I want to be more spontaenous, I don't want to be thinking that I could have said 'X' to start a conversation with 'Y' person, not only regarding girls but general.

Obviously with girls as well when it comes to seduction or initiating a conversation, I always think later on 'I could have said 'X'' or whatever... I just want to be more spontaneous and maybe fearless.

I've read the sidebar and stuff but I still can't manage to achieve this goal