A week ago I hooked up with this girl who was into the rough stuff. She asked me to pin her down and at one point during sex placed my hands on her throat. Being that this was most likely a one night stand (we are still texting but I'm trying not to get too invested with what started off casually) I wanted to try and guard myself in the event of any hamstering on her part and wasn't down with choking her during initial sex. We met up the next evening and chilled for a bit then had sex before I went to work in the morning without much rough stuff. My question is what your Standard Operating Procedure is on getting rough with a woman you don't know that well?