Hello there friends,

I'm having this problem lately. My starting point I was shy, never got approached by girls talking to me/asking me stuff.

The problem is that when it happens I don't get all the possible outcome the conversation could become, why? I don't know. I'm a fun talkative guy generally and in my mind when I sometimes imagine those situations, but when they actually happen, It's like I forget everything what I would like to do it and I end up not doing it.

I also, shortly after those interactions, it's hard for me to remember what I exactly said or where I was looking while talking, or small details such as how were the girls dressing, etc...:

I will try to explain an example, today at the train as I sit down there is this group of 5 girls talking stuff, I by myself sit relatively close and mind my own business.

A few second later a girl asks me, and the conversation follows:

Girl:"¿Hey what are you studying?"

Me:"Computer Science"

Girl:"Nice, is it difficult?"

Me:"Yes, kind of"

And the conversation ends there, now in my mind I've imagined similar situations where I could be more cocky/talkative, ask her a lot of stuff, try to set up some kind of link between us, but when the moment comes, it's like I'm not me and I end up not doing what I want to do.

I know its kind of hard to understand, I just hope some people can relate to this and give some help.

Thanks.