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Lol. Source? I'm a divorce lawyer. I'd love it if that were true.
/r/askMRP05/08/21 10:57 AM
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gealosie
/r/askMRP11/07/20 01:17 AM
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So... She either keeps the cigarettes and no divorce, or gets a divorce and stops smoking?
/r/askMRP05/03/20 03:10 AM
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Commenting only to suggest giving This Naked Mind another go. I wholeheartedly credit it with helping me quit drinking June of 2018 when I was on the brink of losing my family. Haven't had a drink since that time other than a sip of some champagne my wife ordered on her birthday last year. I'm not a proselytizing teetotaler by any means, but completely cutting alcohol out of my life completely changed things for the better for me and provided a catalyst for making other changes too. I have no id…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 03:35 PM
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Apparently one of the complications is mentioning that he had a vasectomy for no reason.
/r/askMRP30/10/19 10:45 AM
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This morning she's freaking out and saying she'll stay because I'm forcing her too. She said " You've created that requirement. You set the boundaries and you said that's how it is for you. You will not work on things without me in the house. That doesn't leave me a choice ." "If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice." -Rush, "Limelight"
/r/askMRP01/10/19 07:41 PM
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But what do you think of his brilliant fish tank analogy?
/r/askMRP18/08/19 06:15 PM
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Beef? I tend to stuff mine full of sausage.
/r/askMRP07/08/19 12:24 AM
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Did you see the sidebar?
/r/askMRP12/04/19 10:10 AM
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For stopping drinking, I recommend This Naked Mind by Annie Grace. It will change the way you view alcohol.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/19 12:50 AM
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Wait until she learns he has to sit out the next game too.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 11:46 PM
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I've never lost a case defending an appeal, but am only about 2 for 3 when I'm trying to get a decision overturned ... but even that I think is a pretty good rate for divorce work. True. I've only defended one, and it was against a crazy pro se litigant in a case with UCCJEA issues. I won easily. My success rate on representing the appellant is not as good as yours, but I've done many more than three. In all but (I think) three of them, I was not trial counsel and would have done things much dif…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/17 07:15 PM
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When I'm interviewing the client, I never ask it directly that way. Instead, I ask: "What are the things you think your spouse is going to say about you to get ahead?" 99% of the time the guy can rattle off a million things his wife is going to say about him - but he never would have identified those things as weaknesses directly because in his mind they're not true, so they're not actual weaknesses. But everyone knows what their wife will complain about and what she's likely to lie about. YES. …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/17 06:52 PM
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Fellow divorce attorney here. Most of this I agree with. One, thing, though, regarding being up front with your case's weaknesses and how the attorney gauges it... oftentimes, especially in divorce which is highly emotional, a client doesn't actually know their own case's weaknesses, simply because they don't understand how the law applies to their situation. If I ask someone, "What are the weaknesses in your case?" I would not expect them to know how to answer it properly, except for glaringly …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/17 05:45 PM
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What the hell is sold door to door anymore? Vacuum cleaners? Encyclopedias?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 11:24 AM
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I actually believe her that she didnt send any pics back You're right. She sent videos.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:30 PM
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There is literally nothing in the original post that would even arguably be libel, slander, defamation, or IIED. In any event, you're clearly either a troll, at least mildly retarded, or both, so I guess this is where we end things.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 06:59 PM
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I'm a lawyer. No one would pursue those claims under these facts, other than battery. Fuck off.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 04:16 PM
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No competent lawyer would take a case for libel, slander, defamation, or IIED on these facts.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:12 PM
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its just the extra 40lb weight thats dragging me down. Literally.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 03:21 PM
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Nothing says redpill like a pothead drug dealer 👍
/r/askTRP31/05/17 11:11 AM
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We connect on Instagram Lol. So, basically, you want to do some weird version of mate guarding where "if you can't have her, no one can"? Get the fuck out of here.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 04:33 PM
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You are a crybaby.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 02:36 PM
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Sure, committing fraud and potentially getting yourself kicked out of school is totally justified by maybe getting a slight whiff of her pussy (with Chad's fresh cum still leaking out) and then continuing your orbit.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 07:21 PM
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No shit. "Flirting" on Facebook? Give me a break.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 03:22 PM
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You can make a paste with Miracle-Gro and sunflower seeds. Apply the paste as a mask each morning for 10 minutes right after you shower.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 02:26 PM
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So your plan is to give her the trickle truth? Great job, much alpha.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 12:10 PM
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Before we begin, I'm going to nip this in the bud right now. There is no magic bullet. If you're presently in a marriage and you're looking for a way to hide assets in the event of a potentially impending divorce, well I'm here to tell you that you're going to have a bad time. Divorce attorney here. Thank Christ someone else corroborated what I tell people. When you try to be cute and clever like this, all it does is piss off the judge, especially when it results in a discovery dispute. Good pos…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 11:51 AM
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His first child wasn't really the result of a "surrogate", so to speak. The story is that he had a fling with some random waitress in New York and she got pregnant. Then, he gave her a ton of cash to walk away and remain anonymous.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 03:22 PM
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Ostensibly State Street claims they're sending a letter to 3,500 companies insisting that they increase diversity on their boards of directors.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 03:28 PM
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It's interesting to me that the statue was placed there by State Street Global Advisors, which is the third largest asset manager in the world and manages over $2 trillion.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 12:07 PM
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Fishing is one of those hobbies where you can spend about as little or as much money as you want to, and still have fun. If you don't have access to a boat, check out fishing piers. I've only been to Miami a couple of times, but I would be shocked if there aren't fishing piers around there. You can often rent equipment at those piers, too, so you can get a feel for different rigs before you decide whether to invest in your own. Florida's wildlife government agency probably has good online inform…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 01:32 PM
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I'm a lawyer. Your comment doesn't make much sense. Are you saying the insurance policy denies indemnification if the claim is a certain amount? That is nonsensical too. When you say "for certain reasons", what does that even mean? Either an event is an insured event, or it isn't. The insurer wouldn't start to defend it by negotiating and then "refusing to pay his demands" as you said and then drop the case. That just isn't how it works. The ladder law thing is irrelevant. An insurer balking at …
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:26 PM
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You're claiming that the homeowners insurance company refused to indemnify and defend the insured party, which is basically the entire premise of an insurance policy in the first place?
/r/askTRP28/02/17 08:23 PM
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The dyke wears the pants in the relationship, she got jealous/mate guarding, told girlfriend/bartender to make you leave in order to eliminate the perceived threat, and bartender complied. What's so confusing about this?
/r/askTRP24/01/17 01:03 PM
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Imagine if Trump wasn't rich, would he be an Alpha male? No, he would be the attention seeking little dweeb that we all knew in school. While I agree with the ultimate confusion conclusion you're implying, I think this is a tautological argument.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 08:35 PM
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Being generally kind to people doesn't conflict with standing up for yourself and not being a doormat.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 08:33 PM
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remain standing. ... while everyone looks at you like this.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 05:23 PM
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I don't know, is she one of your 12 plates for whom you spend a fortune buying Plan B?
/r/askTRP15/11/16 06:41 PM
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Every proposed federal statute dealing with this issue has included a fencing component. I don't understand why anyone on either side thinks this is particularly novel.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 11:58 PM
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Vanguard's first index fund appeared in the 1970's, so yes, they did exist in the 1980's. I understand it's a simplistic way of talking about Trump's increase in wealth, but investing at "optimal times" is pretty much the antithesis of an index fund, because an index fund is essentially a "set it and forget it" way of investing. My point is that he didn't create billions of dollars of wealth out of whole cloth, and the way he has run his businesses has centered on him being paid an exorbitantly …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 09:47 PM
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He would have made a lot more money (and avoided his multiple bankruptcies) by investing his "small" inheritance in an index fund and not doing anything with it. He has also, time and again throughout his life, unabashedly fucked over these very people who have voted him into power. I'm no Hillary fanboy by any means, but the Trump worship and mythos is disgusting. You think Trump drives himself? Lol...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 08:47 PM
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Agree with you 100%. He is literally a billionaire who lives in a penthouse in Manhattan, and he somehow convinced corn farmers and coal miners that he was just like them.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 07:18 PM
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an Ivy tower educated upper 1% Are you trying to say Ivy League or ivory tower here? In any event, the last four presidents have had Ivy League degrees. Obama from Columbia and Harvard; Bush 43 from Yale and Harvard; Clinton from Yale; and Bush 41 from Yale.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 05:33 PM
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Why not both?
/r/askTRP08/11/16 05:39 PM
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Indiana, obviously.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 07:31 PM
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Why not attend the Naval Academy instead?
/r/askTRP14/09/16 10:29 AM
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This isn't the AMA.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/16 05:52 PM
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My point is, that type of valuation is inherently problematic with the type of business you describe. For most service-based businesses like that, you have what is called "personal goodwill", which you can't really place a finite value on, because the person is essentially the business. That is different from a business that has "enterprise goodwill", where the value is not based on the manager or people running it. For example, if he ran a McDonald's franchise, customers don't give a shit who t…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/16 04:09 PM
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Agreed. I'm a divorce attorney. His lawyer fucked up. You never ever value that type of business that way. Classic case of enterprise vs. personal goodwill value in the business. Putting your car in the business won't matter. It's a tangible asset you can value.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/16 07:52 PM
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Jesus Christ. Shitpost of the month.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 07:36 PM
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50/50 custody is not achieved by not getting married, unless you're implying not having a child at all.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 07:28 PM
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Exactly. She isn't marketed to men at all.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 11:36 AM
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What's your question?
/r/askTRP06/09/16 12:35 AM
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I almost came up with the idea for the iPhone!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 08:11 PM
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Same with false murder claims.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 07:55 PM
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Come on dude, you know exactly what it means.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 07:03 PM
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It's a metaphor...
/r/askTRP20/08/16 10:52 AM
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YMMV = your mileage may vary
/r/askTRP19/08/16 07:47 PM
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Okay, I see what you mean with the alienation cases now. I'm working on a particularly crazy one now, and the billable hours are absurd. Do you work in the legal industry?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 07:31 PM
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Really? I don't practice in Florida, but Rule 4-1.5(f)(4)(B) of Florida's Rules of Professional conduct seems to make that "clearly excessive" without prior court approval: The contract for representation of a client in a matter set forth in subdivision (f)(4) [regarding personal injury/tort claims] may provide for a contingent fee arrangement as agreed upon by the client and the lawyer, except as limited by the following provisions: (i) Without prior court approval as specified below, any conti…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:50 PM
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Correct. People here love to claim that all prenups are worthless, etc. It just isn't true. Source: I'm a divorce lawyer and have successfully defended multiple challenges to prenups. I also have my own.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 07:30 PM
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Lawyers are generally prohibited from taking divorce cases on a contingency basis. And a 50% contingency fee is virtually unheard of, if not per se unethical, in any contingency case. Source: I'm a divorce lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 07:25 PM
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What do you do? Grow some thicker skin and stop being so butthurt, for starters.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 07:40 PM
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If he's wearing pleated sweatpants or shorts, then he's got other issues.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 05:15 PM
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So, why didn't she treat you like a king?
/r/askTRP29/07/16 07:34 PM
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This may be the most butthurt post I have ever seen on this sub. All the while you're spending hours coming up with stupid revenge porn fantasies, she isn't giving a single fuck thinking about you. Get over it.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 07:31 PM
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What the fuck is there to "fear" about this? It's not like you're obligated to be exclusive with her, or even get back together at all, just because you let her suck your dick. Jesus man, what the fuck kind of question is this?
/r/askTRP16/07/16 12:01 PM
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That isn't unique to community property states, of which there are few.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 03:27 PM
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I have my lawyer hand deliver an official notice of the downgrade.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 07:34 PM
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Correct. The attorney needs to send a subpoena first thing, along with a spoliation letter. The bar isn't under a legal obligation to produce or disclose the footage with just a letter. I made this mistake exactly once in my practice. Now, the first contact from me is a subpoena for the footage via a private process server.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 07:03 PM
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I love the "I'm taking a picture of your license plate. Now you're really fucked!" It's pointless to engage in these situations. I had a similar incident going to a grocery store. The guy started some lecture/rant, and I just said, "Thanks for your input," and started walking away. He yells, "Hey I'm not done!" I sort of shrugged and said, "Well, I am." There's just no point to these interactions. Also, "soccer mom level dread" is a hilarious description 😂
/r/askTRP23/06/16 10:53 AM
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So your solution is to batter him and then lie about him abusing you. Sounds analogous to a false rape accusation.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:08 AM
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Long time redpiller...here. No.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 11:55 AM
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Moral relativism applied to porn. Incredible.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:19 PM
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What do you mean by "natural"? Pornograohy has been found painted in the walls of caves and other similar places that ancient people lived. It isn't like porn is a recent phenomenon.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:17 PM
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Even the time it took you to write this post is way too much thought to put into the whole situation.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 07:34 PM
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Thirded from another lawyer. Anyone can win a judgment. The real issue is collecting it. Otherwise the judgment is just a piece of paper to feel like you "won". Ever wonder why many TV lawyer ads will have a disclaimer like "Results obtained do not necessarily reflect actual amounts recovered on behalf of clients"? That's why.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 07:20 PM
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I find that empathy is useful for understanding someone else's emotional perspective. That way, you can use it to your advantage if you so choose.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 08:29 PM
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Hire. A. Lawyer. I am a family court lawyer and have dealt with this a thousand times. Research relocation law in your state.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 09:52 PM
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First, hire a lawyer. Second, she can't just take your child out of the country. Both parents have to sign off on the passport.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 07:54 PM
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I almost considered that it was tongue-in-cheek, implying that women make all holidays about them (hence the "really" in small letters). Almost...
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 07:50 PM
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You believe that the point of gay marriage is to create "mentally ill people" through adoption?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 08:48 PM
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She made you meet her boyfriend? What a wimp.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 06:06 PM
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You are a wimp.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 11:16 AM
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You clearly have an axe to grind, judging by your stupid rants throughout this thread. Sincerely, A redpill divorce lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 12:56 PM
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Family court lawyer here. Not sure why you think it violates the Constitution. I haven't watched this, and likely won't have time to do so until the middle of next week. Other than anecdotal evidence and the complaints of prior litigants (who obviously have axes to grind), what specifically do you believe violates the Constitution, and what part of the Constitution do you believe it violates?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 12:50 PM
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No shit. As a lawyer who practices primarily in family court, the misinformation here is pretty amusing. Given the analysis and supposed thought that goes into dissecting other things with a feminist slant in this subreddit, the failure to think critically about this documentary is troubling.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 12:44 PM
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Sounds like it's eliminating the thigh gap, too. What a shame.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 10:13 AM
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Try looking away.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 04:51 PM
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You should be ashamed for writing such a long wall of text about this situation.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 04:46 PM
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You sound quite jealous. Fix that.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 11:31 PM
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I must have missed the part where OP is in 4th grade.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 12:26 PM
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No shit. Maybe he meant 200k to 600k? But that's not realistic either.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 07:32 PM
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He's just too alpha for us. His "argument" (if you even want to call it that) doesn't make sense anyway. The question of need is a factor in alimony law. Period. Whether we agree with its inclusion or application is a different issue.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 10:09 AM
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You are way too alpha for me. I bow to your supremacy.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 10:06 AM
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Like this: ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/askTRP31/05/16 07:29 PM
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I didn't quote anything. And yes, it is the actual law. It is a statutory factor that a judge is mandated to consider in determining whether, and if so how much, to award alimony.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 06:41 PM
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And since when has the basis of need ever been relevant when it comes to women and alimony? Need is, in fact, one of the main factors in determining whether someone should be entitled to alimony in many states. Source: I'm a divorce lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 10:29 AM
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You claim that openly expressing racist opinions boosts testosterone? And, don't drink alcohol or smoke cannabis, but do smoke tobacco? Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 01:46 PM
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Divorce lawyer here. You're right on these being a very valuable and underappreciated/underutilized document. However, this: There are less laws regarding a postnup, in fact a postnuptial agreement can even include divisions in labor regarding the children. ...is not accurate. In every jurisdiction of which I am aware, a postnup is subject to basically the same requirements as a prenup. And, it is more or less axiomatic that you simply cannot include provisions regarding child custody in a pre o…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 07:19 PM
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Thank God you didn't recommend The Art of the Deal.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 05:42 PM
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not sure if this is the right place to ask this question It isn't.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 08:05 PM
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First of all, the Twitter comment is a non sequitur. But, even if her explanation is true, why are you allowing it to be your problem? I will add that when I was in the midst of studying for the Bar exam after law school, I definitely experienced a drop in that killer instinct to seek out new meat while I was mentally drained each evening. However, if I had had an LTR at the time, I certainly would have been all over it after studying each day. Hell, nothing helps you relax, clear your mind, and…
/r/askTRP05/05/16 08:01 PM
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It's just a way to make it easier for the huge population of knee-jerk TRP kids to identify whom to flame.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 01:41 PM
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Not all funerals are open casket. Also I'm not trying to come off sounding like a badass but should I be going to funerals? I don't see the point, they are dead and probably won't care. It certainly appears that way. If you want to go to the funeral, then go to it. If not, then don't. It's really not difficult.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:23 PM
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Agreed. I was just curious as to whether you had that opinion. You are absolutely right calling the process a "kangaroo court". I'm a lawyer, and I was on the 'honor court' systems in both college and law school. It was horrendous. Especially in college, I felt like I was the only person who actually cared that people got a fair shake during the proceedings. Everyone else was on a power trip, it seemed. I always secretly smiled when a student would come in with a lawyer. Now that I'm a lawyer, I…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:11 PM
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A history professor with no legal or law enforcement training has no business adjudicating a criminal allegation. Do you feel the same way about juries? Should twelve people with, presumably, no legal or law enforcement training be able to adjudicate a criminal allegation? If not, what's the difference?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:47 AM
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Try a variety of things until you find what works for you. I quit smoking about two years ago after having smoked off and on for about 10 years, and consistently for about 4 or 5. I smoked between a half and a whole pack each day. What did I do? I simply quit cold turkey. I decided I really wanted to quit this time, threw the pack away when I finished it, and haven't smoked since (other than a cigar at a friend's wedding). In my experience, the first week was pretty difficult as far as cravings …
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:42 AM
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You are her plate, too, and she's treating you that way.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 06:44 PM
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The kids' names are Jazz and Storm. ಠ_ಠ
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 03:01 PM
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I think it's fine. In my mind, SMV has two components: (1) objective; and (2) adjusted. For "objective" SMV, I will go ahead and add the caveat that there really isn't any such thing as truly objective SMV -- everyone has their own tastes, etc. But the point is that there are many, many girls that the vast majority of guys can agree are 9s, 8s, whatever. For "adjusted" SMV, the girl's SMV is adjusted to take into account the guy's SMV. I'm not going to offer some concrete mathematical formula fo…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 05:15 PM
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OH NO NOT THAT! How do I stop this? You don't. Who cares? Move on with your life and focus on yourself. I think she wants to get back at me but my friend doesnt understand Sure he does. That's you trying to hamster away your butthurt. Just move on with outcome independence and abundance mentality. EDIT: Wait. You're worried about your ex-girlfriend, yet you are also seeking ways to rid yourself of your fiance whom you are apparently too scared to face?
/r/askTRP31/03/16 05:46 PM
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While the advice to talk to a lawyer is sound, this: Confronting a represented client directly with legal business is a crime. Is not true. At best, most states' rules of professional conduct prohibit another lawyer from contacting someone they know to be represented by legal counsel in that particular matter. And even then, it isn't a crime. Think about it: if it were a crime, do you think news organizations would routinely request comment from people involved in lawsuits/criminal cases? That's…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 07:38 PM
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Does it matter? No. But you also don't have to go around telling anyone this if you don't want them to know. Edit: In another reply you ask "can you ever reach true alpha [whatever that is] with all this in your past?" Look into Jack Donavan, who is an oft-cited redpill author. He is gay.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 01:50 PM
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For a moment there I thought I was back in the mASF PUA forums. This is terrible.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 09:05 PM
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I don't have to Oh really? Sounds like you do.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:03 PM
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You clearly don't understand dread.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 03:28 PM
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Why do you feel the need to respond at all?
/r/askTRP23/03/16 07:34 PM
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/thread Jack Donovan, the author of one of the more frequently cited redpill books, is gay. I see no reason the red pill cannot help a gay person improve themselves just like a straight person.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 07:31 PM
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you're welcome to join me Too passive.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 12:46 PM
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Interesting. California is one of only a handful of "community property" states, so I guess I'm not surprised. Doesn't California also essentially have a statutory formula for determining alimony?
/r/askTRP16/03/16 07:17 PM
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People think they can use prenups to contract away the really most important parts like alimony, I don't know what jurisdiction you're basing this on, but waiving alimony (or limiting it to a set amount) is one of the most common, legally valid reasons, for entering into a prenup.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 05:09 PM
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Right. My point is if he wants a discussion on "is marriage really that bad" with a prenup, a better place to ask is a redpill subreddit where people actually are married and can give advice or opinions about it, both for and against based on real-world experience. I'm not expressing an opinion on it one way or the other.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 05:04 PM
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You speak like our advice not to get married is somehow bad advice. I'm not sure how anything I wrote can be interpreted as giving an opinion on whether to get married one way or the other. But let's not pretend the decision is without risk. I'm not; and, just like above, I don't know how you could possibly have interpreted anything I wrote that way. [Y]ou're still taking on considerable risk. I agree.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 04:46 PM
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The things you listed are not holes or pitfalls in what I wrote. And it isn't really an "argument"; it's just a legal perspective. Regarding someone saying they 'felt' pressured, well, the burden is on them to prove that -- and it isn't easy. Further, feeling "pressured" is not the standard. Duress and coercion are very different than "pressure". Many, many people say they will never marry without a prenup; it is extremely common. That isn't coercion or duress. The classic example is the night b…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 03:45 PM
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I am an attorney, and I practice primarily family law. Predictably, people will say that prenups always get thrown out, etc. That isn't true. Unlike others who will inevitably comment on this, I have actual real-world experience with prenups. I have written them, I have litigated them, and I have my own prenup with my wife. I'm not going to get into whether you 'should' get married, because anything other than "marriage is bullshit, never get married, spin plates 24/7" typically gets buried on r…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 11:16 AM
7

I had to accept that my hard one PhD . . . Anyway, grammar Nazism aside, good post.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 06:28 PM
1

Just have fun, dude.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 11:06 PM
0

What is your point? It has nothing to do with the OP.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 10:58 PM
1

Besides lifting... Working outside on my farm, shooting sports, watersports, biking, soccer.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 10:45 PM
1

Biology.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 10:44 PM
10

I'm a divorce lawyer. Yes, call him out on it in writing (email, etc.). Use the magic words "not diligent in pursuing my case" and "lack of communication", which are typically the two most common reasons attorneys face professional discipline. Don't outright threaten reporting him to the disciplinary board, but subtly suggest that it is on the table and that you're pissed. Most lawyers will jump as soon as they smell the potential of a complaint to the disciplinary board. That is, only if you ar…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 12:43 PM
1

Flossing? A goal of yours is flossing? I don't know you, but maybe you should be aiming a little higher.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 04:08 PM
18

This is a redpill related sub, and you're asking someone else to do something for you because you don't have the confidence to try it yourself (fear of failure?). Instead, take this as an opportunity to improve yourself and get better at writing/being articulate.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 08:52 PM
1

What "sense" are you trying to talk into him? Maybe he concluded that the ex boyfriend is valuable as an employee and doesn't give a fuck if it hurt your sister's feelz that they broke up. Is the "sense" supposed to be that your dad should fire him as retribution?
/r/askTRP15/02/16 09:17 PM
1

It totally sounds like some kind of second tier hookup app, which is exactly what I thought it was until you explained it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 09:09 PM
1

Consumerism and lifestyle creep. If you get a raise from $50k to $75k, there's no need to increase your expenditures just because you "can".
/r/askTRP14/02/16 07:09 PM
3

only reason you didn't have sex is she's "allergic to latex" Riiiight... tell her to be safe if she has sex Sure. Did she miraculously overcome her "latex allergy"?
/r/askTRP14/02/16 07:05 PM
6

Frankly, you sound butthurt and whiny. First of all, there is a difference between being 'dominant' and being 'alpha'. Secondly, it seems the entire point of your post is to whine and complain because the other males in the group didn't want to do what you wanted to do. What do you think -- you're supposed to be able to force them to stay at the bar with you? Sometimes people just aren't into doing the same thing you are. So what? It isn't about dominance.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 12:57 PM
1

There is no difference between the two scenarios you presented. You're insinuating that, while you would not risk your future for being personally disrespected in public, you might risk the same stakes for the same reason if it meant losing a girl. Do you see the problem?
/r/askTRP12/02/16 08:59 PM
2

Quick real talk from a divorce lawyer: The 25 million is premarital property, to which you won't have a claim unless it is commingled with marital funds or otherwise transmuted into marital property. Same with the inheritance which, in most states, is presumptively nonmarital. It could theoretically bolster a claim for palimony if you used it to live a lavish lifestyle together, but it is presumed not to be part of the martial estate subject to division upon divorce. Obligatory disclaimer: I am …
/r/askTRP12/02/16 08:50 PM
5

Well, then, it sounds like it's time for you to shit or get off the pot. You shouldn't be seeking legal advice here. Do you like any of the lawyers with whom you had phone consultations? If so, contact them again and get information on what it will take to retain them (if they haven't already told you). I am a divorce attorney, and there isn't anything you can get here that will even compare to what an actual attorney in your jurisdiction can do for you. If the initial retainer is too steep, wel…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 04:34 PM
3

Come on. Do we really need to tell you this? Talk to a lawyer.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 03:42 PM
1

Simple solution: Take Nancy Reagan's advice and just say no.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 08:35 PM
5

As a divorce attorney, this made me smile. One question, though. Did you guys actually do all those monetary transactions (items 5, 6, and 7)? Or did you just figure out the net outcome and handle it that way? For example, say she owed you $5,000 not to be in contempt. Did you actually make her pay you $5k and then you pay her the $6.5k? Or did you just pay her $1.5k to be done with it?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 02:38 PM
1

Look, do you want the part in the play or not? Treat it like a job -- do what you have to do to get the job done. It's not awkward unless you allow it to be. You can't control how she feels, so stop worrying about it.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 05:51 PM
2

Remember that an apology is for the benefit of the apologizer, not the apologizee. Keep that in mind and a let that guide your decision on whether to apologize in a given situation. Am I considering an apology because I truly feel I fucked up and need to own it, or is it because I just want to placate her?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 03:56 PM
137

Security question for forgotten password recovery: "What was your father's maiden name?"
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 03:19 PM
1

I'm sure the gangbang is just as exhausting.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 08:43 PM
0

Read it all and decide for yourself. Don't be lazy.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 03:47 PM
2

Agreed. I'm around your age and I've only seen my father cry once - when I gave the eulogy at his father's funeral service. I glanced down from the church pulpit and saw him tearing up, and it was all I could do to not start crying myself.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 07:59 PM
1

So passive aggressive and cringey.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 02:40 AM
0

You're going to school to become a social worker. Get used to it.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:15 PM
2

Told her we'd have to setup a Blind Trust , as I'd prefer to stay out of the public eye after something like this. Just FYI, that is not the purpose of a blind trust. In a blind trust, you, the settlor of the trust, do not know what investments are in the trust or how the assets are being managed. It is commonly used by high-profile politicians (especially presidential candidates) so that they can at least claim that there is no conflict of interest with respect to lobbyists, as they don't even …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 08:12 PM
1

Nice victim puke. Did you actually have a question?
/r/askTRP14/01/16 07:42 PM
2

Your attitude is a pussy defeatist one. If you aren't actually a pussy, then don't act like one. What your attitude says is, "I can't compete with my naturally good-looking friend, I'm really butthurt about it, and therefore my solution is to run away from the situation." Change your attitude.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 06:19 PM
5

I enjoy his company during the day when we hang out and do stuff. It just pisses me off that when we go out, he can get anyone with no effort at all. I can't beat him no matter what I do. This is such a pussy defeatist attitude. It seems your solution, rather than confronting your problem/issue head-on, is to simply flee and run away with your tail between your legs. Do you play sports? If you were playing against a team that consistently outplayed you, is your solution (A) to essentially take y…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 05:13 PM
1

Good looking people are everywhere. Deal with it, and improve yourself in areas you are lacking. Or, perhaps you can just resign yourself to hanging out exclusively with ugly people, so that you can feel better about yourself. Big fish in a small pond, and all that.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 05:08 PM
4

You're "afraid"? Jesus dude, just do what you want to do. If you want to go, go. If you don't want to go, don't go.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 01:57 PM
2

I'm an attorney, and I practice primarily domestic law (divorce, custody, etc.). Is this a serious question? Actually, on second thought, your question doesn't even make sense. First you say you don't want to get married, "if" you divorice [sic] your wife? And "pay custody"? Are you married or not? What are you even asking?
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:13 PM
2

You guys are arguing over blocking each other on Facebook. Let that sink in. You're literally wasting seconds of your life arguing over some of the most inane inconsequential bullshit that exists - and you're going right along with it. Grow up, cut contact, and explore new horizons.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 10:14 PM
7

As a lawyer, from a purely legal standpoint, I don't see any argument that it violates the Confrontation Clause, as long as the defendant has the right to cross-examine the accuser at trial.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 04:00 PM
1

My wife is about 37 1/2 weeks in with our first (a son). These are my personal observations, and of course YMMV: Sex is not much different. The frequency has gone down just a bit, but interestingly enough, it is my wife who will bring it up every once in a while. "Why don't you want to have sex with me as much?" She also initiates a lot more, which is nice. Some people say that with pregnant sex (at least when she's showing pretty clearly), you have to tell her she's beautiful all the time. For …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/15 03:41 PM
3

And it's not Italian. But Christopher Columbus was...
/r/askTRP24/12/15 07:25 PM
8

Holy fuck that Lofton guy had a hard-on for Zappa. And he goes full-on retard with the Hitler comparison. Basically Lofton just argues against everything Zappa says, just for the sake of disagreeing with him. I do like how Zappa holds frame and doesn't let them switch the narrative or move the goalposts on what the 'debate' (if you can even call it that) is supposed to actually be about.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 04:05 PM
50

confronted me through Facebook heh...
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 02:42 PM
1

Did I miss the part where you go from being short and emotionless through text to being their best friend? This is you seeking validation.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:26 AM
1

Great wall of text. Next time, try formatting properly if you want real feedback. And, based solely on your title, why do you think she owes you an explanation?
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:21 AM
5

Also when doing those curls, make sure to 'mire yourself in the mirror and groan loudly with each rep (also fuck good form, that's only for stiffs and rule followers). Take a long time between sets and refuse to let anyone work in with you, to establish dominance.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 07:12 PM
3

This. "Please let me bragsplain this for you."
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 06:02 PM
1

gaga ಠ_ಠ
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 12:50 PM
3

You thought a hyphenated last name meant it was Italian?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 12:49 PM
2

This sounds like the result of a creative writing assignment in a women's studies course at a second-tier college.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 10:14 PM
33

I love this post. I agree that it's perceived importance that seems to matter. Recently, my wife decided that she wanted a different light switch by the front door to control the outside porch light. Rather than a regular on/off switch, she wanted one that could be both programmed to go on and off at certain times as well as controlled manually. That particular wall box had two switches, one for the porch and one for the inside foyer. After I opened the wall box, I realized that I had to do a lo…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 10:09 PM
2

Agreed. "Escalating slowly" is excuse-speak for being a pussy in the face of obvious green flags.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 10:10 PM
30

Bingo. Scarcity mentality all the way. Any normal, socially adjusted man should understand that there are plenty of fuckable women in the Bay Area, especially for a fresh college grad with some cash in his pockets working at Google.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 12:31 PM
3

Of course it's possible. Why wouldn't it be? I have several friends who are living that exact lifestyle right now. But, the Dan Bilzerian (whom I do not respect) lifestyle is not quite the same as "having cool friends, nice parties, and sex with attractive women" as you put in your post.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 01:06 PM
1

You should ask a fucking lawyer in your jurisdiction, not an internet "endorsed contributor".
/r/askTRP10/11/15 02:56 PM
4

MRAs are trying to win the political correctness contest. . . . MRAs predictably fall into the trap of matching suit and suddenly they're a bunch of pussies fighting over trivial shit. Spot on, and very interesting. Basically, the desire for 'mainstream acceptance' of the establishment MRAs leads them to play by the rules of the feminists, which is just what the feminists want. It's self-destructive. "Well, maybe if we dilute the message and dumb it down to match the knuckle-dragging tone of the…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 07:10 PM
1

Agreed. The only caveat I'd add is when the "thing" leads to the "experience(s)". One example: when I was 14 or 15, my parents/Santa got me my first electric guitar. That was a "thing", but it led to lots of amazing experiences and memories. Same idea goes for the first handgun my dad got for me -- led to a lot of fun experiences going to the shooting range together.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 04:14 PM
2

Divorce attorney here. Yes, lawyer up immediately, but don't tell her and don't have the papers served yet. Pony up the cash for a private investigator to get solid evidence of the adultery. Any competent divorce attorney will have two or three go-to PI's to choose from. The most important reason for this is if you live in a state where adultery bars alimony. Secondly, you can use it as leverage in settlement talks, as (speaking from experience) women often will do anything they can for their ad…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 12:05 AM
1

Dial them.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 01:52 PM
1

Ha, agreed.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:01 PM
1

I don't live on the farm. It's a weekend hobby. I'm not nearly in the same position a lot of posters here seem to be in, but I think the red pill is an important concept overall.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 01:09 PM
2

Thanks. The point is, just stop. I feel like the mental aspect was much more difficult. Just making the decision and trashing my pack was the biggest step.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 01:39 AM
2

Here's a tip: just fucking stop. I smoked cigarettes off and on (mostly on) for about 10 years. A year and a half ago, I decided it was stupid, so I quit. My secret? I threw away the pack I had and never smoked again.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 10:00 PM
2

Don't make a big deal out of it. Only 2 of my handguns are really concealable (unless I'm wearing a big overcoat), and I really don't carry in public much at all. I open carry on the farm with a 22 cowboy revolver sometimes, which my wife thinks is cool.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 09:42 PM
2

Great advice, especially to have well-rounded or diverse hobbies. Think about things you liked to do as a kid, and turn them into "grown up" hobbies. Personally, I enjoy target shooting (pistols and clays), working on my cars/tractor, building wooden models of boats, and fishing. I'm also about to get certified for underwater/scuba diving. I also have chickens, horses, and probably goats soon too. I also think it's good to have hobbies that contrast with your day job. I'm a lawyer and own my own…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 08:58 PM
1

Stop complaining and making excuses.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 01:11 PM
1

But that isn't your question in the post. You are asking what you should say to her (implying you owe an explanation), not why you feel like you should. So, you're being disingenuous one way or the other.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 09:10 PM
1

Exactly. I never understand people who yell out their car window and heckle fat people who are running/jogging on the sidewalk. They may be struggling, but at least they're doing something to improve themselves, rather than sitting on the couch eating Cheetos and making excuses.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:23 PM
9

Are you from a rap video?
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:19 PM
5

So true. I like visiting for the weekend, cool music, good food spots, interesting art, good national/state forests. But for fuck's sake the pseudo-hipsters there take themselves way too seriously.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 09:31 PM
1

Of course. For example, I'm a lawyer. Although, I don't get paid a 'salary' from someone else, because I own the practice.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 08:15 PM
1

R/cooking
/r/askTRP16/09/15 08:36 PM
2

Agreed. My wife is 20 weeks pregnant at this point. Your advice is spot on, although interestingly we have been having more sex than usual since week 5 or so.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/15 10:11 PM
2

Hide the Sausage.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 08:37 PM
7

Ange is very set on both her children having equal opportunity No. She is set on equal outcome, not equal opportunity. Anyway, I'm a divorce lawyer. This is a relatively common complaint, especially the frustration about the belief (or objective knowledge) that the custodial parent isn't spending the child support money for the child's benefit. What really sucks is there is almost no way to effectively enforce that. And it's not for lack of trying, believe me. And it's not because "the law favor…
/r/askTRP24/07/15 01:48 PM
1

If you step up to the plate, you need to be ready to take a swing. Don't start the confrontation if you're immediately going to back down.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 02:08 PM
1

Really? Start a rumor about her? What is this, fifth grade?
/r/askTRP12/07/15 05:40 PM
0

I probably sound like a whiney bitch right now You do. This is an embarrassing post.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 05:38 PM
9

It's not a schooner; it's a sailboat!
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 12:11 PM
3

Yeah, that advice is retarded. Everyone knows you use a squash, not a cucumber.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 12:05 AM
5

Holy shit. And I thought the "I'm 14 and how do I alpha?" shitposts were bad.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 10:55 PM
3

I have oneitis and I am mate guarding. FTFY. Just admit the truth. You have oneitis, you are trying to mate guard, and if she's your ex girlfriend, then at most she's a plate, in which case, see above.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 10:34 PM
13

You don't have oneitis, you say? Well, I'm definitely not gay, but I love having sex with other men.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 01:01 PM
7

You sound incredibly butthurt. You expected her to hold all of her plans open for you for two days after you merely asked her if she was free, and didn't actually propose anything? Edit: Also, she didn't remotely or even "sort of" cancel anything, as you claim. All you did was ask her if she was free, and then two days later, get buttmad because she was no longer available. There was nothing to "cancel" in the first place.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 08:27 PM
2

After the initial goals are achieved, the goal then becomes an effort to justify its continued existence.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 11:55 AM
2

A prenuptial agreement has no force unless you actually get married. It is a conditional contract, the condition being that you get married. So, you can't have your cake and eat it, too: either you aren't married, in which case the agreement is irrelevant; or, you are married. Secondly, your marriage will have no legal effect if not done "through the state". Honestly, it sounds like you want to get married to please someone else, but personally you don't want to be subject to the legal ramificat…
/r/askTRP20/06/15 11:52 AM
12

Why do you care what she does? If she's truly a plate, you shouldn't. This sounds more like oneitis.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 11:45 AM
7

This is exactly it. If it doesn't fit into what I expect, or makes me feel bad, or is confusing, he's cheating.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 09:06 PM
1

I don't know, I think "curvy" in the original sense of the word (not a PC term for "fat") is pretty great. Marilyn Monroe was curvy. Sofia Vergara is curvy...
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 08:58 PM
1

"... got a pussy." I guess. I've never banged a real fatty so I'm not sure. That's all I can come up with. Although the stereotype is that fat girls can suck a mean dick.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 08:52 PM
12

Seinfeld talks about this briefly on Colin Cowherd's podcast. He says people actually got mad at him for doing a golf joke about Tiger Woods because, at the time, Tiger was having a bad tournament. He also talks about how everyone just wants to use terms like "racist", "sexist", etc. He provides an anecdote where his daughter told him that something he said was "sexist", and he criticized her, saying young kids want to be outraged and don't even know what those words really mean. Seinfeld calls …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 03:30 PM
8

Her name is, and has always been, Caitlyn, you shitlord! /s
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 01:07 AM
1

Yes. Same reason it used to be preferable or more desirable to have pale skin because it signaled you didn't have to be outside in the sun laboring. Now, it is the opposite. Edit: Same, generally, with white collars. Although "white collar" now still generally means a better paying, professional job, it used to be used as a signal to show you didn't have to get dirty outside to work. The clean white collar/shirt was the indicator.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 10:55 PM
2

Plus if you end up divorced, being an awesome active dad creates a bond the kids will never forget, regardless of custody. It may even HELP in a custody battle if you videotape some of your interactions and their joy. True. I'm a divorce lawyer, and if you have a child who is old enough to express a preference to a guardian ad litem or to the judge, think about how the judge/guardian would consider the two following preferences: "I want to live with Dad because I get to sit around and watch TV a…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/15 04:53 PM
1

Ask your uncle about it. I'm a lawyer. You may want to look into your jurisdiction's rules of professional conduct. I can't put my finger on it, but it seems like this could implicate these rules. A lawyer demanding payment from someone who is not her client and not a party to the case...? What exactly is she demanding payment for? Am I missing something here?
/r/askTRP07/06/15 07:25 PM
1

Only you know if it's an excuse. This requires brutally honest introspection that many people fear. At bottom, you need to ask yourself with respect to each hobby/pursuit/activity: Am I doing this because I enjoy it and it adds value to my life, or am I doing it as a way to avoid women? And, frankly, you shouldn't be analyzing everything in your life in the context of how it relates to your pursuits with women.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 07:18 PM
9

Sounds to me that he's not criticizing redpill theory itself. Rather, he's bemoaning the typical posters on r/theredpill as trying to out-alpha each other in dick-measuring contests. And, I agree with him. There are a good 8-10 regular posters there who are thoughtful and insightful with their posts. The rest is usually garbage, although the field reports are useful sometimes. R/askTRP is way worse, though.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/15 01:54 PM
2

Are you sure you're not the retarded one?
/r/askTRP04/06/15 07:54 PM
2

This is a great fucking FR. You did a very good job of really breaking everything down without delving too far into pointless minutiae. I'm in the beginning stages of planning a trip for me and my wife, and I'll definitely refer to this as the date gets closer.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 07:46 PM
2

For God sake, man, what "handling" is there to do? If you feel like helping, then do it. If not, then don't. If you do, don't expect anything in return. Edit: You sound super fucking immature, especially the bit about panning her off on a "retarded" kid. If you're fishing for ways to harm or insult her out of spite, then you've already lost.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 07:16 PM
1

Dread only works on a plate you already have. It doesn't work in this situation. What in this story makes you think this girl would care if OP sees another girl?
/r/askTRP04/06/15 11:08 AM
3

I love a good backhanded compliment. Me too. I just feel like that missed the point of OP's post.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 04:43 PM
3

I feel that staying in the "scene" and wearing metal influenced attire, staying away from conventional haircuts that might actually suit my face better than the shaved head and beard I've got now, will make it very hard to do this. Just because you're part of a "scene" or are into something like metal (or punk, hip-hop, jam bands, whatever) doesn't mean you have to look or dress a certain way. Sure, you might get labeled as a 'poser' or something, but who gives a fuck what those people think? Yo…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 04:41 PM
10

These are just essentially back-handed compliments. Part of OP's post is meaning what you say, and saying what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 02:43 PM
10

You were publicly cuckolded, and you're unsure how to handle the situation?
/r/askTRP01/06/15 08:49 PM
1

I tell her she is not to speak to me like that, I will not tolerate it, and there will be a consequence for her. Don't make empty threats. What is the consequence for her?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 07:06 PM
3

wat
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:46 PM
1

What do you mean it's tough to figure out? u/jacktenofhearts describes this exact situation in the post you're replying to...
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 09:28 PM
2

Right, I remember reading that post. But, my question is why should you be prepared for the relationship reset at that particular time (6 months post-partum)?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 02:13 PM
1

Be prepared for a relationship reset around 6 mos postpartum anyway. Could you elaborate a little more on this?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 06:46 PM
1

This is a stupid fucking post. She "asked for your number" a few years ago, and you think that somehow means you're going to get in her pants now? After she's been railed by someone else and you've done nothing to give her tingles? Oh, and she has a "magical pussy" that you don't want to miss out on. LOL. I would say this is oneitis, but you never even had her in the first place. Jesus dude...
/r/askTRP25/05/15 12:10 AM
6

True. I started a legal practice right after law school. It's grueling work having to handle the back office stuff in addition to, you know, actually practicing law. I am fortunate in that my wife comes from a family of successful small businesspeople, so she understands it mostly. It gives me anxiety to even think about vacations where Internet access is limited. It's a horrible paradox, knowing that I have the luxury to take an extended weekend or vacation when I want to, but at the same time …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 09:02 PM
3

TRP isn't basic dating advice. It's being an all-around better man that stands at the very least in the top 20% of men in the world. This could be a complete response to 80% of the lame questions asked in this sub.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 07:27 PM
6

Frankly, no. To me, that should go without saying. I'm of the belief that you should do your due diligence before posting about specific problems. And my larger point is that most of those posts are so devoid of relevant context and just plain juvenile as to be essentially worthless.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 10:24 PM
3

Your response to the calculator thing is a good one. You have to understand difficult concepts in order to even be able to use the calculator in the first place. The calculator is useless if you don't know how the formula works.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 08:58 PM
12

Man, askTRP is frustrating. I find myself wanting to contribute, but it's hard to find motivation when half (or more) of the posts are things like "girl didn't text me back about confirming our date - - wat do?", "how do I escalate?", "I checked her tumblr and she posted a cryptic message HELP!", etc. I feel like the average age of that sub's posters is 16-20.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 08:55 PM
3

MRA means men's rights activists...
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 08:46 PM
1

With airline miles on a card, if you've got the cash, take the cash from the envelope, deposit it in whatever account is linked to the card, buy the air tickets with the card, then immediately make a payment to the card equal to the cost of the air tickets. If you're spending money that you don't have in cash, that's a different issue.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/15 09:08 PM
1

Thing is, if they move to a state that does recognize it and continue holding themselves out as married, OP is in a pretty sticky legal predicament.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 06:13 PM
6

I have repeatedly told her that I would never legally marry her, and the only marriage we'd have would be one in which she took my last name and we presented ourselves as a married couple. Divorce lawyer here. In a state that recognizes common law marriage, you've pretty much ticked all the boxes if she were to turn on you. If you don't want to be married, don't pretend like you are.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 04:30 PM
5

Why is it a red flag on the girl's end if a previous partner had a monster cock? The only 'red flag' here seems to be your insecurity (specifically, you considering using a penis pump).
/r/askTRP11/05/15 07:38 PM
2

Would there be legal repercussions? Of course there would be. You can't just destroy someone's stuff because you're mad at them. Are you joking?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 07:13 PM
1

She said she had a bf but I still got to make out with her. You still "got" to make out with her? Thing is she told me to add her on fb since she doesn't have a phone. She "doesn't have a phone." lol... What are you going to do with her on Facebook? Chat with her? Look at her pictures where she's with other guys who are actually fucking her? I know for a fact she was feeling me (she was actually trembling when we made out, let me run my hands all over her etc.) Oh boy. She was never really inter…
/r/askTRP14/04/15 12:23 AM
1

You sound like an idiot. Steal her back "for the fuck of it"? Sure, dude...
/r/askTRP13/04/15 11:04 PM
5

Great post. [W]omen want a man who “just gets it.” If you have to be told how to be a man, especially by your woman, you’re not a man. You’re just another child she has to take care of. This is 100% true. Although she doesn't do it explicitly, I can tell that sometimes my wife compares me to her father, who does "just get it". He's got his own minor blue pill tendencies, but all in all, he just gets it -- and it shows. Over the past year or so, I've been making a much more concerted and delibera…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/15 12:35 PM
0

She didn't lie to you about anything. You never asked about riding a motorcycle, and she had clear indications of her riding hobby at her place. Like /u/n0c0ntr0l said, be thankful she actually has hobbies, albeit a more masculine one. What's the big deal? Frankly, you sound butthurt that she's going to be around other guys without you around. This is mate guarding and insecurity. You refer to her as a plate... if she's actually a plate and you don't have oneitis (which it sounds like you do), w…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 07:36 PM
1

If your balls are "like jelly", you might want to talk to a doctor.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 09:23 PM
2

They mean you're boring. Also, is it common to brag about having Ikea furniture in your office? Because I mean...
/r/askTRP04/04/15 03:34 PM
2

Why did you post this in askTRP?
/r/askTRP27/03/15 09:26 PM
2

What makes you think Shane is a "RP coworker"? Because he's "tall, dark hair, killer smile"? So physical traits are red pill? Because he "gently shoves" her? Because he picks things up for her when she drops them? Honestly, there seems to be nothing related to red pill in that story whatsoever, other than it may lend credence to AWALT/branch swinging theory.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 03:18 PM
2

Ah... I didn't pick up on that from your original post. In that case, I don't know that my advice really changes. Do what you think is fun and enjoyable for her. If she gets a shitty attitude about it, then just enjoy it yourself (assuming it's you cooking a meal or something similar).
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 09:55 PM
1

I don't know that this is a MRP issue per se, rather than an issue specific to your wife. If I were you, I would just get her something thoughtful that she may not expect, related to her interests. To me, that's better than yet another pair of earrings, etc. Or, maybe buy her a spa/manicure/massage session. I don't know if this is "redpill" or not, but in my experience these are the gifts that mean the most to the wife, and they're typically not prohibitively expensive. Edit: If you're a decent …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/15 08:55 PM
2

There are international agreements for enforcement of child support orders. I've actually had to use it once before in my practice.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 06:41 PM
2

Well, in that case, maybe you should read this.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 01:31 PM
4

Why does it matter if his "first impulse" was to run to reddit? For that matter, who says it was the "first impulse" for the authors of the other stories? If you subscribe to AWALT, then you would have to imagine that since all women are like that, there must be women whose SOs are active redditors who would look to reddit (and probably elsewhere) for advice. Frankly, I don't care for reading much of these RP revenge porn-esque stories, but your post really just reeks of concern trolling.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 12:24 PM
2

Absolutely. I think this is the basis of a lot of butthurt associated with men doing home maintenance, and I certainly have been guilty of it in the past.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/15 09:54 PM
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Absolutely. Wife and I had been talking about repainting the trim around the front door for a while. Last weekend, she went out to get lunch with her mother and visit a family member who had come into town. As soon as she left, I went to Lowe's, bought the paint, cam home, and painted. It wasn't until she had been back home for several hours that she went back outside to grab something from her car, then came back in with a confused look on her face. Her: "Did you... It looks like you painted th…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/15 09:31 PM
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Easy solution: actually be the guy you were pretending to be. No excuses.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 09:39 PM
10

Jesus, dude. Would you like advice on wiping your own ass, too?
/r/askTRP22/03/15 10:39 PM
0

So, you're looking for a red pill explanation on "[h]ow okay [it is] to feel" about something that happened to you?
/r/askTRP22/03/15 09:35 PM
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Why do you need other people to validate your feelings?
/r/askTRP22/03/15 08:55 PM
3

Dude. Dude. This is some of the most pathetic shit I've ever seen on here. Grow up and move on.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 12:57 AM
1

Agreed. That's the primary takeaway from this.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 02:09 AM
2

And I realized that a lot of people don't want to hear about how you are getting in shape or even improving because it makes them feel inadequate. This is sort of similar to the way that talking about RP in front of BP people makes them react badly. I don't know that I agree with this. Honestly, it sounds like you were just being annoying. Nobody likes hearing someone blabbing incessantly about a particular topic, especially something like diet and fitness. Just because someone says you're talki…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 01:42 PM
1

Consider putting a ring on her and calling her your wife but not getting legally married. This is a very bad idea if you live in a state that recognizes common law marriage. I'm a divorce lawyer, and I wouldn't even consider that situation to be an arguable issue as to whether the parties were married under the common law.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 06:29 PM
2

Interesting. I rather enjoy the casual "I love you" as a married couple, although I don't shower my wife with them all day for no reason like some people. The post-sex "I love you" is like a cheat code, though. I usually couple it with a deep kiss and an ass squeeze. Used it this morning after I fucked my wife, and she nearly melted.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 09:31 PM
1

Yeah, I agree. I'd do the McDonald's thing, but I'd most likely have something else small planned too, and I'd surprise her with that later in the day.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 04:01 PM
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I agree. I don't know all the details of OP's situation, but sometimes I feel like in this sub (and in the main RP sub), people are actively searching for reasons to "go redpill" on their wife or otherwise get aggressive against some perceived affront. Everything doesn't have to be a conflict.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/15 08:29 PM
1

No. The plaintiff in a civil suit has the burden of proving their claims, although the burden of proof is lower than in a criminal case.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 03:05 PM
3

Not sure what point you're trying to make here...
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 12:39 AM
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My advice isn't wrongheaded - it's reality. Let me be clear: I do not agree with what's going on, and I have defended men in the past on this. But, legally speaking, this guy has fucked himself over.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 12:37 AM
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Divorce/custody lawyer here. Frankly, this guy stuck his head in the sand and is paying for it now. I will preface this by saying this is awful, but... He knew there was an issue in the 1990s when he got pulled over. At that time, he should have taken legal action. This is analogous to a statute of limitations issue. If you loan John $10k, he then defaults on the loan, you know about his default, and you wait 20 years to take legal action, guess what's going to happen? You're going to get booted…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 09:24 PM
2

Sure you can. I'm just talking about being able to enforce a prenup should the marriage end.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 08:29 PM
1

Yes, you still need to disclose. The idea is that you can't make a truly informed decision to sign the agreement without full disclosure.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 08:29 PM
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Divorce lawyer here: Generally speaking, in any jurisdiction, for a prenup to be upheld, both parties must have given and received full, fair, and complete financial disclosure.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 10:14 PM
3

Sometimes the jokes are just for me. That's pretty funny; I'm definitely using that. I like to make a lot of deadpan and corny jokes all the time. Thankfully, my wife thinks it's funny, and all her friends like me and think I'm funny so it's no big deal. But that's a good line when you deliver a dumb corny joke for your own amusement and it's met with an eye roll and barely concealed laugh.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 10:10 PM
0

What is the point of this post, and why did you post it in r/asktrp?
/r/askTRP19/02/15 01:49 PM
1

I'm dealing with a little impostor syndrome of late as well. Kinda feeling like this can't be real, because all I did was lose 30 lbs, fix my posture and work on being more dominant and really doing the eye contact. And it seems like these doors are just opening easily. So one part of me is going, "can this really be true?" But the other part is going full blast and telling me I'm handsome and women are into me, something I never used to do. I'm so much more confident. It feels weird. Being in y…
/r/askTRP17/02/15 06:45 PM
3

I wanted to know if there are any good books/literature/tutorials on how to wow her once we initiate sex. My beta syndrome takes over and I start soft kissing and making love BS. She really just wants to be fucked hard by the Alpha she thought she married. Sex God Method by Daniel Rose.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/15 05:54 PM
3

Every year around this time, I buy the same pair of casual sneakers (same color and style) to wear during the warmer months for the upcoming year. I've been doing it for years (since before I even met my wife), and I beat the hell out of them. My wife surprised me with that pair of sneakers. Also, she bought me a nice pair of metal customized collar stays. I wear suits for work usually at least twice a week, and I'm always misplacing the flimsy plastic collar stays that come with my shirts, so t…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/15 04:38 PM
1

Stop hanging out with this chick. You aren't her fucking friend -- you want her back! You are lying to her when you hang out with her in a "friends" context. Exactly. Not only is it cringeworthy, but it's a covert contract to boot. "Oh, maybe if I show her how good of a friend I can be, she'll start fucking me again!" Don't do this, OP.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 07:24 PM
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All you just did is basically say "I didn't put this girl on enough of a pedestal, so she left, and I want to build a better pedestal to put her on so maybe she will come back." This. This is exactly what you're doing, and it's not good.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 07:22 PM
1

I've only been married a few months, but this is our setup, which we discussed and agreed to several months before we actually were married: We have one joint checking account. We both deposit a set amount into that account each month. That is the bill and "mutual activities" account (e.g., things we do together like eating out, going to a concert). We have one joint credit card (well, one account, but we both have our own cards for the account) . We put almost every joint expense on that card a…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/15 08:59 PM
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Great post, man. I've found myself in the same position before with my wife. And, if I remember correctly, you are an attorney, as am I. I have a feeling that isn't a coincidence, especially since I'm in court a lot being "serious".
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 10:30 PM
2

It's probably a joke/tongue-in-cheek...
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 03:52 PM
1

Don't be fatalistic about it. If you want something, take the steps to make it happen.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 10:00 PM
1

You're exactly right. This is LMR, not a dread game situation.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 09:58 PM
2

... says the guy with "mofo" in his name.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 09:34 PM
2

That post is clearly fake. I'm shocked you even considered the slightest possibility it's real. Wow.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 03:18 PM
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Great post. Everyone is unhappy; no one knows why. That is a very powerful line in relation to what we discuss here at MRP. I am a divorce lawyer, and I see that exact scenario all the fucking time.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/15 10:29 PM
2

You're an idiot. Frankly, you sound too immature to be having sex, and this idiotic topic doesn't even belong on this subreddit.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 01:23 PM
1

Who are you nexting? You're "talking" to this girl, big fucking deal -- she isn't your plate to next. Frankly, you sound like a child. Quit worrying about stupid shit like "who texts first". This absolutely does not belong in this subreddit.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 11:27 PM
1

There's no point in having a firearm for personal safety if it's not even at your residence.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 06:51 PM
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The only one of those states that doesn't recognize it until death/probate is New Hampshire. I understand that the minority of US states still recognize common law marriage, however it is still something to consider, especially in a transient/mobile society. This is because of the Full Faith and Credit Clause of the Constitution. I am a divorce lawyer, and I have seen this fuck people over. And, to be fair, I have done the fucking because I was paid well to make the argument. Frankly, you typica…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 04:10 PM
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I recommend going forward with your vision of a family, including the wedding and kids... but missing one important aspect: no marriage license or contract. Terrible advice if you live in a state that recognizes common law marriage.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 03:33 PM
4

Marriage licenses are public record.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 03:27 PM
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If you're going to do that, do it in person over a couple beers and ease into it gracefully. That Facebook message is a lot of hedging and concealing your true intentions. Be straight up with him man to man. Amd lose the fucking smileys if you absolutely have to use Facebook for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/14 10:16 PM
6

Who cares? And what the fuck does this have to do with /r/asktrp?
/r/askTRP28/12/14 02:14 PM
4

Sexual strategy here is amoral. Take your shaming and moral judgments elsewhere.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:12 PM
1

No, he goes to jail for contempt of court due to wilfully and intentionally violating a court order.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 03:58 PM
3

No. It works the same way. The classic example is a surgeon who gets hit with a huge child support bill, doesn't want to pay it, and quits to work at McDonald's so he has to pay a lower amount. The court will impute the income he could reasonably earn if he were employed to full capacity when collating child support.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 09:51 PM
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Divorce attorney here. I'll give you some very general thoughts on what you posted, since I don't know what state you're in, and I've done no investigation into your particular facts, etc. She has accumulated roughly $300,000 in student loan debt for a degree that might earn her good money if she were willing to work. Did she accumulate the debt before or after you were married? If it was before you were married, generally speaking, it is considered nonmarital and would remain her sole liability…
/r/askTRP23/12/14 02:43 PM
2

I think it's pretty relevant and has practical application. The point is to not get emotional/angry/upset and reflexively resisting or capitulation to everything the wife says, simply because it is she who suggested it. I think it shows good leadership and decision making to demonstrate that you will filter out the noise but you're willing to pay attention to legitimate suggestions.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 09:30 PM
16

Interesting. They also posted an article related to MGTOW today, too.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 04:21 PM
1

You sound like you're in love with the idea of writing about The 48 Laws of Power or "something TRP like", but you don't really understand why or how to do it, or what you hope to accomplish by doing this. You've also admitted that you haven't even read the material about which you propose to write. Here's some advice: don't try to proselytize on a subject that you not only haven't mastered, but haven't even read in the first place. It really sounds like a terrible idea all around, and I questio…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 04:06 PM
0

also, can you guys define why women have no honor? I'd love to add the reason to my journal of "why society will fail" which i eventually want to put onto redpill. Please don't.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 09:48 PM
6

and this is why wealthy businesses and businessmen have to donate to charity to improve their PR. Actually one of the main reasons they donate to charity is to lower their tax obligation, which is itself a self-interested reason.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 07:46 PM
1

Do you meet in groups? Have you found it beneficial to your life?
/r/askTRP26/11/14 07:41 PM
1

I joined a meditation club. Wat. What exactly does a "mediation club" entail? Sitting around with a group of people silently? Not hating on you; that just seems very bizarre to me.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 07:01 PM
1

True. Something like this probably existed when I was in college, but they weren't vocal or organized enough to make any difference. I was involved in student politics and never heard about it.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 02:52 PM
1

How could anyone possibly know what you did to pull these girls? You give no details whatsoever, other than you: kept TRP mindset and initiated kino wherever I could,I also drank enough to gain courage.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 03:42 PM
1

This article is horrifying. I was in college barely 10 years ago, and I don't recall anything like this at all. This is The Great Echo Chamber™ of modern extreme political correctness.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 02:26 PM
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Agreed. I'm trying to find anything worth praising in here, but I just don't see it. Also, the fact that (if I'm reading OP's post correctly) all of this occurred in the span of only 3 days, it's even worse.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 06:52 PM
1

Biographies of Theodore Roosevelt. The ones by Edmund Morris are the best. TR was a straight-up badass, and his life is extremely interesting.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 07:44 PM
1

I really don't think so. Well, you are certainly entitled to "think" whatever you want. Right, but isn't that what you are doing, too? Obviously not. Do you have any case law to present? That would certainly help resolve the question. Well, if you are in fact a lawyer, finding such should not be all that difficult for you now would it? Not to be petulant, but you're the one claiming that the ADA would almost certainly apply in these circumstances and that me disagreeing with that premise is "ign…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 08:04 PM
1

Actually there more or less is: the "public accommodation" provision of the ADA -- and yes it is as a court would likely interpret and apply it I really don't think so. I mean are you suggesting that people ignore "case law" and precedent here? Obviously not. Do you have any case law to present? That would certainly help resolve the question. There are a SMALL number of specific categories of organizations and entities that can consider themselves to be "fully excluded" (and thus NOT vulnerable …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 05:57 PM
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III-1.6000 Private clubs. The obligations of title III do not apply to any "private club. " An entity is a private club for purposes of the ADA if it is a private club under title II of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, which prohibits discrimination on the basis of race, color, and national origin by public accommodations. Courts have been most inclined to find private club status in cases where -- Members exercise a high degree of control over club operations. The membership selection process is h…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:37 PM
1

Eh, the ADA wouldn't apply in these cases, but I imagine the insurance costs would be pretty astronomical and as a requirement for providing the insurance they'd make people demonstrate a certain level of proficiency using the equipment. Which itself is sad, really, since if I go to Home Depot and buy a table saw, no one is going to ask me if I know how to use it. You'd need some pretty serious liability waivers for members to sign.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:49 PM
2

I'm a divorce attorney. You have a complete misunderstanding of the law. Hell, I just took a quick glance at California's online child support calculator and (unsurprisingly) student loans and similar debts are not a factor.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 01:17 AM
1

I'm not sure what you're arguing with me about. I actually agree with your comment for the most part. I'm not "splitting hairs", because I specifically said I wasn't going to engage in that discussion. The reason for that is the consent issue is not relevant to the actual issue we were discussing -- i.e., having a non-biological father pay child support. The case is not relevant to the issue being discussed. Edit: But I am impressed in a negative way that you are making some argument that it's j…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:42 PM
1

Poor Poor Pitiful Me -- one of the late, great Warren Zevon's best songs. Poor, poor, pitiful me Poor, poor, pitiful me These young girls won't let me be Lord have mercy on me Woe is me I met this girl in West Hollywood I ain't naming names She really worked me over good She was just like Jesse James She really worked me over good She was a credit to her gender She put me through some changes, Lord Sort of like a Waring blender
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 08:10 PM
2

It's been at least a year since I've watched this video, and I didn't watch it again (I'll try to if I have time later), so I'm hazy on the details of what exactly he says. But, the way you describe it is sort of half-true, and not the way I'd expect a law professor to explain it. Hearsay is one of the most complex areas of evidentiary law, and I'd say that at least 50% of my evidence class in law school was devoted solely to hearsay and its many, many exceptions. The basic definition of hearsay…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 07:23 PM
2

Cool. Did you watch the end of the video? The court dropped its support request and vacated the arrearages. That "article" doesn't really support your position at all. That type of paternity law isn't uncommon. A child born during a marriage (which is what happened to the first guy in the video) is presumed to be a "child of the marriage" and if the parents separate or are divorced, then the non-custodial parent (usually the father) is going to be on the hook for support by virtue of that presum…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:50 PM
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Everything you say can only be used against you. Nothing you say to the police can be used for your defense. An officer using your statements in your defense is considered hearsay and isn't admissible in court. That is not accurate. Source: I'm a lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:38 PM
2

That case isn't relevant. In Hermesmann, it is undisputed that the man is the biological father of the child. I'm asking about cases where the woman has successfully petitioned the court to make a man who is not the child's biological father (and also not married to the woman) liable for child support. I'm not interested in debating whether he should still be liable for support. Edit: You should also be aware that the criminal act committed by the mother of the child was not forcible sexual assa…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:28 PM
4

Source please. I'm a divorce lawyer and I see people spouting this off on reddit all the time. I would love to see an actual example of this happening and a court requiring it to continue.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 02:40 PM
5

But wait it gets better. She then sues him for child support. What are you even talking about?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:36 PM
5

The only problem is he doesn't know how to even hang out with guys any more That is fucking horrifying.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 03:26 PM
7

I don't want to increase masculinity. I want to take advantage of the mass amounts of stupid women walking around in their day to day life not aware of how simple they actually are to figure out. Here's the thing, though. You're being told that increasing masculinity is how to attract or "take advantage" of these particular women. Yet, you're refusing to consider that solution. It seems to me that you're being told that X is how to accomplish Y, but you don't want to do X when X is more or less …
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:51 PM
1

Another example of the same fallacy [straw man]: "He killed a harmless fly. What stops him from killing a harmless puppy?" That's an example of a slippery slope argument, not a straw man.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 08:20 PM
16

"February 30th."
/r/MGTOW08/09/14 07:10 PM
3

Flawless victory on Mortal Kombat 2?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 11:26 AM
3

If she stays with you long enough the power shifts back to her via common law marriage and she knows it. It doesn't work that way. Stop trying to play Internet lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 11:24 AM
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Fast forward a few days and my mother receives a call from our lawyer. Immediately she told me to hide. Within minutes a police cruiser showed up at my front door. My mother informed the officer I was not there and would not answer any questions. There was no warrant…yet. Sorry dude, I'm going to call bullshit on that. I'm a lawyer, and I cannot envision a scenario where after a rape allegation (which at that point you knew nothing about), "your lawyer" somehow gets word that the police are at t…
/r/MGTOW05/09/14 08:55 PM
4

Do you think the benefits of marriage outweigh the consequences? If so, which benefits in particular? I don't know that I'm in a position to answer that. By the nature of what I do, I typically don't meet people until the marriage has fallen apart. I don't really think this is a 'legal' question, anyway. Edit: I am a proponent of traditional marriage, and I am a Christian. I will say that, in my opinion, a good 75% of the divorce clients I represent never should have gotten married in the first …
/r/askTRP01/09/14 11:05 PM
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I am a divorce attorney. I really don't have the time to sit here and do a traditional AMA though. I'm happy to answer questions, I guess, but it won't be instantaneous. You should also consider that domestic law is highly fact and jurisdiction specific (I'm in the US), so I'd be able to speak only in generalities and without reference to the location in which I actually practice.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 05:23 PM
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I am a divorce attorney. I really don't have the time to sit here and do a traditional AMA though. I'm happy to answer questions, I guess, but it won't be instantaneous. You should also consider that domestic law is highly fact and jurisdiction specific (I'm in the US), so I'd be able to speak only in generalities and without reference to the location in which I actually practice.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 05:23 PM
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The title of this thread is sensationalist and click-bait. From the actual memo from Goodell: If someone is charged with domestic violence or sexual assault, there will be a mandatory evaluation and, where professionally indicated, counseling or other specialized services. However, it isn't clear from the memo or news reports whether the 6-game suspension requires criminal charges. The above quite appears simply to trigger a mandatory evaluation. The headline of this thread is still a bit sensat…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 02:14 PM
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Too long. And this: what days are you free this week? is too needy. It also does two bad things: (1) it puts the onus on her to make plans; and (2) it makes you appear as if you're going to jump through hoops for her. It communicates that you are willing to jump at her beck and call when she's ready to hang out with you. That's not the message you should be sending. You should be sending the message that you have an awesome life and that you're inviting her to be a part of it -- on your own term…
/r/askTRP25/08/14 09:57 PM
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I'm a lawyer. Interestingly enough, this exact concept is near the top of my "guide" and discussions with witnesses when I'm preparing them for court or a deposition.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 09:36 PM
1

It certainly can be like that, but the situations I described above most assuredly are not. She knows where you are, what you are doing, and who you are with. Who cares? They're not trying to hide anything. They're not trying to play dread game, although I'm sure if they felt the need to, they would. In fact, I like it that the wives know we're in there, because at one place in particular, if we're in there doing something (helping with a woodworking project, making a homebrew batch, etc.) the w…
/r/askTRP25/08/14 01:48 PM
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I've never thought about the man cave in the context of a shit test. Interesting. I can certainly see how it would be, if the man allows the woman to tell him that his domain is confined solely to the man cave. However, the proper frame should be that, in addition to having inout regarding the rest of the house, the man cave is exclusively the domain of the man. The distinction is important. In the first scenario, the man's only domain is the man cave, and it is solely his (in theory, at least).…
/r/askTRP24/08/14 12:18 PM
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the mother does not give a fuck because she simply does not know what giving a fuck is Great point. I've always thought that asking a person in that position, "Why don't you care?" isn't the right question. Because they're going to reply, "What do you mean?" They don't even know how to correct the behavior. So yeah, being poor in itself != bad parent, but I'm guessing these statistics are definitely influenced by that culture/class. Exactly. Just like a kid getting in trouble in itself != bad pa…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 01:45 PM
4

Very true. "In vino veritas" as they say.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 09:06 PM
2

I think that's just inviting the plate to attempt to have the "So, what are we?" talk as soon as you two are alone.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 08:10 PM
3

This article doesn't say anything about your claim that "most of the women who got raped had an orgasm." In fact, the article doesn't have anything to do with actual rape. It's only about fantasies.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 01:37 PM
2

The linked story literally doesn't say anything about the race of any of the parties involved.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 01:32 PM
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This is a fucked up situation to be sure, but it's also important to understand that these men pled guilty. They did not go to trial. While a guilty plea is technically a "conviction" and I don't think OP's thread title was purposely misleading, I believe the context matters here. It may have been a different story if they had tried their cases. I'm a US lawyer and don't know UK law, but I would have to imagine that there must be an element of an intent in the law they were accused of violating.…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 05:31 PM
1

Really? Lawyers bring no value to society? You are foolish. All they do is take money other people earned. What is the origin of the money people use to pay you? It's money that other people earned and decided to give to you in exchange for the services you provide. Does your local baker "bring no value to society" because all he does it "take money other people earned" when they give him $3 for a loaf of fresh bread? Your 'argument' makes no sense.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 12:00 PM
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I think this also applies to those past the "getting to know you" stage, but to a lesser degree. For example, I have been with my LTR for ~3 years. Even if I'm not fucking her that night, not getting a blowjob, etc., I always do something sexual even if it's not a big deal. I will always grab her awesome ass a few times, squeeze her tits, whatever. She loves it. But your point should be strictly applies by those in the early stages of the relationship with the girl, or with any established plate…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:12 PM
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Thank Christ someone put this in an independent thread. I'm a divorce lawyer, and the vast majority of the shit I see on this subreddit regarding common law marriage and prenups is just mindnumbingly uninformed.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:28 PM
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No. Georgia hasn't recognized new common law marriages for over 15 years.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:52 PM
3

Elliott Hulse did a video on this subject. Basically he says don't be "nice"; rather, be "kind".
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:27 PM
1

People really need to stop responding to this idiot's threads. Look at his thread posting and comment history.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 10:47 AM
1

These laws generally don't give you the unambiguous right to murder a fleeing criminal No one said they did. /u/JohnGalt316 didn't say anything about a "fleeing criminal". The question is whether the castle doctrine is a 'formal law', not whether you have an "unambiguous right to murder* a fleeing criminal". *'Murder' isn't a good word to use here, since it has a specific legal meaning. If you 'murder' someone, then by definition it wasn't a justifiable homicide.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 11:23 AM
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Rape can now be defined as a sexual experience a woman desires at the time but regrets months later for whatever reason at all. This is how it is beginning to be defined by the courts. As a lawyer, I'd love to see a source for this. I think you'll be hard pressed to find one, in the United States at least.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 07:49 PM
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Uh, yes it is. It may not be called "castle doctrine" in a particular jurisdiction (and a particular jurisdiction may not recognize it at all), but it most certainly is a 'formal law'.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 07:45 PM
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I wouldn't say that MGTOW implies that the man doesn't have a high enough SMV to get acceptable women, although that could be true in some cases. Rather, it simply means that the man isn't interested in seeking out women, regardless of his SMV.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 02:07 PM
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I wonder what kind of crazy, borderline-illegal shit shit they did with her prosthetic in the bedroom...
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 11:49 PM
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Apparently "RYO tobacco" means "roll your own" tobacco. Which, really, is just a nice way of saying she works in a head shop. I'm sure all their customers smoke tobacco out of their hand-blown glass pipes they buy from her.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:18 PM
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She seems like a winner and quite a catch.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 06:19 PM
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expressing my freedom as a woman What the fuck does that even mean? In my opinion (and this doesn't only apply to feminism), people feel the need to invent methods of "expression" and use that to explain away bad behavior.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 01:17 PM
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I suggest buying her a calculator.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 06:25 PM
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Or, he could sit on the couch for the blowjob and then tell her what happens during the episode.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 09:15 PM
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upvoted, but I disagree on a prositute. If he gets picked up by law enforcement, that will result in a very bad outcome at divorce time. I suggest going to a bar, club, whatev, and banging out some strange the old fashioned way. As a divorce lawyer, I 100% agree. However, I would argue that paying a prostitute is, in fact, "the old fashioned way." They call it the world's oldest profession for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 09:10 PM
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That is fucking hilarious. I'd love to see the reaction to that.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 09:03 PM
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RAINN is not the US government, and IRS innocent spouse relief has nothing to do with this. Believe me, I've handled innocent spouse relief issues with the IRS before. Whether some organization like RAINN says this is "abuse" is irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 12:19 AM
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Okay. But what /u/haltingstate said is that it "meets the legal definition of domestic violence in US law." What you've provided is merely the theory of a nonprofit organization.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 05:18 PM
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You'd need to be holding yourselves out publicly as husband and wife and "have the reputation in the community as a married couple" for it to be a valid common law marriage in Colorado.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 04:22 PM
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You could potentially drag her ass back into court if she were ordered to pay half and didn't, but there's little to be done about it. They won't put her in jail or make her sell anything to pay for it. Actually, they can put her in jail for contempt of court if she wilfully disobeys a court order. It's the same concept as putting a parent in jail for refusing/failing to pay child support, or any other number of things in court orders. You're correct in saying the court can't "invalidate" your l…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 04:18 PM
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You're going to need to provide a source for this. I'm a lawyer, and I have never heard of anything close to this claim you've made.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 04:13 PM
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Thank Christ someone (other than me) has posted about this. I'm a divorce lawyer, and the misinformation on /r/TheRedPill about prenups is sometimes astounding.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:53 PM
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Just make sure that you either 1) don't legally marry her (you can still have a ceremony of some sort and call her your wife) No. Absolutely do not do this if you currently or in the future live in a jurisdiction that recognizes common law marriage. That is basically the definition of common law marriage.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:50 PM
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only take consideration from endorsed contributors So, does that mean that we shouldn't take seriously anything you post?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:49 PM
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I believe it was Abraham Lincoln who uttered those immortal words.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:38 PM
1

Sounds like Bill Murray's character in "Groundhog Day".
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:09 PM
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Lying in a civil case most certainly can mean jail time. Sure, but where did she perjure herself? Meaning, where did she give false testimony under oath? President Clinton was impeached and lost his law license for 8 years for simply misleading a court. Terrible example to use. Impeachment is merely the process of bringing the President to a civil trial in Congress. If you recall, Clinton was acquitted of both charges: obstruction of justice and perjury. Secondly, Clinton lost his Arkansas law l…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:44 PM
1

Think about how many other "damn attractive" girls live within a 10 mile radius of you. You are inviting her to share in your own awesome life. If she declines, her loss. Embrace the abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP10/07/14 10:46 PM
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This has nothing to do with the red pill and shouldn't be here.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 11:11 AM
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Then it sounds like you've got everything as handled as you possibly can. Good work.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 04:22 PM
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I know, I deal with prenups all the time in my practice. No one should even try to limit or deal with child support at all in a prenup. Frankly, it's malpractice to do it. Remember, the burden on invalidating a prenup is on the party claiming that it is invalid (i.e. did not comply with the laws of the jurisdiction in which it was signed), a result of undue influence, no longer equitable, etc. And that is a tough road to travel. Yes, a judge can invalidate all or part of a prenup. But it's not a…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 03:31 PM
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Are you sure that "no fault" means what you think it means? I'm a divorce lawyer in a "no fault" state. All that means (in my jurisdiction) is that in addition to the other traditional fault grounds, a divorce may be granted on a "no fault" ground (such as separation for a year). But, importantly, even if the no fault ground is the actual ground used for the divorce, other fault-based factors (such as adultery) can be used to influence other aspects of the divorce process and eventual property d…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 03:04 PM
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Why does there have to be a "move"? This isn't your battle.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 12:07 PM
2

How is this story relevant to the red pill in any way?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 08:47 PM
1

No shit. This thread is basically an attempted "brag" because OP is so alpha that he refused to give some girl a ride home at 2am. Terrible stuff all around, especially the cringe-inducing vocabulary he uses.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 02:28 PM
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Not really sure how relevant this is to TRP, but I will say that the twoplustwo forum has some absolutely fucking epic and hilarious degen stories. I used to be a member several years ago, and there was one guy in particular (I wish I could remember his username) who would post the most insane and hilarious stories about his Vegas degeneracy. I'm sure a lot of them weren't true, but damn were they funny. If anyone knows that guy's username or can find those threads, please share.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 11:51 AM
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tho i cut my hair due to getting punched in the face too much when sparing. What does long hair have to do with getting punched in the face while sparring? How would short hair prevent this?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 12:54 PM
1

You have "an almost perfect wife"... except she sometimes lets complete strangers feel her up in public with you present? Wat. Are you fucking kidding me?
/r/askTRP02/07/14 09:33 PM
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Fellow lawyer here. I agree, brah.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 09:15 PM
2

Improve your real life and don't worry about your virtual one.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 11:53 AM
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Your professional life is more important than a temporary crazy fuck.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 11:50 AM
1

Who cares? She clearly isn't interested.
/r/askTRP29/06/14 11:30 AM
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Are you serious, dude? This is what "asking the Red Pill" has come to? How to 'defuse' a girl on the Internet who called you a name? This post is pathetic. Poor baby.
/r/askTRP29/06/14 11:25 AM
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This is terrible. You have her number under false pretenses -- you should have been direct with why you wanted her number. This is almost like a covert contract. Contact her if you actually want to be in this weird documentary, but don't bother with trying to get in her pants; it won't happen.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 10:22 AM
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You really think some magical text recipe is going to fix this? It isn't. You fucked up, and it's over with. Move on and learn from your mistakes. Also: I wasn't feeling sexual because it was my first time. What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/askTRP26/06/14 10:20 AM
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You become insincere (“ironic”) about everything in your life, to the point where you have plausible deniability about everything. You are insulated from all forms criticism because you never actually take a stand on anything and you always have an out (“I liked it ironically”). It’s easy, disingenuous and safe. That is a great fucking observation. I've struggled for a while with articulating what irks me so much about hipsterism. You've hit the nail on the head.
/r/AlreadyRed25/06/14 09:24 PM
1

As a lawyer, I have to deal with this constantly. And that is exactly how I handle it during settlement negotiations.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 08:07 PM
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Sports is a good place to start. Most areas will have adult leagues where you can go play and then relax and grab a beer later with some other dudes. The bonus is it will also help you stay fit. Even if it's not basketball, soccer, etc., you can look for fishing or hunting clubs/groups if that interests you. Whatever your masculine hobbies are, look for clubs/groups in your area.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 07:51 PM
3

Judge Judy is binding arbitration, which is a legally enforceable decision.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 08:10 PM
3

"I had my eyes closed because the experience was so traumatic I was trying to block it out of my memory."
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 05:57 PM
4

This is a terrific analogy.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 08:21 PM
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Interesting. I'm a divorce attorney, and I actually encountered this in a case I handled a year or so ago. I was representing the wife, and during one of our meetings she said that her husband had "mentally and verbally abused her." I told her that that wasn't a ground for divorce but could maybe be relevant for other reasons. I asked her to elaborate. She said that she had become depressed, didn't want to have sex, and her husband was complaining that she wasn't saving money like they had agree…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 08:19 PM
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fucked another dude raw-dog and now I'm pissed because I thought I was the only one getting that privilege. Covert contract. Look it up.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 10:35 PM
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No, a common law marriage is a different way of being legally married. It is in comparison to statutory marriage. There can be no divorce without marriage. Source: I'm a divorce lawyer. And I've successfully both proven and defended against common law marriage claims.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 08:29 PM
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It's a corrupt insidious system that has 10's of millions of men paying child support on children not theirs. Source?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 01:48 PM
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Great post, dude. I see so many people getting hung up on their partner count or the frequency of lays. First of all, sex shouldn't be the measuring stick. But more importantly, you have to consider why you're getting sex. Women provide sex for a reason -- it isn't random. Is she providing it because you give her tingles and she's interested in the sex itself? Or is she providing it because she is looking for you to provide for her or keep you in line to keep you as an orbiter? I would encourage…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:39 PM
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Good point. No wonder people spend hours a day on Facebook, Instagram, etc. carefully crafting their online persona, which usually only slightly resembles the person in the real world.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 11:43 AM
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This is really a great (if somewhat pithy) comment. And it really applies to a vast majority of the whiny, "How do I respond to this?" threads posted daily. If it acts like a duck and talks like a duck...well, why the fuck do you want to hang out with a duck anyway?
/r/askTRP27/05/14 09:49 PM
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This is really a great (if somewhat pithy) comment. And it really applies to a vast majority of the whiny, "How do I respond to this?" threads posted daily. If it acts like a duck and talks like a duck...well, why the fuck do you want to hang out with a duck anyway?
/r/askTRP27/05/14 09:49 PM
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This is a very insightful comment. Women propose to eliminate the effect of the problem (i.e., my overeating causes me to naturally feel shame -- therefore I will no longer be ashamed), whereas men will propose to eliminate the cause of the problem (i.e., I am fat because I overeat and don't exercise -- therefore I will begin exercising and no longer overeat).
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:41 PM
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Interesting. Yeah, I was just curious about that particular area's compensation structure.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 04:10 PM
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Fellow attorney here, though I practice in an entirely different area. What kind of cases do you handle on the plaintiff's side of securities litigation? Shareholder suits? So, do you have a $135k set salary, is it primarily based on your fees from contingency cases?
/r/askTRP15/05/14 03:44 PM
1

Well, he did have multiple scandals while he was Governor of Arkansas.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 06:40 PM
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Well, depends on what you mean by "arbitration" (sorry, don't mean to get all lawyerly on you, but it matters). You can have either binding or non-binding arbitration, which means exactly what it sounds like. Non-binding arbitration is almost like a dry-run of a trial, whereas binding arbitration basically is a trial, since the arbitrator's decision is final. Where I practice, you can engage in arbitration on family law matters, although I have never actually been involved in one. What they usua…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 07:05 PM
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Sure, I practice almost exclusively family law. /u/riverraider69 's proposal is too clever by half, and would never work. From an analytical standpoint, signing a contract ostensibly having the mother "indemnify" you is no different than just trying to sign something to have her waive the right to child support. It's a feeble attempt at an end-run around the law that won't work. And, as /u/bankruptedcasino points out here, it's prohibited by statute. And, from a purely legal/practical standpoint…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 06:34 PM
1

"Free"
/r/askTRP29/04/14 09:04 PM
4

The only time this has ever happened to me, I just chuckled and said, "Believe me, luck has nothing to do with it."
/r/askTRP29/04/14 08:48 PM
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I'd almost be more worried about your son's view of money. He was trying to borrow from Peter to pay Paul.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 09:32 PM
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Just ignore her and continue keeping in contact with her mother, if that's what you want to do. And, I'm not saying stay in contact with her mother because it will piss off your ex -- that shouldn't be your concern or even your motivation. Keep in contact with her mother for the simple fact that it's what you choose to do. If her mother indicates she doesn't want to be in contact with you anymore, fine, accept it and move on. The way your ex feels about how you choose to conduct your affairs pos…
/r/askTRP17/04/14 09:08 PM
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Divorce attorney here. What you're saying is true, and most jurisdictions have condonation (or a similar term) as an affirmative defense to use against a claim of adultery. However, you can "close" the window of condonation, so to speak. For example, say the BP guy knows his wife is fucking these other guys in this "poly" relationship, and he condones it. Then, he gets fed up with it and says, "You know what, this isn't working for me, and I don't agree for it to go on any longer." In that situa…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 05:10 PM
3

Never really paid any attention to it, but heard about it during my days lurking the mASF seduction forums. David DiCarlo Escalation Ladder [PDF]
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 03:49 PM
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I like your description. I'm not quite as old as you are, but I feel as if our youths were cut from the same cloth, as it were. I totally agree with what you said about boundaries and growing up in the suburbs (I did, too). For us, it was me and about 3-5 other similarly aged neighborhood kids who would ride our bikes all over the place to the pool/country club where we all belonged, or just down random streets in the adjoining neighborhoods to explore (or, really, to try to 'randomly pass by' g…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 03:19 AM
2

No one. But NavyP-3 mentioned the FCC, which is American. Then, Stillflippingoff disputed NavyP-3's analysis of the FCC's rules by providing an example of something that happened in a country not subject to the FCC.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 08:42 PM
9

Neither Australia nor Britain is subject to the FCC.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 12:42 PM
5

If all that is true, then the guy is basically f*cked. Eh, as a currently practicing divorce attorney, I'd say that is mostly true, but presented in a way that makes it sound worse than it really is.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 06:36 PM
4

This man should leave his wife and let her deal with this child accordingly. He won't have to pay child support (unless he signed the birth certificate). It doesn't work that way. A child born during a marriage is presumptively considered under the law to be the biological child of the husband. If the parties separate or are divorced, the noncustodial parent will have to pay child support. That is not to say, however, that a man cannot overcome that presumption and not have to pay child support.…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 06:34 PM
2

Yesterday I glanced at Facebook for the first time in months. This was the first thing I saw. I immediately regretted my decision.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 02:46 PM
3

Tax free, free from most rules and regulations, and you are allowed to discriminate against anybody for any reason. Not quite. IRS rules for organizing clubs under Section 501(c)(7) do not permit discrimination based on religion*, color, or race. Furthermore, in order to preserve tax-exempt status, you cannot exceed certain business income limits from "nontraditional" sources. And, you cannot derive income from dealings with the general public. * There are some narrow exceptions to this.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 01:31 PM
2

Man I loved my time in the Scouts. Some of the best bonding I ever had with my dad. I didn't go all the way to Eagle, but it was a blast.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 09:29 PM
3

We are not Siamese twins, joined at the hip. My time is my time, just like her time is her time. Yes, I like spending a lot of time with you, but I also like to spend some time by myself with some tools in the workshop, get a couple beers with the boys and watch the game, go target shooting, etc. Just like I don't get bent out of shape if she plans a girls' night to watch shitty rom-coms and drink wine, spend an afternoon getting her nails and hair done, etc. The point is, if you don't establish…
/r/askTRP31/03/14 09:44 PM
9

"Well, I just bought these sheets yesterday, so I guess you could say that."
/r/askTRP31/03/14 09:31 PM
1

"Fine, then you do it."
/r/askTRP30/03/14 09:16 PM
6

You left out an option: 5) Do whatever makes you happy. I choose number 5.
/r/askTRP29/03/14 06:03 PM
1

You're "terrified"? Get a grip, dude, you're not ready for this. Should I . . . set some strict ground rules for a hook up? And what makes you think she'd entertain that?
/r/askTRP29/03/14 01:42 PM
1

I'm a divorce lawyer, but even if I weren't, my comment would be the same: This is a retarded question.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 09:11 PM
7

Not all of us are lucky enough to have a buddy willing to get naked for us later in the night.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 08:49 PM
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[X] single mother [X] drug addict [X] no job [X] man provides everything [X] no sex [X] violent [X] emotional blackmail [X] cheating on him Troll? Or just the bluest of the blue pill?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 08:24 PM
2

Self-control breeds confidence. When you know (not just pretend) that you are the one in control of your own life, the choices you make, and are able to show that control by your daily actions, confidence will flow freely. You need a reason to be confident. You don't just become confident out of whole cloth.
/r/askTRP28/03/14 02:55 PM
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One, maybe two maximum. Regarding your post, however... You've left a lot of things out in my opinion. If 8 kids all do different kinds of activities, there's tons of added transportation costs, not to mention you'd need a larger vehicle, which equates to more money being spent. As to healthcare, you're also assuming that you will have that same coverage throughout the entirety of all 8 kids' lives (before they move out). You'll need a bigger house if 10 people are sleeping under the same roof -…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:14 PM
5

Am I the only one who thought this was tongue-in-cheek? I definitely laughed out loud at the last part.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 09:06 PM
7

What's the over/under on the ratio of male vs. female prosecution for this crime in the first year? I'll contact my guy in Vegas and get a book going.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 08:56 PM
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Its fun to sneer at feminism, watch hamsters hamstering, sloots hitting the wall but that is not of value to you beyond proof and context. Put this to use hard now, or first thing tomorrow if its bedtime, because otherwise you will get bored of reading every manosphere blog every day and eventually drift back to the matrix Exactly. You can spend all day reading Red Pill 'philosophy' and 'theory', but without any action, all you become is a keyboard jockey.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 06:38 PM
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Take a little time out and improve your product before you go about trying to sell it. That's a great TL;DR of the OP, and a very good way to think about these things in general.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 05:06 PM
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I agree. Take a look at how much time the average woman spends staring at her phone. If you think she's "bad at texting," you're kidding yourself. The problem is she doesn't want to make plans and is avoiding it, rather than "not having enough time" to spend 15 seconds texting you back.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 08:30 PM
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There isn't a magical "red pill response" to everything. Red pill, in my opinion, is more of a state of mind than anything else. It sounds like you were just making pointless conversation.
/r/askTRP24/03/14 09:06 PM
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Definite troll. The same guy posted this stupid thread a few hours ago, and I'm surprised that no one has called it out as being a troll thread.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 03:55 PM
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So you posted this thread without any kind of source whatsoever? Cool. As a divorce/family court lawyer myself, I'd be very interested to see a source on this. Oh, I'm sure you can find one or two crazy stories, but there are always outliers. General rule: You won't pay child support for a child unless it is biologically yours, or if you have legally adopted it.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 12:31 PM
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She isn't interested. Deal with it, improve yourself, and move on.
/r/askTRP22/03/14 07:59 PM
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Eh, it would be hard to find the time to do a comprehensive write-up, let alone the simple fact that, in the United States at least, every jurisdiction is going to have its own body of case law, statutes, quirks, defenses, etc. While there are some general universal principles, I can speak in detail only to the jurisdiction in which I practice. The best advice really is to consult with an attorney in the jurisdiction in which you plan to be married. I think that if prenups were truly "worthless"…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 04:12 PM
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Exactly. Or, if it's not exactly somewhere you'd go by yourself anyway, make sure it's close by (within a 5 minute walk) to other places you'd go on your own. If she's not there by 5:15, do whatever it is you want to do. Don't make yourself available at her beck and call.
/r/askTRP21/03/14 02:21 PM
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Just a nice story of someone finding the RP in them, slowly but surely. By running away when things didn't go the way he wanted, and letting a girl he'd just met make the rules? The guy didn't even have the balls to make it clear that he was terminating the night. So, instead, he leaves his jacket because he's afraid of what might happen if the girl figures out what's going on. Then he tries to justify it by saying "lol but it was only $23 on sale at the Gap."
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 02:09 PM
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No, they're not lies. Sure, there are exceptions to everything. Just like in a civil litigation context, other complicated contracts are put forth to the scrutiny of the courts all the time. Some hold up, and some don't. You should never try to cover child custody or support issues in a prenup. From the attorney's point of view, it's a malpractice trap. And, every jurisdiction is going to look into the child's best interests on everything relating to a child, regardless of what a prenup says. Co…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 08:10 PM
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I don't think this means what you think it means. You need to consider it in context with the rest of the statutes in that chapter. The one you cited refers to nonstatutory solemnization. The preceding sections of Chapter 595 outline the process for statutory solemnization; that is, the usual or "normal" marriage process. The one you cited simply provides an alternative method to do so. So, you can still be married without paying the costs in Section 595.11 (which seem bizarre anyway), provided …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 07:58 PM
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How about this: "Obviously I have one massive goal in going: demonstrate I don't give a fuck and am high value I want to have fun.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 06:35 PM
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Cite me a state with non-contestable dwelling segregation laws. What does this even mean?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 06:27 PM
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your only option is to never live in the same dwelling or share finances in any way, else you become common law [married]. That's not accurate. Common law marriage in the U.S. isn't anywhere near as simple as that. Secondly, I believe that approximately only 25% of the states will allow you to create a common law marriage (though it can later be given full faith and credit in other states that don't recognize the creation of common law marriage).
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 06:26 PM
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Dude, as a divorce lawyer, a lot of this stuff seems either inaccurate, unnecessary, or both. You seem to not fully understand the concept of marital property, which is generally defined as all property acquired by either spouse during the marriage (subject to typical exceptions such as inheritance, gifts from someone other than the spouse, property acquired in exchange for pre-marital property, etc.) regardless of how legal title is held. One thing I really don't understand here is when you say…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 06:23 PM
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He can also still have a criminal case brought against him, which his media handlers obviously know. Just because they aren't charging him at this time doesn't mean much. Jeopardy hasn't attached.
/r/MensRights09/12/13 09:40 PM
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You make quite a few assumptions there, but whether you are correct or not, if his mother was the personal representative of his estate or his successor in interest then the money goes to her.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 07:32 PM
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r/theredpill
/r/seduction04/12/13 10:57 PM
1

So what's your email address and password?
/r/seduction03/12/13 11:05 PM
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Probably because men are more willing to take high-stakes risks and are naturally more innovative.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 01:44 PM
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What do you mean "work on leaving" her? It's not like she can exercise a veto. Make the decision and then implement it. And, as the PUA community would say, GFTOW.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 09:13 PM
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Sounds like the pleasure he'd get from a blowjob is significantly outweighed by her overall craziness and attitude.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 03:07 PM
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Yeah it never is. "Fornication" is actually a crime still some places too.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 01:03 AM
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For example, it's not illegal to cheat on your spouse. Actually in many US states adultery is still a crime.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 11:35 PM
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Right. And it's not quite so simple when "breaking up" entails a long drawn-out legal process.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 08:28 PM
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Have any examples of this?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 06:12 PM
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Michigan and Nebraska reward her for being a worthless cum dumpster if she wants to be one. What do you mean by that?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 05:29 PM
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Not quite. The operative word is voluntarily under- or unemployed. The classic example is a doctor making $500k a year who, in an effort to avoid a high child support/alimony payment, quits his medical practice and gets a job working at McDonald's. A court cannot literally force you to work a different job, but for purposes of calculating alimony or child support, they will impute income to you at a level you can reasonably earn. That is completely different than being laid off or not being able…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 05:23 PM
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That's certainly possible, I guess. But, I'd tell you what I'd do if I were the woman's lawyer and wanted to make a push for alimony. I'd dig into old financial records and show the type of lifestyle that they had lived in the past. What matters in both alimony and child support is what the spouse is capable of earning, not what they actually are. If you are voluntarily underemployed or voluntarily unemployed, a court will impute income to you at the level that you are reasonably capable of earn…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 03:42 PM
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That was my favorite past. "I'm with you, not him". Response: "Yes, and that's the problem."
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 03:10 PM
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That's not how alimony works. The hypothetical $50k in the bank is part of the marital property settlement, not alimony. Alimony's intent is to allow the supported spouse to maintain the same lifestyle he/she had during the marriage. It's usually based on the earning capacity of the two spouses. As with child support, you can't intentionally take a lower-paying job to lower your child support payments, just like a parent receiving child support can't intentionally take a lower-paying job (or not…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 03:04 PM
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Obesity is just, like, a social construct. It has nothing to do with biology!
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 11:51 AM
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I was once told by a blue piller that simple creatures (specifically, a spider) having sex was not necessarily an innate instinctive behavior. It could be "spider culture" I guess. Comedy gold.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 09:35 PM
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I think most of them have this comical idea of what a PUA would be like in real life. They probably picture a guy with an over-exaggerated swagger spouting cheesy lines left and right while simultaneously negging them. Heh... Like Mystery?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 11:07 PM
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I think the primary benefit of this post is that not only is it peppered with theory, but the bulk of it is (ostensibly) real-world examples from regular dudes. Very good post.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 10:17 PM
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I guess you could characterize it like that. It was weird because my guy didn't even mention it until the other attorney, after we had already finished the written agreement, brought it up in a phone call. I discussed it with my guy and he said, "Oh yeah, I forgot about that." (It was hidden away in the house, which he kept). So really the tape didn't affect the litigation while it was ongoing. It was a strange situation all around.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 10:10 PM
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Fine. Destroy the tape (assuming it's the only copy she has) and have client sign an affidavit attesting to the fact. Problem solved. I have actually had a client do that before in a somewhat similar situation. No one was trying to use the sex tape as evidence or blackmail, but other party wanted an assurance, with built-in penalty of legal consequences, that the tape was gone and all known copies destroyed.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 07:51 PM
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Nice try. I've already told you I'm an attorney and all but a tiny bit of my practice is high-conflict divorce/custody cases. Whether you want to believe it or not is up to you and not really any of my concern. So, if it suits you, go ahead and assume that we're both not attorneys, because it doesn't change my question to you: Can you provide any examples, or even common sense logical reasoning, that would illustrate how a pre-marital sex tape would in any way affect a financial/property settle …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 06:44 PM
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Subjectively and practically, it is entirely relevant and applicable and useful in both financial and custodial negotiations and settlements. Please provide a single example of how it would be relevant to financial negotiations? I've asked you twice now, and you have yet to provide a single example. In a 730 Psychological Evaluation it would, and is, entirely admissible and would be allowed to be part of the body of evidence and subject to the psychologists report in regards to custodial issues.…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 06:24 PM
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Dude, I'm a divorce lawyer. Believe me, I know how the system works. The video will not help in either of those two situations, barring one exception. Financial - A video of his wife engaging in a gangbang has absolutely nothing to do with any financial obligations whatsoever, especially when it occurred before the marriage. Really, please shed some light on how a gangbang before the marriage has any relevance at all to financial or property distribution issues. Custody - This video won't help w…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 05:28 PM
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He should've dumped her and kept the video. It would've made the divorce much easier, from a financial point of view. It's always better to negotiate with your foot on the neck of your opponent (figuratively speaking). That video wouldn't have helped him in negotiating any kind of divorce settlement whatsoever. Unless, of course, you're talking about a blackmail situation, which is completely different. Then again, even if you were trying to blackmail her and threatening to make the video part o…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 04:44 PM
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This makes me cringe for many reasons, but one in particular. I'm a divorce lawyer. The longer he waits to file after having discovered the affair, the better an argument she has for a defense of him condoning or "forgiving" the cheating, thus eliminating the advantage he'd otherwise have.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 08:34 PM
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Is it possible at all to have a "sort-of" meaningful relationship with a woman who, although not a feminist and possessing all the qualities a man would want in a woman, still likes to drink more than she can take? Every once in a while, most people will have one too many and cross the proverbial line -- it happens. However, someone who habitually drinks more than they can handle is not deserving of respect, whether male or female. Lack of self-control is one of the more disgusting traits a pers…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 07:37 PM
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Check your privilege before I wreck your face with it! Given that I actually laughed out loud reading that in text form, I can't begin to imagine how hard I'd laugh if someone actually said that to me in person. Jesus man.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 10:08 PM
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This is the most alpha post I've ever seen. Kidding. In all seriousness, I think the community needed a post like this from a mod.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 09:46 PM
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Most people who get exposed to a little RP and then rush to "mentor" their friends are full of it. They are doing it so eagerly because they enjoy being the one who is in the "wise mentor" position. Spot on. This is why, when I was in my first year of law school, a particular professor explained to us why so many people find first-year law students (or freshly sworn-in lawyers) to be so fucking insufferable: You know just enough to be dangerous. This is true in many, many aspects of life and I'v…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 07:30 PM
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The GV number appears as the incoming number. I'm a lawyer and use it as a "business cell" for clients so they don't have my real cell number.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 01:35 PM
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TIL it is "dangerous" to simply disagree with an idea. Absolutely fucking unbelievable.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 11:57 PM
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I'd like to see a comparison of the new subscribers to this subreddit (since you have to be subscribed to comment) in conjunction with the influx of comments and traffic to RoK.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 11:50 PM
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It will give them something to talk about with the chicks they hit on Saturday night. "Yeah so I totally internet blasted this totally misogynistic website last week. Basically I opened up Linux, and then...wait, where are you going?! I was going to buy you a drink!" sob
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 11:46 PM
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When has that ever stopped the radfems?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 11:03 PM
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Yes.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 10:55 PM
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I'm on my phone right now and unable to reply thoroughly, but your point is well taken. And for the record, I don't discount the online "manosphere" (I agree it's a terrible name) out of hand. I personally like a healthy mixture of anecdotal and "scientific" evidence before drawing my own conclusions. I've been on reedit for years (this isn't my main account) and have lurked here at TRP for a very long time before creating this account. I think you'd agree there are a TON of utter shitposts here…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 09:55 PM
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Interesting stuff. It's good to see actual scientific literature on the subject, rather than online manosphere "theory," much of which is questionable at best. Unrelated, but I got curious about other Dark Triad-related studies, so I did a quick search on SSRN. Here's an interesting tidbit from a 2011 study (from the abstract; I haven't read all of it yet): This study examined correlations between moral value judgments . . . and participant scores on the Short-D3 “Dark Triad” Personality Invento…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 08:24 PM
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Besides sex, is she adding value to your life? This is a great question and should always be asked when evaluating a woman.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 04:16 PM
2

Case in point: Halle Barry. Lawd have mercy.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 09:53 PM
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This guy is a whiny loser. This whole thing is "She won't have sex with me?! But I bought her a drink at the bar!" writ large.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 01:13 PM
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[tw: weight loss talk, fat hate] Are you fucking kidding me? Weight loss talk is a "trigger"?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 12:27 PM
2

creepy smile :}
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 09:51 PM
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These may be the two of the stupidest and most useless bots I've seen on reddit. I definitely didn't expect them in this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 06:29 PM
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Ugh. That guy is doing all the PUA-approved shit I remember from 5 years ago when I used to lurk on the mASF forum. You've got the quick 'kino escalation' (doing the Brooklyn handshake, whatever the hell that is), asking her to keep a secret, etc. The most annoying of which is the constant looking away/distracted and using incredibly feigned "disinterested" body posture. The only thing arguably worse than that is the fact that he used some variation of the phrase "some shit" about 500 times.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 06:23 PM
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Damn, those are some great looking boots. I do a good bit of outdoor farm-type work on family property every weekend, but I'd be worried about getting them all scuffed up and covered in horse shit. That's the type of high quality leather footwear I'd want to wear while I'm out and about.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 06:16 PM
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I'm... not sure how those work. I wear suit and tie pretty much everyday, and I use regular removable collar stays in all my dress shirts. How exactly do the magnetic ones work? in before obligatory "magnets...how do they work?" jokes
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 06:13 PM
1

I actually thought the reference was to your ball sack... TIL.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 06:07 PM
1

Bitcoin has not had any security breaches, wallets and services have. That may be true, but isn't the security of bitcoin entirely dependent upon the security of its wallets/services?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 06:06 PM
1

Double-edge here also. Plus Prorazo shaving soap (not pre-made cream) that is just made to get that brush in there, work out a lather and get to it. You're doing it right. I have the same setup. When I first got into wet shaving during college, I tried probably 10 different types of soaps/creams, and Proraso is by far the best. That eucalyptus and menthol combination is awesome on your face in the morning. Spent the money on a high-quality badger hair brush (a lot of people don't realize that th…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 06:02 PM
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Because we shouldn't be afraid of people disagreeing with us.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 08:15 PM
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Yep. I made plans the other week with a lady to come over to my place for dinner. The day of the night we were supposed to hang out she texts "Still want me to come over tonight?" I looked at my phone... then sighed and typed back. "No" What the fuck did you expect to happen? That she would text you back begging you to let her come over?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 01:52 PM
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Me either. I wonder of she also yelled "YOLO".
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 09:55 PM
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;^) (just kidding)
/r/askTRP08/11/13 06:09 PM
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It's not cheating if you're confused. LOL. Gold medal for mental gymnastics.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 01:26 PM
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Isn't that the kid from Jerry Maguire?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 10:22 PM
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Their entire personality usually revolves around calling themselves feminsts This is very, very accurate and in my opinion the main reason that radfems and the like are so threatened by opposing ideals. It's also very true for many other unrelated areas of life. The bizarre need to "belong" to a specific group with a named identity is something I'll never understand.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 10:57 PM
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Please confirm. Yes.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 08:04 PM
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