I am writing on my phone, bear with me.
I am 19 year virgin male in University as a sophomore. I have Asperger's and come from a shitty family where my dad is bipolar and a narcissist. Anyways, as a result of things in my sob story of a background, I have never really had any actual friends and never had a girlfriend. My dad sent me to an all boy Catholic high school for religious reasons where I later transferred to a public high school my senior year. At the private school, I was the butt of the joke for being Indian/Asperger's and all that stuff. In the public high school, everyone ignored me. In my freshman year of University, I made sure to never let my high school experience happen again. I discovered PUA, but found that I had severe limitations in social situations. I worked on improving my looks and muscles. I now look like an 8 (a 9 if I didn't have glasses). I get IOIs from girls. My Asperger's isn't stereotypical one you guys think, I am for the most part normal now. I don't even blame it for my problems right now. I can recognize things social things of other people thanks to the TRP and PUA, but cannot really do them myself. I don't know how to actually be friends with men and approach/seduce girls. I don't know what to say in conversations. I think a lot of my problems come from the lack of social experience. I tried online dating, Craigslist, and even reddit's r4r, but they were never successful. TRP says I need to be social yet I don't know how. I need a wingman or something. Any tips?
I am also looking for a wingman near Detroit, Michigan to teach me the ways of a social life.
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