Hi there folks.

i have been seeing my main plate ( usually have 0-2 more girls spinning) for a year now. She just dumped her fiance of 5 yrs to have a shot with me. My conditions were that I still fuck other girls while she is only with me. She claims that she is alright with this as long as i do not fall for other girls and give her most attention. I havent been in a LTR for almost 4 years- moved overseas, monk mode for a year, then more or less successfully spinning plates. I have some huge trust issues from my last LTR which blew into my face like a motherfucker. The new girl is doing stuff for me, very feminine, pays for dates, puts an effort, cooks, give me lifts etc. Usual minor shit tests of course happen- girls will be girls. But today she went out for drinks with a guy ( we both know him, he is drinking his sorrows after his wife left him a week ago, im 95% sure she would not sleep with him). She knew i cant go out tonight (still asked if i wanna go ), she got sure that i know that our mutual friends made sexual jokes about them going out together (cuz she was engaged no one knows we're screwing) and i think it was a major dread game play attempt on her behalf. The question is - should i trust a girl who was screwing me behind her mens back for a year (they were in ldr at that time)? Why would she be going out without me if not for some fishing/ attention seeking/ window cock shopping? She promptly messaged me after few hours that evening was fun and she is going home. Am i superbly overthinking this Still have my multiple doubts if i should invest more in that girl. Could use some objective manly advice.