So yeah.... after months and month here on TRP and finally having control over PMO, I finally did my first approach.

Last thursday I managed to gain enough confidence to just walk up to this HB9 I saw at the gym.

 

I saw her working out with the weight sled so I thought I'd just walk up to her and ask if it was okay for me to join.

Through that I kept talking with her and we did alot of back and forth.

 

Key things I did while talking to her:

- Always tried to maintain natural eyecontact

- Hold frame/act natural

- Smile/grin (not showing teeth)

- Not give any compliments

 

Things I observed with her bodylanguage and what she was saying:

She did mention her father.

She kept piling up more weight and even said that she had never done that much weight before.

Never picked up her phone during the convo (alot of women tend to do that when they are uncomfortable)

 

After around 7-8 minutes of talking, my brother who was with me at the gym had finished and was on his way out, so I just wrapped it up and told her I wanted to get to know her, but I never asked for her number... (pussy, I know)

 

Fast forward to today.

I saw her again, at the gym, but this time a person I believe was her father had come with her.

He kept locking eye contact with me/stare me down.

I never went and talked to her because she never gave any eye contact or signals.

Sooo, yeah, quite the dilemma.

 

What are your thoughts?