I'm trying to learn text game and I feel like I am getting conflicting input in how to text. I have watched some videos of rsd and what not and they suggest being fun and flirty and some people suggest being straight to the point and no bs.

Here is an example. I am going to text a girl to get her on a date would I text something like hey dork ;) How are your shuffleboard skills

Then work with what she says and in a couple texts set up a meet up

Or go straight for a meet up. Something like hey Amy, let's grab that drink. When are you free this week

My gut feeling is the fun and lighthearted one is better but I am totally clueless with text game