Quick background: Hooked up with a chick in my small uni-town. Smashed her the second time we met and she left her bra. Took her number that day. When I later found the bra I texted her, naive as I am. Called her the sunday after we hooked up(was a wednesday). She was "busy". Invites me the next day to a concert. I dont answer because I do not have her phone number. When I get home, I think its a dude I recently become acquainted with a guy inviting me to the same concert. So I dont really care(basically aloof as hell). She meets up two days later at the place we first met, she knows I hang out there.

Continuation:

That day I notice she has a bit of a different vibe, she is still doing and accepting PDA. But she gives me bullshit about going home, even shit-tests me.

Later on Friday, I call her and she answers. She gives bullshit excuses against meeting up and I just say, "I dont need any excuses if you dont want to met." 20 min later get a text about "not wanting anything serious". I message back; "I want to fuck". She hits me with a LJBF. I tell her "No, have enough" and follow up with a txt that I though she liked me more than this but that its ok, I just dont need any excuses or bullshit.

Later the same night, we met up at a venue. I knew she was gone be there, she knew I knew etc. But its the uni gathering spot, so why the fuck not.

We met there, and I do my own thing. When she approaches, I am in a good mood and we flirt and fool around a bit. I try to bring her back to my place, and she resists.

Now here is the kicker. I didnt really know that she had invited me to this concert earlier at that time, I though it was the dude acquiantance. I just found out now.

There is also a party at a flat where a friend of mine stays, with some other people including the chick. I really dont have any business there except to hit on women and hang out with my buddy.

So now what ?

  1. Ignore her and do my own thing (ie go party in some other town tonight, or work on my homework/business etc)

  2. Go to party and wing it (ie. try to fuck her, hit on other women etc)

  3. Tell her I didnt know it was her inviting me to the concert

  4. Ask her ?!?! to go the party (thats fucking idiotic and beta, I know)

Thing is, before the concert thing, EVERYthing was going so great. I was really terping it up and had the right dominance dynamic.