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You do what you want. You know coincidence isn't frequent. You blocked her, she told mommy and daddy, and now they're trying to play the middle-man for their little girl. I cringe to think that they're going to try to ask you why you broke up with her, as if that's any of their business. Tell them politely, "no thanks". Then see if they're going to try to strong-arm you with "You NEED to meet up with us, we need to talk", at which point you laugh. There's hardly a bigger red flag than parents ov…
/r/askTRP07/11/15 04:40 PM
2

Yeah, really speaks volumes about why he can't handle this exchange naturally.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 04:36 PM
0

So what do you want? TRP to tell you how to talk to human beings? Just say something about it. A lot of people get this mentality that they need to shake hands hard or you won't view them as a man. Firm Handshake /= Death Grip. It doesn't mean he's trying to faggotize you, it just means this is what was pounded in his head. I would have way more respect for the guy who speaks up and voices his issues face-to-face, as opposed to the guy who slinks off to the internet to mentally masturbate about …
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:58 PM
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I just want to communicate to her that I am busy & don't want to report all day. THEN DO IT. Nut up, and tell her what the hell YOU want. This isn't TRP, this is Not Being a Pussy 101.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:53 PM
2

Then he's not a true alpha. Whether you admit it or not, if it's not coming across as genuine, it's because you know this. Really, you've got an understanding of it better than most. Straight from your mouth - "His way of being a man". That's what it's about. If it doesn't work for you, don't force it. Everyone here will tell you that being a fake alpha will get you about as far as being the most blue beta. Fuck it - Call him out on it. You'll see how much he's internalized when he gets put on t…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:51 PM
5

Let me phrase it like this: If she told you "I'm not interested in you" would you still be pouring effort into her? Because she has told you she's not interested in you. On to the next one, friend. You delete the number, if (and this is a BIG if) she reaches out to you on the day-of, you have made other plans. Or you just don't answer at all. It needs to be quick, to the point, and over. Whatever she replies, you don't answer. My time is precious and my life is fun, and yours should be too. Disc…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:37 PM
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1) You know why they're called "Unicorns", right? 2) "If I let her go I may never find another" Oh, man... 3) She offered a number. You believed her? ... At the end of the day, do what you want. This sounds like a LOT of work, though, and it's fairly obvious that you're willing to hop in the first taxi that stops to grab you, regardless of the rates, because you don't think another one will ever show up. I don't think this would work for a guy that has his internal shit together. Definitely not …
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:33 PM
1

Simple. "All that matters, is that I'm having a good time". Straight from their mouths. They don't care if 10% of the room hate them, or 90% of the room. They do what they want, when they want, and don't let anyone get in their way. They even take a step further sometimes and pull off some silly shit like over-texting, spilling guts, etc. No impact. Constant dick riding. Mistakes? Who gives a shit, they don't. Really just shows me that if you have the whole package wrapped up, the world really i…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:29 PM
1

Who cares what she did? What does your gut tell you? (you know what it tells you - dump her). 1) Oneitis already. Stop. Dump her. 2)You have no abundance. You know you should dump her, but you won't because X, Y, Z. There are others. Many. 3) She isn't manipulative. Yes, she is. You've just typed some manipulation out right here. Unfortunately, every man has that one woman that pulls this shit on them. You'll see. Either you'll learn from it and adapt after this, or you'll repeat the cycle ad in…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:25 PM
1

Thanks for the insight. I'm sure you've noticed the CONSTANT stream of Indian men talking about how being Indian is such a life-ruining experience. I always assumed it was culturally-infused. The internet definitely doesn't help, you're correct on that.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:23 PM
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It's not manipulation. This isn't a "Guide on how to fuck sluts and bang women". This is an active, dynamic conversation on how to better yourself as a man. All the TRP-Jargon is just to describe common methods of diffusing situations and interacting with people, to become a better social creature in all aspects of your life (Remember - This shit is applied to your professional life as well). Think of it like this - You take some shitty pre-employment training for a job. They tell you things lik…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:20 PM
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Trust me, now is the season. Fall weather is perfect. Even though it's just a day hike, you'll feel like you've accomplished something. When you bring a girl to a trail you already know, you'll look like a fucking stud. And there's nothing funnier than taking these basic bitches who all claim to "love the outdoors" to a trail that's not fucking paved. It's world-shattering to them. After coming across a giant snake, I literally had a woman grab my pack, pull herself right up against my back, and…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:12 PM
1

Work out. Do something. Serious question - Are all Indian men insecure or something? Where does it stem from? A lot of people have sexual tension built up inside them, they carry on with their mission, and the problem works itself out. When you focus on it, you come across as needy and desperate, even subconsciously.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:11 PM
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Live alone. You'll grow a lot as you rely on yourself and only yourself. It will force you to go out more to meet people, you'll improve your day game as a result. It was the best decision I've ever made. I'd definitely try it for a while, if I were you. It sounds like it's time.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:38 PM
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Honestly? I got older, and gained wisdom. I stopped caring as much about "creating" future happiness, and just started acting on what would make me happy at the time. I had multiple hobbies, and unlike what you've said up above, none of them had anything to do with getting validation from other people (I'm confident at 18% BF at the beach, because I know the work I've put in, and don't care about anyone else there. I got my car because I wanted something fun to drive). I can hop in my sports car…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:30 PM
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Being shredded isn't going to solve your problems. It will help, but don't get stuck in this mindset that all you need to do is hit some magical BF% and the gates will open. You really need to understand the side bar. I'd say a good 60-70% of what we preach here stems from internalized factors that are honestly harder to latch on to than cutting to 15% BF.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:25 PM
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The best thing about dry spells, is that your test goes through the fucking roof. Use it to your advantage to lift and have some of the best workouts you'll ever have.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:22 PM
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Yeah, I'd be shocked if a doctor agreed to do this on you at the age of 18. You'd have to really shop around. You can't cum in her with a condom on? You should be wearing one anyway.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:19 PM
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Something casual. That way if she's lame or throws up more red flags than Nazi Germany, you have an easy out. I prefer something where I can have a drink or two. Casual little hipster bars with mood lighting are plentiful in just about every city. Go there. Shit on her drink choice for fun if you can do that. Keep it light. Kino until she can't take it anymore. Leave. Fuck. Repeat. I'll K-Close in this setting almost 100% of the time. If you're not looking to bolt out of the establishment and ru…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:16 PM
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As /u/sodainthewatercup6 said, it's ASD. She knows she's a party slut. When she's drunk, she doesn't give a shit. When she's sober she feels exactly how she should feel. Think of it this way, it's not that you're not arousing to her, or that you don't give her tingles, it's that all the drunken partying and hooking up has bolstered her ASD to astronomical levels.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:14 PM
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Prepare for the fallout. She's going to tell him. Hope you two weren't friends in any sense of the word, because you soon won't be. I always feel this is a good time to preach abundance, because why get knowingly tangled up in some shitty love triangle when you're just trying to get yours? You sound like you're putting too much work into this already. Myself - I've got too good of a career and too good of a life to feel some beta wrath over a piece of ass. I'd likely leave it where it is, and le…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 05:11 PM
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Bingo.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:57 PM
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Just do it. When you're 30, you naturally stop giving any fucks about what everyone else thinks. I feel that a lot of these insecurities stem from people stuck in High School/College mentalities, where they saw the same group of people every single day for years. Everything about you was known, gossip was plentiful. Those days are gone, any interaction you have from here on out is on YOUR terms. 99% of the people you interact with you will likely never see again. If something goes horribly wrong…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 04:53 PM
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It's prevalent because of social media being combined with feminism. You have the means to fingerbang your iPhone for instant gratification, and a vocal majority of these slampigs backing you up saying you're perfectly normal to be fucking all dicks you come across. What does this formula create? Whores.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 02:25 AM
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The most powerful words I ever got from this subreddit (TRP in general), is "She was never yours, it was just your turn". Once you fully understand and accept this (I know, at first it sounds like a terrifying thought), you'll come out the other side. It's just their nature. It's how it always has been, and always will be.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 02:23 AM
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I very rarely care about what the outcomes are of posts like this. I know we all try to help that one Indian guy fuck the "Buxom Blonde", but we don't care if he does. This time, I care. I hope OP manages to save himself here.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 02:18 AM
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Be careful with those protein bars. They're usually 200-300cal a pop. If you're trying to drop weight, I almost guarantee that you're doing 800-1000cal a day these things. I actually cut Milk out all-together when I was really cutting weight. Get more protein from lean sources (Chicken is absolutely amazing for this, it's low calorie, and high protein), less from Milk and protein bars. You'll find that you'll eat 1400-1600cal a day with full meals (Chicken/Veggies), hit daily protein goals, and …
/r/askTRP28/10/15 07:09 PM
1

Absolutely. You can be big and natty, but you're not going to be shredded by any stretch. Thankfully, this is a physique that women love.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 07:06 PM
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Neither do you. You're not fooling anyone.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 05:48 PM
1

You know why Ashley is doing that. It's probably why you've brought this up in the first place, for us to confirm what you already believe. Ashley wants your dick, and likely wants to drive a wedge between you and your GF so she can hop on. At the very least - Ashley wants validation that she's fuckable, and the moment you tell her you're down, she's going to run and tell your GF. I'd have pulled Ashley to the side and told her (like I would a child) that what she did was unacceptable, and if sh…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 05:41 PM
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Honestly? Get out. Put yourself first. Read NMMNG - I promise that you'll find some insight in there that will give you the confidence to live your life on YOUR terms for once. If you truly cannot get over this (and I wouldn't blame you), then file for divorce and get it over with. You only have one life. Don't waste it with someone who clearly thinks she can do whatever the fuck she wants.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 04:48 PM
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Do you have billions of dollars? No. Lift.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 04:40 PM
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You need to work on inner game. You're a highly-fit, drug-free male, in a good school, working two jobs, and you think you're not a catch here? You need to remember that you ARE the prize. Most men overestimate their SMV significantly. I think your inner game is so atrocious that you're underestimating yours. You think most men are well above average height in your area. That's not how averages work, that's how insecurity works. Keep doing what you're doing. You're on the right path. Don't do st…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:22 AM
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I didn't even need to read the rest of this. I can answer the question based on the title alone: No. The answer is no.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:19 AM
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There's a difference between being an emotional tampon, and being a well-rounded man. TRP helps you stop being the former, to become the latter. That doesn't mean you're a robot. It means you're someone who understands the game. Just because you can't be in "love" the way you grew to understand it through movies and other sources, doesn't mean you can't enjoy a connection with a woman that goes deeper than your dick in her mouth.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:18 AM
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there still may be something there between the two of them even though they're 3000 miles away You think? /s I don't think she's an alpha widow, I think she's just a woman. A hypergamous woman who, in a rare moment of actually speaking some truth, gave you some insight into how hypergamy works. They all think like this. They all think about their other options, they just don't flat-out say it like she did. Granted, you're definitely giving her more credit than she's worth, and you need to adopt …
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:16 AM
2

You absolutely can. But doing it correctly, with a load you can actually handle, with good form, takes that chance very, very low. You can walk outside today and get hit by a bus. Does that mean you stop going outside? You're making excuses. I'd hate to see how you handle the rest of your life with this cowardly attitude you have.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:10 AM
1

Like has been stated, it's a balancing act. TRP on Hard Mode™ I'd probably recommend not prying. If she says "nothing", treat it as such until she's ready to speak about her issues like a big girl.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 06:26 PM
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This is why TRP preaches abundance mentality. You KNOW she's not a good fit for you, yet you're still pining over her, because you don't feel there are other women out there that are willing to touch your dick. There are. Tell this one it's not going to work out, radio silence until the end of time, and go find the ones that DO match up well with you.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 06:24 PM
2

Too hard for your organs? Is this real life?
/r/askTRP18/10/15 06:23 PM
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Exactly. I'm able to pull off unbelievably stupid shit, so I'd probably say something like "I'm just on my way to sell all these bootleg DVD's - I have How to Train Your Dragon, one for 5 or two for 3 what'll it be?" 99% of the time they'll laugh and start talking about their day. 1% of the time they'll believe me, I'll act like they're crazy for believing me, we both laugh, and they'll talk about their day. Either way - I'm not blabbing like some fucking idiot, and they're validating themselves…
/r/askTRP26/09/15 03:43 PM
3

"If you want to call me bro - you'd better be spotting me in the gym" Or like someone else said - call her "Sis" in the most sarcastic way imaginable.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 03:40 PM
1

"Gonna get a pizza and watch a movie - Come by at 9:30" No reply? move on. You could literally copy/paste that shit into 5 other texts to 5 other girls, and just keep moving down the list.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 03:38 PM
2

I don't know if i definitely lost frame Let me help you with that. You not only lost frame, you fucking obliterated it. Just take what you did here, and do the exact opposite from now on. If she wants to leave because she forgot her phone, tell her you'll get it tomorrow. If she still complains, you pull out your phone, get her an Uber, send her on her way, and text someone else to come over and enjoy your company. You shouldn't be concerned with something this trivial, and you definitely should…
/r/askTRP26/09/15 03:35 PM
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And this, gentlemen, is how to evaporate any frame you think you had. This should be stickied as "The absolute worst possible thing you can do at any given time jesusfuckingchrist". Learn to control your fucking emotions. Can't do that while you drink? Stop drinking, dipshit. If you can't be a man while sober, you're not a man at all.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 03:34 PM
1

Men have none? When we lift to build muscle, while reducing our BF%, we look like fucking conquerors. Women are attracted to this on a level much higher than we're attracted to them with implants.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 01:58 PM
1

Exactly. They call it "relationship weight" for a reason.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 01:55 PM
1

You know what? I did the same thing. Now I've taken a step back, and I'll have that pizza with friends. I just do so in moderation. You may think you're improving yourself, but at what cost? You're not living much a life.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 04:38 AM
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Remember, the biggest thing here is that you take what you need from TRP, and leave the rest. There are so, SO many truths here in regards to women, but more importantly - to life in general. I don't understand why people can't pick up on this. The world DOES only value you for what value you can return (as do women). Improve. This is what I believe to be the foundation of TRP. As for TRP in regards to women and relationships? If you accept the truths presented here, it would then become impossi…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 04:36 AM
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Because they constantly, and I mean CONSTANTLY, complain about not fucking "Blonde haired women" and "not being white". It's like the culture is based in an inferiority complex. Just search Indian here on ASKTRP.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 04:30 AM
1

Don't worry about the past. Just capitalize on the present.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 04:26 AM
2

Trust me - She was into you before. 160/12% and 150/10% are differences that she's not going to notice. This typically applies to massive swings, like 200/20% to 170/10%. Chances are you could have fucked her years ago, but the opportunity just presented itself now. Enjoy it. You were never in the friendzone, as you didn't provide validation and fill that BB need.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 01:34 PM
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Can we just put something in the sidebar about Indians? This shit is cluttering the sub.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 03:09 PM
1

What's an example? You sound like you may be incredibly insecure. Guys will shit test you just like women. They're not doing it because they want to fight you, who the fuck does that? If these are black guys, that's just how they roll. Black culture is one of the most alpha-by-nature cultures in the USA, and if you can't stay afloat with the roast-and-be-roasted mentality, you're going to drown. If you can - you'll be welcomed. It's really a trial-by-fire when dealing with this. You'll find out …
/r/askTRP06/08/15 02:53 PM
2

Don't poison it. Nuke it. There are a billion other wells that you should be tapping, this one is dead to you, and if your friends aren't a bunch of beta bitches, it would be for them too.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 02:43 PM
3

I think you mean, "according to Indian dudes on TRP, not many girls do". I'm not certain why you're all so insecure, but the only people I see bitching about Indians are in fact, Indians.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 02:41 PM
2

Yeah, this is just the nature of the game. You're going to get numbers, and then they're going to ghost you and never reply. This is why you keep lining them up.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 02:37 PM
16

I don't know why - But I trust the advice of a gay man WAY more than I trust the advice of a woman. This is valuable information.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 02:35 PM
1

He'll either learn one of these times, or he'll get cucked ad infinitum.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 09:47 PM
1

Yeah, don't take it personally - Betas do this REGULARLY. When she inevitably leaves him or cheats on him, he'll come back to the light and apologize. One of those times, it'll all "click" for him and he'll stop doing this shit.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 09:46 PM
2

Have an exit plan ready. Once you've started this train, it doesn't stop, it just derails. At that point - Enjoy the ride.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 03:44 PM
2

Except you DO want to continue a relationship with her, as evidenced by the fact you continue to type shit like "I would like to continue a relationship that actually worked with her" at every opportunity, like you subconsciously can't admit that this woman is a clusterfuck. She's a single mom, and a crazy, CRAZY woman. I feel like I always need to tell people that they are the reason their woman left them, but even taking your abysmal SMV into account, this one was primed from jump street. You …
/r/askTRP03/08/15 03:42 PM
1

Yeah, I can't believe he even entertained the idea of feeling guilty about a PoF profile after the shit this slut has done. I'd have asked this bitch if her friend was busy that night, just to send her hamster into warp speed. This is a terrible, TERRIBLE person, OP. Not relationship material, not friend material, not even social media material. You need to get rid of her for eternity, and then some.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 03:38 PM
1

Yes, they are all that boring. They love the following things, in any given order: Netflix, Wine, Travel, Tacos, and "being outdoors". Funny story - I took one such "outdoorsy" girl on a hike with me. She spent the entire thing terrified of snakes and spiders. Couldn't help but laugh.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 02:30 AM
2

You can't unplug a mind that isn't ready. With close friends, I just point out the obvious to them and see if it "clicks". That there are so many other women out there, and there's nothing special about this one. Nothing more in-depth than that. Most people can't handle even that simple statement. ("No, she's different")
/r/askTRP31/07/15 02:27 AM
2

The thing is - There's nothing we can tell you that you don't already know here. Yes, you're being fucking stupid. Yes, this is oneitis, Yes, you need to move the fuck on. Behind all the jargon, this is at it's core, pathetic. You need to have some respect for yourself. I guarantee you're the laughing stock of her friend circle, probably known as the "creepy" guy. Do you want to be the creepy guy?
/r/askTRP31/07/15 01:59 AM
1

Or this 1 hour old account is trying to get information on TRP/AskTRP users, for whatever stupid "list" they're creating. Seems pointless to have this link here, and it's very obvious.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 02:38 PM
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Just remember - While it may be a terrible thing that happened to her (or she's lying because she fucked a familiar man in a foreign land), it's not your issue to fix. If it's too much (and it likely will be), move on.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 02:33 PM
3

Format this abortion of a post. I can't tell what the hell you're even saying.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 03:34 AM
2

Yep. Branch swingers gonna branch swing. AWALT. No explanations, just follow this advice. Fuck her in 6 months, or GFTOW and not give a shit.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 03:33 AM
1

That video was taken the night he was partying with some celebrities due to some vine/IG fame he had (This is the "DEEZ NUTS" guy). SMV. That's how it happens. You put me in a temporary entourage with 50 Cent and whoever the fuck else he was with, and I'm pulling HB10's without question, and fucking multiple.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 03:31 AM
1

Yeah, I'll admit I read this question and immediately thought of American presidencies. I'm sure OP was referencing that as well ("First Lady")
/r/askTRP29/07/15 03:27 AM
3

Since you already BP'd out and answered the phone after telling her you were unavailable for the weekend, you should have just reiterated that you were busy, and you had already told her you'd contact her when you were back in town. If she had continued pressuring you, I would have simply told her "Ok", and then contacted her when I got back to come over and fuck.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 03:25 AM
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1) There are no unicorns. Stop hamstering. 2) She showed you AWALT when she said you forced yourself on her. If her ASD with an LTR causes her to say this kind of stuff, imagine what it'll do should you dump her and take her back (And she feels like a slut for getting back with you). You should stand by your decision. Or don't - Have no abundance mentality, and get back with her because you're afraid you won't find another woman that cooks and cleans and shit (LOL). Get rape claims dropped on yo…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 03:17 AM
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Because the presidency is all about image. Do you really think there's any way someone will get elected president if they don't feel "comfortable" to American society (read - BP as fuck)? No. Everything, from the kiss on his wife's cheek, to the way she smiles when he talks, is carefully crafted to create the "image" of security and comfort. Every president will be arried to a woman 30 years post-wall, with kids, and an ear-to-ear smile when her husband talks. They'll all have a stupid fucking d…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 03:13 AM
2

Absolutely. Look at her actions, not her words. Her words were carefully crafted to tug on your heartstrings. A combination of manipulation and the hamster she has spinning in her head from the breakup. Everything that happened today, everything she said - Was purposefully stated to have the most psychological impact possible on you. This is the game that women play.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 03:08 AM
2

Nope. You shouldn't look. You should just tell her it's over. Whether or not she's cheating (she is - or is about to), doesn't matter. You clearly aren't in the right place for this.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 03:04 AM
1

Correct, and that's what we say here. You can't force someone to want to understand this stuff, something has to bring them to the water AND make them drink, so to speak. This may be your friends moment for that.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 12:10 AM
2

Yeah, as in - "I can wait until the end of time for THIS WOMAN to message me, because I'm gaming and fucking other women". You've somehow gotten it confused with some quasi-oneitis scenario here. The entire idea of OI is that you don't care about the outcome, because you know that the next one is right around the corner, that you're going to be fine regardless.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 12:07 AM
4

I've never met one that didn't have a high partner count. At the very least - they're not LTR material whatsoever.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 02:30 PM
3

Sounds like this may be Chad. Granted, the first bit was beta.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 03:05 AM
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Yeah, her name was oneitis. Difficult, difficult oneitis.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 02:57 AM
3

Lots of touching. Finding any reason to grab my arms, shoulders, touch my back, etc. I also found that I intimidate a lot of women that feel I'm out of their league.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 09:29 PM
1

I don't like to mix business and my actual life. Therefore, I would have told her that I don't add co-workers to my facebook profile because of that reason. HR and all.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 09:27 PM
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Cooks healthy for herself. Self-dependent Has interesting hobbies Uses a gym Not a "Free Spirit" (Codeword for high partner count) Educated with an "Adult" job. I don't want the district attorney, but I don't want the cashier at Burger King either.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 05:58 PM
2

No one talks about average, because...it's average.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 03:59 PM
3

Depends how you frame it. If you're letting her fuck you in the ass while you call her "mommy", then yeah, that's shitty. If you're letting her put some force into pushing you down (hopefully, it takes her some force) and sitting on your dick hard, that's completely different. You'd better be grabbing her after a bit and reasserting that dominance though.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:25 PM
3

Some of the best advice here is that it's not her fault, it's just her nature. YOU let yourself slip. Use that as motivation to improve, because you WILL improve.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:22 PM
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So you sat her down to talk about your relationship? WEAK. You crave validation from her by asking her what kind of guy is her ideal mate, hoping it was you? WEAK. Begged her for commitment and kids? WEAK. When she gave you an answer you didn't like, you pouted and told her you should break up? WEAK. ...And you're wondering why she left so easily? You need to hit the sidebar a dozen times here. You're psychologically a mess here, and need to recenter. Don't focus on salvaging this, that's the on…
/r/askTRP27/07/15 02:57 PM
1

I'm older than you (29), so I noticed some things you likely don't have experience with. Here are a few of the more noticeable ones: 1) A lot of my friends are married. Something I didn't expect, was as soon as their wives complimented me openly, they were going to stop talking to me. I've lost a 15 year friendship recently because of this. Just stopped reaching out to me, and would be very short and dismissive when I'd reach out to them. It's a lesson in BP behavior, and it's something I've com…
/r/askTRP27/07/15 02:51 PM
2

Got a chuckle out of me. This guy may be fucked. In all seriousness - at 32 it's not as simple as you think to get pregnant. People struggle after 28 to have kids. I'm sure you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 02:29 PM
2

I personally think that being a sugar daddy to someone is just someone volunteering to be the beta bux. No thanks. My opinion on it wouldn't have me in this situation in the first place, much less telling you that you SHOULDN'T walk away. Yes. Walk away. Find someone you don't need to fund.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:50 AM
2

What a clusterfuck. Start to finish. Apologies, text bombs, the works. At the core of this, yes - she's got issues, and she's probably Crimsonian royalty with all the red flags she's representing here. You delete everything in regards to her and never talk to her again.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:46 AM
4

First - You signed up on a sugar daddy dating site. You're paying for pussy here. Of course it's about the money. Second - She sends you nudes, gives great head, and has only fucked HOW many times? (LOL - Really?) You get out of it by just stopping. It's really that easy.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:41 AM
3

I fail to understand how you think you're dating someone that flakes repeatedly, and flakes so she can hang out with an ex boyfriend. Let me guess - Only person you're fucking, right? A lot of guys are going to tell you to soft next so you can still fuck her as a plate. Based on what I've read here, though - My advice is to hard next this one. Delete her from your life, and never speak with her again. You owe her no reasons, nor do you owe her a second more of your time. You need other women rig…
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:35 AM
2

Interesting situation. I'm in almost the exact same boat, at the same age, with a little more time on you and a slightly different path. I feel I can offer some decent advice to you, knowing exactly how you're thinking. Here's my situation: Divorced, started dating within a month. Everything was going great (I thought). Fucking, the works. I caught heavy oneitis for this person. Attached myself to them like a tick on a dog. She started getting distant (Obviously). Unlike you, I realized that thi…
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:24 AM
2

I think you need to get out of your head. You really shouldn't be over-thinking simple responses to simple statements like this. What did you end up doing? Just staring at her? I mean, you could have said just about anything here. "Yeah, I have a thing for the Justin Bieber perfume you're wearing". Whatever, it really doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:17 AM
2

If you doubt what you picked up here, then throw it out. Let's just talk about the basics here: You wanted to break up with her. You did. Now stand by your decision. This is relationship suicide, what you've done here. You aren't bringing this back from the grave. Nor should you. Of course you're going to have oneitis. That's expected for someone who thinks there is no one else that could love them. Everyone experiences it at some point in their lives unless they're Chad the fucking Alpha God.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:06 AM
6

Yeah, I mean, whatever helps achieve that outcome independence, right?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 02:52 AM
1

Great post. Stay on your mission, OP.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 07:48 PM
9

Not at all. There are people who firmly believe that our entire reality is crafted by our brain. Other people aren't real, existence isn't truly tangible. I suppose this is almost exactly what you're doing. You're making people into characters in YOUR story. The consequences don't matter.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 07:39 PM
1

Something tells me you haven't fucked ten other women. Have you fucked even ONE other woman?
/r/askTRP26/07/15 04:44 PM
1

May have obliterated that SMV, then. In that case - it doesn't even need to be chad, just any number of guys blowing her phone up with texts that have a higher SMV than you.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 03:10 PM
2

If you're sitting in the corner and pouting about it, yeah. You are. You really have a few options. Tell her to enjoy her night, you're going to go out with some friends. This is likely what I'd do. Alternatively, you can go to it, and not give a shit - Game her friends for fun, have her hamster spinning a million miles an hour while she has her mind set on how incredibly badly she wants to fuck you. They may have shown up thinking they're going enjoy time with her, but by the end of the night, …
/r/askTRP24/07/15 03:08 PM
42

There's always the chance that they have been with these women before getting in shape, and their little beta hearts can't throw away "All that time invested". It's why we talk about sunk cost fallacy here. Don't ever be afraid to walk.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 03:05 PM
1

Bingo, the only way this really happens so dramatically is by going full beta - Did you act needy? If not - Chad's here.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 03:02 PM
1

And you'd think that would mean something to people searching for life advice. Yet here we are - Still trying to convince people of the benefits of this.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 02:59 PM
2

Cheating (Physical) may not be that common (but definitely frequent enough), but branch swinging and hypergamy are absolute facts of life, gentlemen. All that's changed in today's day and age is the guarantee that they're going to slip up and get caught doing this. Before everyone had a cell phone at their hip, and a computer in their lap, the only way you were getting caught is if someone spotted a hand-written letter, or saw your wife/GF with a dick in her mouth and gossiped about it. Now, a t…
/r/askTRP24/07/15 02:57 PM
1

I started viewing it as a cost/reward scenario. The cost is my time. The reward is what I get out of the friendship. I have 1, maybe 2 female friends. The rest are all male. The second I'll likely drop here in the next month or so (No reward whatsoever - hanging out with her has grown stale), but the first one is likely going to be a friend for life. Her career gets me benefits that I wouldn't get without her, and she has proven a valuable tool for networking purposes.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 02:51 PM
1

Improve your physical condition to top 5-10%. Realize that all the money your friends are dumping into shit like kids, wives (and inevitable divorces), and large family homes, is money you're spending to do things that are fun and exciting to YOU. As someone so eloquently put it on here, we all die alone. You can still meet people, find connections in varying ways with them, and fuck them.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 03:11 AM
1

This is the truth. All you can do is be highly attractive. You cannot underestimate the amount of betas out there willing to fuck anything that shows them attention. All these girls have to do is unlock their phone and pick any number of people. Fat, it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 03:08 AM
1

I optimize my workout for ME. It wasn't very long before my time in the gym became almost therapeutic, as opposed to routine. I do have rest days. I'll do lifting/cardio 5 days a week, and on the other two, I just hit cardio and then abs/cardio.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 12:19 AM
3

Who cares? What did you think you were doing here? Starting up a relationship that would stand the test of time, you two being buried in side-by-side plots under a sycamore tree? You can't say you're looking for a plate, and then treat it like you're looking for "the one" here. Goal is to fuck her. Fuck her.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:56 PM
3

Yes, anything you do other than indefinite silence is considered to be a miserable failure here. Think of it like this: In an action movie, the bad guy (her) has a girl held hostage, a gun to her head. The hero (you) has his gun drawn, and is deciding whether or not to fire. He pulls the trigger (You last semester) and misses (rejected last semester). This typically doesn't happen in a movie. So for some stupid reason, the bad guy keeps talking (her matching you), and our hero lines up another s…
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:50 PM
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In these situations, there are guys who say to downgrade. I personally believe that there's a period of time that it no longer has any worth to downgrade to a plate. 4 years is WELL beyond that period of time. For what? Pussy? Pussy you've had for YEARS? Say you downgrade her (unlikely) - She'll be pushing you to rekindle a relationship every single time you fuck her. Moreso than a plate would even dare to push you. There are so, so many women out there that my suggestion is a hard next, no expl…
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:44 PM
2

Absolutely. The best way to go about this is just to simply stop talking to her.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:28 PM
1

It's too much. You need to leave your adventures as your adventures right now, and for the foreseeable future. I mean, this isn't some jaunt down to Disneyworld - this is a trip outside of the country. That's significantly too much.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:17 PM
3

You should be hitting the gym practically daily anyway. This should be a non-factor and a non-question if you're doing that.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:15 PM
2

We do have methods that make it easier to understand the culture of women. It's called the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:13 PM
4

Easiest way to get rid of her? Text her: "I think I'm in love with you". This is actually a terrible, terrible thing to do, and would likely end up costing you your job (If not that - definitely any upwards mobility as she tells everyone). If she's uninterested - casually ask her out on a date. She'll decline, and things will officially be awkward from then on out for her, so she'll likely stop talking to you.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:10 PM
3

Remember, this is at his job. He's going to need to tread very, VERY lightly here to pull this off without HR getting involved.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:08 PM
1

No, just forget about her. Unmatching looks butthurt. Leave here there, and never send her anything ever again.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:06 PM
1

Check other subreddits, you'll get better advice. Look up the stronglifts 5x5 routine, and do that. Also, building size is difficult, and requires that you're eating an absolute fuck ton. Make certain you have your diet in check, or all of that lifting won't benefit you. I do an old school split, myself. Back and Bi, Chest and Tri, Shoulders, Legs, Abs every other day. Cardio because I hike a fair bit and require it.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:24 AM
3

I'm saying you're going to be familiar because you're an American in a sea of foreign faces. There's nothing you need to "do", other than not be socially awkward. Just talk to people. It's easy.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:19 AM
1

I mean, that whole story aside - do you really think that as an athletic, driven individual, you're compatible with this bum? Let's skip straight past all the TRP jargon and get down to the brass tax. You need to next the living shit out of this slug. Where the hell is your abundance mentality? There's nothing you've written here that makes this woman even worthy of dread gaming.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:17 AM
2

Drinking laws are pretty lax in some countries. I know that a close friend of mine spent his entire trip drinking and fucking the women he was traveling with on the trip. When he got back, he continued with a few of them, came back to the states with a nice set of plates. Group bonding is going to be easier than it is here, considering you'll all be in a foreign country, and those who can't cope well with that (most people) will latch onto anything that feels familiar (you).
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:14 AM
3

Honestly - you could have done a HELL of a lot worse than this. The fact that she sent you a congratulations on graduating (she really didn't give a shit that you graduated - she was seeing how you'd reply, and if you were still receptive) means that she'll probably reach out again when things go south with the frat boy. Likely shouldn't have replied to that second text, but I don't think it hurts you at all considering you kept it brief. Plate potential is here.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:09 AM
1

Yeah, STOP. You're only shooting yourself in the foot by being at her fingertips like that. She's going to use it to get everything she needs from you, while giving you nothing in return.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:07 AM
2

I find that there's music that helps me do man shit like lift weights, if that's what you're implying. Bro-metal, EDM, Hip Hop, anything on any sort of lifting playlist.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:04 AM
3

Perspective on her: AWALT. Maybe he gave her more tingles, maybe you seemed needy. It doesn't matter. Perspective on you: You fucked her, goal achieved, you already won. She gave up her most valuable asset to you within a week, and now her baggage is some other guy's issue. Expect her to reach out in the near future should she still have the means, and given that you didn't go full beta when she went cold.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 02:57 AM
3

This is exactly what happened here. She wondered if you had changed over the following months, your reply guaranteed her you hadn't. She's done.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 02:56 AM
15

Me: "I like food lolol" I've never seen such a fucking tragedy in 4 words or less. This is the saddest thing since the holocaust. Just forget about it. You fucked this one up beyond repair at this point.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 02:55 AM
3

You can form a connection, it's just not the one you were raised to believe you can form. You can absolutely find a woman that you have a connection with. This connection is more that she's going to follow your lead, respect your lead, and be your second in command. What TRP says, is that you had better be at the top of your game until the end of fucking time, or she's going to divorce rape you when she branch swings to "Chad from work". This is why marriage is argued against, because it's just …
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:58 AM
1

Because it feels good, and it's fun.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:51 AM
1

I'm a lot like this guy, except I dress well, lift religiously, and make decent money. Being this type of guy is really love/hate. Way more often than not, people love me and want to engage me in conversation. Some people are annoyed by me. Those who are annoyed and try to assert dominance end up looking stupid and plummet their SMV. I don't give a shit which group they fall under. Those who roll with it, can feed off what I'm doing and add to it, and it allows both of our SMV's to get a boost, …
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:45 AM
3

Going to need you to elaborate on the "RP tactics". AWALT is without exception.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 04:26 AM
1

AWALT. No exceptions.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 04:24 AM
2

I personally wouldn't. There are many others out there, I'm never one to ruin a friendship over a female. Don't take what he's saying seriously, he's choking on that blue pill right now. You can go out and plate plenty of other women while he's busy building her this pedestal.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 04:22 AM
2

I read a bunch of hopes and dreams here, but little to no action. If anything - I see a few steps backwards. Your little BP hamster is spinning at a million miles an hour and telling you that you need to be her "friend" and maintain "empathy" because that's how you are. You need to KILL who you were. This isn't going to be easy, in fact - it will be the most uncomfortable and awkward experience of your entire life. Like anything else, that's how you know it's worth it. If it were easy, everyone …
/r/askTRP18/07/15 01:42 PM
2

The fact that he was moving to an LTR THAT fast tells me a few things: Low SMV and absolutely no abundance mentality. He's already putting her on a pedestal. Right now it seems like a mistake (Because it is), but once this girl burns him he may finally see the light. If he doesn't, let him get burned again. He'll get it eventually.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 12:25 PM
5

LIFT. This is what you're missing. Being actually attractive enough that she feels honored to have you, and she'll chase the shit out of you.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 03:43 AM
3

Definitely. But this isn't any of those. What is it doing to him that's harmful?
/r/askTRP18/07/15 03:42 AM
1

Unfortunately I feel that ship has sailed here. Strike while the iron is hot, and such. A reset couldn't hurt.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:46 AM
3

I assure myself that I won't make that same mistake again. Without failure, how could we measure success? I failed to get that bar up with 225 on it, now I can. That's success measured against failure. That's progress. Your failures will only define you if you let them remain in your life. Say you're too BP with a woman, too needy. The next time you're chatting one up and you destroy that shit test, or you don't apologize when she gets a little pissy, you've now succeeded where you once failed. …
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:39 AM
1

Sounds like you've struck out, here. Not to mention - she sounds completely uninterested in you. I'd probably just soft next until she reaches out (she likely will not). Move on.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:31 AM
1

Who started the fight, you or her? Sounds like you got mad at her for passing out on the couch. You should have went and did other shit, and left her ass on the couch. Perhaps called another plate and just went over there.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:28 AM
13

Girl in question is a former plate who is in the process of being upgraded to LTR status. Not anymore. However my gut is feeling very jealous at the thought of her with another girl at the moment. Not sure what to do. Sounds to me you know EXACTLY what to do. Next.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:27 AM
3

What else was there to find out? You know what you saw. This is quite literally the oldest game in the Book of AWALT. "Nothing happened" would be in the first sentence. HER ACTIONS. NOT HER WORDS. Her actions were exactly what you saw. Her words are the opposite, of course. She fucked him and you know it. If she hadn't yet, she was going to the next time she saw him. She already decided this. At this point, you have two options. Put this shit into practice, and absolute HARD NEXT, or let her spi…
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:22 AM
5

Some people are into this shit. To me, here's a fine, FINE line between swinging, and getting cuckolded, though. Where your buddy falls in this spectrum is entirely dependent on how he feels about his wife fucking other men. If he's fine with it because he's fucking other women, then he's just into some kinky shit and not getting cucked. My concern is this - Condoms break. Kids happen despite the use of condoms. I wouldn't risk the chance of me raising some other guys busted latex mistake. I act…
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:16 AM
1

TRP only exists because people are going to be people, no matter what. While we can mould ourselves into the best possible person we can be, at the end of the day, we're still people.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:12 AM
1

It's hard to explain, but I'm just able to do it naturally. In your circumstance, It's almost like treating them as an LTR being downgraded to a plate. You give them far less of your time, and if plans are getting made, they're no longer on that "priority list" of people getting invited. I've done this with 10-15+ year friendships, and after a while they always ask - "Why aren't you inviting me to all this stuff?" to which I reply "Because you flake every time, figured I'd save us both the troub…
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:10 AM
1

For most people - When they've been burned, they'll say "Ow, that hurts - Stop that!". Some people need to get burned a few more times before it finally clicks, and they take control of their life. For SOME people, they live their life perennially in the burn unit, asking "Please ma'am, may I have another?" The fact that you recognize this as a problem almost eliminates you from the latter, as the biggest step is recognition of a problem. Now, you just need to correct it.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:07 AM
6

First, I'd like to congratulate you for not turning this into some competition, and trying to sincerely give your friend good advice. Unfortunately - There's nothing you can do, and you've already more than exceeded what I'd expect of a friend in this situation. The fact that he's "Confronted" her after such a short time, and they're "working it out" means this is beyond doomed.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:02 AM
1

Don't overthink it, just practice. Go talk to everyone, after a while it'll seem like you've been doing it forever.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 01:59 AM
2

Depends on the context. Maybe Mom's a fucking idiot. I've met plenty of those. You're not looking for a wife here, so just plate up and enjoy.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 03:50 PM
3

You're NEVER "stuck" with anything. If you don't like the outcome, change it. If you don't want to go, you don't go. Something came up, not interested, whatever. There's no one that can schedule your time unless you LET them.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 03:48 PM
2

Yeah, I'm fairly certain everyone over-thinks in the beginning phases. That's why we have such a mountain of "Is this alpha/beta" posts, and "how to respond to this text from her saying hi" posts. Just keep working at it, you'll probably burn a few villages down, but eventually it'll just flow naturally. Also, one of the biggest things to stress is that TRP is not a rule book. It's not the 10 commandments. You take what works for you, what helps you, and you use it. Some guys are successful with…
/r/askTRP17/07/15 03:47 PM
2

Let me ask you a question - What are you passionate about? What are your hobbies? A "quick fix" is to find something you're passionate about, and do that. In the past, when I was still as BP as they come, I used to do this too (I'm pretty sure most of us did). I found that early on in the recognition and removal of this part of me, diving into something I enjoyed was a great way to create some space, and deplete that neediness. I like cars, guns, hiking, and other typical white guy shit. I just …
/r/askTRP17/07/15 03:41 PM
1

It's always interesting how these kids feel that their worlds are so much bigger than they are. No matter how many people tell them that in 5 years, they won't see 99% of the people they've been around in HS, they don't believe it. Really goes to show how developmental people are between 16-21.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 02:43 PM
1

I don't think anything is further from the truth. While you're not 100% wrong (A lot of people here use MM as an excuse to avoid rejection), taking a few months to improve yourself is life-changing. Whether you call it "Monk mode", "Time for myself", whatever: Everyone at some point needs to retreat into themselves.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 02:42 PM
18

Firstly - You've been able to assess the situation fairly objectively, which is more than most people are able to do. Good job on that. That being said, I think you need to follow some of the sidebar advice here: Judge her by her actions, not her words. Her actions (lack of contact, no escalation) say what to you? It says "You are an orbiter, and I'm not interested - Thanks for the free meal(s)". This is when you soft next. Do not contact her at all.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 02:37 PM
2

I talked a real mean game last night that would have gotten any girl sopping wet, and I know she loved it, but I'm worried I won't be able to follow through in person. Let me give you some real elder sage advice here: Every guy has this thought at some point. We've all survived and flourished. You're going to be fine. Stop worrying.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 02:32 PM
20

You sound like you still crave validation. From her, from us, from everyone. How do YOU feel about the relationship? Is it of benefit to you? (It sounds like it is). That's all that matters. If she doesn't like it, she'll leave, and you'll move on.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 02:28 PM
3

I know you came here wanting to seem empowered and all, but this whole schtick just comes across as insecure. Yes. I want the woman I'm with to enjoy herself and not sit there like a fucking beanbag. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out. What I'm NOT doing is attaching my manhood to HER orgasm.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 04:14 AM
1

Chipotle Burrito Bowl. You're 5'10 125? Eat that shit up.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 02:37 AM
1

When in doubt, shut your mouth. Yes, don't say a word for 24 hours, and then reach out like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 11:58 PM
2

I text her earlier, said I was going out with another girl, need some advice I mean, this is fucking stupid, but it seems to have worked. Her hamster is spinning at the speed of sound. Ignore for a day, and act like nothing happened when you reply. She's gonna prod you about the other girl. Don't give her any details obviously. As for your three options, only #1 works. #2 is the opposite approach you should use in 101% of scenarios, don't you ever do this.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 11:45 PM
1

It means you buy them a dozen roses and send them with a teddy bear. No. It means you don't speak to them unless they contact YOU.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 04:34 AM
-2

Try this one: Here's a simple version. If you say "You. Me. X. 9PM" and she says "Sorry, I can't". You just don't say anything else. Ever again. If she reaches out to YOU after this and tries to reconnect, you can give her one more chance. "You. Me. Y. 9:30PM". If she does it again, you delete the number and never answer a text from her again.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 04:33 AM
1

It provides validation and attention whoring right at the swipe of a finger for just about every woman. A woman can be a 3/10 and still get swarmed by orbiters on social media. You'd need to be the top .1% to game effectively using social media in the way you're describing. Hell, most of them will actively use this validation to employ some sort of AWALT dread game on YOU. I'm talking Clooney levels of SMV. Chart topping. You're not.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 04:29 AM
1

That's why he's attached. This is probably the only attention he's gotten. I'm not even talking about sex, I'm talking about just attention. You want to help him (and yourself)? Get you both into the gym ASAP. Build the bodies that will give you the lives you want.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 04:10 AM
3

Interesting post. This is a fresh take on things. First, LTR is dead. You didn't just run dread game, you ran fucking Holocaust game on this girl. You didn't make her think you were fucking other women, or that you could fuck other women, you literally went and fucked other women. LTR is absolutely over. Now, you need to hit the reset button. She needs to leave your business first and foremost (From here on out, separate these two things), you need to move out and live as a single man. You can p…
/r/askTRP06/07/15 04:02 AM
1

Absolutely. We ALL are going to catch feelings. We're ALL going to get oneitis. It's how you recognize and adapt to the situation that determines whether you're going to handle the situation like a man, or become King Cuckold.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 03:53 AM
1

Despite the trp hivemind, i do believe there is someone worth settling for. You just gotta be careful, vigilant and not settle for something not up to your personal standard. TRP doesn't say there's not something worth LTRing. There's MRP for a reason. It's just gotta be the right woman. She approached me, was a party girl at the time, could tell she wasn't innocent etc. If i knew then what I know now i would not be with this girl. What else was there to "find out"? Right away there were the red…
/r/askTRP06/07/15 03:50 AM
1

TRP isn't PUA. Period. If you're not going to listen to any of the (correct) advice given to you here, then don't. Keep playing the game you're playing and wasting your time. No concern to any of us.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 02:33 PM
2

It goes deeper than right and wrong. TRP tries to focus on the nature of the beast, and coming to terms with it. This is why it's repeated that LTR's are TRP of the highest difficulty. While it's in their nature to ride the CC, not all of them do. These are the ones you consider an LTR with if you wish. Once you've decided that, it's about understanding that she WILL either leave you or cheat on you if you let that SMV drop, so you need to stay on a path of improvement and betterment, while reta…
/r/askTRP05/07/15 02:17 PM
2

Good read on the situation - You're 100% right. Looking for attention/validation from you. Don't provide even a shred of it. Your reply to her texts may have even been a little too much attention for someone like this.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 02:13 PM
30

By literally not expending any effort. You just need to work on keeping your frame. When you're able to do this effortlessly in this situations, it's going to look like one guy is making an asshole out of himself (the other guy), while you aren't even wasting your time.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 02:10 PM
3

Now withdraw all your attention, for the remainder of time. Do you want to be some woman's orbiting plaything at work? At this point she doesn't even think you're worth her company outside of the office. Next.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 02:05 PM
1

How do you figure? Having the ability to not give a shit about the outcome of a situation has nothing to do with luck.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 02:37 AM
1

You told your dad that you're ignoring him because of how he's living his life? What impact at ALL does this have on you? You're at square one here, buddy. Hit the sidebar a couple dozen times. Live your own life. Apologize (because you in fact are a complete asshole autist here).
/r/askTRP03/07/15 03:47 PM
4

What TRP doesn't advocate is wasting your time comparing real life to fiction. I'm not certain what target you're aiming for, but I assure you - You're missing it entirely.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 03:39 PM
1

Good reply. I would have laughed it off too, makes him look like the insecure little boy he is.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 03:35 PM
2

What separates men from boys is one word: Action. Take it. At the end of the day, which do you want to be?
/r/askTRP03/07/15 03:34 PM
2

We have this in the sidebar under red flags. At the end of the day, AWALT. You can't "prevent" this at all. Let that SMV slip? She's branch swinging. She finds someone with higher SMV and has a shot? She's branch swinging. All you can do is keep that SMV high, understand that she was never yours, it was just your turn, and always - ALWAYS keep outcome independence. It's her choice to cheat on you. If you employ dread properly, and never stop improving yourself, you stand your best chance. Just s…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 03:32 PM
4

First - Remember that this is a PROCESS. You don't read a book on boxing and then step into the ring with Mayweather, do you? It's the same with internalization of TRP. Keep working.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 02:39 PM
1

Soft next. That means do not, under any circumstances, contact her. If she contacts you, fine.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 02:25 PM
16

Burning IAMA to the ground is the most obvious example that this woman has absolutely no idea what the fuck she's doing. No matter - we have our backups.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 02:20 PM
2

Yeah, my ex-wife branch swung on me. Obviously low-SMV beta at the time, she swung to some 21 year old kid. Beta me was mad at him. Early TRP me was mad at her. Current me is indifferent, but placing the blame solely on myself. I had let my SMV plummet to rock bottom. While I didn't technically "dodge a bullet", I got out of a marriage with an absolute clean financial break that didn't hit me hard at all. I don't want to get married again. How to avoid it? NEVER stop improving. I was the BB prov…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 02:14 PM
1

Nice, well played.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 02:11 PM
1

Yeah, if you're not blowing smoke up everyone's ass about yourself here, this is 100% an inner game issue. Your "cons" are that you are half asian with a young looking face and a thin frame? Stop acting small, and you'll stop being small.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 03:39 PM
1

Yeah, don't ignore them - That's going to make the hamster derail. You want it to spin, not die. Just make the reply clearly sexual in nature. I noticed you said they were 16. In that case, stop. Don't take that chance. Also - Kudos on the nostrils reply. That's clever.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 03:35 PM
1

Just be MORE physical. Like I said man, sounds like you were doing well, just didn't escalate ENOUGH. Take it to an absurd level. Like suggested, like you're going to fuck her right then and there. You know the difference between a makeout session and the making out you do right before you fuck someone? Do the second one. You're just about there. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 03:31 PM
1

Unlikely. While the views are hated by those that don't understand them, this is not even close to being classified as "hate speech".
/r/askTRP02/07/15 02:17 PM
3

Escalate harder. You don't need to worry about BB or Oneitis, this isn't either of those things. Sounds like you did pretty well, just not escalating enough. When she reaches out again (she will), escalate. You'll fuck her.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 02:15 PM
3

Yep. No impact on me, no concern.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 02:05 PM
14

Buddy, you are not only in full oneitis, but the final, ultimate form of oneitis. Let's throw away all the RP jargon for a second, break it down to its base here: Do you have a SHRED of self-respect? If a woman EVER messaged me to tell me about how unsatisfying I was financially and physically, it'd be the hardest of nexts. Titanium fucking next. You know this. You know to hit the gym, you know to GFTOW. Guess what you need to put faith in? Father time. He's always the great equalizer. If I had …
/r/askTRP29/06/15 07:21 PM
2

Nope. You've just loaded a huge boulder into the SMV catapult, and it's just waiting for you to launch that fucker. Reply and act like absolutely nothing has happened. Enjoy the outcome.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:53 PM
2

One to two drinks, period. I'm too dedicated to my workouts and personal growth to drink. If I do - It's very light. I'm definitely not pounding back pitchers with the squad 4 nights a week. That's how you craft the ultimate beta bod to match your sloppy drunk personality. A single drink is so I can have something in my hand. Remember - There are no shortcuts in life, especially if you're on the RP path. Crutches are for cripples, and your goal is to be the Rock of Gibraltar. To answer your ques…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:48 PM
1

As /r/fnordsnord said, it's not always about literally walking away. She has to believe that you could walk, even though you aren't specifically saying that. In this case, it's not even the issue at hand. You want X, she wants Y. What's going to determine whether this is a pass/fail scenario for you is how you handle it from here on out. Abundance mentality means that you're going to be meeting new women and moving on. The wrong choice would be just about anything else.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:40 PM
1

Just stop worrying about it. Taking situations some view as impossible and conquering them is the mark of a true man. You're going to grow from this.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:37 PM
1

Yep, escalate. If it leads to sex, then keep her as a plate. If it doesn't - she has no value to you, and you need to have some self respect.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:38 AM
1

Ugh, this is a hard one. I'm an absolute sucker for a pretty face. This has gotten me in the sack with a girl who was a bit on the heavier side, as her face looks like she's 110lb soaking wet. It was a struggle to find the willpower to finish that job. It felt like she was almost trying too hard to please me, and with a sexy woman, that's a huge turn-on. With a bigger girl, it felt like she knew this was the best she was gonna get. It was a huge turn off, almost like there was no challenge in it…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:37 AM
3

You're focusing FAR too much on Alpha/Beta here, like every young guy that stumbles across TRP. If they are stopping you from growing ("I want to play video games" to your "let's go out"), then phase em out. To me, it sounds like you don't think they're worthy of your time. And since you aren't able to game women because of your friends (Tip: It's not them, it's you), you're not being alpha, you're being an insecure fuck. You could put me with those autistic men from The Big Bang Theory, and I'm…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:32 AM
5

It's called being a normal person in an LTR. If you're in one, you need to show affection at times. Just begin the BP/RP balancing act. There's a reason they tell you it's TRP on hard mode. It is. As /r/JeffsRP stated, there's a difference between showing affection for your GF, and thinking "Oh gee, she's the only woman for me, I'll NEVER find someone else like this".
/r/askTRP28/06/15 07:09 AM
3

The essence of TRP is doing what you want. Living your life by your rules. As long as you keep that in mind, do whatever you want. If you want to date and fuck this girl, date and fuck her. Just make sure you keep your head about you, and don't start hamstering away. Cut and run if you need to.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:42 PM
2

What am I going to do? The same thing I always do. Live my life. I don't give a shit if people are feminazi's, or if they're skinning bottlenose dolphins and pandas alive in China. These things are absolute non-factors to my everyday life.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:39 PM
3

Yes, but those guys aren't interested in supporting a single mother, they can have a different bitch every night of the week, quit fucking hamstering and listen to the advice you are being given. Exactly. Sounds like he thinks SHE'S the prize here. He's in his early 30's with no kids, trying to qualify himself to the late 20's single mom. I hope you get through to OP.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:37 PM
3

You're not coming from a place of abundance here. You're trying to cut to the front of the line for the Beta Bux summer sign ups. She had a kid out of wedlock and didn't ride the CC? Cmonnnnnnnnnnnnnn
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:34 PM
1

Yeah, this is the definition of oneitis.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:28 PM
4

Does it have any impact on you whatsoever? You sound like you're stuck in some sort of autistic anger phase hybrid. Let it go, this sounds incredibly trivial and non-impactful for you.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 03:38 PM
5

Steps 1-100) Be Consistent. Make an excuse once, you'll make it forever. This is why gyms exist. They rely on people who can't stay consistent, and pay for a membership while not going. Other than that, it depends on what you want to do. If you want to gain muscle, just lift and eat. If you want to cut, lift and eat at a caloric deficit.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 11:40 PM
1

I know you want an answer other than "Gym and No Contact", but that's like asking "My teeth feel gross and my breath stinks, how do I fix it? (More elaborate than brushing my teeth)". The answer isn't more elaborate, because there's nothing to elaborate on. You NEED to hit the gym, because it helps you work on aggression while building your body up (Your motivations can be whatever). You NEED to go no contact, because it's the only way you move forward. You aren't going to be friends, you aren't…
/r/askTRP22/06/15 09:17 PM
1

Well, even if you can't just go out and FTOW - try. Just seeing IOI's while gaming, even if it's shitty game, is enough to begin building momentum. It will certainly help you more than not trying.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 09:13 PM
2

After a bit of prying she ends up telling me that one of her last relationships her boyfriend beat her. My ex-wife uses this line to reel in BB to feed her gaping love hole. I never put a hand on her, and treated her as well as any beta treats a woman on the highest pedestal. I just raised my voice when I found out (surprisingly), that she had been sucking dicks on dicks on dicks. Guess that's physical abuse now, huh? She stopped using it only when it backfired on her - kept using it too often a…
/r/askTRP22/06/15 09:08 PM
3

You must first have fire before you can have steel. All men will have this relationship, all men will come to this fork in the road eventually.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:42 AM
19

Every man gets tested. I'm glad I got mine out of the way in my 20's, and was able to right the ship.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:38 AM
47

Remember fellas, your emotions do not matter to any woman and they're worth even less once you're married. Been there. Ex-Wife to BP Me: "If you tell anyone I cheated on you, I'll tell them you're crazy" I was crazy because I told her I knew she was cheating on me and I wouldn't stand for it. LOL
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:19 AM
1

Because a large portion of TRP is about improving yourself as a man.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 02:12 AM
9

Looks like your branch is about to become vacant. Dread game. Right now. She doesn't need you to point it out to her, she knows what the fuck she's doing. Start shopping for plates.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 02:07 AM
1

Bingo. Rejections are going to happen. A lot. This is when you have to really put that outcome independence to use.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 03:46 PM
1

You're never at risk of developing oneitis. Interesting viewpoint. I've been here for a while, but never really thought of it this way. ♂
/r/askTRP21/06/15 03:43 PM
1

I don't know, this one is awfully close, if not actually validation.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 03:38 PM
7

It's her job to push for commitment, and if she doesn't, and you want her to, you're boarding a one way train to Oneitis D.C. This is when you need to refocus. This is when you need to fight your BP programming. You're already talking about her "coming around", so it seems you've already bought your ticket. Now is the time to GFTOW, and soft next.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 03:36 PM
2

I find myself on ASKTRP far more than TRP. Not because the discussion isn't valuable on TRP, but because ASKTRP is a constant reminder of how far I have come, and how far I still have left to go. As with everything in life, you should never stop learning. If you think you're done learning, you're only kidding yourself. That's why TRP has categorized posts. If you don't want to discuss BP stuff, filter it out. I tend to read a lot of BP examples, as those are where I compare and contrast my exper…
/r/askTRP21/06/15 03:28 PM
3

Sometimes, I clear my mind. I sort of focus on the darkness of the room. The silence. I typically fall asleep no more than 10 minutes after hitting the pillow. If I'm thinking, I'm thinking how much I'd like to get through these 7-8 hours of sleep so I can get up and hit the gym, and begin the next day. In the past, sleep was something I wanted to do constantly. Now, it's simply a tool to keep my mind sharp and my body improving. I make certain to get my sleep in, but I'm always excited to wake …
/r/askTRP21/06/15 03:24 PM
4

You're putting all these women on a pedestal. Listen to yourself. You're worthless because they won't kiss you? Your value is attached to women still. You crave validation from them, and when they don't give it to you, you feel worthless. First off - Go read No More Mr Nice Guy. Second, you're better off without these women right now, because I guarantee that the first woman who kisses you is going to throw you into a oneitis maelstrom that's going to pull you down like the Flying fucking Dutchm…
/r/askTRP21/06/15 01:07 AM
1

And what do you do? Complain? Put your fucking foot down. You're a man, aren't you? Stop being such a goddamn cuckold.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 12:48 AM
2

Just stay motivated. Remember - You're building a fortress. Brick by fucking brick, man.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 12:01 AM
2

Her first attempt to turn you beta was that question. Second attempt (out of many) was the "I love you". Sounds like you handled the second one fine. They don't leave the beta immediately. It's not an immediate reaction, or this sub would have 1 million members and people would actually understand this stuff is factual. A good example was the BB guy. The attraction just faded, she only fucked him a few times before it faded to the point of absence. Be careful, as it sounds like oneitis is starti…
/r/askTRP20/06/15 01:00 PM
2

No motivation, skinny fat, lazy, substance abuse issues. All of the above are fixed with getting your ass in the gym. You'll learn motivation and dedication. You'll fix your body. You'll learn that you do not want to sacrifice your hard work by drinking beer and eating cake and shit.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 12:55 PM
19

It has absolutely no impact on my life in any way. As with everything - if it doesn't benefit me in any way, I have no need to care about it.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 12:51 PM
3

There's nothing wrong with being turned off by this. You're not a terrible person for not being interested. Remember - TRP is as much about accepting the feral nature of women, as it is about bettering yourself. If the roles were reversed, she wouldn't be asking this question to anyone, she'd be branch swinging like it was her job. It sounds like you're progressing nicely on the path to bettering yourself. I think you already know what you need to start considering, should you be unhappy.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 12:47 PM
1

She asks me what's wrong and states that it's not fair I'm mad because we were just friends. I told her we obviously we're not friends since I made it clear and we were hooking up whatever. This one is from page 1 of the AWALT handbook. It sounds like you failed by saying too much. Even if you didn't intend to, it looks like you're showing her you care too much about her. It sounds like she saw you as the challenge, and you were until the above happened. This is oneitis.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 12:43 PM
5

You can easily do both options. As the leader, you can tell him how to improve. As a man on a mission, you can tell him you do not have time to speak right now. This post seems like you're riding a fine line between NGAF and giving too much of a fuck about this stuff. Just stay focused on what you're there to do, and handle things that stand in the way of that. Don't be concerned with what others do.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 12:36 PM
1

As was stated, stop worrying about the women. Use it as fuel if you must, but this is something you need to do for you. Remember - While "you are the prize" is stated frequently here, that mindset means that YOU put your needs first, and fuck what others think. Being overweight and dying at a young age is quite literally the opposite of putting your needs first.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 02:55 PM
2

That's the issue here. No one can really understand what you're saying. Clarify for us.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 02:46 PM
1

If you need the money, take a second job. I personally value my time enough (as well as make enough money in my current position) to where I don't even consider that an option. Also, I like to keep my personal and professional lives separate, save for the occasional sports bar visit with a couple of guys from work. I find that the best hobbies are ones I can do either in a group, or all alone. Day Hiking is one of the simplest ones, and it's something that I can use for women as well ("Going hik…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 02:45 PM
2

This reads like someone threw a hustler and a dictionary into the Autismo 1000 and this is the shit it spit out. Are you saying that you purposefully act like a beta, but consider yourself a Chad? From what I've interpreted, you've stated you act with an IDGAF attitude, say what you want to say, and have absolute outcome independence. How is this, in any way, "100% Beta Behavior"?
/r/askTRP19/06/15 02:38 PM
3

Hiking, Sports, Kayaking, Guns (Range or Hunting), Biking, Cars (Track or Meets/Cruises). Take your pick. For someone who a long time ago had the same issues, I found that having hobbies that kept me inside my house were nowhere near as rewarding both physically and mentally as those that took place outside of it. There's a dual reward to hobbies that are outside. You're out of your house, where you can actually meet people and approach if you need to. Also, you're hitting the gym, so it's going…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 02:31 PM
1

Main thing holding me back from trying to open an opportunity to get with her is that it fucking sucks when your approach at one girl in university gives a bad vibe and she becomes a future cockblock out of spite later. Sounds like an excuse to not approach to me. Fuck this mindset. The only thing "Fucking up your opportunity" here is YOU. Approach. If it doesn't work out, who cares? The whole "She'll cockblock me" thing is trash, and you know it. Approach.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 02:27 PM
4

First off. To answer your question - When? Now. How? Swiftly and bluntly. Secondly, you're very likely overestimating your SMV. While you're talking a big game now, you're likely to go full-blown Oneitis when you pull the trigger here. Obviously, that's when you really start to lean on that sidebar material more than you do now. You have read the sidebar material, right? She's not going to honor her "Good faith" commitments to you. AWALT. Once again, sidebar. She's going to demand you answer her…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 02:06 AM
3

Amused Mastery does that. Don't take it seriously and answer her question like the guy in that FR did. He could have been plugging her that night, but instead looked like an ultra beta. I'd almost answer it like an adult answers a stupid question from a child.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 01:54 AM
2

From what he's described, she's between the ages of 18-21. It's great that OP has found TRP. While he clearly hasn't even begun to swallow it, something tells me this girl will help him along the way in a few weeks/months. He needs to soft next this girl immediately.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 02:35 PM
3

Yes, it's possible - the reason you don't hear about it more is because people don't have the following internalized: Outcome Independence Abundance Mentality So you're going to get shit tested to oblivion and back. There was a FR I believe on the main sub, guy had the same situation, and upped his SMV significantly. Oneitis (Yes, that's what this girl is to you) came back into his life through a new roommate, and they were out on the town having some drinks. He was going through the motions, es…
/r/askTRP18/06/15 02:20 PM
7

Oneitis. No contact. Radio Silence. Abort.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 03:46 PM
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