Okay guys so long story short I work in an office in Belgium where the bosses are previous workers so they are approxamitly my age (28). So this boss (29yo) I work close with is very fucking hot HB 9/10 and she keeps throwing me sexual hints, IOI's and heavy kino. Its hard not to notice and she keeps hinting at when I'm gonna go out and get drunk. Obviously she wants me.

Now here comes the problem. I dont shit where I fucking eat. Especially if its just for meaningless sex
Exceptions are a thing, yes, but I know that just going 110% for it and getting my dick wet, is not gonna lead to anything great in the end except for an ego boost.

Please diagnose me if you believe this is oneitis, but with this girl I really dont want to just fuck her. She's the wifey-material type, and ticks all of my boxes (I know there is ones I would have to discover for myself, but currently she does). I would rather LTR this one instead of fucking her once.

So far I've been keeping frame, shrugging off shittests and returning 1/3 of everything she gives. Red Pill works wonders here, because so far its continous.

So can we make this an open discussion? How should I proceed?
I really want to go for this, but at the same time I dont want to go for it.
This is my optic: I'd rather have 1000 nights of amazing sex between 2 connected people than 1 night of hard fucking because of pure lust. This is a huge contradiction cause of my other optic: Dont shit where u eat! But its so fucking hard to resist.

Pls lets discuss