Hey guys I am 18 years old (adult where i live), finished school and have so many things I need to change. I only had oral sex until now, do not have a huge social circle and am not fit. I do have the possibility to go to a great university and if I graduate there I can fullfill a dream. I have a bad work moral right now and need to fix the things I mentioned above to become the man I want to become. The decision I have to make now is to go study in 10 weeks or to work a year and then study. If I work a year before going to the university I'd have more money to spend and could focus more on self improvement. I could then join the university when I am in a good shape and have fixed all my errors. On the other hand this would put my dream 1 year away. I'd like to have some input from you guys.