Need advice on breaking up

menial_optimist · 2018-06-03T18:16:31+00:00

Either way you do it, there will be pain involved. You might personally feel the relief and freedom of no longer being in a relationship you don't want, but you will also feel immense sadness because you will witness her very upset and/or angry. If she is outgoing enough and has friends, know that she can and will probably find someone else eventually.

I am in a similar situation to you right now. I took this girls virginity and I'm her first serious anything these last 7 months and I was given an ultimatum I failed a week ago basically saying she can't just be FWB she wants a full LTR or she walks, and initially I said okay bye but then caved because of feelings and agreed to LTR. I know she is not LTR material at all for me and frankly I want to be single and not looking to focus more on my studies and work but the thought of her worlds destroyed and very upset gives me pause. I'm working up the balls to actually go through with it even though I know its best for me in the long term.

ishyman · 2018-06-03T14:29:09+00:00

Remind her the agreement that it was for tax purposes. Actually don’t. Tell her it won’t work and ghost her. You are literally destroying your future the longer you play this messy game.

Title	Need advice on breaking up
Author	KrimsonArrow
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	June 3, 2018 1:23 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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