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Need actionable advice for this particular situation

throwawaypls8

April 12, 2016

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This girl is attracted as fuck to me but idk how to fuck her because I've never done anything before (18 yrs)

gone out with her and other friends many times, always very flirty with me

last time we went out for drinks with friends and she was extremely receptive to my flirting and kino and constantly made allusions to meeting up and getting me drunk or showing me things at her place or hanging out together more. This is good I assume but I need specific pointers

do I just say "let's hang out at your place"? or do I try and isolate her from the other people when we go out with friends next time such an opportunity arises? don't feel like doing a coffee/getting to know her date is the best option here, I just want to fuck her asap and we're already quite familiar with each other

we have a few classes together but I don't give her much attention unless I can do some kino at the same time/flirt with other girls in front of her/laugh with my friends while she's there. How damaging to my game is it to continue talking/flirting with her in a context where escalation is impossible (class, studying, library, etc.)

can't do anything at my place btw, 100% need to do it either at her place or elsewhere

also I heard that making out is a bad idea if you can't escalate to sex right then and there. Is this true? How bad would it be to just make out with her one night and leave the fucking for another time

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Title	Need actionable advice for this particular situation
Author	throwawaypls8
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	April 12, 2016 12:17 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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[–]Futuretrophyhusb 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]throwawaypls8[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

If she's hinting at sex though

not directly, seeing as we haven't even kissed, but she's hinting at spending more time together outside of school most definitely.

you're going to need to make a move before long or she will lose interest

how long of a window do I have? college is pretty fucking overwhelming right now but we'll both be entirely free in ~5 weeks time. I don't plan on waiting that long to make a move but if circumstances don't permit would this amount of time hurt the opportunity too much? I've managed to keep a low level of sexual tension (flirting with other women seems to be the trick) for months now but it's definitely getting more and more intense.

right now the basic roadmap I have in mind is: at next drinking opportunity, go out with her and friends, ISOLATE properly (major road block for me, never can seem to do this well and I dislike the idea of making out in front of our mutual friends), make out. Then suggest we chill at her house soon after (another day).

A question about kissing though, seeing as I've never done that shit lmao, when you kiss her without opportunity to escalate into sex right after, do you just do it and continue on as if nothing happened after? Do you sporadically continue kissing her throughout the rest of the night, or just keep it at that one kiss? At the very end of the date do you kiss her again? How much is too much you know? sorry for the barrage of questions but I'd prefer my inexperience be mitigated enough so that I can blame any sloppiness and awkwardness on alcohol.

For specifics, read Sex God Method. Its a quick read.

got a download link?

And please, wear a condom.

certainly

[–]Futuretrophyhusb 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You should be able to find a copy of Sex God Method if you google it. Read Bang by Roosh as well while your at it. As far as a window, I'd say probably 3 weeks/3 dates.

Now, remember that NO MEANS NO. If she's uncomfortable, don't force her to do anything. Don't be creepy, and don't be rapey.

For your roadmap, that's perfect. No, you do not escalate right into sex. Ya'll need to build up some comfort first. If you can, go somewhere with a nice view. Bitches love that shit.

After you kiss, break off after 10-15 seconds and yes, act like nothing happened. Hold her and talk about some bullshit. Kiss her again soon. You'll know when she wants to kiss you cause she'll let her face get close to yours, and will be staring into your eyes fucking intensely. Maybe the second or third kiss you can go for second base.

As far as kissing specifics, YouTube Art of kissing. Its cheesy as hell, but it'll help you understand the basics. Don't be kissing her every 5 minutes, but get 1-5 makeouts in at the party. Yes, kiss her LIGHTLY goodbye.

PROTIP 1: While kissing, give her a light, playful push back, and then wink /smile at her.

[–]throwawaypls8[S] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Senior ContributorMentORPHEUS0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]throwawaypls8[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

reading her nonverbal communication

Body language right? Hers is consistently positive (turns towards me when sitting next to each other , finds excuses to be near me and expose her cleavage, touches me for no reason, does the "look at eyes then down then back up then flustered" thing, laughs at even the lamest of my jokes etc etc etc), and when she is drunk it is up to eleven (almost made out with her once before having my night cut short by a medical emergency). If you know of any links for what body language I myself should be adopting it would be appreciated, I think I struggle with optimizing how I sit/stand/walk sometimes.

I have that push-pull link bookmarked ;) it's a great resource

Should I wait for a group drinking event to come up in the next week or so or text her for a one-on-one date to go drink? I like doing group things because it's a fantastic opportunity for displaying social proof and a certain degree of preselection (I have many female acquaintances and friends that like to act touchy friendly and it helps a lot imo) but I think doing a "let's go somewhere else" thing for isolation is pretty smooth. Haven't done a one-on-one date since 9th grade and I was a mad pussy back then.

but wait for her to drop another hint about taking you there, and run with it then.

Optimally she'd organize a house party and I'd find an excuse to stay over, but until that happens she's playfully offered to prove to me that she has something I'm interested in that's at her house. idk how much of a hint that is or how much I can work with that.

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