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fatgymrat/r/askTRP10/02/16 01:25 PM
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"At my work cafe'' ​ dont shit where you eat. ​ ​
/r/askTRP05/01/19 01:46 AM
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im sure theres subconcious and concious reasons behind it, as i have noticed it myself, too. ​ sluts are usually more outgoing, more funny, more 'guy' like than lower n-count women. id guess that its from traits they pick up from the multiple men theyve known. that makes it easier to relate to them as a male, on a concious level, id assume. ​ on a subconcious level, maybe we as males know that there is a higher possibilty of being able to spread seed with them, and sluts always seem to know how …
/r/askTRP05/01/19 01:42 AM
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That's because it is the ultimate red pill truth. The ultimate power women have over men, is a man's emotional investment. It is their ultimate validation, their ultimate power. That you are literally under their spell. the look on her face when he says its helped his other relationships=dull. "i get jealous of kate"= looks up with a smile. "however the jealousy is diminishing"= looks down and smile disappears. cant make this shit up. that ponytailed eunuch is gonna need a load of therapy
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 01:13 AM
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yes and no. if youre after a ltr, it sets a bad precedent as anything after will be compared to that level of date. eg. a year down the line "why are we getting a take away when he used to take me to nobu". if after a quick smash/fwb then it can work in your favour as she might try to lock you down. use basic trp ideas to withdraw and drag it out. stating shes ltr potential without knowing her is an issue though. if you are 'treating her' on the first date, then it automatically gives her the up…
/r/askTRP02/08/17 04:08 PM
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you were one of a number of guys, the sex was your audition. someone else offered a seemingly better package. 'no worries' and done
/r/askTRP26/07/17 09:23 PM
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the question in the title is irrelevant as it pertains to a situation which you have gauged wide off the mark. you think shes gonna make you jealous at this bbq to stir your emotions and make you get her, when in reality you are just another orbiter at the bbq. the whole virgin thing is way off. virgins are just regular women with higher lmr and asd. the af/bb dynamic still comes into play. you sound young, so take the L lightly, move on and learn from this for future women. this one is done.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 05:18 PM
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ah man, im glad you found this place. reading your post on that amiugly sub, and the posts here, coupled with getting banned on foreveralone, youve got a lot of work to be done beyond losing weight. you keep trying to get a score rating of yourself out of 10. how will that help. see yourself as nothing more than a blank canvas, one that will need work on every level until you reach inner peace with yourself. the mindset is the biggest hurdle really. work hard at improving your physique, grow a b…
/r/askTRP09/07/17 11:43 PM
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best case scenario is she simply doesnt value your time. worst case is the above, plus shes fucking other guys(s). actually the worst case is that you carry on with this joke of a situation. value yourself. if youve made plans with her, there should be no reason why shes breaking them, unless she sees you as plan c as someone else mentioned. it should piss you off that she views you like that.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 12:04 AM
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good for you. you recognised bad behaviour, and what was really going on, and nipped it in the bud. people calling you out for the last message, but who cares about the medium, whats important is the message, and that message is that you wont stand for that behaviour and you wont be put on the back burner. many a bp man are chasing their girl harder in the same situation.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:22 PM
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wasting your time
/r/askTRP12/06/17 02:03 PM
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How do I proceed? be prepared for the flake. how you move past it is more important than this chick who has taken more dick than you want to imagine during the last 2 years.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 10:28 AM
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escalate (invite out, move towards sex) if (1) is not achieved (flakes, excuses etc) then a. next b. ignore this is weird because its sort of a loop/paradox/whatever youd call it. if you want to get with her, but havent escalated, how do you know shes an attention whore. but if you know shes an attention whore, why would you bother trying to get her
/r/askTRP17/05/17 10:25 AM
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escalated too fast for a slow build up, or escalated too slowly for a same night bang. if you are looking for a chick to get to know, chat to a bit through text etc, dont feel them up the night you met them. you need to be a lot more laid back for that. by escalating too fast, it causes asd which makes them clam up a bit the next time you see/talk to them, and also confuses them as you are throwing out mixed signals (i wanna fuck you now, but ill play the longer sweet boy routine. they dont know…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 10:19 PM
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Cringey
/r/askTRP09/01/17 05:09 PM
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you got a threesome out of it, youre up atm. cut loose of that crazy situation and get a new job before you end up being a loser (jail, married to her, father to her child etc)
/r/askTRP28/12/16 01:04 AM
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congrats on doing the cold approach, getting the number, and getting a date out of it. people sometimes say that its the end result that matters, but if you dont try to get there, how can you learn and improve, so well done for trying. it was all going well imo until just after watching the movie. 'texting is for logistics' is cool, but you didnt have any rapport so you built it through text and pushed for the date, no problem. after the xmas eve film though, you became too needy, you became to …
/r/askTRP28/12/16 12:56 AM
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imo the best answers are Docbear64 and edwardhwhites posts. you asked a girl if she wanted to be with you, direct to the point, not the best way but you acted rather than lurked, so good on you. she said no. its not a slur on you, just means she doesnt see you like that for whatever reason, many of which could have absolutely nothing to do with you. however the interesting bit is where she said "are you serious?". i doubt this was meant in a malicious way, but rather a friend asking another frie…
/r/askTRP25/11/16 01:14 AM
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My question is did I end up sounding too butthurt with my response? If I had a clearer head and more time to think maybe I would have said something different. I don't know. The ideal situation would be to be able to plate this girl again in the future as a way of proving to myself I can become emotionally detached and plate an old oneitis who has proven to not be LTR material anymore. I can't help but feel like there was more to that "apology" than the actual message and don't know if I handled…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 05:32 AM
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what a twat. she has lost a lot of weight, and does look a hell of a lot better than before, but at the ripe old age of 30. the new found attention from men who 'are her type' will last how long? 5 years, 7 years tops? short sighted harlet. thing that strikes out to me is that he is just a normal guy. he met a woman who was morbidly obese, who couldnt have children, but he saw something in her that he wanted to marry her. now that shes lost weight, and getting attention from people who are her t…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 01:20 AM
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the kids yours
/r/askTRP25/10/16 11:28 PM
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firstly, read the sidebar if you havent, cos you need it. women dont speak overtly. what she said to you appears overt, but its all 'womanese'. the truth of it is hidden under the layers of shit she said. See, everything you're doing for me I can do twice as much for you and more. I would do it but I just need to feel it and I need my own time dude I'm not easily convinced or triggered by anything = keep doing what youre doing, in the hope that ill reciprocate. i wont but im trying to get you to…
/r/askTRP24/10/16 01:21 AM
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short version- wasting your time. in real life shes yanking your chain, and youre falling for it. its what they do. she has nothing to offer you other than the allure of intimacy, so shes offering iois aplenty to keep you hooked. giving you her number means nothing, just keeps her phone blowing up. shell happily ignore the multiple texts she gets from guys each day, it makes her feel wanted. awalt always, its laughable to me now. this playbook is ingrained into their dna. let her come to you (an…
/r/askTRP15/10/16 12:48 AM
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for me, yeah. (be warned, a lot of rambling here, but thoughts ive got rattling in my head) i always knew it was the way forward, i just kept putting it off for years. then last year, had my heart ripped out my ass brutally, and signed up to a gym, mainly for something to take my mind off of it. week later found trp, and saw all the 'lift' posts. was already starting that so trp wasnt the thing that pushed me in that direction. but yeah, its important for a few reasons. it makes you lose weight,…
/r/askTRP11/09/16 09:44 PM
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sometimes I run into her and see her from a distance and I feel as if (as sad as this is) a hole is being ripped out of me, physically leaving me unable to focus or breath calmly promise you, this feeling will subside the more you 'see' her, and the more you improve. if you chose to do nothing, you will always have that feeling. if you have no reason to be anywhere she would be, simple solution would be to move. its often stated here to lift, but the gym was my safe haven when i would run into m…
/r/askTRP11/09/16 09:15 PM
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Ignore the I was hurt in the past, they all say that even if they haven't been. If you go all soft and enquire further into that bs you're not man enough for her, if you ghost youre an asshole. She turned her head deliberately. She's subconsciously testing you. Ignore her perceived feelings and invite out again, building rapport and comfort. Go in for the kiss when it feels appropriate she wants/needs you to
/r/askTRP11/09/16 05:41 PM
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q1: why bother if you still wont have cool shit to put on there. build the life first, online is a shit show anyway q2: why not aim to create real social status in the outside world q3: try, and fail many many times. thats how you get real world experience. q4: reads very creepily. just focus on yourself for now, the other parts will come in time.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 12:03 AM
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no, not flat out doesnt. she just doesnt see you as good enough to jump in feet first. she thinks she can do better, so shes keeping you tethered using sexual texts and wishy washy emotional jargon while she looks for that person. if you want an ltr with her, she must have some nice qualities about her. cool, but atm you arent enough for her. just the way it is. knowing this, do you really want an ltr with a woman who viewed you as a cock placeholder? runner up prize for her? my ego couldnt allo…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 11:45 PM
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oh ok. she was weighing up the options. she had you where she (correctly?) assumed you wanted a LTR, so put you on the shelf while she spoke to other guys. she knows she cant tell you she fucked other guys, thus 'we never even kissed'. who knows whether she did or not. whatever happened, maybe they legit didnt fuck, or the guy pumped and dumped her, shes come back to the relative safety of you. what you need to decide on is your plan of action. if you can safely continue this no strings attached…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 11:15 PM
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a) you still fucked her though, right? no man will give a fuck what she says, if she ever would say that, cos you still beat. dont have to be a virgin to last 30secs either. youll last longer round 2. b) dont need to do that in the first place. youre overthinking the whole virgin thing.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 11:09 PM
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its not clear whether you have actually slept with her or not. the way im reading is is thus: met girl online communicate with girl, girl gets sexual, mentions list of stuff she wants to do with you asked to meet in person twice. shot down both times. insecurities arose, asked if youre in competition within next week, you hang out. cuddle, no sex. she knows what you are really like now, throws you a canned 'im not sure. you dont trust me' bs speech you soft next. she ropes you back in with sexua…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 10:52 PM
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if this was a woman without kids, fair enough. to play devils advocate, imagine being a single father with a small child, and you wanna go on a date. you cant just drop everything for this woman. same applies for her. if she did dump off her kid anytime a man wanted to take her out, and there are women who do, shed be a shitty mother. maybe shes not. maybe she couldnt get a relative to look after it, or she cant afford a baby sitter, or the childs sick, or..... in hindsight, it would have been b…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 10:41 PM
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I've had this not too long ago. My take on it is that when you first find trp you are angry because you reflect on past interactions through a new lens, and realise all the times you were misled and taken for a ride. Later on, you experience similar things but now with trp knowledge, you get angry that you are still getting that treatment. With hb9, imo you were a backup plan for her, just incase her main plans failed. Or to make herself feel good "all these guys wanna hang out with me". Instead…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 09:15 PM
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youve got oneitis over a girl youve never met. read that again, and hopefully common sense will prevail. you arent infatuated with her, youre head over heels over the image of her you created of her. youve placed all of your wants and desires in a woman onto her, without even knowing her. seeing as i know her as much as you do, heres what i 'know' about her. she has a high body count. had a threesome 2 months ago, or so i heard. she hates kids. doesnt want them in the future either. she cheats o…
/r/askTRP13/08/16 02:00 AM
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you just have to calibrate is all. atm you are trying, subconciously or otherwise, to not be a 'nice guy', so you are swinging to the opposite end. after a while, youll find your own happy medium.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:14 AM
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interesting. someone i follow on insta posted that pic today. his caption is the perfect rebuttal http://imgur.com/mgCH9oL
/r/askTRP12/07/16 04:35 PM
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I will of course ask upfront about it.. but don't know how to emphasize that it is a priority... Also there is a high probablity of being lied to as seen above. youre fucked. even in a society where arranged marriages arent the norm, women will lie about their body count. in a situation where her parents are involved from the start, where her social standing and other marital prospects are at jepordy, do you really think shell say ''yeah ive slept with 3 other guys but now im ready to settle dow…
/r/askTRP31/05/16 07:06 AM
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sounds like a set up
/r/askTRP27/05/16 12:43 PM
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move on bro
/r/askTRP14/05/16 04:48 AM
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main thing is you had fun. if youre a first year, youre around 18/19 im guessing, so its no big deal you have plenty of time to learn and grow. as for what to do when you approach, just talk. dont make it about scoring or not, just meet people. in a club, i go to the smoking area and ask for a light. its an ice breaker, then introduce myself etc. majority of the time it goes nowhere other than a nice chat, but such is life.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 04:42 AM
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do shit. thats the best way. the MAJORITY of women out there have nothing going on past the basics and benign shit that every other woman is doing. make your life fun and interesting for yourself, and then let a woman come along for the ride. she doesnt think its 'good enough'? oh well, you fucking love what youre doing anyway so who cares.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 08:26 PM
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she didnt take your virginity, youre not a female. you fucked some chick, and later on in the relationship she didnt want you. its a shot to your ego and self confidence. a prossy wont help that imo. what it might help with is realising that women aint shit but tricks and hoes! once you nut with a hooker, all youll want to do is gtfo of there as fast as possible. personally, i wouldnt go that route (just yet) as itll make you feel worse. youll may start thinking "ive had to resort to paying for …
/r/askTRP27/04/16 08:19 PM
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go full on monk mode. seriously. this is beyond odd.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 02:49 PM
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shes fucking with you. keep your distance, let her come to you, dont cave in easily. also, start looking for a replacement prom date.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 02:09 AM
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its funny reading the comments, but its also sad that you are arguing with those that are giving you opinions. i doubt theres any man on this sub who hasnt had a text convo go this way. what shes doing is gently letting you down. how often do girls/women flat out say 'stop messaging me, im not interested'. hardly ever. hypothetical scenario. you own a successful business, and you cant go leave till 6. people depend on you being there till that time. are you going to close early that day for this…
/r/askTRP28/03/16 10:56 PM
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you're better than this whore she cant respect you while you pander to her every whim after she cheated on you. its not her fault, its just the way shes wired. you are wired to be disgusted by a loose woman. be disgusted. she called on friday to make sure she still has her fallback beta in line. you proved you are, so back to the whoring for her. move on from this one, shes a lost cause edit- just wanna add some thoughts. Since she broke the "space" agreement without being ready at all she cheat…
/r/askTRP21/03/16 11:41 PM
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Next her
/r/askTRP14/03/16 02:06 AM
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Next her
/r/askTRP14/03/16 02:06 AM
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I said sorry for something I shouldn't have, and my girlfriend literally said I'm dominant (as in she is). After saying telling her to fuck off, she said "sure submissive." How should I respond? who gives a shit. dont call/message/intiate contact first. whoever does first is the real submissive partner (dont let it be you)
/r/askTRP09/03/16 09:52 PM
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do what you want to do. thats the best thing you can do. she wants you more because of, not in spite of, those women wanting you around. she tells you she doesnt want you around them, but really what she wants is to be the one who gets to keep her all to herself. problem is, once she gets her way, shell lose interest. youve been won, and then shell start looking for the next wild beast to tame. do what you want to do, not what she wants. ofc provide comfort etc
/r/askTRP06/03/16 10:51 PM
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wouldnt bother me. what would bother me is the story behind how she smoked weed. who she bought it off, if she even bought it (did she twos some stoner), who she smoked with etc. but the actual weed part of it imo is not a big deal
/r/askTRP06/03/16 09:49 PM
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ugh. dont text other than logistics. its often mentioned for a reason. face to face only, or failing that a short 20 min max phone call. and definitely not 5 days in a row. why are you even messaging her if shes in a ltr. if she was looking to branch swing from her bf to you, you wouldnt need to put much work in. shes using you for the emotional/validation side of things, and getting the sex from her ltr. reason why she started replying to you with one word answers? she was messaging you instant…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 01:31 AM
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ignore, A&A or amused mastery. ignore and change the subject
/r/askTRP18/02/16 01:23 AM
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its def an experience, nothing wrong with being an emotional guy, just dont let a woman see it too much. a little can go a long way though, as long as you balance it out with machismo. but yeah, forget about her, move on, delete the number etc. work on yourself. she aint worth caring about anyway. girl like her would fuck a snake
/r/askTRP17/02/16 01:15 AM
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good on you for wanting to improve your situation read the side bar and live life
/r/askTRP16/02/16 05:21 AM
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that is up to you. abundance mentality and outcome independence are relavant here, in that there are plenty of other women out there who dont have kids if thats a complete no-no, and also that if you have a good time with this woman, just go on a second date. it doesnt mean youre gonna end up having to be a surrogate father to her child. if you have fun, have fun! id suggest reading trp angled posts about single mothers though http://www.returnofkings.com/31153/8-essential-rules-for-banging-a-si…
/r/askTRP15/02/16 06:49 PM
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G sounds like an alpha. i would remain friendly with him, and learn his ways.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 04:03 PM
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she shot you down in flames. if she was a friend, shed wanna go with you as 'friends', or if not still be kind and let you down gently. as a romantic interest, shes a cunt. delete the number.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 04:01 PM
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My analysis was she saw being a single mom as a con to her value. recently talked about this with a female friend who displays red pill traits. she has a kid, and is very aware of how it lowers her smv, and that it makes finding and keeping a quality male much harder. i think deep down, all single mothers know this, it just depends on how they rationalise it. i wouldnt personally take offense at this woman 'hiding' the fact she has a kid. nothings gonna change the fact she has a kid, so would yo…
/r/askTRP15/02/16 03:57 PM
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first off, we've all been there. well i have anyway. you start off being genuinely friends with a girl as you dont have any other feelings towards her, then as you 'get to know her' (feels stupid saying that, as the things that you really need to know, she won't tell you, so you never really know her) you start feeling as though shes amazing/the one/different from the rest/a unicorn bla bla bla. shes not. AWALT. look at what she said. "you are my best friend" she probably sensed a shift in your …
/r/askTRP15/02/16 02:24 PM
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keep the convo through text to logistics only. its often mentioned here for good reason. imo, next time you meet, ask her out (you say the time and place). if she says anything but yes (or a reschedule), next. youll get your answer either way.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 05:06 PM
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your only mistake so far is continuing to message her with date plans. dont make another by apologising. delete the number so that you cant message her again
/r/askTRP08/02/16 12:40 AM
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if shes your friend, and you arent oribiting, then no its not beta imo. you are making your friend feel good about themselves.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 12:37 AM
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her 'love' for you atm wont be permanent. right now she does, until a prospect she deems as more worthy appears. you barely doing anything is probably why shes so smitten in the first place.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 06:30 PM
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im personally very pessimistic in general, so my first reaction to that is validation seeking. she said she wants to, but hasnt yet done it? she wants to see your reaction. if you act excited, she gets validation. if shes genuinely a friend, just say yeah sure, and give a time, if it fits with your plans. she comes for lunch (she pays for herself), you have a nice time etc. makes no difference to you whether she does or not. have you done anything recently to warrant the increased texts/interest…
/r/askTRP06/02/16 06:28 PM
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you dont have to be mute. just dont speak to her. (again, unless she comes to you. if she starts a convo, reply, be cool, be yourself, but never tell her anything specific, eg. i went on a date last week, she was a great person). YOU know why you dont wanna speak to her, SHE knows it to. difference is she doesnt care. ive been through the same thing youre going through. shitting where you eat is a bad idea, but thats all well and good in hindsight. from things that helped me: you can improve you…
/r/askTRP06/02/16 05:38 AM
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shes a slut. why respect a slut you arent banging or gonna bang again? just treat her like another colleague who you barely know, and dont get into conversations with her. dont say hi when you pass each other unless she does first, dont talk about relationships etc, just be a rock. she doesnt matter, shes irrelevant. youre just there to get paid, she doesnt need to know what you get up to outside of work. also lift weights if you arent already doing so.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 04:29 AM
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the way im working on solving issues like this is to take a step back and evaluate the situation. so in your case lets look at the known facts (at least in your mind they are facts, but what it comes down to is what you believe is true is the key, its your frame. anyway). you attract women, you are getting compliments. this woman wants to see you again there was touching so if those things are true, why wouldnt she want to kiss you? you are the prize, kissing her is a treat for her, not you. not…
/r/askTRP06/02/16 03:55 AM
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soreness isnt an indication of progress. 95lbs squat (including the bar?) isnt that much. try upping the weight and working to failure on other excercises.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 03:42 AM
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dont do it, especially if you havent fucked her. best case scenario: you end up having sex with her on the trip. great. worst case scenario: she tells you on the trip that shes been fucking someone else. youve paid for her to be there, you aint getting any, youll feel like a chump and youre stuck with her for the duration of the trip. the above scenario happened to me just before swallowing the red pill, even though i had slept with her before and during the trip. never again.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 03:35 AM
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where in trp does it say to do what you sent to her? it was painful to read that. you need to delete her number and keep working on yourself. where you went wrong imo is: 1. you contacted her randomly. she didnt message you etc. 2. you acted very needy 3. the ratio of messages you sent vs received is off kilter. 4. you pandered to her (i know where to take you etc). who gives a shit where she wants to go, if she wants to go with you shell go anywhere. 5. you wrote essays about your feelings, and…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 02:07 AM
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When it was clear she wanted to get away from him, I went in. Struck up a nice convo, other guy got scared off so you went in, shield and sword drawn, ready to white knight a bitch. to you it might have seemed she wanted to get away from him, but she ended up doing the same to you If I see this girl again, what's my status with her? you have no status in her eyes. it wasnt a shit test, you just white knighted, validated the 'hottest girl in the club' for 10mins, and got aired. take it on the chi…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 03:54 AM
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