My husband recently started listening to podcasts by Rollo. He's tried to talk to me about hypergamy. He wants to be more masculine, but I find he is masculine (enough). My husband likes watching me have sex with other men. And I will admit that I do like the variety and all the attention. Yet, I am trying to understand this whole RP thing.

My husband is bi. And I accept that. He was raised by parents who told him never to fight, "because it's lowers you to their level." My mother -in-law has always hated sex. Her father and her husband both had sex with other women. My mother -in-law taught my husband that he was "better than that." She raised my husband with the belief that women don't enjoy sex. She raised my husband to believe that gentlemen respect women, and don't ask or need sex to be fulfilled.

I love my husband. And he is the only man I want to spend my life with. But . . . I also like that he likes to share me. My husband has tried to get me to believe that "sex is what other men are for." And I have found that other men are more than willing to have sex with me. Now, my husband wants to be more RP. Yet, he also says that he isn't ashamed of liking to be pegged or sharing me with other men.

My primary boyfriend is a hunter, rides a Harley, owns 5 homes. And he has other girlfriends, some married. My husband has said many times that he is "very alpha." I will admit that my boyfriend is very dominant, sexually. Yet he is also very much a gentleman. He understands that women (like me) prefer a gentleman outside of the bedroom, but prefer a sexual beast in the bedroom.

My question is . . . if my husband is a cuckold, bi, likes watching me have sex with other men, likes other men and women to know how small he is, and likes to be pegged, can he ever be considered a RP man?