Currently dating a woman with alpha qualities. Were FWB for 5 months, then decided to promote her to LTR, been together for 2 months now. Which in hindsight may not have been the wisest decision, given my busy schedule, but she has been very responsive and flexible to my schedule. It has been stated on TRP not to date alpha women unless your game is tight and you're up for the challenge. I thought I prepared and in some ways I was, but still falter from time to time, as we all do. Sex and blowjobs are constant, so not complaint there. While the sex is great, there is something about being with this chick that gets me stressed out due to her high alpha energy, especially when she micromanages (most times I make fun of it, but there are those times when I get irritated quite easily). In comes chick #2, who I have known for 2 years and dated a while back but nothing serious became of it. We recently bumped into each other at a bar and hit things off tremendously well (Far better than I ever have with my LTR). From what I can remember and my experiences with her that night she is no where nearly as alpha as my current LTR and is no longer in a LTR. Having dated several more woman, I am beginning to better understand my tastes a lot better and how my relationship with my mother has shaped that.

My question then lies, have any of you nexted a LTR for another? Or anything similar to my situation? Mind you, I am not concerned about the sex. But my biggest complaint with my LTR is the stressful situations I expose myself given my faltering frame at times. Additionally, I have had to check her phone on one occasion to let her know that she can no longer talk to other guys on a consistent bases, which to her was shocking and something she was never directly told not to do by her former LDR of 5 years. Yet, this aside, the sex is the one thing that I still has me drawn to my current LTR. Which is a mental prison now that I look at it. My game plan is to feel this chick out and go on some dates and test the waters without letting her know I have a LTR to see how much fun I can have with her and compare it to my LTR. One more thing, both have relatively stable families, very good relationships with their fathers, educated ( for what its worth), self-reliant and feminine. ( LTR is studying her LSAT to go for law school and the other wants to go into the health profession and is working at a human performance lab.) I appreciate the advice in advance. Hopefully you guys can give me a clear third party perspective.