When I started having self confidence I realized I can basically shrug anything off my shoulders.

The problem is, this tendency I have to shrug off anything and basically block bad thoughts is making me dubious. Some girl shit tests me, or makes comments, or teases, or whatever just to make me react, I either deal with it the right way, or ignore, or fall for it, but no matter which one I do, I never change and I keep my shit together and constant, no matter what.

My question is, if I can always be confident and unphased by these tests and if I never let myself feel bad for my mistakes or bad experiences, can this really work long term? One one hand, I feel great because I know I've become really detached from women's treatment and they can't push my buttons the way they used to, on the other hand, I feel dubious.