idealism into her offspring. Half agree. Women flip into blue pill mode when talking to men they are not attracted to, which includes their sons. But not to know that they are doing this..... implies they are stupid rather than deluded. I think their selfish "pu…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/21 02:41 PM
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Zinc, D3
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:39 PM
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Is there also a 70 year old hb7? Madonna
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:39 PM
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I know they don't really think I'm a pimp, but who knows? Ok, this is simple: KEEP IT PROFESSIONAL AT WORK. You don't want women hating you, you don't want them attracted to you. Do not shit where you eat, do not let anyone think that you might. Tell them all you are very happy with your girlfriend and refuse more details. Is this a product of how wild the imaginations of women can be, or of social proof, Or just a joke? Yes. yes and yes. I mostly always just A&A and tease DO NOT DO THIS AT WORK…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:38 PM
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I had an appointment hahah This is extremely suspicious. Why not tell you where it is? Why the laughter at the end? y thinking tells me the ball was in her court to make new plans. Am I right or should I text her so we can finally meet up. She seems to be happy around me irl idk. She's seeing someone else.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:35 PM
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However, I am not passionate about my work at all, it is the most bland shitty dry and robotic work ever. Work will be different to your degree, unless you are on work placement. Often your starting jobs are much less creative and fun than after 5 promotions. Try to see the long term view here. I ask people if they enjoy their corporate lifestyle almost everyone says it’s shit, but hey that’s just life - you enjoy outside of work. ok, that sucks. One solid piece of advice I can give you from my …
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:34 PM
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She got shitty (understandably) No, not understandably at all. Ditch the shitty ones if you want a better life. What would you guys do and say? PUT YOUR EFFORTS INTO MEETING NEW WOMEN. I will say this again at the end, because you'll forget. What to say to her: "Hey girl, it's been too long, I saw this thing today and thought of you". Proceed from there. PUT YOUR EFFORTS INTO MEETING NEW WOMEN.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:28 PM
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She told me she didn't want it to be a ONS - I say alright sure. So she wants an ongoing thing. Great. I suggest a reschedule for the night after then I get left on read. Why? Because she fucked the next guy and also told him she doesn't want it to be a ONS. Am I chasing if I text again later ? I was thinking about straight up calling and telling her to come to the bar I'm going to be at soon, but I can't tell if she lost interest or genuinely busy. This ambiguity is what makes dating hard. Peop…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:26 PM
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Why would you not want to meet guys doing the exact thing you're saying you want them to do?? Also, the buying a drink thing. Solid advice. Men appreciate it, women don't.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:14 PM
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Hi guys, I am not confident enough to try and meet girls alone. Fix this. Seriously, fix this. Is there a way for local red pill guys to connect online and then go out together to pick up girls? There used to be an online meetup system for this. I used it and met some great people. Also some complete dicks, but some good people too. It kickstarted my life in a new city. I don't think it exists anymore. Look at it from your potential expert wingman's point of view: why would he want to hang with …
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:13 PM
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I should focus more on weight and strength training and eating better Sure, but cardio also. Best for weight loss = eating right and less, cardio, weights. And not only that, but I've been thinking about focusing on weight loss for some time now but never had the motivation to maintain it. And yet the title of your post is asking about people focusing on building up muscle. You are conflicted about what you want.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:07 PM
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Why do girls run away when they see you catching feelings for them? Because now they can't pretend you are "just friends". If they aren't interested in you, and they can't extract friendship protection/provisioning, you now hold zero value for them. Catching feelings is low value behaviour, especially when not reciprocated. This is unattractive.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:05 PM
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She doesn’t actually realize she’s working against her sons interest. This is the "women are too idealized about the world to realize the truth" idea. I don't buy it... women are too able to say the exact opposite thing in the next sentence for me to believe they can't understand this stuff. I think it's a wilful and convenient-for-them construction of lies and mistruths.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/21 02:03 PM
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Generally in my county where I work, first to file for a PFA gets it and cross complainants are rare. Not the USA then. ADs and ADAs are very politically motivated and will charge accordingly as many are realizing over the last year. More men need to understand this.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/21 02:01 PM
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No woman is going to pay for that More likely, the system will pass the cost of background checks on to men Exactly, and this is easy to do: Give everyone the option of subscribing to background checks and having a "verified" star in the corner of their profile. Men will have to do it. Women won't bother. Tinder will get away with it because it's "voluntary".
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 04:04 PM
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Restraining orders/Protection from Abuse orders are pretty much always issued out based on whoever the first party file is The Violence Against Women Act specifically identifies the "Primary" perpetrator regardless of who reports to the police. This is double speak for "men" and is recorded as such. Domestic Arrests are almost unequivocally prejudicial against men. Absolutely... this is by design.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 04:01 PM
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I wonder if this would work for guys too You're new to Planet Earth, aren't you?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 03:59 PM
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"Buy the drinks or I'll report you" "Date me or I'll report you" "Pay for my taxi home or I'll report you" It's happening for Uber drivers, it will happen on Tinder next, and it will be a shitshow for men. Of course men reporting women will be completely ignored.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 03:58 PM
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Actually my mother always told me it's what's inside that counts, and gave no useful help whatsoever into grooming, clothes, etc.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 03:56 PM
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You made it unreadable due to your laziness.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 03:55 PM
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Convenience of a random girl was more important to her than her son's happiness This is the thing I find most stunning. She acts in the best interests of other women rather than her own sons. Mine did the same. Be nice to women, be loyal, do things for them, tell them how you feel, etc. etc.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 03:55 PM
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The aunt kicks the nerdy skinny guy to the gym This doesn't happen. So most men are left figuring stuff out on their own. Which they usually aren't good at when they masturbate, watch porn and play video games This isn't the problem. Men can't figure it out on their own because they are relentlessly lied to about the nature of women. Women will never admit "muscles = wet pussy"..... they even lie when it happens..... "Oh, he's so funny!" they'll say about attractive men who can't string two syll…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 03:54 PM
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If your hypothesis was true, they would give excellent dating advice to attractive men.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 03:52 PM
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Even though I never bullshit them. They do the job themselves. Absolutely yes. If you're attractive and make her cum, she'll do all the work herself. So if you ever worry about becoming a bad guy in her story, keep in mind that even if you act honest and straightforward, you end up with an "asshole" label on your forehead anyway. Absolutely yes. You're the asshole who cheated on her, even if you tell her the first time you meet her "I will always fuck other women". Somehow in her mind she makes …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 02:12 AM
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This Is How You Do Paragraphs
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 02:09 AM
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Asking Girls for Dating Advice is Unfair on THEM Sure, but generations of men have been taught to defer to women and have been told that women are the gatekeepers of both sex and social approval. It's only natural after this to ask the gatekeeper "how may I open doors similar to yours, oh wise and wondrous keeper of the vagina?" When you ask women for advice, often guys will do so in a way that comes across as needy and insecure. This means that girls won't be honest and they'll try to be nice. …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 02:06 AM
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yeah......the classic backhanded compliments are things like "you're nice" or "you're good" or "you're kind". Things that betas love to hear, things that encourage them to be providers rather than players.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:58 AM
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Little assumptions of your low value.... you only really spot them later with deep analysis, or you're so far above that shit that it doesn't stick.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:06 PM
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whats a good visualisation with the body-waist touches though, feel like that's so out of place! It feels crazy weird and awkward at first! but if i touch her waist, it feels out of the ordinary especially if they're shorter than you. They're always shorter. Look, I know it feels weird..... you have to manouvre things so that it's natural...... the waist touch you can only do when you're stood next to her.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 01:05 PM
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We'll see :)
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 01:04 PM
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help her put her harness on ;) bumping arms is a little bit too "I am doing this on purpose and pretending it's an accident". From her perspective this is weird and not exciting. Learn a kino escalation ladder....... briefly touch her forearm while chatting, to make a point or to grab her attention before following up with a major point. then kinda touch her body (eg waist)... should be kinda like a "I am making a point here" and kinda like the start of a waist-hug-moving-her-around..... but jus…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 05:23 PM
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sure of nothing but enjoyable experiences on the horizon for the next decade, a certainty she’d bet the house on Specifically not HER house, obviously...... the house comes from the guy slaving away as a frustrated virgin until age 25, marrying her at 30, the same guy left penniless and homeless at 40 confused why his princess is fucking the football team and why the law says that means she gets the house that he bought. Lesson: Maybe you tell me? Stay single forever, gaming the girls you can un…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 04:41 PM
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First become interested, then you will become interesting Beware of becoming a "good listener". People who listen to other people rather than leading with their own lives are not respected. People love talking to them in the same way people love receiving money, but it does not convey social status on the listener. How to Win Friends and Influence People Exactly. How To Win Friends... makes the same argument: be a good listener. It's bullshit advice. I used to be a fantastic listener and people …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 04:15 PM
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Title: Bitcoin. Read this. Content: Nil.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 04:07 PM
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The first part of The Game is still good, the last half you can skip. It was interesting when Neil was learning how to game women and gaining insights Yeah, agreed. Starts off awesome, but then does a horrific beta backslide away from the obvious TRP truths. I too loved the first half of The Game, but the latter half and Neil's subsequent betafest of a life illustrates someone who just couldn't handle truth and reality. The sex seemed . . . lame. I got the impression the PUAs got more of a kick …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 02:02 PM
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It should tell you that the SMP didn't change, etiquette did I absolutely buy this. What you youngsters don't remember is that before 1995 women didn't even admit to enjoying sex, largely because they didn't enjoy sex with their loyal provider husbands. Seems ridiculous now? It happened. I was there. Most men don't hold up the attractiveness side of the bargain This is true, but the cause isn't male laziness, it is men being misled by women that "it's what's inside that matters". This results in…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 12:30 PM
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Love your username, op
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 12:25 PM
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Keep in mind that he’d never dated or been in a relationship with any of these girls; he’d just had sex with them. How do you know it's true? A lot of men brag and it's outright lies. : there were never any signs of the hanky-panky they’d engaged in with my friend on their accounts Absolutely. Dualistic mating strategy: they keep their attractive alpha male sexual relations quiet to avoid looking slutty. This is their sexual strategy: appearing high value to land a rich beta. But as I say..... h…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 01:08 AM
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Honestly. I loathe cold approaching in public space like grocery stores because honestly unless you are a megachad nobody wants that. Not true..... people love to meet friendly attractive strangers. It's scary, but it's a lot of fun. I like it, most people like it, women love it. That is some cringy PUA stuff. No it isn't. Being attractive and meeting people in a way that they want to be met is awesome. It's not about "pickup line" or anything... it's about having fun with people. Who wouldn't l…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:05 AM
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You're very welcome
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:02 AM
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The struggle is real :)
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:02 AM
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see my reply to LucidEnigma
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:01 AM
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Any examples of subtle shit tests? Hard to know, but it doesn't matter. Look.... you put other people first, prioritise other people and their feelings, and are not doing enough to put YOU first. Hence failing. Put yourself first and others second and you'll pass these shit tests.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:01 AM
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Keep in mind that I am 26 and a virgin. I've been thinking of a hooker, because I honestly can't imagine enjoying having sex with a "real girl" that will not make me feel kinda repulsed. Ok.... you need to get the hang of meeting girls and having sex with them. Forget hookers.... that's no solution.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:00 AM
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Ok I got to figure out what is going on here. I’m 43. I use dating apps to have casual sex with girls with daddy issues in their 20s, of which their appears to be an endless supply. haha you're not wrong All 3 I had amazing first date sex with. All 3 said they wanted to do something again in the near future. And all 3 ghosted me within 1-2 days after the date. If you want a long term fling with a girl, it is better not to bang her on a first date. Give her something to look forward to. "We fucke…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 04:13 PM
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But she is currently at her grandparents and doesnt know that I know. She is to return sometime in april. Text her or ignore her message? Tell her to come over RIGHT NOW.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 04:12 PM
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What does a young womans ideal man look like? NOT RELEVANT. I am genuinely curious as to what women see as the ideal. I know it's easy to say top 20%, high SMV etc but there is surely a stereotype. If you can use images that would be better. Women talk so much rubbish about themselves that it doesn't matter. It changes one second to the next anyway. Stop concerning yourself with what they want, and concern yourself with how to get what YOU want. However, it's useful to know what's attractive, wh…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 04:11 PM
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Has anyone felt like they were at rock bottom and actually managed the crawl their way out? Yes. In your case you've whined through an entire post..... what are you doing about it? The answer is nothing, and that's your problem.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 04:09 PM
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Now it's like browsing through a whale catalogue. In lockdown everyone turns to dating apps, and that favours women more than men. Men send out 100's of "hi", women have to search through thousands of them (because more men than women on them). Women browse the men on offer, and discount anyone that doesn't have chiselled abs on page 1 (doesn't matter if they can get that men or not). 99% of men are discounted. Then later they'll complain they "can't get a date", but that's because they're fat a…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 04:08 PM
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To which he freaked out and talked about how he took care of me as a child, essentially saying I owe him and was blackmailing me. My therapist helped make me realize that I was being blackmailed and told me not to say anything. It's not blackmail, but this is definitely emotional blackmail. I got a call from the medical examiner and found out that my biological father murdered my step mother and then shot him self in the head four days later Fuck...... man that's rough . He has said on multiple …
/r/askTRP01/03/21 04:06 PM
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Don't get an escort. Get a plan. You have about 4 problems: Meeting women Chatting to these women in a man-to-woman way Getting her on a date Getting her into bed Fix these problems in turn, use your horny desperation to motivate you. Focus on your girl and bang a real woman who actually wants to be banged by you for free. It's the harder road, but it's the better way. Also, quit labeling and judging yourself. That just adds to your pain. You don't need to do that, it's often an excuse for inact…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 04:00 PM
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Is it true that simps/beta males don't get sex? simps = none betas = a little If yes, why? Is it true that simps mostly virgins? Because unattractive. I am kinder and more respectful to girls than my friends, and women/girls just humiliate me and abuse me all the time. READ SIDEBAR (main channel and this one) READ ALL OF IT. Some girls told me I am gonna be a virgin forever. Why they say this me? To put you in your place, shame you, test you. READ SIDEBAR. My friends also tell me to change, but …
/r/askTRP01/03/21 03:57 PM
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I’m a young man who often gets told by women that I’m too nice. I don’t get it. If women say this, it's basically true. But "nice" doesn't mean what you think it means. One thing I will say is that I am polite and have good manners, but this is with all people. Polite is fine. I don’t know what to do anymore. Why is being “nice” such a bad thing anyways? I’m not faking it, it’s just who I am. Look, I can relate.... I got this too. Basically you are giving too much consideration, power and contro…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 03:55 PM
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She realizes this and mentions that she doesn't have much time as a guy she calls an old college friend will visit her later today and cook with her and give her a medical massage. gah... that's awful What gives? Did I get friendzoned? I don't think she viewed you as a serious contender, or she was hoping to play for more time to find out. Was it a jealousy test? How should I have reacted? Best plan is to back right off...... eg touch her again, then take your hand away.... "oops, don't want to …
/r/askTRP01/03/21 03:53 PM
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TLDR: Boss taking my sales to meet his quota. Do I speak up or keep my head down and work? Find a better job, this situation probably can't be resolved.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 03:50 PM
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My friends have told me that yeah, you gotta keep the passion alive and if you're in a ltr, you don't care much if you're cheated on etc (meaning that it'll suck but you'll get over it, as in there are way worse things in life) Ask yourself if this is what you want for YOUR life. So I have a choice of being booring to girls and fun to myself or fun to girls or miserable to myself? It really sucks, you know. Ok, I think I understand...... you're realising that girls are mostly not how you want th…
/r/askTRP27/02/21 05:24 PM
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benign? Harmless / inconsequential. Eg "hey girl, I saw this cute puppy today and it made me think of you".
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:48 PM
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Ten mins sounds fine.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:47 PM
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Doesn't need to be a real bus. account, just separate.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:47 PM
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Don't ask for her number, tell her to give you her number.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:46 PM
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I have paid for far more expensive dates to treat the guys I was dating than they ever did. The guys YOU ARE DATING. This is exactly it: only once dating. You're not paying for the risky first dates where you might never see them again. If someone likes me enough to ask for my time invite me out for dinner it’s on them to pay. Classic female reasoning: "Asker pays, girls don't ask". And then you pretend that somehow that is equitable and fair. If the girl is interested, she’ll try to keep you ar…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 01:45 PM
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Your post is incomprehensible
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:39 PM
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Is this a soft next situation? I can't really think of a reply that isn't "haha it's cool" or something equally beta A girl not looking at Tinder all the time is what you want...... hit her up for a date already, jeez.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:39 PM
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I don’t know anything about tax. For this sort of income you need to register as self employed, record all your income with the correct date, and yes it absolutely will be taxed. Should I be making a document to write how much I make and how much my expenses are? YES How should I budget? I live with parents. Don't expect this to keep going up. Work on it, don't depend on it. Youtube can cancel, ratings can go down, sponsors can dry up with one false step. If it all dried up tomorrow, would you b…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:38 PM
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Also....... for the love of god...... do what your ancestors did and pick up the phone.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:33 PM
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and that I know fucks. Dude, they ALL fuck. Me (right after, just new message because lol with a period seems weird): You wanna get drinks and catch up sometime? Good for asking, but this isn't how you do it. You want this to be a statement not a question. First line: "You're fun, we should go out sometime". This is a statement, she can continue, agree, ignore. If she agrees you follow up with "Great, let's do Friday at 7". Notice these are not questions. You are higher value than her, you shoul…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:32 PM
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how do you accept yourself? By not getting plastic surgery for starters. Work out what your values are, and then live by them at all costs. Your insecurities will lessen with every passing day that you do this.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:28 PM
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Does anyone have any ideas on how I could figure out WTF is going on between her and this dude without saying "hey i checked your shit you deleted his messages". Ask her clear and simple questions....... "Have you messaged him" and "Has he messaged you". She should give clear and simple answers. If she distracts IN ANY WAY from a simple clear answer then she is lying. Deleting the message isn't that suspicious..... maybe it annoyed her and she never wants to see it again.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:26 PM
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I need to work on myself or I’m not ready or I’m going through something” instead of telling her “ you have these red flags and I can’t date you”? Definitely not the latter! My question is how can I tell her and frame it in a way that best gives the opportunity for her to stay and continue to fuck me and be my plate? Ok.... so this is hard to do. Fundamentally you need to get her out of LTR mode without hating you. THIS IS DIFFICULT. Rule1: It might not work, you have to be prepared to let her g…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:24 PM
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}:)
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:46 AM
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decent girlfriend etc What you're feeling is a pretty normal urge, although most guys wouldn't rule out hot sex as much as you do. Fact is: this is a pipedream. It's not reality. Girls are just not wired for longterm commitment like you think you (and they) are. What you are talking about is BORING to them. And all your friends with happy longterm monogamous relationships? They're not being totally honest with you. Even the good ones will go wrong sooner or later, usually involving marriage and …
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:43 AM
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how do you balance your life? In terms of logistics, texting, arranging dates, and being upfront when they ask you if you’re seeing someone else? I’m never been good at multitasking and I’m getting overwhelmed. Do what works for you. If you're getting overwhelmed see less of them, arrange a schedule, see less girls, or make a spreadsheet!
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:57 AM
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Should I reply and play it chill “np, shit happens. Another time.” Then ghost for a few days. Yes... but when she wants to see her again, say "You gonna turn up this time?" .... generally give her a hard time. Tell her to bring food with her. Soemthing like that.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:37 AM
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she was advised not to partake in sexual activities for at least 4-6 weeks She hasn't had an operation on her mouth, right? and have agreed to just meet up less This is exactly right. Meeting up as much is a passion killer. Meeting up less means that you are spending less time in the friendzone. Habitual friendzoning (for any reason) kills passion. See her less at first.... towards the end of the "4-6 weeks", start ramping up the teasing-and-leaving. "I can't wait to bang you in a week's time" a…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 02:22 AM
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Read the sidebar, "handling the talk", it's coming very soon.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 01:35 AM
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if she thinks I’m just gonna take her on dates and shit without sex. Did you take her on a date and pay? Provider behaviour causes female disinterest in sex. Avoid a mentality of "ok to take her out if we have sex". You should aim to avoid all provider behaviour. I don’t really know how to make her see me as alpha. You can't, but you can live a lifestyle that makes people tend to believe this about you. But you have to be happy to ditch anyone who doesn't. Lack of abundance is a killer here, and…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 07:21 PM
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Is there any scenario where it isnt "just your turn?" ABSOLUTELY NOT. You still have the blue running through your veins. Sorry, but there is no "loyal The One who will never cheat". Wishing for this is because of faults in you.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 05:02 PM
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. In person, I can at attract at least a 7 or 8, but on the apps these same girls and even lower aren't giving me time of day. Right. Online they ALL click on Chad10/10 and ignore personality. If you're not Chad10/10 then online dating will suck for you. My pictures probably aren't the best so I was thinking about getting professional pictures taken (I Ideal is sexy pictures of your tight abs and some of you socialising and having fun doing physical activities. When I first moved to the city I w…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 05:01 PM
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Any way to prevent this in the future? Plates break, happens. Bang her friends.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:57 PM
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Trying to decide if it’s worth it to pursue. Try it. I prefer night game because there’s more of an expectation that you’ll be hitting on girls and the girls are there to be hit on usually, but covid has gutted it unfortunately. That expectation doesn't help you, it hinders you. Daygame is better in many many ways. Players who get good have a 3% success ratio, if you read their small print and look into this. Approach 30 girls, 15 talk to you, 5 numbers, 3 dates, 1 fuck. VERY ROUGH NUMBERS, do n…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:29 PM
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But here we just were with her sitting across from me saying the sex doesn't matter. What matters is that we love each other and it's not a big deal. This is concerning, you're right to be suspicious. It's very unlikely that a highly sexual girl doesn't care about sex. So it's one of: She's lying and secretly unfulfilled She's cheating or planning to, therefore sex-with-you doesn't matter She's actually satisfied with how things are I almost caught myself trying to explain basic RP truths to her…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:25 PM
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Girlfriend likes asking me "What's on your mind" Urgh I hate that too. It's not a shit test, it's wanting to understand you and be close to you. But it's still fucking irritating and insecure. Write down your best ten answers in advance, then cycle through them. "Nothing" "You.... always you" "Tits" etc
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:21 PM
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Starting from scratch, how do i go about becoming a guy of value ? By living by your values and striving for what YOU believe in. Education is free where i live so i could start something, but with zero interests it may be a gamble What's the end goal of the education? Education is a stepping stone - where would it get you? If you can't answer this, don't do it. I will admit i havent read the sidebar, only the part about getting over my ex, it didnt help and im still regretting everyday i didnt …
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:20 PM
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After doing some research I understood that I have BPD, this led me to understanding that she also had BPD, that I was raised by BPD father and I dated BPD girls all my life. A self diagnosis isn't a fully medical diagnosis, but you may be correct. Well done on recognising the cycle. I want to improve my quality of life and move the fuck away, but my psychiatrist is not cooperating and saying I should work towards becoming stable and taking care of my family which sounds like bullshit to me in a…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:17 PM
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Is your gut really ALWAYS right? No, we're not psychic. Knowing that our insecurities can make us believe shit that isn't really happening, is the gut always trustworthy? You've nailed it. We see and feel the world in terms of our past experiences. Our gut can be way off.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:09 PM
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Why we have to validate her right off the bat on the basis of her beauty? It's about justification. "I did this and here is my reason for doing it". It sets the tone as male-female (this is important!). What are your thoughts on it? I'm 50-50 on it. Krauser is very good.... but not validating girls is generally good too. Krauser is polarising here. By defining the interaction as male-female, she is in a position of going along with this (accepting you chatting her up) or leaving. This is a GREAT…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:08 PM
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but I still have trouble actually initiating. Basically you have to commit to initiating regardless of the consequences. You have to do it to progress and make things happen. Does anyone have any advice on how to stay calm and get started putting this knowledge into practice? You don't have to stay calm...... you just have to do it. Mostly it's about accepting all the consequences as being acceptable, and then just doing it. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, and you have to be ok with th…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:05 PM
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What else could i have done? i did not want to ruin my life over some crazy chick. You did good, don't sweat it. It's very easy for other people to say "I would have", but they weren't there and likely wouldn't do what they said.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:04 PM
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s between 12 and 20. (Why give a range? Why not just the actual value?) By saying "12 to 20" she hopes you hear 12 while really it's higher than 20, but she's pretending she can't remember so that when it turns out to be higher than 20 she can blame her poor memory. Now I don't care for the number in particular. You should. Why pay full price for used goods? High n-count provably reduces a woman's ability to bond. I'm just pissed off that I was lied to You should be. Not only has she lied to you…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:02 PM
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the training was lackluster basically had to learn my position through self-teaching Get used to it, this is how the world works. What should I do in this situation? Do a good job, make sure the actual owner sees/knows it.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 03:58 PM
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Wanted to cuddle and just do the bs date activities. Classic bait-and-switch..... lures you in with sex, now she's testing for sex-free commitment. She has taken sex off the table, you need to take most of your commitment off the table to avoid being seen as a sucker. In the end she asked me to rate her and I gave her a 7.5. In future say "I'd give you one" and refuse to be drawn further. ANY NUMBER COUNTS AGAINST YOU. "I like you" should be enough. Anyways , she got dressed and left and I don’t…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 03:47 PM
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What are some good chores for plates? Eating all her food without using her teeth to train her to suck you better.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 03:43 PM
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Not in my experience
/r/askTRP18/02/21 03:41 PM
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Happy life happy wife is a lie, it turns out when the husband is happy, everyone is happy Absolutely.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/21 07:04 PM
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and wanted to feel better by finesssing an old dude. Um..... being given money for her company is how she gets her self esteem? Not good. wasn’t planning on marrying her yet but I never crossed that out either Well you should cross it out, marriage is nothing but a long con.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:04 PM
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Are they seeking that warmth or some shit like that? Warmth no. Safety possibly. At least 50% of marriages end in divorce, so this coulld be just an unlucky streak.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:03 PM
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blabla. I feel like shit since than and I try to figure out a way out of this mess and I can't get my head around why someone could shetter my mind when we only saw each other for 3 weeks. If you're seriously hurt by this it is due to your own lack of abundance. Your investment in this girl should have been close to zero, and you should have been exploring other options. I want to find out what is going on in an psychological level. Scarcity triggering attachment. I set up some dates at the end …
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:02 PM
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Her reasoning is she can't find a nursing job yet (we've been here 3 days). She's lazy OR she actually wants what comes with a bar job. ..I am more than willing to drop her. Tell her you don't want her to take the job. If she ignores that...... well, you ARE willing to drop her, right? This is not acceptable LTR behaviour, plain and simple.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:36 PM
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Maybe i should accept that not everyone will want to fuck me no matter how tall, muscular, intelligent, witty and big dicked i am and not get so butthurt about it... Don't aim to win them all, that's a fool's errand. You will make yourself upset that you lost that girl last week even while you're banging a hotter girl tonight. Aim for a lifestyle and a sexlife that you actually want, free of ego and insecurity. At my best, I've had some women throw themselves at me but I've always found better g…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:34 PM
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First work out what you WANT to do...... do you WANT to leave for a 20% raise? I assume yes. Tell your current employer that you have been offered 30% more by another competitor. Don't say who they are, but strongly hint at who it is (but be misleading! make them come to the wrong conclusion!). They may offer you the 30%, awesome! That's better than the 20% from leaving. They will likely offer you a bit less (this is why you exaggerate the other offer!). In this case choose. Tell them how much y…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:29 PM
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She goes I expect something more She is taking you for granted and seeing you as a provider (especially of romantic feelings and commitment). She should be grateful to be your girlfriend and your commitment to her should be more than enough. That she is demanding/expecting more is a major red flag for your relationship. If the sex is decreasing (for any reason! no excuses!) at the same time then you are sliding into crappy-longterm-dating with an unappreciative girl. Heed these signs well. She p…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:27 PM
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it was in the past Literally everything that has ever happened and everything that everyone has ever done is in the past. The subtext here is that "the past isn't who I am" - a lie that women love to tell of course. The problem with "paid for dates" is that it speaks to character. It's the business of exploiting men for money. But.... one guy...... one time....... ended quickly....... that's fine. But was it one guy this one (or three) times? Or was it more? Were there other guys she did more wi…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:18 PM
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Damn straight. Good story :)
/r/TheRedPill15/02/21 04:15 PM
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had a girl who swore she only fucked black guys noone could have predicted that: It would later go in to be the worst mistake i ever made :)
/r/TheRedPill15/02/21 02:19 PM
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If you ask a girl out, you pay. If she asked you out, then she can pay. Yeah, and this system is nothing but upside for women. Asker pays and women usually don't ask. Women can be very forward, but it's almost never going to include "and I'll pay". As a man you have to avoid this provider trap that profits her while making you unattractive.... you do this by escalating to seeing each other but in a way that means either you both pay, or it's an essentially free date. Always remember, girls have …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 02:11 PM
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let's not use the "it's always men's fault" cliché please. women are responsible for their own behaviour, alleged and unproven abuse is getting tiresome as an excuse.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:29 AM
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What turns a girl to feminism/lgbt? low value
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:27 AM
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What's missing is what you are aiming for here, but let's assume you want respect from men and women to fuck. 'wealth projection' is talking about a possible future of wealth based on a real ambition Future wealth means nothing, it's terrible for bedding women. They don't care about the journey, they just want the end product. They certainly won't support you in it and won't find you attractive based on future earnings. Even CURRENT earnings is terrible for banging girlies because it puts you in…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 01:34 PM
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However, the idea that you need to be 100% Alpha all the time I didn't say this. 100% Alpha is ... I still didn't say this. I am not sure where you get the idea that "I don't pay, let's go halves" means "be 100% alpha always, bro", but it wasn't from anything I said.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/21 02:01 AM
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I was totally with this post until: but I usually don't mind paying if they've been pleasant For myself I just refuse to pay for girls. Why should I? Paying kills attraction and sets the traditional boyfriend/girlfriend tone of "man provides, woman plays hard to get". Paying devalues me in her eyes. It turns me into a provider. If she doesn't want to go halves on a date then she we can go straight to my place. If she doesn't want to fuck me then there's no point dating her. Fundamentally I know …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/21 08:33 PM
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Bowling is good. Obviously you'll need to win without any trace of being egotistical or smug. Be supportive of her efforts if she sucks. Only mock her terrible shots if she's otherwise very good.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:29 PM
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Got it know. I'm basically rewarding her for good behavior and not when she's "bad" . And she'll take notice and use it as a transaction. Exactly. This is why provider behaviour results in "I'm not that kind of girl". You are literally paying her to not fuck you. The issue with karting is that there is no social interaction and it's competitive and likely scary to a girl. She'll hate if you beat her and not want to fuck you if she beats you. But hell, it might work because it's fun and different…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:46 PM
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Pay for the date if things are going well. NO NO NO. Set things up so you don't pay, or it's simple and obvious and natural to take turns or split. Paying = provider behaviour, and motivates her to keep you paying and make sex something paid for rather than natural and spontaneous. Bar where you get your own drinks is fine... you get the first round and you walk out if she doesn't get the second. You do NOT want to be treating her to an undeserved unearned free night out at your expense. DO NOT …
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:29 PM
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hugs to you too!
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:25 PM
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bullshit: "I'm not interested in getting to know anyone right now" right? Basically yes. I'll be talking to a woman getting to know her blah blah blah but whenever I try and take things further or show my intentions it's always "I'm not interested in anything right now/I'm not looking for someone at the moment". Ok, look, this is basic womanese. Women do not want to say "You are not attractive enough for me". That is offensive and you may attack her. You don't want to say this to a girl either i…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:16 PM
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tinder or bumble. Online dating is a shit show. Then we have our first date and it goes well. You are doing well if you get a date at all from online. What happens on this date? Are you touching her? Are you taking concrete steps towards fucking her? I end up calling her a flaky cunt and block her. This is terrible because you lose the one best source of information on what went wrong. If you instead said "Hey... you don't want to see me again, and that's cool...... but can I ask why?" you'd hav…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:08 PM
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I wouldn't give two shits about repeating sex with a girl when it wasn't awesome. and yet: it's good but not as good as I'm used to So which is it? Does it matter to you or not? she has too much to catch up to Keep or ditch, those are your options, and I'm not sure asking about it on a forum changes that. she eventually starts closing her legs involuntarily like she's in pain. Get her horny, then ask what's going on with that. Are some girls more inclined to be savage towards sex while some don'…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 03:51 PM
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However sometimes she’d just say “ur bad” in response to something dirty, is this so she doesn’t want to appear like a slut? Partly. Could also be playing for time. Could be "I'm not in the mood right now but I don't want to discourage you either". Why is she sometimes reciprocating and sometimes not? mood She says she finds me attractive (8/10 I heard from her friend) Not relevant.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 03:47 PM
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Saturday I took a girl out to eat. terrible date idea involving men paying. ying "that's not the only thing you'll choke on..." She smiled and fellas ....in my head, I said let's fucking go because I would have never said anything like that. (Maybe I should have said more)* It's a little direct, but fun for the right girl. Definitely should always make the sexual vibe clear. Without removing plausible deniability. I asked the waitress to split the bill.. She looked pissed Avoid this in future. A…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 03:47 PM
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This 27 year old FOB Chinese girl and I (23) Please try to use English phrases like "I am 23". Putting your age/gender in brackets after 'I' is a bad habit from bad reddit forums that will give you bad advice. Forums that do this are dishonest, they work like this: all ages are equal, all genders are equal, but because they really matter we're going to slip them in..... but in brackets. They're all toxic for this and other reasons. She explained to me that even with her friends she dislikes it b…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 03:13 PM
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And she tries to get me to "open up" more but I just feel inner rage because how I am is simply that, it is how I AM and I am happy with how I am. Sort of feels like she is talking down to me? She's not talking down to you. This whole "love" thing..... women don't love in the same way as men love. For women, love is mostly need and dependency. Basically you need to see more women, and you need less contact with this one. But it probably won't work, this will likely make her worse. But you won't …
/r/askTRP08/02/21 02:59 PM
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Our ancestors would kill for a bit of sugar Yep, and that's exactly the cause of the problems we're having today
/r/TheRedPill08/02/21 01:52 PM
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I'm a bit unclear about not agreeing on a time to meet again. Women derive security from seeing you on Friday and agreeing to see you on Wednesday and then agreeing to see you the following Tuesday. Security = passion killer. The basic concept is that she knows when she'll see you again, so you lose flexibility and control, and she relaxes knowing when she'll see you again AND THEN FORGETS ABOUT YOU TILL THEN. Look, it's like this: if you know you'll eat at 8pm, you won't worry about it till the…
/r/askTRP07/02/21 02:24 PM
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New chick texted me next morning saying she had a few too many and offered to meet up next Saturday. Problem is I have a date lined up with some other new chick Saturday This is "trickle truth"...... ie lying. The "few too many" is true, but that likely happened after 6pm. What happened is she made other plans with you as a backup option. Flaking with no text/info/update is a complete dealbreaker for me...... I'd say "no thanks" and leave it at that. But if you're happy to meet and try to bang: …
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:36 PM
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low body count HOW DO YOU KNOW. The whole situation was way too suspicious for me. I don't think this alone is a big deal. I think you're overreacting. I don’t think she would cheat on me With the right opportunity she would. They all wood. Give up your unicorn delusion. I packed my shit and walked out of her place. I’ve been cheated on in a past relationship so I don’t take this stuff lightly. Did I do the right thing or did I overreact?? Overreact. There's no suggestion she's done anything wro…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:33 PM
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do I give up? Do not shit where you eat. Find options outside of school/college.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:31 PM
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All girls have daddy issues, doesn't say anything about you. But ..... avoid the nutters. Always.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:30 PM
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Question for anyone who can answer who can actually speak to this via personal experiences / secondary accounts If you're in this position you are free, and with that you can do whatever it is YOU want to do. What do YOU want, OP?
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:30 PM
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Do you guys have any tips to make it as enjoyable as possible If you want enjoyment then you'll seek enjoyment and you'll find it. You should probably work hard too.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:29 PM
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What are other things I should be aware of on my path ? Avoid all commitments to other people that don't have an expiry date. Never agree an exclusive on anything (your work, your sex, your time, anything). Stay productive at your life goals.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:29 PM
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But I kind of would like to take it further into intimacy/sexual. Know that "friends first" is a fucking terrible model for sexing up girls. She will see you as a brother/beta/friend and will lose attraction during the friendship process. Being friends means you feel safe. This is NOT exciting to her. Are you genuinely into this girl, or is it based on lack of options elsewhere? Be honest with yourself. As in like the gist of this sub - seduce her. No... the gist of this sub is "seduce women and…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:27 PM
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how should I break the ice? "Hi". If that's not enough, then she doesn't want to jump on your dick.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:21 PM
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moved in with her You have to recognise that this drastically changes the dynamic in her head. You basically have no dread game because she lives with you and this guarantees regular contact. she asks what we are You have failed to make her FWB status clear. This stems from moving in with her. idk how exactly to handle it or what she is thinkinidk how exactly to handle it or what she is thinkin You are now Trying To Make It Work. You should never do this. If she's sulky you should ignore her and…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:20 PM
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Why do women get angry when you deny sex or just not in the mood? It undermines her security and hurts her ego.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:17 PM
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if they were, generic Carrie and seductive Serena would be able to lock down a guy. Carrie and Serena always manage to lock down a guy if they're able to drop their standards a little. Most guys kinda dine and dash - that's why FDS has a constant flow of pumped and dumps Most guys don't dine and dash. Most are too desperate.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/21 01:09 PM
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How much game did your father have? How much game did your grandfather have? None - provider game worked back then. collectively nuked their sex drives by taking hormonal birth control and sky rocketing their estrogen Hormonal tweaks make a difference but they are not everything. We're still dealing with women here. Game is less effective on women-with-birth control because it fakes pregnancy and thus changes their mate preferences from alpha to beta/provider. So I would argue that the pill make…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 02:00 PM
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Of course it's silly to say only 10% of men are having sex. Only 10% of men are having casual sex. The rest are paying.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 01:56 PM
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Solid post. Game isn't bullshit Completely agree :) In our society most guys are following the societal advice on dating: being friends first, being nice, buying drinks and meals, emotionally committing. This isn't game, this is antigame..... this is shooting themselves in the foot. It's directly pandering to female best interests at the expense of male dating success. It is being deliberately unattractive in order to benefit the female need for security and provisioning. Why? Because this is ho…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 01:10 PM
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I suspect because there's no story here. There's the START of a story.... but then it goes into job abundance mentality and then sidetracks into abundance of girls. So what we have is: interesting start, 1 page of theoretical job abundance, 1 page of theoretical girl abundance, the end. The best posts mix a story (beginning, middle, end) with key learnings that people can apply to themselves.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/21 02:22 PM
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I don't know your personal situation, but this reads a lot like "I am justifying what I think works but I'm not actually getting laid". If texting all day is working for you and you're getting a sex life you're happy with then great. But if this is theory and hope and not based on actual advice then you need to go back to basics and listen to us rather than a mental model of the world that isn't working for you.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 02:17 PM
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Texting is more of a thing u do to get comfortable with eachother. Bullshit. It's locking you into the not-even-friend texting-zone. Text her a message like "Gonna call you in an hour, we'll have a fun chat". Then call her an hour later and have a fun chat. Stop hiding behind texting. You're doing it because you're scared of rejection. You know it, she knows it.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:09 PM
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Exactly. Behave like her lover, not like her friend.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:07 PM
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Should i accept myself as an introvert or try to become an extrovert? Develop extroversion a little. Being outgoing and chatting to people is proven more effective at banging girls than sitting at home reading a book.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 07:16 PM
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how can I approach the boss and HR for a copy of my contract, You said you're not overly fussed. Make up your mind: do you want a contract or not? There is nothing suspicious about asking for a contract. It's a legal requirement in many countries. Just go to your boss, and say "when can I have a contract?" Meanwhile, start looking for less shady employers.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 07:14 PM
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I’ve read that the 3 main ways to meet women are through social circle game, cold approach, and online dating Yep. Social circle is fine if it works for you... but "being friends" is not social circle game, it's being an orbiter. But if being friends with her is getting you laid, go for it. But it sounds like you're at the stage (according to your post) where women are saying "let's just be friends" and things are going nowhere. Hence me being clear: friends means "helping you get laid". If you'…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 07:12 PM
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long term texting Long term texting is terrible! If things are gonna happen with a girl, they'll happen quickly (1-2 weeks or 20 hours in her company). "Long term texting" is the exact opposite of your best interests as a man. I am quite confident when it comes to intially getting the number or whatever but the chat just dies eventually and I find it rather boring Texting is for logistics. It is terrible for "getting to know each other" or any shit like that. It gets boring because she's bored. …
/r/askTRP18/01/21 07:08 PM
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Because I'm at the age where women 6 years older than me are not attractive to me.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 07:06 PM
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I said this: Female friendship is worthless, so avoid it unless it directly helps you fuck her friends
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:31 PM
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OK....... I read this book in college and it really hammered home the beta life and in many ways changed my outlook. I'd strongly advise against reading it though, because it presents men as beta losers. It is correct about the beta life and the beta attitude. But it totally misses out what life and women CAN offer. There needs to be a last chapter that says "You can be hot and attract women for kinky monkey sex and have a great life - learn to do nothing for them and they'll suck your dick for …
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:29 PM
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'focus on ur goals women will come' This is shit advice. Focus on your goals, absolutely. But women will not come flocking unless you become a rockstar or hot bar tender. Be awesome, but finding women is an active not a passive pursuit. how often are you guys speaking to (texting/dating) new women I'm not at the moment... covid is killing me. and how many do you have going at one time. Usually 2-3...... currently 2. I would say i normally speak too like 4 a year but less this year cus of covid. …
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:26 PM
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How do u go with meeting her parents and how do u leave a good impression? Ok... first of all.... as always: don't care too much. "How do I leave a good impression" is caring too much. All you do is this: meet parents, be nice, find little ways to express how much you care about their daughter. That's it. That's everything. Be nice, express daughter-care.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:22 PM
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So should this mean that young guys like me (20) Stop reading femcentric reddit advice columns that purport to be all about equality and not ageist and not sexist, but always declare the writer's age(40's) and gender (m) in a weird way. In terms of getting started: get as hot as you can get. If older women are easier for you then sure, but do always be chatting up the kinds of girls you really want.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:21 PM
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seemed to imply she would end it if things didn’t change. Call her bluff... you don't need that shit. She doesn't get to call all the shots. Is this neediness from her? YES!!! And ultimately the lack of distance and your lack of options (you're obliged to call her)..... will KILL ATTRACTION.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:19 PM
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Can't all of TRP be summed up into "Don't target a girlfriend but a harem" ? Sure, but that's like saying that all career advice is "get a high paid job bro".
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:18 PM
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If only there was a sidebar link entitled "Handling the talk" ....
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:17 PM
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You'll get more information. It won't be true, but it sets a lower bound on her body count.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:16 PM
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do people legit care what some bitch thinks about them that bad? This is the potential mother of his potential child. So yes, they do care, and they should care. i mean i guess there'd be reputation damage within the family but I'd rather piss my family off then have 18 years of wage garnishment But quite likely you'd piss off her, her family, and STILL have 18 years of wage garnishment.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:16 PM
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what’s with the craze of lifting and why is everybody in TRP so obsessed with it? Makes you more attractive and the T boost makes you feel more masculine. TRP is obsessed with it because it aligns with our view of alpha fucks beta bucks.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:14 PM
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she goes cold. I propose hanging out the weekend I get back - she gives a curt decline saying she’s going out with a friend. When you removed commitment she looked elsewhere. Then she found it. This is fine, but you need to find a way to make her know that you also have other girls... without directly saying it.... being mysteriously busy at some times is one way to do it. Afterwards I get a text wall telling me how much she cares about me but that I can’t give her what she needs and therefore t…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:13 PM
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Seems like this a threesome served right on a silver platter if I play my cards correctly but how would I do so? Ask both girls if they're curious about meeting another girl. Keep it light and easy going. Show pics of the other girl. Don't use "threesome" as a phrase, that's focusing on you too much. Instead "are you interested in meeting her? It might be fun, she's bicurious as well". And keep using phrases like "see how it goes" and "meet just for coffee" and things like that. And talk about i…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:10 PM
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I know I need to change my approach Ok.... first off: you need to promise yourself you absolutely will not be friends with girls you meet. Friendship is off the table, you're not going to start as friends, you're not going to end as friends, you're not going to pretend to be friends prior to sex. Take friends OFF THE TABLE completely. The problem with "we're friends" is that it's weird to try and fuck them. So don't do it. Don't be friends with them, do not do things for them, don't be around th…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:07 PM
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and letting the girls come to me You'll always get hotter girls if you go to them. when I’m in a room with a girl that I find attractive and want to make the first move what should I do? Demonstrate high social value by having lots of fun with other people. Give other people a good time, make them laugh, don't be a dancing monkey. Your target will notice. Then go talk to her, and she'll open up easy.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:02 PM
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how could I do that to her friend Men are always held responsible. Sadly them blaming you and not allowing you standards means you are low social value in that group. Has anyone experienced this ? I find it hilarious how these girls can even get away with and a lot of the guys that simp hard just eat the shit these girls throw at them. This is fairly normal spoiled-girl behaviour. It's bad that her friends support her against you though.... as I say, you need to ditch them because they don't res…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:01 PM
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How to ask my sisters friend out? Don't shit where you eat Don't ask, instead tell and command Don't shit where you eat
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:59 PM
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Did social media expose women? Not really, not directly. What really exposed women was men getting together (through the internet) to talk about women. Why do the majority of women behave like this I'm not sure that's true - you don't see all the ones that aren't on social media. whereas the 2020s man is expected to actually work on self development, be both smart and funny, make 6 figures, have a six pack etc. Male expectations have always been higher. And again - most are not smart, funny, or …
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:57 PM
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Information about her sexual past and level of honesty. 9 guys isn't a red flag these guys, but it's not marriage material either.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:53 PM
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I’m expecting a ton of “sweet home Alabama” comments Yes, I hear the duelling banjos already. Now the timeline does indicate it could be mine but let’s be real, I don’t know what the fuck she does when she’s back home. Absolutely. Might not be true, might not be yours. But it could be. How do I handle this the right way? How do I talk to her about abortion/adoption? I know I need to get a DNA test, do I play the part until it’s born then go for it? Do I ask now if it could be anybody else’s? How…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:00 PM
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What would be your rule of thumb ratio or percentage, that keeps your power with the least loss of leads? Err... doesn't matter. Bang chicks, care less. Being aloof doesn't work. You have to be non-needy. Don't be passive, it doesn't work. Don't tolerate passive girls, they are sponges (but it's your job to lead!). New leads won't reach out often.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 02:55 PM
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Everything without showing my face is safe? Fairly. I'm just wwondering how dangerous is it to do? Ok... here's your risks: If it's a stranger and she's underage, you're going to jail. Revenge porn. You're a guy, noone cares, won't happen. Pics sent to her friends: 100% certain to happen, accept it. Pics sent to YOUR friends and YOUR family: you are very vulnerable at the end of a relationship to female revenge tactics. Avoid blackmail by: Doing it all on video. Yes she can take pics, but she pr…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 02:54 PM
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Do any of you have a plate much (6+ years) older than you? Hell no
/r/askTRP18/01/21 02:51 PM
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How do you guys deal with a chick that flakes on dates? She gets to flake once, after that she doesn't get special time set aside. Basically laugh it off the first time...... BUT...... don't make special arrangements with her again. Eg.... "Sure, hit me up Friday, see if I'm free". Or "I'm going to X place to meet friends, come and join us". Basically if she isn't respecting your time, don't let her do it again.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 02:50 PM
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How could I have turned that into getting a date or a number? So the critical thing about contact details is that they should be an afterthought, not the main event. Man's mind: "Get number, call later, get date, fuck chick" Woman's mind: "Why does he want my number? Will he call me all the time? Will he never call me? What does he even want? Will this be awkward?" So asking for a number is kinda weird for both parties... men should offer and they should take, but they shouldn't ask.... and wome…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 02:48 PM
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9 different relationships(boyfriends) from when she was 21 till now as she’s 29. 9 isn't a red flag. But it's not nine.... it's at least 3x this. She's not counting casual sex partners. Ask her... "how many guys have you had sex with?" and when she answers... chuckle... and say "That's cool.... and how many more that didn't count?" Watch as she tries to redefine and then answer a different question, rather than giving you a straight answer. Eg.. "Well... of all the guys I've dated.... I had sex …
/r/askTRP18/01/21 01:58 PM
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She'll instant delete this. For women: average = invisible.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 01:55 PM
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I don't get why girl's literally post height requirements on tinder Because they can. They have millions of options and they simply want to filter out to reduce the noise. Height is an easy objective way to do that. "only if 9/10" looks won't work.... "only if 6ft-6" does. thinking of deleting Tinder and going monk mode for a while and just interacting with girls in real life Well, it's not monk mode if you're interacting in real life. But yes... if Tinder isn't working for you then simply don't…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 01:55 PM
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don't want to be the poor kid who enter the candy store with a blank check and leave with diabetes. Ok... you're right to be cautious, but I think you'll be fine. Not getting in debt means simply not borrowing money. I strongly urge you to keep your overheads low. 120k is nice, but it sucks to have a huge mortgage/rent/car-repayments that you can't afford if you lose your income for a while. So build up at least 3 months expenses as savings, ideally 6. Having that cushion gives you life options …
/r/askTRP18/01/21 01:51 PM
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Pick up women in front of her. When she complains about it tell her it was only "harmless flirting". Ideally you use the same language women use when they're covering for something: She's just a friend She's just being friendly Oh, that wasn't flirting She's not my type Women recognize the subtext because these are lies they use to cover up... thus you are screaming "I'm a player with abundance" without her thinking you're bragging or exaggerating. while smirking Definitely smirk at all times
/r/TheRedPill18/01/21 01:13 PM
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OP is spot on. It's been said before, but this is well worded and makes solid points with good (yet still general) examples. +1
/r/TheRedPill17/01/21 03:01 PM
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Think of the chaddiest most alpha motherfucker you know. Do you think he’s bitching about how his date went? I bet he did at one point in his life. Then he figured stuff out (possibly with the help of others), and later developed attractive qualities and thus abundance. Figuring out what works is an essential step to becoming more attractive to women. "Do whatever you like" only works when you have the skills and attraction in place. There's a billion "I do whatever the fuck I like" men out ther…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/21 02:58 PM
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I took this seriously until all the dates I’d been paying for Women who want to fuck you don't need you to buy them dinner. It's that simple. Quit paying and you find out which girls are really into you, and you find it out fast and cheap. To make it even more stark: paying for her makes sex LESS LIKELY because paying marks you out as a beta/provider and this kills attraction. heavy compound lifts at the gym Ah finally..... the post makes sense at the end.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/21 02:52 PM
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Some women though, do actually want love Of course. It's amazing to receive male love, because it is so beneficial to the recipient. some women just want a friend before anything serious This is bullshit. The friendzone is a terrible way to start a relationship. If she's sexually interested then she'll be interested in sex. The rest is fluff talk designed to get male commitment from a man she's less attracted to, and that's a shit deal for the man. My point is, not all women have the same goals …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 12:58 AM
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Ok, so let me summarise: Avoid lesbians Well duh Avoid radical feminists Well duh. Although I know how to spot them, something you don't mention. Avoid women in a relationship (not worth it for some unspecified reason) I've fucked lots of women in relationships, many of them married. Had a great time. Worked out great every time. So this is shit advice. Avoid women with implants or surgery (too shallow? although not sure why I should care) Never met any that I know of, so no idea either way. I'v…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 12:46 AM
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Everything you've just said is stunningly obvious, well known and well covered in our side bar.... although you subtlely tone down the importance of physical attractiveness. I also know that some girls are going to be a waste of time for you and I know which ones you just shouldn't approach in the first place Excellent, this sounds useful.... please do go ahead and tell me which girls are a waste of time and which I shouldn't approach.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 11:55 PM
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Can you tell me what women want according to you? You claim to have some insight into the female mind that has been missed until now, so please do go ahead and share.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 11:53 PM
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I like having facial hair but always thought it makes getting younger women even harder since I'm 31. Why make yourself look even older? 31?? You're FINE. You can look 40 and pull 25 yr olds. Rock your beard.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 11:50 PM
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Buy a black sharpie
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 08:05 AM
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It improves your facial aesthetics QUITE significantly Only men grow facial hair. Facial hair makes you look like a MAN. Women want to fuck MEN.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 08:05 AM
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That's why I know what most of them want We know what women want, we don't need you to lie about it.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 07:59 AM
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Hahahaha OP....... nice try. But we've had female advice for centuries and it always has two qualities: firstly it's designed to benefit WOMEN (usually the adviser) and secondly it fucking sucks. Classic examples include "just be yourself" and "it's what's inside that counts". Never in my life has any woman ever given me a single useful piece of advise on anything but especially not dating and sex. If our own mothers have proved that they will not break ranks with team-woman to help their sons, …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 07:57 AM
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Meanwhile, find better for yourself
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:06 AM
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tell her that you feel hurt This is a good plan - look so weak and pathetic that she dumps OP, then he can find a better girl.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 06:53 PM
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How do I flush out the bad feelings when my girlfriend says weird stuff? Get a better girlfriend, or demote this nutter to plate.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 06:52 PM
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We have a sidebar. The questions don't vary week by week.... they stay the same year on year.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 06:49 PM
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It's called "The Silver Bullet" by divorce lawyers. Only works for women though.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 06:48 PM
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Set up a camera and get all of the abuse on tape. Use it in court. Good chance it will be thrown out because she wasn't aware of the filming. She will also claim that you were violent, but didn't tame that part of it. If you have made the mistake of impregnating a stagnant hooker, this advice is worth its weight in gold. It's a good idea I agree, but it might not save you in all cases.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 06:47 PM
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successful marriages What could a "successful marriage" even look like? Lifelong monogamy? Seems shit to me, even at its best.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 06:46 PM
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Have you even heard the nightmarish stories from men about their psychotic co-parenting ex's? Yep... I've heard. Endless stupid dipshit games. Usually trying to maximise control, other times just stupid shit. And the world is always always on her side. Government organisations are on her side. Health organisations are on her side. Her friends are on her side. HIS friends are on her side. It's fucking grim.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/20 08:00 AM
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what are girls trying to achieve by pulling jealousy stunts? commitment And does it actually work on some guys? yes.... but it works better on girls, so they think it works on guys.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:56 AM
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She was doing this shit in front of all her family. A> she likes you B> she's teasing you, knowing you're too scared to escalate. C> she feels comfortable with you, knowing you're too scared to escalate. Forget IOI's. Here's a better plan: ESCALATE TO FIND OUT.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:54 AM
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Career: I work in the data industry, so even when I get to a leadership position it's only men that will respect that success. Women respect leaders of men. So what's the deal if I want to be one of the guys that girls come to, not just an average chump? You will always get hotter girls by being active instead of passive. Forget this whole "girls come to me", because the hotter girls will always wait for you. Basically you want to be as attractive as possible and you want to meet lots of women. …
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:52 AM
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This is just some next level of delusion and self-deception Yeah, this is just how deluded the world is about female nature. It is critical to the female sexual strategy that her hypergamy is hidden, so all women do everything they can to hide it. Most men are fooled. Here is the narrative that society pushes on men to make them accept the girls who decided to settle after their "stupid girl" phase. The narrative is necessary to dupe men into being providers. Women directly profit so they will a…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 06:38 PM
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Someone gotta explain to me where those pathetic simps get their money The vast majority of simps are paying $5-10 / month. Dunno how many girls they subscribe to, but it's probably not many. Most men can afford $10 / month. If she can get 100 simps to pay $10 / month, then she's making $1k/month out of desperate men none of whom have to be rich. As u/Woujo said, some girls are making thousands a month simply (hehe geddit!?!) because most are NOT doing it. More and more girls are trying it (espe…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 06:34 PM
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P.S. And no, I didn’t suck Chang’s dick, no homo lmao Yeah yeah... we all know you took his tiny yellow wang in the ass like a champ. I hope you were screaming "It's not gay if you leave your boots on" from the start to his creamy finish.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 08:44 PM
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If she isn't a whore for you she's a whore for someone else. And if she is a whore for you, she's also usually a whore for someone else. The way I see it: she's whoring herself with someone else, I might as well get a slice of it. But.... AWALT. There are no quality women. Edit: just because you found a racoon in a tree doesn't mean it hasn't been in a garbage can Epic :)
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 08:39 PM
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Kiss some more, grab her ass, touch near her pussy a couple times and isolate and escalate till f close. This reads a lot like the theory that you've read and not like personal experience. The first 2/3 of your post sounded good. But the last part reads like theory and self-persuasion. If the last 1/3 was from personal experience you'd be giving us specific examples. Not saying you're wrong, but this reads like armchair game.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 08:36 PM
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if you have any other recommendations for somebody who is just starting out Be skeptical, but still enjoy life! Maintain control over your life always. From now until the day you die. Don't agree to anything that's legally binding with more than 6-12 months liability. (Owning a house and car is good, you can always sell them.) Marriage is obviously terrible, not just because of the consequences to you when it ends, but because she knows this and knows how profitable it is for her. Monogamy is ok…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/20 06:37 PM
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Even though these girls are conservatives, they still couldn't take a joke on feminism Feminism isn't so different from the conservative mindset. Both sides prioritize women in different ways. Women will side with each other even when they know they're wrong. We ended up apologizing because at the end of the day they are my friend's friends and I didn't want to ruin my day because of it. And now noone will respect you. Never ever say anything that you will apologize for. If you don't believe in …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/20 02:52 PM
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She told me, ”don’t you think this is kinda creepy??!” OP: be warned. Women are experts at telling you what you want to hear. She will understand instinctively that she can just call this guy "nice / creepy" and you won't take him seriously as a threat. Why do you think that she is being honest with you? She's leading this guy on, but you think that because she's fucking you that you're getting the truth? Texted me to say dude is taking her out of town for an overnight staycation at some resort …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/20 02:42 PM
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Sounds bitter Reality is as it is
/r/TheRedPill15/11/20 02:29 PM
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Maybe, but how does seeing it as a zero sum game help you? Because now you know that prioritising her best interests or listening to her preferences often acts directly against you. You must understand the "one wins / one loses" as an antidote to all the "happy wife happy life" woke bullshit that's around these days.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 11:17 PM
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Yeah, I don't get the 2nd and 3rd marriage thing. Especially from guys who got taken to the cleaners the first two times. "Same again please!" they shout..... it's so weird
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 11:15 PM
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Yeah. It's not perfect and it's not for everyone, but it's very very good.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 11:14 PM
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The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 11:14 PM
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Yeah, I thought this.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 02:14 PM
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Giving a false name at dinner and saying she's not hungry (not wanting to waste time with dinner) further demonstrates that she just wanted you to take her home and fuck, not shit around trying to date her. Actually giving a false name is because she is clinically insane.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 02:13 PM
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Walking the streets in search of that sweet validation. Putting all of your worth externally, desperately seeking some form of self acceptance but looking out instead of in. OP's post is the opposite of this. He's trying to get laid and working on self acceptance. Try not to see this through the lens of "men shouldn't try to get laid", which is femcentric bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 02:03 PM
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https://krauserpua.com/
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 02:02 PM
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Yet my parents won't give up. Yeah, it's fucking weird. Even people in failed marriages who have experienced the misery first hand still encourage other people to get married. It's like the narrative is stronger than personal experience.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 03:04 PM
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with stats that seem to indicate on almost a world-wide scale, men are less aggressive in pursuing women. Male sexuality has been endlessly demonised. Ask a colleague out? That's sexual harassment in the workplace. Approach a cute stranger in a park? Now illegal in some places. Men are afraid to do anything with women. No longer do we just have her potential scorn and gossiping to contend with, now our actions have legal consequences if she says she is unhappy with the interaction for any reason…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 03:02 PM
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Ah, gotcha. Generally it's best to give this explanation. That way other people don't think it's ok to post without credit.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 02:59 PM
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This is not my post Please credit the original author Women love knowing that they can break up with you and crush you Your status within the relationship is how strong and attractive you would be WITHOUT her. If she knows that dumping you would break you then she knows your value is close to zero. That means you have little respect, you are losing attraction, and you're sliding into the beta exploitation zone if you're not there already. Lacking attraction you will be expected to pay with incre…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 11:27 AM
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it just happened Translation: "I did not take a provably active part and I cannot and will not be held responsible for my actions". How to take advantage of this: Be attractive, let her have her plausibly deniability especially in front of other people.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 11:13 AM
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Referred to her with his last name That's just stupid. I wonder if it's true or she made it up. Gave her thousands every month, paid off her mortgage, gave her a credit card. This is extremely stupid of him. Under dumb fucking Western rules: the more you support a woman the more you owe her. I've never seen a good justification for this.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/20 12:47 AM
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“Lack of a shared residence is not determinative of the issue of cohabitation" Holy fucking shit. What crazy doublespeak is this where cohabitation is defined to exist without sharing a residence.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/20 12:45 AM
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, I still wish I had a girlfriend to go through this journey with right now. This is not how women work. They want to pick a winner, not support a guy through his struggles.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 12:42 AM
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Fucked up on so many levels. If there was any doubt in my mind before, I am now fully convinced that marriage is a sham. Marriage is not a sham, it fulfills its purpose perfectly: to make men provide financial security to women.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 11:32 AM
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A. Have utmost respect for service workers (security, culinary, receptionists, etc.) this always comes in handy. Also, it’s just decent and shows class. Yes, but don't socialise with them more than with your colleagues - this marks you out as a loser.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 11:30 AM
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. I do push pull, I do A&A, I make assumptions, but I feel like I usually talk to girls like I would talk to one of my bro Throw some pull in with your push
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:08 PM
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Now I met a girl in my city who's like 21 (I am 31). We have been out once for like an hour just as friends yesterday and now she is asking me if she could come over and watch a movie or something today. I am not the cheating kind. Oh don't worry about you cheating. Worry about her cheating. It's probably already happened. Your so-called gf is putting limits on you seeing her. Why would she do that? Think about it... You are in a defacto LDR. That means she is not your gf any more. Am I wrong to…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:07 PM
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Would like to hear what you guys would advise in a situation like this? If she's attracted AND YOU LOOK BORED she'll put more effort in. Be bored by her.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:06 PM
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How do you even flirt with women who are so radicalized that it will be seen as toxic masculinity or a white male oppressor or something else ridiculous af? By being attractive. Biology tops ideology. Women are so blue pilled No, they are red pill as fuck. All this Marxist propaganda..... do you think it they are paying in as much as they can and taking as little as possible? Or do you think this is something they are trying to get OTHER people to do, while they contribute nothing? It's all a ma…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 06:05 PM
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However, after discovering about women's true nature, I am starting to have very cynical views of most, if not all women. Good. The knowledge that if a man hits rock bottom, or if he went through a really difficult time in life, most women All women. They'll choose their best option. They might stick by you for a while if they think you'll be their best option in the near future. is eating at my desire to invest in a ltr with someone, no matter how great and wonderful they might be today Good. Y…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 03:43 PM
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I always fail TRP Endorsed shit tests
/r/askTRP05/09/20 03:38 PM
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Dude all these posts that I have saved are a gold mine and I hand picked each one of them. I can't go and search every single post on the forums. I think you're deluding yourself a little. If you don't have time to look through each one of them, how are you ever going to find time to read them?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 03:35 PM
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There have been many Reddit alternatives that just haven't taken off because Reddit is Coca-Cola, sold all over the world, and all of the upstart online forums trying to be uncensored Reddit are store-brand brown fizzy stuff sold in a single chain of supermarkets It's even harder than this - it's not just being off-brand that's the problem. As soon as you launch your uncensored reddit or youtube the first people you attract are the people that really should be banned. So you try to launch a free…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 03:34 PM
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Should I just reply to one of her snaps for a booty call when I am drunk tomorrow. Escalate. Flirt back.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:51 PM
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The more you see someone, the closer you can get Yep, it happens. But it's on merit, not just by virtue of time. do you intentionnally keep a distance by not doing specific things like meeting parents or helping her for random things ? For as long as possible yes. By the way, I'll take this opportunity to thank you for your involvment with this community. I've been lurking for a while and have come across a lot of your posts/answers. You take the time to answer every specific question in the par…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:45 PM
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then she gets a call that her friend smoked something at a party and is now real sick, She has shitty friends or this is a lie. I think it's true as she let you pick her up again How did I fuck up? You probably didn't, but I think she has fucked up friends and therefore probably craves mental levels of emotional drama which you didn't deliver (which is good, it attracts crazy chicks) and therefore she's not that attracted.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 12:02 PM
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She outlines what her flaws were and how they negatively affected our relationship. She says she didn't love me enough, etc Remember this and learn it well. If you take away only one thing from TRP, take away this: People do not change After the age of say 20..... they just don't change. Not at all. As soon as the situation changes (eg you take her back), she will behave EXACTLY THE SAME. Words are so easy. Apologies, promises. All so easy. If you take away two things, remember this too: Actions…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 12:00 PM
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and have to shove sticks up their butt daily to not bleed We need to talk to your biology teacher
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:52 AM
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She isn’t a unicorn What tipped you off........ the lack of shiny horn out of her forehead, her walking on her back legs, or that girls exist but unicorns do not?
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:52 AM
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she even stopped talking to him, How do you know? Women rarely tell the truth on these matters. What is the next move? Escalation? Should I constantly be escalating to begin with? Is this even a sign or am I overthinking it? Do not shit where you eat. I know ultimately I should just let things play out Well no...... as a man you have to make things happen. If you do decide to shit where you eat, and don't blame us if this goes bad fast: physically escalate, a bit at a time, backing off each time…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:51 AM
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background: she's 20 years younger than me, sexy 7/8, dynamite in bed and fucks me silly with a chemistry that i've rarely seen before. Sounds great. Remain chill about the trip. She sounds fine. Don't commit.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:49 AM
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When do you feel you REALLY became a real man? How did you know? There comes a point where you stop giving a fuck what other people think, and at that point you stop needing to define yourself to others.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:48 AM
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You can see girls without having to bring them back to yours. Living with your parents is fine. Tell girls "I'm crashing at my parents until I finish my degree". They'll be fine with it if you are
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:48 AM
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GF might not be being fully honest here: women typically lie about their part in proceedings and mis-state the context. Have seen them do it repeatedly and it's sickening. Women will try and distance you from your friends in order to maintain their control over you. And it might be true. Best way is to tell him what she said, and see what he says. Don't accuse him, say "my gf said you did X". If it's true, he's no longer your friend.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:47 AM
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I can easily get physical with her,my question is should I do it for first times sake or should I wait for a better girl who's a 7/10 or 8/10. Do not wait for anything. You are a man. You go get things. Your options are: Bang miss 5 Find the 7's or 8's. If you wait you get nothing.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:45 AM
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but I wanna know how I could've dealt with it better. You have to ignore it unless physically attacked. You can't attack them for cat calling. One option is "come on, let's head out of here" and go somewhere else.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:44 AM
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I’m stuck on this one girl. Oneitis bad. Catching feels You lack abundance. Get more options
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:43 AM
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Better coverage is available on our main page, titled "Sexual Availability as a Proxy Indicator For Desire/Attraction/Commitment/Love"
/r/TheRedPill03/09/20 11:34 AM
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Before you commit to a woman Commitment is the beginning of the end of a sexual relationship.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/20 11:30 AM
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Spot on.... hence the rise of these professional victims and all the false accusations against men. It's disturbing how little reporting there is when the facts come to light. The media keeps reporting the narrative despite the evidence.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:35 PM
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Sometimes I do that I just confuse the story I tell with names So names is fine, but keep the context as you go..... eg: "And Sara, remember she's the one with the wooden leg, Sara said to Bill, the guy who was holding the sandpaper, ...."
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:33 PM
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But I wonder why this isn’t too beta because In this scenario i’m not being dominant and making the decision. Because you've made a joke and flipped the script. It makes the point, but you're not going to be taken out for the date of your life.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:32 PM
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Agreed.... look, this is an advice column. If you tell men "it's ok, you can pay and still get laid" they'll fall straight into the female "you must pay and wait" trap that benefits her and costs him. If you tell men "don't pay" they'll learn to say to women "no" and get laid all the quicker for it.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:30 PM
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Eventually Instantly and if it’s all you do If it's any of what you do. As soon as you offer payment (in the form of security, provisioning, commitment, boyfriend-behaviours) she will focus on that and stop thinking about how attractive you are. These behaviours kill attraction. It's that simple. Don't let women fool ya: they WANT these things. But it kills attraction.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 12:15 PM
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So I’ve (21) been seeing this girl (19) STOP READING REDDIT ADVICE SUBS. They have infected your brain. They will tell you age and gender doesn't make a difference while training you to declare both in your title. This is poor English. There is nothing wrong with "I'm 21 and have been seeing my 19 year old girlfriend for about 6 weeks". Putting age and gender in brackets is just lazy. however as time went on my desire for this type of exclusive relationship has vanished. Now instead I am only in…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 10:13 AM
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What I do is immediately turn my head away and pretend like there's something more interesting (completely false) in the opposite direction and I don't even know why. This is a show of complete disinterest in her or shyness. Girls know it's because you're either disinterested or shy, and she isn't impressed. She'll generally try to assume you're shy, while inside being upset you're not interested. OP: train yourself not to look away. You don't have to do anything else for starters, just stare he…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 10:09 AM
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Do you think it's maintainable if i eat enough calories for a surplus and if not what would you change? If you feel good you're maintaining it, what's the problem.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 10:05 AM
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If things improved, how did it happen? Im just looking for some form of hope. While not mainstream I am seeing a lot more awareness of societal misandry in more mainstream locations. It seems to be understood that bad things happening to men gets reported as "Men die, women most affected". How did things slide from 2010 to now? In the last ten years we've seen the Oppression Olympics move from gays to transgenders, with an ever increasing level of left-wing insanity being presented in the media.…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 10:04 AM
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If TRP is so great, how come I can't get laid despite being short and fat and ugly and lazy and cant type proper. Therefore TRP is untrue.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:58 AM
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I'll make this short and sweet Yeah, about that... My question is : Outside of the actual sex itself, is there any reason to even bother getting a relationship, doing the cuddling, getting attached etc ? Everyone is different here, but I personally like ongoing relationships with girls. All your objections OP (hypergamy, conditional) are totally 100% true. And that's why I don't expect them to last, don't emotionally count on them lasting, don't build my life around them, and stack them up at le…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:57 AM
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Why would they lie about one but tell the truth about the other? Good question, especially when muscles is more changeable than height. Wild guess here: height is a simple qualifier. You're either taller than her or you're not, and she wants taller than her. Shorter than her is usually a deal breaker. Muscles is more negotiable: yes she loves them, but she also likes attention, intelligence, resources, good facial appearance.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:50 AM
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even though if the story is exciting. Is the presentation exciting though? Hell I see some people when they talk or tell a story they get everyone’s attention, but I can’t tell exactly why. Ok, some tips for ya: Talk loud enough to be heard by someone 2 feet behind the person furthest away Talk slowly. Keep each sentence and each point really simple and comprehensible. Too many people fuck up a simple story with vague or complicated wording and going too quickly, eg: "And Sarah said to Jane abou…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:48 AM
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Question to you, do you fuck girls below 6 and how it makes you feel afterwards? Most importantly this is not for you. Or find a way to leave on a high note, eg slap her ass and say "that was awesome", then leave with a big smile. If it's at your place: get up and do something else.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:44 AM
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This is terrible advice. Provider behaviour will kill her sexual interest.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:42 AM
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What's a good way to deal with this shit test? I'm not interested in dating her, only having her come over for sex. Well done on nailing what's going on. Ultimately you want different things. At all costs avoid provider behaviour. I'd go with one of: "Proper date sounds awesome, put stockings on. See you at mine at 7". "Proper date would be great, where are you taking me?" "It sounds like we want different things". "My other girls don't make demands" Maintain abundance and other options. Avoid a…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:42 AM
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Agree with this more than OP. Risk, social risk, social conflict and responsibility are her fears, not thinking. She thinks all day long, she just doesn't act until she can think of a way to act without risk, social repercussions, conflict or responsibility. Perhaps not even then.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/20 10:44 AM
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​Pretty solid stuff, but: AND THATS IT. THATS HOW YOU GET A GIRLFRIEND IN THE MODERN AGE. You shouldn't be trying to get a girlfriend. If you need or even want a girlfriend you are acting out of scarcity. You want a solution to your problem of sexual availability, and you've been conditioned to believe that the solution is to offer your commitment in the hope of receiving sexual favours. This is an unattractive mindset to be in. If you want sex (and you should), you should be aiming to fulfil th…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 02:18 PM
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/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 02:03 PM
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I've thought about the possibility of having a FWB type of arrangement, but I'm not into the type of girl who usually goes for that, aka sluts. Plus I like raw sex. It's not just sluts that go for FWB arrangement, that's wrong social conditioning right there.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:18 PM
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Most LTR’s I’ve gotten into have started with me telling her we aren’t gonna have It makes you high value by demonstrating abundance.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:17 PM
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Should I fix my finances, cut, and go monk mode until the COVID situation settles down? I am generally against monk mode (it's usually denial)...... but fuck.... pandemic. You should fix your finances ANY WHICH WAY.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:17 PM
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Is this normal female behaviour? Pretty much. Women love attention, but after the conversation you're just another man in the sea of men. Why reinitiate with you (eek rejection omg) when they can just answer back the guy messaging them. The answer is to tease more than you give and maintain high attraction, curiosity and mild irritation in her.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:16 PM
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Women are naturally Red Pill" Red Pill is waking up to the reality of how women are. Women don't need to walk up to that. For example: women know they will willingly have sex with attractive men without commitment. But they'll deny it till they are blue in the face because it benefits them to do so.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:15 PM
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amd girls are liking it why.?? Of course they like it, it benefits them. They don't find it attractive or want to date it though.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:13 PM
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ve figured out one topic to discuss with a couple people but can't seem to break away from that and am trying to avoid being that one-topic-guy. Good thinking. Keep trying to introduce new topics. Some will stick, some won't.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:12 PM
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ESPECIALLY during the first date? Zero provider behaviour. Zero commitment. Don't agree to anything in the future, at all. What if she thinks that we're on a date-date and not just a "let's see where this goes" type of date? It happens. Look......basically you want to sexually escalate, show zero provider potential. Pay for nothing. Avoid meal dates. Avoid sharing bills even. There isn't a huge hookup scene here and the vast majority of girls have boyfriends and are used to being asked out purel…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:14 PM
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Btw, i'm always very careful about this. I make sure i have proof that she agreed to do it, usually in the form of text or audio. She is trustworthy though, but i always make sure. You are heading for jail time. The courts will not accept your "proof". There will be a crying girl saying "he....he....he made me consent to being beaten up.... I was so scared I agreed.... sob, sob". And there will be you saying, literally, "She asked for it".
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:10 PM
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/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:07 PM
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Girl also stripped until recently Broken. Move on fast.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:07 PM
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She told me that on the night she was calling me she was sexually abused on the street. Likely an exaggeration. I’ve met her couple times since she came back and she is hurt, upset and I can see our relationship has went down big time. Is she hurt and upset.... or is she acting like this to elicit more beta commitment from you? I am trying to fix it, And I bet she's enjoying your efforts. She doesn’t accept my apologies With a flick of her wrist she turned you into a grovelling beta. Dude, you'r…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:06 PM
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These things really happen to real people and it scare the shit out of me Its rare. You know if you're dating a nutter long before that stuff happens. 99.99% of dumpings go fine apart from earache.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:03 PM
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y she said that she should be free but she has a feeling she has plans there but she forgot about them and that shell let me know not great, not terrible... i dont know how to counter this without coming off as needy. Ok. Simple but very difficult: You should have so many other options that you can do whatever you like with this information and not care. The problem you are having is that this girl has higher value than your other options, but you don't want her to know this. You see the problem…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:02 PM
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What am I doing wrong? Failing to fucking pay attention. PERSONAL ADVICE QUESTIONS GO ON ASKTRP.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 09:57 PM
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The fact that his girl was so apologetic even going as far as sending screenshots of her gps shows that it was just shit timing and shit circumstances. Nah, it was repeated changing of mind and disrespect. If she wanted to be there, she'd be there. She's also the type that is less structured and more free thinking, which means she's naturally shitty at being punctual and is a trait she has yet to strengthen. She won't strengthen this "trait". She's taking liberties and needs to be told the rules…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 07:50 PM
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I'm not trying to go on dates to smash. Just tell them upfront A few are responsive but vast majority want to trade value for the sex. Just wondering if the CC rider years have blown by. You SHOULD be going on dates to fuck them. Trading value for sex: this happens if they are over 30 and/or you are not attractive enough. Be hotter, date younger women. Also: you don't tell them up front. They don't offer you any favours or concessions, don't offer them any. Dangle the carrot of possible future c…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 07:49 PM
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Damn dude...... you gone fucked up. They are not going to take eviction lying down - expect the mother of all backlashes, possibly legal. The sooner you fix it the better off you'll be though. Don't sleepwalk into commonlaw marriage.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 11:02 PM
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What can I do to establish myself in the team and club in general and how should I interact with other members ? Be friendly and get good at the sport.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:46 PM
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If girl chooses a more awkward dorky kind of guy over a Chad what does she see in him that makes him more appealing? Security.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:45 PM
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I've always had this issue were I can't say no. I know it damages my frame and makes me look weak, but I can't stop saying yes to people's demands. You need their approval. If a LTR asks me to pick up something from the shop for her, or some friends wanting me to come to a club I don't like, I almost always say yes. Start saying no. Respect is more important than fleeting approval. Or...... ask her to get you things so it's more equal. If she refuses, use the same excuse on her next time, no mat…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:45 PM
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thought she was a unicorn. Unicorns don't exist. How is this hard to understand? monogamy is a social construct. monogamy is a lie What are your thoughts on them? What are the key lessons you have learned? How do I get rid of the anger phase Why are you angry? Because you believed the princess lie? I'd say your deal is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy better than marrying a frigid princess. Accept that life is actually better than presented and enjoy it.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:44 PM
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I can rent out a top pornstar for $1500 an hour, but i understand thats alot. Is that to much? How much is the best to spend so im not wasting cash? I can't believe you are thinking about blowing $1500 on this and are worried about wasting cash. Seeing a call girl might help. Plan on doing it a few times so you can relax. Don't get addicted to it.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:42 PM
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The ex didn't ruin her night on purpose, it was crossed wires Are you sure this bit is even true? to meet that woman's BF. That sounds fishy too What's next for me? Hard next? Soft next? She probably cheated. She certainly disrespected you. Hard fucking next.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:41 PM
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Rarely ever is her reason going to be because she is consciously trying to “disrespect you”.. The reason is always "Did not care enough to make the effort to be on time".
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:40 PM
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I can’t put up with people who show up late and disrespect my time. This is boundary setting and it's good, but recognise that girls need training up. It is going to happen. You have to handle it well. So ... Plate and I..... Then at 6:30 she says it’s moving slower than expected and gps is saying 7pm, at this point I keep my cool and tell her... hey I didn’t mind meeting at 7 or 7:30 but didn’t expect to wait for someone for an hour. Not the right way to handle this, but I'll tell you how to be…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:39 PM
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I don't know if I should tell them or not. Not. They can't legally ask this information, they don't even need to know. On one hand, it can help me because they'll feel bad not giving a job to a soon-to-be father NO NO NO NO NO. Stop that shit. It will NOT help you. They'll feel sorry for you, agree they should hire you, and then hire someone else. Get a job on your own merits. Sympathy doesn't work for men, pity even less so. On the other hand, they might think of me as a liability because I'll …
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:29 PM
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I dont how to best respond to this. "Come over". She'll be attracted but pretend to need to get to know you. Back and forth for a few messages. Then tell her again to come over. Ignore if she's a time waster.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:27 PM
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and cock blocking me every time I try to initiate a threesome Women in LTRs are threatened by threesomes. The more you provide (money, security) the more anti-threesome they get. They will often PRETEND to be interested in a threesome, but insist "you can't know her, or not know her, and she can't be prettier than me, or less pretty than me, and you can't spend any time or money on her". On one hand I'm kind of an emotional mess right now and I'm not sure I could handle a major breakup EITHER WA…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:27 PM
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Did I miss the women on the CC? Yes. CC is 18-30. They all seem desperate to get married and trying to do the virtuous thing now You say "now". Women go provider-crazy starting around 28-32 and lasting until they've had a few kids or no longer can. Avoid women in this age range, or filter them out easily by being an asshole and refusing to pay for dinner. I know it's all a lie but wonder if the inhibitions were lessened in the 20s-30s? What do you actually want, OP? If you want ...... wait......…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:24 PM
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This is well covered repeatedly here. Read main sub and sidebar. More importantly: lift and go out.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:21 PM
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Have you ever rejected a girl just because you could? Sure. No good comes of it. Sometimes I think rejecting a girl who's interested (and who I'd also be interested in) is more satisfying You are ego driven. No good will come of this either.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:20 PM
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