Confused if Alpha or Orbiter?

vox_veritas · 2015-06-20T11:45:03+00:00

Why do you care what she does? If she's truly a plate, you shouldn't. This sounds more like oneitis.

weiry6922 · 2015-06-20T11:31:48+00:00

It may have been as simple as her just wanting to fuck another guy.

You're almost talking like you guys were in a relationship or it sounds like you wanted a relationship. She was a plate, what she done outside of fucking you doesn't really effect anything and you shouldn't care about what she's doing, unless you made some sort of a agreement when you plated her that she couldn't fuck other dudes or something.

lucid8 · 2015-06-20T11:24:32+00:00

You were weak then, so she went to another guy. Do you have oneitis for this girl?

Archwinger · 2015-06-20T14:54:54+00:00

Plate != girlfriend.

Your should have six plates, not one. That's what makes them plates. And you should assume all of your plates are seeing other guys. Wrap your dick.

If you had five more girls lining up to suck your cock, this one completely replaceable and not special girl fucking someone else wouldn't faze you.

BinglesTRP · 2015-06-20T12:43:10+00:00

She asks me what's wrong and states that it's not fair I'm mad because we were just friends. I told her we obviously we're not friends since I made it clear and we were hooking up whatever.

This one is from page 1 of the AWALT handbook. It sounds like you failed by saying too much. Even if you didn't intend to, it looks like you're showing her you care too much about her.

It sounds like she saw you as the challenge, and you were until the above happened. This is oneitis.

laughkisskill · 2015-06-20T13:33:06+00:00

Another perspective, even plates have comfort tests to pass? I'm not sure what the others would say about this but it sounds like maybe you failed a comfort test somewhere in there after crushing all the shit tests.

She may have been craving comfort so much she went to beta feel good bucks for a spin, then realized that wasn't as satisfying. Regardless you should have been less concerned when she addressed you about it. My suggestion would be next time, laugh, fuck her, maybe marathon service for a night, and send her home before deleting her number.

SexistFlyingPig · 2015-06-20T15:18:02+00:00

"If you can't spot the sucker within 30 minutes of sitting at the table, then you ARE the sucker."

If you have to ask whether you're the alpha or not, then you're not.

Title	Confused if Alpha or Orbiter?
Author	142354765
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	June 20, 2015 10:17 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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