I'm new to the red pill so I would really like some insight from all you veterans.

I met this girl online who just got out of a 4 year relationship in February.

She was really cool and sweet and unexpectedly very very sexual. She was a fucking freak. Wanted me to choke her, pull hair, use toys and even mentioned getting slapped in the face. At one point she wanted to play out a rape fantasy.

She was also very loving, and talked about things that quite frankly I thought was a little too soon like mentioning us having kids lightly, she told me she developed deep feelings for me and it scared her because be of her ex.

I've asked her out twice and was turned down. Finally I asked if there was anyone else she was talking to and she said there was one guy that she's hung out with twice but nothing's happened. Not even kissed. I told her that I don't think I could take her talking to any other guys and she said she wouldn't because she really liked me.

Within the next week the text messages started dying out. We hung out a couple times and she still kissed and cuddled me but no sex. I finally got fed up and asked what was wrong. She said she knows I want her to be my girlfriend and she's wait for the "lightbulb" to come on to date me so it just hasn't. I asked again if she was seeing anyone and maybe that's why the texts stopped. She said no but she always felt I didn't trust her. I told her that maybe we should take a break and I could tell she didn't want to but I kept my foot down.

We stopped talking for about a week and she texted me being the way she was when we first started texted. Even threw in some sexual statements. I get a text from her in the morning and night but never in between.

I don't know if I should stop talking to her or not. I also would like to know if there's somewhere I went wrong that I'm not seeing.

Any advice would help!