My (23M) gf (19F) and I are currently two hours distance separated.

Because of my work, I didn’t expect to be able to meet around Christmas, but we already have plans to spend New Years together.

Yesterday I found out I’ll have 3 days off next week for Christmas, so I told her this and that I’ll go see her.

She then starts saying how she already has plans to stay the night at her friends house (also 19F) and she feels bad to cancel at the last minute so if I go, at least on the 24th she wants her friend to be with us too.

I expected her to be really happy about me going to see her, and make time for us,but her reaction strikes me as disrespectful.

Last night I wanted to talk about it, but she ended up going out with that same friend until late at night and having a lot of attitude/arguing.

I’m on the edge about going to see her now, and when I go for New Years before I leave I plan on breaking up with her and going NC.