I was at a party with a few coworkers (all 18-22) and one girl ask me “why do you hate us”. I’m 20, tall (6’2), handsome, muscular and lean. At work I basically never talk to any of the girls (its all girls) and do some flirting but besides that have no interest in holding longer interactions and generally ignore all of them. I feel like I act too aloof to escalate. I feel like I act too aloof with everybody. It hinders my relationships both sexual and platonic. Question is: how aloof is too aloof?