6 month lurker here. I'm still relatively new in my own journey, but I'm coming across something that I've struggled with since day 1. I have no problem getting and keeping plates, but I end up feeling guilty for seeing multiple women at the same time. I am very straight forward with them that I am not looking for anything serious now or in the future, but my BP mentality still creeps in and I usually drop contact with them and start over with new plates. No matter how many times I tell them I am not in it for a relationship, they always end up getting feelings. I shouldn't be having a problem with this because I've seen first hand how fucked up women can be (divorced - wife had affair). Any thoughts on how to overcome this?