Title pretty much sums it up. She'll go from sending me revealing pics to not responding to a text mid conversation for hours or even days. If she doesn't reach out to me first, I don't engage, but when she does it almost always leads to sexting. We've had lunch twice but haven't hooked up yet, timing is a serious bitch. She is taken but says she is unhappy/bored. She works a very high pressure busy executive type job, 9/10, sexy AF and has a bunch of dudes throwing themselves at her. AWALT but this time I may be the beneficiary instead of a chump, just gotta play my cards right. Besides ignoring her when she goes cold, and escalating when I see her, what can I do? One more thing, when we have lunch we have to be super discreet. If someone from her office (2,000+ people) were to see us getting cozy, it would not be cool. She is very well known/popular as she used to be on TV locally every night and gets recognized easily. I'm hitting above my comfort zone here but trying to play it cool. She wants to see me again next week.