So i've been seeing this girl for a while now....and while she wasn't hell yes about me and i'm pretty sure she's not atm i kinda like that she's been straight with me 100% and we've been having fun for a while...even though i'm pretty sure i'm more invested than she is. But i'm not even that mad...i don't know what will happen but i'm having fun with what it is and hopefully i won't fall over if this is going to be put to an end.

The issue i'm asking about is that she keeps telling me she can't be herself when i'm out with her and her friends. She says she feels like she can't have that much fun because it feels like i'm holding her back or something...i dunno. She's the curious type and talkative and fun...but when i'm out with her and her friends she just kinda sits there and doesn't really say much. It feels like she's ashamed or something ....she isn't really telling me the whole truth i'm sure.

I'm curious if any of u RP'ers ever had this kind of situation and if there's anything i can do to solve this. The only thing i've thought about is just not go with her when she's out with her girlfriends and let her have her fun...but she says she doesn't want that. She wants to be able to have fun with me and them like we used to when there was nothing between us.

Any thoughts?

Also i know this sounds beta as fuck and prolly most of the replies will me oneitis or next or demote to plate...but if anyone has some other comments besides that i would like to hear some advice.

Thanks