(Just for clarity, my “RP metamorphosis” is only a little ways out of the typical monk mode (a year to be exact ) so any criticism is not only welcomed but needed .)

After months of practicing my social skills to the extreme, I finally managed to balance a few plates and I can immediately see how game changing this is for my life, but the issue comes with plate #3.

Shes by no means a 9 or a 10 but due to our social lives we see each other the most and I hate to admit it but I enjoy her company the most out of the three but lately I’ve had trouble keeping her spinning, mainly because she’s the typical 1,000,000 Snapchat score type of girl.

At a night out with a group she’s amazing to hang out with, good kino, then will suddenly talk to one of my mates for the rest of the night in a very obvious, “I want you to be jealous move”. (This is down to the making sure I know who’s she’s texting while she’s next to me levels)

Trying to use my TRP thinking hat I’ve just been ignoring it and showing more interest in her also attractive friend and at first it felt good but it’s quickly drawn to a stalemate.

This also adds to the random awkwardness that I’m told she “has with all boy she’s likes”

I’ve considered talking to her about it but I don’t know if that sets me too much into the LTR.

What course of action could I take in order to

1.) Stop her attempts at jealousy and keep the plate spinning

2.) Make sure this situation doesn’t come up again