I’m 17 and my friends are losers. And I’m not trying to say this as cocky because was like this myself like 6 months ago.

By losers I mean, they go out, drink with no girls, speak with no girls, they always try to “take over parties,” they never get invited to. They always talk about girls but when ever one is interested in them they find some reason to not to hookup with one. These guys much like myself a half year ago have never even kissed a girl (possibly one has but that was 4 years ago on a dare).

Today I am much different, I am a top ranked athlete in my sport, compared to last year where I didn’t even go positive (wrestling). I lost my virginity I hooked up with and made out with a lot of girls. My grades are the best they’ve ever been I’m getting into good colleges with the major I want (finance). I smoke and drink on occasion. And I have been have the best year of my life.

I’m writing this today because one day I was high with these two girls. And I set up a day for them and two of these two girls friends to hookup with them. Each girl was a solid 7.5. And were smart good people. That day is today.

I have had to push them and press them to try to even go and meet them, at a party I got them invited to. But they again tried to find an excuse. And when I called them out saying “stop finding excuses” one of them attempted to say I trying to act “alpha” because I had sex once.

Sometimes I resent these kids and sometimes I like them. I gave them exactly what they wanted and speak about but they still find excuses.

What should I do? Criticize me if I’m in the wrong.

Thank you