Hello Redpillers, long time viewer first time poster here.
I'm in need of some advice, in the end Its down to me to decide, would just appreciate some opinions and wisdom "always have as much information as you can before you make a decision". Now my situation, I'm 25, 4 years ago went on PUA bootcamp, was good, but best lesson really was opening the gates, aka showing me the red pill view. Currently I'm in a relationship, it's a good one in terms of what you would look for, if you were looking that is. Dread game etc in good effect, so far so good... so far. But I'm at a crossroads, she will be working in another city which is pretty much essential for her career. I have plenty of Job opportunities after successful management program, and bright future ahead of me. I can easily get a job that won't be limiting to my career in the same city as her. I could also convince her If I wanted to take her with me at the jeopardy of her career. Two things: 1. This would be really out of character of me from the entirety of our two year relationship, it would come across as needy in my book "please move with me." She'd probably like me asking, but part of what keeps it alive is the fact I've been pretty aloof. 2. I'm not selfish enough to jeopardize someones career and future just on my whim, sure do what I want, but there's no guarantee of it continuing even after moving. Plus I don't want that constraint.
So realistically its no problem for me to move, for her much less so, I also would have no problem getting the fuck out of the city afterwards if need be, like I say plenty of career options.
Here's what I want to find out: Do I possibly use up my mid twenties, a big prime part of my life in a relationship? Albiet one with a girl thats got as little red-flag as possible. No she's not perfect, yes certainly AWALT, trust me all this is engrained on my mind, and its helped me plan my life goals and has helped me out the past 4 years (I'm fully committed to the philosophy) OR Do I break it off? I'm a good looking lad, in good shape, so other options aren't a problem BUT will I miss out on a good relationship. I may struggle to find a girl with such a low n-count and potential partner down the road. She also knows I don't want to marry and still wants to give it a go (she says at least, but you know women always wanting commitment). It's worth noting my two of my long term goals (among many) - Have Kids, my own personal reasons bad Father, want to do it right, whether its as a single parent IDC, its also our natural prerogative to pass on our genetics.
Any way thanks for what advice you can give. Please be constructive, older more experienced Red-Pillers who've been through some life lessons especially weigh in your two cents.
TL,DNR: Break-up and try some more of the world. Or stay with good potential long term partner, fits with goals.
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