I haven't been following this community for quite a while. In fact, I deleted my account. I believe that, as with any good thing, less is more. Because of this break I am now able to see some things more clearly, from the outside. Some people on this sub confuse true manliness and strength of character with the ability to fuck women, which is not always equal. For example, In a recent post about the British reality TV star which killed himself(RIP), the author calls him an Alpha and somehow believes that having lots of women and questionable fame automatically makes you manly. It does not. And here is why. True Manliness is tied to dignity, dignity is earned through inner work, through realization that one has willpower and strength of character, which in turn requires some inborn qualities and deficiencies. I'd love to think that the majority on this sub understand that women, money, and fame will not and can not bring these things. A fictional famous, rich, and good looking guy that has a lot of sexual partners doesn't have the same frame and isn't more alpha than a fictional Michael Corleone who slept with only two women(it doesn't mean he can't). By pedestalizing the former, you automatically pedestalize women. You think it's an achievement to sleep with an HB9. It is. For lesser men.

I also see questions about social media game and it being an "alpha clout". Have we become so feminine that we have to resort to being dancing monkeys and posing idiots. Don't you feel foolish when you try to attract some dimwits through a screen. " Oh, look at me, I am alpha, I play volleyball on the beach without my shirt on". In my opinion it isn't alpha, and it isn't beta, it's straight out gay. The fact that people try so hard means that they are not enough. It means that they are not strong enough just yet. They need to cultivate their willpower. Instead of focusing on attracting some green flies into their webs, they need to focus on gathering honey.

A man which is dependent on external validation and pussy is not a man. He is a woman with a penis. And even some women are stronger than him. Be a man.