Nice guy problems

LucyDD69 · 2019-11-16T07:23:39+00:00

What are some situations where you feel like this, and why do you feel like that? Are you worried the other person is not going to like that you are setting boundaries? That perhaps, they won’t like the fact that you don’t want to be walked on and over?

I think, maybe, that your concern lies with what you think other people may feel. I’d say, chillout, and don’t try to please people or try to NOT offend/bother them. Especially if that means letting them do something (to you) that you don’t like.

Don’t be but hurt about it, just set the boundary without going sicko yeet mode. Hopefully that helps

Howdoiusesync · 2019-11-16T07:57:04+00:00

You obviously haven’t applied it.

Take one of the breaking free things and apply it. See where you fucked first. Maybe it was the other person, 9/10 it’s you.

That book works, it’s not the book but how you apply it and are aware. Fuck it read it and take notes for the love of god.

2019-11-16T09:13:57+00:00

Your self image and subconscious program is way deeper than you trying to consciously force what’s now a part of you to be different. Maybe figure out how to internalize those new beliefs/a new self image

kclanton80 · 2019-11-17T22:43:25+00:00

You just fear the repercussions not complying with everything people want you to do. Fuck how other people feel do what's best for you

Title	Nice guy problems
Author	Drive_Thru_Sushi
Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	November 16, 2019 7:11 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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