So I’m coming here for a little help. A little about me: I’m in college, tall(6”3), above average looks and in a great fraternity at our school.

All the girls i hang out with are beautiful, but I have friend zoned myself with all of them. I had an interesting upbringing, which I figure has contributed to my natural inclination to just make friends with girls.

Only problem is i don’t just wanna be friends with girls. I want to change my image that I’m a guy to have a good time with, not a guy that you know you’re safe with.

I’ve read the sidebar, i know what I’m supposed to do but it feels so unnatural to me. I just want to reach my potential and I’d love to know what i can do different. I already lift and have had good complements on my progress so don’t just tell me to lift and read the sidebar.

I will put this out there that i don’t like cold approaching random girls at the bar, so i feel like that’s the area i could improve the most.