No responses to text after 3rd date

stickfiguresk · 2015-09-29T09:11:27+00:00

Women really do "just let it happen" with a guy with similar SMV. That's why you have to make sure something happens--she won't. That kiss on the first date? She felt obligated because that's just "what you do" at the end of a date. It ment nothing to her.

Dates are planned by the man, and they need to be aimed at a bed. If they arent, they'll petter out like yours did. She didn't respond because the "obligatory thing to do" on a third date is sex, and that made her ASD flair up.

If you want to see her again, invite her to something she'd want to go to that can't plausably be aimed at a bed, but is actually aimed at a bed.

I have to work immediately after, but you're welcome to come with me to x

omg, what luck! Work said they didn't need me after all, so we can have more fun tonight.

This is the obviously long route. Errybody else should be saying, "next" and they're right.

Danedina · 2015-09-29T08:34:09+00:00

Three dates without sex is still in the easy-come easy-go phase, especially if you're going to wait five days to contact her. These days it's really hard to explain why you went that long without at least dropping her a line. Maybe a bigtime player can get away with that. But if you're a player then where are all your other plates?

Guillz · 2015-09-29T07:12:08+00:00

Put one thing in your mind:

You are the one who she has to chase, not the other way around

You offered the oportunity for her, she didnt respond, thats a very long time to just be "busy", so assume she lost interest, next her and move on

If anything, start working on aproaching new girls, and wait for her response, if nothing comes, do not make contact, dont delete her from your fb, just forget her, avoid oneitis like the plague

As soon as you text her you miss her shes going to loose all her respect for you, and in some cases this might be just a huge shit test; ive had more than one girl just stop talking to me for no apparent reason, and thats the type of behavior that screams NEXT

HardDeterminist · 2015-09-29T09:05:11+00:00

Do not text her bro. Go no contact until she texts you. Trust me, do not say you miss her. I promise you, that is not RP behavior.

JimRohnIsMyDad · 2015-09-29T15:37:51+00:00

next her, and also i wouldnt have added her on fb tbh... you complied with her, and also she now had/has the ability to gain untld amount of information about you. its a game of inperfect information and instead of her mind creating and wondering about you she has all the answers

in fact i might go as far as to delete her off fb,

another tip if your feeling mega weak and yearning to text her - delete her number.. i've done it plenty of times - eliminate the thoughts if your not actually strong enough yet.

nemaxofredpill · 2015-09-29T17:05:58+00:00

If you didn't fuck her by the 3rd date, it isn't going to happen. You have oneitus and are desperate. Stop. Quit being a bitch.

Title	No responses to text after 3rd date
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Date	September 29, 2015 6:54 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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