A little background information: A week ago I got drinks with a friend of a friend. The date went fairly well. Good escalation, eye contact, etc. Made out with her before getting in my car then broke it off before getting in and acting like nothing happened. Suggested we watch a movie back at my place. She agreed, put on some movie and proceeded to make out for the duration of the movie. Tried to escalate to sex, but she stopped me. Made some comment on how shes recently single and is not emotionally ready for that blah blah. I freeze her out a little, watch the movie and pay little to no attention to her and eventually she comes over to me and re initiates. Try to escalate again and I'm met with the same walls. In the end, I never broke down the LMR and we parted ways. Kissed before leaving, a little teasing on both parts and that was that. Not exactly the outcome I hoped for, but I had fun regardless.
I texted her a day or so later saying I had fun and I'll set something up again. She agreed. Great. Later that week I asked her to grab drinks and give her a few days to choose from. She picks one. I say I'll see her then and that's it. I get a text from her the next day saying she is actually real busy with finals and won't be able to make it on the day we had planned and asks for a raincheck. We make arrangements for later in the week. Cool.
I recently realized through social media that she was at a sports game with our mutual friend the night we were supposed to go out. Realistically speaking, the game was easily much more fun than getting drinks at a bar. I can understand that, but I guess the lie leaves me kinda salty.
I guess this is where I'm unsure of what to do. She blew me off for something better, but set up a specific date in the future. I have zero intention of LTRing this girl, but have no desire to waste extra time on her either. My gut says next and forgo any plans we have, but I figured I'd get a second opinion. Very new to Red Pill. Any criticism on how I posted is appreciated.
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