On chicks on the dance floor

fuckyeralla · 2014-01-25T11:29:57+00:00

Appearance is everything at parties. I have lots of success and this is how I do it:

Just have fun, dance with your buddies, drink, whatever. Don't be the guy who's walking around talking to every chick at the party. That's desperate and ugly and chicks hate those guys. Take a look around here and there, see if you catch some girl's eyes. If nobody wants you then so be it. If you see a girl looking at you wave her over. You have already won her, you can only fuck up with stupid shit, so talk like you're talking with a male buddy. Are there girls next to you? Talk to them "Hey Ladies! What are your names?". They don't seem to like it? Stop. Don't ever be desperate and try too much. Remember, you have options and don't need to impress anyone.

Basically just have fun and don't go partying to get laid or you simply won't.

redbluepilling · 2014-01-25T12:06:28+00:00

So, quick question, have you ever tried just grinding? Everyone has something that works for them...because they're confident in it. Me? Music is loud--why bother talking with words? It's cheeky but under-appreciated--we communicate extremely well through other ways. So, look at her, eye contact, smirk, move to her, grab her by the hand/wrist/arm while looking at her and bring her into you, your leg positioned to be like a puzzle piece between hers. Put your hand on her side, I'd usually mouth the word 'hey' and that's about it. Start grinding and keep looking at her. It's all about you being in control (which includes letting her do dancygrindy shit on you!). You control the general situation. Like...Switch positions to her back. Make it sensual, smooth. It's sex with clothes on. Alternatively, depending on the situation, when you take her by the hand, make it fun, ballerina shit, exaggerated salsa dancing. Then you quick switch, and do all that above sensual shit. Don't do it for too long, just enough for her to be really into you. Make out or isolate off the floor, who knows which order, I don't think it really matters.

If you get a rejection. You body language should clearly indicate that she's the weird one, and then you move along unaffected if she goes insta-bitch. Otherwise, look at her as the weird one (a playfully scrunched, analyzing face. you're taken aback by her weirdness). Then you start to turn and lightly push her aside. Then turn back and do what you intended, as if you were both in on the joke right from the start. On the dancefloor, the other girls will be watching. Ah, and if you want a weird one to try, go up to a girl, looking at her, then grind you ass on hers. She'll be really fucking confused. Have fun with it, and then switch it up quickly. You don't want to be the weird ass grinder. Be the guy having a good time doing weird things for shits and giggles. Try it at least twice before you knock it. Final words of advice: you get the opportunity to be physical right from the start. Look at her and as you get close, envision what you're going to do with her next (sensuality? fun?). So start off confident with how you place your hand and body, and escalate. Be physical, not rapey. And...practice.

redbluepilling · 2014-01-25T11:56:46+00:00

Rule 1: If you're not an awesome dancer (think JT here), you shouldn't bother trying to pick chick up on the dance floor. It's just a horrible location for picking up in general.

edit: European here.

drqxx · 2014-01-25T21:50:13+00:00

My guess is confidence. Don't doubt yourself. Just remember any girl is lucky as fuck that you've decided to even talk to her.

Terminal-Psychosis · 2014-01-27T05:00:35+00:00

Dance is powerful. Lead her with purpose. Lots of loose hip action. Get crazy like nobody else is there. Not Steve Irkel crazy, Teenwolf crazy. Get sexy with her. MOVE her around as the leader should.

Dominate her with your frame, but use body language to do it, you dig? Make her feel it and make it fun.

Way I see it, how she reacts to your physical presence shows you, and her, how things will go in bed. If you can do this, you won't need many words.

Some guys are masters at it, even though they couldn't talk their way out of a paper bag.

YMMV

dickfinger · 2014-01-25T12:28:02+00:00

You're in a frat, you're big, and you're aggressive with dance suggestions.. hmm you don't see the problem? You make yourself sound like the typical frat boy rapist. Maybe you just need to calm down and listen to what girls have to say n shit.

And if that doesn't do it... find chick's somewhere else... like at an actual dance club.

Keep us informed! We're rooting for you!

Title	On chicks on the dance floor
Author	omegainvictus
Upvotes	7
Comments	20
Date	January 25, 2014 10:53 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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