the other day I shared this video on TRP on attractive eye contact to women - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K-3nRZA7_xU

The video says to always look at someone while you are speaking, and look away occasionally when listening to the other person.

I received this comment:

That video is awesome, finally more useful stuff for me to practice. But how about the effects of eddies tips used in conversations with men? Wouldn’t it be aggressive or insulting in some situations or is it more likely to deescalate and helps maintaining frame?

What do you people think about this ?