TRP says that even with your LTR you should control your emotions, never to get emotional with a girl ( saying cute stuff on text messages and even in person ). Whenever i try this in a LTR my gf thinks that i have been dumped and someone played me and that is the reason why i am building a wall around me. How do you control your emotions in a ltr, lets say you have been together for a longer period. When do you say cute words?