How often do you guys get rejected?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-05-15T06:29:08+00:00

Conversion rates vary, but you wanna know what guys get laid the most? The guys who get rejected the most, because they are approaching.

forbesno1 · 2018-05-15T13:28:58+00:00

I go for and attempt to maintain a 1% total success rate, as in, getting laid.

I come from a sales management background so let me break it down.

You want a funnel. And you want prospects in that funnel. Getting laid doesn't happen if you only have one girl in that funnel. And you need to keep moving prospects from one part of the funnel to the next.

The stages I have are talk, number, meetup/date, makeout/basic sexual interaction, sex

About 8/10 girls I approach talk to me. So that's 20% already out of the funnel in the rejection bucket and 80% at the talking phase.

About 40% give me their number. That's 50% of those who talked to me but 40% of the total. That means 60% are in the rejection bucket. This is from cold approach, since I don't shit where I eat, so that's 60% girls I will never see again really.

Now, this 40% is where it gets interesting. I need to text and set up a date. About 3/4th of these flake. So that's 30% of the total that goes in the rejected bucket. However, unlike the earlier 60%, this 30% can be split into two groups, 20% girls I will never see again and 10% I might see again. I have their info. I've contacted them. I may hit them up a few weeks later or they may hit me up, and maybe we'll set up a date. About half of that 10% will actually meet me later. So of that 40%, 25% you'll never see again, and 15% you will. This is the 15% you need to focus on. 10% are the ones with high interest who are "warm" and the other 5% are the "cold" who you'll circle back to later.

Of these 10% you go out with, due to a variety of reasons, I disqualifying her or she disqualifying me, I won't ever see 3-4%. I will make out/oral sex etc. with 6-7%. I will have actual sex with about 4%. I will want to actually keep around 2. And these two are your plates. One is a short term plate who'll soon flake on you. And one is the dependable, long-term plate you will keep in your life.

Depending on where you are in terms of experience, you can choose to focus on each stage so that you get better at it and your problems become the next stage. And you should always try to increase your overall percentage. But at any given point in your life, there are only so many women you can realistically manage. Unlike a business, you can't ramp up production of you and your time.

acidbath6464 · 2018-05-15T06:23:23+00:00

A majority of my approaches arnt successful. Id say 60 percent. But the rejection doesnt sting like it use to, i recognize it as a part of the game which i learn and grow from.

Everyone gets rejected, learning to be okay with it the real lesson. You will succeed and you will fail, welcome to manhood. Roll with the punches and keep trying.

yaozy · 2018-05-15T09:24:12+00:00

It's hard to measure. Successful approaches could mean making a friendly rapport with a chick, or it could mean getting the lay. Guys on this subreddit love to go on about how the can fuck every chick they approach but thats all nonsense.

VasiliyZaitzev has got the right idea, care less about the rejections and more about just approaching.

rad_dynamic · 2018-05-15T10:08:16+00:00

A lot. Way more than I am successful. I'm constantly testing new ways to game and seeing what works for me. Calibration some would call it. I'm only 2 months into TRP and I need to figure out how to balance everything.

But remember, rejection is a sign of being active. You're actively seeking women to get rejected. Some guys are afraid of rejection that they won't take any action. Most guys let girls just drift into their lives, this significantly reduces the amount of pussy you're going to get, so you are going to want to always take action.

If you're getting rejected, know that you're atleast trying and you can change up your game next time. Never play the same game twice if it continually fails(gets you rejected)

anabolic92 · 2018-05-15T13:36:49+00:00

Not enough because I'm too afraid to approach

g4casting · 2018-05-15T17:10:40+00:00

Very little, because I mostly run social circle game, so it's pretty easy for me to gauge the situation. Also I'm very good at reading girls, so I don't take that many risks. If she doesn't seem interested, personnally I will never chase. I don't care enough.

Doesn't mean that I get laid every time I try something, but I don't get rejected either. It's more in the lines of some girls want more out of me and I don'y bend that way.

Title	How often do you guys get rejected?
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Date	May 15, 2018 5:49 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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