Yeah yeah, I know. You are not supposed to bang the hotties at work. I get it. Good. Now we're over with it. Right?

And then seriously. If I were to bang a hottie at work, is there something specific I should note when it comes to the game?

I am an external consultant, and soon to finish a long project. Then I'll be off to another client. There is this one young lady who has been dropping some obvious IoIs, and is clearly nervous at my presence. I do not work directly with her, and she sits in a different floor. I asked her for an ad-hoc lunch ("I'm going today around 12. You can join if you wish"), she declined but had a counter proposal. I'll meet her for a lunch soon then.

What to do? Let her speak and build comfort? Ask her at some point how modern her views on life, universe, and everything are? Oh right, she's seen me with a ring on a finger, so no point in hiding that. The current game plan is just to play normal lunch, and see if there is attraction and then act by the gut. Of course I am trying to avoid creepiness.

Any other advice but "you don't eat and shit at the same place"? <Grin>