NLP

tombreck2 · 2014-12-17T14:03:03+00:00

It will give you short term solutions to long term goals

KyfhoMyoba · 2014-12-17T23:58:57+00:00

NLP is the study of the structure of subjective human experience. Go back and read that again. All of your experience happens with some kind of structure to it. Every thought, every memory has a structure and that structure has some universal (applicable to every human) qualities to it. Every behavior has a mental process behind it. Those processes also have structure to them. These process structures are almost entirely outside of people's conscious awareness, unless they have been specifically trained to notice them. (This is the basis of hypnosis - in fact, the founder of modern clinical hypnosis, Dr. Milton Erickson, is the main person the creators of NLP, John Grinder and Richard Bandler, modelled when they created the methodology that is NLP.)

There is a methodology of Game called "Speed Seduction" by Ross Jeffries which is mostly NLP, at least all of his earlier work is/was. I use SS to great effect. It's excellent for closing and blowing past LMR as well as sexualizing a casual conversation and generating attraction. I find it not so useful for opening.

Ross was one of the founders of modern Game. He and Mystery were/are fierce competitors in the field. Almost all other dating systems/Game instructors derive their models from Mystery, including but not limited to RSD.

NLP allows you to elicit (and amplify) states with tremendous precision and power. The other day I was chatting with a casual business acquaintance - single mom, 3 kids, former stripper, mid twenties, kinda ghetto black chick, but pretty cute. I had given her a ride to the store some months ago and she had tried to stripper/prostitute-game me - gave me lots of kino, but she was trying to get me to get a "private dance" or refer to her someone that did. This was within a few minutes of meeting me. I ignored all of that, and went kinda clinical on her, as I didn't think of anything at the time, plus didn't want to date a single mom. Ran into her a few more times and the topic never came up again. Last week I was chatting with her and asked her about the difference between attraction and arousal. So I "took" that feeling of arousal that she had and amplified it, turned it into a filter and told her to look at/perceive me through that filter of high arousal. Then I leaned in and kissed her. She's called me 4 or 5 times since then and texted me - I think - every day since. When she gets a sitter for the night "we gonna bang." Her words.

You tell me. Is that a practical use? Is that usable in daily life?

Title	NLP
Author	Nitrobroom
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Date	December 17, 2014 12:56 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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