I’m 22. Was out with a group related to my field of study yesterday and I saw a new chick. I talked with her and her friend. I got along with both chicks well, but the chemistry with this particular one was great. She very feminine and had a nice body and face. I even flirted with her and asked her when she was gonna make me some Mexican food when she was telling me about how she cooks bomb food at home (I’m Kenyan and she reciprocated and said I should make her food from my country as well, so potential date idea here). I didn’t get the chance to get her contact information but the Instagram page of our association posted me to their story, and I think that’s how she found me and followed me on Instagram. On my IG, I have photos of me and different groups of friends, as well as fashion shots and a pic of my pet.

I was thinking about hitting her up in a week and asking her out, but there’s one thing; we’re in the same association. I have this “don’t shit where you eat” policy, but in 3 months I graduate and leave the association and likely won’t ever see her again in person. We also don’t have meetings in person often, they’re usually over Zoom due to COVID.

What would your next move be? And if you chose to message her, what would your message look like? I never slide into DMs, I usually just do everything in person, which is why I was gonna wait to see her again and ask her out but she went ahead and followed me first, and you know how quickly women lose interest.