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Am I taking it a little too personally? no, personal attacks done like this can really hurt you in the long run, and you wouldn't even know it until it's too late. This is worrying me because 90% of the people she does this too have no idea she’s a lying, incompetent bitch, and only see one side of the story. You have to build a strong relationship with other people. Social dynamics are tricky. Even if you are right, if they believe her, you may be as well as wrong. And she already made it clear…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 09:59 PM
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I think people are being too hard on OP. yes he may have overreacted. yes his point of view is very likely conditioned by his emotional state. but remember that bullies are bullies, and they almost never get what they deserve... I took advantage of my new social standing and started using it to stop him from messing with the women around us. That "I am a guy so I can socially shame women to feel superior" attitude he had for months had pissed me off so much that I turned it on him by calling him…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 05:38 PM
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Well, let her know the entity of the hard on she gives you.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 04:11 PM
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There's a difference between being laughed at and being funny. If they make you the clown, then you make them the clown back, otherwise you are right, it doesn't work.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:41 PM
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Correct. We do it with our friends all the time so we can have some banter and a good time. But, if the person is being serious, then that's another issue...
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:38 AM
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It's all an excuse. That's the problem when there's only one women in your radar: she can withhold sex and you can't do shit. When she sees you have at least another one ready to jump you, you'll see how long it takes to the "no-sex" one to open up. No sex = rational decision for whatever reason X. Sex = emotional decision. You want emotional 99% of the time with them, never rational.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:36 AM
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Don't do dinner dates unless you know its somewhere where you can easily kino. I agree. In general, it doesn't matter what you do for dates, the important thing is that it gets her going, emotionally speaking, and you can escalate.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:33 AM
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By like, I mean continuously complimenting them: saying they're cute, pretty or whatever women say. That's why, whenever I compliment them, I make sure the sarcastic tones gets through.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:31 AM
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It depends on the kind of humor. Guys, more than girls, try to classify me as childish or a clown. And you know what? It doesn't matter. They act like that because they can't understand how a clown like me can tap into women's emotions the way I do, by being both funny/childish/immature/easy going and sexual at the same time. It's a mixture of emotions that get them going, and they remember that. Emotional memory is extremely strong with women. BUT, you need to create some sexual memories in her…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:19 AM
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I don't agree only with the funny part. The trick is to make it clear you want her, funny or not.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:14 AM
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I don't agree. Be funny if that's who you are. But you need to transmit that you are willing to fuck them. Make it conscious, subconscious, or however you want to, but make it clear to her.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 10:01 PM
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Exactly. Pursuing women where you work is tricky by itself, if they already have power over you, it makes it worse. If they are the boss, then you are in for a ride...
/r/askTRP02/07/16 09:11 AM
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Then tell her, but play it lightly. Very. Do not put your heart in the table
/r/askTRP26/06/16 08:06 PM
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I get it. Yeah, he's a bitch. Tell the boss you can't work like that, he either shuts the fuck up or leaves. If that doesn't work, make the workplace a warzone by saying shit back until he gets the deal.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 07:21 PM
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The problem are your emotions. You already got owned by him at your office. And it's a pain in the ass, because you go there everyday and when you are on a break or working you may be on edge waiting for him to do or say something or whatever. When you start detaching your emotions from the situation, you'll realize you can deal with it on a whole new level. The only problem is, you are the one who has to figure out how to do it. What do you think she would say? She wants to keep both. She proba…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 06:42 PM
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My advice is: if you are really better than him, then act like it. I'm not saying act superior, I'm saying own your shit and display to the world how low he is. Physical harassment? There's no room for that, either you kick his ass or call the police. Verbal harassment? Keep your cool and hit him back. Remember, whoever opens fire on you is inviting the same shit on himself. If he tries to sabotage your work, be extra careful. And put him on the spotlight as much as possible when you know he mad…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:51 PM
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Lol, I was in a similar boat not long ago. The guy was harassing me, but verbally, not physically. I'm weird and extrovert and he tried to frame me as a problem. He was the typical traditional, condescending pain in the ass no one wants around. In time, he became the outcast. He dug his own grave by trying to act aggressively in general and after a couple of occasions where I flew off the handle, he kind of stopped. I lost it and it was wrong, and now I've dealt with it by trying to control my e…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:47 PM
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I think OP is learning how life works
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:44 PM
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Yeah, you are right on that, it will depend on the context.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:42 PM
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Yes, don't obsess...
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:39 PM
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They will rationalize everything once they realize they are making a conscious decision and not following their feelings. Keep trying to bang guys or settle for an average beta? well, let's settle, my feelings for him are "deep" :)
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:34 PM
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Sunk costs - the idea that because you've already put x effort into something, you have to keep investing it. I'm not familiar with the entire framework, to be honest with you. But, if you keep applying effort to improve your self, that's an easy way to raise and become unstoppable in whatever you do in life. For example, I apply this at my job all the time and no one can get nearly close to my level of proficiency or knowledge, and that let's me do whatever I want and work only on things I like…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:33 PM
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Would you elaborate? You told your employer to fire someone otherwise you would leave?
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:15 PM
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Yeah, because we are all going to google it so that we can give an informed answer, on a Sunday, on reddit, about life :)
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:14 PM
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You are bored? just leave... you don't have to impress them
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:11 PM
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Are you by any mean looking to date your mum??? :)
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:10 PM
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Care to explain the fallacy??? :)
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:08 PM
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hahaha, well, you got me at the fart. Usually girls are not into that, but I guess he owned it :) Look, I understand how you feel, this happened to all of us. You need to get him out of the equation. If you were boring before, you would still be boring after he arrived. It's just that he underlined the fact that you were boring :) So, it's all about yourself. Keep working on yourself. And in these cases, go with the flow. There isn't much else we can say here. They like him more, but they won't …
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:06 PM
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My mum is big and can bang whoever she wants. I may not hang out with my friend anymore, but she can do what she wants. It's not hard to let people live their lives...
/r/askTRP26/06/16 03:56 PM
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What the other guy said: Ship sailed 727 days ago. Don't give her the validation or the satisfaction. Women decide this pretty quickly when they meet you. Married, with boyfriend, single, it doesn't matter, they make up their mind fast. You were not attractive then, you are not attractive now. Tell her whatever you want, it won't change how you or her feels. So, think about it rationally: the only think you'll gain is give her more power over you, because not only does she know you like her, but…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 03:55 PM
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Tell your friend he's an idiot. You don't ask for permission to date, even sisters...
/r/askTRP26/06/16 03:50 PM
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In other words you care too much. @OP: This guy said nothing to you and you felt like this, imagine how you would have felt had he started making fun of you... The point is, you need to detach your feelings from what other people do. You probably showed how you were feeling and that's why they were drawn to him. You are the only guy in the room, they pay attention to you. Another guy enters, he's making noise, having fun, they pay attention to him. This is not rocket science: they like him more …
/r/askTRP26/06/16 03:48 PM
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Exactly. The level of commitment to their current LTR will only make things slower, but in the end it doesn't matter. If you really show more value and she wants you, she will try to have you. Unless she starts rationalizing, but we all know that emotions run wild in the end... This is the typical "I thought she was in a stable relationship and that's why she wouldn't go out with me and now, she's with a new guy...".
/r/askTRP26/06/16 01:35 PM
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It is really confusing. It's almost like if you want to get an attractive, smart girl you either have to be complete beta (as a provider) or be very alpha. If you are in the middle (like me), you don't get much of anything. Exactly. These are the cases I noticed: 1) the girl is religious/traditional, married relatively young because, well, that's what they think they should do in life, and everything that comes after that is just frustration after frustration for them. 2) the girl starts feeling…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 12:32 PM
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if you are not driven enough to improve and get the good engineering or doctor job you always wanted don't blame it on the fact asians and indians have a fucked up culture where girls are given away to date according to status. again, grow up....
/r/askTRP24/06/16 06:24 PM
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I know. Anytime ;)
/r/askTRP23/06/16 04:51 PM
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You wanna feel good about your life? go and build one by yourself ;)
/r/askTRP21/06/16 09:10 PM
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Question: How do I make sure that I don't become my in-laws bitch? While the money and the girls looks are tempting, I doubt if I can swallow my pride? Also I feel that most daughters of rich women can be entitled and not ltr Material. Mom and dad are setting you up so you can be successful??? yeah, right... you are clearly "exploiting" this like a man... grow up, leave home, mom and dad and the stupid culture and build yourself from scratch, like we all do. IF you have the balls for it, that is…
/r/askTRP21/06/16 07:38 PM
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Like marrying a woman that was "reserved" for him? Really? Germany in the 40' had a fucked up culture too, should a man choose to follow it? He's a man, he has a brain, he has access to this information, he needs to use it. Culture or not, how he acts, in this case, is his choice, and his RESPONSIBILITY...
/r/askTRP21/06/16 06:54 PM
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I'd personally stay away from working with a relative. In my experience, the cool thing about families is that usually it's very hard to break up the bond between its members. When you add a business in the equation, things may go in the wrong direction for the wrong reasons. But this is my opinion. I can take shit from my family all day and they can take it from me, but we don't work together and we don't have to couple "family bonds" with "business responsibilities". These are my two cents on …
/r/askTRP21/06/16 05:56 PM
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Lol, it depends on the girl and your relationship with them. Look, my last LTR was just like me, so after one hour together and a couple of jokes we knew exactly what kind of person each of us were, so we knew exactly what we could tell each other and what needed to be skipped. For us, sex was an open book, and so was everything sex related. But that's not the same with everyone, so you need to assess both the girl and the relationship you have with her.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 05:53 PM
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I don't get something. If you are from a different culture (let's say, country A) where marriages are all arranged, then that's one thing, because that culture would already be fucked up on it's own way... If you are living in the western world, then what you do is this: you become a man and you stop doing what people tell you to do. If someone doesn't like it, fuck them, even if they are your parents. You marry for whatever fucking reason you want. If you marry because of money, good for you. I…
/r/askTRP21/06/16 05:49 PM
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Exactly. For example, even if you fail to escalate for any reason, if you keep things fun, flirt with them, never become "firendzone", making sure she knows you are not one of her "girlfriends", then things will open up again. If you somehow let go and admit "she's the one you need", you'll be screwed...
/r/askTRP21/06/16 05:44 PM
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Well, I guess it comes down not to how you were formed but how you are willing to improve. Let's say you work in a place where you need to constantly improve and learn new things will make a difference between success and failure. I don't have any numbers at hand, but my guess is that there will be more men in that field than women.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 06:06 PM
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I guess I've only seen the difference when I actually start comparing the best of the field with the best of the field. Yes, you have driven women just like you have static guys, so to speak. But in the end, for either cultural or genetic reasons, women tend to sacrifice the least when it comes to improve in demanding fields. I know this because while I'm ready to sacrifice weekends in a row to up my game and improve to unmatched levels, women with similar abilities to mine prefer to go out and …
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:10 AM
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Yeah, I agree. If he doesn't want to get physical, as you say, it means he's a pussy. Guys talk, just beat him at his own game and don't be affected by his shit. He's probably a validation junky...
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:42 PM
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I know, right?
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:40 PM
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Well, just because you asked nicely, this is how I look, usually: http://vignette1.wikia.nocookie.net/spartacus/images/b/b1/Gannicus.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20130106120057&path-prefix=fr
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:35 PM
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Lol, if he's not doing it to humiliate you, it's easy. Tell him to stop. Or, in public, when he tries that, just call him off on it so that everyone sees. If he complains, just ignore him.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:32 PM
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You can't go around through life telling people what to do. If this was a guy disrespecting you, what were you going to do, kick his ass? Are you going to pretend that every drunk girl respects you? Respect is something you currently basing on what anyone says about you, and that's going to kill your social self in the blink of an eye. You don't ask for respect, you take it with your actions. Just stop seeing yourself through the eyes of those who humiliate you, always see yourself through your …
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:30 PM
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"How do other people see me?" The social super power every man wished they had, almost as cool as reading thoughts. Let it go. The only way is to know see what they say about you to their trusted friends, but even then, there's no guarantee. Let. It. Go.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:25 PM
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You can reply: "next time you can come over, I'll show you how to use it ;)"
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:23 PM
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I'd like to elaborate on this a bit. If, for example, you feel down on a regular basis and you use masturbation to feel good again, that maybe an issue.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:20 PM
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No, when you masturbate the amount of my pimples doesn't increase, sorry.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:18 PM
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Man, your failures give all of us hope for the future! :) kidding, great job, practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction12/06/16 08:36 PM
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Meaning your SVM will not be up to braids. Have them if you want to, or not.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 08:03 PM
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Either: 1) "I know", from Han Solo, or 2) I love your boobs/ass. This one is a tricky one to pull off, but can give huge benefits if used correctly.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 06:22 PM
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Maybe you are being aggressive / offensive when you are trying to be assertive. Speak always in a calm, but firm tone, and slow gestures. You dont need to explain yourself to anyone. Yeah, many guys do this. They try to be assertive by bringing others down, always. The problem is they end up being successful on a superficial basis and eventually they'll go up against someone who doesn't back down and make them look like idiots. Basically, if you want to be assertive get hold of your emotions and…
/r/askTRP12/06/16 06:16 PM
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Congruence. You can't walk around and be assertive unless you're in a position to. At work, are you the boss who've worked there for 10+ years or the kid who just started and barely know anyone? Exactly, arrogance needs to be earned.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 06:14 PM
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True, in theory. I'd suggest to be careful about who you are being a prick to and on what basis. I've seen many guys who act like pricks just for "emotional impact" and are incapable of holding their ground. Many people act like pricks pushing others down, and if you push the wrong person down, well, you'll learn a lesson at least. EDIT: and whatever you do, never back down. People will not like you if you behave like this, so fuck them.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 06:11 PM
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Yeah, think of it as the drive to improve. I work in IT and women there, even those who are considered the best, are no match by lack of drive, lack of ambition, or lack of interest. Even if they are good and have potential, it doesn't develop by itself.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 06:05 PM
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Exactly. You cold also flirt with them when you meet them, and then allocate your attention appropriately. The key is not to give validation away for free.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 06:01 PM
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Exactly. I'd even add to be careful about how others see you. Basically, people may not like you acting like this, just shrug them off.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 05:57 PM
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It looks like you have first world problems, and that sucks for you.... get over it...
/r/askTRP12/06/16 05:55 PM
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braids and SVM? Really? Looking for an easy way out, by any means?
/r/askTRP12/06/16 05:54 PM
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The book of "I know so much more than you that I don't have to negotiate to get what I want". Joking aside, instead of reading books about negotiation, read books about people, how they act, what motivates them, etc. The rest is just strategy, and you'll learn it in time.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 05:52 PM
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This right here. Comedy, tv, movies or stand up. Watch shows like House MD, two and a half men, etc. Learn what works.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 05:51 PM
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They let me watch tv with them ;) Kidding, just try new things, slowly. TV watching aside, if you are watching a movie with her and the hot couple goes at it doggy style, it's going to be easier to get her going in that direction.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 05:48 PM
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Let me get this straight: 1) you are in an LTR; 2) she wants to fuck you non-stop. Why are you asking questions about power? What do you want from her, to bring another girl? Because as far as power goes, you seem to be ok..
/r/askTRP12/06/16 05:46 PM
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This may not be related, but I personally found I end up looking at the mouth of those girls I find myself attracted to.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 05:42 PM
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Yeah, when basically the two of you want to be with each other no matter what. But it can't be just you, it needs to go both ways.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 01:23 PM
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Think of it this way: TRP can help you understand why PUA tactics work. And how other things related to gender work as well.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 01:19 PM
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Yeah, and stop worrying about things. Go out and do stuff. Never stop, never let yourself down.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 01:15 PM
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I may have used the word "bite" a little too loose XD
/r/askTRP11/06/16 08:36 PM
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Exactly. You'll go from not attracting anyone to slowly attracting girls, from a baseline level upwards. BTW what helmet girl did was extremely sexual. Woman are attracted to man's scent, some are more open about this than others. That was an enormous IOI and had you smelled her hair after she did that, you'd have a good lay. Yeah, I've noticed the same thing with food. It all depends on context, of course, but if a woman bites something and then gives it to you for you to finish, then she proba…
/r/askTRP05/06/16 11:33 AM
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Yeah, the only "problem" is that chicks use it to shit test you, at least in my experience. Once you see their "comments" as a shit test, it gets easier.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 08:46 AM
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Never, and I mean never mistake tv/movie magic with reality. It doesn't matter shat they show you, take it as a grain lf salt and never as a clear cut example to follow. That being said, people successful in every social interaction have a killer frame, keep their emotions in check and display dominande. Work on those.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 03:42 PM
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Hahahaha she doesn't want you to share your dick with other women, shit test big time.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 12:32 PM
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The problem is not smiling, the problem is letting your emotions control your life. For example, you are trying to game a girl you are comfortable with, she notices and makes a comment about it. You can laugh, embarassed, and reveal your intentions, or you can laugh, act cocky and A&A the shit out of the situation. You are laughing in both cases, but in the second one you are using it to your advantage.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 11:30 AM
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I prefer to play with her. If she's not that pretty, you can ironically remark how amazing she is. If she is pretty, then remark how she lacks "...." or how she cant compete with some other girl both of you know. In both cases, the idea is to push her buttons and tease her.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 11:26 AM
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Yeah, like wearing Iron Man's armor :)
/r/askTRP04/06/16 11:01 AM
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Also think it might be a bit of push-pull, you can act yourself sometimes, and then be romantic or very aggressive in other times. I found this is also valid in general. Many girls shit test me about the fact I act tough or act like a jerk on the outside, but in the inside I'm different. The fact is, it's true, it's fun to have fun, while sometimes you want to behave differently for other reasons, and who cares, you are who you are. They want the thrill, but they also want to be sure they can pr…
/r/askTRP04/06/16 09:10 AM
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Exactly. At least I'm getting lots of strange. I really want a GF but now...post TRP...sigh... For me at least, the betas around these girls bother me only when I'm really into her. Otherwise, like you said, if it's a plate, who cares.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 07:58 AM
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It's not easy, but getting laid cures depression! :)
/r/askTRP04/06/16 07:39 AM
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My heart gets involved and I start getting jealous and blah blah blah. I feel you here man... Especially when I see the other guy is a fucking loser but either got there first or there are other issues involved... The last girl in that situation sent me a thousand mixed signals but the loser's still in the picture... fucking feelings :)
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 07:25 AM
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...who all know about me. Those guys are disgraceful betas, to be honest... either you are trolling or your case is an exception. Guy who agree to let their women fuck other guys? There have to be other factors involved, I don't think that's going to be the case among young betas...
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 06:55 AM
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Yeah, many of the guys failing shit tests do so when their true intentions come to light (ie, sleeping with the girl). Which is also why it's easy to deflect shit tests if you have abundance mentality (ie, you can sleep with many women, so the one in front of you isnt that important ;))
/r/askTRP03/06/16 08:58 PM
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Women have pussies, which means they are always going to have men who want to fuck them. So, they try to get the best men. Men have dicks, and because women want the best men, men need to be the best in order to fuck. Abundance mentality, for women, means that they are just women, basically. For men? It means having high value, which means many women would want him to fuck them. The higher the value, the higher the smount of women is going to be.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 08:41 PM
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Have you ever watched Seinfeld??? Well, take a look at George Costanza... and don't be like him..
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:37 PM
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Me too. What I've noticed is that they try to establish a base of guys before that moment. They have the beta husband, the alpha friend, the beta friends, etc. Once they go pass their peak and the amount of makeup cannot compensate the age scars, they grab onto those dicks like it's gold.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:35 PM
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Exactly, it's not that they need men a lot less, it's that when they need them, they can get them. I remember when I started with TRP a couple of years back, almost all the women I met had either a boyfriend, were married and/or, in many cases, they were not at their first boyfriend/husband. How was that possible, given the fact I couldn't find a girl to go out with? Letting aside the BP mentality I had back then, unless they are really ugly, women have options, always.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:32 PM
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Men who can't be controlled are the builders and destroyers of civilizations. This makes me think of those who are great while in power and, at the same time, tear everything down when they lose it. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 04:18 PM
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Exactly. It's very similar to the feeling you get when you believe you did or say something wrong in front of a woman you are trying to game. The obsessive nature in you tells you it's over. It doesn't matter. Your value and how she things of you will go beyond the single mistake. And the same applies to everything. This is why, by the way, people say that "time forgets everything". Things seem really insignificant once time has gone by.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:46 PM
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You should have thrown a "Because I'm Batman!" somewhere in there!
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:33 PM
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She was just playing the game. Yeah, exactly. I've fallen for that one too: really pretty, tons of things in common, you are the ideal girl, etc. Don't fall for that one. She's not the only one, and she's probably well aware of what she's doing to you. The fact is, even if she told you she had a boyfriend but still flirted with you and lead you on, you wouldn't have cared about the boyfriend and she would have played the same card in the end. Bottom line, don't let yourself be used and if she's …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:31 PM
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Exactly. Unless OP showed more value and less "interest" in her, nothing's gonna happen.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:24 PM
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I agree. This happens a lot with oneitis, unfortunately men tend to feel like that too often and it cripples them tremendously. You have to let it go.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:21 PM
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Yeah, if your relationship with a woman who's already committed goes beyond friendship, you'll either be her potential new alpha, her beta or her backup. I once met a woman who flirted and lead me on, then put up the boyfriend card, then I showed no interest, then she escalated again, then I flirted back, then I get invited to go out and meet her boyfriend :) As long as you know what you are doing and don't let yourself be played, things will seem less harsh. But they will try to classify your d…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:19 PM
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Don't ever worry about your past or if you fucked up. Wishing for a better past is an impossible desire. Focus on the future and learn from your past. I'd even add, when you really start don't giving a fuck, don't obsess about the past. Many people over analyze past memories trying to learn from them when there's actually nothing to learn. In the end, life moves only one way
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:13 PM
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Askin what to do in bed??? Come on... Do you want to know where to out it, also????
/r/askTRP03/06/16 02:51 PM
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What does the red pill has to do with thst issue?
/r/askTRP03/06/16 02:49 PM
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Of course there's more to people. For example, I consider myself an alpha because I can easily get women attracted to me and men that try to compete with me don't have the confidence, knowledge, carisma or wit to pull it off. My ego is big and allows me to do anything I want, and yet I can control it at will. Noe that's being alpha for me. It may be different for others.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 02:48 PM
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Yeah, it's kind of the opposite you get when she feels really comfortsble with you but for some reason (boyfriend? Husband? Whatever?) she doesn't want your dick just yet. My take on it? They try to fix what they feel for you with the rest of their feelings. Keep them in your frame and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 02:44 PM
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I'd agree except for the fact thst a lot of the time onitis isn't as serious as it seems. You have a strong crush, you become emotional, but it's relatively easy to get over once you focus your emotions somewhere else. Even if the person stays in your life. On a similar note, in my experience those who successfully get over onitis end up being chased by the girl that rejected them in the first place, which only reinforces the fact that WE, men, can dictate the rules of the game.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 02:37 PM
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The problem is, this tendency I have to shrug off anything and basically block bad thoughts is making me dubious. It's the price you have to pay for not giving a fuck. Either you start analyzing things and come off as "perfect", which will never happen and is a turn off, or you let it go and roll with it. This is a normal paranoid reaction people get when they start letting go of worries and society's approval. Let go, have fun. If you keep this up, and don't look back, you will see how amazing …
/r/askTRP02/06/16 10:37 PM
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It's like telling a girl you like her. It may go well, it may go wrong, it may go in whatever direction and it's not up to you to decide. Same thing goes for this kind of talk (TRP) to other guys. Bottom line, act, don't talk.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 02:50 PM
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My take on this is that you can't force attraction just because you want her. She knows you like her, but you messed it up, either by acting beta or just by telling her. That being said, even if you think she's the most perfect woman for you, you'll have to detach and reallocate your obsession man. The idea is to display value in general before you can actually get whichever girl you like. Right now, you are obsessed with her and she has the power of lowering your value by shit testing you or no…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 02:43 PM
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Just to add, I am the class clown where I work and that gives me no issues with women. As long as I know my shit and I still am the best at what I do, my level of confidence lets me get away with anything and women still love me. Bottom line, it's not one thing that limits you, but a group of things. Because I'm guessing you have no issues makjng jokes with your parents or brothers or sisters.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 11:42 AM
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Which makes you even more of shithead, go find a woman that wants to be with you, not someone that is given to you by Santa, you idiot... I forgot, you are probably a troll...
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:12 PM
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Feminists are a lot like christian fundamentalists, there is a lot of guilt and mental illness going on in their heads. Exactly. And like every religious people, they can say all the shit they want but in the end, they'll still fuck like anyone in the end... I haven't met many feminists yet but the couple I met had in common the fact they were average smart and below average in looks and general attractiveness. And when gamed, they acted just like those hot girls they were trying to "surpass" by…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 08:02 PM
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Then you'll realize that the companionship that you've been longing for so long is just good male friends. And you may just settle for male companionship! XD Sorry, couldn't resist.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 07:57 PM
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I may go against the current here, but I'm happy I had no role model while growing up. I had a father, two younger brothers, but nothing sticked and I was clearly a BP example, with insecurity issues. The reason I'm happy with all this is that it allowed me to build something for myself, and now my confidence (or ego) lets me do anything. I'm still sorry for all the years I lost (wasted?) and I don't encourage this to anyone, but maybe because I cannot change it I'm also happy with how things tu…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 07:14 PM
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You could take this chance to pick yourself up. You can't shut everyone and everything down, you are a person and you will feel down eventually, that's how life is. For example, imagine Bruce Wayne going back to china or india or whatever the hell he was in batman beings each time he feels he needs training...
/r/askTRP31/05/16 07:06 PM
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Margaret Thatcher! Kidding, I guess James Bond is a clear example.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 07:04 PM
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She's playing you. Unless she's your girlfriend, forget about it. If she is, well, start considering who to act from then on...
/r/askTRP31/05/16 07:03 PM
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Yeah, I never got this shit. I live in a place full of women of all heights, who cares... And if the problem is being intimidated by taller men then the issue is another one, not you height.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 07:02 PM
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The problem is sleeping with her and having to deal with the consequences at work later on. If she won't be there, if you won't be there, then go for it. Otherwise, be careful, I'd just say there are a lot of 6s and asses out there.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 06:57 PM
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If you're not interested in gaming her, a close relationship can be used as social proof. I found this is useful, too, but in a slightly different way. It's way easier to get attention from other women if you have one or two who, while they are just friends, accept and "validate" you, rising your value.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 06:06 PM
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It's usually the same old song... you are the annoying one until you meet people who are like you and enjoy being with you. I'm surrounded by annoying people and I can still divide them between those I enjoy being with and those that irritate my ass, so to speak. And guess what? Those who are a pain in the ass are the sames who can't stand people who are not like them, big surprise... Be yourself and don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 05:22 PM
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Indian women IN INDIA are very different from those in the US. You read crap everywhere nowadays... women are women. If she doesn't want you, she will not be happy with you, no matter what. She's being forced to be with a guy, that's NOT a good thing for women in India nor in the US, stop rationalizing the shit out of that stupid culture...
/r/askTRP31/05/16 05:15 PM
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sign of emotional instability Usually this, but it depends on context. For example, I met women who go off easily and women who are very cool but like to use their "angry" mode to get their way. This last category is full of short women, by the way. In the past I've seen women blow up, calm down and apologize, blow up again at certain uncomfortable points in the conversation and then resume calm demeanor. It happens. But I'm not arrogant enough to blame it on her 100%, when this happens to me is…
/r/askTRP31/05/16 05:13 PM
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The fact that you think this is normal says tons about your ability to reason...
/r/askTRP31/05/16 04:42 PM
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Exactly. Have you ever wondered why when you act in a non-getnleman way towards women people will instantly try to call you on it? I'm sorry, was she supposed to be my equal 5 minutes ago and now she's suddenly deserving more for her gender? So laughable.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 11:52 AM
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Arranged married? Fucking retarded people... Would you like to be arranged to marry a guy? Don't even try asking a question like his with "it's common in india", you loser...
/r/askTRP31/05/16 11:37 AM
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By building frame. You need to find a way to stop your emotions from controlling you. Once you got there, it' be easier for you to stand up and people will notice they can't just walk over you, and if they try, you'll be in an excellet position to stop them. Unfortunately, the moment your emotions take over is the moment you lose.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 11:32 AM
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First: why do you give all the power to women? and then: you game her to find out if she's attracted too You either give her power or not. Guess what, she already has it, implicitly. It's your choice to either validate her power by putting yourself in line and begging her for her attention and her body or you can show her you are the best one around. Of course you have to be attracted and she has to be attracted, that's a no brainer. The point is, guys will be attracted to almost anything that's…
/r/seduction31/05/16 06:21 AM
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Well, as long as you are not being a negative pain in the ass you can do whatever you want man, it's your life in the end. Personal experience here: I know a guy who hates his job and tries to describe it as a very negative thing, in general. Fuck him and his issues, our job is great, and each time he opens his mouth to throw shit we always end up telling him to shut the fuck up and go do something different if he doesn't like it. The point is, toxic, manipulative people are everywhere and won't…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 06:10 AM
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You do, by trying to game her. But don't fool yourself, unless she finds you attractive, you won't be sleeping with her. That's the hard fact. You think you have power by choosing who to be with? She'll be with you if she sees you as the most valuable guy around, which means she chooses. Just keep this in mind.
/r/seduction30/05/16 09:24 PM
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why didn't I just concentrate and get better at it? From my experience, the main reason for this is lack of interest. The problem is, many guys have trouble admitting they don't like the job and make fool of themselves trying to build a career on something they don't like... I don't know if this is the case, but when you like something, you have no problem throwing weekends down the drain trying to improve. At least that's my take on it.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 09:19 PM
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Using her? You want her and she wants your which means you are using your to maker her very *#£$%$£
/r/seduction30/05/16 09:02 PM
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Find a way to lock your brain into the present and that's it, have fun!
/r/seduction30/05/16 08:59 PM
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It's not that the world doesn't work like this, it's that society tends to settle in a certain way to reduce conflict. Those who don't care about the "role" or "place" society (or people) have put them in will try to change. And it doesn't matter the context, this kind of attitude will bring on conflict. Usually, people who act the way you say are aware of this. There are dicks, of course, but being aware that conflict is inevitable will spare you a lot of backslash in the furue.
/r/seduction30/05/16 08:58 PM
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OP, pay attention to this. Be yourself. I'm slightly fit, a huge nerd, I'm full of confidence and I just don't care, I spill all of this around like I'm the only guy in the world. And girls react amazingly to it. Have fun!
/r/seduction30/05/16 08:54 PM
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You shouldn't be acting like a stone faced lion on the prowl when trying to do night game. Lol, "I'm here to fuck! Give me some!" When I had a girlfriend it seemed like women would approach me all of the time at a bar. Confidence does wonders.
/r/seduction30/05/16 08:52 PM
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It's tricky. Realize that women choose you, not the other way around. If you keep this in mind, the whole idea is for her to show interest in you, and THEN you move in. Until then, just show yourself and display value by being confident and having fun.
/r/seduction30/05/16 08:51 PM
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But, in human species man are the ones who bear the evolutionary pressure on their own backs. This right here is the whole point. Men had more pressure on them to improve, throughout history. Those better survived, those lesser got extinct. Women never had this kind of pressure on them. Let's face it, a guy may at the top of the world and fuck whoever he wants, but he needs to be the best to do it. Women get fucked by him, but they only need to be sexually appealing to him, not the "best" on the…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 08:21 PM
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Next step: learn to fit in while also presenting your views in an acceptable way. Exactly. It's like in a workplace, you may be the smartest, knowledgeable guy around but you need to be careful how you move. People are people and will put you down if you become an existential threat.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 08:11 PM
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You need to understand two things: 1) it doesn't matter how good you understand how the world works, unless people are like you, how you present the information may have a profound effect on how they treat you. 2) many people through reddit avoid discussing anything with you if you post here, so... deal with it ;)
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 08:07 PM
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You get good at what you do so whatever job you lose, it's only a temporary loss and the chance to take a break ;)
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 08:04 PM
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... and you need to be ready to blitzkrieg the fuck out of the other party
/r/askTRP30/05/16 07:58 PM
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hahahaha, if this is not porn, what is it, "wild sex"???
/r/askTRP30/05/16 07:49 PM
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A good way to stop getting angry about your past life is to catch yourself when you're obsessing over something. Exactly. Live the present. Learn to control your thought patterns. You can control what pops into your head out of nowhere, but you CAN control whether to obsess about it or not.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 07:47 PM
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You'll feel it in your gut when a chick is testing you This here. If they are not really close to you, then who cares, have fun with it. If she shit tests you, treat her as such and have fun with her act. Confidence does not mean you have to be a dick. So many betas are in desperate need of this realization...
/r/askTRP30/05/16 07:44 PM
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I can only say that many hard core blue pill guys are religious. It stems from the fact they believe core values are justified from religion, and these core values dictate how to act.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 07:42 PM
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de-pussify yourself and go up to her knowing that you are gonna be doing a mess of things... and you keep it up until you stop doing a mess of things... You are asking how to get over the fear of spiders on a forum... go face the damn spider...
/r/askTRP30/05/16 07:40 PM
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Moderator at The Red Pill subreddit!
/r/askTRP30/05/16 07:39 PM
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Tattoos, in theory, are attractive because they show you are willing to mark your own skin permanently, which transmits how confident and sure of yourself you are. Of course, this in theory. In practice, it became common practice. In the past it was probably like those tribal warriors who would mark their own skin with piercings and stuff, it's all for display.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 07:38 PM
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Of course you will. But once you have practical knowledge, you can do whatever you want with your life. But, once you are traveling, it may not be that easy to stop and get back to study something. Remember, many people leave home knowing full well that they can "go back" if things don't work out. Almost no one does the true "leap of faith" into the unknown at that age, if you know what I mean.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 07:29 PM
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It depends on the context. Confidence cannot be shown if you don't do stuff, generally speaking. You can't come off confidently in a conversation if you don't participate, or in any activity if you stay out of it. Imagine playing poker with a guy who knows the rules but has no idea about odds, strategy, bluffing, etc, while you have been playing for ages and you are the American champion. Imagine how you would feel facing such an opponent. That very same feeling comes from confidence. And it's t…
/r/askTRP30/05/16 05:44 PM
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Try it tomorrow morning: you wake up, you throw yourself under the shower, except this time, shower with cold water... you will see what I mean.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 05:40 PM
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I'm going to detach my answer from your specific example: in general, judgement and criticism is carried out in a way to get you under emotionally, not logically. This is sometimes unintentional, sometimes intentional. The key is to keep your frame, think logically, and deal with whatever people throw at you. Or, learn to back away when it's useless. But keep your frame or you will lose beforehand.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 05:39 PM
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For me, doing what I like no matter what. I like my job, I bring it home, I get better at it on a constant basis, and I don't give a fuck what others think about me or about how I do it because, guess what, I'm the best at it. The key for me was finding out what I liked, and going for it. Find a way to stimulate your brain and keep doing it no matter what. That's the whole idea.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 05:36 PM
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First thoughts for parameters are; age, income, net worth, physique, game, height. You can't use these factors alone, unfortunately. For example, age, physique, height can give you only apparent value unless you use them correctly. Income and net worth can give you no value if you sit there and do nothing with it. Same for game: let's say you are the game king of the city but you prefer to stay home playing video games, you'll have no value... SMV is, the way I see it, a combination of tools (ph…
/r/askTRP30/05/16 05:29 PM
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Exactly. And you also need to consider context. Two years ago I was really not taking care of myself but I had so much confidence and competence at my job that I was already the implicit alpha of the group, and I was surrounded by guys who were taller, with girlfriends/married, had more money or more experience. Why? Because of how I applied the skills that I had at the time. Had someone taken me away and put me in another context than I would have been really low value...
/r/askTRP30/05/16 05:25 PM
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If you don't objectify women enough you will start to project things on them that aren't there. That's right. In the end, they objectify your value before giving you her pussy, the same needs to apply for a guy before giving off his dick. Emotions overlap each other and projection is always a bitch, in all psychological aspects.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 05:22 PM
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TRP = understanding how things like sexuality really work. You don't live through that principles, you live however you want. If you want to get married, have 7 kids, grow old, etc, it's fine if that's what you want... it doesn't mean you don't understand the RP principles. Life is too short to ask others what you should do, make up your mind and do it...
/r/askTRP30/05/16 05:17 PM
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One that definitely builds change is fighting. For example, the usual guy that's tormenting you, when you step up to him and beat the fuck out of him, well, that will fortify your frame. It's a biological thing. The problem is, nowadays fighting is discouraged and thus you have a huge amount of guys feeling like shit because they can't let go of whatever shit is fucking their brains up.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 05:14 PM
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Too many things, too many factors, too many stuff... maybe you suddenly woke up?
/r/askTRP30/05/16 05:10 PM
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Ok, reality check here: I agree with you, in principle. I'd only add that you COULD (people here use the word "should") take advantage of the fact you are young to actually learn things. Never mind those who try to impose it on you, think about learning something for YOU. It's just a matter of how convenient it is for you to do it now against doing it later on in life. That's my only observation, a practical one. Regarding the rest? It's your life, do whatever the fuck you want man ;)
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 05:08 PM
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And this is exactly why when someone starts acting without much regards for rules, establishment or how "things are supposed to be" starts getting heat from people. I've experienced this myself and, the funny thing is, trying to be free actually allowed me to be one of the bests at what I do. And of course, those throwing shit around are nowhere near the level of "happiness" or "success" they wish they had. But they refuse to change.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 05:04 PM
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Careful about this man. I know people who act like this and they are a pain in the ass for trying to paint something good as something miserable for personal reasons...
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 05:00 PM
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I will say from experience, that if you choose to wear your hair long after about 30yo, you had better have something to back it up Yeah, this here. The point is, the hair cannot become your thing. I always think of Gannicus, from Spartacus. Fiction, yeah, but no one really gave a fuck about his hair, both in the series or outside of it, because the hair was nothing. He was a badass in every other aspect. Wear your hair however you want, but let it be no more than a trait, not a way to transmit …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 04:56 PM
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Yeah, I disagree too. Much of this is all subconscious stuff, they don't fall for your dick because they are thinking of having children, at a CONSCIOUS level. They basically see you as valuable, recognize your genes and at a SUBCONSCIOUS level finds you attractive. Condoms and anti-pregrancy shit has nothing to do with it. When you see a couple of great boobs, are you thinking about propagating your genes? fuck no, all you want to do is hit that. And yet, subconsciously. that's why your body fe…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 04:52 PM
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We all have certain red pill characteristics that come natural to us, for many reasons. Usually, it's a combination of genetics and upbringing, with all that these two factors entail. The problem is, these traits hardly remain there once we grow up and get exposed to the real world, so it's up to us to take charge. Or, to put it in other words, we make our own man!
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 06:33 AM
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I'm sorry man, I don't know what to tell you then. For me it was a conscious effort to keep them slightly more open than usual, not just removing the glasses. But that's what worked for me, maybe it's not the same for others.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 06:29 AM
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my guess? because it's easier to call an asian stupid than to call a russian so. Probably because asians have this stereotypical image not being align with western values thus it takes time for them to get used to them thus they are stupid. Russians are closer to us, and have a "bad guy" reputation, in general. Or maybe I'm wrong...
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 06:22 AM
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Oh well, let's not discriminate now... every baggage deserves a chance ;)
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 06:14 AM
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My take on the radical DGAF attitude is that it works best when you have the full psychological "impact" of DGAF without the corresponding backslash from friends and family. Many try to pull this off and fail because people naturally go against it; people hate change, and if you are changing and not giving a fuck about them, they'll hate it (and you) even more. I still have a couple of beta jerkfaces that give me heat for my DGAF attitude. The same betas that try to emulate me, but can't admit i…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 06:09 AM
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I fixed it by forcing my eyes open. Not to the point of having a wide-eye effect, but I was wearing glasses back then when I realized this and it was fucking frustrating. For me, the glasses were the culprit. The moment I started doing this or the moment I put on contacts, things changed dramatically. It took some time, but the difference was astounding, and I could see it in how I related to people (women!) from that moment on. And I notice this in every person wearing glasses. They tend to hav…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 06:05 AM
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I do care about her intelligence though. Me too. The problem is not about explaining stuff, at least for me, it's just that I can tease and/or flirt way easier if the girl has a certain level of intelligence. Do you know how many times I threw in a joke to a girl and I ended up flirting with her friend because she wasn't getting it? XD
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 06:01 AM
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It certainly would but unfortunately the men in immediate family has been afflicted by the chokehold of religion. Then you are screwed. Religious people, in my experience, are the biggest blue pills out there. And alpha wannabes religious people are the worst, as they mix unjustified arrogance in their futile attempts to gain power over you, which ends up making you want to smash their teeth in...
/r/askTRP30/05/16 05:51 AM
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If you feel morning wood, wake him up with your mouth. Yeah, in general, if she notices you are ready (even 10% ready) for sex, she'll do what's necessary for you ;)
/r/askTRP30/05/16 05:49 AM
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I don't want to bust any bubble here, but DGAF in these situations is way different than DGAF in social situations. Years ago I used to stay calm under pressure in any circumstance but, the moment some guy started AMOGing me in front of women, I would lose it. These are different contexts. And DGAF does not necessarily mean you don't care, but it can also mean that you care but refuse to let the emotional roller coaster take you over. For example, I care about power and status in my work environ…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:23 PM
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For me, the eyes were holding me back. And I'm not kidding :) I basically realized that I used to keep my eyes slightly closed, and that always gave me a tired look and, what's worse, even made me feel tired. Needless to say, that used to be an attraction killer. I fixed that, and I was set. At least from the eyes-smile perspective, that is :)
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:16 PM
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And I'd add this is equally important in life. The whole concept of frame is to maintain your act without people messing with it by provoking an emotional reaction. The more you keep it together, the more power you'll have.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 09:00 PM
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She still sucked your dick... Lol, hard to argue with that
/r/askTRP29/05/16 08:40 PM
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Human beings are natural shitty by nature don't expect them to be anything else You are way off. It's one thing saying that people are selfish, but this doesn't mean they are going to be shitty. It's call society, you shit on those near you, you get kicked out. Every man for himself? That's for sure. But that doesn't mean that man will shit on the others. There's a difference.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:26 PM
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Exactly. And this is why I really hate those who, on purpose, try to act shitty to show "power". This is a common trait in beta guys trying to change when they realize their world view is shit. So, be in control and know what you are doing, like a true homo sapiens.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:25 PM
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I get. I don't know, I think you are generalizing this based on sexual performance. Maybe that's the case for sex, but the same principle applies in general, in every day's life. How many times, long ago in your BP days, you showed interest in women and they were turned off while the moment you stopped treating them like queens they started showing interest? Maybe it's the same principle underneath, but the reason for who they prefer may vary depending on context. Or I may be just wrong :)
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:19 PM
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Yeah, tell her to climb that branch! XD Sorry, couldn't resist.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:06 PM
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Always show less interest in her than she shows in you. I don't want to be buzzkill, but... such a long post for this conclusion? It's kind of a non-secret, don't you think?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:05 PM
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Agree. I started noticing the amount of shit tests my father had to put up with, unbelievable. My sister though seems to be a different case, maybe she's not there yet...
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:02 PM
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Your frame is an element protecting your emotions and beliefs from the external world My take is slightly different. It's not about protecting, it's about not letting them control your actions. For example, your girlfriend, you wife, your coworker, they guy AMOGging you, all these people will try to get an emotional reaction from you. Not to make you angry, but yo make you lose control. Once your emotions control you, you lose. The whole concept of frame is that, no matter what you throw at me, …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 07:42 PM
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Don't convince them with arguments and rationality, talk to their subconscious, and it will argue on your behalf. Yeah, this was a hard one to swallow :) I'd also add, beat the shit out of the "alpha" (not necessarily physically), if they try to mess with you. That will increase your value really quick.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:55 PM
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Of course, 15%/20% will also depend on how much you earn. Especially in smaller companies. For example, in my current company I know I should ask for a 50% bump just for the kind of job I do, but I also know they will never give me more than 10%, and that will only happen if I make them believe I'm ready to leave them...
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:45 PM
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I agree. Besides, when you like your job sometimes you just don't give a fuck about doing something boring, unless of course, as you say, there's a considerable increase in salary, which almost never happens.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:43 PM
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Many CEOs also try to promote by giving more responsibility but keeping salary unchanged.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:41 PM
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I once tried to copy him and my other friend immediately said "You're not Jack". hahahaha, sorry, this crack me up. But you are right, this happens often.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:39 PM
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Exactly, own that shit. Too many guys are afraid to embrace their masculine nature. For me, the hardest part was not accepting myself or own my shit. I was really good at it, actually. For me, the hardest part was backlash from other guys. I was never good at confrontation and, when guys started pushing against me and AMOGging me, I saw everything as a challenge and I lost it, badly... Here I was thinking it had been easy until I hit that bump.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:38 PM
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Sadly, there is an army of brainwashed faggots waiting in line to do precisely that. hahahaha, so poetic. I work in a place packed with women where almost all of them are married or in an LTR. And you can see how they treat the guys according to their SMV. The guys have not chance but the women treat all of them like according to these standards.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:32 PM
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Lol, so true. This girl I used to work with was a 6. I asked her out, she said no. Big deal. Months later, I keep flirting so much with her coworker that, guess what, now all of a sudden she starts flirting with me. I felt so good when I realized she was doing it. Too bad, she would have to unhook her bra and jump me now, if she wants me for real XD
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:27 PM
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The problem is that you don't know which ones will be dicks and which will be happy for you until after the fact. Oh, this is so true. My personal measure is competence. If I see the other person is driven, passionate, and knows what he wants, then I know there's a good chance they are worth keeping around. Ironically, all those I've classified as superficial, socially addicted guys who have no idea what they want in life all turn out shit heads when they don't agree with me and start judging. T…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:25 PM
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I call this bullshit, at least from my perspective. I've never made friends easily, so in a sense it's already hard now that I'm young. Which doesn't keep the bar high in terms of friendship, if you know what I mean. But I get it, it's usually harder the older you get.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:23 PM
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Just like you, I've been friends with the same 3 guys since, forever. And I'm closest with two of them, the two who are actually driven, know what they want and are, in a way, very similar to me.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:21 PM
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Yeah, and that's because most of them aren't friends anyway.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:20 PM
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Yeah, I noticed this too. In my case, it wasn't even true power, it was just an amazing distance in talent and abilities in my workplace, a distance that hasn't yet been reduced. The moment I made it evident that I was the best at something, I started getting all kinds of shit, positive and negative, from above and from under me. My take on this? As long as you hold frame, identity who's who, and give shit when it's required, you'll be fine. It's like the swarm of betas that pop up when the alph…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:19 PM
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What i find funny and use as a measure stick, is when those same people adopt and use those same words and language with others afterward. It took a while, but I understood this for myself too. When people start emulating how you speak, your nicknames, your attitude, etc, it doesn't matter what others say, they are clearly looking up to you. At least, this is what I got from your comment :)
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:11 PM
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Yeah, this. Eventually, she'll either start paying attention once she gets ignored or not, who cares.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:07 PM
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Normally I don't care much for grudges, but the few times that I've seen bullies who used to pick on some kids in my school, I've made a point to shit on them unless they've changed. Lol, I do this now at work when some alpha wannabe tries to treat women or men like crap for no reason other than feel good about himself. Many overcompensate from some sort of insecurity, but fuck them, I hated them when I was a kid, I sure as hell don't like them now.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:00 PM
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My guess is that most of the time, not being a chad in the past makes you think of ways to change, which makes your foundations more solid in the future. The guy who's a chad through his life, without any idea why, is a rare case...
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 05:57 PM
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Yeah, you have a point. Usually "Former Apha" is used to describe those who had status or power for some reason and now don't. Usually, things change for them when new people come around or when their own shortcomings come to the surface. And some of them can't take it.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 05:55 PM
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Similar story. I used to work with a guy who was the typical nice guy, generous, funny, cocky with women, always doing stuff for others, etc. Then I came around and I was, well, the opposite. I exaggerated a bit but I certainly wasn't going around doing stuff for people just because "it was the nice thing to do", if you know what I mean. And, in spite of his "criticism", women, coworkers and other managers liked me, as well as my professional proficiency. Well, this guy got dumped by his girlfri…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 05:54 PM
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Because theres no fucking reason to. I agree with these. Come on, guys who gossip about other guys to get female attention or just to raise their own value? I mean, if the girl inside them tells them to do so, then I guess they are obliged... :D
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 05:36 PM
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He meant he sees these people everyday and has to deal with them. At least, that's my guess.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 05:34 PM
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Yeah, I guess the only problem arises when you become a conflicting figure. If you are surrounded by betas and women alike and you start stepping up, you will get backslash. But that's the game, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 05:32 PM
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To be honest, I personally think the guy you see in the mirror is the biggest obstacle you will face. Can you drag him upwards as you get higher and it gets harder? Lol, I agree, I think his point was about the "external" obstacle :) their women take a significant interest in me It makes me think about one of the guys I see everyday. He absolutely cannot stand his best female friend liking me. He absolutely needs to prove to her that I'm not as good as him nor mature nor sensible enough. It's hi…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 05:30 PM
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The former alpha will use moral superiority ("at least I am marred with kids!") and the maturity card ("aren't you too old to be doing that?") in order to get you back down to his level, possibly below. Totally. For some reason, the guy I knew went from being totally funny to being a "mature and grown up" pain in the ass calling me childish each time I did something fun. Of course, he had decided to change so whoever behaved similarly to the way he used to behave was no good at all for his "adul…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 05:28 PM
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Hey man, great post. I'd only add something from my own experience: I took your exact same approach years ago and it worked wonders until I came across a guy at work who completely disapproved of my behavior and started targeting me. I wouldn't call it bullying but it was defintely an attempt to make me feel bad about myself, in spite the fact I was comfortable in my own skin and was effectively not giving a shit about others opinions of me. The problem was that this jackass was turning everyone…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 04:45 PM
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GPS :)
/r/askTRP29/05/16 03:43 PM
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Totally agree with this. Stop worrying, focus on the present and on keeping your emotions in check. Smart people with social issues tend to suffer from this a lot because they tend to see things more clearly than others. So, maybe a past mistake means nothing to a normal person but someone smarter may see a shift in social status, future repercusions, the chance that it'll repeat itslef, etc. The point is, it's not about dumbing the brain down, but about learning to control the emotional side of…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 03:13 PM
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Yeah, shit tests or AMOG attempts, in both cases you may honestly not care and live your life anyway. But, if you start paying attention to the social dynamics, you will have to respond, A&A or pressure flip works wonders IF you apply them correctly, which basically means, don't act butt hurt. It's up to you, OP, but usually it's not an option, you want ppwer, respect and status? You have your frame, start using it to attack.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 03:04 PM
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Can upvote this enough. Confidence, confidence, confidence. It allows you to do almosst anything, no matter where you are in the social hierarchy.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 02:36 PM
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Yeah, this here. Even if he doesn't deserve the spot, even if he's dumb, even if you can take him, unless you do something, he'll stay on top. Social dynamics are tricky, and this is not one of the tricky ones. He's trying to get under your skin, OP, so the moment you lose frame is the moment you lose. You already lost frame, by your own words, which means he found a way to win. He'll keep doing it, and you'll keep losing. Re establish your frame, and once his words and actions stop affecting yo…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 02:26 PM
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Yeah, listen to this. Smoke the AMOGers out, and then yeah, bros before hoes!
/r/askTRP29/05/16 02:14 PM
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Well, context is important for these laws to make sense. For example, this may apply to the case where you lose some power to another guy and maybe the best course is to stay back for a while until things come around. It's all about context.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 02:10 PM
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You are worried about what other people think of you. With Your friends, you already know what to expect from your behavior. With new people? You don't, so you stay quite until you figure other people out. You are insecure, basically. And you don't want to deal with the potential backslash of your personality. It's natural, when you think about it. And that's why a lot of strong individuals come off strong or make a strong impression, they do their thing no matter what others think.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 02:07 PM
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And making girls laugh at the guy who thinks his good looks give him an edge also gives you status :p
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 01:38 PM
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Yeah, this right here. Validation will make you feel great one second and like a total loser the next...
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 01:36 PM
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You are right about the talking part, a guy at my worplace is acting just like him, opening his mouth just because he can. And he spits out shit most of the time but does it with tone of superiority to impress people, and he's a dangerous pain in the ass... What I meant was that you can keep the alpha approach as long as you know how to regulate it.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 01:02 PM
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Of course, but keep in mind that the amount of EXTRA work you have to do is proportional to how ugly you really are. We are not talking deformity here, of course.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 11:49 AM
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Yeah, what you can do and how tall you are irrelevant when other factors come into play.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 11:48 AM
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Yeah, this right here. The point is, if you have value by acting the way you want to, you can keep it. If you don't have value because of the way you act, then you'll lose it even more. The problem with this is not that you should care what others think of you. If you watch Dr. House, the guy doesn't give a single fuck about other people's opinions of him and does whatever he wants. But he built a reputation of being the biggest alpha around, and he didn't care about social approval, so it worke…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 11:46 AM
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But for social skills, you still need other people to be validated somehow. No, you don't. I mean, this is my opinion, of course :). What I've found out is that what you get from the outside world is not validation, just positive or negative feedback, which is not the same. For example, I always managed to crack up women with certain characteristics. I was never "the alpha" of the room, but I always perceived when a woman was on my level of intelligence and I could easily crack her up with littl…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 11:24 AM
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The ones who are truly fucked (or not fucked) are the fugly females True. And they know this. You can see it in their face when other girls are getting all the attention while they stand there, quite, to themselves. By the way, I love when you see these women changing looks all the time, looking all hippy and completely let go one day, and all dressed up with boobs three sizes larger the day after... And it's so, so apparent they are trying to compete, it's just entertaining.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 11:19 AM
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That's why it's so cool when you manage to fend them off.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 11:14 AM
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his is why it's better to distance yourself a bit from high-status males at work. Keep them as allies, but don't appear everywhere with them or hang out only with them. This right here made it hell for me years ago. I was always on edge around a guy who displayed a lot of alpha qualities because of how women reacted to him. And what's even worse, he used to pick on me, making my loss of value a real problem. And he was doing basically that, he would only hang around guys he knew displayed less S…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 11:04 AM
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The problem with SMV is that it is defined by the market, namely all the population. I'd say true, to a point. If the population are only women who exclusively want tall muscular guys and you are short and skinny, I get it. But on average, SMV comes from many factors. When the skinny guy suddenly reveals he can bury all the other males and decide their fates at work, things start looking different for him. When you see beautiful women get excited about one man's genes and reject yours, and it re…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:57 AM
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I always thought that was the case unless you were consciously aware that it's shit. It's like being aware of tv gossip and use to tease women but still realizing it's shit.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:49 AM
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Girls will think of you as subhuman if you're low SMV - and crush you. I can't stress this enough: If you are low SMV, women will not even notice your existence True. And even if it seems they notice you, wait until the guy they really consider "alpha" walks into the room and you'll see the difference. On the other hand, slightly raise your SMV at the expense of the alpha and you'll see how they start treating you. And the cool thing is, most of the time they are not even aware of this :) Don't …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:45 AM
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I know it's fiction, but consider the character of Vic Mackey, from The Shield. He was alpha as fuck, emanating confidence like no one else in that show. And he also had a wife and three/four kids, and wanted to provide. But, when you pay attention to his behavior, the more he detached from his "provider" role, the more alpha he became. In the end, he provided with money and protection, and was kind of beta when it came to his kids, but he always did what he wanted, fucked who he wanted, and nev…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:41 AM
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You are right. Many times this kind of jerks give you a chance to grow when you realize they are getting something out of their act while, in reality, it's all baseless and superficial.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:35 AM
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I think you got it backwards. People don't do it to get pussy CONSCIOUSLY, but they are aware they'll get some by being the best at what they do (or, as you say, by pursuing passions). It's a subconscious thing. The problem is the moment you start decomposing it from a rational perspective things may not make sense 100%. But the whole idea of being able, like Musk, to plan a mission to Mars while the world is sitting still gives him a huge edge and women see that. Whether he acts on it or not, o…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:32 AM
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I agree with Watson :). Everything we all do is to survive and reproduce. The problem is most of this is subconscious. The thrill you get when you succeed at your job, even if it won't get you laid, is the same thrill that you got 10.000 years ago when you managed to kill the fucking tiger... Whether that gives you women or not, it's another matter, but we do it for that purpose.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:28 AM
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The general assumption is that hypergamy is a female mechanism that propels our species forward. I have given this assertion some thought and I partially disagree. Hypergamy only helps maintain society, not drive it forward. I think hypergamy is overrated. The concept of hypergamy is that the female will choose men who are better than other men. Apply this to every female in the world, and you'll get women trying to reproduce with men who have the best genes. The idea is to eradicate inferior ge…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:26 AM
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Yeah, I agree with this. It's not that you don't earn their respect, it's more like they are forced to respect you for what you became. But I see your point, and I agree. Besides, once you start stepping up other guys will likely try to drag you down, which easily done by turning people against you and disrespecting you. You know how many times I've came up against the beta king of a workplace because I completely disregarded him and acted by doing my thing? Haters gonna hate, betas are gonna be…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:20 AM
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Cool it with the alpha shit. Alpha's stay quiet, they learn each of their coworkers tendencies and preferences and then feed off of that knowledge. They make themselves indispensable by being appreciated by everyone. I see your points, but I don't agree with this one in particular. Manipulative betas do this too, and I hate that. Do you know how many people avoid trying to learn new things because they have someone else doing it for them? I'm arrogant and I admit it, but I'm also very driven and…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:13 AM
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You become a leader by getting shit done and being reliable, not by talking smack. That's right on point. It doesn't always happen like this but becoming the best at your job and taking charge as function of that will give you power. I once had accumulated a huge amount of power just because I had an attitude of "if it can be done, we'll find a way". Talking shit about the job, people or coworkers, or generally puffing your chest to show alpha you are in life? I wouldn't advice that.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:09 AM
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True, it was just an observation based on how open western societies have become in the present. Those with traditional views, usually religious view, are blue pill, and there is certainly a cause-effect relationship to it.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:05 AM
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It's a biological imperative, like it or not, and we all have it. As you said, accept it and go on living. Like everything, all you need to do is keep it from controlling everything you do, be in control and enjoy :)
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 10:04 AM
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Yeah, I agree, it plays a big role. And unfortunately, even jerks can use this to project and increase their perceived value, independently of the shit they are saying... I guess it goes both ways.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 09:58 AM
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I'd only add that eventually you'll come up against someone who's not that transparent, people will not hate him and he will cockblock the same... and you'll realize what it is to go up against the alpha ;)
/r/askTRP29/05/16 09:50 AM
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The problem, in my opinion, comes when you overplay this in every day's life. Not everyone reads the laws of power but after a while people can see through this and use it against you. I saw guys playing this card before. They act like assholes, the girl tells them "you could have restrained yourself!", and he replies "yeah, I know, sometimes it slips ;)". The guy doing this was manipulating the shit out of a social situation and got it really well with the woman he was talking to. But he also a…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 09:45 AM
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Yeah, otherwise just tell him not to worry. A lot of people will try to tell you how to do things, and for some reason they don't like it when you respond "don't worry, if I fuck this up, it's my problem". Instead of taking chances and improving they set back and criticize what others do.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 09:31 AM
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One the major cornerstones to BP flirting is that any guy who just up and comes on to a girl is considered to be creepy. I remember this from high school. Guys making fun of me from asking a girl out once. And I was a mess for both doing that, getting rejected and being mocked. Until one of the guys in the group gave everyone else shit for mocking me given I had more balls than all of them. Nice memory though :)
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 12:03 AM
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Be careful man. I see what you achieved here, that's great. But I also met guys (and I see one everyday) who acts exactly like you and is the most worthless loser out there. For example: This whole process began for me when I started being what society deems selfish and a dick. You don't have to be a dick on purpose, people can see through that. I started teasing even if it was rude. Bullies are easily spotted, and a lot of guys like to push them back just to show them they are not that importan…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 11:54 PM
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Saying that they are immature is just another attempt to shame them into monogamous relationship. Lol, yeah, the old "he's so immature, I don't get why women hang around him and find him attractive, confident, bla bla bla". Totally agree with this.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 11:35 PM
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Being yourself is easy when everyone loves you. For me, this right here is the key difference between how a beta handles social situation and how an alpha does. Do your shit, don't stop because of comments, ignore the criticism, etc, that makes you way more alpha than all those betas trying to criticize you for acting "weird" and in an "unapproved" manner.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 11:33 PM
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Cockblockers who don't want the girl are the worst, and they are basically pussies underneath. They see it as power when they actually come out as gossip-fueled-girls. I knew a guy who couldn't resist talking shit about me to the every new guy or girl we met. And I used that to my advantage to make him look like a complete idiot. As long as you keep frame and never let that shit get to you, you'll be great.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 11:27 PM
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Yeah, and tou can even use it as a measure of how much you are getting better. The more they give you shit, the more they envy you.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 11:22 PM
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Right on the spot, they try to amog the shit out of you. In my case, it was a guy doing this to me before I found out about the red pill, and that actually woke me up. Infuriating? Illuminating? Laughable? What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I guess
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 10:58 PM
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Yes, met guys like this too. You can spot the beta in them after one or two conversations and yet, they act as they are the true alphas and the world is theirs. In my case, what all of them had in common was the fact that they could not restrain themselves from attacking guys who didn't suck up or just acted however they wanted to. The beta in them had to bash down the competition in every way possible.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 10:49 PM
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Yeah, it's all about context and how you are perceived. And sometimes your status may shift for many reasons. The true alpha, as you say, will always come back and never back down. And this is, oh coincidence, something that true confidence lets you achieve.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 10:37 PM
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I admit I like my ego too much, so I'm biased on this, but I'd say instead of killing your ego, don't let it control you.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 10:16 PM
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And this is also why guys who start acting RP will automstically get shit from the oficial King Beta of the place.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 10:08 PM
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Yeah, the same thing goes when you think you got to women by using words and then they completely ignore you when the stronger guy shows up. This is why guys with a strong voice are considered sexier than those with a weak voice, because they show more strength.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 10:01 PM
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Well, it depends on the fields. I used to work in IT and usually new guys can be good looking or not but will defintely be way more competent and valuable than any of the women in there and cannot be fired just like that.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 09:55 PM
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Yeah, they will follow for sure. I've seen them come from guys and "empowered" women, when their "alpha" guy is around. I had an empowered beta guy trying to bring me down and trying to gather people against me. And it kept me down for a very long time until I realized the insecure fuck couldn't tske the heat when turned on him.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 09:50 PM
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Yeah, me too. I personally found that I have a huge ego which allows me to do stuff others can't. The downside? I find it hard to keep it under control when guys I consider "inferior" try to mess with me or my image.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 09:33 PM
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In my experience, many "strong" blue pill guys have strong religious views. Correlation? Likely.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 09:25 PM
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Comparison makes you want to improve and climb the social ladder, increasing your chances of having sex thus having children. What this means is that we are biologically inclined to compare ourselves to others. And, just like you need to learn to control how you react to your emotions, you meed to learn to control the instinct of comparing yourself to oer guys.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 08:03 PM
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Become the best at what you do. And then Manipulate your way up. Unfortunately, how good you are and how up you go are not related in most cases, especially in the corporate world.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 07:19 PM
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Yeah, it's like the idea of being an "alpha" or similar in a your group and expect to remain such without effort. Just like you need to keep your status, you need also need to keep her hooked.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 07:14 PM
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Game the women to make your life easy and fun, but be very careful. Emotional people will shit where they eat for much, much less than sex. Imagine what would happen if you trigger the wrong emotion in one of the women at work...
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:55 PM
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That's why mate guarding is an issue , the guy thinks he is showing his woman how strong and commited to her when all she sees is a boy afraid of losing her to a man he feels inferior to . Perception is everything and perception cna be affected by many factors. A hot guy c a say shit an ugly guy can't , a guy who lnows game can say something to a woman that is similar to what a straight talking man says to a woman and get away with it while the straight talker will be violently rejected. This ri…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:47 PM
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It's about the way you express it... I once saw this: HE: I really need this done asap. It's very important. SHE: And I really want to be Salma Hayek. HE (looking at her, with a smile): Well, you may not have Salma's ass... but she doesn't have your eyes. Sex, no sex, relationship, no relationship, it doesn't matter. If you can get something from it, do it. Otherwise, don't.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:29 PM
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Yeah, I once admitted to a girl I was interested I was angry because of a given situation and I didn't really knew the reason. Who cares, you admit what you feel, you move on. It doesn't matter in the end. As long as you don't become whinny guy, you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:24 PM
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Validation is important, in my opinion. What you need is internal validation. The idea you can achieve anything you set your sights upon is way stronger than anything else around you.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:17 PM
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Yeah, ignore only works when you already feel you are above them and you honestly do not care about him or her. Otherwise, fight back, or better yet, humiliate the idiot.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:10 PM
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Yeah, always. Even if it's social. The important thing is, hold frame.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 05:39 PM
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1.) If it's in a social sense where they demean you at every opportunity, you need to cut them out of your life. People like this are vampires who put you down to try to divert attention, their own and that of others, away from their failings. Another tack you can take is turning these antics around on them, so that they wind up embarrassed when they assault you. It takes a while to master verbal judo like that, though. Just go no contact at all. I've had to do this with a number of family membe…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 05:38 PM
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If you can pull this off correctly, it will make them look like an idiot in front of others (which is their worst nightmare). Exactly. Humiliating a bully is the worst thing you can do to him, and the stupid idiots can't even hide it when it happens. Personal story here: two years ago I was bullied at work by a guy that was "trying to punish me" for my bad behavior. He couldn't change me so he started criticizing and commenting on everything I did just to get a rise out of me. He didn't say a wo…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 05:36 PM
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Exactly. What I meant was, if something like confidence can go a long way, imagine what happens when you throw other factors into the mix. For me, at least, confidence was a game changer in my life.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 05:29 PM
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Man, gannicus from the tv series spartacus had a baby face... He fucked more pussy than anyone and was the implicit alpha of the group, so...
/r/askTRP28/05/16 04:18 PM
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I'd say be careful about it. I know people who will condescendingly try to shout to the wind how mistaken you are, and those kinds of people are fun to mock and shut down.... But in general? Assess the context and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 04:16 PM
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Exactly. Burn your confidence to the point whoever is around you can feel it. It wont matter how good looking your friend is.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 04:15 PM
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Yeah, just respond and have fun. Be only careful about those who try to establish a bully pattern by doing this. The moment he or she crosses a line, stop it.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 04:13 PM
1

Yeah, this here. She needs to find a reason to chase you. A guy I know has one of our coworkers so wrapped around his finger that the moment he teases another female, she'll immediately joke about the fact "he's having fun with another girl and lost interest in her". And this girl is married, but he knows she's unhappy and so she needs someone to, eh, "fill some holes", so to speak... You need to give her somehing she wants, at some level, and she'll come to you. Just don't become a pushover
/r/askTRP28/05/16 04:11 PM
1

She wants you to run some disgnostics on her hard drive, if you know what I mean ;)
/r/askTRP28/05/16 04:06 PM
1

It's all about context. Women need to get the message that you are confident, driven, etc. But, at the same time, you don't want to be careful on how you show that you are the most confident ass jack in the office. The point, when people go beyond social niceties and start playing the game, you dont want to start throwing ammo to the enemy. For example, the amount of shit I got when I started showing off that I was the best st my job got me great results from women and a huge amount of shit from…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:31 PM
1

This is also why women who are in a LTR with a beta and are surrounded by alphas tend to have at least one "best male friend" among them. It's pretty easy to spot the need for validation and reassurance. All you need is some time around her and you'll soon realize where she's fulfilling her needs from.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:22 PM
2

Right on point. OP: realize that being aware of how the world works will eventually cause an emotional reaction in you. The key is dealing with it. The world is complicated and the sooner you learn to act without emotions controlling you, the better. Red pill or not.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:18 PM
1

And it is valid for everything in life. Always.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:05 PM
1

Yeah. The key is not being transparent about it. Control your emotions.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:01 PM
2

Interact with her but game the others, never her.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 02:59 PM
1

This over here. Why do you think there are guys who succeed just by showing confidence?
/r/askTRP28/05/16 02:57 PM
0

people who are against others doing whatever they want are pushovers, suck ups, boring and a pain in the ass... That should have been a clue for you. People who say that by doing whatever you want you'll be ruining your life say it because they don't have the balls to see it through. They prefer to abide by the rules and ask for permission to gain status or power. Guess what they do when they see oters who come around and grab whatever they want by not following the rules nor asking for permissi…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 02:53 PM
1

It's like confidence. You lose it, people notice. You keep it constant, up and unshakable, and people will notice it too. Same goes for your SMV.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 01:29 PM
1

You are not in politics, don't try to use publicity to avoid doing stuff. Do stuff instead...
/r/askTRP28/05/16 01:15 PM
1

In my case, only those who were driven and ambitious enough to want something from life. Many of them remained in autopilot, and of these only those who saw me as better than them sticked with me. Others chose someone else to follow, but that's life.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 01:07 PM
1

When the higher guys are around? You are the problem, not them. Step up and do your stuff. You may not be the alpha in the first 5 minutes, but nobody cares, it's what you do later on that matters. Improve, be confident, step up, and have fun.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 11:34 PM
1

Yeah, this right here. Remember that women will both be attracted to the "alpha", if you want to call him that, which is a relative term. I can really crack up three of the women I work with. When one of the guys I work witht is around, only twomof them act the same way while the third one has eyes only for that guy. Meaning? Pussy finds different type of guys attractive, hardly only one type.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 11:28 PM
2

Yeah, I'm short and it sucks. But the the key is not backing down, never let yourself be intimidated in any way.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 11:20 PM
1

Not necessarily. The problem is, women tend to be less ambitious than men, thus less driven, thus dont improve, thus they cant pretend more money.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 11:16 PM
2

Maybe you are so insecure that men intimidate you...
/r/askTRP27/05/16 11:08 PM
-1

I know a guy who tries to puff his chest with his best female friend, the one who vslidates all his crap and dumb alpha wannabe shit. He tells her about his new approach to life, about how he says what's in his mind now, about how people are not worth his time now, and he describes to her everything that's wrong about people, the world and shit like that. He has no ambitions and his goals are going out every night. Bottom line? He's a whinny, gossip-fueled, manipulative woman wrapped in a moron.…
/r/askTRP27/05/16 11:03 PM
2

It will depend on what you are lacking. For me it was confidence and getting over my emotions.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 10:53 PM
2

Maybe. For as long as I can remember I only went against those that were shitting on me, even when I was really BP and they weren't. I mean, you can get bored of your old friends but not being interestsed and being antagonized are different though.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 10:19 PM
1

This is usually why religious people are the most judgemental
/r/askTRP27/05/16 09:53 PM
1

I've seen this again and again. When I suddenly stopped listening to people just for the sake of it, when I upped my game with women around people I knew for a while, when I got better at my job, etc. every single time I had people going against me for no reason other than "I was exposed" for improving.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 09:52 PM
1

Yeah, it's almost like gifted people. Most of them build themselves up, only a few are born loke that. It's all about learning.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 09:24 PM
4

Yeah, always. I remember when I was way BP and was convinced I was really high value until one of the high value guys used to come in and women couldn't stop talking with him or laughing at his stuff.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 09:11 PM
1

I'd be carefult about the emotion part. People learn to express themselves without emotion and can still be projecting. I'd say, turn the tables on the guy when he's not expecting it and see how he reacts. People who judge and can't take judgement fall when they are not expecting to use their "act"
/r/askTRP27/05/16 08:36 PM
-1

Yeah, why do you care man? Me and my family push each other's buttons all the time, and the cool thing about family is that they'll be there aftewards and you are not competing with them. What I mean is, if your mother pushes your buttons, you push hers. And get used to people saying shit about you to make you look bad, that's how the world works. And you'll get tons of that crap outside your family.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 09:57 PM
2

Because you are using race as an excuse for your failures. Race, height, beauty, etc, they are all limiting factors, in theory. Stop whining and improve yourself in the things that matter the most, not the initial traits you cant change...
/r/askTRP15/05/16 09:50 PM
1

You wouldnt. But sometimes something you like may not be cool or fashionable to other people.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 08:49 PM
2

You print your curriculum, if possible with a portfolio of projects attached to it, and you go around showing it to women... Seriously, if you try to use your job to make an alpha impression, something tells me you are on the wrong track. How you behave is what matters, not the job you do. You can be a millionare true alpha or a millionare beta bucks.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 08:29 PM
1

Also, keep in mind that if you are relatively young, at least from my experience, how you dress is not that important. Other features, like confidence, charm, frame and so forth will help you way more than how you dress. For example, I work as an engineer and I dress casual almost all the time. And while there are those (men and women) who will look at me with disapproval or even distate, I dont give a damn. And in the end, their opinion and perception of me is soon forgotten.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 07:59 PM
1

Stop overthinking your life. Let it go, focus and do what you feel.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 06:48 PM
3

What I meant was that sometimes people are not that worried about messages, I wasnt implying there was no hamstering involved for girls
/r/askTRP15/05/16 06:48 PM
1

It doesnt matter who he is. You challenged him by raising your value, ignoring him, by showing off, etc. That's the game. Now, if he doesnt want to be your pal, then he'll shit on you for as long as he can. Either you bite back, report to HR, or change jobs...
/r/askTRP15/05/16 05:12 PM
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Lol, I'm a guy and I take ages to reply... It's just not that important sometimes or I dont wanna stop what I'm doing (or who I'm doing xd)
/r/askTRP15/05/16 04:57 PM
1

Unfortunately, she'll choose you, not the other way around. You already shown her your "material", and she hasnt picked you yet. Maybe she's not interested, maybe she's not interested at the moment, maybe she is and there's another reason, it doesnt matter. One way to do what you want is to go for other women. She'll see it and may re evaluate her decision. Or not. Remember, much of this occurs at a subconscious level for her, so keep that in mind. As an example, I had a girl at work I asked out…
/r/askTRP15/05/16 02:01 PM
1

People who try to change you, I love that fucked up attitude...
/r/askTRP15/05/16 01:47 PM
1

Yeah, same things go for when you ask a girl out in your cirlce and she turns you down. It may be soemthing between the two of you at first but be certain, everyone will find out sooner or later. Relax and have fun, own what happened and laugh it off.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 01:35 PM
1

Similar in my case, but it was provoked my my father. I've always considered my self both smart, fearless and capable of taking initiative. However, when I was little mu father both hit me and screamed at me. It wasnt abusive, only punishmemt. But it left on me a profound impression and made me extremely sensitive to certain things. One of them is confrontation with guys. If some guy raises his voice or attempts to somehow undemine me and put me on a negative spot on purpose, ie, if there's some…
/r/askTRP15/05/16 01:15 PM
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I'd even add that women play their sexual card on a constant basis in an very implicit way. For example, they dress better, wear make up to increase attraction, high heels, act in a certain way to attract men, etc, almost all the time. They do this to get favors from men. Of course, it's not every woman and it's not all the time, but they do it in general. And it's not nice to call them out on it, as "every women has the right to act and dress however they want". But the effect they have, and tr…
/r/askTRP15/05/16 10:58 AM
3

You can't change the past. Why care? Can't upvote this enough. You need to realize that how you feel in the present depends, hugely, on your internal state. So, if you keep dwelling on the past, and that depresses you, you will not feel good in the present and you will act accordingly. The past is gone. Whatever happened 30 years ago, 10 years ago, even last Friday, is gone. Do not let the memory of past events condition your current state of mind. Live the present to it's fullest, be aware of t…
/r/askTRP15/05/16 10:44 AM
1

What I'm trying to say is that you should not compare yourself to younger people, just do your stuff, dont worry about fitting in. You will, eventually, when you find those like-minded. That's my two cents on these issues, others may not agree, but I prefer to not even bother about these issues. You want to study medicine? Then do it. Roll with the punches.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 08:26 PM
1

They are trying to use their sexuality to their advantage (consciously or not), without saying it explicitly. So, you can explicitly touch on that in whatever it is you want to reply. Just dont get used...
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:42 PM
1

Physicls value, money, confidence, status, respect, etc. Put s bunch of these wuslities together and your value and power will go up. Also, jealous betas will also multiply :)
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:38 PM
1

Remember also that there is a relationship between status and power. He may not be as rp as you think.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:36 PM
1

Yeah, it's all about power and they get it through sex. For example, when a girl tries to make me an orbiter I use that against her and have fun with it. You can still flirt with her or the girl next to her, and remember that SMV depends a lot on the environment.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:33 PM
0

Dont like what's happening? Leave... Otherwise, star acting. Stop trying to find sn answers, this is not a mathematical equation
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:28 PM
1

You were friend zoned, and now she wants the attention back. As I wrote a while back, keep it up, unless she unhooks her bra and jumps you, it's not worth it...
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:24 PM
2

I would come down your high horse, if I were you. Many immature, young guys actually act like that to have fun, I know because I'm 32 and have fun all the time. And yet, I'm responsible, work snd study my shit, and I'm one of the best at what I do. And I come up against tons of guys like you who preach responsibility and maturity like it's some kind of achievemnt... Don't puff your chest on how msture you are, just live your life, people just dont care...
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:18 PM
1

It's about keep moving, at least for me. Always on the move. Even if you are relaxed, dont fall into a pseudo-depressive mood. Keep, livin your life.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:12 PM
2

Yeah, it's personality. Confidence is the most attractive feature.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:08 PM
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It's about validation. Being a man, the more women you have around the more your ego and self esteem will go up, it's biology and it's easy. It's also dangerous if that's all you have to feel good about yourself.... What you are probably referring to is power. You get good at your job, at your hobbies, at whatever it is you do in life. That makes you feel in control and confident. People will notice that, and it will influence the way they interact with you, "power" was gained by focusing on stu…
/r/askTRP14/05/16 04:56 PM
0

In my case, the only thing that worked were public humiliations. The only thing that would put him in check. He wouldnt talk to me but would still try to make fun of me/criticize/insult me in front of other people so, yeah, fuck him. The funny thing is, in the end nobody liked him. He thought he was manning up and, in reality, he was pushing everyone away. The only woman that feed his ego was an insecure, submissive, unhappy coworker of us that let him push her buttons and drag her down with him…
/r/askTRP14/05/16 03:00 PM
0

You are right about how they change your image, if you are not careful. In my case, how I saw myself never changed but how others started seeing me did change. In the end, I started giving shit back the same way. You bully me now, I'll deflect and bully you later. You drop in my conversation, I'll drop in in yours. You puff your chest in front of a girl, I'll ridicule you in front of her. After a while they get the message. This guy had a long leash on me because I ignored for a long time and he…
/r/askTRP14/05/16 11:14 AM
1

Yeah, I acted like his opinion mattered shit to me, because it did and he was a condescending pain in the ass, and so he started putting me on the spotlight, under a very negative light. We were working together at the time and I was way ahead of him so instead of owning me professionally he did everything he could to place me on a very low social level. Like joking with people he hates just to target me. In the end, only one person validated his behavior and he started treating the whole team l…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 10:25 PM
1

Yeah, I met a guy in the past who tried hard to make me feel like a fucking human being. The more I ignored his shit, the harder he tried. He ended up isolated, alone and disregarded by everyone. But while he did this, he was so convinced he was right and so empowered by the validation he thought was getting from everyone else that he became an obnoxious fucker.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 07:58 PM
1

I'd even say not necessarily cut them off, but only those that shit in you. Start liking yourself and inproving on thise things you want to improve on. And completely ignore, from an emotional standpoint, every attempt to invalidate you. Respond, tease back, humiliate if you wish to but do not let them get to you no matter what. Fuckera are gonna hate you even more. Embrace it. And embrace the fact they cant change you
/r/askTRP13/05/16 07:05 PM
1

True. IDGAF all the way. The moment you start not caring for real, your anxiety will disapear. It doesnt mean you have to ignore the others 100%, just dont let them dictate how you feel.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:59 PM
1

Grow a pair...
/r/askTRP10/05/16 07:54 PM
2

Tell her: "your nipples aren't that great, looking for something else"
/r/askTRP10/05/16 06:16 PM
1

By doing stuff. Take risks, expose yourself to that which makes you anxious or nervous and do it, again and again and again. There is no easy fix that makes you feel better so that you can face your fears, you need to face them to feel better.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 11:07 AM
1

I'd say it depends. When you are in control of yourself and you know who you are, then it won't matter. I talk a lot, I talk very little, I can stay quite and throw the killer punchline, I can say crap just to tease the audience, etc. The point is, know how you talk, control it, and you'll be fine. Become emotional and start throwing words like crazy, then that may be an issue.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 09:02 PM
1

What I mean is he needs to find what he wants beyond pussy and work on that, not that he needs to sacrifice women for his hobbies/work/whatever, but do both. We all want to get laid so it's easy to say all you want is women and sex. It's like a 12 year old who says all he wants is play videogames all day. I like women and love being with them, but I have other stuff that make me passionate so I'm not depending on their pussy judgement for my happiness. Still, I understand what you are saying. Bu…
/r/askTRP09/05/16 07:48 PM
1

Can't judge your natural beauty through reddit though. All we can do is judge your words, therefore, I'm right :)
/r/askTRP09/05/16 07:41 PM
1

It's all about yourself and what you want for you. If all you want is getting laid and you expect to get that by lifting and approaching women all the time, it may not work as expected. Do something for yourself beyond chasing pussy. Unless you find that thing that makes you tick, women will not value the best candidate just because of your biceps... Remember, this is not sparta... Find what makes you tick. Get to know yourself. And then go for the women.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 05:19 PM
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I'd point out that you will also find orbiter guys feeding the very same circle jerk to them. And you'll spot the same boring, superificial lack of everything in them too.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 05:13 PM
1

I mean they clearly don't, otherwise you wouldn't ask about it.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 04:52 PM
2

Yeah, you need to show off. Validation from other women near her would do the trick (if she's single, that is). Even if she manages to show uninterest in you, her biology will say otherwise.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:45 AM
2

Drop it, it doesnt matter how pretty you are, be confident. If you were near the level of pretty that allows you to get laid in spite of everything else, you wouldnt post here, so improve yourself and drop this "good looks trump height" fantasy...
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:41 AM
3

Yeah, it's over. In the same way she'll let you know she wants you and your dick, she's letting you know she'll forget you in a week... Feelings are feelings, and for you and her, it's over.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:39 AM
1

True, it's usuless to keep dreaming of the perfect couple or that she is the perfect woman. Let her use you for a bit if you can get laid, otherwise don't bother
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:34 AM
3

Yeah, because he thought she wanted to go back with him. The problem is he's not over her so he hoped for the best. He needs to let go and stop allowing women to use him
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:32 AM
1

Yeah, you enjoy her body and dont give anything back. Unless you have and afrodisiac tongue or wonder hands, this will keep hapening :)
/r/askTRP08/05/16 05:43 PM
1

Point here. The key is to recognize it and act accordingly. For example, I make fun of the women at my office when they try to pull this on me, and on the outside it's similar. Women will test you all the time, to vet you, to have fun, to flirt, to use you, etc. Realize it, accept it, and have fun, but dont let yourself be manipulated unless you are sure it will end with her nipple in your mouth, to be blunt. Play the player and outmanouver them.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 05:35 PM
1

Yeah, it seems that way. It's probably working because of the crowd in front if him and the fact that, I'm guessing, no one is pushing back. Push him back and you'll see what he's made of.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 05:30 PM
1

Maybe you got the power play part right, but you dont understand his point of view. Maybe you are good at your job and pushed him down, and he's doing the same to you, socially.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 05:18 PM
2

I've been subjected to my fair share of social shaming, both in front of people with authority or women. In my case, I used to freezed and look at those around me to see how they reacted. Now, I learned. Piss on me, I piss on you. You get angry, you lose. And if you are not careful, you may end up as the joke for trying to piss on me and losing. Give as good as you get.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 05:14 PM
1

No, validation needs to be internal. The moment you focus on external factors for validation you become easily manipulated by your environment... This doesnt mean you should ignore the outside world and act like a sociopath. It means you should learn how to move in society but keeping your mood, your drive and your confidence depending on you and you alone. Society is big. Some people will like you, some will not, some will not care. The constant will always be you.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 05:08 PM
1

It means people taught her you are wrong for her but your dick makes her feel like nobody else's does
/r/askTRP08/05/16 05:03 PM
2

Lift, confidence, charisma. Become a magnet.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 05:01 PM
1

Yeah. Friends will drop you, and acquintances may even antagonize you. But dont take it as a punishment and never, NEVER stop. When they try to make you back off with jokes or comments or criticism, always remember that the moment you turn your back, they'll look at you with envy and it'll eat them inside.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 03:03 PM
2

True. Use your confidence to develop charisma: start testing snd improving your social skills, andyou'll get there.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:58 PM
1

Tell her the "piece" in your pants is more impressive, if she wants to experience it first hand...
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:54 PM
1

I agree. Improve your skills and become a bad ass. Dont stop until you are the shit. When you get to that point, the you can push down the ladder and establish tourself politically. However, always keep your edge.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:52 PM
1

Keep in mind that it's all about hiding your insecurities by hiding your cravings. However, if you are nerdy looking and weak and you enter your usual environemnt in the company if the hottest girl in the room, the idea of having somehing you shouldnt will skyrocket your value to the stars
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:50 PM
1

You are telling him to be aggressive when he's coming off as a creep...
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:45 PM
1

Something tells me you are scared of being ass kicked if you drop her... Grow a pair
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:43 PM
1

Fuck her hard, fuck her good, exhaust her. And then, ask what she'd like. Trust me, you'll banipging her for a months.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:37 PM
1

It's loke learning to control your emotions in social situations, you learn and you better yourself, man or woman.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:35 PM
1

Hit on ner friend, and you'll see something interesting!
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:34 PM
2

Social dynamics are complex. The easiest way to get ahead is to target those that matter. For example, people make fun of you, laugh it off and make fun of the STRONGER/MOST POPULAR person in their group. Everything is a power play. The key is what buttons you push, how you push them and when. That's why controlling your emotions is so important. The humans who survived thousands of years ago and reproduced themseles possessed the genes that made it easier for them to survive in small groups of …
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:29 PM
2

Yeah, you need to understand who is in front of you. The typical, underachieving, insecure, unassuming, traditional girl will be boring as fuck. And you'll only be able to tap on her feelings using traditional topic, like gossip, places to it, ordinary provlems of life that dont matter shit in the end. The key is trying to find something interesting about them and use it to pick her brain. This, of course, is easier when the woman has interests that go beyond cookieng and ironing.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:19 PM
1

and may ride your dick like crazy, too... You have to try it, or you'll be sorry when you are older.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:12 PM
1

Look, get over her. It doesnt mean you wont fuck her if she comes onto you, but dont hope for it. I have a similar situation at work, except that I keep messing with the girl next to my "old crush", because we are friends. I'm not trying to impress the other one, and she stills tryies to get my attention when I ignore her. It doesnt mean anything thoug. I asked her out, twice. And she turned me down, twice. I'm not going to br her orbiter so if she wants me, she can take her bra off anytime, oth…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:05 PM
1

The problem with women is jealosy and pussy competition. for example, in work places where men are in power and women are not career driven, You'll experience back stabbing jealousy behavior like crazy. Many women without ambitions tend to play the traditional, submissive role in society and therefore subject themselves to competition between them. Career women? They tend to differ in that unless other women are competing especially on the same field. With men is similar, but men tend to realize…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:56 PM
1

True. He jokes about you, laugh it off. He insults, insult back with a shit eating grin on your face. He tries to belittle you in front of women or your friends? Shrug it off, and return it tenfold in front of the same group. People will push you only so much before backing down
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:47 PM
2

Yeah, right on point. Step up, dont back off. He's not the leader, be confident and unshakable. Keep your frame under all kinds of pressure and banter back the same way. Pussies crack eventually...
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:44 PM
1

Bang her and leave. Bang her again, but make it clear you dont want to get attached to the kids.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:40 PM
1

The death of sussanne ross, from seinfeld xD
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:38 PM
1

I alternate video games with sex and excercise during holidays. I like video games, and sex.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:37 PM
1

"Nothing out of the ordinary. Perhaps another one without the bra..."
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:29 PM
1

Carefult though, sometimes they want to keep you in orbit.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:28 PM
1

My brother is a condescending dumb fuck. I have a similar guy at work. They voice the universal truth about everyone and when you pick on them, they become angry pussies
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:24 PM
1

I frequently lie to women about being lesbian myself when Indont want to hook up :p
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:22 PM
1

"Your amazing nipples mean something when you are on top ;)" Kidding aside, deflect shit testing and you'll be ok.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:58 PM
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You get tested when you accept the test. You need to be smooth... the reason you lose frame is because you are convinced that your confidence and your new approach to life deserves recognition and these guys arent giving it to you. And if they are mocking you and laughing about you, they only exacerbate the way you perceive your own failure. And if there are women around? Well, that'd be the culprit. Guess what, nobody owes you nothing. if someone disrespects you, dont defend your ego, but you c…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:55 PM
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Find something else you are anxious about. Find a way to deal with your anxiety, and test it on that. Once you find something that works, approach your "approach" anxiety the same way.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:42 PM
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It depends on what happened. Look, I met a guy who tried to insult one of his female friends by telling something along the lines she's worthless or some shit like that. She got pissed at him and he got pissed at her becuase she "didnt grt his joke and took it seriously". The point is: own it if you are a dick.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:37 PM
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Dont. Do it the natural way.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:34 PM
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Well, here's how you approach it like a champ: buy some bananas, and when she starts grabbing them, say: "would you like to handle something bigger later on?" Seriously, she's paid to be nice, ask her out and be done with it.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:32 PM
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Personally, I can relate: I'm very confident in myself and my abilitites in general. However, I was also very emotional in the past and that subjected me to a lot of crap from the world, which lowered my self esteem. Bottom line, control your emotions and feel good about yourself no matter what crap goes around, and you'll be good to go.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:27 PM
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Think of it this way: game gets you get closer to women and get them to you. Your value increases tremendously the moment women start hovering around you.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:18 PM
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Look, there's only so much you can do and so many stupid games you can play around looking vs not looking. In my office, one of the "big boobs" girl likes to wear cleavage and you can always see the "inter-boob" space, so to speak :) And there's only so much I can say to her before my eyes drop, they are there, what am I suppose to do... Same thing goes for those with smaller boobs. When they get the chance, they'll wear a sweater or something to cover them but combine it with a freaking push-up…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:48 AM
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I agree, boundaries are important. As UEM says, sometimes people use you as a tool to gain respect, make others laugh, pull themselves up, etc. The key is to recognize this and give back as good as you get. Those that don't agree with this attitude are those that would like to keep you down.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:42 AM
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Exactly. Be nice with those you care about, at the most. Do not let people walk over you though. If you are already there, you'll need to start biting back. Discern jokes from putdowns and stand up for yourself. Remember though, if you start being an asshole just to get respect from people, you'll start getting heat from those that don't fear you, so be yourself, and don't let them walk all over you.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:41 AM
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Emotions depend on two things: 1) shit happening around you, and 2) shit happening inside you. You cannot change what happens around you, unfortunately. The more out there you put yourself, the more shit you are gonna get, that's the way the world works. So the key is to manage what happens inside you. I'm not gonna tell you to suppress your thoughts, but you need to start practicing detaching your emotions from them. Practice thinking of traumatic events and detaching how you feel from those me…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:38 AM
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He has a point. Look man, if you are already big you need to start working on your self esteem and confidence. Guys less bulky, not in shape and less "attractive" can sweep the floor by using intelligence, confidence and good game. You need to work on that, hard.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:34 AM
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I would have slapped the hot blonde's ass sitting next to me in high school.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:32 AM
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hahahahaha, amen!
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:30 AM
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You should have said you weren't gonna throw your time away by being a human sex toy that reminded that ugly loser of her ex.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:30 AM
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Have fun man. The world is what you make of it. Always. There are no rules, no right answers. Only you and your vision. NOTE: "I'm Batman", however, seems to be the perfect answer though XD
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:27 AM
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Destroy the One Ring.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:24 AM
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Shit tests are a subcategory of tests. People will test you all the time. Guys, girls, friends, coworkers, bosses, managers, even family. Learn to play the game. Do not accept to be tested, test back, become unshakable and untestable.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:20 AM
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You want her to lose weight? Tell her to jump on and ride you non stop. Again and again. That'll do the trick.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:18 AM
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Yeah, same thing goes in general. When you start caring about other people's opinion of you and you start caring only about yourself. The key is realize that you need to feel bad before you start rising. In dating, the first few rejects may be hard but if you rise above them, man you'll go high. In life, people will shit on you for who you are, that's the way it works. But if you rise above them man you'll go even higher.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:17 AM
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I'd say, withhold your dick but... it may not work out so well.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:13 AM
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Have you ever watched the tv series Spartacus? It's all about how powerful you are. When the chips are down, you can cry or fight your way out of any situations, it won't matter. The alpha in you can deal with anything.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:12 AM
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Tell her after you are done with her, she'll have another story to spin around.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:57 AM
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What I'm trying to say is that sometimes people have nothing to say to you. Look, I know a guy who dropped the "nice guy" routine, is hitting the gym, is on a diet and acts aggressively all the time towards people. And you know what? he's as dumb as fuck. He thinks that his word and his attitude make him a leader and nobody, except for one or two women, listen to him. He acts intimidating against those of us who don't care about him. So what, does it mean we are gonna go out of our way to confro…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:47 AM
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"Cowboy or doggy style?"
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:42 AM
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Don't look for them. Live your life, if people around you matter, pick them. OTherwise, be yourself and have fun.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:30 AM
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Think about yourself, what you want, and go for it no matter what. Fuck comments, criticism, jokes, anything, do what you want and fuck the rules.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:27 AM
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Man, when you become someone you are proud of and start going around like the confident, irresistible guy you are, it won't matter what others think. Deep anger about what? Start getting laid, nothing else will matter.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:23 AM
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Man, she's yours. She'll probably see guys more attractive/with more game all the time, deal with it. It's how you carry yourself that matters, you will never be the absolute alpha male of the entire world.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:21 AM
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"Yeah, three others. Can't keep it up the way I do with you though"
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:18 AM
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You can try reaching for her intimate parts. If she keeps staring at her phone, then she's into you. If she looks at you and smiles, she's into you. If you find yourself looking at her phone from close range, she's not into you.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:16 AM
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Compliment her nipples. Works every time ;)
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:14 AM
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I'd like to point out that, from experience, taller guys tend to have a nice time mocking those shorter. But it's the way the shorter guy carries himself that matter. If someone calls you a midget, you can always call him something back. And if a taller guy is trying to AMOG you, you can always either AMOG back or deflect the same way you treat shit tests from women. I personally target taller men insecurities when they try to one up me by pointing out my height for no reason. For example, if I …
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:12 AM
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I honestly love taller women. It makes things harder for me but, when it works, their boobs are at the right height and it's all worth it!
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:04 AM
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Yeah, tall guys who mock me for my height are usually subjected to the same treatment the next moment on something they're bad or insecure about. Own who you are. Always. And have a blast.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:03 AM
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Atlas, it's not about confronting the person mocking you, it's about A&A, pressure flips, etc. Have fun, don't be butthurt. I'm like you, I realized that by being myself all the time, people tend to pick on me, and not as the new guy, but sometimes on a constant basis. I just learned to not care about it. If you like who you are, be it no matter what. People usually have fun at your expense to lighten the mood or because they don't like you, so if you are forced to hang out with them, do it whil…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:01 AM
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Yeah, or stop worrying about it. Who cares, it's just meals. Make them happy, it won't kill your body to enjoy food a little bit. Once you move out, it won't be an issue anymore.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:54 AM
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True. You may cum quickly, which is a problem if you leave her there and go play videogames. However, if you are really into her, you won't give a fuck about cumming fast, because you know that you'll treat her body like a treasure until she's exhausted and can't take it anymore...
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:53 AM
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Agreed. People will try to shit on you your entire life. It's college now, in a few years you'll start in a new job and sooner or later someone will start pissing on you because he or she doesn't like you... and what will you do then? Learn to swim social dynamics and remember that you are and should become the big deal, and you have to never, NEVER ask for people to recognize it. Instead of thinking you have a bad reputation, live your life and let the haters hate. And by the way, facebook is n…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:51 AM
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I think you are looking women in the wrong places. Just because you are swallowing the pill and realized AWALT, it doesn't mean you have to be like all the men that go after the usual types in the usual places... Focus on this from a different perspective. Go do stuff you enjoy, and try to meet women there. Of course, I don't mean approaching them no matter what at the worst possible moment, I mean build your talents by approaching the kind of woman you enjoy spending time with. For example, I l…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:47 AM
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As an outlier, I'd put the guy who acts like an orbiter to manipulate the situation at hand. This happens a lot in the work environment. If the guy is aware he can manipulate women by acting like an orbiter, he'll also know when to push the right buttons and when to pull away so that they can be used however he wants to. Another outlier, although fairly difficult to individuate for obvious reasons, is the woman who keep male orbiters while being gay. Have to admire them though, the balls on them…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:42 AM
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The point is, if you are the big deal she won't drop you. IF you are worried about her getting it on with another guy, she either isn't worth it or you aren't...
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:29 AM
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Addicts are addicts, they just need to focus their addiction. It's like being obsessive. Maybe, change computer addiction for, I dunno, sex addiction and problem solved!
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:22 AM
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Or playfully manipulate her. If you know what she wants to do, and you have something prepare, ask her anyway and surprise her somehow. Comedy works because it's unexpected, so the key is to push the right button, the one that keeps her interested and intrigued.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:16 AM
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don't fidget It depends. If you are fidgeting because you are nervous, then don't. If you are just entertained, who cares. when you drop the punch line, look away so it doesn't look like you're looking for a reaction (approval seeking) Again, it depends. If you are teasing her, eye contact and an emotional reaction on her part will go a long way. Though I agree, looking away also has it's positive impact on her. seem bored (don't overdo this) Ok, maybe what you meant was "don't seem overly excit…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:15 AM
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You wanna develop a sharper mind? then start using it. You already read a lot of stuff, don't believe that you'll become smarter by just reading. It's about your crave for knowledge, which means you need to push your mind to reason by itself, with or without books. For example, the 48 laws of power aren't the sacred truth of the universe, but you need to use your own mind to realize that before you jump from book to book. Acquire knowledge, but learn to think for yourself also...
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:10 AM
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I'd say, make sure you entered a LTR with someone your are really crazy about and who's really crazy about you. Why? Because no matter what, she'll come back for sex and it'll be like hitting "reset" in whatever it is you were arguing about... You may notice that a lot of women in an LTR may not be the happiest but there's something that keeps them hooked up, and that's sex. And a lot of men don't get this. A lot of men think that settling for the first girl that shows interest is enough and the…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:06 AM
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I'd like to add that, sometimes, it's your own brain causing this. For example, sometimes someone says something that, rationally, doesn't bother you. However, you may realize that you become red. And you may also realize that, while what someone said doesn't bother you, your brain automatically made an embarrassing connection between that comment and your image. Sometimes, people who are quick at connecting things are those who turn red the most because of their ability to place themselves, men…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:01 AM
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Make friends doing what you like, age has no bearing.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:57 AM
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It doesn't. Be in shape, of course, but don't try to be an athlete just to attract women. The key is confidence. Act like you are the big deal, and if you are not, become the big deal. The best at what you like. Unstoppable, passionate, unshakable confidence. Undisturbed by comments, the guy any alpha tries to bring down but fails miserably. Do that, and women will take their bras off and throw their boobs at your face in no time.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:56 AM
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Most of the times it's all about how you think others see you. When someone screams at you, it's one thing if it's done in private, it's something different if it's done in front of other people. Your own body reacts differently because, in the second case, your reputation and your future are in play. Biology sucks, unfortunately. That being said, mock his ass off. Feed his anger by being unphased. But try to make sure the guy is not trying to fight with you, in that case, either be ready or dro…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:53 AM
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Absolutely true. A person's role inside a conversation is usually determined by the amount of power hold by him or her, especially if the conversation is having place inside a group. A typical example is the guy who's trying to say something serious and another guy starts making comments that make people laugh. The guy who makes comments is confident in himself, the people laughing clearly recognize the other guy as more "powerful" in that context. The person talking then behaves according to hi…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:48 AM
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True. Different kind of intelligence appeal to different parts of a woman's subconscious. You can even have fun with this a little: it doesn't matter if you are one of the other, try to "act" smart on the other field in front of a guy who's better than you on that field, and you'll see his reaction immediately. Let's say you are usually book smart but embarrassed with women. Drop into a conversation where an "alpha" is doing his thing and act like you are the big deal, and you'll see mockery/com…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:44 AM
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Lol, you this guy wants casual sex and he can't have it because he's ugly... can I drop a tear for you man?
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:37 AM
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Betas cannot have it both ways either. You cannot expect to act like a pussy and then expect others to care for you. But the thing is, betas congregate together and use their mind games to defeat you. Really? You are antisocial and betas are out to get you? What mind games? you are the one being antisocial and the one who believes is intimidating because you are big. Guess what, we are not living in sparta, the persians aren't coming, your "intimidation" is probably just a joke to everyone else.…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:36 AM
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Hitting on women in church, on a sunday morning, wearing a burka and a beard!
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:24 AM
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She decided she wants your dick. don't be selfish, give it to her...
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:21 AM
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;)
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:10 AM
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You wanna be pretty and don't work on your confidence or yourself? Then go get a hooker, the world doesn't owe you pussy...
/r/askTRP08/05/16 07:59 AM
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You have to act differently than than a male model would, but you are far than fucked. Women are attracted to pretty faces, but are way more attracted to the way you can make her feel by pushing the right buttons and, let's say, rocking her world...
/r/askTRP08/05/16 07:24 AM
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It's not useless. The problem is, the kind of training you will likely get as a civilian is nothing compared to the military style regime the israeli special forces get. So, go train there or pick something else.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 10:17 PM
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Gun trining, if you dont get shot in the head ;)
/r/askTRP07/05/16 10:15 PM
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Also, consider that usually those who revert to old habits are basically acting out to avoid being nice. Basically, dont be a dick in order to magically solve your problems, value yourself and stop being nice for no reason.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 10:14 PM
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True. Unless you have some sort of deformity, unshakable confidence in himself will attract pussy like crazy. and it will piss off those who think that being pretty is enough to get laid.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:33 PM
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I'd say not to worry about it. First impressions matter only when you are meeting people for the first time and you may not see them again. So what, who cares. And be carefult about the whole "absense" and "insult" thing. I know guys who started shitting on a group of friends and isolating themselves to gain respect because they didnt like themselves and all they gained was me or other guys mocking them behind their backs for being insecure, manipulative dicks. You want get over first impression…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:29 PM
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You married the wrong person. True, sex may diminish in a marriage after a while but I was living at home until I was 26, with two brothers, and my parents were getting it on on a regular basis.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:23 PM
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When watching the end of star wars, episode 1...
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:22 PM
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You are what you are or what you make of yourself, not what "god" supposedely make for you. You want to be perceive as hot? Workout and be confident. Dont like it? Deal with it, I didnt make the rules...
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:17 PM
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It probably depends on the context. You habe to be very good at something that's not social related so that you can settle with someone and still be the alpha on that field. But you'd still lose some steam in the end. Sex is always the main drive factor in the world, both in competition with other guys and in stimulating your own development. Once you are settled, that drive diminishes and so will the force that made you the alpha in the first place.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:15 PM
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Best way to get her? Bang her sister and her mom, and tell her you are just friends ;)
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:11 PM
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"I dont know how I feel, all I know is I wouldnt trade those boobs for anything in this world".
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:08 PM
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We are all who we are until we make a choice. Some people grow confident and successful while some of us grow losers, bullied and isolated. The choice to stand up on your feet is yours though. Get up, own it, and rock your world.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:07 PM
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You dont get it. It's not about being perceived as "hot" by women from afar. Of course you will lose at first sight when compared to someone who's taller, prettier and stronger. The key is to own who you are and show them you are the shit, the big deal. The guy next to you is brad pit? Too bad he's not as smart, quick witted, confident or cocky as you are. Establish frame and dominance and that pussy will be yours.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:03 PM
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He has a point. Once tou start getting some for how good you are then you'll stop bothering with the ohters. Work on yourself.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 08:59 PM
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He's right. People who are short and confident dont give a fuck about their height. I'm shorter than you and I go around like I'm the tallest guy around. Women want men who are confident, strong, decisive, men who want to fuck them no matter how short they are...
/r/askTRP07/05/16 08:55 PM
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Danny de vito uses his image to make people laugh. He accepts being a clown and encourages it. He trades not being respected for success, which works in his line of work.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 08:47 PM
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CONFIDENCE. Become the big deal, the best at tour thing, the unstoppable, unshakable and unmatched force in whatever it is you like doing. And women will be all over you.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 08:37 PM
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People who act like that to get the crowd going can be stopped by doing the same to them. He picks on you, find a weakness and push that button. It doesnt matter if it's true or not, if what you found is PLAUSIBLE and embarrassing, use it against him. he'll either get the message and back off, get the message and escalate, or just lose it and attack you, losing frame. People who tease you under the cover of a group usually establish status my manipulating others and lowering yours at the same ti…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 08:36 PM
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Breakfast at Tiffany's
/r/askTRP07/05/16 08:30 PM
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Vic Mackey (The Shield), Gregory House (House MD).
/r/askTRP07/05/16 08:29 PM
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Mistaking the entry points
/r/askTRP07/05/16 08:27 PM
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Buddboy is right. Unshakable confidence in yourself, for example, will attract women like crazy. Pretty boy who's unsure where to put it? Not so much... Being blunt, you know when you are jerking off and you get that feeling that it doesnt matter who you fuck, pretty, ugly etc, you can finish in anything? Well, for women is the same. Once you tap into their subconscious craving for security, strength, assertiveness, you will get them like crazy.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 08:22 PM
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May be you are the jerk?
/r/askTRP08/03/16 08:17 PM
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One more thing, you seem like the kind of person who can talk back allright. For what I'm reading, he just got under your skin and it's giving you a sense of inferiority. That's bad because you basically freeze each time you see yourself under his heel... Learn to shrug his words off your shoulder, give them no emotional weight and the comebacks will come.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 09:13 PM
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I think you should do what Rocky Balboa suggests in these situations: it's not about how hard you can hit but about how hard you can get hit and keep going. He went against you one way and failed, he found another way and he's just getting to you. If this had been going on for a while it means you've shown it upsets you, you gave him a sense of entitlement and that gave him power. Turn it around. You can bite back, not angry or desperate but only once you've learned to shrug this stuff off your …
/r/askTRP03/01/16 09:00 PM
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Yeah, life can be hard... grow up...
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I don't get it. Why should she do what he asks? Even if she agrees, that would paint him as extremely insecure (which he is, by the way...) and will only repeat itself in the future with another orbiter.
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Let me explain to you how the world works: you or your family don't decide who your daughter should get married to. If you do, you are weak piece of shit. Deal with it. Culture is irrelevant here.
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Game is rigged in favor of men Really? With women given off to the men like nothing? You must be a genius...
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In theory, I agree, but has this ever happened in practice?
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This is why the military leaders are now the government's "yes men". They are hypocrites that are afraid of military cuts so they follow which ever administration has more influence in congress and back up presidential decisions that end up affecting all of the military branches morale. I don't get it. Since when can the military leaders do whatever they want independently of the current administration?
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Yeah, applying red pill tactics to dominate men can easily backfire if you don't have the balls. Look, it's one thing to apply these concepts to improve yourself and have to deal with males antagonizing you, it's something different to try to manipulate them to have power over them. As he said, men will feel it and react one way or another. And you may uncover the wrong rock...
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