So I've been in monk mode for the past year working on my career, just started lifting again, and trying to get my life back on track from a huge life event.

I have to live with my parents now (27yo) due to this life event until my career can take off more. I'm spending this time saving as much as I can, stopped drinking and smoking, etc. trying to take all the steps I need to act my age.

There is this girl I really like but if I try and go for her now I think she will not respect my SMV and I will fall flat. She just got out of a 6 year relationship and she's only 22. I know she is going to want to go on her fuck spree and be single for awhile and I'm hoping to get my shit together by the time she gets her fix and is looking to settle again.

I'm not onenitising her because I'm still focusing on me and could care less if it doesn't work out because at the end of this I'll be able to be back on my game and get who I want. BUT she is a 10/10 low count and career focused girl. She dumped her ex because he just wanted to party and she's working 2 jobs and going to school.

The questions are should I be waiting or should I plant the seed in her head now. Also she is attention whoring like crazy and I don't want to be an orbiter but I honestly don't want to start anything with anyone now. What do y'all this I should do?