Now she wants me?

abdada · 2016-02-05T19:51:36+00:00

It's common. Preselection is real.

The more plates you have, the more plates you can get.

The only death sentence for a man in dating is the title "single".

Plan_of_Action · 2016-02-05T19:59:53+00:00

This is pretty basic stuff. She faded out because she was trying her luck with another dude or just generally lost interest (but I'd put money on it being another guy). That fell through for her, and at the same time you became a non-option which drives up your value and makes her 'realize her mistake'.

"because I'm stupid" means that she regrets chasing the other cock because now she gets no cock... and at the same time there's ANOTHER GIRL who's happy. Women resent each other's happiness.

Basically this is what's happening.

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americnleprchaun · 2016-02-06T07:12:54+00:00

that's preselection bro

iLLprincipLeS · 2016-02-06T19:18:10+00:00

Should I try to plate her, or just leave her be? I don't know what I want, I did really like this girl but I'm also happy with my GF

Ain't this life a woman? No one is there to make your heart beat. But if it starts beating, the sound of it will drive in the beasts.

Yeah. This potential plate, eventually she might try to tell your current girlfriend about what you did if you fuck her, just to fuck up your relationship. & she does not necessarily want YOU, but the idea of YOU, of what you've become. Take care. I was all my life stuck between the typical two loves choices - eventually you will be forced to pick one and that's how your heart could be put on a plate. Let them hear it, don't let them see it. Plates.

Oh, talking about hearts, another thing to consider besides the Problematic Triad of AWALT, Unicorns & Plates:

my GF, who is intelligent and gives unlimited sex/cooking/cleaning etc

It can all change in one day. If your heart bleeds once and she discerns it, she will devour it and move on to someone else - someone with a beating heart. This is the hidden war. You must have the heart to fight it and the courage to see it.

TheDonald2k16 · 2016-02-05T20:05:15+00:00

You lost frame when you said "Why didn't you want to be with me months ago".

WrensPens · 2016-02-06T00:33:33+00:00

She only wants you because she can't have you. Once she has you again, she'll be bored and sucking another cock.

Title	Now she wants me?
Author	Gawernator
Upvotes	8
Comments	25
Date	February 5, 2016 7:48 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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